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Discussionmoosemc/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 01:37 PM
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What's the issue, Scooter?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:02 AM

Those are strong feelings about matrimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:35 PM

But you have strong feelings about matrimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:29 PM

Are you a prairie parson's wife in rural Minnesota, in the late 19th century?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:23 PM

Are you a Quaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:00 PM

Finally. Sometimes it takes a long time. But its always worth the wait. When the ambassador for all women, Finally speaks her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:04 PM

The redpill is for unattractive male tops. If you're an unattractive male top, the redpill can make you a super-duper butch, boorish, unattractive male top. And that's pretty much the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:02 PM
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Make your case then. Tell me that people don't masturbate to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:00 PM
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We are. People watch porn to masturbate. I feel this is something you should already be aware of. And I absolutely reject your feigned surprise that the 2 are entwined.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:51 PM
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I'm OK with my SO masturbating. And that's all that should need to be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:58 PM
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My understanding is that every woman has chosen the wrong man. They're not leaving him. They're going to stay with him forever. So, they can tell him, over and over again, that they can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:44 PM
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In high school, a girlfriend hit me in the head hard enough to break 2 of her fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:32 PM
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There is an army of pushy, short-tempered and overall, unpleasant women, looking for shy and quiet men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:27 PM

Lots of female nature turns off or displeases men. Lots of male nature turns off or displeases women Yeah, sure. It doesn't change anything. We just have to lie, because women are enraged by men masturbating to pornography. Like you. Right now. In this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:05 PM

Stay away from any man who openly talks about enjoying porn. But that's all men. That's kinda like asking all men to lie. We all like porn, we all masturbate to porn. But if we say it out loud. that's a problem. It all sounds very unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:35 PM

So, the problem is unwatched porn, sitting in warehouses?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:05 PM

Porn is what men masturbate to. Women are enraged at the idea of men masturbating. But complaining about it makes them look like puritans. So they criticize porn instead. But women hate that you're masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:28 PM
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I liked your GQ feature edition. Will January be the redpill issue, every year?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:44 AM
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I've actually made a study of entitled misogynists. Baron David Chilton Phillips, was one of the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:57 PM

I, also, write too much, when I really mean to say, just be a super-duper butch top.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:28 PM

why do young men come off that way compared to young women. You'd have to ask someone, more judgmental.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:05 PM

I, also, am profoundly disturbed, that the young men I encounter, are both young, and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:00 PM

Porn... Good for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:11 PM
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I'm OK with lonely and sincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:40 PM
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So women do withhold sex for control... If its low value/effort sex. Did I get it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:10 PM

No. Women withhold sex for control. Not all the time. But prolly more than the 0.1% OP is suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:45 PM
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You're right. It's not news to anyone. You probably shouldn't think this is insightful. And so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:54 PM
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Who hates who? I'm thinking you mean society hates the unattractive male tops. And its not hate. Usually they're regarded as buffoons. And their proper place? I will concede that the redpill is at its absolute best, as a development plan, for young males, who are getting less out of life than they desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:29 PM
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Again I’m more than willing to see evidence of RP men using these terms. And now its RP men When before it was: There are zero heterosexual people that refer to themselves as tops or bottoms That doesn't really strengthen your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:03 PM
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There are zero heterosexual people that refer to themselves as tops or bottoms I stopped reading after than one. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:58 PM
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Nobody has brought up homosexuality except you for some odd reason Never mention homosexuality. Not once. You know there are hetero tops and bottoms? Or do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:44 PM
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Oh, because that's the redpill. A collection of unattractive male tops. Which is gonna be a difficult life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:43 PM

Its still kink-shaming. Its still ridiculing someone's sexuality. For points on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:39 PM
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Maybe have a look at the sub you're posting in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:34 PM
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God no. Of course attractive male tops and female bottoms do well. And every one else is confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:32 PM

You're not looking to understand. You're looking to shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:27 PM
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Tops and bottoms. That's all the redpill is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:24 PM
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Kink-shaming. Right here, right now. On this sub. In this post. Who is going to reveal this kink after reading your post? A post you made on the sub most likely to invite that shame. Very, very much kink-shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:22 PM
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Kink-shaming. Pure and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:13 PM
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The manosphere is populated by unattractive male tops. And the world is pretty mean to unattractive male tops.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:59 PM
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Tops and Bottoms. Of course this sub has trouble with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:24 PM
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Yes, but eventually you'll want a frozen yoghurt. And you'll have to be polite to the server, or you won't get one. So, you have to be nice some of the time. Or you'll starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:44 PM
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And then we grow up and get jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:19 PM
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Tops and bottoms. Not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:33 AM

So, just be young and handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:42 PM
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I, also, am deeply concerned about not enough people thinking the way I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:28 AM

this study was done by Stanley Morgan, an investment bank. So, this triples your credibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:09 PM
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Women do approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:30 PM

I've hurt enough women to know this is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:14 PM
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Are single moms in the room with you now? Are they parked outside? Have they sussed-out your PIN number? Tappin' your phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:56 PM
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Are you maintaining a spreadsheet?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:52 AM
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That's not new.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:11 PM
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In London Fields, Martin Amis called it, your favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:15 PM
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We know zilch about it because self-reports about desire and partners is simply fabricated. There is no point, if all the info is unreliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:21 PM
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Tops and bottoms. It doesn't need to be more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:01 PM
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Thinking this is the well publicized gender divide we're hearing about. So, its gonna get all political, up in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:09 PM

We can never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:14 PM
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Just ask for separate checks when the server comes. Then everyone knows where they stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:19 AM
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If they have high standards and complain about not finding people, then yeah that's worthy of criticism. That would be the most frequent case, I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:31 PM
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I, also, have been living in a Douglas Sirk movie, for the last few decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:42 PM
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I personally haven‘t met ~5 dudes in my life (i am 23) who are bluepilled. I say that about Nigerians. I haven't met any, so they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:42 AM
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he still wants to commit to her because he told me he has "no one else" and it's "too hard to find another girlfriend". I've heard friends say similar things but in different ways. Never heard men talk this way. Ever. To anyone. Under any circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:34 PM
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But they won't leave. They enjoy having someone to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:21 PM
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Of course. They always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:06 PM
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Just one of many woman tops, that is unable to admit it, to herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:54 PM
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The redpill is about unattractive male tops. Its all just tops and bottoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:12 PM
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And mustaches. Let's ban mustaches too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:49 PM
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Tops and bottoms. They have a way of finding each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:40 PM
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It depends on: 1) How handsome they are; 2) How much time they spend at the craft supply store.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:45 AM

-Material needs (house,$): We no longer need a man to provide for us, since we can work with equal wages. Most men also insist in us providing 50/50 anyway. Just holding out for a high earner. Like women do. No new insights here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:46 AM
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Like Hugh Grant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:34 PM
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Yes, its quite a puzzler, isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:47 AM
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I, also, am shocked to learn that attractive people are having the most sex, when they're the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:15 AM
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All self-reports of experience and desire are reliably, suspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:01 PM
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Unless a guy has a legitimate cuckhold fetish, very few relationships would survive if a man was placed in a room and forced to read or watch everything their partner had done with other men. You guys are all having way better weekends, than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:09 PM
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I wouldn't know. I never delved into people's sexual past. Because I don't live in a Douglas Sirk movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:50 PM
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See, this is why nobody should cosplay social science.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:59 AM
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You don't seem to be living in a world with jobs and expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:58 PM
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Which dont even exist Explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:56 PM
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And if that were true, there'd be no power couples. How are things in the late 1940's? Do you think TV will catch on?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:53 PM
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But its 2023. If you have money, now you can marry even more money. And that's what people with money do. That's why power couples exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:42 AM
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Unless you're handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:42 PM
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I feel as if the want for sex can often be an ego thing where a man feels more confident when he can get sex. But he doesn't physically need it- so more of a psychological thing. Needing sex is a sign you're weak. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:04 PM
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Women's ambivalence to sex, is perfectly summed up by Lauren Bacall: Is the fucking you get, Worth, the fucking you get?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:32 AM
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They want to able to show that they are being pursued. So they can complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:17 PM
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why is the default assumption that he is misogynistic or at least has problematic views on women, and that he doesn't see women as people? It isn't. And the world is far, far less judgmental, than you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:00 PM
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I also, am striving, to live a life, uncluttered, by context.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:41 PM
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Who are these women who put up with this? And who are you putting through this? Its OK that women lie. Everyone lies. If there were pushy assholes that were 70 lbs heavier than me, asking stupid questions all day, I'd lie too. You're not entitled to the truth from random people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:40 PM
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I'm beginning to think that: A chad/alpha/asshole/badboy/fuckboy, is just someone, who the object of your desire, prefers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:13 PM
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Nope. I kinda like the witchy-poo face. Always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:45 AM
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No, not in my experience. The whole orbiting thing happens, but not in every platonic friendship. Not all platonic relationships make simps of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:54 AM
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Who are these people? Who are the people who provide a running commentary on other people's friendships? This post is very, very high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:53 PM
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Yes, that shame. Right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:24 PM
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The only downside to porn... Is the shame women try to apply to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:23 PM
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The answer is controlling If a man realizes a woman has a much lower sex drive, he's fine with that. If there are cultural/religious issue - that's OK too. I casually dated an asexual woman for a decade. But if she's deliberately holding off sex, for control issues, to keep you on your toes, she's worthless to you. That's why I like sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:40 PM
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Not sure this is news.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:09 PM
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Remember that thing about women's self-reports, concerning desire being unreliable?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:13 PM
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I had to block a user from this thread. I kept getting posts in my inbox, but when I replied, the post was gone, when I tried to look at the context, the post was gone. It looks like they're sending me messages that get deleted before I can reply to them. Very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:14 AM
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Exactly. Under-reporting. We agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:27 AM
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To make other women envious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:56 PM

They don't hate them. And this, is at the heart of what both pills misunderstand/refuse to admit. There are women tops. There are a lot of them. They are not nice people. And insulting men, is just baked in. There's no cock carousel, no wall. Just a massive amount of women who are tops, who soak up all the quiet men. And nobody dares admit it. Women don't like to see themselves as tops, men don't want to be seen as bottoms. They insult men, because its sexual. All bullying is sexual. That's wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:33 AM
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You haven't said anything. Form a thought. Express it coherently.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:18 AM
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Let it go. The math doesn't work, that's how we know everybody is lying. Men over report, and women under report. Together, the two lies, make it look like a very few women, are sleeping with entire counties. Its not misogyny, its math.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:55 AM
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Context?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:54 AM
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Just somebody who's familiar with the research. Talking to someone....who's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:52 AM
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Context?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:50 AM
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The math doesn't work, that's how we know everybody is lying. Men over report, and women under report. Together, the two lies, make it look like a very few women, are sleeping with entire counties. Its not misogyny, its math.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:48 AM
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We have absolutely no idea about the average. All of the data is just lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:41 AM
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They lie so much, that self reports about, partners and desire, are worse than useless. They're misleading lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:40 AM
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My hamster is fucking your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:43 PM
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There was that one time, at Band Camp.....I am a 6'6 Jacked dude that is rich, assertive and i would call myself a "traditional male" and i still enjoy it, fck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:40 PM
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Cleaned out the hamster cage, today. I am a 6'6 Jacked dude that is rich, assertive and i would call myself a "traditional male" and i still enjoy it, fck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:25 PM
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I am a 6'6 Jacked dude that is rich, assertive and i would call myself a "traditional male" and i still enjoy it, f*ck you. I, also, feel that my height, wealth, BMI and a bit of super-duper butch cursing, should be included in every post I make. The other day, my mom, made a sandwich. I am a 6'6 Jacked dude that is rich, assertive and i would call myself a "traditional male" and i still enjoy it, fuck you. or I cleaned out my locker at school today. I am a 6'6 Jacked dude that is rich, assertiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:24 PM
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Oh. None of this real. Women enjoy being pursued. It is also, vital, that they can point to this, to their friends, and complain about it. A nice guy, is simply an orbiter, the woman has recruited, so that she has evidence she is being pursued. She will keep him around, just so she can complain about him, on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:33 PM
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If it comes up. And it never comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:30 PM
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Hugh Grant?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:43 PM

Yeah, creepy, like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:23 PM
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Super-duper butch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:56 PM
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Oh, for sure. I always found it creepy that other guys really wanted to know about body counts. Its bad enough dwelling on your own past. Dwelling on someone else's, is as sad and as weak as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:38 PM
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Yes. So if the sample size is 100, then 19 men are married to 33 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:40 PM
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Getting all Goethe, up in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:59 PM
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I, also, am materially concerned at discovering that women are complaining about men, on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:09 PM
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I, also, am materially enraged by other people's perception of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:36 PM
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I, also, am materially concerned about fictitious people saying things I just made up, to other imaginary people. Where will it all end?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:45 PM
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No kids, working remotely. Like we discussed. In this thread. The thread where you actually listed the exceptions yourself. So...those exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:43 PM
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Sure. There are several exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:25 PM
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Sure. There are exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:21 PM
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Of course you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:22 PM
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Well, sure. You're saying that people who have money, don't need money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:56 PM
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I, also, am vitally concerned about women who date men, other than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:42 PM
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Andrea Dworkin, has joined the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:32 PM
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Its a hard world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:28 PM
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ummmm...no. Men care about a woman's income. Because its the real world. And in the real world, you need that 2nd income to build a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:18 PM
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Nope. Women are upset that men are having sex, to begin with. The idea that they're having sex with somebody attractive enrages them. The idea that men are having consequence-free, casual sex, that makes the news, that sends them into orbit. Its the same reason they don't like porn or prostitution. They seem to have this internal sexual worthiness meter. And guess what, we all fail. And that's it. It has nothing to do with age. Its just naked hatred of men who have sex, and are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:25 PM
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Are you meeting women for the 1st time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:58 AM
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Finally someone repaired the Time Portal. How are things in the 1970s?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:06 PM

Good lord. This doesn't exist. And numerically it can't exist. If men are having a ton of sex, and women aren't, that means that just a few women are having all the sex. I mean, a lot of sex. Like, no time for a job, sex. That's how we know everybody lies about sex. Particularly about body counts and desire. Women go out of their way to under-report and men over-report. But I really appreciate the trip back to the 1970s, and what they thought they knew about sexuality back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:26 PM
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Where is this place? What workplaces are desperate to sort out your sexual experience? And who ae these people who continually grill you at work about your body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:17 PM
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See, at this point, I'd stop telling people you're a virgin. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:41 PM

Its so complicated. But yeah, in life, generally you need to lock down all your emotional vulnerabilities, if you're a man. You'll get judged. And the bullies of both genders will be able to sniff you out. But as far as women go, some do like emotional men, because they perceive them as someone they can manipulate for their enjoyment. And some like emotional men, because they perceive them as non-threatening. This is more common in younger women. In general, its best to keep it secret if you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:08 PM
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I think they're lucky to have such great porn. Imagine being an incel in 1963.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:07 PM
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I, also, am confused by men who find plentiful, limitless and consequence-free sex, appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:04 AM
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All fine. All normal. Its just the stuff that everybody has trouble admitting about themselves. And if you want proof, well, it seems that there is always someone around to marry a Karen. And Karen doesn't really want to admit it either. But there is no shortage of bad tempered and impatient women waiting to push you around. The problem is, that's a lot to put up with, just to have sex with someone pushy, who probably doesn't understand their own sexuality either. In general, relationships with …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:25 PM
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Men haven't been regarded as providers in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:56 PM
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Nope. We have really awesome porn now. So men have a lower threshold for women's demands and expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:04 PM
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Jackpot!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:43 AM
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We agree then. Women will frequently complain about receiving attention, to inform the world, that they are receiving attention. Seems quite straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:33 AM
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1st off, you did just complain about receiving attention on social media. Its there above you. In print. And the rest doesn't change. Women complain about receiving attention from men on social media. And many do so in the form of a humble-brag.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:33 AM
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The complaining about men doesn't stop. For any reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:10 PM
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Yeah. Somehow, we're always surprized, when we learn that doms have a mean streak.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:49 PM
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Social media is littered with women complaining about the amount of attention they receive. Not all of it looks sincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:32 PM
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Lust coming from non-lustable men feels icky. You just complained about receiving unwanted attention, on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:28 PM
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They want any kind of attention. So they can turn it into a humble-brag.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:07 PM
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Women want to be lusted after. So they can complain on social media, about being lusted after.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:09 PM
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The bodice-ripping equivalent, is not what you think it is. Women don't admit to fantasizing about rape, because it makes them vulnerable. And it attracts the wrong kind of people. And it just makes life more of an obstacle course. Because people are awful. And the male equivalent, that leaves them vulnerable, and can't admit to? There would be a few, but I would include findom and cuck porn at the top of the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:23 PM
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The statistics were tabulated by the the American Booksellers Association and published in Publishers Weekly. But there are lots of histories of bodice-ripping porn out there that tell the same story. But the take-away is still the same. People lie about desire. Any direct questions about desire are probably useless for research measures. Most of the useful insight comes from unobtrusive measures, like the ones we're talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:29 PM
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In the mid 1980s America reached peak readership. It had been steadily rising since the 1950s, but during the 1970s, so many new women began reading recreationally that they eventually overtook men as readers. And it was all due to the sweet savage romance. Women read so much rape-porn, that it materially effected the overall reading statistics. That's how much rape porn women consumed. Women became recreational readers just to consume rape porn. So, the results you're reporting on, are somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:01 PM

I, also, am increasingly concerned about imaginary advice, given to imaginary people, by imaginary people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:21 PM
1

Oh. So, y'know how no women will admit to being tops and no men admit to being bottoms. This is what happens to them. Anytime you see an unpleasant woman and a seemingly content, quiet man, its because there's a bit of domination in the air.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:36 PM
1

I, also believe, that far too few of you are adjusting your behaviour to my satisfaction. Notes will be taken Reports will be filed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:37 PM
3

I have already answered your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:23 AM
3

I've already answered no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:47 PM
3

Already said no. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:39 PM
2

I could care less about my partners activity on social media. This is about control, pure and simple. Control is a bad thing, and too much control is sinister, and people who advocate for more control...history teaches us all about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:43 PM
2

The relationship would end the second my partner tries to control anything I do on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:04 PM
2

I also, am concerned about women making decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:05 PM
2

I think it mattered in Dawson's Creek. Maybe in One Tree Hill, and sometimes on Party of 5. But other than that, its not really an issue that people have to deal with or are concerned with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:47 PM
6

Or...people are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:14 PM
3

And then we all graduate, get jobs, pay bills, and have a lot less time on our hands to worry about body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:20 PM
2

I'm thinking he probably isn't going to tell you if he has. And you're unlikely to find out if he has. So you're probably all dating men who've paid for sex. This week.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:13 PM
3

MCOC Male criticism out of context.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:54 PM
2

Nothing is more entertaining, than dating and sex tips, from people with no knowledge of either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:50 PM
1

Men don't dress for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:40 PM
2

Only date the trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:19 PM
3

Yep, men were watching rape porn in several times that number instead. Not even close. When a vcr was $800 and a single porn tape was $60. The math suggests you're just making stuff up to support what was a silly argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:12 PM
1

Remember in the late '80s, when the most popular literary genre, was rape-porn? It was consumed by and written by women, exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:54 PM
0

After the senior prom, these issues lose their importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:15 PM
7

Self reports about desire are unreliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:19 AM
2

At a wine....something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:46 AM
2

Its just a control thing. You can usually see signs of it while dating. Have affairs and make sure she knows, and knows why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:16 PM
2

From Toronto.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:40 PM
1

Your post depicts a world, so far away, from what I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:50 PM
7

Nobody can afford a SAHW, or even kids these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:46 PM
4

How are things in the 1950s?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:40 PM
2

OP seems to have never met any married couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:31 AM
1

Of course I mean it. This very moment people are reading books and magazines, and watching films that I don't approve of. I can only yell at the people around me for it. But now with this sub, I can scold a lot more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:16 PM
1

I said I was concerned. Right up there. Just like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:44 PM
6

I also, am concerned about people reading and watching things, that don't meet with my approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:01 PM
1

Women hold off having sex with someone, that they intend to sleep with eventually, for control. I suppose you should feel flattered that she thinks you're worth controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:13 PM
2

Well...um....men don't always put up with the waiting part. They just move on. After about a month. How is it that the OP, is unaware of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:24 PM
2

Never seen any of that. This is just another, Men are icky, post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:53 PM
6

Yep. In some cases women will encourage men to pursue them, reject them, all so they can complain about being pursued.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:17 PM
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The nice guy doesn't really exist. Women just keep a few men around, so: She always has options She can claim that she is continually being pursued by someone She can complain about continually being pursued by someone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:37 PM
2

Because this relies on self-reports, we'll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:28 PM
1

Glad to hear things are going well in the 1950s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:28 PM
5

Oh. Is it Manifesto Monday, already?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:55 PM
2

Its surprising how seldom, this comes up in conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:55 PM
2

OK. Everybody's a junior high, mean-girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:47 PM
4

Well, I think that changes, after graduation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:23 AM
2

This isn't news. Women are bitter. It increases with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:10 AM
1

You've clearly put a lot of thought into that defense. You're someone who seems to think about butch women a lot. But when asked about it, you become quite fearful and defensive. Perhaps a nice Dorothy Malone movie might help you out. in the 1950's, many people with your kind of butch fear/fixation, would be attracted to Dorothy's broad shoulders and iron jaw. Anyway, good look with all that. I think you'd like Dorothy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:06 PM
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Chances are she has a domineering personality or acts more masculine than most women. So, you're saying, butch women are pretending to be slutty, so they can push men around. You're what makes this sub so awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:18 AM
1

You'll need to provide some context. Otherwise its just a random insult. Like a troll. And you seem to have started trolling, just as soon as kayray1954 stopped. That's more than a little creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:58 PM
1

Women do approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:39 PM
1

i’m clearly talking about the subject of lying to get laid Oh, I know. We all know. But after having to be told where liars come from, you still lack enough empathy to ease up. That's callous. And that's someone lacking in empathy. And its hilarious that you're in a righteous rage.... Over the Bucky Goldstein joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:17 PM
1

Empathy. Work towards it. It may take some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:05 PM
1

You seem to have dashed all that off in a hurry. Take a minute to calm yourself. In the meantime. Is that your actual point? Nothing justifies lying? If you believe that no lie is ever justified, then you have lived a life that is over-packed with privilege. Consider developing some empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:03 PM
1

We're all Bucky Goldstein, when it comes to dating. (I'm Bucky Goldstein is the punchline to a very old joke, about a girl who only dates Jewish cowboys.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:54 PM
1

or you’re trying to justify being a liar I suppose you're right, because: Liars are the same as everyone else. They just had more beatings to avoid, growing up. So maybe stop shaming the victims of abuse, just for a crumb of social media praise. Virtue signaling is always a bad look. But virtue signaling, at the expense of battered children, that's over the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:56 PM
1

not getting laid is not abuse - we all know what this thread is about, don’t try to twist it Never said it was. And again: Liars are the same as everyone else. They just had more beatings to avoid, growing up. So, you should probably stop shaming the victims of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:08 PM
2

Liars are the same as everyone else. They just had more beatings to avoid, growing up. So shaming the victims of abuse is a laughing matter to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:36 PM
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You learn very, very quickly, that lying is sometimes the only way out of a beating. Liars are the same as everyone else. They just had more beatings to avoid, growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:19 AM
3

We seem to have all forgotten how much rape pornography women consumed in the 1980s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:33 PM
1

Competition. And it needs to be said again. Women don't have a problem with porn. They have a problem with men masturbating to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:03 PM
2

Oh. Average men are very much needed to approach women. So they can say no, then complain about it on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:40 PM
2

Yep, its real. There are women who believe that a man of legal age, asking out a woman of legal age, is abuse. And that's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:25 PM
1

Old guys are ick and should be out of my sightline. It doesn't sound good when you actually say it out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:51 PM
2

Because its not the same thing. One is related to income and security.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:04 PM
1

Or people are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:05 PM
3

We are unlimited men, in a limited world Harlan Ellison.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:16 AM
1

Which is really too bad. But people will think of a sexless marriage as a failure. And people don't want to talk about failures. They also are probably too embarrassed to talk about some of the alternatives, because they would be considered kinky. And that brings its own briefcase full of shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:42 PM
0

I think people are afraid of losing a partner, because of their incompatible levels of desire. So denial seems safest. But yes talking would be preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:00 PM
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They don't lose their desire. They just don't have to pretend anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:36 AM
0

Well, the Amish care. I expect a few Muslims do too. The Fonz thought it was a big deal too. So, not that long a list.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:01 PM
2

And then we graduate, get jobs, and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:08 PM
6

Oh. This is a lie. Women lie about desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:04 PM
1

I am also concerned about people, who are less butch than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:57 PM
6

So, kink-shaming. With a light dusting of bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:32 PM
2

As a kid I was approached by a few grown men. As a teen I was approached by a lot of adult women. It has had no effect on me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:09 PM
1

Not for really unattractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:50 PM
4

It doesn't matter what men want. Women want nothing to do with men who earn less than them. How men feel about this is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:33 PM
2

What's your issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:25 PM
9

Income disparity renders many men simply ineligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:12 PM
1

I was 35 when I figured that one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:49 PM
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Sure. Probably continually, until I was in my mid-thirties. By that time I was tired of all the drama. From then on I kept repeating my favorite Lauren Bacall quote, Is the fucking you get, worth the fucking you get?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:11 PM
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The one who's the least controlling and the one who complains the least. If I had a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:37 PM
1

And then the 1950's ended. Its just one long Douglas Sirk movie on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:50 PM
0

Your problem doesn't seem to be with porn. Your problem seems to be with men masturbating to porn. You seem to have a problem with men masturbating. And that's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:49 PM
3

Control. But nobody's gonna admit to that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:41 PM
3

Strip-club DJ. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:27 PM
2

22 yrs on Propecia.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:05 PM
1

Triple digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:00 PM
1

Its a control thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:34 AM
1

And then you graduate. And none of this applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:47 PM
1

Women, generally speaking, are not that interested in being pursued or approached. Women are desperate to be pursued and approached. That way they can complain about it on social media. In this way they can portray themselves as wildly desirable, but with unusually high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:20 PM
1

Oh. They're lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:15 PM
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Aside from the FDS contingent, the women seem representative of the broader population. The fellas are just really young. And tragically misinformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:01 PM
1

It doesn't sound worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:23 AM
4

I was quite disturbed at 1st. Then I remembered, that its all nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:08 PM
1

The variable ratio reinforcement schedule. It has a name.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:19 PM
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It relies on self-reports. So the % is likely higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:24 AM
1

And a Camarro mullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:24 AM
2

And plastic aviator frames.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:22 AM
2

This post has sparse and uneven facial hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:59 PM
2

How do you realistically expect for people's interpersonal relationship skills to improve when intellectual laziness is being normalized across the board? It all just speaks for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:46 AM
2

We'll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:02 PM
1

I'm feeling over-moderated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:47 PM
1

Its something they enjoy alone. And that makes women seethe with rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:55 PM
0

Is that you, Chekov?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:49 PM
2

So, its all about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:11 PM
0

We don't even know if demi-sexuality is actually a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:11 PM
1

So, all you have to do is shoe-horn all the redpill arguments into a framework, where the social scientists will engage with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:56 PM
2

I get what you're saying, I really do. But you have to realize that social science existed long before the redpill. And social science has a lot of places it won't go. And it doesn't go there, because of politics. So, you're playing a game, where the rules were set decades ago. And the redpill, seems to be always close to the politics, that social science really wants to avoid. And that gets you to, over-moderation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:43 PM
1

So, just over-moderation, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:21 PM
2

If there's some worth to a thing, it survives criticism. That's how science works. And what you're talking about is just over-moderating. They have that problem on some of the needle-craft subs. And they manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:52 AM
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Best answer yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:03 AM
2

So, you want to discuss indefensible things, without being asked to defend those positions. That's going to be a challenge. As Trump is discovering, with his social network platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:03 AM
8

Social science says conservatives are bitter. Shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:16 PM
1

It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:28 PM
1

And just like that, it got all super-duper butch, in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:18 PM
1

I was always happy that they identified themselves. So they could be easily avoided. Did anyone else imagine them all as, airport security screeners?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:54 PM
6

You made my day. I hope nobody finds out that this sub is in fact, moms talking to teenage boys about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:33 PM
6

I know a lot of the boys are in high school. I have no idea about the women. Its more fun to imagine the women as moms, but they're probably in university.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:23 PM
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My understanding, is that the men are all in high school, and the women, all enjoy scolding teenage boys. Which makes this my favorite sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:20 AM
1

I know most women couldn’t give the slightly shit if men want sex dolls or watch other women on porn. If that was remotely true, this sub wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:13 PM
2

You just seem to list a bunch of whatabouts? And conclude by saying that men's claims are imaginary. Try again. Take some time. Focus. Oh, and try and construct something that addresses my original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:55 PM
1

This is gonna blow your mind…. Women watch porn. I said nothing about it. Nothing at all. Trust me there are ugly, introverted girls out there who also can’t get laid. Nor this. Also I’m Ngl but all my males friends who are virgins have had opportunities to get laid. The girl just wasn’t even seen as a possibility to them because they didn’t see her in a sexual way, at all. This either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:40 PM
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It attempts, in a very, very clumsy way, to address an issue, that really doesn't have an answer. Its fascinating. What do we do for people that want to have sex, but aren't considered eligible? But what has always kept my attention and interest, is the female reaction to alternative solutions (non-redpill stuff). The obvious answers are porn/camgirls/sex-workers. And women seem to be angry that this is presented as a viable option. And that's where all the drama is. Women having an issue, with …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:41 PM
1

Hey, agree, disagree, ignore. All of its fine. But feigning ignorance, is about as beta as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:02 PM
3

I’ve been around more than enough women to get an overall picture of their sexual behavior. That probably sounded better, inside your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:06 PM
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Because it relies on self-reports, we'll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:10 PM
5

Its a polite way of saying that you have an impaired view, of your own attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:52 PM
1

Oh. But they are having sex. Just not with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:21 AM
2

Well sure, if we all lived in a Somerset Maughan novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:07 AM
1

Oh. Well, some town's, or educational/occupational settings have those imbalances. In those circumstances, sure average guys do better. But they, and all the other men in those in those circumstances, will be told, frequently, about their shortcomings, by bitter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:49 PM
4

But it's not the real world. In the real world, people are looking for an economic partnership that will last. Life is expensive. A woman who brings no economic clout to the table, yet wants to be treated like a kween, gets left behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:51 PM
1

1) Big geographic disparities 2) Who knows? Everyone lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:33 AM
3

There is no rise in the desire for traditional lifestyles. Only impotent rage in its decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:03 PM
1

I was just asking if you knew what time it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:07 AM
3

I've answered your question already.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:34 AM
2

Because its controlling and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:38 PM
12

Men are shamed for anything sexual that doesn't result in marriage or creating babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:26 PM
8

Your problem is not with porn. Your problem is with masturbating to porn. You have a problem with masturbation. You have a problem with men masturbating. Its a problem you should keep to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:29 PM
1

Or they had an avoidant personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:58 PM
1

Social science research on sexuality, that relies on self-reports is always suspect. People lie. And they lie the most, about money and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:13 PM
1

Men like sex. That's why they have sex. It isn't that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:35 PM
1

It relies on self-reports of desire. I wouldn't put any stock in the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:26 AM
2

In the interviews she gave at the time, she continued to use the term, unearned authority. That was what she was mostly concerned about. She had a serious problem with men in leadership roles, and the way people look to men for leadership.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:38 PM
0

They don't say they're Alphas. They say that simps and betas are pathetic, and that they're not simps, or betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:49 PM
2

Buddy here thinks he just invented anthropology.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:51 AM
1

In the Redpill world, Gary Cooper gets laid and Montgomery Clift doesn't. And we know that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:53 PM
1

I never much cared about what women thought about me. I can't imagine a life like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:06 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:39 AM
19

A job. A waist. A library card.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:40 PM
0

So, you're advocating, straight-up, bullying, to make the world a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:17 PM
1

I usually care more about individual privacy. I understand that others are concerned more about parental rites. There is no correct answer, just competing rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:42 PM
2

Rights are always competing with each other. This is just another example of this. Its real common. And its common for people to disagree about who's rights are more important. Why aren't you aware of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:26 PM
2

That should be the child's decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:59 PM
2

The child should have a right to privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:20 PM
11

What sort of human being has a problem with men masturbating, out of their league?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:58 AM

Oh. Well, see this is reddit. Its not real life. You're complaining about how people talk, on reddit, as though people are behaving like this in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:23 PM
1

Maybe I was mistaken, maybe I got it wrong. But all of the good ones are taken, from now on. Ian Hunter, All of the Good Ones are Taken
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:31 PM
1

Everything changed for me when I left school. You're judged differently. But as you get older, so does everyone else, and standards change. If you manage to keep your hair, and your belly off your belt, that matters more and more. And your salary and your portfolio, your car, your home. And those people, who you say are in relationships now, they get married, then divorced. The world of what women want is extraordinarily dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:01 AM
1

A lot of that will change, when you leave school, and get a job, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:51 AM
1

You used up an awful lot of words to say: Are you men all still bastards?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:20 PM
6

We don't know. Research on that depends on self reports.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:18 PM
1

Well, in the 50's, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:15 AM
1

They get swept up by a pushy woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:52 PM
1

When you leave school, and leave the school rumour-mill. Nobody knows who the virgins are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:49 PM
6

PPD is renowned for it's women who are particularly attune to dating and relationship dynamics through their varied and intricate experience and knowledge of subreddits such as r/RedPillWomen, r/FemaleDatingStrategy, r/deadbedrooms, r/relationship_advice, r/AmITheAsshole, r/outside, r/onlyfansadvice, r/sexworkersupport etc. Now, you know that's just not true. It's hilarious, but there's no truth in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:28 PM
1

Are you the ghost of Ayn Rand?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:23 AM
8

Who're talking about sex, to teenage boys. Its awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:36 PM
2

Pornsick is made-up. Like short-man syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:57 PM
0

Oh. You misunderstand. Sex was never on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:26 PM
3

Yes, it does seem unfair that, agreeable people, are doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:02 PM
0

So I should settle for an unequal relationship? Maybe settle for a relationship. They're all unequal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:53 PM
1

So, you're super-duper committed. and You only want to be in a relationship with someone, who is also, super-duper committed. Because you feel if they're not, super-duper committed, they'll take advantage of the unequal relationship. So, you want to find someone who'll fall hard for you. Too hard, to take advantage of you. It all sounds unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:50 PM
2

The fundamental problem isn't generalization. And it isn't projection. Its the lying, on all sides. Men inflate their body counts, women do the opposite. Nobody is honest about attraction or desire. And the Redpill tries to address women's lies, and FDS tries to address men's lies. And they both do a bad job. We still don't know anything about other people's desire. Because nobody is remotely honest about it. We don't talk about our own fear and bitterness either. So other people have to guess. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:37 PM
1

the guys who don’t get women attracted to them, are the ones who are best suited to tell you how attraction works. That's a plot from an Adam Sandler movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:48 AM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:57 AM
1

I didn't say anything about incels. You did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:47 PM
0

Maybe just immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:13 PM
6

The world of sex, described by virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:26 PM
-1

And this is the stuff that's happening, everywhere and every day. My older brother told me. And he's 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:06 PM
1

They want them on the 1st date. But they'll wait until the 4th to show how chill they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:21 PM
1

The late great Norm Hacking, has a song for you about orange cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:17 PM
4

The checklist that includes: Does he make enough? Is he tall enough? Is his net worth enough? How nice is his car? Does he do drugs? Does he watch porn? Will he give me all his passwords by the 4th date? Does he game too much? Are his friends too seedy? Y'know that checklist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:09 PM
2

Especially the orange ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:05 PM
2

Yeah, some are more skilled and subtle. But the checklist itself, usually leaves me feeling uncomfortable. And its enough for me to not go any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:03 PM
6

Even the people who do well on the checklist, dislike the checklist. And, of course, the women who use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:57 PM
-1

Yeah. That's a good summary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:55 PM
3

Well, some are just too pushy. Some are trying too hard to figure out your net worth. Many would like to know about your alcohol, drug consumption. Some want to know why you don't have a car. Many want to know why your social media footprint is so small. And why you never want to have kids. So most of women's dating issues result from ham-fisted attempts to quickly judge who they're out with. Its obvious. Its sad. And generally results in a much closer relationship with their cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:26 PM
4

We'll never know. Because people lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 03:35 PM

Much like we eat to experience empathy. and And exercise to build the enamel in our teeth. or Play musical instruments to toughen the skin on the soles of our feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:22 PM
7

Richer, taller, better looking, than could reasonably, be expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:54 PM
7

Maybe if you made it sound less.... I’m looking for a woman to build a family with so promiscuous woman are out of the question since they are more likely to cheat and cause problems. ...like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:43 AM
1

Seething with rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:19 PM
1

I wonder what its like, to go through life, obsessing over who men date. Where does that come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:18 PM
7

On the Internet, women talk about actually leaving partners. In reality, its ultimatums. All day. About everything. And complaining. And nagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:29 PM
1

Its very much like thoroughbred handicapping. You start with an eligible pool. Then you start picking winners from a narrowed field of contenders. There's all the loyalty anyone could ever want....within the eligible pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:26 PM
1

Nobody's outraged. The posts are funny. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:26 PM
1

Your sex life is too adventurous. It sounds like quite a burden. So, of course, this would be the right place to drop it off. Here, where the sexually abandoned, hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:40 AM
1

No. Because in pornworld, women want sex, without asking for something in return. So, of course, men know its not the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:28 PM
1

I usually pay, just because I asked them out. And some women have a box about that, that needs to be checked. However, I don't offer to pay the sitter, or transportation costs. And if asked, I just call it all off, because I'm not who they're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:19 PM
0

So butch. Like Stone Cold Steve Austin, on a Harley, with a bandana. My chest hair got thicker, just from reading this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:48 AM
1

Nothing has changed. Toxic masculinity is just the things you don't like about men. All grouped together, for convenience. Toxic masculinity doesn't exist. Its just the things you don't like about men, under a single umbrella. Just hate, wrapped in a convenient, easily deployed package.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:31 PM
-1

Toxic masculinity doesn't exist. No matter how much you want it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:13 PM
-1

Sure. That happens. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:11 PM
-3

Toxic masculinity doesn't exist. Its just what women say, about men they dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:04 PM
1

We disagree. For reasons I've already mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:48 PM
1

Oh, no. Simps exist. But they weren't made that way by women. Women just make the most of an existing resource. The fisherman doesn't create fish. He just takes advantage of their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:32 PM
2

Never said anything about LVM. Not once. You need to stop putting words in people's mouths to win your arguments. I was, of course, talking about the men they're with. And that was clear from the posting. Its looking like you're just trolling right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:53 PM
3

Of men's time, attention. And anything that makes men happy, that isn't them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:50 AM
1

Job done. On to global warming.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:44 PM
6

But FDS believes it to be so. So they're jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:26 PM
1

It's really, the neighbours, and pets, that suffer the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:21 PM
1

Oh, like the 70's.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:18 PM
3

Gonna name the new band: Raging Madonna-Whore Complex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:15 PM
7

Both groups don't like the way porn makes masturbation a much more pleasant experience. Redpill, because it makes men lazy; FDS, because it makes men happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:06 PM
4

It's the largest contributor to wealth inequality. Upper-middle marries upper-middle or higher. People will date out of their class, but will usually marry within it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:21 PM
1

Porn addiction doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:55 PM
1

Rich countries have no mice, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:36 PM
3

Most men complaining about not getting sex are really just complaining that they cant get laid. Embroidering that, on a throw-cushion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:22 PM
1

Isn't the point, that because some people can't realistically expect to be in any relationship, preconceived notions, is all they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:01 PM
3

Every night is an adventure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:35 PM
3

That's why you need to introduce a variety of new items into your intimacy, like: Sometimes handpuppets; A charcutier tray; A steam cleaner; Alligator clips; Toothpaste; A multi-meter; Work-gloves; Toast tongs; A tea-cozy; Fresh sod.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:14 PM
3

The average man has thinning hair. So, he's unattractive. And a ginger. So, he's unattractive. And that T-shirt is 40 years old. So, he's unattractive. That's how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:34 PM
1

Oh. Humour. Edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:16 PM
1

Well, not their entire existence. There's school, homework, swimming lessons, church youth group. And all of that. But sure, in their off hours, when they're not gaming and streaming TV and movies, etc. Non-rape social media, I'm sure takes up a bit of their time too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:08 PM
2

The Raisin Bran Museum, is in Rockville MD. Each year at this time, Redditors gather at the site, to explore the Post history. And that's really the only way, you should be exploring the post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:52 PM
1

Do you often believe that your opinion matters, to strangers on the internet? Do you think people are actually affected by the things you type? In your head, are you picturing a microphone drop, moment, right now? Because none of it works like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:13 PM
1

How does this diminish the quality of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:49 PM
2

How is this adversely affecting you? Are you being stalked by these women? Are you the Redpill, Captain Ahab?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:39 PM
1

Is that the garlic bread that's sex-repulsed, but likes to say its sex-indifferent? Or is it the garlic bread that wants to drone on about the difference between desire and attraction? Or is this the garlic bread that wants everyone on earth to know they're ACE, but gets cranky when they ask what they're talking about? Or is it the garlic bread that's a young girl, with no sex drive, who wants some attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:11 PM
3

Except you're punching down at sad, shy, teenage boys. That shouldn't feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:00 PM
1

Teenage boys, and the grown up women, who want to talk to them about the porn they're watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:25 PM
1

What do you mean, if, all I want is sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:52 PM
3

Grown men, aren't typically this needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:44 PM
3

Yeah, this seems closer to the real world for me. The OP is describing a perfume TV ad from 1973.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:17 PM
1

Lauren Bacall had line in her autobiography about that: Is the fucking you get, worth the fucking you get?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:46 AM
1

Yes, that's still nonsense. What don't I understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:54 PM
4

I've gotten rid of all my friends who're that judgmental.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:14 PM
3

What's false? What don't I understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:28 PM
4

In the world viewed through the Redpill lens, the only way feminine men can get a date, is if they have money and power. And that's nonsense. And you probably need to go out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:20 PM
1

Not goin' anywhere near this. Just smiling and nodding.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:21 AM
4

And, as has been mentioned on this sub many, many times, feminine men have quite a bit success with women. And its not because of money or skill. But, because it doesn't fit the Redpill narrative, it just can't be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:46 AM
5

Oh, I need to hear a lot more from you. Keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:09 PM
26

Because the Redpill doesn't quite understand desire. And women think about gay male sex a lot. There is a massive asian industry that capitalizes on this. Again, the Redpill falls apart after high school. Its a movement of teenage boys who're trying to date out of their league. The Redpill is the world of sex, explained to you, by someone who's never had it. Which is why K-POP, is such a head-scratcher, to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:51 PM
2

1) Wants kids/has kids. 2) Bad taste in movies/music/books.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:25 PM
3

They're criticized by the FDS crowd. Basically for not making men pay dearly for every ounce of affection and attention. Because the FDS crowd believe they have something priceless to offer. And they would like to tell you about it. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:52 PM
1

Women spend a lot of time trying to figure out a man's status. It's basically a full-time job. That's what all those questions are about. So, the idea, that women don't already know your status, is naïve.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:42 PM
2

I am not here to live up to your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:02 PM
9

But its not as though its actually poly. Its more like sleeping with the entire floor of a women's dorm, across a single term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:27 PM
7

The early 20th century version of tech. Pulp mags, movies, radio, advances in shipping, refrigeration and transportation. War gives us tech.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:15 PM
2

Of course. I think you believe, that you've made a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:20 PM
1

Yeah, the pushy girls like introverts. I think its because they think they'll be a calming influence in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 07:25 PM
1

Just answering your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:59 PM
2

War.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:48 PM
4

In 1946, they all settled down, bought houses, had kids, published paperback original fiction, and learned a trade. Not sure what they did in 1919. But not too long after that, they invented broadcast radio, and talking pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:43 PM
2

And just like that, Texas became sentient, and started posting on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:20 PM
1

Paraphrasing: a) People age; b) It shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:20 PM
0

Lotta pushy women really like introverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 04:18 PM
1

Yes. Do that. Do what everybody does anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:53 AM
1

Nope. Sorta attractive=attractive. And everything else is just noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:04 PM
1

I see what you did there. And its still just trolling with semantics. And, of course, you know I meant attractive in a more encompassing sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:50 PM
1

Having money, accomplishments and intelligence can make a person a more attractive partner — and in this case I am using the word attractive to mean an appealing option to have a relationship with. No. In this case you mean attractive. You just can't bring yourself to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:11 PM
1

My comments aren't showing up in my submissions list. I wonder if its because of the age thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 06:53 PM
1

And that proves......
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 06:51 PM
2

That men will: a) pursue them, because...they're women; b) put up with them, because....they're women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:56 PM
2

People lie enough to confound the research. I don't think everyone lies, but enough people do, to make the research that relies on self-reporting, pretty useless. And desire is one of those questionable things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:32 PM
2

People lie continually about this kind of thing. Women don't typically admit to liking teen boys, but all those reports of teachers and students, raise a lot of questions. Most of the research that relies on self-reports about sex is nonsense, because people lie. To the point, that we really don't know anything about the number of sexual partners a person has across a lifetime. And the stuff OP is talking about. That's the stuff people lie about. So we just don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:23 PM
1

Women are far more obsessed with their own age than men. That's why "biological clock," is usually associated with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:24 PM
0

Just comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:20 AM
2

The porn is really good today. Women can be picky. Men aren't out to empress everybody as much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:47 PM
0

Mocking. That bolsters your case. Read the posts. And you keep posting on this thread. Its as though your rage towards young boys is all you have. Why are you so invested in punching down at boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:21 PM
0

If you just read the redpill posts its obvious they're boys. And , yes, there are assholes on Youtube. I'll alert the Nobel Foundation. So yes, you're enraged at the thought, of teen boys dating out of their league. That's no way to live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:53 PM
4

Jesus. I hadn't thought of that. I keep thinking its more of a thing isolated to redpill. But yeah, they're in a lot of punchlines. Well, shame on on all of us, in equal share then. I remember being young and poor. It really sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:52 PM
2

Its certainly the theme of a lot of movies. A lotta noirs, and quite a few westerns. Maybe some people see that as old school romantic. In those kind of movies, the man is a loner, and the woman is the girl next door. I can see that as a boomer thing. But, again, we're still talking about the most socially awkward population of boomers. Its still punching down. Imagine if someone said that to you out loud, "The reason you can't get a girl, is the same reason you don't have friends, because you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:46 PM
3

Remember when I said the Redpill was just mostly teenage boys.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:45 PM
13

Shaming lonely young people. Maybe you should stop doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 02:54 PM
1

The RedPill is obsessed with getting a date. Its a dating strategy, popular with teenage boys. Women are the ones who are obsessed with aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 02:36 PM
1

Nothing you've just said actually addresses the point. These are just high school boys trying to get a date. Why does the idea of teenage boys, dating out of their league, enrage so many women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 02:13 PM
18

So, your analysis is: Men are lonely losers, when it comes to women; because; Men are lonely losers generally. And that's hate. In case you're wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:33 PM
4

But they're not. The Redpill is just a methodology to make yourself more attractive to women. And for whatever reason, this enrages women. To the point where they suggest that its a Taliban franchise. Its boys in high school trying to get a date. Maybe you could stop harassing the teen boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:17 PM
1

I'm obviously being downvoted by Texas Republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:11 PM
-1

I hear lonely and sexless from the Redpill. And so they try and up their game. And that's it. That's all. The rest of it, like, forced monogamy, bringing back slut shaming, how allowing women to work. That's all fiction. You just pulled that out of your butt. Unless you're a Texas republican.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:54 PM
1

So, what's the issue here? You obviously hate porn. Anything else about men you hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:27 AM
1

There is nothing you could have said, to prove my point more. That was awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:24 AM
1

That's the stuff. And you seem angry. Are you that way because the idea of men masturbating to porn enrages you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:57 AM
1

Oh, I need to hear more from you. And some random stories don't prove a point - well they prove cherry-picking, of course. And I'm not pinning an issue on anyone. And I'm really enjoying your unhinged and unpunctuated responses. Don't hold back, go full shrill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:50 AM
1

Acknowledgement of a complaint, is so close actual complaining, that it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:27 PM
1

Well, they're easy to spot, and they scare a lot of people away. Maybe worth a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:50 PM
0

Pushy women are continually on the hunt for men they can boss around. Perhaps you'll meet one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:39 PM
3

Pretty sure every SAHM, believes they're elite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:28 PM
1

That's just old coots and a few loons. I think, the bigger question is, Why are you pretending this exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:32 PM
4

Women in their 30's will like you. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:49 PM
1

No. But there is an omnipresent threat from: The ten year snooze button; The 40 minute chafe; The seven year ache; The one year hairpin; The decade double dribble.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:20 PM
1

Hey, you said it. I'm just filling in the details.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:40 PM
1

Yep. That's right. I mean, Stone Cold Steve Austin, butch. But, yeah. If you're worried about simps, to the point of distraction, then of course you'd seek out the company of butch friends. You can't say, that you won't be friends with simps, and not have people assume you like your friends butch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:35 PM
1

I'm not sure why you find other men, not butch enough for you. I personally don't have a real butch only policy for my friends. But fair enough, you're super-duper butch, and you're uncomfortable being around guys who aren't super-duper butch. So, you guys spend the weekends shaving each others' heads, riding motorcycles, and picking out matching bandanas. I think that's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:16 PM
1

Maybe the mean girls gravitate towards Redpill men. It would explain AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:07 PM
2

Yikes, AWALT is always the go-to. But that's not my experience. I really like mean girls, but its just not worth all the aggravation. Maybe its just that mean girls are attracted to both of us. I kinda like that. Maybe the Redpill thinks the way it thinks, because the mean girls can't resist us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:59 PM
1

So, just don't date controlling women. This post is basically asking, Why are the mean girls so mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:40 PM
6

The Redpill makes total sense. Until you leave school. Then, none of its applicable. It's YA nonfiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:57 PM
1

Because women don't need men as much any more, because they have money. And men don't need women as much, because porn is so much better, these days. And the resulting discord, is driven by the sad few, who are bitter because sex and money are no longer effective, in controlling their partners, or prospective partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:13 PM
4

OK. The context makes it more persuasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 10:39 PM
3

Unconvinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:39 PM
6

You're saying Adam Sandler, over Hugh Grant. Maybe you need to put some more thought into this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:29 PM
1

To be fair, I think everyone hates happy couples on social media. Pretty sure everyone hates happy couples, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:27 PM
5

Nothing happened. The issue was conjured up out of thin air. It was never an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:00 PM
7

When a woman talks to a man, she is scoping him out as a provider. When a man talks to a woman, he's thinking about last night's episode of Robot Chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:10 PM
14

So....men don't think about women and their sex toys at all. And women think about men masturbating to porn, continually. And they hate it. More for the masturbation, than for the porn. It just sounds less controlling if they focus on the porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:49 PM
3

It sounds like your standards are too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:30 PM
1

Never heard of the sex toy issue. Continually hear about the porn issue. Both are things that only controlling and disturbed people would suggest. I do agree with their equivalence, though. Remember porn is what men masturbate to. Attacking porn is attacking masturbation. And attacking masturbation is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:49 PM
1

A hero rises.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 02:05 AM
3

I'm confused. Porn pirate sites are full of onlyfans rips. This happens daily.
/r/MGTOW08/04/21 12:34 AM
1

So in case its unclear: I hear the term fuckboi almost exclusively from this sub. Usually from redpill men. I'm sure women use it. But redpill men are obsessed with the sex lives of the people around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:32 PM
1

The context I provided, is the context I hear it said. Don't hear it much anywhere else but here. The place where everybody wants to create a taxonomy of sexual partners. I'm sure people use it in other contexts. But I see it mentioned more here, than anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:12 PM
1

Its the name insecure men, give to men who're having more sex, than they are. Its derogation, because the insecure men using the term, don't feel he deserves the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:57 PM
2

Maybe it'll change when you graduate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:22 PM
3

I usually just think that its about college. Its really, how to date girls in college. Nothing applies after college.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 04:33 PM
1

Since all the redpills I hear from are still in school, this fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:52 PM
5

Why do people talk like the whole world understands their special code?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 02:05 PM
5

The people I talk to on these subs are all either still in high school or in college. They have a view of women that is informed entirely through the eyes of a student. Not the place for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 12:54 PM
2

You chose well. They are durable, reliable, fun cars. Mine's a 2003 x3.
/r/MGTOW03/10/18 08:07 PM
5

Yeah, pay for your own parking.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 05:09 PM
1

Settle down. Try not to let people get the better of you so easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:04 PM

Nobody is trolling. You asked, I answered. Simmer down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 04:07 AM

You don't seem to live in the real world, where money and relationships exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 03:59 AM

And I understand all of that. It just doesn't sound like anybody here is paying off a steep mortgage in a high cost of living area.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 12:17 PM
1

Finding a mate who's salary is equal to your own is a pretty sweet deal. Maybe a deal that even Chad wouldn't pass up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 06:10 PM

And yeah, this is true. But they are OK with someone who earns around the same, just not less. That still creates a lot of household wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 05:56 PM
1

OK. I like your answer the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 05:53 PM
1

Less trying to attract. Its more like noticing couples with 2 professionals, and how their life is. I don't understand how people can envy Chad, but not the couple next door with all the spare income.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 05:38 PM
1

A life with 2 high earning partners and no kids is pretty sweet. Consciously trading that for maybe a bit more sex seems wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:56 PM
1

Sex over money. What could go wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:09 PM

See above.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 01:01 PM

So, made-up nonsense that you can't defend. We agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 03:21 AM

Sexual selection is not evolutionary. It might have been at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 02:00 PM

So, who has access to the switch that turns off evolution. Is it God? The people who run the Matrix? Gremlins? Science in general, including evolution, does not just turn itself off. Who says that science can simply be suspended? Other than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 03:28 PM

Thanks for the context. But where does this mode 2 concept come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 09:28 PM

None of that fits in my world view. Who is having mode 2 sex? Is this a redpill thing? Is it your thing? Is it a feminist thing? Is there an explanation of it somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 08:16 PM

So, women have 2 sexual modes, then? The regular beta, sexual mode. Which is reserved for lower valued men. And the alpha sexual mode, which is really, really great. I mean, its awesome. And that mode is reserved for Chads and the redpill guys. You understand that you are suggesting that there is a sexual switch that can only be activated by redpill guys. That's a little far-fetched.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 01:55 PM

You mean your statement. This is about you clarifying your position to the point that someone, who isn't deeply entrenched in an echo-chamber, can understand. Sorry that its so difficult for you to make your little manifesto defensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 02:04 PM

I've come to the conclusion that trauma is the source of most mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 07:16 PM

OK. The route of all bad things is trauma. You're wrong, but now at least I know the point you were trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 05:22 PM

So, if you could say it in a couple of sentences.....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 05:32 PM
1

I am still hit on by women, and I'm in my fifties. Not often, and only usually by women in my age bracket. I make sure they understand that I have a partner, and am in a relationship. Then the conversation continues, because we're grown up people. Sexual tension is a part of life. And I know that for some people, that's not the case. And that's why I visit this sub. A life lived with no sexual tension at all would be very unhappy for me. Interestingly, I actually think that its the tension that …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 08:40 PM
2

Oh, I always liked them butch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 09:39 PM
1

Yes. Its called pillow talk. That's the way people discuss their likes and experiences. I always considered it healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 04:09 PM
1

You can learn most of what you need. Watch salesmen and politicians. Your life is pretty open-ended on the social side.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/16 10:21 PM
1

Not bothered at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/16 10:17 PM
0

There is much less downvoting than I expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 02:42 PM
2

Here you go!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 03:04 AM
1

Not an RP or BP. Just watching. I look at documentaries on polyamory, and they are usually about an apex woman with a couple of men partners. The woman usually says something about how well the fellas get on with each other. But their body language, when the fellas are together is just all kinds of cringe. When I think of polyamory, I think one thing: It's a couple of men with a cuckold fetish, and a woman who may or may not know what's going on. I've never seen an alpha male within a million mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 03:15 PM
1

So, you're looking for: A moderate harlot @ 4 partners A discreet trollop @ 3 partners A tepid tramp @ 2 partners
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 07:01 PM
2

Thanks. I find it makes the rest of the world much more tolerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 02:15 AM
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Thanks. That's how I describe my common law partner. Our first date was in 1985. We only lasted about a year. I looked her up ten years later, and after dating long distance for 15 years, we moved in together. There's a line in the Hobbit, when Bilbo describes Elrond as being, As kind as Summer That's how I feel about my sweetheart. Overall, I think kindness gets left out, when we talk about desirable traits in partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 01:27 AM
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I watched a TED Talk about relationships and their effect on longevity and health. Based on that, and my own choices, I want one thing from a woman: Someone who is kinder than I deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 01:09 AM
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And that's unfortunate. You clearly posted on here to find some kind of validation, of some wrong that you feel your co-worker committed. Its now becoming obvious that the only wrong here was your attempt to gather support from strangers, by making him the object of ridicule, on one of harshest subs, of reddit. Given your actions, your silence will be more than welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 12:49 AM
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Then why are treating him this way. I would never, ever do that to a friend. That's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 12:39 AM
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That's too bad. You need to really have a look at why everyday, normal interactions with friendly and well-meaning coworkers anger you like this. Did you have feelings this young man? Did you feel rejected by him? Are you seeking validation for your inexplicably hurt feelings? Could it be that you're looking to blame someone for the crushing loneliness that surrounds every waking moment of your life? You need to be a much more open and accepting person. Then people will be more open to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 12:35 AM
1

Why are you collecting opinions? [edit] And my answer did directly answer your question. You just didn't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 12:02 AM
1

People get rattled. If I knew that a judgmental co-worker was creating entire threads on public message boards to talk about who's snack I paid for, I'd be rattled as well. That's what I said. That's my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 11:55 PM
1

I am not invested. But you asked for an opinion. I gave you one. If you don't like the opinions you receive, maybe you should look at your own conduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 11:45 PM
1

Somebody didn't buy you a snack, and you feel it rises to the level of a thread on Reddit? You need a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 11:35 PM
1

I know you see nothing wrong. That's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 11:27 PM
1

That's like saying theft is fine, if you don't get caught. What would your co-worker think?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 11:23 PM
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You are doing something far worse than judging your co-worker - you are inviting others to judge him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 11:19 PM
1

People get rattled. If I knew that a judgmental co-worker was creating entire threads on public message boards to talk about who's snack I paid for, I'd be rattled as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 10:58 PM
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Having a bit of a hard time with that one. Celibate to me always meant - free of the drama and conflict associated with having partners. Is the view that celibacy means not touching yourself, a common one?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 11:34 PM
2

Yes. Although, you can probably make a case that the group, who go as far as to regularly read and post in the bluepill sub, have some of the same political leanings. I always assume that its a politically progressive group. But that's a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 09:27 PM
1

Oh, well that makes more sense. Its the anticipation of schadenfreude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 08:55 PM
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But, his life isn't terrible. To be schadenfreude, doesn't he have to get really sick or lose all his money? Schadenfreude over a bad haircut?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 08:40 PM
2

I feel more comfortable saying that people who regularly attend christian places of worship in North America is declining. I think Christianity in Africa is booming.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 05:13 PM
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Well, there's no way I can pretend I have any recent experience with 20 year olds. It seems counter-intuitive that women would be less forward than they were. However, feminism was much better received in 1985. I'll accept your analysis as reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 04:11 AM
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I like Whisper's post. I may read it a couple more times. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 12:16 AM
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Sometimes you just can't say the right thing. And I may have pissed off enough people today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 11:21 PM
1

54, in March.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 11:17 PM
2

I Can't answer. Won't answer. Afraid to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 10:27 PM
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I think that's an important point. The real world and the student world are very different. I would find working at a university very restrictive. But yes, in the post-student world, its all a little less tense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 10:18 PM
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Oh, you did. And you explained it without all that jargon. I'm fascinated by it all. There is so much resentment on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 10:09 PM
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Gotcha. But I gotta say I learned a lot about the redill from you. And, yeah, extremes at either end of the continuum are best avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 09:58 PM
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So, there's less homogeneity than I thought. I also believed that as red pill guys progressed towards alpha status, they would be less resentful towards Chads. Because they were becoming Chad. I don't get that sense here. Am I mistaken in that? Last question, I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 09:44 PM
0

Our experiences differ. I can live with that. Should I send someone to let you out? Got enough to eat in there?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 09:36 PM
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That's a good post. It explains a lot. So, maybe I've misunderstood something here. I believed that redpill guys think that Chad represents maybe 5% of the male population. From your list, it looks like Chad could be 60% of the population. In which case... I'm actually Chad, and my experience is irrelevant to the redpill movement. Darn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 09:26 PM
1

And our experiences differ. And I can live with that without calling them asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 09:15 PM
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I would hate to think I was. But I sincerely dislike the Forever Alone: the Man Edition, tone of these discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 09:06 PM
2

I guess they don't approach all men. Maybe they're approaching men you don't know. Are there men and women you don't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 09:00 PM
0

Damnit. Looking, back - maybe I was Chad Thundercock!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 08:49 PM
5

I'm not sure anyone is suggesting that men wait to be asked out. The contentious issue was the suggestion that women approaching men is a very rare phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 08:47 PM
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Well, I'm glad somebody is approaching this topic with good humour. I'm starting to believe, that without realizing it, I am secretly am Chad Thundercock. Cause only Chad would ever be approached by a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 08:27 PM
1

Very rarely That's what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 08:14 PM
2

But the girls aren't Taylor Swift, and the boys aren't in One Direction. Most of the times its just regular folks trying to make a connection. I get the feeling that people think I'm saying hot chicks are asking guys out. It's actually just regular people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 08:08 PM
-1

Asinine? Really? The thought of women asking men out is asinine?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 07:57 PM
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And sometimes that's best. The real caveat here is that you're not always going to be approached by someone who is appealing to you. Actually that's more the rule, than the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 07:54 PM
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And I've always been asked out, from the 70's on up. And shy guys often attract the pushiest girls - who have to ask them out. No sale.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 07:41 PM
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Um, age and hair. That's it. That's all. If you're in your fifties, a man, and have a full head of hair -you're a god. And age in general, levels the playing field. 99% of you aren't going you aren't going to look like like Richard Gere when you're as old as him. Eventually everyone will be about the same level of ugly. Except the guys who keep their hair - they're the Chads of the future. Propecia for everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 07:35 PM
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Young women frequently approach men. All women, frequently approach men. Sorry you aren't experiencing this change in social dynamics that happened 30 years ago. [edit] So, I'm pretty sure that I intended to say women of all ages, instead of all women. I think I probably deserve those downvotes for the way it reads originally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 07:23 PM
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The expression used a lot is Your best self. Just try and find the relatable and compelling stories within that wide array of interests you have. You'll just be telling the best stories you have. And I'm not going to talk to you anymore, because I'll be repeating the same things. Good luck and good night buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 02:39 AM
1

But, it isn't faking it. It's a way to show your humanity. It proves to someone else that you are interested in the achievements, triumphs and adversity that other people face. It shows that you think about other people. If you want a relationship with someone yourself - you'd like them to be someone who thinks about other people. This is how people figure out if you're safe to be close to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 02:29 AM
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Well, a lot of the stories are dull - and so are the people. But the few interesting stories in each field are terrific. And you're trying to get other people to find you interesting - in person. Usually that means making your interests compelling. And stories and anecdotes about people are compelling. Watch the late night talk-shows. They are basically a parade of people telling short compelling stories - invariably, about people. And the people telling them look interesting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 02:12 AM
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Awesome: You're a coder who kayaks and listens to classical music - but you're not stuffy, 'cause you like metal. And not only do you read- you read philosophy. Classical music is full of fantastic stories about composers sitting alone in a dark room, coughing up blood, but fighting to stay alive long enough to finish a symphony. Learn a few stories like that. It's the stories about people who create the music and art and even science that are compelling. If you want to make your interests compe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 01:49 AM
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I develop new interests all the time. But I suppose none of them were to meet girls - except dancing. I'm not kidding about the dancing. I think the red pill is really just for guys that don't dance. I'm afraid I don't know what makes an autistic interest. And now, I really want to know. Are they activities that you can really focus on? See - I want know more about you already. I'm thinking video games - please don't say video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 01:29 AM
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Well, looking back, I think I had more success with women, because they found me interesting - rather than accomplished. And dancing. Learn to dance -well. As a young man, it all happened for me on the dance floor. When someone asks you about your favorite movie - talk about it's backstory. Movies like Hal Hartly's Trust, or The Blue Dahlia have riveting back stories. Read fiction. Read literary biographies like Savage Art -the Jim Thompson story. Watch documentaries. People are culturally aspir…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 01:10 AM
1

Red Pill men are working towards being the person you describe at the top there. I am unsure how far along any of them are. I think of a redpill man as someone who is working on himself. That is one of the greatest positives of the redpill stuff. I think a lot of people admire that in a person. But that list up there. Look, it's nothing new. You're just describing Gary Cooper in 1938. And there are no Gary Coopers in the redpill movement. Aspiring Coops - certainly. And its that aspiration that …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 10:49 PM
1

I'll say what I always say: Many of the red pill advocates here are young men - sometimes high school students. Many of the blue pill advocates are grown, feminist leaning women who are disturbed by the movement's view of women. So its a lot of grown women who want to talk about sex with random teenage boys, anonymously, on the Internet. I'm never leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 11:03 PM
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I don't think about how much sex other people are having. I actually don't even think about how much sex I'm having. So the sex lives of hypothetical people interest me even less.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 08:11 PM
2

That would actually be a pretty much bluepill way to do it. It's not you - its me, kinda statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 04:51 PM
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You could point to your own insecurities, that prevent you from enjoying sex with someone who knows what they're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 04:41 PM
1

I think the dominant concern is that it is impossible to believe that it does produce positive results. All this redpill stuff, just sounds like L Ron Hubbard and some random pick-up artist had a child together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 06:55 PM
1

But what's being asked here isn't about alphas. Its about redpillers. Since every redpiller believes they're alphas, and nobody outside of these subs thinks about alphas much - we are actually being asked about redpillers. Or am I wrong? Can you be a redpiller, without being an alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 06:13 PM
1

Poet-level ability with language. Great post!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 05:54 PM
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It is something irrelevant. I don't hear much about it outside of these subs. I get that redpillers want to be one. But I don't think anybody else cares. I guess, if I see someone being thrown out of a place for being a jerk - I usually think alpha. The guys who spend all day at the public library using the free internet to search for love on Plenty of Fish - those are alphas. Alpha, to me means - can't adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 05:44 PM
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Because it is so profoundly sad that this level of distrust exists between people who claim to have unique insight into both genders. It fascinates me in the same way that /r/iamverysmart does. But ultimately, it makes me sad, because everyone just wants to spend a bit more time with the opposite gender. And that should be possible without manifestos and rules, etc. I feel sad that people make fun of lonely young men. And sad that the methodology suggested is so cynical. Its all a nasty trainwre…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 11:12 PM
1

`Cause in the 1940's, Wonder Woman, along with every other woman appearing in comic books, was usually tied to a chair by page 16.
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