| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Male Perspective | Success Stories | ms_sunshine1 | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 01:43 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| -1 | Sometimes you win oneOh lol your spouse did all the things mine did. You went through the same things. LMAO NO FUCKING WONDER | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/24 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Sometimes you win oneWhatever you have to tell yourself so you can sleep at night, coward | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/24 11:30 AM |
| -1 | Sometimes you win oneYou want to sit here and act like you're so fucking special, then continue to berate me after I apologize, the say it's my fault I lived through hell? What the fuck is wrong with you? You fucking joke. No wonder why you're on a throw away account. You're a coward hiding behind a computer screen. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/24 11:27 AM |
| -2 | Sometimes you win oneYou fucking men come here and cry about women as if you did nothing wrong. Fucking joke | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/24 11:24 AM |
| -1 | Sometimes you win oneYou are the whole reason why I'll never date again. What a fucking joke. You and all these men that are agreeing with you. Fucking jokes. Leaving your kids in shit situations while you live it up. Fucking joke | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/24 11:23 AM |
| -1 | Sometimes you win oneFuck you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/24 11:20 AM |
| – | Sometimes you win oneI have apologized four times in different comments for two initial replies. Ironically, this made me realize I've healed out of divorce threads. Your aggression isn't even bothering me. But the fact that you've become so upset might be a reflection of your own guilt over a bit of truth. Your life is not mine to live, and if you are OK with the way you've lived, then that's good for you. But the disrespect has gone both ways... 🫡✌️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/24 03:40 AM |
| -1 | Sometimes you win oneThat's fair. I apologize for reaching instead of clarifying first. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/24 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Sometimes you win oneFair. Yes, it's shitty af. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/24 02:58 AM |
| – | Sometimes you win oneI have respect for that, as I was the one to work myself into the ground with work and school, but my kids want to stay with me. If they didn't, I would be questioning what I did wrong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/24 02:48 AM |
| -5 | Sometimes you win oneHow are you ok with your kids living like that? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/24 02:03 AM |
| – | Sometimes you win oneProbably because we also end up with the kids while you get to build yourself and live your best life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/24 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Divorce/kids/ different stateWomen are temporary. That's the mindset. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/24 06:08 PM |
| 2 | This is what they do!!!!I mean, it truly is if you don't love each other. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/24 03:54 AM |
| 2 | This is what they do!!!!Until she stops caring at all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/24 12:38 AM |
| 4 | What are you eating?One of my coworkers laughed at my folded rye with a couple slices of roast beef for breakfast. I think i managed to get mustard on it that day? 🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/24 03:10 AM |
| 7 | What are you eating?The divorce diet is real 🥲 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/24 02:33 AM |
| 7 | Still haven’t thrown away my wedding ring"I love you more now than ever before" less than a year before filing. 🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/24 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Male PerspectiveI was told by another man on here to fuck off. I'm trying to do that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Male PerspectiveI got my masters before i became a nurse. I have my adn and am getting my bachelor's because it's required by my hospital. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Male PerspectiveI just want to keep my family together | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Male PerspectiveI didn't delete or change comments. I deleted my post | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Male PerspectiveYea. I fucked up. I ruined my marriage. Thank you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Male PerspectiveNot even talking into account his infidelity for 11 years prior to that. I deleted the post. Yes i am a piece of shit and should be ashamed. Thank you got continuing to point that out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Male PerspectiveOk. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Male PerspectiveI'm not playing games. This is our life. I just came here for a male perspective, but I'm being shamed by all of you. I was trying to better myself to be better for him. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 03:20 PM |
| 0 | Male PerspectiveI did not cheat on him at all apart from what happened during the separation. I am a new nurse. 8 months. But my career doesn't mean I'm a cheater. What? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Male PerspectiveThank you, i will look this up and do some research | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 03:16 PM |
| 0 | Male PerspectiveYes, they asked for my mistakes. That is one of them. I haven't done it again. Even now, with him telling me he doesn't love me. I'm not saying what i did was right. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:39 PM |
| 0 | Male PerspectiveAlso, i was asking for a male perspective to see if it's salvageable. I'm not trying to invade your space. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Male PerspectiveThank you, hope you're right | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Male PerspectiveOur separation was due to his infidelity. He'd been with 20 other women before that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Male PerspectiveYea, this is true. I want to think he still loves me. But he doesn't. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:30 PM |
| -3 | Male PerspectiveYou are right. But my true feelings are not divorce. Thank you for your insight. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Male PerspectiveYea, it is all my fault, and I wish I could go back in time with what I know now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Male PerspectiveYea, that's what I thought also. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Male PerspectiveIdk why I want to stay. I feel like he still loves me. Idk what's wrong with me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Male PerspectiveI know, and I appreciate your insight. I have stopped talking to him and downloaded the our family wizard app to help with parenting. I'm just deeply ashamed of my loss. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Male PerspectiveThank you. I have a therapist, she's great. I'm definitely grieving, I spent my last entire session crying like a baby. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Male PerspectiveI'm realizing that and wish i could take it all back. Genuinely. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Male PerspectiveYea. He refuses to tell me there is someone else, but he also won't say there is not. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:19 PM |
| 0 | Male PerspectiveI work full time. I have a masters and am working on my second bachelor's. I have a good job and make great money. I'm fit (lifting weights for 13 years) and am good-looking. I had a fling during a separation while he was with other people also. We had sex regularly. There was a long time where i didn't give him head because he'd been with so many escorts it made me sick to think of it. I've gotten over that. I basically shut him out from me while he was on his most recent deployment. I was work… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Male PerspectiveNo; our marriage nor life is not as black and white as this statement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Male PerspectiveThank you! I will try this! ❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Male PerspectiveOriginally i wanted out because of his infidelity, and physical abuse. I made the mistake of not seeing his progress and giving him a chance when he came back from deployment. I was stonewalling him, as I didn't see a chance with us. But I wasn't a perfect wife throughout the marriage, and they're are many things I could have done better also. Like being overly independent, not allowing him to lead as a husband. We're not even divorced yet, still in the process. I just want him to come home and … | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/24 02:01 PM |
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