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I am not really trying to figure out something. My intention was to see if it was offensive to other women as well. A lot of people are expressing other things, like his opinions, intentions, value, etc. I'm thinking about it as i read it and reacting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 03:10 AM
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Yeah could be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 03:07 AM
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No it wasn't a reason he was sharing it. His reason to share it was just because he found it funny. He said that when we were discussing what the guy was saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 03:06 AM
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About 2 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 12:49 PM
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I wanted to add Not philanthropy, not marriage, not security, not so the things he would buy you, but swapping out his girlfriend. He talks about these things every day to the point i sometimes get tired of hearing it. He is more eager than me to marry, settle down, have security, family, a home, etc. You were offended, so what is his response. He responded by doing many things, he looked at the comments, he said he'd send it to his mum and sister for their response, he said "it's ok we have a d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 12:46 PM
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I do want to mention one more thing he said, i just remembered. Maybe a woman in the audience will hear this and realise that she's with someone like that and leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 12:28 PM
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Interesting view on it. I will think more on this point, and keep it in mind. I do hope it's not the worst case scenario, but i am not excusing his behaviour and i still believe in the best case scenario that he should've been more conscious. but will lie their asses off once they see their relationship is in jeopardy. Lies are something i can't take for sure, i need total honesty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 12:26 PM
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Thank you for telling me how it made you feel and how you reacted! I reacted similarly and had the same thoughts. I am a little overwhelmed by everyone telling me to dump him, because it's not really what i asked for 😅 I do value the opinions and advice! I am just trying to understand and learn things to make informed choices as i go. Anyway my point being thank you! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 12:17 PM
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I'm sorry i didn't mean to quote "hot chicks" as if it was something my bf said 😅 it was more directed to the comedian, because of the way he was portraying women. You have to evaluate his truth and morals. This is what I'm trying to do. Can you give me examples on how to evaluate truth and morals? If he isnt the guy you want u shouldnt even think what he "should be" I used should for him the same way you did for me. Not saying I'm going to make him change something, but to differentiate what I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 12:02 PM
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Hmm interesting... That is what I thought. This isn't funny, it's just not nice. But it makes me wonder about laughing just at the humorous aspect. Not really on what the context is. Like I have this thing where i laugh at inappropriate times, for example if something unfortunate happens like 🙊 a friend trips and falls, or bumps into something. I can't help but laugh, even if i feel bad for her and I'm apologising and trying to help her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 11:45 AM
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Right he's definitely not calling anyone out. It is super sad. It's also sad that men behave that way, and they're shameless about it. I would not want to be associated with a kind that is so shallow and selfish. To treat others as worthless or only of worth when it serves you is so nasty. Reminds me of the Llama in the emperors new groove.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 11:36 AM
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Well yes he did say "we have different senses of humour" he also said and did other things. But could you give me an alternative scenario of a HV response? If you don't mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 11:08 AM
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I am definitely not trying to fix him. What I think he needs to be doing is a personal requirement. I don't want my children to be around this kind of degrading humour. And I made that clear. "potential" Right about not sticking around for potential. I am observing and noting things that I am ok with and things I'm not. A deal breaker for me like I mentioned in another comment is if he believes money equals younger hotter women, instead of improving the quality of life for his family. I haven't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 11:04 AM
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He didn't agree with me that the comedian is offensive, he agreed that it's nasty that men swap women when they have money. His point was it's the type of comedy where people make jokes about edgy topics. To him it was a joke on an ugly truth or whatever. To me even though it's true, it's not funny, and i think the comedian is an ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 10:39 AM
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Exactly! I highly doubt any woman would feel good after that. I don't think he thinks it's good or bad i think he just thinks it's funny and nothing deeper than that. But even so that is not an excuse. He should be thinking about it. He should be more sensitive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 09:26 AM
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Thank you! This sub is one of the best things that has happened to me. I'm so grateful for a community of women who validate beliefs and feelings I've always had, that were never before validated. It gives me hope in this world. A world where atrocities and obnoxious things are normalised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 08:55 AM
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I can't remember exactly. But he agreed that it's shitty and men like that are nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 08:47 AM
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Hm true, people hide and lie all the time. I am generally a very suspicious person, and I question and scrutinize every little thing. (Trust issues resulting from people lying and manipulating me in my life) I am careful, some might say too careful. But I think it's good and I'm not planning on being less anytime soon. So far I've noted instances where he values family and faithfulness. This particular instance is definitely a note of concern. The correct response to a video like that is disgust…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 08:43 AM
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Yeah it is pretty disgusting. I think he needs to be more selective and thoughtful with the content he consumes and finds entertaining. If his beliefs truly are money = younger hotter women instead of money = better quality of life for my family Then believe me this guy will be gone before he can spell the word funny or money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 08:22 AM
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Hmmm yeah i didn't laugh, and wouldn't think any woman would find it funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 08:14 AM
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Hahahhaha yes great point.. Yeah that means either see ya when you get rich or I'll look for someone who is already rich. I don't need to be a stepping stone, wtf. Anyway looks don't equal some dudes income. I've had many weird, old, ugly ass "rich" dudes approach me. Doesn't mean i wanna be with them and definitely doesn't mean they are worth me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 08:11 AM
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Excellent points! You sound like a brilliant woman! ✨ A lot of the points you made are the ones I shared. I was just reading them going YES! YES! YES! hahah in general it's a bad sign when a guy is into "gold digger" content, serious tip of the iceberg stuff in most cases. He quoted "a woman's loyalty is tested when her man's poor, and a man's loyalty is tested when he's rich" I replied with "yeah can you imagine how shitty it is when she has been faithful and supportive to his broke ass, and he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 07:56 AM
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Wow I love this comment! Thank you for taking time and effort to write this whole thing for me! 💗 Yes I agree that some people may find it funny, but he's a comedian... It's his job to be funny. A person with a good sense of humour can make anything funny. It disturbed me that he chose to normalise shitty shallow male behaviour. Why doesn't he make jokes about how disgusting men can be and how it's better to be alone than be in a relationship with a waste of a woman's fertility. I am definitely …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 07:39 AM
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Thank you for your reply and for the validation 😅 I believe most women would also be offended and i just wanted confirmation. About his intentions I'm not sure, but you are the second person to say that he's indirectly telling me he could do better if he was rich. He did read the comment section to see what other people said and was reading the comments out loud where people said they "didn't agree with the dude and they're happy with their wife even when they got rich and would never think of l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 06:12 AM
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It doesn't really matter to me what someone thinks about how I feel about something. If they are curious I can explain my reasons. But my purpose is to see if others share the same feeling. I feel this dude is offensive, but just because I feel offended doesn't mean the person is an offender. If a lot of women feel offended then he is infact being offensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:51 AM
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I said that too. That this is true, and I don't like that it's being normalised. He said well maybe he's calling them out with comedy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:42 AM
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I wanted to know if what he is saying is upsetting to other women too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:38 AM
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he only loves her for what she can do for him. This. It's not love. It's bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 05:28 PM
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This is an underrated comment. Why do we need to fake it??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:20 PM
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Aww thank you for taking time out to reply to me anyway 💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:49 PM
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Yeah I think that's why I felt something was off, I didn't feel like I was being taken care of and provided for. I felt like there were so many expectations of me and he always wanted more. But I could never really express it because I also don't want a 50 50 relationship where I have to work and pay the bills. I felt selfish to say anything about it. If you have the time and you don't mind, could you tell me the differences between a provider and someone who is financially controlling you and e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:44 PM
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I am not married. It is my ex boyfriend I'm talking about. We had separate apartments but spent most of the time at mine because it was more comfortable. I wanted to work at some point but did not find a decent job and was discouraged by him to work because he was ready to pay for everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:27 PM
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This one kinda confuses me.. my ex always told me that because he works and (almost) pays for everything, I should take care of the house and prepare meals. To be 'equal'. It felt weird to me but I felt like I couldn't say anything because I wasn't really paying for the bills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:20 PM
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What if he says he's paying all the bills so I should take care of the home?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:08 PM
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Respectable men do not ogle.*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:39 AM
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I wanna read this Wattpad book
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 04:47 AM
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Ahahah true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:06 PM
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The comments here 👌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:05 PM
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It's not that they're not turned by a female CEO. They are just not turned on by women. They are turned on by a false sense of self value in the form of power and oppression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:52 PM
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Lol what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:16 AM
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Ew same! I thought they were trying to get closer or something. Ewwwww 🤢 I'm disgusted now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:09 AM
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Vetting the guy you're seeing not other guys...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:01 AM
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Awww, I love him for you 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:03 AM
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I think they can still be a hoe with commitment issues.. like with one night stands and fwbs 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 02:59 AM
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Yum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 02:56 AM
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It is actually a turn off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 05:50 PM
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Lollll did you date my ex????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 10:42 AM
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Aww what a little dream
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 09:45 AM
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This made my mouth water with hope 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 09:43 AM
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"relatively successful, decent looking" Soooo.. mediocre af. "If you love cooking and entertaining then I might just be the perfect match." Bro, how are you the perfect match?? By getting fed and entertained?? What a dumbass. "I had a dream" yeah.... That's exactly what it is. And for the cherry on top "Come out come out wherever you are!!" You sound like a fucking horror about to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 07:37 AM
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YESSS!! They always crack me up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:47 PM
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I would think the insult is that he is unwanted by women. That no body wants to touch his nasty ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:48 AM
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I've always hated Adam Sandler.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:16 AM
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Where do I find more lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:20 AM
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Its so OBVIOUS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:20 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:01 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:47 AM
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FDS women never fail to make me laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 06:19 AM
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Who is the author You might want to read the book burn out if you haven’t already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:30 AM
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😂 fr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:41 AM
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Flair please! ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:49 AM
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How do you remove the exif data?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:33 AM
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From one plant mom to another. I'll give some of your comments upvotes to make up for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:20 AM
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I feel like this sub was one of the few gifts this year gave me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:01 AM
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You should get an electric heating pad. I have one it's great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:48 AM
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