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| 7 | AI and Robots Will Fix HypergamyIt's just another attempt to capitalize on our loneliness by billionaire tech bros. Almost everyone participating here lacks societal understanding and is so deep into consumerism they are unable to realize this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 07:53 PM |
| 1 | AI and Robots Will Fix HypergamySocietal trends don’t move that fast Well just 15 years ago online dating sites were a social reject's last resort to meet with some below average obese person, which consisted the vast majority of the use. But see how normies appropriated this and now the original demographic gets ridiculed for shooting their short there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.Maybe if you're accustomed to misanthropy it would indeed seem accurate to you. To anyone else it seemed like ramblings of someone who potentially needs medical supervision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenI don't but those who think like you are currently a negligible part of the decaying society. You know kind of like you go to America and think oh everyone seems like a chill person here until you come to realize the vast majority voted from Trump and is pro-life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenbecause it's already a given they're talking about the hottest person. I'm unfortunately indirectly quoting other people, specifically women, I've encountered that have admitted to this. I agree it is harsh and shallow but otherwise a widespread notion. And it's not limited to any particular age group btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know ItMy point is, you don’t have to be the most attractive guy the woman has been with. If she finds you reasonably attractive it’s enough to work with. May be the case for normal people, I don't think zombies addicted to dating apps and social media have any hope of being remedied. But any form of interaction with them is probably a waste of time anyway. The problem is that this way of living spreads like a disease turning otherwise healthy individuals into emotionally dull validation addicted creat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenI'm only being descriptive here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know ItYou almost had me until you said Objectively she’s probably an 8 and those party girls were 9 which effectively makes me believe that unless you're biased in your wife's rating, you didn't really end up with someone physically different compared to what you were after younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenWomen complaints are more about personality ...because it's already a given they're talking about the hottest person. They're repulsed by a say 6/10 with 8/10 personality than an 8/10 with a 3/10 one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenThey tend to go after the hottest one even if they're able to tell they're incompatible otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenYes and the fact you think it's hilarious and somehow doesn't affect you, me and the rest of the world tells me all I need to see that it's like I'm talking to a wall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenYes. Just like almost everyone does to an extent, and in fact those that do it the most are the ones into the materialistic way of living which includes participating in redpill/blackpill and other subcultures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenWeed is illegal to possess in many places around the world too, you think this is affecting people smoking at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenThey can keep doing so indeed but can also opt out of paying their taxes. It's not as uncommon as you might think depending on where you live but if it happens at an even larger scale than it is currently, stark social consequences concerning anyone are unavoidable. This is an economic fact regardless of whether those stopping to contribute are sexless or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenYou lose all of your social welfare. Maybe not you, the glorious mind using the RoseyButterflies username, are the one to be immediately affected by this, the rest of your fellow humans definitely are though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenAre you rеtаrdеd? I never stated I personally am opting out of dating or am even lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenAre you rеtаrdеd? I've told 100 times I am not an incеl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenAh there we go again, another americanized brain that thinks it's possible to talk issues of some social groups without experiencing their problems first-hand. No wonder you got Trump reelected when your shit country is full of shortsighted zombies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenIt's сringе coexisting with people so individualized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know ItAre you as sexually attracted to your wife as you were to the hot blonde party girls? Are the women who got burnt by hot guys that don't give a shit about them sexually attracted to the husbands they picked that bear no physical resemblance to the hot ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenСringе | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 02:56 PM |
| 3 | I don't understand the obsession with the Just World Fallacy on this subIt's completely weird to see how many of you relate to a totally appropriated and diluted definition of the blасkpill. Which makes it likely that you learned about it from some grifter YouTuber trying to sell you something. Otherwise you'd be aware the origins of blackpill are based on genetic determinism and relationships between genders lacking fundamental connection being everything and self-improvement being a pitfall those unable to comprehend its limited efficiency fall for. You're essenti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenYou've chosen the worst example to demonstrate your case. If anything we have no idea if these excludes men visiting prostitutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know ItThem saying they've mentioned a couple of times about different girls who used to have a crush on him. is all needed to render your question irrelevant. Whatever stats he has they were enough to have him being lusted over a few times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know ItDoesn't sound like you've settled though does it. One can't say the same for the women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenNah you're just oblivious to the statistics cause of bias from your social circles. And on top of that not understand fundamental social dynamics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenOK I don't think there's any point in engaging with someone displaying zero knowledge about how modern capitalist economies function. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 02:09 PM |
| 1 | The “success rate” of Red Pill ideology is largely irrelevant because it will make anybody that isn’t a psychopath miserable.You're displaying horrifying levels of cognitive dissonance, results of being brainwashed by trp, I don't even think there's any point in engaging any further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenThe less than 5% can opt out all they like but theyd still be participating by buying stuff. The 60% of men that is sexually unsuccesful are paying taxes beneficial to the rest 40% and the vast majority of women pairing up with the latter. Their contribution in that sense is way higher and less beneficial to them compared to consuming fundamental products to survive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenYes I agree however I still believe many men would be more than content with a cohabitating relationship like that. Which supposedly woman also prefer but in reality find very unappealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenBecause it's a lot higher than that and can easily reach a percentage where social programs and living standards for the rest of the people deteriorate! The vast majority of them won't be able to cope with this reality and will opt out of contributing to the economy. The fact that they are non-existent in the dating market doesn't negate that they're part of the backbone that supports the economy with their labor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenThe point is that they aren't actively searching to date. You didn't get it, that's exactly the idea I was challenging. Their standards are unrealistic and they're indeed searching to date if local high-in-demand women is all they're going after, hence the IG example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Maybe fewer relationships are the way of the future, and we're just in a transition period...I would say the majority of the men in this subreddit, niceguys, and the askmen subreddit all have similar standards. It's hard to feel any empathy for them though if that's the case. Or at least it's very hypocritical to shame women, who are as shallow as they are anyway, for acting the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:45 PM |
| 0 | The “success rate” of Red Pill ideology is largely irrelevant because it will make anybody that isn’t a psychopath miserable.Referring to other people as having "market value" that supposedly declines with age in women and with no resource providing capabilities in men isn't enough evidence for you? Or that women are supposed to offer sex in exchange for resources? You've probably become so accustomed to these notions that you aren't able to realize how derogatory they sound to those unfamiliar. EDIT: Based on your reply below, you're seem to be displaying horrifying levels of cognitive dissonance, results of being br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:42 PM |
| 0 | The “success rate” of Red Pill ideology is largely irrelevant because it will make anybody that isn’t a psychopath miserable.JFL the whole narrative is to treat others as commodities, there's nothing humane about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:11 PM |
| 1 | The “success rate” of Red Pill ideology is largely irrelevant because it will make anybody that isn’t a psychopath miserable.And you still think the average feeble minded normie has the capacity of processing this realization and not end up miserable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenThe worlds not revolving around the less than 5% of incels. Unfortunately this is a very conservative estimate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:05 PM |
| 3 | Maybe fewer relationships are the way of the future, and we're just in a transition period...If your friends really have standards like the women you're referencing I really cannot see how they don't bring hopelessness upon themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenYou're displaying you lack fundamental understanding wide-scale sociological impacts, reducing this to how this individually affects you only. The world's not revolving around you I'm afraid to inform. If they can live without working sure go for it. That's the issue, they will continue doing so and tax evading so now the REST of those not into the same plight will have no access to most of their welfare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenIt's not anyone elses problem in the sense that they don't have to date them or provide them solutions to get sex. Everyone is having their individual and social benefits jeopardized if "LVMs" are opting out out of sustaining the economic system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenMan idk what to tell you, I knew a bunch of guys like the ones you talked about and they claimed the exact same I'm done with chasing women. Yet when we added each other on IG their following list was riddle with borderline thirst trap accounts of local women. I don't believe this was them using it as porn though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenI think you've changed the subject a bit? Yes it's a very good idea to focus on non-romantic relationships instead. This isn't much the point here. I was discussing how the definition of giving up on the opposite sex differs for men and women. Unless you bring it up to support that women who give up on dating aren't as affected as men because they have better support systems. That's true but as I said before it is not the reason, not the only one at least, they aren't collapsing. They just don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in women"HV" men and women are still relying on the tax paying system millions of LVMs support, which is obviously concerning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Many men losing interest in womenlmao at this exchange someone probably put a gun on their head and were forced to type the same irrelevant comment twice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenYour advice would be very relevant if people hadn't become terminally online materialistic zombies. For all those men who have crazy perceptions about what most women look like, there's also the same amount of women being disgusted at the sight of anyone who they're not sexually attracted to. Young people and those deep into OLD are so broken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Many men losing interest in womenSociety in the West is currently built for you to die overworking for some corporate fuckery that won't ever provide you your actual labor's worth. This is why you're barely affording to feed yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Many men losing interest in womenThe problem is how to not let society determine your overall value depending on whether you have a partner or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Many men losing interest in womenIn all honesty that sub is riddled with ramblings of women with severe attachment and/or abandonment issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenWe are talking about decent 30's guys, none of them are unattractive, they have good careers, none of them have an "killer trait" (ugly, too short, overweight, socialy awkward,...). I would say that a few years/decade ago, this kind of profil would have been sought after. You and OP are talking about a completely different demographic I feel. In my experience your description is of persons completely unaware of their true equivalents and seem to be going after significantly higher in demand wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Many men losing interest in womenNot even a goal of a loving fulfilling relationship where you see that person as an equal to you, but just to have sex with. I've thought this many times but even if one were to look for a woman that would simply live together with, taking care of each other without having to sleep together necessarily, they'd fail miserably to find any willing candidates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:45 AM |
| 5 | Many men losing interest in womenThis supposedly concerns only a tiny fraction of people so supposedly things should turn out alright? All that remains is largely ethical issues about paying your taxes for the vast majority when they're the ones going to bring to the world their psychologically defective offsprings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenNothing was destroyed indeed but pretending people, both men and women, aren't getting in their most shallow phase historically is preposterous. It would be the case if they were vetting both for more physically attractive partners and emotionally mature ones. Guess what category of the previous two are most exclusively prioritizing and which is completely neglected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in women3) that woman he was with was a total pos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in women14yo boys who read one page of Nietzsche be like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenIt's still making it a problematic definition of giving up on the opposite sex. This is what I've written a few comments back I propose that a man is being more honest than a woman when they say that they're done with pursuing a love life. Cause most of the time they really are cases like the OP where they're somewhat content going the entire rest of their lives in which talking to the opposite sex is the most they'll ever do. He's in an even better position than men that have already have sexua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenAs much as I agree with your second sentence, I always find the next one to be problematic since it's effectively suggesting the person adopts an individualistic and materialistic lifestyle. Of course that doesn't mean focusing on career and doing activities you're into is bad, but I'd prefer if there was a component of cultivating social relationships outside sexual involvement. Like help a family member out, maybe take care of your brothers/sisters kids, same with friends. Self inflicted alien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Many men losing interest in womenToo bad 99.99% of them are still going the rabbithole of simping, yes that's what all redpillers are actually doing, for women deeply into materialism who only make them feel more insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenI propose that a man is being more honest when they say that they're done with pursuing a love life than a woman. Cause most of the time they really are cases like the OP where they go the entire rest of their lives in which talking to the opposite sex is the most they'll ever do. On the other hand, I've noticed almost all women claiming to be "done with men" mean they're being celibate in a long-term relationship context. I don't think they're able to comprehend staying "touch-deprived" so to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Many men losing interest in womenWell that's until you realize the bottom of the totem pole is also a big part of why many tax paying systems aren't collapsing around economies in the world yet. The consequences of shrinking the amount of those willing to fund the tomfuckery of the ones in the top %-ile involved into this rat race dating environment will be very interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Many men losing interest in womenBаsеd pоst. So many male users in the sub are deprived dogs unablе to come to terms with the reality that they'll never be surrounded by harems of what is largely trаshy materialistic wоmеn. And that those same women will make their lives miserable if they have the misfortune of ending up marrying to some of them. The next step is to circumvent funding the bastard dysgenic products of the creatures involved in this rat race dating environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenYet they're still burdening us with their dysgеnic offsprings! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 03:53 AM |
| 7 | women don't like men dating within their social circlesjust bots programmed to talk amongst each other by Big Zuck himself or something? I can't tell about the particular group the OP is in but otherwise this is a very accurate description of the current state FB is in right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.You just proved my very previous point. Adiós! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.My experience and intuition suggest that you don't possess the necessary emotional clarity for this type of exchange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.You are either trolling, or you aren't playing with a full deck. Or you're simply unfamiliar with cultural norms foreign to you. So desperate to hurt me that you project your own insecurities in a futile attempt to rile me up. You get things backwards a lot it seems. Guess I struck too many nerves there, maybe you aren't ready for a mature discussion yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.Your fortitude is commendable but I suspect it may take an unforeseen toll on your mental health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.You're writing to what's likely a dude LARPing as a woman attempting to paint the entire gender as cruel and inconsiderate to the sub's oppressed demographic baiting for their rage and attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 10:48 PM |
| -2 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.Then why are you seething and attacking me personally for no reason. That's your subjective perception of my tone, not my problem you're too sensitive and get easily butthurt resorting to ad hominem attacks. Attractive people can use reddit. Sure, if that helps you sleep at night. We get it, you tried the apps and it didn't work out for you. No shame in that. I know you're in a tough place mentally so I won't hurt you any further by proving you wrong. But because it may happen you come across so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 10:30 PM |
| 0 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.Not triggered at all lmao If you were as attractive you wouldn't be crying abt dying friendless on Reddit cause of being incеl lol who you trying to fool here. And hot people don't need OLD anyway, IG and IRL are enough for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 10:22 PM |
| 1 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?Your rеtаrdаtion as a primate is indeed remarkable in the context animal behavior research, you should be grateful somebody is spending so much time analyzing your behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 10:18 PM |
| 5 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.Buddy not everyone has the privilege of living in the same dystopian shithole as you do. People in the rest of the developed world are not terminally online zombies with "hobbies" like porn, anime and video games. They still meet organically and are not on some bot-ridden scam app all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 10:13 PM |
| -1 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.Pretty sure it's a LARP ragebait. Anyway what a sad "human" being... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 10:08 PM |
| 7 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.has allowed me to understand the value of human connection. which is why you've admitted to meeting all your gf through OLD lmao. You still got a lot to learn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 10:01 PM |
| 1 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?Can't be worse than yours I can guarantee. You're higher than you think in the priority list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 09:28 PM |
| 1 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?I'd recommend you get sterilized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.Were you born and/or currently live in the United States? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 07:00 PM |
| 1 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?Sue your primary school teachers for not teaching you how to read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.There must be some huge discrepancy between attractiveness standards I feel? Where I'm from the women you linked are sex workers and not even inaccessible to non-sugar daddies. They are not that different from those you linked it seems, in terms of the group the most appeal to. I feel very bad if one needs to be accustomed to poorly done filler and boob jobs being the pinnacle of hotness. Even the so called Chads where I am from, while not being with the type of women you thin are plain, are wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 06:46 PM |
| 5 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.Yоu're joking but I bet the vast majority of the zоmbiеs participating here would find nothing weird about this proрosition. We're all just аnimаls that оnly need our primаl instincts satisfiеd after all, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?What a wasteful exchange that was. You have not comprehended a single sentence of anything I've written. It's evident from the fact you keep accusing me of things I have very recently in our exchange denied (i.e. my supposed objection to attractiveness being helpful. You didn't come up with electricity dude, everyone's with double digit IQ is aware of that. You're still tying women's entire human value to their appearances though, that's what anyone with half a brain would come up with. And the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.This comment will earn me pariah status for sure but wtf is going in the US?! Look at the girls I sent you. Women like that are above average. I just did and many men and women in my country would be of appalled by this type of aesthetic. They look completely unnatural, and not in the ethereal sense, in all of their photos. Based on their projected lifestyle, I'm not sure why you would even bother to get with such women unless you're some sugardaddy type of dude. In fact I'm pretty sure the wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?What a wasteful exchange that was. You have not comprehended a single sentence of anything I've written. It's evident from the fact you keep accusing me of things I have very recently in our exchange denied (i.e. being objectively attractive is helpful.) And the fact you believe I'm "guilting" speaks volumes about who is deeply concerned about losing their value in the meat dating market.. I hope you get well soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?I feel deeply sorry for anyone's intellect if they believe speaking up for anyone being ostracized by society means they're the same those that are being afflicted. Listen I despise doing this, but since it has become so common in the US centric online space: I'm under 25 years old with good dating life, in excellent health and physical condition thankfully it is the same for my family and social circle. Even most folks I know past the age of 55 look way younger than the typical and have been fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Inconvenient truths about each gender in modern societyFor men, lowering your standards can objectively increase your quality of life How does fucking someone you're barely attracted to help you with that? To come up with more realistic LARPs about my triple digits n-count on PPD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?You're just making this personal so I'm assuming you have nothing of value to contribute to this other than some completely dull NPC arguments. Stop strawmanning my points just to make yourself feel better about letting yourself go. What an absurd statement when all I told you about was that it's not about letting yourself go, but battling with forces that can leave you with lasting damage. Seems I was right to assume you'd put the blame on those with horrible illnesses to their lifestyle. Why a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?Sorry but you seem to display zero understand of what I've said. I literally told you this if you take care of yourself by eating healthy, exercising will do nothing when debilitating non-preventable diseases emerge, which are not uncommon at all past certain age. I'm afraid you'd be one of those who provide terrible advice to cancer patients on how they could've prevented their misfortune. People who look better have more leverage and more opportunities in dating… I'd end up providing a much la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?I’m saying that their “value” doesn’t drop as they age. That's exactly what you said tho, you just excluded those who remain "hot" throughout their lives. Good looking 45 yr old divorcee? She’s doing just fine Hot people always have leverage, regardless of their age. If you’re attractive in your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, you’ll always have lots of options. It just takes more effort to stay hot as you age. Do you know what happens to those who believe the aging process is under their control? No one's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 04:17 PM |
| 1 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?While I find the view about women's dropping "SMV" -I find the term appaling- past an arbitrary age totally preposterous, you're making it sound as if only those lucking out and fulfilling what the redpill dictates attractive in women are deserving of attention when they're older. Yes, it's true as a matter of fact but the way you articulated yourself during this entire exchange looks like you literally believe anyone who has been through shit due to uncontrollable health issue like cancer, depr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 02:14 AM |
| – | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?The evidence quality users cite here is shockingly trash tier. Haitians are cannibals!!! Source: @realdоnаldtrumр on Twitter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 01:53 AM |
| 0 | Men should care about friendship for the sake of friendship on its own, but if that’s not compelling enough, they should care because friendship has benefits for potentially leading to romantic loveIf you weren't as dumb as the idiоt who didn't even read the comment you'd understand that the gist was that all the evolutionary psychology BS you nеgаtivе IQ roaches love quoting is largely pseudoscientific and has indeed been used to justify negative stereotypes about groups of people, in this case women and men, and that has historically included racial groups too. But actually, no. If any of your loved female family members were to be victims of brutal sexual assault, you should share with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps ExistYes let me rephrase it using the previous comment: Women may say they have no need for a relationship when they can be single and have situation or fwb with chad, however they're still crying about not getting any commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Men should care about friendship for the sake of friendship on its own, but if that’s not compelling enough, they should care because friendship has benefits for potentially leading to romantic loveMonke stop monke go watch futbal now 🙈 👉👀 🏈 🇺🇸 🐖 🍔 You clearly have neither Try again now! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Men should care about friendship for the sake of friendship on its own, but if that’s not compelling enough, they should care because friendship has benefits for potentially leading to romantic loveLast night your hot BBW mom was getting railed by some dudes 11 inch BBC, it's reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Men should care about friendship for the sake of friendship on its own, but if that’s not compelling enough, they should care because friendship has benefits for potentially leading to romantic loveI'm sorry you were born rеtагdеd, better luck next life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Men should care about friendship for the sake of friendship on its own, but if that’s not compelling enough, they should care because friendship has benefits for potentially leading to romantic loveImaging being proud of having the attention span of a primary schooler lol. As I said, anyone showing any empathy to anyone in the USA is spineless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 09:57 PM |
| -1 | Men should care about friendship for the sake of friendship on its own, but if that’s not compelling enough, they should care because friendship has benefits for potentially leading to romantic loveYou sure aren't a very bright ape are you 🦍 🦍 Ah you're American, should've seen that coming. Congrats on showing you're the part of one of the most dense peoples in the world who voted for orange-man again. Hopefully he succeeds in rewriting your wondrous constitution and never leaves office. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Men should care about friendship for the sake of friendship on its own, but if that’s not compelling enough, they should care because friendship has benefits for potentially leading to romantic loveBiologically, yes we are. Biologically, women are driven to want bigger, taller, stronger males to provide the best possible offspring. It is what it is. I really need to make a thread to present some examples of why the evolutionary psychology research often quoted by redpill is of extremely poor quality. For the sake of brevity: they've been consistently ignoring mammal studies and neuroscience research that have failed to validate any of their hypotheses about all sorts of behaviors in humans… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Men should care about friendship for the sake of friendship on its own, but if that’s not compelling enough, they should care because friendship has benefits for potentially leading to romantic loveJFL at least he could've cited a more popular medium like IG or TikTok. Yeah I'm sure there's 0 LARPing taking place on that sub and everything written there is true, the average penis length is 8 inches etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Men should care about friendship for the sake of friendship on its own, but if that’s not compelling enough, they should care because friendship has benefits for potentially leading to romantic loveBruh this was trendy back in 2022, it's low effort at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 09:12 PM |
| 2 | "The bar is in hell" and other such sayings...Damn wholesome reddit moment 🙏 🙏 🙏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:44 PM |
| 1 | "The bar is in hell" and other such sayings...bInGo Don't mind me, I just find anyone using this a word to express agreement a complete rеtагd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:41 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsOk we get it, you're stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:19 PM |
| – | On the a-sociality of many men todayAnything regular redditors say should be disregarded, you shouldn't take seriously the lowest form of life who happen to have online presence. They're all Americans anyway (which is a more polite way of saying they're dumb) And anyway all people post break-up display poor judgement as a coping behavior, it's nothing new if you're familiar with psychology. The ex who had the best and biggest dick now has the tiniest shrimp in existence etc. Don't get caught up into that stuff too much. Now if dur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:18 PM |
| – | On the a-sociality of many men todaywhy bother being good when it’s your fault anyway. you were born with original sin. Let's temporarily agree on the absurdity of this statement. That means that being bad enough could easily lead you end up with legal trouble. If you really are around these types of people you shouldn't even bother with sleeping with anyone at all. You're risking way too much for nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:11 PM |
| 0 | "The bar is in hell" and other such sayings...Are you seriously saying most guys regardless of appearance have better chances, whether for something short or long term, with way above average women than with average ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:06 PM |
| – | On the a-sociality of many men todayWhy should similarly broken women be expected to do anything else other than that? Because that means you should be ok when that happens as well, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYep, I'm right to assume anyone replying with based has the IQ of a chimp. Thanks for nothing ig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 03:41 PM |
| – | On the a-sociality of many men todayFriend you're conversing with people literally believing women are nothing more than breeding machines useless past age 30 and that there's always a hotter/taller/richer man out of there (note the complete lack of reference to other traits) for even the ugliest woman so why should women be expected to settle for anything less? Also both genders are supposed to just "spread their genes" as much as possible so there's no time for vanilla/boring shit like romance, being good friends, having common … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 03:33 PM |
| – | On the a-sociality of many men todaySo you're essentially admitting to responding poorly to a traumatic experience you had? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 03:26 PM |
| – | On the a-sociality of many men todayThis is this entire subreddit for you, and they're very proud of it as you see from the replies below. I share the exact same sentiment as you, these people seem to have totally lost it. I just don't want to have to pay for all their health insurance and pension, that's what concerns me the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you be upset if your girlfriend got you a subscription as a gift?Flowers are a very personal gift, typically reflecting what you think they would like and that you thought of her in that moment, and a monthly subscription to it indicates that you did not select these flowers for her. Not only that, it's also considered an act of spontaneity by most so reducing it to something regular, especially with getting a subscription and not just ensuring you bring them flowers more often, completely kills the romantic vibe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 03:05 PM |
| 5 | Why is it difficult for you to understand the validity of the idea of overcoming male (and not only) loneliness through romantic relationships?At the same time, a good romantic relationship can cover both the friendly (through mental connection with a partner) level of communication and also the need for romance and family. I mean, this is completely out of touch with the subreddit's base and hypocritical considering most men here admit to wanting nothing to do with women other than having sex with them. Some even support that since you're "evolutionarily" supposed to spread your genes as much as possible being male, being friends with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | For people who are coupled: how many of these posts seem to be from people who just need better parents, aunties, uncles?The site you're browsing is literally infested with subreddits celebrating and encouraging completely fucked up shit. If by going backwards you mean they view sex as more degrading than ever before, yes that is the case indeed. You're completely out of touch with reality if you think everything's getting less sexualized. Pay a visit to /r/PornIsMisogyny, seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 02:49 PM |
| 1 | For people who are coupled: how many of these posts seem to be from people who just need better parents, aunties, uncles?The site you're browsing is literally infested with completely fucked up 'kinks.' If by going backwards you mean they view sex as more degrading than ever before, yes that is the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 02:46 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsThat's probably beyond anyone's ability here. Yes and you're exactly demonstrating that by bringing up my personal life. Here's why any type of reply to it is pointless and you should just get back to explain to me how the arrogant parent comment is of any benefit to any person who doesn't hold unhealthy views about women. If I were to tell you that I have experienced fulfilling reciprocating relationships with intimacy, you'd doubt the validity of my claims as it's supposedly impossible in your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 02:32 PM |
| 1 | For people who are coupled: how many of these posts seem to be from people who just need better parents, aunties, uncles?I don't know them personally and I cannot speak for their mental health as I'm not an expert on the subject. All I know is that they engaged to similar degrading sexual behavior as the OP and that whenever they attempted any non short-term relationships they failed to commit. Some had their marriages and families completely ruined. This can happen for a myriad of reasons of course, but the examples I have in mind all had objectively deviant sexual behaviors. No, this does not include having had … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 02:04 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYes I'm aware of that. What I'm asking is how does it benefit any man? Do you like that they're admitting to supposedly following the evil female nature the redpill describes? Ok, and? What does this exactly help you with? Come to terms that all women are greedy, never satisfied and..? How could this be helpful to any type of man not wanting to follow the materialistic dating lifestyle? Unless that was the point all along i.e. men should quit pursuing long-term relationships and should just use … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 01:46 PM |
| 1 | For people who are coupled: how many of these posts seem to be from people who just need better parents, aunties, uncles?Well all I know is people who did similar things ended up building a defective household and had their marriages broken because they were unable to commit to their children and their spouses. But of course this is Reddit where a happy marriage could literally mean letting your wife participate in orgies because that's what the hubby gets off from right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 12:49 PM |
| 1 | For people who are coupled: how many of these posts seem to be from people who just need better parents, aunties, uncles?Ok it's clear you have a completely different perception of what dating, sex and intimacy is so I think there's no point in arguing further. Which is why giving or receive advice to and from you is pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 12:46 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsI think this clears things up more now, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 12:44 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsLol yeah I'm the antisocial weird one and not all the pornsick men and women here who have become armchair physiognomists. The irony of you calling yourself normal while bringing up sex robots for no reason. The reason why they’re clearly on your mind so much is because you know that they’re your future. Nope, sexbots are only for shallow sub-human 'beings' who believe everyone else is just a piece of meat to them. That does not include me and is actually a projection on your part. I feel sad fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 12:43 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsI know you had to say you had a partner because the market will not balance out in a way you like it, and you don'twantto accept that. It will balance out by getting worse. Again, life isn't fair. This sentence is a incoherent sorry I didn't get what were you trying to convey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 12:39 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flawsisn’t your height preference which could impact physical attraction, doesn’t have the physique that you’re looking for, The only ones that are a bit unreasonable are “Any noticeable physical issue” Is English your second language? I miss it when those who persisted on shallow traits so much while claiming satisfied with everything else were heavily shamed by others. No you're absolutely insane if you reject a man you're getting along with great and are attracted to because he's only 5'9" instead… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:53 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsListen I think what they're trying to ask is if you're as stringent with psychological personality traits as you are with physical standards, which is a valid question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:34 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYou and everyone else applauding her for being honest and bAsEd are beyond salvation. She literally admits to being a cumrag for abusive men and that's OK for you because she's perpetuating low IQ redpill beliefs about female nature... which helps you exactly how? By opting out of dating because a potentially female troll on the Internet admitted to redpill BS? As if that is going to help somehow with your animalistic-levels urge for sexual contact? Cause most of you are deprived dogs for the mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:18 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYou and everyone else applauding her for being honest and bAsEd are beyond salvation. She literally admits to being a cumrag for abusive men and that's OK for you because she's perpetuating low IQ redpill beliefs about female nature... which helps you exactly how? By opting out of dating because a potentially female troll on the Internet admitted to redpill BS? As if that is going to help somehow with your animalistic-levels urge for sexual contact? Cause most of you are deprived dogs for the mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:17 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYou and everyone else applauding her for being honest and bAsEd are beyond salvation. She literally admits to being a cumrag for abusive men and that's OK for you because she's perpetuating low IQ redpill beliefs about female nature... which helps you exactly how? By opting out of dating because a potentially female troll on the Internet admitted to redpill BS? As if that is going to help somehow with your animalistic-levels urge for sexual contact? Cause most of you are deprived dogs for the mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:17 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYou and everyone else applauding her for being honest and bAsEd are beyond salvation. She literally admits to being a cumrag for abusive men and that's OK for you because she's perpetuating low IQ redpill beliefs about female nature... which helps you exactly how? By opting out of dating because a potentially female troll on the Internet admitted to redpill BS? As if that is going to help somehow with your animalistic-levels urge for sexual contact? Cause most of you are deprived dogs for the mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:17 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYou and everyone else applauding her for being honest and bAsEd are beyond salvation. She literally admits to being a cumrag for abusive men and that's OK for you because she's perpetuating low IQ redpill beliefs about female nature... which helps you exactly how? By opting out of dating because a potentially female troll on the Internet admitted to redpill BS? As if that is going to help somehow with your animalistic-levels urge for sexual contact? Cause most of you are deprived dogs for the mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:17 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYou and everyone else applauding her for being honest and bAsEd are beyond salvation. She literally admits to being a cumrag for abusive men and that's OK for you because she's perpetuating low IQ redpill beliefs about female nature... which helps you exactly how? By opting out of dating because a potentially female troll on the Internet admitted to redpill BS? As if that is going to help somehow with your animalistic-levels urge for sexual contact? Cause most of you are deprived dogs for the mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:17 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYou missed the part where she doesn't specify what is she's filtering for... and it doesn't look like it's the "important" stuff like not being an abuser, being kind etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:15 AM |
| 2 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYou and everyone else applauding her for being honest and bAsEd are beyond salvation. She literally admits to being a cumrag for abusive men and that's OK for you because she's perpetuating low IQ redpill beliefs about female nature... which helps you exactly how? By opting out of dating because a potentially female troll on the Internet admitted to redpill BS? As if that is going to help somehow with your animalistic-levels urge for sexual contact? Cause most of you are deprived dogs for the mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:13 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYou and everyone else applauding her for being bRuTaLlY hOnEsT are beyond salvation. She literally admits to being a cumrag for abusive men and that's OK for because she's perpetuating low IQ redpill beliefs about female nature... which helps you exactly how? By opting out of dating because a potentially female troll on the Internet admitted to redpill BS? As if that is going to help somehow with your animalistic-levels urge for sexual contact? Cause most of you are deprived dogs for the most pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:11 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYou and everyone else applauding her for being bRuTaLlY hOnEsT are beyond salvation. She literally admits to being a cumrag for abusive men and that's OK for because she's perpetuating low IQ redpill beliefs about female nature... which helps you exactly how? By opting out of dating because a potentially female troll on the Internet admitted to redpill BS? As if that is going to help somehow with your animalistic-levels urge for sexual contact? Cause most of you are deprived dogs for the most pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:11 AM |
| 1 | For people who are coupled: how many of these posts seem to be from people who just need better parents, aunties, uncles?It can be scary for people that want but don't have monogamous love to understand that people have experience before, which strengthens them. Very bad strawman. Experience is subjective apparently and yours is more akin to being degrading rather than intimate. Anyone not wanting their partner to have a past of being a dick sucking street hoe doesn't mean they want a virgin. Most would want people with a history capable of demonstrating intimacy, and this does not include anyone participating in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:58 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsWomen with the same end up with better men. Better in what terms? Hotter and macho? Maybe. More kind and respecting? Doubtful. It's funny when women try to imitate the tough love redpill mindset about evil human nature and at the same time minimize the ethical cost brought by the gender in charge. And it's not about karma or about one getting what some random moral system determines is right or wrong. The problem is all of you are an economic burden to society which includes people not followin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:50 AM |
| 1 | For people who are coupled: how many of these posts seem to be from people who just need better parents, aunties, uncles?If you're curious. I'm monogamously married to a man and happy. Judging from what you wrote later and especially I've always been clear that I'm lusty. it would be reasonable to assume your definition of monogamous may not be in accordance to the common one. It could be the case where your husband did similar stuff when he was younger and both agree to claim happily monogamously married while you're still silently agreeing that sex/kissing/flirting/bj etc. with someone else once in a while doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:34 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYou and everyone else applauding here for being bRuTaLlY hOnEsT are beyond salvation. She literally admits to being a cumrag for abusive men and that's OK because she's perpetuating low IQ redpill beliefs about female nature... which will help you exactly how? By opting out of dating because a potentially female troll on the Internet admitted to redpill BS? Help me understand any positive insight coming out of this other than becoming even more misanthropic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:21 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsJust lol at falling for that troll, nobody writing like this I'm mostly able to because I'm extremely facially attractive. I receive shocked looks, double takes, weird stares on the daily. isn't not larping | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:14 AM |
| 2 | UNPOPULAR OPINION: MEN REACH THEIR PEAK BETWEEN LATE TEENS TO EARLY 20S, JUST LIKE WOMENThis posts sound like a revenge fantasy response to the female peak at creepy p3d0philic age threshold one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:06 AM |
| 1 | For people who are coupled: how many of these posts seem to be from people who just need better parents, aunties, uncles?back in my heyday I had a promiscuous phase that I don't regret and thought maybe my insights might apply. You should've elaborated a bit further on that. It could be the case that what you have in mind could barely be described as sexual experience and even be considered prudish/vanilla by many nowadays. It'd also help evaluate the validity of your opening sentence I am monogamously married twenty years and happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 02:37 AM |
| 1 | For people who are coupled: how many of these posts seem to be from people who just need better parents, aunties, uncles?This take is unfortunately irrelevant and very similar to boomers making fun of younger people not being able to afford a home today, when in their days being the equivalent of a McDonalds employee was enough for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps ExistWomen are programmed to pursue men with the most options, and men with options aren't looking for relationships first. If this is really an evolutionary adapation our primal ancestors determined to gift us with, we've been failing humanity for a very long amount of time.. or maybe it isn't and all of this is just dogmatism rebranded as evolutionary science, and of very low quality. I'll confide in you, I used to be fascinated about all sorts of modern sexual/social behaviors being largely evolut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps ExistThose aren't the types of games that comprise healthy relationships. I advise you take a look at what sub you're in... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 01:59 AM |
| 0 | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps ExistIn a real way, women don’t need men anymore — they can have casual sex or go to sperm bank to become pregnant, so no man need by in their life beyond occasional contacts. This sentiment which is largely representative of the sub's opinion is enough to determine that all of you are completely done for. So your husband/wife should be nothing more than a breeding/resource machine for you? Aren't you supposed to at least want someone with common interests and personalities? These are all rhetorical … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 01:52 AM |
| 0 | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps ExistSorry but this is an absurd take lacking any sociological considerations. The type of man you're talking about being a shitty partner is exactly the one a woman has a very high chance of meeting if she's into social media dating apps. The sad truth is that they get off being with them due to feeling more sexually attracted to them, even if they know they're being used and will be treated horribly. Hell I wish most women would vet for toxic relationship traits. All they seem to do is the exact op… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps ExistYes it should be a good thing in the absurd sense of satisfying insatiable and supposedly critical sexual desires however they're still crying about not getting commitment. In fact based on that many women should be striving in dating as of now, yet they still legitimately believe they're as disadvantaged as disabled people unable to get any type of intimacy, it's crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps ExistI don't know how old are you or the age of the previous comment... but one thing that's true is that young folks (currently younger that 35 yo) are unsalvagable, men or women. For all these young dudes you're rightly complaining about, aspiring to an absurd materialistic lifestyle, there is the exact same amount of young women striving for the same stuff. They exhibit attention seeking behavior at an alarming rate, which is the most fucked up part. These used to be fringe minorities then normal … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps ExistLook, as much as I despise the SMV lingo and all that.. the previous comment has a point about the fiercely competitive environment in dating apps. This is true based only on the people participating. I don't even care about the exact % of people being active there, even if it's the entire world, anyone actively engaging there is completely done for. They all have this hedonistic abundance mentality and their profile and demeanor exude cringe aspiring motivational speaker/guru vibes. All they're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.We have people getting married to pets and plants already. We never know what kind of weird shit will get normalized in the next generation. Statements like these make me question how hopelessly terminally online most people here are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsThe average 36 year old woman is hotter than the average 23 year old woman. Debatable tbh. There are men, regardless of their appeal, who find a lot of sub-25yos looking too neotenous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsdw too much, the american-centric brainwashed audience here finds it hard to believe there are tons of physically appealing women past 30/35/40. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How much do you think your car matters for dating as a man?All I know is that it used to be the height equivalent in terms of attraction of TRP about two decades ago, and many grifter gurus back then vehemently denied the importance of appearance/height. Today I suppose it still can be used to invite a not particularly appealing audience if someone's into the more lash lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 06:59 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”How is saying that Most men are at a point where no matter how appealing their behavior is, they won't be able to elicit attraction, at least from a very broad audience. It's clear that the physical traits women find attractive in men are not common A 5 or a 4 or lower can still be attractive to someone. not contradictory? Unless you meant that the 4/5 can be "attractive" in terms of resource providing. And what's exactly that you're not agreeing with them about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 06:56 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”Yeah so what you're saying is completely contradictory to your initial statement: A 5 or a 4 or lower can still be attractive to someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Shrink tackles Reddit’s question on lonelinessPsychologists themselves have stated that isolation is twice as harmful as obesity, and increases the risk of premature death as much as being a chain smoker. That's not up for debate. It's not up for debate, but it isn't explicitly stated that isolation and celibacy are interchangeable. I feel the consensus might be towards complete lack of social relationships, whether that includes romance or not (family/friends). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 04:20 AM |
| – | Why do men crave romantic interest so much?It's so funny, only a few years back before the dilution of brainrot content into the masses, it used to refer to more invasive approaches like surgery, skin treatments etc. I always find statements like the one made by the ambitious person before about bare minimums like: losing fat, fixing sleep schedule being some part of a sophisticated ritual that will help thrive their sexual life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 04:03 AM |
| – | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”What do you mean by this? Crudely put, sub8 or death is a very common sentiment here I feel, and it doesn't simply intend to mean the abudance but rather the chance of ever finding someone. Its commonly said on here that a good personality can make an ugly guy hotter to women. Well yes there's a point where no matter how appealing your behavior is, you won't be able to elicit attraction, at least from a very broad audience. They also claim attraction can grow over time but I dont believe that ei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 03:47 AM |
| – | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”I'm not saying that you are 2 or 8 or whatever. What I'm saying is that if someone's attractive cut off for a relationship is 4+, if they see you as a 3- then you don't even get considered. You are automatically filtered out as a potential partner before anything can or could develop. I think the vast majority of people operate that way and there's nothing particularly problematic about it. This doesn't excuse impoliteness or any form of mistreatment towards them ofc but no one has to force them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 03:37 AM |
| – | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”A 5 or a 4 or lower can still be attractive to someone. I'm 100% with you on that, and I don't even deny that their pool may be not be what they had in mind, but if you read most posts here, a lot seem to be lining up with essential romantic life belonging exclusively to those who are 8+. Not simply being easier, just being accessible. But some people on here act like they would date someone they think is physically unattractive because of personality. And that I disagree with. I dont think popu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 03:11 AM |
| – | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”As much I despise gen-x boomers believing it's as easy for a 2/10 to have an equally satisfactory sex-life with an 8/10, I have trouble with the way you put it, cause it makes it sound like anyone less that 8/10, even those considerably over 2/10, is doomed. I honestly don't think even the most naive bluepiller thinks uggos have an easy time or that people should attempt dating people they have zero attraction to. But is it really binary in the minds of so many today, that if being less than 80%… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 03:00 AM |
| – | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”Everyone wants to be with someone they are physically attracted to. No one would deny that and it would be absurd to do so, but your phrasing is making it sound as it is reserved for only those belonging in the very top percentiles of attractiveness. Is everyone really only interested to be with a person with 9 out of 10 random people would think is attractive instead of someone where the popular opinion was "mixed", even if they found themselves interested in that person? If yes, I really don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 02:51 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”I don't expect anybody to suddenly become blind to other people. But there is a difference between thinking "yeah, they are attractive" and doing "please fuck me right now" eyes. Seems like a good majority of people treats the two scenarios interchangeably. Well no wonder the divorce rates are skyrocketing... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 02:34 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”Of course you lust after other people, but you should hide it as much as possible. Lol and then Murica wonders why divorce rates are skyrocketing. Listen, no one right on their mind expects even those in unicorn relationships to stop being able to evaluate someone else's attractiveness other than their partners. This is absurd and anyone saying they're acting like that are being insincere. If someone is really satisfied with whoever they're with, they can acknowledge someone else is sexually app… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 02:31 AM |
| – | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”This doesn't sound as helpful as it seems though. It's essentially telling them they have to be hot (read: have very high "popularity" rate) and also exude attractive social behaviors. This only discourages people with low popularity rates to bother with doing anything. And no we're not talking about easily malleable things like hygiene and weight controlling. If that's the case, then the conversation has only philosophical - sociological meaning. It'd be more helpful to say that even if you are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 02:11 AM |
| – | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”I literally say passing the looks threshold. Someone else said it earlier and I feel this is why you get also called a bit out by some other users. Cause to most people here, you're making it seem as you're implying that not only you have to be in the top %-ile attractiveness , but you also have to have the socially desirable personality to accompany it, beside obvious fundamental "table manners". If that's the case, the post is far from helpful and only reinforces TRP notions about having to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Has there been a noticeable rise of women saying they want kind decent men as of late?The self-own that user is experiencing is unbelievable. They always claim it's women who are self-contradictory but honestly this dude far exceeds even the most examples of women self-contradicting I've encountered. The Internet was a big mistake, USA needs to go extinct ASAP etc etc ig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Has there been a noticeable rise of women saying they want kind decent men as of late?What a psycho post that was jfl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 04:14 AM |
| 6 | Sure, men are “thirsty” but women are possessive. It’s natural.Cause it's 100% BS most of the time. Even those "researchers" who write these absurdities are stating that they are hypotheses. Even with the advancement of neuroimaging and mammalian brain studies, we know that only some very primitive emotions like fight-or-flight, fear etc. could have evolutionary basis. Higher cognitions otoh, such as the entire intersexual dynamics, speculated to be adaptive behaviors by pop evopsych/TRP have been baseless for the entire history of the field. Remember, no o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 05:23 PM |
| 2 | There are no consequences to being a "bad person" and no incentives to be a "good person" when dating for short-term.If you lie, cheat and manipulate your only companions through live will be those that do the same. This is an accurate generalization of men claiming to have had success by forming a redpilled personality. They almost always attract women qualitatively the same as them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 05:13 PM |
| 2 | There are no consequences to being a "bad person" and no incentives to be a "good person" when dating for short-term.In fact the studies that showed correlation between dark triad personality and appeal have conveniently never controlled for physical attractiveness of the subjects... or if they did, they determined women's preferences based on online questionnaires just f lol this is complete junk science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 05:10 PM |
| 4 | The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating worldStudies like Buss (1989) demonstrate cross-cultural consistency in stated mate preferences. Which btw have become obsolete, considering the modern dating environment, and with the emergence of better methods for evaluating revealed preferences through speed dating experiments, are actually inaccurate, as you'll realise that both genders' priorities importance converge, even if the surveyed women 50 years ago stated otherwise. Its irrelevance is also apparent from the fact that you stated If your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 09:50 PM |
| – | Expecting for men to pay for your first date sets a bad precedent for the relationshipI can't find the source but I'm certain in one of the "foundational" evopsych readings TRP appropriates, it was stated that women are primarily are attracted to display of resources and status. Without one needing to endorse or condemn this, it would seem self-sabbotaging for someone subscribing to TRP to challenge one of its core beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 09:44 PM |
| – | Is a lot of this stuff an American cultural problem?Can you blame them when US is the world's No. 1 mass subculture exporter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Is a lot of this stuff an American cultural problem?I really think this is an American cultural problem with roots in American consumerism which has unfortunately spread into romantic relationships. It shouldn't come as a surprise that the foundational TRP theories regarding evolutionary psychology are of 100% American origin. I know this doesn't sound right but each year my empathy for the people living there and consuming all this media is getting frailer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 09:20 PM |
| 6 | Whenever People Say They Have Problems Dating, Most of The Time It’s ThisFunny thing is the advice of prominent Evolutionary Psychology researchers, that actually are some whose ideas have been heavily appropriated by TRP philosophy, is that there are things you can more easily change to improve your chances (??). That includes developing positive personality traits (humor, ambition) and physical fitness (upper body training). Kind of amusing that the very same people think publicly admitting that they consider men to be insemination machines and women eugenicist gol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 05:05 AM |
| 0 | Has Mandatory Use of Dating Apps Changed the Game?It would be more accurate to say it's better for short-term pairing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 04:55 AM |
| 3 | Has Mandatory Use of Dating Apps Changed the Game?It's not like you can just meet someone at work like you used to; now that's against company policy or considered harassment. You won't meet someone at church, because people aren't religious anymore. At school or university, maybe, but that ends eventually, and it could easily be considered harassment under campus regulations. Everyone reading this keep in mind that this is a very US-centric POV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.I can tell you that as a 6'0" man, I was once regarded as tall, I have been told that I am short. You may have been described as shorter cause of height inflation but one can assure, unless you moved to a place were the average height was significantly higher than the one you were regarded as tall, the perception hasn't changed. This is the joke about 6'2 being the new 6'0. In fact 6'0 is probably the height with the largest frauding density. Also, I trust your claim as indeed 183 cm is regarded… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 04:47 AM |
| – | Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet?Pointless question as stated vs revealed preferences diverge. I'm not even sure people are aware of their true height. At least in the US those assuring that they're average height frequently turn out to be up to three inches shorter than their claim when measured properly. You probably subconsciously exclude those who may not care because they aren't desirable to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Why would anyone keep in contact with ex hookups when they’re in a monogamous relationship? You'd be unpleasantly surprised how common is this in many marriages today, I've seen it happen a lot but it's not with people I'm close friends with. And how the concerned partner, man or woman, is instantly dismissed as insecure when they point out they're not okay with it. And what almost always happens is that they get cheated on. I’m talking about women who fucked around a bit when they were in their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:01 PM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Honestly I wouldn't even count you as having experienced hookup culture, if anything I'm impressed you haven't felt any type of FOMO. But anyway interesting to hear that two encounters were enough to make you feel it's not worth it, especially having been a virgin at this age where one could argue you'd need to "make up for lost time". yet at the same time you are all obsessed with porn whores and want hookups. This is exactly where the problem lies, lol. Wanting to have as many as possible inex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 01:30 PM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Also, you goddman hypocrite, you're looking for casual. Why aren't you a useless piece of shit for sleeping around? If these are the users that make those bold claims about women's body counts being detrimental, they indeed show remarkable levels of non-existent self-awareness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 01:22 PM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?My friends who rode the merrygo round This needs clarification, honestly. In this sub there are users who think anything more than one body count is promiscuity which is completely absurd ofc. But otoh, I don't think you're really talking about people, whether that is men or women, who had like three different sexual partners for every season of the year spanning their entire young adulthood and still keep regular contact with them during their (monogamous) relationships, are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 01:01 PM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Yeah I pointed that to them that they used the wrong word for that. It's simply disrespectful and gender agnostic IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 07:18 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?It's worse than heroin truly. But I'd like to clarify when I'm talking about validation driven people I mean those who legit have had sex with tons of others, not those who had the occasional vacation flings during their younger years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 07:17 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Again, it's illogical to think that because someone has sex while single that they will cheat. Having had some occasional vacation sex when young and single, no of course not, it's part of exploring your sexuality actually. But if you have to spend a considerable amount of time listing the people you've had sex with, it's almost guaranteed you'll have a very hard time having your validation needs (cause that's what it's all about when someone has slept around way too much) met from it. There's n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 07:08 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Zero to do with masculinity and everything to do with respect to your partner. I'd find a promiscuous man introducing his woman, who hasn't agreed to an open relationships, to his (supposedly) former side chicks equally appaling. And no, that doesn't mean you need some virgin with negative social IQ. But let's say that keeping contact with many former FWBs who also happen to be single isn't the most respectful thing to do in a monogamous relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 06:59 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?I agree 100% with the first part of your reply. You can definitely be loyal in relationships and not only is being a virgin not a necessity, it's more likely to backfire as fomo at a certain point. I find it very restrictive for the sexuality of a person to tell them that they should only explore it with one person for a lifetime. And it's pointless to expect something like that anyway when the overconsumption culture has taken over dating. Of course that is entirely different from being a perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 06:47 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?If you even read the studies indicating past sexual history is the number one predictor of infidelity you clearly missed the part that men are not exempt from the consequences of having casual sex. You also become a bad bet yourself for being faithful in a relationship. Yes, thank you. There are some previous comments saying that promiscuous people end up getting married, but that is not the point at all. How are their relationships going to end up is the million dollar question. Most of the tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 06:36 AM |
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