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Tactically smart right here. Great comment. Getting as hot as you can makes this all the more easy. Whatever you can do to get fitter, dress and carry yourself better, makes this cake. It helps strengthen the idea that they're being given your time, not that it can be taken for granted. DocBrown suggested cooking. Hell yeah, do it if you can pull that off. What I also did was say that I had to follow a rigid diet for my fitness regiment. This justifies a shit ton of you dictating where you two c…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/24 06:41 PM
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The bullets we dodge sometimes make me feel even worse for our brothers who got hit. Sucks, but that's just life.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/24 08:41 PM
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You are stuck in a hole. The biggest part of that hole is in your own head. You've legit had some shitty things happen. Welcome to a sub full of dudes who had shitty things happen to them. I've lost loved ones to cancer and seen others survive. My parents were dead to each other. My mom is disbled af and I look after her. This sub has countless people who've gone through each thing you've gone through. Your mentality is not helping you out, at all. People have overcome all sorts of things, and y…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/24 04:53 PM
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Perfectly put. I'm not equating you with what I've experienced, but I've had women many times adamant they made something clear to me, when what they did was talk in generics not pertaining to the two of us... very briefly and very vaguely... in incomplete sentences... in ways that could contradict other things they'd said... but refusing to explain... and then moving on very quickly. So take a dedicated, clear moment to tell him your needs, with a demeanor that communicates he is fully capable …
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 01:37 AM
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Yes! At least in my experience it has been. San Diego, I mean. I moved down there for like 6 months in 2011 and I got matches all day long on OKC. Girls just as cute as LA girls, and on average in better shape. Agreed on Florida. I have family over in Pembroke Pines and Naples. Haha. Yeah, the whole entertainment industry Hollywood mindset in LA is some real shit. People here really can live in a mental LaLa Land. I work in events - concerts, festivals, conventions, art exhibits, etc - and peopl…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/23 12:27 AM
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Born, raised and still living in LA. I travel for work a fair amount, often working in the desert east of Palm Springs. Girls I meet from those parts (and more inland) are a breath of fresh air compared to LA girls. Their minds just have less fuss and unnecessary complication, while smart as hell and emotionally stronger. A great number of my friends who have moved away said the same shit. Many married in other parts of the world, western, eastern and otherwise. But we all learned this in our 30…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/23 06:14 PM
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Seconded. "Alpha", "beta", etc are all labels referring to behavior. Watch behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 06:00 PM
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Y'all aren't wrong... but I've plated 4 exes. There was no controllable methodology to it. The only commonalities were that we had really intense sexual chemistry and I was the one who left them. I left with no intention nor any designs of making them a plate. Nonetheless, they came back around on different timelines and in different ways. Other times, when I wanted to convert a gf into a plate? Didn't happen. The only real advice I can give you is don't wait around hoping to change anything, as…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/23 06:37 PM
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WOMEN CAN'T STAND YOU BEING AROUND OTHER WOMEN MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN HER. USE TO YOUR ADVANTAGE Bro, this is so hardwired, it's ridiculous. My family is full of very pretty women on both sides (which coincidentally taught me A LOT for the future). But women I've dated have been jolted into jealousy and insecurity just being around them, whether it's my parents generation, my generation or the next one. It's like their programming short-circuits and they see red and die inside a little, sometimes …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 07:28 PM
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There is NOTHING wrong with you. You've been focused on the journey, and along the way you've hit a milestone/destination. No one has it all figured out, esp not at 22. Keep going, more good things are coming. Good on you for doing what most people don't - which is showing up, doing the work and getting results. Keep it up. Seriously, keep it up. Sounds like you're doing a lot of shit you like, but also you're unsure how you ought to feel in this situation, with the newfound attention and such. …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/23 05:06 PM
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Holy shit I knew it. Any links you have where I can read more would be appreciated, particularly it's integration over time. To keep it short, I've used online dating and apps since the mid 2000's. Moved around a lot, was a great way to soften the landing before getting to town. With each iteration of the apps, and particularly the latest ones, I could feel a sense of things being more controlled and determined by the designers. In my line of work, I've sat in on a fair number of app design meet…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/23 03:48 PM
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I work as a consultant and my job is to advise when soemthing is a bad idea and soemthing is not. I do not do these things out of spite to her person, but out of critical thinking and thorough analysis. My life got a lot easier when I accepted that exceedingly few people can think this way, and even fewer can understand it when it's directed at them.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 09:00 PM
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I clicked upvote and it went to 69. So at least I got that going for me. Which is nice. Jokes aside, good content OP.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 06:26 PM
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To add to this: It saves you so much goddamn time. There are tons of other benefits. But the time saving - which is your most valuble resource - alone is worth it. Like you said, tact and discretion are key. Read the situation, of course. But get after it. Knowing early is virtually always better than knowing late.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/23 08:06 PM
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Oh yeah, esp metropolitan society. I'm from LA, born into a family of lawyers, philosophy nerds, buddhists, etc. Can't help but be analytical and detail oriented, but self-aware enough to know how to stfu. It's like clockwork, whether casually involved or serious LTR, they'll try to pick at/point out/criticize somehting - doesn't matter what - on me that they do themselves, easily 3x worse. But point out their hypocrisy? Sacrilege! It's all skewed that way. There's a bias that's wrong to questio…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 08:10 PM
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Best part of that title? That you didn't ask her to marry you.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 05:36 PM
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Thanks. It's a universal thing, I think. Terribly easy to spot.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 11:48 PM
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Goddamn. That's rough. Glad it's past tense.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 11:47 PM
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I made that mistake before. "No YoU GuYz DoNt GeT IT!!!" I thought my situation was somehow exempt, like sure, there are some similarities. But essentially it's not the same. If only you rp folks would just hear me out you'd get it. Yeah no. I was just kidding myself. It's an easy thing to mistake when it happens to you.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:46 PM
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We're hated because we're held responsible. For everything. Right down to the way they feel.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 04:50 PM
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That's gonna be a no for me, dawg. I've felt the same way about strippers too. Sure, it's live and in the flesh, which is a huge leap above Onlyfan and cam shit. But knowing the girl is flirting for money is dull for me. I get people like it, but it doesn't tickle my fancy. I enjoy the thrill of being desired. There's nothing like it.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 08:20 PM
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It sucks that society is that way. He lost his rep. People know the truth about Amber, but somehow he can't regain what he lost. Sucks how it works that way.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 11:40 PM
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It is sad af. If you have the capacity to give a shit about people, you'll eventually feel sad for them. I live in Los Angeles, where the city lights and Hollywood vibes take it to ridiculous levels. I was crushing on this girl - israeli beauty, ass like wow, perky tits, double majored in psych and neurobiology at UC Berkeley. Could do anything she wanted. Decided she wanted to be a DJ here in LA. Within 18 months her face is unrecognizable from all the procedures she's had done, and her body th…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:42 PM
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Last girl I was serious with loved the way I smelled. I mean my literal scent, which you're getting at. Like, she would sniff my head. No one before or since her ever said anything about my smell. People have liked my cologne, complimented my hygiene. But this was something else. So I guess you could say I kind of understand. It's a thing.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:08 AM
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"Object constancy is the ability to maintain your positive feelings for someone while you are feeling hurt, angry, frustrated, or disappointed with their behavior." Thanks for that one, a really concise way of summarizing that fine line.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:58 PM
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I think it's a matter of choosing the right friends, more than anything else.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/20 05:53 PM
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We need more info here. Ages, length of LTR, does she know your preferences. I assume she hasn't dyed her hair in the time that you've known her?
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:32 PM
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Wind blew the wrong way. That's a good way to put it. I've come to find out I approached a girl after she found out she was being cheated on, had a crazy heavy period with endometriosis, just left a funeral, etc. I'd consider these a little more legitimate as to why I didn't have success upfront. But, for all the times I had a follow up chance, it helps to inform me of this: The reason women reject you could be for any number of reasons, and it doesn't fucking matter. Go out and get rejected.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 02:19 AM
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Your guess is as good as mine. All the reasons and excuses I've seen trigger women, this I just don't get surprised anymore.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 01:01 PM
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Women are weird creatures. I literally had a woman get weirded out because I correctly guessed which airline she worked for. Australian girl in LA, thick ass accent. Said she was a flight attendant. So I asked, "Oh, Quantas?" She stopped dead in her tracks and said, "Wait, how do you know that?" This is after she brought me a couple drinks and sat in my lap. Got her homegirl and walked right the fuck out of the bar.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 02:27 AM
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Doing lots of things that require discipline and delayed gratification can help. It's not everything, but it def makes a difference.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 07:10 AM
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I stay away from women I work with. Too risky, especially in my line of work, where people are hooking up left and right. Once they start asking if I'm gay, I know I've done my job. Would rather let them think that than me get ensnared in some bullshit.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 04:35 PM
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Leaving is one of the most powerful moves you can make. Off the top of my head I can think of 7 exes who I fucked more after I left than when I was committed. The social consequence is a blessing. It'll help you suss out the friends from the quasi-friends. Take none of it personally. Appreciate any of the friends who show you loyalty. Appreciate knowing that others weren't. Go lift, but lift well. All the info you need to get better physically, lift properly and have the right diet to support it…
/r/askTRP07/05/19 05:44 PM
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OP, I'm 35. Yes. Random, forgettable girls whose faces you can't remember over time def can get old. But so did my relationships. What I have right now is 4 girls I regularly fuck. Each I guess you could call a plate with whom I share diff types of interaction, depending on the vibe between us. Some I cook with, some I go out with, some I watch movies with, some I get massages from and share pillow talk, some sleep over, you get the idea. Will I keep them all? No. Will I miss them? Sure. But I s…
/r/askTRP01/01/19 07:52 PM
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BECAUSE THEY STILL DON'T GET IT.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 08:43 PM
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I resent the idea that being liberal automatically aligns you with feminism or sjw's. I'm a liberal who thinks there are 2 genders, new-wave feminism is toxic and thinks capitalism done right is a good thing. But being raised a Buddhist in America always gave me a different paradigm to begin with, so I'm used to being heckled.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 03:02 PM
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u/CainPrice had some solid knowledge there, so shout out to him. I will add that things like anxiety or other emotional issues can lead to this as well. It's becoming more and more common. I had an ex who had Oppositional Defiance Disorder. She had this obsession with being "in charge" or haranguing whomever she thought was trying to be. As they say, "the juice wasn't worth the squeeze". Just lost interest in her. I could keep 'passing' these 'tests', or just realize she was a naggy bitch and pe…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:44 AM
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How do I deal with this? You don't. Fuck what they think.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 04:43 PM
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Ok, at the very least be grateful you're no longer attracted to her and not out here begging. Also the fact that you're not married to her, that's a blessing. You're at least waking up. Besides that, everyone else is right.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 11:30 PM
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This shit is like chess with several dozen pieces. This one particular girl and that one particular preference are secondary in the long run. Making a thing out of it puts a spot light on it. Don't bother. The top tactic with plates is to not give them OR THE ISSUES YOU HAVE WITH THEM too much attention. 2 plates I have at the moment wouldn't take it in the ass or take cum on the face for quite some time. I pushed a little, they didn't give, so I kept enjoying things for a bit and drifted on for…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:33 PM
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I agree with you. The only exception I've seen where women realize their errors is when you leave them. Of course, they have to have bought in. Sure, anyone can be coy to try to get you back in the short term, but sometimes you see the shift in the long term. Outside of that, women will firmly hold to the idea that men are defective and the fault can't possibly be between their ears.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 06:23 PM
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I feel you. I have the same issue. Conversing with women is something I have less and less patience for. Maybe cus I'm always on the go and on my grind, so I see my time as a limited asset. The answer is, idk nigga.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 07:15 AM
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Yeah. To add to that, only hang with them when you're in the right mood. When I'm in a mood to be mentally stimulated, I don't hang with the hotties. I have two plates that are 7's or so, and they're my main ones. I actually like their company, sex is also intense. That's where I go when I want to unwind from the rigors of my daily life. I make time for the annoying ones when I want ravage a hot chick.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:53 PM
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I can't disagree. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 09:27 PM
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Something that gets totally overlooked but I think helps swallow the pill: Have you ever looked at a marriage license? You know what word NEVER shows up on one? LOVE. Not even once. A legal marriage is a contract under the supervision of the state. It has nothing to do with your emotions. Those are entirely immaterial to the state. The instant you sign that, what you've effectively done is reported to the state that you are responsible for this other person. Does the state ask if you love them? …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 01:35 AM
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"Frame" which translates largely into "being in your own zone". My buddy is a natural. He's not handsome, husky, funky teeth, not the best breath. Hardcore stutter, seriously. Doesn't dress well. Shorter than average. Rambles quite a bit. Yet he's gregarious, relatively funny and good company. He fails a good deal, but he's always trying, always on. And as such, he knows women everywhere. Good deal of success. How? He shows zero indication of being intimidated or phased by women at all. He's wil…
/r/seduction25/12/17 11:47 PM
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Congratulations, she played herself. That is likely the most appropriate use of that quote ever.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 11:02 PM
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You've got a point there. It's not really a problem for me. At least not atm.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 11:04 PM
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Ok, so I could use some help. I'm at the point where small talk bores the everloving shit out of me, and virtually all group chats I'm around are dictated by small talk. I've always been naturally more skilled at 1 on 1 conversations, and have a knack for making others feel like they can open up in private. I have very strong friendships. I've been able to do well in groups when I was younger, but now I just zone out. I don't find myself thinking it's worth the effort, unless it's work related. …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 04:49 PM
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Upvote for sacking up and admitting you didn't succeed. Not easy to come here and put your shortcoming out there.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 01:39 AM
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EXACTLY. If they feel that you ended it, they'll need to get even in some way. When I'm done, I find some way to let things dwindle, then reach out seeming kind of interested. Keep up this pattern until she cuts me off.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 12:55 AM
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Because you're a sexist fucking pig. That's why!
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 04:08 PM
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Upvoted for putting that period before the hashtag.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 12:16 AM
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Exactly. We put ourselves into a position of massive vulnerability without much reliable benefit to us. KT Tatara phrases it perfectly - cue up to ~0:55
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:13 PM
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Same here. That's the part of the red pill that's been the most frustrating for me. All the other parts of the pill have gone down either more smoothly or more quickly. But that knowledge in the back of my mind, knowing that this person is essentially handicapped, sometimes frustrates me. The worst is lately I've been involved with a few girls, highly educated and rational. Two are actually in some kind of advocacy - one a social worker, the other a lawyer. Both are able to use their full minds …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:03 PM
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It's awesome that you've shown discipline and achieved a goal that's helped you progress. This is what we're all about. At the same time, I watch and masturbate to porn and my sex life is amazing. I have two plates whom I'm very attracted to and fucking like animals, and am moving in on a couple more. An old ex is also trying to get together to catch up. I watch porn with girls and share it with them as well. I'm not saying any of this to discredit your progress. I guess you could say that drink…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 01:51 AM
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This deserves more upvotes. We all learn at some point this is true, but the reasons why can be useful. People knew for the longest time that wood was flammable, but it took understanding combustion that not only explained the process, but also gave insight into much more.
/r/seduction29/12/16 03:31 AM
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being in tune with the girl That's it right there. If you're able to get out of your own head and get a sense of where she's at, you'll see the subcommunication. Added bonus: by being out of your own head, you give a relaxed, confident vibe that usually works in your favor.
/r/seduction02/12/16 08:04 PM
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I'd say "your lifestyle is incompatible with my needs. I'd be happy with the concessions you're making if I felt I wasn't asking for things you strongly want to keep." Given the recent change in your status, maybe give things a little time to adjust, but don't back off your standards. As in, give her time to put aside a few moments to make those kinds of calls. Gauge how reluctant she is to do this. I've had a girl who decided what she wanted with me was far more important than keeping 'randos' …
/r/askTRP30/11/16 03:47 PM
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So where should I go right now to get these good young women you're talking about?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 10:09 AM
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When someone drops "floppy pancake titties," you should be allowed to give as many upvotes as you want.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 10:06 AM
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I think we can fairly say that's what he portrayed. Behind closed doors, he could easily be a con man, a cult leader, or a true alpha, We can't know that from here. Nor am I saying Trump is someone to clone. I'm saying Trump portrayed strong frame and strength. He embodied a lot of things publicly that we discuss, and look at the outcome.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 02:53 AM
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Got this from a counselor I used to work with, his view of what happens to your mind when you're in/coming out of an abusive relationship: Reality is a relative thing, largely subjective. The mind is trying to make sense of the world in a way where you can function and survive each day, regardless of what you're going through. It has the power to accept irrational and bad things and just accept them subconsciously, which we call 'normalizing'. Because you wanted this girl, your brain adjusted an…
/r/askTRP10/11/16 04:09 AM
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Exactly. He gave almost no specifics. He just says things will be great, huge, amazing. He's one hell of a salesman. My big thing about these laws is that we seldom discuss when and how there are exceptions. And then we have morons running around making us look bad because they misunderstand what we're talking about.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 01:05 AM
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No, I'm not kidding. If it were that easy to just show up and speak what the people want, third party candidates and a main party "outsider" would've worked before. Many have tried. Remember Ron Paul? So many of the average persons concerns, he was championing. But nobody took him the least bit seriously because he couldn't get the support of the RNC. Politics is a big time insider game. People have wanted to run the empathic campaign you're talking about before, but wouldn't be able to get on t…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 10:48 PM
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So, what you're supposing is that the 38th law applies as long as you have little power? Once you have enough of it, you can start to act otherwise?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 10:41 PM
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Ok, so how did Trump win, OP? If you apply this rule, how could someone walk into an election and behave unlike everyone else and win? What I'm trying to get at is: there are times to buck this trend. It's easy to argue how he won, but if this rule was so powerful, then he shouldn't have won. We all know there are times to break with the current and do otherwise. Are there any laws of power that discuss that? Cus it looks like Trump, by breaking a law of power, is about to come up on a whole lot…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 08:32 PM
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That shit crack, cuh. Flex on them niggas, b.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 05:46 PM
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Good observation.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 06:05 PM
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Yeah, remember it's all transactional. Each side invests something for the reward they get.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 05:30 PM
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All in all, it's just another brick in the wall. Another example of AWALT - myopic, solipsistic beings who can't see beyond their own purview. Rational thought is worthless in their realm.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 05:43 PM
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Thanks for speaking up. When someone has done right by you, return the favor. Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 05:36 PM
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Well, at least you're facing your anger.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 04:29 PM
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I feel in many ways similar towards my dad. But I never told him because I didn't think he could handle hearing it, and I didn't need to get it off my chest. At the same time, I feel there are instances where it needs to be said. Perhaps you are in that situation. If your intention was to merely put him down, then I think that's wrong. If your intention was to make clear to him what you feel he needs to hear, then I feel it's acceptable.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 10:18 AM
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Thanks for that. Yeah, the writer knows damn well what the social values are, and knows that, when it's boys, you have to spell out to people that there is something wrong afoot. On the other hand, if it were girls, there would be no need to do that.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:50 PM
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Maybe the translation isn't expressing the tone of the author. If there's anyone who can read the original - is the article sympathetic to the boys or no?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 10:43 PM
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Good on you for catching yourself earlier than before.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 10:36 PM
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He's an Alpha in his own universe, but not in ours. He can conquer the edentulous, possession-less strata that many of us would see as worthless. He has basically nothing to lose, as compared to us desktop jockeys, and his brashness communicates status to women who are drawn to that universe. Like Manson talks about in "Models", he's high status in that demographic. He gives her tingles with his boldness, which is enough for her. There are plenty of chicks in this world who would not get the tin…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 10:08 PM
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I think I'm with you. Hit me with why the semantics are necessary.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 09:26 PM
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I appreciate your honesty. Do you think that is of consequence, as in, if she were a different rating, this could affect your sex life/relationship? Super happy for you, btw. I sure as shit hope that if I get married I continue to have a fire sex life all the way through, as well as have a super committed woman. You, my friend, are in a minority.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 07:42 PM
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Honest question: what's your wife's level of attractiveness?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 06:35 PM
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I'm a born buddhist. I'm into equality, social and otherwise. I'm multiethnic and egalitarian. Stereotypes are useful as fuck. Never ignore them. Let people prove otherwise, but the way they come off and present themselves are the byproduct of decisions, conscious and subconscious. If you can read them, use 'em.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 06:16 PM
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First things first, you said that you got physically abusive. I'm not into white-knighting, but in this world, that's a massive NOPE. You could be completely screwed for that. Secondarily, that should never happen in an LTR or in any situation with a woman, giving or receiving. But most importantly, and I'm not an licensed expert, but in all the situations I've dealt with a man getting physical with a woman (professional and personal), it's usually been a sign of uncontrolled anger, or an anger …
/r/askTRP26/05/16 06:03 PM
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Her friend's behavior and your GFs response are basically another shit test. I've been in several situations where this has happened. Whether it be racial/religious prejudice, the fact that I don't pamper women or just plain that they didn't want me taking away their friend, I've dealt with several versions of baseless hate. After learning the hard way, I found that being bold, direct and intolerant was the way to go - just like if she was acting that way towards you herself. At the same time, I…
/r/askTRP24/05/16 11:09 PM
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Life atm is proof positive of this. It never turned bad, luckily enough, but it got stale and lost it's luster. I tried to work at it with her. Had enough of her shit, withdrew, went monk and moved out. Went from dead bedroom to drained balls.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 05:17 PM
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This is actually a great post. Especially the advice about kissing. You phrased that incredibly well. The context of a date implies sexual undertones already, and then we contort that little dance in our minds of how it should be pursued, and how it will be interpreted, etc, etc, etc. The best way to approach it is to take all the neuroses out of it. It should arise naturally. By removing the wonder in your own mind, you actually allow yourself to handle the date better. The best 'kisses-on-a-fi…
/r/seduction19/05/16 08:55 PM
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Recognizing a lack of reciprocity isn't automatically the equivalent of having a covert contract. Mimicry, reciprocity - these are exceedingly fundamental behaviors in most contexts. Like, if you greet someone and they decline to acknowledge you or respond, you notice it. It may rightly irk you with there being a 'covert contract' quality to it. Furthermore, I think OP's expectation of some reciprocity from his sister might fall into a more "overt" state than other circumstances, given that it's…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 06:03 PM
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I'm almost going through stages of anger just reading this, both with what you went through and how you were censored. I haven't been this angry in a while. As we swallow the pill, we learn that the game is stacked against us and that we should always know better, do better. But what happened to you, what she did to you, was flat out fucking wrong and unjust. But so it goes. I'm glad you're still standing and thriving. And I'm grateful you shared your story.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:30 PM
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Super true. The neighborhood I lived in was strictly black and hispanic at the time. My dad was the sole white person in the neighborhood. Now it's invariably Korean. Crenshaw and Olympic is the technical boundary of Koreatown, and when I was growing up, it wasn't very safe for the residents to move beyond there. At the time, things were not very tolerant. Several neighborhoods in LA are monoethnic, even now. It's changing quite a bit, but LA is so massive there are plenty of places where the ch…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 09:42 PM
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Mid-City, basically. Lucerne Blvd, near Crenshaw and Olympic. If you know where L.A. High is, down the block.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 10:29 PM
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Groups of women talk at each other a whole lot. Everyone is using words, but there is very little listening going on. They're just vomiting out thoughts that go through their heads, emptying feelings onto each other. They respond to things they identify with. As you said, OP, they affirm. I'm an idiot. I have known this for some time, but keep forgetting it when dealing one-on-one with women.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 08:04 PM
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It's crazy to think that a guy with no real policy of any kind can do this... until you realize that people rally around him because of how fucking angry they are. Truth is they have good reason to be.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 07:59 PM
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Fuck, I'm in LA. I feel the squeeze too. House I grew up in, my dad bought in 1988 for $105k, and he was making maybe $1,600 a month. Was supporting a wife and two kids on that at the time. Same house today? $712k, according to zillow.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 07:54 PM
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Oh, fuck yeah they would, when free money is on the table. I'm sending this to a buddy asap. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 07:51 PM
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For some people, it's a trial to see what marrying them would be like. Also, in some areas, rent blows up fast as fuck. I'm talking increases of 30-40% in just a few years.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 07:44 PM
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Damn. Does anything change if they become a citizen?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 07:44 PM
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If you stay the fuck out of Hollywood, L.A. is pretty ripe. It's a massive metropolitan area with tons of communities and suburbs. Source: an unfamous, non-rich male who's slayed enough different shades of pussy to verify this.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 06:01 PM
1

Perhaps more to the point, maybe it's instinctively ingrained in women to scrutinize things they have a problem with rather than learning about them.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 05:01 PM
1

Thx for the info, mate.
/r/seduction12/04/16 06:48 PM
1

What are the other body language books you like, the three dating books?
/r/seduction11/04/16 08:33 PM
1

Because feelz. TRP is full of shit. The kind you lay on the ground to nurture your crops and foster growth.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 08:06 PM
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Ok, let me ask: How does she substantiate her claims? What proof does she provide? Her WORD???
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:31 AM
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The judge had particularly harsh words for the “unreasonable behaviour” of the mother, who balked at many settlement offers and ended up getting a deal far worse than those she rejected. He accused her of “poisoning” the child against her father, “manipulating and falsifying evidence” and engaging in “provocative and dangerous behaviour,” such as stalking and driving behind his car after he picked up their daughter. The judge kept it real. Good shit.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 11:08 PM
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That's what I was thinking. I read the book, but was there anything about when a circumstance has multiple qualities and perhaps following one rule would violate another? In the text, that is.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:04 PM
3

Hey OP, the first law that comes to mind is #38 "Think as you like, but behave like others." I think he's cunning and much more calculated than he seems to people, but I'm wondering if you think he's fulfilling law 38?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 10:32 PM
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Good FR. Kudos to anyone who can take what we discuss, apply and explain in an easy-to-read manner.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 10:26 PM
3

Context matters. Given that she's your wife and the other comments you've made, my guess is that Archwinger is right. Respond in a small way. If it's important enough, she will pursue the discussion. Nothing particularly important is forgotten. If she doesn't bring it up, then there was never any real importance.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 08:34 PM
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I'd go with this. It should not be ignored. If that's the only concerning statement in an otherwise good situation, I wouldn't worry. I always cringe when I see it, but once in a while, a woman will say that and it's actually accurate. But, only once in a while.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 05:20 PM
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Good buddy of mine lived in London for a while. He moved there to actually get away from his overbearing jewish mother. His dad is a brit, so he was able to get citizenship. Anyways, he got some work as a bartender for a while, and working with him was this guy from Mexico who had major success with the ladies at the bar. Mind you, there were a lot of international guys working theer, many of who played sports, but this guy, not even all that fit or good looking, was killing it with the females.…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 09:23 PM
1

Welcome to Intermediate Level Plate Spinning, followed by Frame Maintenance 200. This is all as ok as you think it is. This run in might be a problem, inconvenient or nothing at all. What it is really is up to you. (Hint: if you want to have real success spinning plates, the answer is clearly nothing).
/r/askTRP29/01/16 11:40 PM
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Op, listen to everyone here. I can relate to a small extent. Although I never faced physical violence or injury, I did have a sister who had a similar temper and demeanor. My parents justified it, rationalized it, defended it. And they blamed me when I stood up to it. As if it was everyone's job to just accept it, and a male having a problem with it was like allowing the worst form of misogyny to exist in their household. It took a lot of things TRP talks about to diffuse it and finally get ever…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 08:06 PM
1

Mad world, I tell you. Mad. For the first time in my life, I find myself saying "I can't..." I simply can't comprehend what the fuck is going on and how in the hell no one said "Hold on there, bud."
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 08:48 PM
2

Bingo, Bango, Bongo. This is hitting just about every cliche I've seen like Big Papi hits high fastballs. Great Post.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 06:59 PM
1

and have to be manipulated. That's the part that stung me the most. When I realized that directly stating and requesting what I wanted wasn't going to get it. Instead, I had to manipulate and stoke emotions.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:24 PM
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Y'all are not alone. Had the exact same thoughts watching it a few months back. Good movie too.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 10:15 PM
1

It's important to know the difference between ultimatums and boundaries. Never let a woman distort your boundaries as ultimatums. Once she's done this, she's held frame and shifted the meaning of your actions, and you've allowed this. The context and intent is what makes the difference. Ground rules that you held before you met her and will maintain after her? Boundaries. Binary choices you blurt out in the middle of a fight because you want to control her actions? Ultimatums. Always have the fo…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 10:13 PM
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Liberalism isn't cowardice. Cowardice is cowardice. There are conservative cowards too, people trolling for war but not willing to ante up and volunteer for service themselves. But not much thought should be expected in today's world. It's all extremes now. You're either Chuck Norris or RuPaul. Nothing in between. I agree that we can't tolerate senseless violence. I agree that the western world should vet the people they allow in, and boot anyone who doesn't respect the rule of law. But I also d…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 09:18 PM
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Fuck if I know. Feelz over realz I guess?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 02:47 AM
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I was her Chad that night, so it was me. This guy gets it. She's not yours, it's just your turn...
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 10:43 PM
2

This seriously works. I worked as a bartender and used this all the time.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 08:16 PM
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Clown? Apparently you haven't been paying attention to how rigged the game is over here.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 08:14 PM
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All this advice looks solid. 'Keep frame' can sound so nonspecific sometimes. What you're doing is ok. Don't try to make it anything at all. Do whatever is comfortable for you. And don't let either of them goad you into reacting or doing something to respond to their feelings. Many guys I've known have tried to play up the whole situation or try to make it tense. Almost always backfires. The one guy who handled it beautifully acted like the whole situation was nothing to him. As if he'd have act…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 07:34 PM
1

Praying for your bil. Hope he survives.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 06:49 PM
1

This. Simply being a woman is not crazy. Irrational, emotional, solipsistic, sure. Some more than others. There are plenty that are crazy, don't get me wrong. I guess some people see irrationality as crazy. Or that they've only been able to bed the crazy ones. I've had very good success reading what I'm getting into. The times I stuck my dick in a girl I was unsure about have usually been me ignoring warning signs. I saw them, but I downplayed them for some pussy. And that was me fucking up. A g…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 06:42 PM
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My ex wanted to major in Geology. It kind of came out of nowhere. She kinda liked gemstones and shit cus they were pretty and gave her feelz. Regardless, a semester in she changed course cus she despised all the math it took. For her spending more than an hour a day on homework was cramping her style. She had a hard time fitting it into her busy schedule of social media and binge watching TV shows. She was getting through whole seasons in a week, even during finals. And this bitch couldn't under…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 05:21 PM
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What you lack is self control, my man. It's hard, cus the rush of getting a new match is hard to replicate and then matches fall off or flake.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 10:47 PM
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There is no moderation in our politics anymore. There are no parties or candidates on TV that represent anything I give a shit about. I lean liberal as well, but agreed, this isn't the place for this.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 07:32 PM
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As you can see, Alpha/Beta/Etc are not permanent states. After a brutal breakup when I was 24, I was crushed for 8 months. We had shared a place, although she moved out when we broke up, so I was in the place that reminded me of her, alone, for those 8 months. The thing that cures oneitis is a change in belief, from the belief that she's 'the one' to the belief that you don't need her. These beliefs are NOT rational, so sadly, rational thinking frequently is worthless against it. I slept with a …
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:38 PM
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With all the details you've laid out, this may be on par with the biggest red flag I've ever seen. She's an attorney. I'm in law school, so although I'm not on her level, I know with certainty that she is fully aware of what she can do to you legally. You should thank your lucky stars this happened NOW. If you don't leave and things turn out badly, don't say we didn't warn you.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 06:09 PM
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Upvote for an awesome username. Please report to Major Major Major Major.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 08:31 PM
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Upvote for a rational post with respect to historical context. Correct. Western countries have accepted immigrants for a long time. These have almost all been highly educated people. Some call this a 'brain drain'. What's left behind concentrates and multiplies. What we're seeing is when the 'lowest common denominator' goes elsewhere. The mindset that life engenders doesn't automatically change when they leave the house they had.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 06:43 PM
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Yeah. You certainly sound like you've got some serious oneitis. Just to put you at ease: it happens, it's normal, doesn't sound like there's something out of the ordinary going on here. You're young, you're military. You've had a largely structured life for 5 years. Now is time to start building a whole life for yourself from scratch. You're fit and young. You're ahead of a lot of people. But oneitits is a bitch. I've been there. Like, shamefully so. The way to beat it is by expanding your world…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 10:21 PM
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I'd bet my bottom dollar that what you said will happen. But I hope this kid grows up and deals with all the shit that we know he will. I hope this kid gets angry. Really fucking angry. And when he starts trying to figure out what he's doing wrong, he finds us. And then I hope we fucking help this kid.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 08:40 PM
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Nice catch. As if she still has some claim to him. No doubt her cat clan had a field day with this.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 07:58 PM
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Can this be an example of an Alpha Widow? Perhaps a delayed one? Or is the idea predicated on her being dropped by an Alpha while he holds that status?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 05:54 PM
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Welcome to the wonderful world of the hamster. It's one thing to read about this shit. It's an entirely different thing to experience it. This is a more pronounced example, but virtually all women do this on some level or another nearly all the time. Be thankful that you're learning this now, at 22. AND THANK ALL THAT IS HOLY THAT YOU DIDN'T BANG THIS CHICK UNWRAPPED.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 05:39 PM
4

Is it possible? Yes. Pre-selection is real.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 05:12 PM
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I was born into a buddhist family, but a sect most don't know. Much less esoteric, a lot more about application of the philosophy to daily life. Had to learn really early on how to use Law 38, which totally applies here. I learned that the ideas I was taught applied everywhere, but people would tune it out if 1 I mentioned anything about Buddhism or 2 I made it sound preachy. So I would talk about it casually using other words. It has most certainly been a great tool. There's a fine line between…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 06:06 PM
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It is very wild to look at things from the past through the red lenses. I have these moments where I can't recognize the mentality I had regarding women and relationships.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 05:37 PM
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Could be fruitful.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 09:31 PM
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Much of the reading material is available to download. Search here or the parent sub. Some good member posted links a while back.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 09:02 PM
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One of several tactics they employ. Girl I know has lupus. Used that as her explanation/reason/excuse for EVERYTHING. Then she met some foreign guy whose dad was loaded, so homeboy floated through life living large and being the benefactor to women he saw as his muse. She used the lupus ticket on him too. She barely spoke to him, was repulsed by him and never mentioned him when he disappeared for months at a time. But shockingly accepted his gifts and vacations. Then he dies. And wouldn't you kn…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 09:10 PM
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Good on you that you can earnestly sit there and flag the mistakes you made. I like the write up style.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 09:33 PM
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Models. Although both are great. Models is written in a way that moves like a well-rationalized thought chain. It's as if someone is kinda walking you through what they know so you can understand it.
/r/seduction14/12/15 05:20 PM
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Can't recommend it enough.
/r/seduction13/12/15 08:53 PM
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This is why marriage is unforgiving. You must be on an upwards trajectory your whole damn married life. You must be better than her and she has to know without a doubt that you will require her best if she is to keep you. This is a great way to encapsulate what I've come to learn about marriage, thanks to TRP. We seem to think marriage is the escalation of an LTR, the next step up. We see it that way thanks to our emotions. But in the eyes of the law, it is a legally binding contract that skews …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 08:37 PM
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You have work to do. This is true. But you have also done some good work. Keeping your composure and, by extension, frame is the cornerstone. What's encouraging is that you're willing to see your mistakes. You're 21, in college. The fact that you've done this much so far is a good sign. Don't settle for this progress, get back to work.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 08:08 PM
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I was gonna upvote merely for good use of 'coterminous'. But the post was A1.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 05:12 PM
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Cannot over-stress that you must identify it immediately. Letting people dwell on a mistake they think you didn't notice can lead them to question you in whatever ways their minds work. By owning it right away, people see you as self-aware and take that as you being very adept and worth following.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 11:09 PM
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Brother, brother, brother. As a guy who's just about your height, 5'10"-6' buxom chicks with fat asses drive me crazy. Sending you a fist bump. It's crazy how, after swallowing the pill, you see that succeeding can be about keeping composure and then executing just a couple decisive actions calmly. You just said a few words at the right moments. The brevity speaks volumes. Before the pill it seemed like a lot of work. Now I realize the work you do alone. When you're with women, it's time to play…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 09:07 PM
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I do not know what the name is, but a professor of mine a few years back discussed a tribe that literally counts just like this. "One, Two, Many". Philosophy class where we were discussing consciousness, perspective and observation.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 07:07 PM
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Just here to say how badass a thing like this would be. Include the dope skills you learn at Boy Scouts that teach you how to be resourceful and properly camp & survive.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 06:23 PM
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This article is well received. You can proceed.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 07:33 PM
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It was hard for me to understand why talking with women, the gender that talks so much more, was counter-productive. It seemed like a rational conclusion that using what appeared to be their chosen medium was the best way to go. I have come to realize that it's not the words that matter to women, it's the action of talking about their preferred topic, themselves, that they love so much. Venture into a topic a woman doesn't give a shit about and watch how quickly she shuts the fuck up, as opposed…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 08:41 PM
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Yeah, I'm nowhere near qualified to speculate how your past shaped you or if this the 'alpha' way to be. What I do believe is that there is more than one way to have an alpha mindset.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 09:53 PM
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Although there are situations where choosing an LTR is worth it, an LDR is about as feasible as the 'camel through the eye of a needle' proverb. Basically, incredibly unlikely. There is no sane reason to get your hopes up because the odds are stacked so highly against you.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 09:46 PM
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DAMN NEAR ALL THE TIME, it will not go well. If you've read Models (TRP reading material), it says that the less invested she feels you are in her, the more apt she is to be attracted to you. I've mentioned things in passing about other girls and had it amplify the sexual tension, but it DID NOT create the tension. The sexual attraction/tension was there to begin with. What I mentioned wasn't to brag. Bragging looks like you're showing off, which sub-communicates that you care about what they th…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 09:36 PM
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I mean, they say women would rather share an alpha than be stuck with a beta.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 04:01 AM
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Women love sexism. When it works to their advantage, they call is "chivalry".
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:57 AM
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heir concept of freedom, equality, or whatever buzzword they want is just "give me". Ours is "leave me". Wow. Such a great way to put it. Whenever I hear women bitch, it's always "why can't I HAVE these things? Don't I DESERVE it???" They fail to see that the implication is that they want those things to be given to them. Most men just want you to get out of their way.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:55 AM
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This guy out here speaking the truth.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 08:36 PM
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Yeah. We don't have right or feelings. That's the #1 thing I learned in college.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 08:27 PM
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Glad someone rational answered this first. What works changes from person to person and girl to girl. I've had friends who were massively successful with women taking wildly different approaches. It's the way they did it that mattered. To this point, read Models by Mark Manson. It illuminates this idea well.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 10:18 PM
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It comes in waves for me. Sometimes I'm voracious and learn a ton. It was extreme at first. Then it settles in, you wanna let your mind relax for a bit. Then something in life happens that causes an epiphany, then you come back to the table. Rinse and repeat. There's NEVER such a thing as too much self-improvement. There can be such a thing as too much reading. If you don't get up and actually apply it, it's worthless. Practice is self-improvement, as is reading, lifting, eating right, etc. Don'…
/r/askTRP07/10/15 10:10 PM
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Well, then do shit that's worth posting, and then take some cool pics of it. Get out and do cool shit. Get fit. Get a hobby you really like.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 08:16 PM
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I'm a buddhist, from a smaller mahayana sect. A recent figure in our realm is quoted as saying "Listen to your wife but don't listen to your wife.", which is to roughly say that you should be in touch with how she feels, BUT don't take what she's saying that seriously or even pay much attention. The way I understand it is very similar to much of what I've read here on how to be RP in an LTR: Be there for her, but don't put up with her bullshit or waste your time.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 07:51 PM
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On average, the single fathers I know are all great dads and their kids turn out really well. It's just happenstance that they ended up doing it solo, cus if the women wanted to claw their way in, the courts would most likely enforce it.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 03:58 PM
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Much appreciation for the insight.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 03:54 PM
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Hey, for the record, I've stated that I disagree with the claim that single mothers are automatically bad. I would prefer to raise my kids in the nuclear fashion, but given that the legal system is so skewed that the rug can be pulled out from under you the instant a woman changes her mind, I find it prescient to think outside the beaten path. With all that's at stake, I think it unwise to have so much be vulnerable to someone else's feelz.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 05:52 PM
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/u/H42 just dropped some insight on me.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 09:59 PM
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I do think that having a good pair of biological parents is ideal. But we just don't live in an ideal world anymore. When it comes to marital and parental law with fathers, it's almost dystopian. Women are constantly being encouraged to be cutthroat, irrational and the opposite of self-sufficient. And all the rules benefit them.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 09:58 PM
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I live in California. But I'm oh so surprised that the popular media hasn't discussed this more. Thanks for breaking me off with the knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 09:50 PM
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This is exactly why I asked this question. It's a loaded deck stacked entirely against us. get a parenting agreement contract I'm listening... Tell me more.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 09:48 PM
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I'm with you all the way on the biological rationale. Wondering if anyone has a historical track on when this idea that women are so advanced in that way became a palpable social current?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 09:38 PM
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I think on average there is some truth to this. BUT, I also get the feeling that of the men out there who can understand this way of thinking, they usually are very good at it, often better than most women. I get the sense that women can more easily get so caught in their primal emotions that it blinds them. The research you know of, does it align with this, reject it or has no relation to it? I'm curious.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 09:12 PM
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Now, taking this as true, does anyone have some history on how this got started? Anybody know a Woman's Studies major?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 09:07 PM
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Yeah, I think it's more apt to say seeming irrational, so as to fool others.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 08:59 PM
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Amen. It was always one of those things I could just tell was wrong, and by 'just tell', I mean I literally saw with my own two eyes. But when I'd point it out, the grown folk raising me would tell me "No, women are better at these things" and "you just don't get it" and "you're thinking about it too much." My dad taught me a lot of great things, but that's one place he drank too much of the kooaid. If only he'd have known it would've saved me some trouble.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 08:45 PM
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Preach. Does anybody know how this idea even got started, that women are better communicators and more mature beacons of humanity? Cus growing up I was fed this betafied horse shit. Women are more advanced than men, more mature and better communicators. But all I saw spoke to the opposite. Still, I just thought it was my experience. Nope. So where the fuck did that come from?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 07:54 PM
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I'm with you guys. I've seen the scum, but I also know many single mothers who are solid people and great parents. I have two cousins who happen to be sisters. One is just as OP describes, the other is a stand up mom. I can't agree with OP that it's 99.9%.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 07:49 PM
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Following up: These are killer. They work me harder than my old HIIT, take half as long and are muscle sparing, just like you said. Thanks again.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 07:34 PM
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If she answered all your complaints and THEN turned it into said messy discussion, what then? Would that be ok with you? Yeah, that'd be perfectly alright. What I've stopped allowing is a complete disregard for where I'm coming from. Structure your feeling however you want, but don't blow over my perspective in the process. From what I've seen, a lot of women do that - holding on to / stewing in resentment till they blow or are provided with an outlet. Very true. I've noticed it's more common in…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 08:21 PM
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The future is just as an LTR. That's what I was thinking too, just testing the resolve for the most part.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 07:18 PM
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I freeze her out for the following reasons: In the past she'd only voice her complaints when I voiced my own. She's also do it in a whining, emotional way where it'd devolve into some messy discussion, and if I'd lose patience with it, she'd blame everything on me for being 'mean'. She was basically hijacking the conversation and ignoring my concerns, AKA taking frame away and making everything about her. I tried to work with her, but it became clear resolving things was not what she was trying …
/r/askTRP02/09/15 07:04 PM
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I'm with Chad on this one. Wait until the class ends. Don't shit where you eat. Made that mistake before. Although it's worked out several times, the times it blew up made it not worth it. Never again. Luckily you have a great excuse to get her number now. What's worked best for me is the slow build, assuming you can keep her interest.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 06:52 PM
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Welcome to the club. Some girls do, most are indifferent when it comes to just the butt. Although, when the whole squat zone bulks from lifting, the combo looks powerful, the effect of which we all know. I've always had a big butt, but when I got swole everywhere is when the games of grabass shot up.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 10:19 PM
2

I can see what you mean. The road to progress is multi-layered. It requires that you build upon yourself. It also requires understanding how others operate and think, amongst other things. So when others reject you, it might have something to do with you. It also might not. No guy will have a 100% success rate, no matter what he does. The largest issue you've discussed is how you've let rejection make you feel. The answer comes in understanding why others opinions carries so much weight (and als…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 10:10 PM
1

I am not in the medical profession, but I think I can comment. I work in special education. I have to be caring, understanding, compassionate when working, but I am also a TRPer who knows what it's like to have that taken as weakness. Compartmentalizing is somewhat correct. Identify the people who are worthy of those things from you and give it to them as needed. When people don't deserve it, don't make time for them. You don't have to be a dick, per se. But just give them a smaller window, or n…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 09:58 PM
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I think you're not just recognizing an issue, but hoping that understanding it will help you eradicate it. The need for the validation of others is a symptom of a larger issue, likely that you don't have a strong enough sense of what your own value is. So when people have a reaction to you it has too strong an effect on you. I have been there. When you get in touch with what your own value is, so in touch that it's vivid and clear, then the opinions of others has less of an effect on you. What y…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 09:46 PM
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Cool. Thanks for answering. Solid post. Great work.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 08:42 PM
2

Technical question on the Windgates: If you're on a more digitized bike, where you can't crank the resistance on a knob by hand but instead have to press an up-down key, going from an easy resistance to max resistance will a few seconds. Should I do 20 seconds after it gets to max resistance -or- do 20 seconds total? Let me know if I need to explain this better.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 07:44 PM
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These are the kinds of substantive posts I love to read.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 04:13 PM
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I only know so much, but what I've come to understand is that being vulnerable is only wrong if you show weakness. Mark Manson in 'Models' dedicated an entire chapter to it. He basically said the strength comes from being fearlessly real about who you are, flaws and all. It's vulnerable in that you're putting yourself out there, but strong in the sense that you're unafraid of the response you might get. That shows little investment in what others think of you, including her. And that lowered inv…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 11:04 PM
1

Well, they seem to have a lot in common, such as body type.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:29 PM
1

Although you can't control other people, there are a few things you can do to control how you are received and perceived. This may control how well you can influence other people - but that's no guarantee when it comes to any one instance.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 06:29 PM
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The problem most people have, and I've had to learn this the hard way myself, is that we mistakenly believe talking is ALL we have to do to get our point across. If you don't back that talk up with action (execution, reinforcement and punishment) then it's just air. Thanks to this sub I've learned that what you say MUST BE congruent with what you do. Feel free to tell people where you're coming from. Just make sure what you say is reflected in what you do. I read on a post that if she isn't afra…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 03:50 PM
2

I'm a buddhist. I feel that what I understand of TRP is very much inline with what I believe in.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 09:43 PM
2

I'm gonna have to beg to differ quite a bit on some glaring technicalities. I'm an LA boy born and bred. You have to differentiate between HOLLYWOOD and LA. What you're describing are the HOLLYWOOD types, the attention-whoring, self-absorbed narcissists that congregate mainly in the Hollywood, WeHo (west hollywood) and posh/hipster neighborhoods sprinkled throughout the city. There are many Hollywood types here, but lets not extend that label to everyone who lives in LA. The Los Angeles Metropol…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:36 PM
1

Listen here you beautiful bitch. I'm gonna fuck you up with some truth. Thank your lucky stars that you see this shit now and that such a thing as this sub exists. You are coming into legal adulthood at an awesome fucking time to be alive. Some may disagree, but think about it: you're equipped with the knowledge we all wish we had to take full advantage of todays benefits while being able to minimize the damages. Be thankful that instead of falling in line with the mold that was set for you that…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:00 PM
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/u/Stayinghereforreal dropping knowledge bombs. +1 for the Encyclopedia Brown reference. Yeah, I am serious. She is under no obligation to stay with you if you got beat up outside a bar, lost your job, and had your mom die all in the same day. If she didn't want to date you because you were now a mess, she doesn't have to. Same applies to you and her. This is too true. Some people would say comparing rape to any of these things may not be fair, and I wouldn't necessarily argue with them. But I a…
/r/askTRP30/07/15 03:48 PM
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Other people are doing their jobs and shit while I'm just here reexamining my life thanks to /u/OmLaLa...
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 10:48 PM
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Enthusiasm is everything. This. I've myself said if I had to choose between eagerness or experience, I'd choose the eager dame.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 09:03 PM
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Apparently you missed the point. What her friends think is irrelevant. Does her scapegoating me here indicate something I should be worried about, in any regard?
/r/askTRP11/07/15 07:52 AM
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Thank you for directly addressing the question. The concern is if this is an indicator of larger blame I'm not seeing, or if this will likely get worse over time. I've dated plenty and this is the first time I've come across this.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 07:33 AM
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Made that abundantly clear.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 07:27 AM
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I'm unfamiliar with Mega. Do you need to have an acct with them to download files? I'm reaching 99% on these and then... nuthin.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:57 PM
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I think OP was using the word 'rescuing' in the context of the tough love quote, not as his personal purview. Nor do I think OP was trying to advocate reforming anyone. He was speaking to the observation that we may have an innate/instinctual urge to help and to care for others. To pretend it doesn't exist would be counter productive. Instead, understand it and don't let it be a weakness.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 04:20 PM
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Not all men are masculine and not all women are feminine, in the traditional mentalities. I've met rational & clear-headed women and irrational & delusional men. I was also a philosophy major. No surprise that it was roughly 85% male. Of the females there, most were astute and could rationally engage in dialogue. The ones who couldn't do so were also the loudest, which should come as no surprise. I've come to see that the women I've known who were rational were much less likely to be attractive,…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 04:52 PM
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You weren't stupid. You listened. You listened very well. You just listened to the wrong people at a time when you didn't know better. Now you listened to the right people. And you listened very well. Congrats.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 10:48 PM
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Yeah, punching out a dude who shoves you feels pretty fucking good. Shit side is you broke your hand. I have been there before with the orbiters. Be done with her.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 07:02 PM
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Text game, done right, is a powerful tool. If you communicate the right shit, it heightens your position. Most people just talk too much and are too available. That's the problem.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 06:59 PM
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I don't think OP has given enough info on what led to the shoving. I've been shoved by jealous dudes without provocation, and I've also been shoved by dudes as a result of losing control. It seems likely there was escalation that OP was a part of leading up to said shove, but the orbiter might've also just gotten too juiced up and lost frame.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 06:21 PM
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This. I was taught it's not ok to flirt and all that other bs they tell you. I realized that merely talking to girls or even just your girlfriends friends will result in your lady wanting more of your attention.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 05:06 PM
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My grandma was born in 1920, and her attitude would piss off so many feminists because it rejects all their bullshit. It was straight red pill, but cloaked in civilized nomenclature, which was the style at the time. Her attitude towards ugly people - and fat people - was that they were bad, stupid and worthless. Plain and simple. Maybe if a man had money or power would she have some kind thing to say about him, but not often. AOALT.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 03:15 PM
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This is one of those "posted at just the right time" posts. I'm going out of town in a couple weeks with my LTR. Luckily just us two. But this was the perfect primer for me.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 04:37 PM
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Won't get all crazy and say this needs to be sidebar material, but this should be part of a standard archive to reference when SJWs and the likes start labeling what we do. It's stuff like this that we promote.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 01:58 AM
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I know NLP when I see it. Nice.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 06:08 PM
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There are several people who have the exact opposite perspective you do. Chalk it up to a difference of opinion, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 09:56 PM
4

The Game is a great starter. Has a novelish structure from the first-person perspective.
/r/seduction21/05/15 07:51 PM
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It's easy to get the idea that being Alpha means shitting on everyone and everything, or being cold and fucked up. Do you want to be there for her? Then do it. Give freely without expectation. I'd advise to not break your bank account in the process (unless, god forbid, you really have to). But just be a solid person here if you want to. If the phrase "short term" means that you don't really care about her, then try to manage expectations on her end. If "short term" means you haven't been with h…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 07:01 PM
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Tell him. If you're worried he might be upset with you, send it from a throwaway email?
/r/askTRP20/05/15 06:36 PM
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It's an idiom, not a categorical maxim. You're missing the nuance.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 05:02 AM
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I've had the exact same problem. For years wouldn't touch them because it interfered with the feeling. One - find a brand you like. Shockingly, the ones that take away the least from the feeling were these free ones I got from Planned Parenthood. All the brand named fancy ones threw me off. Two - be as solid as possible before putting it on. I've noticed if I'm not completely solid and a little soft then a prophylactic stops the show before it gets started. Hope that helps.
/r/askTRP18/05/15 05:07 PM
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I mostly stay away from other dude's women because of the potential shitstorm. The saying is to never stick your dick in crazy. If she's got a man and is still down to fuck, chances are significantly higher that there's some crazy in there.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 04:33 PM
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You're not crazy. Anger is the first step. Yes it becomes normal. Trust will return, but it will be different. Why do your eyes hurt? Because you've never used them before. Take all that emotion and channel it, invest it into YOU. Read what everyone else has said. Stick with us and your life will get a whole lot better. There will be ups and downs so be resolute.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 02:24 PM
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At NO point does it become wrong to bang multiple women. Are you lying, manipulating, deceiving, forcing anyone? Are you leading anyone on? If the answer to these questions is no, then there's no harm. Don't confuse that if people get hurt. People can get ahead of themselves emotionally and then blame it on others. So long as you're honest then there's no fault on your end. What I think is looming over your head is the implied social mores that sleeping with a lot of women is bad, and that there…
/r/seduction12/05/15 05:32 PM
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At least someone's asking the real questions around here.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 03:16 PM
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I'm with you. For me, I believe in: You have as much choice as anyone else. If you weren't prepared, that's on you. Not everything that comes your way is something you could've seen coming, but there is nothing in this world lording over you, disabling your ability to do something about it. There's absolutely no reason for settling for less than you want.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 06:16 PM
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Yeah. With so many shameless lawyers in this world, I'd be surprised if no one reached out to him.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 03:53 PM
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The real measure in all things is one's actions. Is she coming back for more? How often? How does she act when she doesn't get it? Those are the indicators you're looking for.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 05:41 PM
3

Boom. Now, in your opinion does the Light Triad have as much success getting you laid as the Dark Triad or is one more successful?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 06:17 PM
1

Shoot me some info on this legit idea. PM of course.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 06:14 PM
2

I agree. At the same time this thread discusses stoicism and the dark triad often and how it can benefit us to adopt those traits. These guys seem to be very counter to those things and yet you can argue they are alpha examples.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 03:50 AM
2

Yeah. You have to have some massive onions to face congress and hold frame like that.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 03:44 AM
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Yeah. He was a fixture on PBS along with Sesame Street for like 30 years or something. Fred was his first name, but the show was called "Mr Rogers Neighborhood".
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 03:43 AM
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The guy was an encyclopedia of wise sayings. His frame was iron clad.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 03:41 AM
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My experience tells me otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 06:38 PM
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Exactly. I've fucked girls when I was broke as hell and they knew it, but they liked the 'take-charge' attitude I had. A lot of girls repeat what they hear without thinking too deeply about what the words mean (shocking, right?!?!). In your interactions you'll see if it's merely money or alpha behavior they're talking about.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 04:07 PM
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I hear what you're saying. This is actually a reduction in requests from her, if I compare things over time. She has no issues doing what I ask. I know the blandness you speak of. Not present here. But I'll make sure to keep my eyes peeled.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 10:58 PM
1

Although this doesn't fit the rule entirely, this makes me think of Law #1 of the 48 Laws of Power: Never outshine the master. He's not the master by any means, but he was accustomed to being the ruler of that social circle. In this instance, however, it's just a sign that you're doing things right.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 10:05 PM
5

When was the last time you saw feminists get angry at ads featuring buff men? Correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't think they picketed outside of screenings of Magic Mike.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 05:52 PM
1

Was it all worth it? It's your job to tell us, or more importantly to prove it to yourself. I would recommend you continue monk mode until you get some more clarity.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 10:06 PM
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I take issue with one part of what you're saying, and that is how Walter Scott was killed. He was shot from behind as he was running away from the officer. Officers are trained to shoot in self-defense or in defense of others and it must be a clear and present danger, not an implied threat. No one should run from the police but that doesn't authorize an officer to fire bullets at them. I don't think his running away bears any implied or direct cause to the cultural conditions that make women unl…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 09:39 PM
1

That first sentence is verbatim what I was about to say.
/r/seduction17/04/15 04:29 PM
2

What's worked for me so far is to bulk to get swole THEN do a cut to strip away fat. Trying to get big AND get cut at the same time is too fucking hard for me, as it is for most people I'm talking to. The BIG issue a lot of people don't talk about is hunger and not feeling full when on a cut. You could be hitting your recommended calorie intake goals and balancing your macros and be Somalian hungry. I get it the worst at bedtime. Makes it hard to sleep. The real challenge is to hit the goal AND …
/r/askTRP17/04/15 04:18 PM
1

LGBTQRSWTFBBQ's I'm borrowing this. That's gold.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 03:33 PM
2

I was just about to say that.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 06:33 PM
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Happy to hear it. Let these moments build up your confidence, but do not get down when the inevitable problems arise. Put yourself first and good shit will want to follow you.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 06:31 PM
1

No homo, but I love this post. Jokes aside, one of the biggest reasons I took to TRP so quickly was in one of the first posts I read someone discussed how logic is irrelevant to women. I had always felt that way. I was raised in a 'forward-thinking' household full of contradictions when it came to women. I was a precocious little kid who actually applied the ideas I was taught to all situations. Man, I wish someone told me earlier on how shit really was. For years I would either be told I was wr…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 07:49 PM
1

Yeah, I'm not attached to the idea that anyone I know or related to is a saint. But she is always a person I felt had a strong moral compass. But she's one of 10 kids, and I have some other relatives who were downright rotten. It's just wild when you see someone who's had ample chances to jump ship and never does.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 10:51 PM
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Or the right one. I like the spectrum concept.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 07:57 PM
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This shit is one of the best things I've read in a long time. You went harder than Kanye talking about Kanye.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 06:04 PM
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You managed to paint an accurate picture and make me laugh loud as fuck at work. Take my upvote.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 05:56 PM
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I had a dream... That every time someone says its a long post that it would only be this long. Your post was a breeze compared to some of the drivel on here.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 06:47 PM
2

Don't forget, women want to date up and want the same for the hive. Take none of it personally.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 07:36 AM
1

A thousand times this. Don't lay a finger on her.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 06:15 PM
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Only girl you're talking to right now. You've already set your frame as directed towards one person. Open that bitch up. Meet more women. Going no contact without meeting more women will probably be super hard for you atm. But going NC is where you want to eventually go.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 06:14 PM
1

No, it's here to take the veil from your eyes. To show the blueprint behind the matrix. Make whatever use of it you will.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 05:16 PM
1

YESYESYESYESYES LEAVE NOW. NEVER LOOK BACK. Was that clear enough?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 05:11 PM
1

Some of his conquests include an active playboy model (at the time), Sharon Stone in her prime and more women than Teddy Pendergrass when he was crooning to every broad in America.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 07:53 AM
1

I'll check him out. Anything you recommend?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 02:55 AM
1

There's a serious lack of balance when it comes to people to emulate. The joe rogan stuff works but it doesn't come naturally for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 08:59 PM
1

Bro, you're in high school. It can be hard af to disengage from your mentality and reevaluate your frame. Subconsciously you're swimming in a cesspool of comparison and self-consciousness. Read the sidebar and workout/eat properly. And as someone said before me, masculine and alpha aren't the same. And alpha>masculine, IMO. But yeah. Self defense.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 07:28 PM
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Be unafraid. See failures as an unsuccessful attempt, like something to learn from and never let them stick to your mind like a crippling concern that embarrasses you. Act natural around women, like you've already slept with them or like you're a good friend. Take the pussy off the pedestal and put yourself on it. Value yourself and your time. Do things in your time that're valuable. Talk to everyone for the sake of good conversation. Have tons of female acquaintances. Having those alone will ma…
/r/askTRP02/01/15 02:50 PM
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Agreed, but Labor Day > New Years > Never. At least you're free of her. Now stay that way.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 06:01 PM
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A lot of people rag on guys for having standards or tastes such as these, but I do as well. Respect.
/r/seduction27/12/14 09:16 PM
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They wear clothes with the specific purpose of hiding their size. They lie about their age, what their interests are, anything at all. Women do and say whatever they feel will advance their interests. I don't think there's anything wrong with putting in the work AND employing a little gamesmanship. "It's not lying, it's flirting"
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 01:19 AM
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The shit thing is this is how deep women's analysis went. They were too entrenched in themselves and their feelz to see the difference between what successfully captivated them and what failed. So they called anything 'nice'. You ever notice how many males fall under that term?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 07:59 AM
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Nuke me to hell for this, but why is it not ok for men to hit women but vice versa is exponentially more permissible? Is that fair? Not really, but that's the way the world is. Same with why studies show women like combative, strong men and when they are unsure if a man finds them attractive. Is it all rational? Not really, although we rationalize it like crazy. These attitudes are not rooted in logic, fairness and ethics. They're rooted in the animal aspects of human nature. Same as big muscles…
/r/askTRP20/12/14 01:47 AM
2

DO NOT lose faith when the bumps arise. Stay the course. The knowledge will trickle at some points, flood at others. But let nothing deter you from the path.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 06:17 PM
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To quote some corny shit, it gets better. To truly swallow the pill means you come around to finding a rock solid happiness that floats in any situation. Cultivate your frame and improve yourself and you stop having time and energy for negative shit.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 06:12 AM
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Apparently 45 minutes of meditation daily can change the structure of your brain. Don't down vote me to oblivion yet. Looking for source, which I saw on RP a couple weeks ago. I'm working for the man right now, so cut me some slack... Edit: found it. http://www.plosone.org/article/info:doi/10.1371/journal.pone.0108359 45 mins daily in 8 weeks.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 06:46 AM
1

Imagine what your life, exactly as you want it, looks like. Get fucking specific. Ok. Does she fit in it? If not, how much would you regret not going after it? There's always gonna be the "what if?" Any choice you follow necessarily excludes others. You're here because you ultimately want to be happy. That's why you came to this sub. The answer comes in getting a deeper understanding of what you want more than anything. That's my take.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 01:36 AM
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Two of the biggest players I've ever known were genuinely nice dudes. They were always doing cool shit and were great story tellers. So, it's not automatically true you have to be untrue to yourself to succeed.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 05:20 PM
1

Naw man. You came with the knowledge he needed to hear.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 08:52 PM
2

You CAN'T fix Duty Sex during the duty sex. You have to re-establish attraction. The duty sex is the outcome of your other actions. Work on the other shit first.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 08:38 PM
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4, 5 and 6 are the ones that hit the hardest as of now. I spent last night just seeing everything in terms of mountain vs cloud. 2 is not hard, but easy to fuck up. I've sinned as such before, and seen the consequences.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 07:47 PM
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Metropolitan areas are much more liberal than rural ones, on average. Look at the distribution of red and blue voters nationwide. Areas like LA it’s common that Womens Rights Activists and SJWs are that much more active and vocal and it just seeps into the mores and narrative more. So, absent a strong masculine frame, it’s easier to fall into emasculated habits without even realizing it. I'm at work, so if that's not making sense, I'll have to get back to you.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 01:40 AM
2

Have an upvote. That's the nitty gritty shit I was looking for.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 05:39 PM
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Keeping that anger under control has been my biggest piece so far. The hard part for me hasn't been accepting the RP ideologies. Those I've always known were true (feels like I'm quoting Star Wars). It's all the little compromises I've made to being a man just as a byproduct of growing up in a city like LA. Compromises I never noticed nor paid attention to. So defeating all the little habits I wasn't aware of has been crucial.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 02:59 PM
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I believe you can. The most alpha women-getting dudes I've known were actually really polite and respectful people. But they had ironclad frames and were great storytellers. They didn't wait around for anybody and always had really cool shit going on. They were charmers who inadvertently showed high SMV. Now, in terms of getting play, just below them I've known a oceanful of guys who were pernicious assholes. I've always thought it was the cheap shortcut to displaying confidence. The former guy …
/r/askTRP04/12/14 11:30 PM
1

I'm way late to the party, but was gonna say: Get the bj BEFORE the wings. Made the mistake of getting dome after a belly full of spicy fried chicken and beer. No bueno.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 07:38 PM
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This one is hard for me. I have to write detailed reports and teach people concepts frequently. I'm also a law school student. What gets my goat is when I say too little and someone points out something I didn't mention as if they're telling me something I didn't know. In the fields I'm in, this can be detrimental to my success. Anyone have tips that would apply to me?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 06:16 PM
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Naw man. Not when they spout feminist rhetoric. Then they're legit.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 06:42 PM
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These might be bad examples, but when I think of actors who have lots of charisma, charm and can hold frame, I think of RDJ and George Clooney. From what I've noticed, RDJ talks in a much more energized, sometimes frenetic pace, while Clooney speaks in a more relaxed and deliberate manner. They both work. Find your own way that suits your steeze.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 04:19 PM
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Upvoting because that's an intriguing idea. At first I couldn't see how staying connected to one's dad would be a problem, and then I realized I have an unconventional relationship with my own. I would assume if your dad sets a strong example of something worth learning from but doesn't stifle you, it wouldn't matter. While a stifling one would be one worth distancing yourself from. But lets see where this goes.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 11:30 PM
1

Talk about hearing something at just the right time. Damn. This was exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 04:43 PM
0

It's the American way.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 01:01 AM
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I commented on that under a throwaway. Spoke RP truths in common language. Got down voted to hell and 25+ nasty messages in my inbox.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 12:50 AM
1

I've noticed that women do this to their partners tenfold. Thank god for this sub though. Younger me would get annoyed. Now I laugh. But I like to analyze based on function. To see the why behind things helps me get a better understanding of how to slay the ship to plunder the booty.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 05:25 AM
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Thanks for replying. Glad I'm not the only person who's dealt with this. Any input on what it is that causes this? This thing where women will second guess anything that comes out of their partners mouth but listen to the entire rest of the world instead?
/r/askTRP22/10/14 12:19 AM
1

Understood. So when she asks my opinion and then completely ignores it, should I give my opinion, ignore the question or...? I mean, assuming she's going to ignore it. Edit to restructure.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 03:12 PM
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Looks like you took a good step forward. It's logical to assume from your past interaction what was going down this time. But then, oh wait, logic and women??? (I always think of Jack Nicholsons line from As Good As It Gets) I've dropped plates when I find out they're taken also. Sex is a great prize and all, but now I'm always mindful of the company I keep, even briefly. To me, no pussy is worth those potential headaches. Maybe that's not RP enough for some.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:35 PM
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Came in thinking I'd see "Lol" everywhere. Confirmed. "Lol" was everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:48 PM
2

Try to analyze those same observations rationally, and suddenly you're the worst person ever. And be accused of "over thinking it" to boot.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:46 PM
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Lifting is a universal fundamental for all men, kind of like makeup and such is to women. Regardless if she's Paula Deen, Cindy Crawford, Suze Orman, Jenna Jameson, etc. They ALL make sure their makeup is done right, regardless of what avenue they pursue. It's a universal fundamental for women. Since it's a thing we share most in common, it comes up the most in our dialogue. But look deeper and you'll find plenty of TRP'ers discussing other interests.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 06:39 PM
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Do not be afraid to lose her. Gottdamn, that was the first part of swallowing the pill for me. SHE is not the goal. She, or women in general, are just one of the rewards for reaching the goal everyday.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 12:16 AM
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I got the most play as an unemployed student with my own place. A lot of people say learn how to cook. The money you already spend on food can double as an investment in your game. I never cooked but have seen this work for others. Just approach. No excuses. Make small talk at first, escalate from there as you feel comfortable. Talk to women at school. Join clubs, go to free shit on and off campus. Pad your interactions by going online? Once you get some momentum going, game gets way easier. Cha…
/r/seduction07/10/14 12:13 AM
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Ok, this is diverting from topic a bit, but... How does one manage to drink enough water without having to piss all the damn time? At work I'm on long hours, have to drive quite a bit. I've literally chosen not to drink much so I don't have to hit the head because I can't take frequent breaks. I know I'm not the only one out there.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 08:10 AM
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Sounds like you either need to change venues or change friends. I live in LA and I go out a good amount with rather good looking people, friends and otherwise. Some places are known for the creepers, so just avoid. I've usually seen virtually all dudes get the hint or respect a direct no, but if you're in the lair of creep, those guys don't. The other times I've seen this issue is when girls instigate the attention, claiming they want the guys to leave them alone but actually crave it and revel …
/r/askTRP04/10/14 05:54 PM
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When you focus on moving yourself forward, the bullshit just falls to the side. There's that saying, "If you don't know which port you seek, any wind sends you in the right direction." I think that's applicable to this too. When you're just chillin in life, it's easy to have a large social circle. But when you get on your mission, the people not headed your way fade more and more into the background.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 04:31 PM
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This holds true. Women will stay loyal to the men they see above them that they feel they can get. If she doesn't feel she can do better, she's likely to stick around. If someone has a shit job and believes they can get a better one, do they stay? No. But they do if they feel it's the best they can get. I've seen women stick by men when they were down because they'd seen the man succeed, and believed in him. But if he STAYS down, and she loses her belief... Not so much. Biggest determinant is he…
/r/askTRP14/09/14 05:22 PM
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Being lazy, but I saw a post a couple days ago on the front page that said a redditor created a service where you can call anywhere in the world for free. G'luck.
/r/seduction08/07/14 01:10 AM
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Interesting observations. There is a pool hall not too far away...
/r/askTRP21/06/14 09:50 PM
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