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Don't idealize a relationship too early. You sound young, so dating can be exciting. Keep your head above your heart, and remember he will show you who he is through his actions. No need to be insecure, as long as you remember your many great qualities and strengths, as well! All the best, don't doubt yourself just bc he seems like he has it all together!! 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:02 PM
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Sounds like he belongs on the sex offender registry. 🤢 The way he described what he was looking for, like just absolutely nauseating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:28 PM
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Honestly I understand why you would say so. She doesn't hesitate to stick up for herself. She's always been vocal about ethical issues, and I appreciate Cardi's political stance. Although, I have to say... her continuously going back to OffCheating made me lose respect for her. I get that it's the child's father so there's an instinctive need to make it work, but that man cheats as much as he breathes. Why Cardi? Why? Girl has got a sizable amount of wealth, I'm sure her net-worth is great too. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:12 PM
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Pickme Chronicles has got to be the most creative thing I've heard today! (I might just ask if I can name a subreddit with it, lmao) Please don't beat your younger-misinformed-self up! You've grown and recognize the patriarchy and Liberal Feminism for what it is now. We were conditioned from a young age to look past the most terrible flaws men have so it's pretty natural that your younger-self overlooked it. I still think that while reading it might've been a bittersweet experience, at least you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 04:47 PM
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I agree! I love that we have this community and I can only see us growing more in numbers!🥰 It's a beautiful thing to have such a sacred female space! Especially online! Maybe have it branched out into another subreddit? Like ZVM/LVM Encounters or something lol (ofc sounds easy to say) but for overall, perhaps a biweekly scrote reminder is more than enough. I feel like the usual post content about those stories need to take a different route, just my opinion.😟😬🤐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 04:25 PM
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LMFAO omg definitely! They have been engineered out by toys a while ago!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:49 PM
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Yass lol I'll happily be "lame" too. 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:47 PM
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Oh god. You're so right. They think McDonald's and Netflix is enough to spring violent kinks on you. "So you're not into -insert disgusting and violating act someone who genuinely cares for another would think to do-?? Omg I thought you were cool, you're lame" apparently it's "lame" in my generation to not want to engage in the most degrading stuff. Like wth is wrong with ppl. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:25 PM
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I think men have collectively stopped being competent in bed for a while now and they don't care to learn. I vehemently believe they just want to lovebomb so they can manipulate you for kinks and use as a human flesh light, bc fr that's what it feels like having sex in the modern dating scene. There is no regard for your individual pleasure. Even our orgasms have to be an extension of their egos. I'm younger but still wouldn't go near the men in my city with a ten-foot pole because I'm happily s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:14 PM
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He built his business on her emotional labour. If she didn't provide him support who's to say where he would've been? His so called "successful" business was literally due to the fact that she constantly emotionally supported him. It's easy for projects to take off when you make your gf (sorry, fiance of 3 years) your personal assistant, especially when you can sleep with her. She was his stepping stone and it's sick. Stories like these demonstrate to me the underlying selfishness men have towar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:03 PM
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How is she not embarrassed by this? If these are the sad lengths pickmeishas go through just so they can flex how they"keep a man", I'll happily stay single. She is one step away from changing this man's diapers. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:09 AM
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I'm sorry for the long comment, but your story, OP sincerely breaks my heart. Be kind to yourself. Remember what has happened in the past doesn't define anything, because you were in a toxic environment surrounded by gross, terrible people. Your parents should've protected you more, as you are still and were still a kid then. You must now re-learn how to care for your inner child, as this was something extremely traumatic to go through. It won't go away overnight, unfortunately. You are still VE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 05:01 AM
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I feel this so much, fr. I'm sorry for what you've been through, I can sadly relate...Never again. Take my poor gold ✨🥇🥇🥇🥇🥇🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:41 AM
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Yes! I LOVE THIS POST🙌 We are not charity's for men just so they can use and abuse us while they are not even putting an ounce of effort towards their own looks. I'm SICK of the narrative that ugly men treat you better. All you're left with is a truly horrific sexual experience and more therapy appointments, tbh. I see it so much in my area, how such amazing women are with these short, sandals-sock wearing crusty neckbeards! Even if they're not straight up unattractive, they're obviously all pun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:36 AM
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Men's Beard's HAVE FECAL MATTER IN THEM. Why are we pretending periods are gross when the lack of hygiene of the average man is akin to an actual🗑️ fire? The fact that she apologized. Oh god. I would've told him to pack it up if it offends him so. Gross man-child negs poor girl about disposal of her period pad when he clearly doesn't even have a clean home to begin with?? (her story mentioned the trash overflowing in the first place) why are men who don't understand our basic anatomy trying to d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:47 PM
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I discovered when you recoil it's literally your body saying "NO, GET AWAY" I hate that I had to find that out the hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:40 PM
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Yes, exactly! It most definitely is your gut saying "he's repulsive, don't do it!" At least for me, I had to break up with him because he started making fun of my workouts and whenever I would go for a run he would throw a temper tantrum telling me I'm being obnoxious for wanting to look "athletic" and workout. I need runs for my mental health, so after many months of gaining weight, I couldn't recognize myself in the mirror and just decided to ghost him. I couldn't take the constant negs about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:39 PM
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Yes thank you!! I really appreciate your response. The amount of times I've been told to just dismiss looks, especially as a person who takes personal pride in working out and TRYING to put effort in when going out, it's really sad how we're told "love will grow, looks don't matter" when it comes to men. Because of this, I now feel repulsion when I think of sex because I've never once had a positive sexual experience. They were all disappointing/gross, and only cared about themselves. I'm done g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:27 PM
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This. For me it's the best way to describe being with a man you're forced to be attracted to, it's a constant "ICK" feeling, like your whole being feels gross afterwards. So glad I'm not alone in this. 💓 Btw, I'm sorry you had to deal with such a cheap loser, men like this use us as goalposts. Your story mirrors my most recent relationship. Idk why we force ourselves to stay, I stayed for way too long, too. The gross ick feeling stays when you settle, I think. Idk, never again, that's for sure! …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:31 PM
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From my (personal & limited) understanding about it, the cool girl is a response to an attack from men to our femininity. It became apparent feminine things were inferior(ex, saying you hit "like a girl"), and thus, the cool girl emerged. She didn't care about nails, hair or anything like that, but ofc she's effortlessly beautiful, too. This is the society men have created. We pushed ourselves into archetypes to be viewed in their world, cutting our closest and bestest friends down over breadcru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:21 PM
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LV/NV cavemen are running rampant after COVID re-opening. I'm sorry for that poor turtle. It's another one of NV male victims. I agree, it's more gross that he felt he could act such a way despite having someone in the car with him, but to me it demonstrates a deeper issue in the relationship. Whoever was in the car with him is either as LV/NV as him or is in a situation where she can't express herself lest she be run over like that poor 🐢.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:57 AM
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Just an important fact to add, there is blatant Islamophobia here. Muslims are regarded like the plague, people show open dislike towards them. I wear a hijab, and the recent events in the news don't make me feel safe here at all. My youngest sis is studying to be a vet and she says she faces blatant Islamophobia, even from other POC's, which, to me is especially disgusting, because aren't we all POC'S within a system of oppression? Muslims are the new Jews, everyone loves to hate us and our com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:54 PM
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men who ask about your age when first meeting you are predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:43 PM
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Why don't we make shaming the age gap a thing? It should be recognized as the sexual abuse it is. I'm definitely not going to hesitate to shame it when I see it in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:39 PM
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"In my prime" 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:11 PM
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He's mocking your standards. I'm sorry this is happening. You can't let him rob any more of your happiness. Remember you were a wonderful, beautiful individual before you met him, and you will be once more, he will just dull your shine and prevent you from being happy. Stay strong and serve those papers asap. Of course get a divorce lawyer if you haven't already. Keep up any kind of self-care you can during this time (warm bath, mediate, walk, make YOURSELF & kids (not him) your favorite dish, d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:18 PM
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This is new levels of pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:03 PM
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You did the right thing! It might not seem like it, but no one deserves to be gaslit repeatedly while pretending to change! You deserve so much better!! Good for you for not allowing whatever his gross behavior was to continue! You're stronger than you think, remember to keep yourself safe and be mindful of games he might play to guilt you into going back. You've just begun the first step in investing in yourself! It's a wonderful new beginning, trust. 💖💓👍😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:28 PM
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Mens beards have fecal matter in them. Literal fecal matter. But sure. Let's keep saying womens' vaginas are bad .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:22 PM
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It's so good to see this shift in where our collective experiences with NV/LV males are leading us. The pandemic has pulled the wool off a lot of relationships (situationships) and I think women are finally waking up. Perhaps it's because millennials have seen/heard/experienced all the nastiness of LV/NV scroticism and are making sure they don't get "stuck" like Gen X has. Moreover they're telling the younger generation about it, and I LIVE FOR IT. I told all my younger nieces and cousins about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:16 PM
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What an entitled loser. It's always the intellectual types that can't stand when a woman stands up to them. I hate this pressure they like to place when planning and I commend you for standing your ground. He showed his true colors. Ivy League or not, his personality is a dumpster fire. As Buffy would say "You're beneath me." You don't need his particular brand of misogyny, it likely comes with a God complex. Doing the Lord's work by tossing the trash out before it can accumulate in your life. G…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:57 PM
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Another case of fake-woke misogyny. This only happens in two cases, 1. When men are trying to prove a woman is wrong, so they enact an experiment and where they pretend to be women, but are disproved and then somehow believe their epiphany is so rare, they have to share with other men. It's performative and somehow more misgonsitic bc they believe they can gatekeep our emotions and only if they experience it, it must be true. When they are faced with having a daughter and their view of women com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:39 PM
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Gosh this just made my night, lmao! YES FOR PUTTING THE PEDO IN HIS PLACE! Nasty old scrotes be running rampant. Stay safe and protect yourself, as well. Take my poor man's gold plss 🏅🏅🏅🏅🏅🏅🏅🥇🥇🥇🥇🥇🥇🥇🥇🥇🥇🥇🥇 And this, 👑 is for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:54 AM
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Some dude screamed"bitch" at me when I was running yesterday morning. Today, while I'm running some scrote pulls his mask down past me and spat on the pavement, literally the direction I was running in. My morning runs are usually filled with minor things like scrotes passing you just to slow down in front of you or just to stop altogether...only to speed up when I continue going at my pace and pass by. It's really gotten much more aggressive, I thought it was just my neighborhood tbh, but I thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:08 PM
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This sounds like deep seeded, self-hatred. I feel so sorry for this woman. She needs years of therapy, not social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:50 PM
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Men who masturbate a lot have this. I can confirm with an ex who's dick was curved to an extreme angle and he would pridefully talk about how proud he was of it. I told him how uncomfortable it was during sex and how it's not supposed to curve so extremely. He laughed and said he knew bc his doctor told him before about Peyronie's Disease but he said "who cares, everyone knows doctor's are prudes. Besides it hasn't stopped me from getting laid." I broke up with him that week bc of pain during se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:41 PM
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That's wonderful! Ofc, you're welcome💗💖💖😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:09 PM
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I agree. I'm seeing it more widespread in media. I think women are finally waking up. I hope more and more of us understand how harmful being a pick-me is. I've told my cousin's and nieces, they all agreed like it was common knowledge. They also listen to Swaeetie and other rap/genres that mention it. I'm sincerely glad the younger generation (gen Alpha and gen Z) see the age gap relationships as harmful and recognize male manipulation (and incel tendencies) as what it is. I think they see the p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:29 PM
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Be warned. He is shouting at her in an extremely abusive manner. These types of men belong in jail. They should not be in society interacting and endangering women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:46 PM
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I will be using this phrase as much as I can! Thank youuu 💗😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:30 PM
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Also, the "dog phase" is bull as men never emotionally mature. They continue acting like degenerates until they have exhausted all options, then love-bomb the next woman for the convenience of a long-term bangmaid. They will probably never marry but will give the illusion of commitment as long as they can. I find this is a pattern with men who say "I'm going to wait to settle, I'm in my prime!" When he's really in his mid-30-40's playing out predatory games on younger women as long as he can. Ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:58 PM
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Tell me you're a gross weeb without telling me you're a gross weeb. 🙄 At least he won't be near real women, that's a plus.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:28 PM
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Reddit is run by NVM's who take pride in circle jerking each other in their collective worthlessness. Men who frequent Reddit represent the lowest dregs of society. I make sure to block men who say they go on Reddit, as I know other than FDS, this website is literally the fecal matter of the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:25 PM
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Men suck the literal life force out of us and then turn it around on us when they don't help/contribute anything. More oftentimes women are left with the burden of time lost, much more emotional investment than the man, giving our bodies, and being burnt out from trying to fulfill dating expectations which are much higher for us than for men. I've witnessed a man leaving his wife once she got cancer (despite having 3kids), a boyfriend manipulating their mom for their will (on her deathbed), mult…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:36 PM
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This is "comic" is so dehumanizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:29 PM
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Looks like most reddit scrotes on here. Not surprised. They're all depraved losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:56 AM
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wow. So, I've had way too much experience with this. Being negged into choosing the ugly guy each time, I can guarantee to you, you won't get treated any better.... honestly probably even worse bc they will resent you for being better looking and think they can use you as a baseline to get other women. People had to always comment on the difference in looks between me and many of my ex's. I've had girlfriends say, "you're the only girl I know who gives THAT many chances to straight up ugly guys.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:16 PM
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Small dicks feel like the worst (pinki) finger job in the world. It's like uncoordinated (bc these men also usually lack in most other areas, height and weight, too so they try to make up for it with truly shitty oral and other crap bedroom moves) and really can feel so damn painful. On one hand it can be hilarious in that it's like you don't feel anything. Lmao my own fingers do more for me than men who I gave a chance to who were just trash in the bedroom and overall. Small dicks are also usua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:21 AM
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This was beautiful. Thank you 💖🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:35 PM
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I thought I was crazy. I've had so many short ex's (anything under 6'1 is short to me, I'm 5'10, and I love heels) who've all gone out of their way to be nasty to me about their height and then proceed to neg me about my own appearance. THIS MOSTLY HAPPENED TO ME FROM SHORT MEN. Maybe mother nature is telling us something about short men, lolol...like they're unfit to be even considered a partner maybe? Idk, taller men seem to at least have the basics of manners, sometimes. I mean, if they're go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:42 PM
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Honestly everything about that sentence made me feel sick inside. Who speaks about animals like this? A pornsick piece of trash. I mean WTF the way they even think about something like a beloved pet is just so incredibly depraved. She should've dumped him the moment he showed attitude towards the cat. I've had men ask me jokingly what I'd do if I there was a fire and I only had time to save either them or my cat, I've replied happily and without hesitation I will choose my cat, loser lmao! You'v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:20 AM
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Honestly stuff like this proves to me that men are inherently the selfish sex. They will hurt and destroy a woman's life so they can have the convenience of a bangmaid. This woman deserves so much more. We need to stop allowing men to do this to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:31 AM
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This whole email translates to this for me: I'm not (what I deem) to be a loser anymore! Now, as the woman who "nurtured" (Major cringe btw EW) my love of cooking, can you come back and resume your role as my bangmaid? I Promise I'm not a man-child anymore, I promise!!! I feel bad for you to have to even experienced reading this garbage. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:04 PM
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Yeah while I usually don't advocate for capital punishment, someone like that is a waste of energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:05 AM
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I feel like the incel movement is getting out of control in Canada. There need to be harsher repercussions/punitive measures put in place. The most known about is the van attack incel POS but WTF it's becoming way too common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:01 AM
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That's true. Some other descriptions were unnecessarily graphic, it showed how clear the male gaze was in some chapters. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:58 PM
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Whaaa whaa whaaa I'm a pornsick loser who has no prospects, hobbies or character... but nOt My FaUlT "Like a compass needle that points north, a man's accusing finger always finds a woman. Always."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:18 PM
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Reading this made me throw up my lunch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 12:39 AM
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I agree with this. Thank you for pointing this out. I feel people often overlook almost all south Asian men are incapable of looking at a woman as a person. They are just bangmaids for them, and when they date and don't get what to they want, they immediately flock over to Mgtow. All the Indian men I've met (yes, ALL) have said something grossly misogynistic, just casually. ..so it really tells you the kind of thinking involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:57 PM
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He ruined her life. Just disgusting, his behaviour. The sheer manipulation. This woman is likely permanently disabled now thanks to HIS insistence that HE needed to have children! I've never been so turned off men in life. My heart wrenches for her. This is pure nightmare fuel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:52 AM
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You should've reciprocated by giving a hand job with an Indian burn. "What?? I thought guys like pain? I'vE SeEn It In PoRn!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:01 PM
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Can we get her on here?? Tell her the steps to protect herself against this life-sucking leech? I say leech because SHE SPENT HER LIFE BIRTHING 3 OF HIS CHILDREN and he has the audacity to walk out on her. Honestly. Seeing stories like these especially hurts since it's so common for men to abandon their wives for their own selfish dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:35 AM
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The bar is in hell. #proof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:33 PM
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Say it with me. Size 👏 Matters! 👏 Ps, I'm saying this as a girl who has been always told to overlook size and faked orgasms for men who couldn't even get close to my needs. I tell my friends PLEASE GIRL, be as picky as you want!! Men act like they have a right to a woman with x, y, z features, so asking for size isn't really asking a lot. I make it clear if he's not 6'2 and fit he's not qualified for a even a conversation. Obviously there's more to unpack there in terms of personality but that s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:46 PM
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We're glad to have you. Welcomeee 🍪💖 our side is of the internet is better you'll see 🌞 It doesn't smell like male bullsh... 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:38 PM
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I love this idea. Being with a partner should be something that assures us of safety and security, but it's been twisted into some sick game by most men who are persuing or in relationships. I am definitely interested in this as well, as we have more control over consent - something men have been taught to manipulate us for. Besides, choosing the father of your children is one of the most important decisions you carry for the rest of your life. As women we SHOULD seek the best of the best, as th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:29 PM
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We create a space for us to feel safe and what do men do about it? They make it a sick competition. I'm sincerely tired of the countless self-victimization from grown men who can't see past their own privilege. This reminds me of "Well, what about men! We have it hard, too!" Should be the opening theme song for F*** boys and losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:38 PM
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I laughed a little too hard at this. Thank you 💓😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:57 PM
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Understandable that she asked a valid question. Given that, it's also completely understandable for me to be skeptical. There should be room for a healthy amount of skepticism if the post sounds contradictory to principles of FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:45 PM
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Lmao what a completely overblown response. I can't be the only one thinking that why is such a question is even asked when we have the handbook to refer to regarding HV men and the use of pornography. No offense intended but this question doesn't help advance an assertive response to the usage of pornography. If anything, it promotes the idea that porn usage is so normalized to us, when really shouldn't it be something considered with a direct negative connotation? Whether it be controversial or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 07:54 PM
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Why does this question sound like a man trying to invalidate women's expectations for their partners not to engage in porn? Hmmm. Yeah, if you find it that hard to meet men that don't watch porn perhaps it's time to re-evaluate your circles. I don't give time to pornsick men, that type of misogyny is imbedded deep into their smooth brains. The more we normalize how sick porn is, then perhaps we will start seeing it for it's depraved nature. Hedonism based in misogyny coupled with violence, all j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:34 PM
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https://www.intheknow.com/2021/01/21/tiktok-tinder-date-harassing/ Dude kept harrassing her, saying she was in the wrong for not giving him sex immediately. He's "saving her" by telling her how she should be more sexually available, as is expected on tinder. Basically, a smooth-brained snowflake pouting he couldn't use his date like a fucktoy as he intended. Men continue to sicken me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:11 AM
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OMG IM SO GLAD SOMEONE ELSE SAW THIS! That man looked like he was ready to launch at her, physically because she refused to conform to his disgusting opinion. Men like that don't deserve even a second of your attention. Pure trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:55 AM
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Dated a mechanical engineer for a while. I agree with most ladies here....very low EQ overall. I had to justify my emotions in almost every senario, and was gaslighted all the time when asking to be treated like a human being. You want the door open? Well, we're in 2020, do it yourself, even if you're carrying heap load of groceries, none of which I'll help you carry. Being an engineer also made him have this insane god complex, and was condescending in everything he said to me. Also, he was VER…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:34 PM
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I've given repeat chances to ugly men bc of previous personal issues, and low self-esteem. A girlfriend had to pull me aside on a date once and tell me if I pick one more guy under a 6, she'd steal my phone. It was so sweet and very much needed, as we're both hardcore Yogi's and I'd always tell her how these NVM's have personalities that are as garbage as their looks. It was a wake up call, because of cultural reasons, women of my ethnic background are strongly discouraged from making choices fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:59 PM
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Yes they are protected! Men will ALWAYS make excuses for other men. I'm sorry that happened to you, especially when it's made light of afterwards. Men are quick to demonize women in this situation, and be dismissive. It's gross, and manipulative. Personally, I like to laugh at LVM, bc really, they have this perverse audacity, and nothing else. No character, no money, definitely not height. I can see why it's no laughing matter, regardless bc it perpetuates the idea it can be laughed off, which i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:42 PM
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I never meant to make light of this situation, or for the situation to be "funny". I was merely emphasizing the energy they put into denying their own reality borders on the insane, which is why I meant it as ironic. Ofc, they're dangerous and not to be taken lightly, but I don't think they deserve the attention they believe they are entitled to, ergo the irony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:27 PM
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Seems like the guilt is subconscious, which leads me to believe he knows he has depraved or predatory thoughts but being self-aware about it would require an ego-death, something a LVM cannot fathom, so right away, the problem is not upon him to fix it, but shifts to "FeMiNiSIm BaD!" Instead of, idk... actually addressing what causes him to feel "bad" about himself? Guilt doesn't come from nowhere. He's knows, perhaps subconsciously, he is not a good guy, and this is why he chooses instead to po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:20 PM
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You're soo right. The problem is women are perceived to have no intrinsic value in the south asian culture. All human beings have intrinsic value. In East Asia, they use phrases like "Christmas Cake", and "Leftover Women." It's honestly sickening, how even in language there's so such more range in the vitriolic rhetoric surrounding women. Misogyny has been imbedded into our institutions, as well. (Ex, Dr's today are still perceived first as male, religious texts, most other language assumes the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:40 AM
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Wow they're really sad inside, aren't they? Can't ever have a space for just us without men claiming, "but!! Muh penis! This is ABUSE." They're such drama queens. This sub is simply for women who are leveling up, and know their worth, and are getting out of abusive relationships with these NVM's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 08:46 AM
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I need this on a t-shirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:06 AM
8

She totally regressed as an artist with this album.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:22 AM
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THANK YOU. And yes he's just so smarmy. And YES about the trail of LVM that regurgitate his misinformed garbage. He's mastered the faux-humble-narc act. Something about him just makes me want to take a shower. You know how you meet some men and are so disgusted you just have a visceral reaction(usually wanting to run in the other direction or go home ASAP and take a shower)? Yep. He's one of those. Idk why we have to constantly hear about how women age badly, most men look like him as they get o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:15 PM
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Urghh just looking at Joe Rogan's face made me wanna puke. Typical LVM face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:35 PM
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Preach Queen! I workout quite a lot, and really enjoy taking care of myself. After finishing my masters this summer, I just broke up with the short NVM loser I was dating, who thought he could neg me, and despite months not even out a label, nope LMAO. I feel like ugly men always try the hardest to neg because it's the only way that woman would stick around. I don't need some crusty basement manchild thinking he can influence me and my life decisions, and my self-worth. Almost finished getting a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:04 PM
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If you know the answer, I'd too like to know. Maybe it has something to do with how they think the world is for them, and so can't fathom a space for women. It's the same losers who get angry at women-only gym spaces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:44 PM
15

Entitled, smooth-brained scrote thinking he deserves anything more than to be blocked and deleted. Ironic how he thought using"haha" would make him seem like he was polite. The audacity of men never stops amazing me. Having standards is really making them angry, lolol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:33 PM
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Scrote looking for validation on to vilify his wife from other scrotes on Reddit. Notice how he hasn't approached his wife about her cheating, if he is so sure. I don't understand why people cheat, but his behaviour doesn't show he put much effort into the relationship other than coming home from work (with regular hours, which most would be blessed to have) and complaining his wife isn't hot enough and his family doesn't make him out to be a rockstar. Men need to stop believing just because the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:12 PM
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Thank you so much for your reply. 💓 Really appreciate the kind words, as well 😅🥰 Indian/South Asian culture is toxic, in my experience. Will also definitely heed the smart advice of avoiding them as much as possible. 🤔👍😀 Hope you are doing you, and thriving, as well! ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:58 PM
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Omg am I dating your ex, rn? After going dating so many NVM (most of which were Indian bc I tried to stay within the culture bc we're admonished severly if we don't) I thought I finally found a man who was brown and would respect me, the Brown unicorn. It was a lie. He lied to me and always made me feel less than, bc being an "engineer" thus made his ego the size of Russia. Not to mention putting in little to no effort for dates (it was up to me to do everything, since you know, he had a CAREER …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:43 PM
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Honestly as a fellow brown girl ....girl...THIS . The extent to which you're expected to suffer for the men in your life is just gross and ridiculous. How dare we have a voice or anything that is an inkling of independence. Not only will you be beaten, there will never even be an acknowledgement of your feelings. Indian men don't understand consent. This culture doesn't allow for it. I say this as a rape survivor. They also believe in having multiple partners but only for themselves ofc. The wif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:22 PM
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This really resonated. My current bf always says this when I speak about my past abusive experiences with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:33 PM
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