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http://flyfreshandyoung.wordpress.com/ http://heartiste.wordpress.com/ http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/
/r/seduction28/06/12 11:17 PM
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For every girl you go up and approach and get shot down, you get a drink bought for you Nice, totally trying this to help out my guy friends with their approaching. Last game I found myself playing at a bar involved having to approach someone at the bar and getting them to buy you a drink, take a photo with you, or kiss you (or all three). The group would pick someone out, and you had to go from there. Doing as good as the cute girls in our group was rather entertaining :)
/r/seduction22/06/12 07:16 PM
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If you're having a hard time with openers, work on opening with everyone. Go approach some girls you have no interest in and talk to them for a little bit. You'll probably do a lot better than if you were trying to open a supermodel. Think about how you felt talking to the girls you didn't care about, and work on applying the same outcome independent attitude. So as soon as you make eye contact just go say "Hi, how's your night going?" or comment on their drink or something. Read this also http:…
/r/seduction22/06/12 06:42 PM
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I think it's dependent on how often you see each other. If you see each other every night for a few days she's probably going to think it's "Common Law Exclusivity".
/r/seduction19/05/12 12:24 PM
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being asian carries a certain kind of stigma that you cannot avoid. Isn't TofuTofu Asian? http://www.reddit.com/user/TofuTofu That man is a machine.
/r/seduction19/05/12 04:31 AM
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Always be up front with expectations. You're not a bad guy for not wanting a serious relationship with her, you're a bad guy if you don't tell her. http://www.girlschase.com/content/dont-hurt-girl-importance-expectations#
/r/seduction19/05/12 04:26 AM
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What city?
/r/seduction18/05/12 09:11 PM
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^ This. I live with two girls. One is just a year or two out of college, the other is my age and from Europe. We party hard. I always bring them up when I'm out with a chick, it's social proof and shows you probably aren't a crazy person. It also doesn't hurt that our place is freaking HUGE.
/r/seduction18/05/12 07:05 PM
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We have a winner.
/r/seduction18/05/12 02:50 PM
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"cleverly disguised as an adult." This.
/r/seduction18/05/12 02:49 PM
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Baltimore. Generally starts with Sunday brunch. Lots of bars here do bottomless bloody mary's and mimosas with your brunch for a few hours. Pass out around 10pm and you're ready for work on Monday! I'd expect similar madness in DC and Philly.
/r/seduction18/05/12 02:37 PM
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Live in a city, get and roommate or two.
/r/seduction18/05/12 02:32 PM
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I did the college thing, moved to the suburbs b/c that is what I was "supposed to do". It was the fucking lame experience that most Americans live their lives in. I've spent the past two years living in a city on the north eastern coast of the USA. Holy shit I've never partied so hard in my life and I'm now 30. Bar crawls, happy hour, Sunday Funday, tailgating, group trips to the Caribbean, etc. Imagine college but with no homework, a 9 to 5 job and lots of money. Toss in the same crazy people.
/r/seduction18/05/12 01:58 PM
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Work on selling yourself better and building more attraction. Let's say you are Chris Hemsworth, aka motherfucking Thor. You ask one of these chicks out. Is she going to "have other plans". No, you're Thor. She will drive 300 miles, climb a barbed wire fence and kill a pack of wolves to go out with you.
/r/seduction17/05/12 11:38 PM
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a pope hat. it was weird.
/r/seduction17/05/12 11:13 PM
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Saying you want change is the first step. Next is deciding what you are going to do about it. No one is going to deliver it on a silver platter. Internalize your goals, and act on them. 'What am I going to do today to make myself better?'. 'What did I do today to make myself better?". Don't waste your time talking about all the stuff you're going to do: http://www.ted.com/talks/derek_sivers_keep_your_goals_to_yourself.html
/r/seduction10/05/12 06:10 PM
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Your past only holds you back if you decide to use it as an excuse for being a chump. Work through the sidebar, get over yourself, take control of your life and get out of the fucking house. Watch this too: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E7zHF19n2qE
/r/seduction10/05/12 05:40 PM
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Just don't say anything about also wanting to make a deposit!
/r/seduction04/05/12 05:19 PM
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Keep up the good work man. At the core of all this stuff is self-improvement. Do shit to make yourself a better human being than you were the day before. Anyway, as a former socially awkward penguin, I'll give you these words of advice. Make goals, but don't tell them to people. Right now I wouldn't worry too much about even approaching girls. Focus on talking to people, all the time. Guys, ugly women, attractive women, old people, random strangers in line with you. As a civilization most of us …
/r/seduction04/05/12 05:16 PM
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^ Good Guy PUA right here.
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:56 PM
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This scene always gets me pumped. ALWAYS BE CLOSING
/r/seduction03/05/12 06:33 PM
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"It's Complicated"
/r/seduction01/05/12 12:32 PM
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Post this question in /r/askseddit and we'll tackle it there.
/r/seduction19/04/12 05:17 PM
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I see that you posted this comment on about 8 different threads. Bottom line is this stuff isn't just a set of steps to get a girl to sleep with you. It's fundamentally about self improvement. Start with the sidebar in /r/seduction get reading, and get out there. When you have specific questions post them in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction19/04/12 05:03 PM
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Stick to your principals. Always try and have a mentality of abundance. I know it's hard to feel this way when you're young and stuck around the same batch of girls. Don't call, text or leave anymore messages. She will call back if she wants. Move on.
/r/seduction19/04/12 03:25 PM
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hahaha, fucking epic.
/r/seduction19/04/12 02:11 AM
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Store that memory in one of the brain cells you aren't planning on killing with booze.
/r/seduction18/04/12 06:42 PM
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this is going to be the coolest collage ever one day
/r/seduction18/04/12 06:39 PM
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haha, yeah very true. In this situation, totally a compliment.
/r/seduction18/04/12 02:29 PM
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Here it is: http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Escalation%20Ladder%20-%20vindicarlo.com.pdf
/r/seduction17/04/12 05:42 PM
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What reality destroyers are you using?
/r/seduction17/04/12 04:04 PM
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I have a few: "I've never been more attracted to someone" "I don't want to leave" "That was the best night of my life" Though my personal favorite was from a friend's g/f. I had been with the same woman for 9 years, married for 4 of those. It was my beta era, before I unplugged from the matrix. A few months after we separated, friend's g/f walked up to me at a bar out of the blue: "I just wanted to say I'm glad you and X split up. I always felt you deserved so much better than her".
/r/seduction17/04/12 04:03 PM
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Good ideas here, I love soloing and this one trips me up once and a while.
/r/seduction17/04/12 12:52 PM
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What are you nervous about? Afraid these girls are going to tease you or something? What's the age rage we're dealing with here? If your core confidence is low, you'll need to work on it. Hit the gym three times a week, eat healthy, stay active. Also consider dance lessons. Salsa and Swing lessons, if available in your area, are epic confidence boosters.
/r/seduction13/04/12 08:12 PM
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Good point that deserves extra emphasis!
/r/seduction13/04/12 02:42 PM
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Nope. The core importance is that you're making plans and closing the deal on a date face-to-face, as opposed to "Hey, give me you number".
/r/seduction13/04/12 01:25 PM
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Ivory this shit is gold. You all know how you can tell? Visualize yourself saying it in total confidence. Do you feel like a fucking badass alpha lady killer? YES YOU DO.
/r/seduction12/04/12 06:14 PM
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Yes yes yes. Always assume attraction, don't ask questions. Be the honey badger. The honey badger takes what it wants. See my D-close post too since that ties right in with this one. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/s17s0/dont_close_dclose_and_stop_flakes_cold/
/r/seduction12/04/12 05:40 PM
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Check this article out, I thought it was pretty good. http://www.girlschase.com/content/10-surprising-rules-how-be-wingman#
/r/seduction12/04/12 04:45 PM
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This gets me fired up Always Be Closing
/r/seduction12/04/12 04:24 PM
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"What's your name?" "FUCK YOU, that's my name!" For those of you that are new to seddit, "FUCK YOU, that's my name!" is not an appropriate response for when a girl asks your name.
/r/seduction11/04/12 12:22 PM
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Smooth. Worst case you're exactly where you left off.
/r/seduction10/04/12 11:35 PM
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Humm, makes sense. Will be field testing this for sure.
/r/seduction10/04/12 11:33 PM
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Hold Still There, feel better? Just fucking open, it doesn't matter what you say. You're going to strike out a lot, it doesn't matter. TALK TO GIRLS. The worst you can come off as is being just like every other chump out there.
/r/seduction10/04/12 09:09 PM
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Always Be Closing
/r/seduction10/04/12 09:00 PM
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hahahahahaha
/r/seduction10/04/12 03:23 AM
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M Night Shyamalan'd
/r/seduction09/04/12 06:32 PM
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Correct, don't bang your roommate. Be cool with her, earn her trust, be a good friend and she'll probably introduce you to her hot model friends. But yeah, the desensitizing is helpful. You'll realize they HB8+'s are still "just girls". With any luck you'll eventually be able to talk to a 9 as confidently as you would talk to a 4... sober. First time you pull this off is like seeing the code in the Matrix. Good Luck, have fun, be cool, don't bang your roommate.
/r/seduction09/04/12 03:51 AM
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Great Post Mr. Disco
/r/seduction05/04/12 08:27 PM
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Looks like this was posted to /r/writing and /r/wtf also
/r/seduction29/03/12 07:44 PM
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Oh yeah, also put specific questions like this over at /r/askseddit
/r/seduction29/03/12 03:42 PM
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Nice dude, text her this afternoon. "Hey nice meeting you last night, let's grab a drink Friday evening. -atmod" If she replies back with a Yes, give her a place and a time. ("Great, meet me at X at 8pm") If she replies with a no, she'll probably offer you an alternative date/time. If she doesn't, make her. ("This is the part where you offer to reschedule : )") If she doesn't reply at all by say Friday at 4pm, txt with "Hey, I didn't hear from you so I made other plans."
/r/seduction29/03/12 03:42 PM
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Please see: http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/req2c/if_you_have_a_question_that_is_something_along/
/r/seduction29/03/12 01:16 PM
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hahaha, awesome.
/r/seduction28/03/12 08:10 PM
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http://i2.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/234/772/71e.jpg
/r/seduction27/03/12 06:16 PM
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Check out this video from Gambler. You want to build sexual tension. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/jemci/the_ultimate_richard_gambler_video/
/r/seduction27/03/12 05:22 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/z8LzZ.gif
/r/seduction27/03/12 04:53 PM
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The problem comes down to confidence. You're afraid a girl is going to judge you when she grabs your stuff. We all have our challenges with confidence, and it's probably the single most important thing to game, life and the universe. The single biggest thing that helped me (and a lot of guys on here) with my confidence in general was a regular gym schedule. I go three times a week. I haven't been able to go the past week due to a bad cold ("From making out with too many chicks" - to quote my roo…
/r/seduction27/03/12 01:24 PM
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Yabba Dabba Do!
/r/seduction24/03/12 05:43 PM
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She said "nothing, let's go out next weekend." Go out with her again next weekend, and try not to let it fuck with your head too much. I've been shot down on first kisses with girls that I f-closed the next week. I was super confident, perhaps too confident. Shut your face, be Irrationally Self Confident. You are so fucking money and you don't even know it. The problem was we were sitting at a table across from one another, And it was hard to make any kind of physical contact. And this is probab…
/r/seduction23/03/12 06:11 PM
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Haha, great field report. Follow up with that Brazilian chick ASAP.
/r/seduction22/03/12 01:09 PM
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Knowing how to give a good massage is a total ace up your sleeve. Use it as kino before you kiss, use it when you're both (half) naked making out in bed (stop making out, flip her over and work on her back, legs, feet, etc. for a few minutes). This turns your normal make-out/f-close session into something a lot more erotic and memorable, as opposed to the usual chump flopping around on top of her like a dead fish! Just know what your doing. I learned over the past few years from friends that act…
/r/seduction21/03/12 08:51 PM
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If it goes really well, her and I are already talking about our next date by the end of the first one. In general though, I find I'm setting up date #2 for 7 to 10 days after #1.
/r/seduction21/03/12 08:37 PM
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Not sure what your life was like before you got unplugged from the matrix, but it seems to resonate pretty well with those of us that spent time in the beta-provider role. Granted, I'm far enough along now that I'd probably write my own list a little differently...
/r/seduction20/03/12 08:28 PM
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The Sixteen Commandments of Poon
/r/seduction20/03/12 07:13 PM
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I like it, this is going in my playbook.
/r/seduction13/03/12 07:59 PM
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Google Calendar is key. I make note of any improptu dates on there too just to keep track of when I've seen different girls. I like to put in a question mark for anything tentative so I don't wind up getting too many confirmations for the same evening. Then again, that's actually a good thing: "I didn't hear from you, so I made other plans" is GOLD for pulling them back in.
/r/seduction12/03/12 01:38 AM
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I can't fucking believe how good this is. I used the line verbatim on a girl that hadn't texted me back all week. Got a response in two minutes flat.
/r/seduction11/03/12 07:07 PM
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Hell yes, totally a golden rule.
/r/seduction11/03/12 06:44 PM
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I'd consider bringing a bottle of wine, and of course some protection.
/r/seduction11/03/12 12:45 PM
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Agreed, I try to count to three before talking, half the time they keep going or bring something up. Don't forget to maintain good eye contact!
/r/seduction05/03/12 03:13 AM
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Talk to everyone; dudes, chicks, whatever. Doesn't matter if you bomb out, you'll probably never see these people again. My mindset going into this kind of trip would be, "I'm going to have fun, introduce myself to lots of people and have a good time. If I want to go on a hiking day trip (etc.), I'm going to do it and I don't give a shit if anyone else I know will be there." This leads to you changing the normal phrasing of "Hey does anyone want to go on a hike?" to "I'm going on a hike, you sho…
/r/seduction14/02/12 05:59 PM
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Get your ass in gear. You can have a lifetime of epic win ahead of you if you're willing to actually commit. Be the phoenix rising from the ashes of your past. Getting healthy, fit and paid will do a wonder for your inner game. See http://redd.it/ero8h and focus on Is Your Life in Order?
/r/seduction08/02/12 04:59 PM
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Is a drink at the corner pub an option?
/r/seduction24/01/12 02:27 AM
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