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Right, I get that. But he's not doing it face to face, it's an app. Some of this stuff would probably work on online dating sites. But in real life things don't work that way and you actually have to be able to carry a conversation. It's easy to pretend to not give a fuck when you aren't actually talking to the person and don't care about the outcome.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 08:43 AM
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Not sure how this is redpill...he's trolling on Tinder. Most girls are just there to chat and fuck around, they'll respond to any pick up line because they're already attracted to the guy, else they wouldn't be able to message them.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 08:04 AM
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There's nothing wrong with it if he wants to continue on this path. Isn't the whole point of this subreddit to teach guys that thinking someday things will fall into place exactly as you imagined without changing anything is not how life works? "If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten"
/r/seduction26/01/14 08:57 PM
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I never said do a lot of work to make her interested. I meant do something different because what he's doing obviously isn't work. Don't go to great lengths, just change your approach. I did not mean change who he is as a person to match what he thinks the girl will like.
/r/seduction26/01/14 08:54 PM
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Don't think I missed the point. 1) Just because you're not satisfied with the way things are working out with a girl doesn't mean you need to call a meeting and let her know it's not working for you. It wasn't emotionally healthy for you? Then don't see or talk to her and maybe she'll be the one trying to hang out. It sounds like you wanted to make a scene in hopes something would come of it. 2) It comes off as if you were disappointe not just b/c things didn't go as planned, but b/c you expecte…
/r/seduction26/01/14 11:17 AM
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So you cut a girl off for good because she didn't instantly reciprocate your feelings and respond like you thought she would? The whole picture you painted of telling her this sounds more like a breakup between a boyfriend and a girlfriend, when really it was you being upset things didn't instantly go as you thought they would. I know this comes off as harsh but this comes from my own experience and seeing this with other guys - a girl not being interested in you is not her fault and she has no …
/r/seduction26/01/14 09:30 AM
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Pretty solid advice - overthinking coming up with the perfect first date idea is another I'd add. You're still getting to know her, you don't need some elaborate, unique idea to get this girl to go out if she's already given you her number. I'd like to see an article like this for after the first date - anyone?
/r/seduction21/11/13 07:02 PM
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I actually got more out of Swingers learning from Mike (Favreau) who in the beginning can't get over his past girlfriend and lets it spill into other parts of his life. He get's that one girls number, gets excited and leaves her a bunch of messages. Whereas Trent is the exact opposite and doesn't let outside events change who he is and how he feels. Be like Trent.
/r/seduction02/09/13 08:27 AM
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You are not putting a girl on a pedestal if you call them cute in the same way you would refer to a puppy or baby as cute. This whole being afraid of accidently complimenting a girl thing, as if it makes you weak, is a bit ridiculous.
/r/seduction25/08/13 10:38 AM
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I wasn't calling out the story for being false, you misunderstood me. I am saying that anyone who thinks in those terms "ermahgedz a HB5 totes just tried to DHV me, good thing I used cat-string theory and plenty of negs" needs to burn their copy of 'The Game' and go outside and start interacting and thinking like a real human being.
/r/seduction15/06/13 11:59 PM
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By the time I got to the bottom of the original post I thought this was someone making a joke of seduction terms, only to realize he was serious. Lulz
/r/seduction15/06/13 04:17 PM
1

When you say inner game minutia, are you talking about the stuff dealing with NLP, etc? You kinda just blew my mind with this, tell me more.
/r/seduction31/03/13 09:09 PM
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/r/seduction30/03/13 10:27 PM
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You sure he was actually headed to Starbucks before he even talked to her? Because it doesn't sound like that. What it seems like to me is that he was eager to talk to the girl and therefore acted like he was going to Starbucks to have a reason to go with her. I never said there is anything wrong or walking and talking with a stranger, but going to the same place that they are just to talk to them is different.
/r/seduction31/12/12 01:41 AM
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I disagree. He introduced himself to her out of nowhere...no conversation whatsoever from what it sounds like...and then follows to Starbucks. Doesn't seem normal.
/r/seduction30/12/12 07:24 PM
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Lol, this is why you don't "game" and act like you've browsed a pick up forum and just approached a girl for the first time. Be a real person. You literally had 5 seconds of conversation with her and follow her to Starbucks, what the fuck?
/r/seduction30/12/12 05:02 AM
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Sooo, completely naked...wearing Sperry's...and a couple bottles of Carlo Rossi?
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:11 AM
3

"Do you wanna come over to my place and fuck....in the rain?"
/r/seduction19/06/12 06:40 AM
1

Like I said, it depends on the circumstances - I've had conversations that have only been a few minutes and asked for the number because it seemed right. Don't just get in that mindset where your brain is telling you "OMG you need to get her number! She's cute and she's talking to you!". That's what I meant. It just comes off as weird if you're asking for a girl's number when there's no connection or attraction.
/r/seduction05/05/12 08:41 AM
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In reference to what he said after, about getting too many numbers - don't be that guy that asks for a girls number right off the bat, even if you've been having a good conversation. Obviously this depends on circumstances and how smooth you are, but you gotta wait for a sign of some sort that the girl would like to continue the conversation. I still do this from time to time, usually when a bit of alcohol is involved, and find myself not following up after with the girl if I feel I asked for th…
/r/seduction05/05/12 05:45 AM
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I didn't mean repeatedly texting the girl, I meant the fact that you do this do a lot of girls. To me, it's just a form of guilt tripping. Hey, maybe the girl didn't see your text or some other excuse, who knows. If a girl doesn't text or call me back the first time, I'll probably do another 'follow up' and if there's nothing then, on to the next one. I'm a sarcastic person, it's just not my style to text a girl telling her she's bad at texting or calling.
/r/seduction04/05/12 08:26 PM
1

This makes it seem like you really need to get the attention of the girl. It's one thing to call or send a text, it's another to keep doing it if the girl doesn't respond. Isn't one of the rules of this whole seduction thing that if a girl doesn't text/call you back, or make time for you, that you move onto the next one like it's no big thing?
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:31 AM
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Paying for something, hell anything, makes you an AFC? Right. I think some of you get too caught up in acting as alpha as possible. It's ok to pay things, it's ok to split. It's ok to be vulnerable and not act like you know exactly what you're going to do (referencing to the whole tell the waiter to split the bills at the beginning). I agree that I never want material things to be the reason a women dates me, but you're getting away from the point of this thread. I would never take a girl out if…
/r/seduction30/04/12 08:02 PM
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I wouldn't expect a girl to throw a fit - I just think it would give off a weird vibe. Like the guy before me said, it does seem passive aggressive. Anyways, the reason I'd wait till it comes time to pay the bill is because in my experience, some girls will at least make an effort on the 1st date and say "Oh no no, don't pay for it, let's split" or something to that extent.
/r/seduction30/04/12 06:36 PM
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I agree. Seems a bit odd to me to say that right off the bat, rather than handle it after the meal.
/r/seduction30/04/12 08:46 AM
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I see. I agree that every girl isn't the same, and that there are some that you have to take it slow with, at least when you're not just looking for a quick hook up. It just sounded like she was really taken aback by the kiss because she didn't see you that way, but I don't know her and I'm just basing this off your story. I had a similar thing happen to me while studying abroad 2 years ago. Met Italian girl at the university, hung out a few times for the last few weeks I was there. There was ob…
/r/seduction29/04/12 02:23 AM
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Sounds like you were friendzoned and didn't escalate things quickly enough. If you act like just a friend to a girl, then that's what she'll see you as.
/r/seduction29/04/12 01:55 AM
1

I agree, I have only recently started to notice my reliance on alcohol to not feel somewhat nervous when talking to a girl I just met. I always knew this, but it took me a few years to figure it out. I try to watch myself more closely when I drink, but when you're in college this is harder to do when you go out with kids whose only goal is to get as drunk as possible. If you need alcohol just to loosen up and feel 'normal', this can be bad as then your drunk self might assume that the more you d…
/r/seduction28/04/12 11:44 PM
1

I would say if you know the girl is into you - and if you're doing things right, by the time you get her number she should be - texting is ok. If you got the number quickly for whatever reason, then I'd say call.
/r/seduction10/04/12 07:04 AM
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In response to #2, some people have bad instincts/intuition, so trusting them isn't always the answer. Developing better instincts is the solution.
/r/seduction10/04/12 06:09 AM
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You have learned well, young padawan.
/r/seduction23/03/12 10:20 AM
2

But seriously...I find myself interested in (not just attracted to) girls that keep me on my toes and aren't like every other girl I've met . I guess that's a pretty broad statement but it's hard to describe. A girl who likes similar music (hip hop, rock), has good style, confidence, and sarcasm/humor is how I'd sum it up.
/r/seduction23/03/12 06:35 AM
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Am I the only one who feels it would be necessary to say Version 1 with sarcasm? Telling a girl she's your type right off the bat and being completely serious can give her the wrong impression. Then again, I'm just a sarcastic motherfucker in general.
/r/seduction22/03/12 10:47 AM
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Outkast said it best: "Real guys go for real down to Mars girls, yeah!" ;)
/r/seduction22/03/12 10:40 AM
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Sarcasm > you
/r/seduction01/02/12 09:58 PM
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Just send her this: "DTF?" If she responds by saying you're a creep, that she doesn't fuck on the first date, etc...your response is: "Woah...I was just seeing if you Down To play Frisbee? Jeez, I'm not that kind of guy!"
/r/seduction01/02/12 10:22 AM
2

This guy knows what's up. Although I'd say I'm a combo of 3/4. Had a great experience, it just gets old as you get towards the end of college - not to say I wasn't still partying it up at that point.
/r/seduction02/09/11 02:10 AM
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A lot of guys with the negative comments more than likely have no experience whatsoever and are basing their opinions off movies/stereotype. I was in a fraternity, like anything else it has it's positives and negatives. For one, you aren't paying for friends, the money is a social bill that goes towards throwing parties/other social events. The friendships you make in the house are going to be based off who you are, not the money you pay. It's funny how the guys who say we're "paying for friends…
/r/seduction02/09/11 02:06 AM
2

Lots of girls flirt even when they have boyfriend. Some are doing it just because they know they can and like the attention...others do it because they might actually be looking for a hook up. Forget about her and move on.
/r/seduction02/09/11 01:54 AM
2

I think the napkin rose is a cool idea, although I'd probably use it on a girl I already know/have been trying to get with. It's better than the magic trick/psychological games that The Game talks about, which make you look like you're trying really hard to impress some girl you just met.
/r/seduction21/07/11 09:43 AM
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+1 to whoever said Hank Moody. I can't really think of a better example, and I hate to try to compare real people/myself to a fictional character, but it's true. He doesn't give a fuck and is who he is, but at the same time he doesn't come off as the stereotype alpha males: he knows who he is and is comfortable with it. Seriously, the word "alpha" itself is retarded: it just gives off this vibe that being an alpha male means you have to try to act like someone your not.
/r/seduction21/07/11 09:40 AM
1

If you have to ask, yes.
/r/seduction07/05/11 07:31 PM
3

Handle it the same as last minute resistance. Act like it doesn't phase you and you're getting bored, and if anything tease her back. But seriously, fuck girls like that. I understand why girls do LMR, but if you're already hooking up with a guy and then start being a tease, what's the point? I had a girl pull that shit on me a couple weekends ago, I told her "well, you know where the door is", and that ended it (being a tease).
/r/seduction03/05/11 03:05 AM
1

So then my next question is, say you realize you haven't built enough attraction but girl still responds to texts, just maybe not showing complete interest. What do you do?
/r/seduction26/04/11 09:01 PM
3

Is it just me, or do many girls not answer phone calls unless they are either extremely attracted/into you right off that bat or until they know you better? I don't have a problem with calling, just so many girls seem to prefer text.
/r/seduction26/04/11 04:26 PM
1

Contemplating texting her in a few days with something like "You seem extremely busy, do you think I could get your secretary's number to make plans?"
/r/seduction25/04/11 10:13 PM
1

Haven't had too many opportunities to demonstrate value, the 2 times we have hung have been very brief and I was either interested in another girl or just out of it. It's hard to demonstrate value/spark attraction via text/phone, even harder when the girl barely uses it. I like the idea of telling her I want to hang out with her directly and when would be a good time to, except that puts it out there in a way that I already have feelings/expectations.
/r/seduction25/04/11 03:29 AM
2

"What?! You're supposed to be my bodyguard and you don't even have my number?!" [sad face] I wouldn't have gone with the Facebook line just out of preference. I would have given her my phone and made her put in the number with a memorable name to remember her by...or asked for her number, called her on the spot, and try to start having a conversation via phone with her.
/r/seduction21/04/11 04:06 AM
3

I can't take full credit for this, got the idea off here...it's a good change-up from "Hey! this is mpm4, we met at ____" or whatever's your go to line just to get the conversation going. I've tried this a few times now and have had good responses so far...sometimes I do it immediately after getting their number (also got that off here) and that can work really well too.
/r/seduction21/04/11 03:59 AM
1

Well played, good sir.
/r/seduction21/04/11 01:35 AM
75

Yeah, wouldn't use the "teabag queen" line for obvious reasons... "I met this cute girl at a coffee shop today and she gave me her number on a tea bag, kind of odd but I figure she's worth a shot. What do you think?"
/r/seduction20/04/11 06:35 PM
1

I don't think there is anything wrong with texting unless you overdo it. Calling can be done when setting up dates/trying to meet up. Otherwise, texting is a good way to make small talk and have her thinking of you in between seeing each other.
/r/seduction13/04/11 07:43 PM
1

Sarcasm detector broken? She said she met the boyfriend the night at the bar...c'mon now.
/r/seduction31/03/11 03:39 AM
1

1) Tell her you need a "test-run" for your "investment" 2) Get dome 3) Tell her to f-off 4) ???? 5) Profit
/r/seduction02/03/11 08:47 AM
12

Great video. Really good points of continuing conversation about anything/everything, playful negging, etc.
/r/seduction24/02/11 11:01 AM
3

Respek, yo. This is exactly the type of mindset I am looking to have above all the "act alpha, do this, do that" sort of mentality associated with pick up. I want to be content with myself to the point where whether I get shut down by a HB6 or hook up with a 10 that it won't affect my sense of self worth.
/r/seduction10/02/11 10:27 AM
1

Thanks.
/r/seduction20/11/10 08:13 PM
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