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Debatemrfoozywooj/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:42 AM
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Men care about income but it has nowhere near the level of importance women put on income. I was in a relationship with a girl who owned a $14M apartment and another girl who was even richer than her, It wasnt enough to keep me around, the money just wasnt important, it would have been nice if i was genuinely more into them but that wasnt the case. I work in corporate and the girlboss that nobody wants to date is a very real stereotype, men have totally different motivators.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:38 PM
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genuinely good guys who would be a decent catch ? about 10%. Something that makes redditors butthurt, the popular people at school are quite often also the good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:34 PM
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This is the real answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:32 AM
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Low value men make up the majority of men so it makes sense when you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 11:14 PM
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Both, I am happy with myself and my achievements that got me here and I get happy when I see my wife happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:59 AM
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Thats true, people who are 35+ are the last people to have seen the pre-internet era, dating websites (apps as a concept didnt come until my 20's) were invented in my teens and had a stigma about them forever until tinder took off so all through my early 20's I'd meet women the normal way and occasional ones via apps/sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:56 AM
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I mean yeah. I remember hearing an interview from some guy who was one of those famous pickup artists like 20 years ago back when mystery and co were on MTV and the advice he gave was golden. Paraphrasing it was something like "All of that advice was only useful if you were a guy who could already go to a club and find a date, it was improvement ontop of what you had. People today who have nothing going for them will gain nothing from the stuff we taught back then" IMO step 1 is be a guy a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:28 PM
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It was pretty easy. I was in a position to date a lot and did have an active dating life for my adult years, I saw all types of women the good and bad. when I met my wife she fitted naturally with me. As time progressed that only continued and thats prettymuch how it went. Step 1 of actually being somebody that a woman would want to date cannot be understated enough, the right one might be out there but you arent going to find her if you are a goober.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:41 AM
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This folds into the whole "everyone is valuable, everyone is special in their own way" mentality that gets pushed on impressionable minds. Sad truth for some is that some people arent valuable, some people arent special and some people are just undateable, cant do anything about it its just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:34 PM
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Crazy thing about my 30's was I went on wayyyyyyy more dates but slept with way less women because I was much more picky about who I would get into bed with knowing that if it wasnt working it would be much harder to extricate myself from the situation, much easier to dump someone you havent slept with yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:22 AM
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No idea why you think being "youthful" has anything to do with it. Your 30's are hard to date if you are loser who didnt set yourself up in your 20's. Ive known many a guy who as long as they stayed fit and got a decent job had zero issues dating and were spoiled for choice. I personally once getting fit and getting into dating post-covid was lining up 2-3 first dates a week until I met my fiance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:16 AM
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gonna be real, I barely comment anymore but this sub has taught me two things. Most guys on the internet in male/mra/pill spaces are massive losers who just want to vent. Women will never give an honest answer, even on an anonymous forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:02 AM
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Its not a winning strategy but sometimes it can work out, guys who had zero luck in their younger years will probably still suck when older unless they made massive changes. Personally I had a crazy active early-mid 20's and experienced the same in my early-mid 30's with women who were in the same age group both times, a lot of guys my age never had either. I knew one guy who was a loser in his 20's but then in his 30's was a successful real estate agent with the car, nice suit, status etc and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:23 AM
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It feels correct to me, When I think back to my highschool day and how many guys actually had girlfriends or we knew that they got laid the numbers were crazy small. Like me and a few of my friends had girlfriends but so many guys I dont think ever came close to dating, It was probably the most visual display of the 80-20 rule in highschool. And it was always the same guys, like the guys who were dating would get new gf's with time but the guys who werent would basically never be seen with anyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:11 AM
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Women were never expected to work... Women forced themselves into the workplace and created an economy which now requires women to work, that dosent change the fact that feminine qualities are what men are interested in. Thats the reality that women campaigned for and now live in, you can't go back. Moreover its not that hard to do household labour, men have had to do their share of that for sometime now, its a million times easier than being an actual labourer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:04 AM
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exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:01 PM
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I can tell your life is great by the way you have told me twice unprompted now...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:51 PM
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weird.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:40 PM
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Thats a pretty weird and delusional way for you to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:54 AM
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Its totally fine, If all women stopped having sex tomorrow and agreed to a worldwide hiatus somehow then it would still be women who would suffer for it The majority of men already live without sex not by their own choice, men are fine and are able to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:15 AM
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Its totally fine, If all women stopped having sex tomorrow and agreed to a worldwide hiatus somehow then it would still be women who would suffer for it, Women are totally blind to just how much of society exists to womens benefit based on the idea that women might have sex with you. Take that away and women get to experience the world through the lens of a short, small man, but for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:35 AM
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less than given the above info, The video of the dude who is one of the interview respondents seems like the type of guy who'd admit to anything for goodboy points.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:42 AM
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yeah cool, I musnt know the 30% of men this article applies to, nevermind that article never goes into details and while mentioning SA was 2% says that "a form of violence" counts for 35%. Given that speaking loudly could count in this report i dont think its a good article at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:44 AM
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I know anectodtal evidence, personal experience vs stats etc etc but personally every SA/DV allegation ive personally witnessed turned out to be a lie or the reverse was true, I know they exist but every one Ive encountered turned out to be a flat out lie, still the accused guys suffered for it and the women got away with zero consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:05 PM
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Riskier for women tbh, Women have finite time and bet their financial future on relationships whereas even if I were in my 50's I could start over without much issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:09 AM
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HARD AGREE. Its a huge issue in general that reddit is a cesspool of losers, you see this in finance subs too when someone who actually has real money comes asking for financial advice for example. So many men/women here have no experience or live in the real world yet love to give advice on how things really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:13 AM
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Hugely, from a social and household standpoint I have a much more "normal" life nowadays with social events and nice friends. Its good to have someone whos family to confide in thatss not your parents also.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:11 AM
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My Criticism of TRP isnt the core ideals, its that it (and most mens movements for that matter) get infested with bitter losers who drag the mood down. Recognizing reality then doing what you can to exist within it and get an upper hand if possible is the core, bitching because women don't want to date you is irrelevant and a YOU problem. Reminds me of an interview I saw with a guy that pioneered a lot of early TRP/Pickup stuff paraphrasing him: "The original stuff (pickup) was aimed at guys who…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:45 AM
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He specifically mentioned an 8 year gap at 28 to 30. That’s pulling a college girl. And recreating that intoxicating first love, where nothing matters except lust and feels. Theres nothing wrong with this, you are just infantilizing and removing agency from women who are fully formed adults. This is usually just cope from bitter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:17 PM
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Speaking facts. I know a woman who's got 3 kids to 3 dudes and owns 2 properties she got out of divorce settlement, still found a 4th dude to move her into yet another house and give her kid #4, Rinse and repeat. Also not a high quality or super hot woman, just standard, the truth is theres no shortage of desperate dudes out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 01:31 AM
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I mean the signs were also there with those guys too, They might not have been lady magnets but they were hard workers, somewhat popular and applied themselves, they just werent all-that in a high-school setting. the NEET types were always like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 01:27 AM
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most older men who go after younger women do have a fetishistic obsession with youth This is usually just cope from bitter women. Truth is I was in my early 30's and wanted to have a family, Building a relationship, getting married and having kids is going to take a few years on average to happen once I met the right person, I wouldnt want to be in a position where my partner is in their mid 30's and infertile or in a high risk position. So its a no-brainer that I dated women in their mid-late 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 01:23 AM
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Ill agree here to an extent, from a mans perspective: Not having any kind of dating life in your teens or very early 20's is probably the worst situation a man could be in, Thats the period where you can make mistakes and come to terms with some of the harder facts of dating and rejections then improve on them at an age where you still have time and can make mistakes. Having to go through the woes of first relationships and romances in my mid 20's would be a waking nightmare. The portion of guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 01:17 AM
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People who think having a 6 pack wont affect your match ratio are just coping against reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 10:54 AM
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People who think having a 6 pack wont affect your match ratio are just coping against reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 10:13 AM
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I mean theres two types of guys who pay for it. people who have significant disposable income and arent interested in a relationship for one reason or another. the second type who are more a mixture of unfortunate and pathetic than actually cowardly, there a lot of no-hopers out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:10 AM
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Because they actually yield results. Becoming fit, active, having hobbies, being masculine etc all actually have a tangible benefit on your life and romantic life. People who think having a 6 pack wont affect your match ratio are just coping against reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:03 AM
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Appreciate the honesty, its refreshing to see what many of us already know and lived. Personally when I got into shape it was a real eye opener into how much looks affects dating, looks get you a ticket to entry in most cases and then your personality is what actually gets you more than a few dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:04 AM
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Honestly theres more of a gaurantee that he wouldnt be, autism is literally a mental disorder. Maybe theres people he would be better than but on a greater than average ratio someone without a mental disorder, it simply is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:29 AM
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its fine in principal but a lot of the new wave "passport bro" types are weird and cringe, truth is most women (and men) have somewhat similar core values on average and the rule still applies that if you cant find a girlfriend back home you probably wont have much luck abroad in finding a real relationship. I'll go one further all of the guys I know who are married to women they met overseas arent what you would call "passport bro's" they were just normal people who met someone when they were t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:19 AM
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This is a common take on the internet that many people who either dont have things great in life or are jealous of other make. Its the same cope you see when people think popular kids in school are jerks, people like to think that attractive people must be mean but honestly theyre much more likely to be nicer than ugly people who are more likely to be bitter at the world and how it treats them. Its magnified on reddit/online because you are going to see a lot more people with less going on in li…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:11 AM
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honestly its usually because they are just losers themselves. Something ive noticed about attractive people is they are always also better better, kinder and nicer people. A fat or ugly person has poor impulse control and bad personality traits that make them that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:35 AM
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Honest answer is if OLD isnt working then most other places wont either. Where did I meet women ? literally everywhere, at the beach, the shops, the mall, OLD, everywhere. dating isnt hard if you arent a fucking loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:30 AM
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thats a woman comment if I ever saw one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:51 AM
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see what I mean, it was the loserspeak in the original post that gave it away. Nobody in the real world considers you a loser and 80 percent of the men HERE would do a backflip to date you . Despite all the mean shit they say here. I feel like this isnt accurate, a lot of redditors would but guys like me (married, high paying job, great life etc) are here for the "debate" side of this sub and to laugh at redditors.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:45 AM
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But your opinion of loser is irrelevant, society determines who is a loser and it is shy, awkward socially outcast losers and not your personal thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:58 PM
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that + sick yak scam are the oldest tricks in the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:44 PM
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Thats the truth of it. Every guy I know whos got a good relationship with a woman from a poorer country met through normal non passport-bro circumstances e.g he was living/working there or she was in the US for study when they met. All of the dudes I know who went abroad specifically to find a GF get zero respect and are basically just wallets and usually get divorced or cheated on. So so many of the passport bro youtubers are the second category but.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:04 AM
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lmao, pulling stuff like this is more of a self tell than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 06:16 AM
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youve missed the point entirely. being a career woman, successful etc might move the needle 1% at best when it comes to guys attraction towards a woman. Women get this wrong because they assume the other sex thinks like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:02 AM
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From what I can gather the red pill is a reference to some 26 year old sci-fi film, I think I’ve seen it once it was okay but even the film itself is anti red pill as the guy dies in the end and love brings him back to life it was his ability to believe in himself and except his title as the one, but I digress lmao wtf is even this sentence, either this post comes from the 3rd world or some source of ultimate cringe. your whole post sounds like the words of someone who's never interacted with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:45 AM
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If you could wave a wand and show women the percentage of their male friends with a secret desire I think most would be shocked. Most women know one or two of their friends are like that but the reality is usually ALL of them are that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:35 AM
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Women ice good relationships because she can't understand how her boyfriend/husband could find her attractive when she doesn't see it in herself. This one is very true, seen it and lived it before where A dude will be genuinely into a girl and a woman will talk herself out of it because she thinks hes not genuine or not good enough etc, its super weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:21 AM
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Women thinking money, Career success and status = attraction from men. Usually its the opposite, nobody wants to date some corporate lady, theyre boring AF. Money also really dosent move the needle for men, best if gets them is a few more second chances but its not an attractor like it is when the situation is reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:17 AM
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Both charisma and confidence are shallow traits used to screen for deeper level important traits (social adaptability and general stability). you are spot on there, guys are like I'm a good dude while simultaneously having no social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:34 AM
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No they arent. Most of the good men I know are married, this includes people who arent the best looking or dont work in high status jobs. Most of the "good men" I know are fucking losers who women rightfully avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:28 AM
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Yes. You know what made the biggest difference ? getting shredded. Once I did that the whole RP thing was dumb, you arent going to change human nature, you arent going to improve anything, being attractive is all that matters honestly. Just think about it less, and maybe do more, touch some grass and everything will seem less dire. thats it, get fit, get on apps, get dates, dont be a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:37 PM
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The other NEGATIVE, is my other buddy, his wife is constantly trying to fatten him up. Maybe it's a culture thing with latin women, I honestly don't know. this is 100% a latina thing, I'll be fasting, telling my wife so and she will go cook a giant lunch for me and "forget" i'm fasting. my MIL basically shovels food into my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:19 AM
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yeah but all of this comes with the pretext that you are attractive. ugly/average dude trying this isnt going to get anywhere, will likely just get phased out as a creep. Even an attractive guy will get this if the tone of their relationship wasnt that way since day 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:45 PM
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you wouldnt get it anyway. exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:58 PM
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If we flip it around, is there any reason to speak to men? no. be confused, you wouldnt get it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:06 AM
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lmao I love how they imply that philipino/indonesian women somehow arent capable of making their own decisions about who they date. Its just seething showing through.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:52 AM
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I wouldnt say so. A colleague of mine and his wife are together for kids + maintaining a house and its fine, they still help each other out, cook, do things etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:41 AM
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They are, most redditors are fucking losers though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:24 PM
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I was about to say, feels like we have already been here for going on 3 decades now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:52 AM
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im highly skeptical of anyone who badmouths their ex, something about it always feels off and like you are covering for something you did that you dont want people to know. Even my worst ex's I basically never think about them and just dont really want to see them ever again. Also the part where every IRL case ive encountered of a woman having an abusive ex it turned out she was lying, so that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:15 AM
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dude wtf are you on about. The match to date timeline is like 2-4 days, usually we exchange numbers within 15 mins of talking. Basically every first date is an opportunity for kissing or sex, or anything inbetween depending on the flow of the night. Thats the normal experience, most women arent going to wait a few weeks to silently make an assesment, we are catching up fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:14 AM
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No because I couldnt date a Liar
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:56 AM
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Thats the problem, outside of attraction theres not much reason to speak to women that arent close friends of my wife or wives/partners of my friends. And thats from before I met my wife too btw, now theres basically zero reason to speak to women not directly socially linked to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:18 AM
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Thats a much more valid point ! Ive had several female long term friends in the past where it started as a mutual attraction that didnt pan out or one reason or another but we kept talking anyway. Also when I met my wife I still had to close out those friendships, because the truth is there is too much of an undercurrent for comfort, I dont think you can safely be just friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:12 AM
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Yes/no the closest Ive had to actual female friends are my wife's also married friends or friends wives, married/engaged women at work too. Everyone else theres definitely an undercurrent of attraction or its very one-sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:10 AM
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They aren't, but they are nowhere near as ubiquitous as women on reddit make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:17 AM
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I mean it goes for a lot of the men too but for a nonzero amount of men and women here its plainly obvious that they are massively undesirable and just here to vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:30 AM
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Ive never started a relationship with someone over 30 for two reasons. I want to have kids, building a relationship and getting married takes years, you dont want to be rushing against the clock in your mid 30's most single women in their 30's are rushing to get a baby, you can plainly tell, they are also colder and more bitter, ive had too many dates that felt like interviews with women over 30 and almost none with women under, I got sick of being asked "so whats your timeframe for marriage? fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:53 AM
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yes/no As a relationship progresses you are going to see the pro's and con's of a person, everyone has downsides and nobodies going to be 100% perfect. Long term relationships are when they pros outweigh the cons or the cons are tolerable. people these days expect everything to be perfect, long term couples have arguments all the time, they just resolve their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:56 PM
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but I do think there’s a problem with accepting the inherently unfair nature of the world Thats right there is the truth of it. Modernity and places like reddit ban honest feedback so people who have very clear reasons for not getting matches or dates (fat or ugly) dont get the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:09 PM
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hell yes, its the best thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:53 AM
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Trash dates trash This is cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:10 AM
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Also the sledgehammer approach is highly likely to result in permanent issues. Mens endocrine systems run like a metronome and if disturbed can take months or years to recover and sometimes never do, womens as you mentioned work in phases and can be interrupted much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:03 AM
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I dont think tinder was ever meant to be Grindr, Grindr just had a neat new format (The swipe system) and geolocation which existing dating apps didnt have, Tinder just copied that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:49 AM
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Ok its really simple, if you arent successful on apps then you probably arent irl either. Apps arent broken, attractive people attract others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:24 PM
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I mean yeah, its the "Not people" zone. Basically theres a huge portion of guys who are totally invisible and treated poorly by women for the crime of being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:20 AM
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250k+ equity, not as good as it sounds, I pay more than $40k in taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:45 AM
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"Gaijin hunter" and "riding the white horse" are common stereotypes there. They want to pump and dump those men, they do not want to partner with him for life. lmao every Japanese or chinese woman ive ever known who dated foreigners is now married to one with kids, they arent after a quick fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:42 AM
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Are you an Asian man by chance ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:40 AM
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so what if i'm ableist ? Women dont like guys who are less able, neither do I.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:39 AM
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lmao you must be totally oblivious to what guys go through and what leads to some men walking away. I know guys who's kids were kept from them and told by their mothers that their father was a bad man who hated them for their entire childhood, anything that goes wrong or anything they cant have the father is used as a scapegoat, when the kids enter their teens they HATE their father who theyve never really met and have a totally false picture of because of the mother keeping them away. No wonder…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:03 PM
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yep, before I met my wife I was going on 3+ dates a week and just going through the numbers until I'd find someone who worked out and then rinse and repeat. past 1-2 dates I really didnt think too deeply about it. It worked, eventually I found my soulmate and I got really good at dating in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:58 PM
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Imo the manoshpere is the grifter and autist class that arose out of the original PUA community. from my observation it was the people in the PUA space who could talk the talk to other guys but not actually date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:33 PM
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Ive experienced this too, several years after hearing "x had a huge crush on you" about a girl who basically never spoke to me or even slightly interacted with me, all of them girls I would have asked out if I had the slightest hint from them, literally just a smile or a "hello" would have done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:39 PM
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Ive never seen an attractive successful woman who intimidated men, its always the same story. Those women dont realise that men care more about feminine qualities in a partner. Those women dont realise that men do not care about money anywhere close to what a woman does in reverse, money is more of a "nice to have" for guys when it comes to a partner. Ive seen some very attractive successful women who are perpetually single, they just dont get that when a guy looks at her compared to the waitres…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:27 PM
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Hard agree, people can change a little bit over time but only a little, the core of who someone is stays for basically their entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:00 PM
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The point of seduction techniques is they work if you are a guy who can already go out on a weekend and meet women. If you arent already regularly dating and arent capable of getting numbers then seduction stuff isnt for you, its improvement for guys who already have a foundation to build on. it absolutely works on the majority of women, but you have to be a somewhat desirable guy to start, the stuff you learn is just tools to improve your closing rate / chance of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:54 PM
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Back when I was single id try and move towards a date as fast as possible, app -> number -> organise date. On the date is where you have to not be boring but if you get good at doing the first part you will get lots of practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:12 AM
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We put about 80% of our incomes into a joint account and then we just pay everything out of that bills, food, memberships etc etc. The remaining 20% we dont share is for stuff thats just for us e.g my overpriced gym and her overpriced nails or when we buy gifts for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:47 PM
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I had a friend who was a pretty attractive eastern european girl, she would always complain about her issues over several guys she was into that would lead her on etc etc. Then she would show me photos of the guys and I would break down laughing because they were always these big fat-headed doofy looking guys, that was her type. .. it was ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:20 AM
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ofcourse its weirdo behavior from the guy but a few points. Why tell him you have found someone else, just say "i'm not feeling it" and block them. Why let the convo continue, just say sorry and block. Why continue any of this at all, the guy is clearly unstable and she just seems to be pouring gasoline on the fire she made. Like every time ive rejected a girl have never expected the conversation to go smoothly or her to be some empathetic snowflake, its less than 2-3 times its gone smoothly and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:31 AM
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lol its not really manipulation, a lot of it is just common sense tbh. The real "redpill" is none of this works unless you are already capable of getting a girlfriend without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:37 AM
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Back when I was single to wait more than 5 dates you would have had to have been realllllly really special and even then anyone I waited that long for in reality wasnt worth the wait. Anyone who actually (I mean actually attracted to you) likes you is going to make it clear they want to sleep with you pretty fast, it may not happen on the first date but will happen as soon as the opportunity arises. You might find a guy who meets your requirements but the vast majority of guys who have any kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:31 AM
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Given your vocabulary and the not so deep elaboration of your post ... lmao what the fuck does that mean ? its very easy, you can get dates and relationships or you cant. Can you elaborate on what is the ultimate goal of dating for both gender and what a person of good quality ? Also can you present what are the quality of a successful relationship ? this is how a virgin speaks, look dude im married but and dated a lot of women before I chose one, thats success. As for good people, if everyone w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:51 AM
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yes, even women who arent the full package manage to not settle, settling is a thing for loser women. Ive known ugly women who go find a guy who's running a business and has his shit together, gives him a second half in a relationship and live happily ever after. Ive also known pretty women who dont have much else going who still make sure to find a solid guy before they get too past their prime. But Ive known far too many women who think things arent going to end, get to a point where their opp…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:01 AM
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And even if they do settle for some OofyDoofy, it's always a perverse dynamic I always wonder what these people's home lives are like. Ive known several women before they settled with regularguy and their behavior with them always seems so out of character when they are with their husband vs not, eerily so. And the OoofyDoofy goes through all of that just escape loneliness Same goes here like ive had beers with these guys and some of them are so dense that they are totally oblivious to the fact …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:50 AM
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yeah I think what you are missing is cubicle cathy didnt spend her younger years dating basic bob. Lots of women who settled's younger lives were filled with much more interesting partners, many of them were pretty enough but didnt have the extra needed to continue that lifestyle with an interesting partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:23 AM
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Conservative by far because shes more likely to want a family and have actual morals, convervative values are about conservatism after all. One of the most attractive women ive ever seen also happened to be overly leftist, She asked me out and I declined the second date because honestly there no point in a future with someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:47 AM
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Married man here, your stereotypes only apply to some people but I do believe in the "stereotype" from RP that a significant portion of men are basically non-people to women, imo if you arent in the top 20-35% you barely get tolerated. also if you arent atleast monthly dating or on a LTR your advice isnt valuable because you clearly dont know how to attract to women or dont have what it takes to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:33 AM
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If you’re a man who doesn’t excel in traditional beauty standards or rely on abusive/controlling tactics, you should seriously reconsider being loyal or investing in just one woman. lmao what makes you think you will ever be afforded that option if you arent hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:47 AM
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This all happened in a 6 month period post covid, I got fitness-model ripped and got onto tinder with crazy results of 40-50 matches a day. I learnt that whether you have 10 dates or 100 lines up there is no shortage of crazy women, I went on maybe 45 first dates in 6 months (genuinely 3-4 each week when single), I had 3 short 5-8 week relationships before I met my wife. I Only slept with 4 of the dates because I didnt want the fallout of awkward rejections etc if I wasnt 100% interested in seei…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:51 AM
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Yes this is true but as always comes down to the assumption that you are baseline attractive. Before me met my wife I took the approach of asking any woman I matched with who wasnt overweight or hideously ugly on a date just to see how it went and build "date experience", it worked in the end, its scary to think that has I not taken this approach I might not have met my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:23 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:12 PM
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Its a billion percent cope, something about a lot of the popular kids at school I started to realize they were genuinely better people. Later in life as I was interacting more with people post highschool I noticed a lot of the losers were assholes and went on to have sad depressing lives, the popular kids have houses and families.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:42 AM
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most girl bosses arent actually strong and independent though, They usually get handed a position of influence due to DEI policies then flaunt their status as if they actually earned it. Half of the keynote speakers at my cities "women in tech" meetings have never actually had a successful career and tend to float from one failed project to the next, I know several where dudes will literally transfer or find a new job if they get assigned to their BU.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:33 PM
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These are both terrible choices. I'll take the boss babe and then dump her for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:59 AM
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yeah but you just filter them out / get to the bottom of it. Back before I was married a good chunk of women I went on dates with were either kindof-dating a guy they werent fully into or one foot out of a relationship and looking for someone to branch to. You can work that stuff out within a date or two and cut contact, its not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:06 PM
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Conversational skills go a long way, I tend to divert talks towards how dumb making politics a part of your regular conversation is. tbh unless you know the date of the next senate session and what bills are going before government you dont know enough about politics to warrant a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:20 AM
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I agree, its usually more of a social legitimacy thing among other guys (e.g that guy is successful in life and also have any woman he wants). but its also not a negative. In my experience ive never seen a guy who slept with a lot of women be unable to find a nice girl and settle down, infact they usually do easier than others. Also nelson mandela was a terrorist and is largely responsible for the hellish state of south africa today, rethink your role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:58 AM
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Thats what they ignored in my post, I did spend a lot of effort on my profile and it didnt move the needle one bit until I became hot. You see this in subs like datingover30 etc where some average looking guy will make a post for dating profile advice, the women there give a billion tips on what to change dancing around the looks elephant. They then repost their profile with all of these changes and get a bunch of responses like "your heckin cool and your profile is valid but you arent my type".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:53 PM
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Im going to say this is not useful or honest information for most men. A bit of my story, precovid I was a little overweight but not by much, I was a reasonably good looking guy, maybe a 6/10 or a 7 on a good day. On some apps I had success but on tinder I'd get the standard 1-3 matches a month with a well thought out and well worded profile which I reworked several times with advice like the above. During covid I undertook a body transformation and ended up looking like a fitness model, fully d…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:50 PM
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not really biological male and female brains are physically different in many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:30 AM
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Brain chemistry and biology makes it physically impossible to truly ever understand the opposite sexes way of thinking, As a man I dont think i'll truly ever understand womens internal thoughts, I also know its basically impossible for a woman to understand how aggression and dominance drives the male psyche and influences our thoughts, its something we will never be able to truly understand about each other. When it comes to lifestyle the life trajectory of men and women is also fundamentally d…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:25 AM
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gah, you are probably right, didnt look at it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:48 AM
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I got ripped during covid and this happened to me, I came out of the lockdown era with abs. I didnt become a player, I did end up going on 2-3 first dates a week inbetween relationships while I was searching for the right girl though. Sleeping with women you arent 1000% into makes them too attached to you and makes ditching them way too awkward so I'd only sleep with someone if she was GF material, no point in playing around when you can just move onto the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:43 AM
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To me the solution seems simple, make it so people have to apply with a photo or two and a profile before they are accepted to go to the singles event. A big problem is these events get filled up with passed over women and loser men, if you screen it so everyone there is atleast a 6/10 you will have a much better event. You could even hold a second event for the people who didnt make the cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:33 AM
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Thats the truth of it, and a good know to measure how you stand. Before I met my wife the process was basically: hey some dumb joke with minimal effort. whats your number lets chat on whatsapp. within 10 minutes of matching this is how most conversations that werent bots went.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:17 AM
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so... whats your BMI ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:37 AM
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I'd basically do exactly what I do now with a larger house and not having to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:31 AM
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I feel like I am obsessed with reading mature dating subreddits for the comedy factor, its the funniest free entertainment out there. So many post can be summarized as: I'm a soyjack incarnate, please rate the grammar on my hinge profile, do you think my jokes are funny enough ? - followed by "your heckin cute and your profile is valid (but I wont date you) replies. Im a woman over 30 (shoutout to datingover30) and I cant work out why guys arent throwing themselves at me like they used to, maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:24 AM
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TRP dating advice is an evolution on PUA advice. Something people often forget about PUA advice is a prerequisite is you are already able to date women and are looking to improve your success rate/quality of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:29 AM
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My friends wives and fiances friends yes, hell no to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:45 AM
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Correct but thats womens deal to fix. You see it a lot on the dating over 30/40/50 subreddits where women complain about the quality of their dates whereas men complain about getting zero dates. I see the problem as twofold. Modern women severely misjudge what actions and behaviors men are attracted to, the vast majority of women these days do not make good long term partners. Women getting "stuck at their highest setting" confusing guys who are willing to sleep with them vs guys who are willing…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:20 AM
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It never bore any fruit, getting fit and hot is what actually allowed me to find someone, nobody wants to date a fat slob.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:10 PM
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I don't think so, The only women I'm friends with are my friends wives and my fiances's also married friends, but we are almost always together as couples. every other friendship ive had with women there are undertones that are best avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:26 PM
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