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For somebody who is more advanced, yes, I would agree. But I don't think I would give that advice to somebody who is new. They could take that and run with it when they're really not experienced enough to know what's proper and what's improper. My two cents. Thanks for the response though.
/r/seduction25/02/17 12:59 AM
1

First of all, you're blaming the world for YOUR problem. your problem is that you are jealous. Take care of that, and continue to practice.
/r/seduction24/02/17 02:18 PM
7

It's hard in the beginning, definitely. You have to sort of trust your intuition sometimes, and try some things. Most importantly, stay within your ethical guidelines. Extremes tend to lead to negative results.
/r/seduction24/02/17 02:15 PM
7

I have dated older women. I have not had a sugar mama. Wouldn't that be nice? But anyways, if you want to date women who are a little older you have to be pretty on your game. These women have been around the block a few times, so to speak, and can tell when somebody is putting on a shtick very easily. Confidence is the key. Best,
/r/seduction24/02/17 02:14 PM
-3

Your faggot attitude is stuck
/r/seduction01/02/17 04:17 PM
0

DON'T TELL HER ABOUT THE DREAM SHE WILL THINK IT'S CREEPY
/r/seduction01/02/17 02:23 PM
1

I think if you're attracted to girls at least part of you wants a girlfriend, even if it's just for consistent sex. But you're right, some people are ready for a girlfriend at different points in their development. As you get older relationships should become more deep and mature as both parties have more life experience, but maybe that is not always the case, I don't know. I am not that much older than you. I've had girlfriends and they are always a pain in the ass. Women are a pain in the ass.…
/r/seduction01/02/17 02:21 PM
2

Yes, I would say relaxing and being more comfortable with yourself and having fun on your own, doing as you please, is really important.
/r/seduction01/02/17 02:18 PM
1

You're young, it sounds like based on the last sentence. People hook up with other people. That is just the fact of life. Your problem is, as you have mentioned, you may have developed some attachment for her. Some attachment after a fun night is to be expected, but if it becomes attachment that is dependent on what she does, you can expect suffering at one point or another. The point is, you can't control what she does. All you can do is really make yourself available, indicate interest, and le…
/r/seduction01/02/17 02:17 PM
2

You just do it. You've already admitted you just wanted to use her for sex, if you're not honest with her you will just be deceiving yourself.
/r/seduction01/02/17 02:13 PM
0

I wouldn't recommend that.
/r/seduction17/12/16 06:11 PM
7

You start by talking to girls. Wherever and whenever it makes sense to do so.
/r/seduction17/12/16 06:11 PM
4

call in a chopper in call of duty modern warfare
/r/seduction17/12/16 03:35 PM
-5

You probably don't even approach.
/r/seduction15/12/16 02:30 PM
1

Approach in a natural way....straight up cold approach to women who are yet still unreceptive to your generosity will lead to results like these. Try meeting women who come about naturally in your path of life and I think you will see better results.
/r/seduction15/12/16 02:30 PM
2

Being mindful of your speech is more of a guideline to try and discern what is helpful for yourself versus what is harmful. I would argue that aggressive, sarcastic language, which the OP has already identified as being a problem for himself, is not helping him so I gave him a suggestion to mitigate it.
/r/seduction15/12/16 02:29 PM
3

Go out and try not to be shy it will kill you slowly but surely.
/r/seduction14/12/16 09:33 PM
-2

what are these, mantras to feel like a loser?
/r/seduction14/12/16 09:26 PM
1

DON'T FUCK IT UP
/r/seduction14/12/16 02:09 PM
2

Do not show intent early as she has seniority and could potentially use this against you if it "doesn't work." I would wait and see what happens.
/r/seduction14/12/16 02:06 PM
3

Hopefully I can give you some advice that will help you here. I have a group of friends that are also "dog-eat-dog," so to speak. Really, to me it feels like those are the friends you need to avoid. Being aggressive is not only very unattractive to women but in certain situations can wind you up in a HELL of a lot of trouble. Unnecessary trouble. So, first I would think about whether these friends of yours are a healthy influence to your development. You may have to refrain from hanging out with…
/r/seduction14/12/16 02:01 PM
1

yes, but within reason obviously bro. Like, if you get rejected and she leaves or the conversation just fizzles out, it's over pretty much. I wouldn't keep going for too long else you pose a risk of creating confrontation with the WRONG people. All sorts of miscreants are out at night and you don't want to be the needy pickup guy starting "beef." So, use your intelligence. Sometimes it is good but I play on the conservative side because I've gotten into trouble before.
/r/seduction14/12/16 01:55 PM
3

I open with whatever comes into my head. First, I physically get myself in a position so that I can open. If nothing comes into my head, I chicken out and leave. If something does, no matter what it is I'll say it. The point is to be spontaneous. That's how I open all the time and is a good way to come up with openers that you can then recycle if you want.
/r/seduction14/12/16 01:52 PM
1

OP has down syndrome
/r/seduction13/12/16 04:22 PM
1

no
/r/seduction13/12/16 04:21 PM
1

sure.
/r/seduction13/12/16 01:50 PM
0

id bang her tits for sure
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:21 PM
1

forget about frame that's an acting technique and unnecessary.
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:20 PM
3

Give up, it's not the end of the world.
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:19 PM
3

I mean respond honestly.
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:13 PM
1

say whatever makes sense
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:13 PM
1

That threesome story at the end is ridiculous! Though not incredulous. Cool post man I appreciate the insight. More parties and all are welcome!
/r/seduction12/12/16 07:57 PM
5

honestly ..?
/r/seduction12/12/16 05:23 PM
1

tldr man
/r/seduction12/12/16 05:23 PM
5

it's try hard that's for sure, but hey it might work.
/r/seduction12/12/16 05:23 PM
1

Give up girls suck
/r/seduction11/12/16 09:52 PM
1

tldr
/r/seduction11/12/16 09:50 PM
1

like u
/r/seduction11/12/16 07:32 PM
1

I couldn't even be happy with myself if all I did were tease girls with racist comments. So thanks anyways.
/r/seduction11/12/16 02:55 PM
1

yes, be normal
/r/seduction10/12/16 02:13 PM
1

give up, what a relief
/r/seduction10/12/16 02:11 PM
1

it should happen naturally, spontaneously even. Of course there will be an initiator but the question of rejection shouldn't really be a huge issue.
/r/seduction10/12/16 02:05 PM
1

don't be overbearing../?
/r/seduction10/12/16 01:58 PM
1

bang sluts
/r/seduction10/12/16 01:58 PM
1

bitches will be bitches brah move on
/r/seduction10/12/16 01:57 PM
1

it's starlord!
/r/seduction10/12/16 01:57 PM
1

talk normal
/r/seduction10/12/16 01:56 PM
1

pimp her out. just kidding. have her talk to girls?
/r/seduction10/12/16 01:55 PM
2

wtf? humor is good. don't tease
/r/seduction10/12/16 01:55 PM
2

dont be donald trump
/r/seduction10/12/16 01:55 PM
1

It probably means you hate yourself if you do.
/r/seduction10/12/16 01:54 PM
1

not if you're bloody sexy cunts
/r/seduction10/12/16 01:53 PM
3

idiot
/r/seduction10/12/16 01:51 PM
2

You can't just say racist shit and say its all about the delivery
/r/seduction10/12/16 01:48 PM
3

You will probably not get pussy if you don't go out and there is a possibility you will if you do.
/r/seduction10/12/16 01:46 PM
1

it's not so logical
/r/seduction09/12/16 09:40 PM
1

Open ended questions, be open to her first
/r/seduction09/12/16 08:50 PM
2

lololll
/r/seduction09/12/16 08:10 PM
0

-5
/r/seduction08/12/16 12:59 PM
1

thx Chris.
/r/seduction07/12/16 07:49 PM
1

It's unfortunate and I know that many people do experience some aches and pains during the practice. Some people suggest basically ignoring it or including in your overall mindfulness. You could even use it as the object of your meditation if you felt like relating with it directly could help. Good posture is very important so whatever you can do to sustain it is good.
/r/seduction07/12/16 12:56 AM
1

Yes, effortless.
/r/seduction07/12/16 12:55 AM
1

Yes, being at ease is a large part of it as that type of energy radiates off of you and others can feel it. It is positive, obviously. I would add that moving the interaction in a forward direction is important as well, in tandem with what you are saying.
/r/seduction07/12/16 12:54 AM
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For some people relaxation comes naturally. For others it isn't as easy and their minds are like tornadoes. When we meditate and become calm many of our questions regarding communication become clear because we are more connected with our common sense. Even if you feel like you are a relaxed person, I still feel that everyone can benefit from the awareness and insight about many areas of life that a meditative discipline has to offer.
/r/seduction07/12/16 12:52 AM
2

Janice is way cooler than this AFC
/r/seduction06/12/16 09:39 PM
3

snapchat is less resistance provoking than number
/r/seduction06/12/16 06:21 PM
-4

stop doing daygame. it IS creepy.
/r/seduction06/12/16 06:20 PM
2

Yea being genuine ....can't really go wrong.
/r/seduction06/12/16 06:19 PM
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I'm hoping it will help individuals to at least recognize that they need to relax and not be neurotic around women. As far as relaxing while in set, this advice is to practice relaxing outside of set which will help you in set. Does that answer your confusion?
/r/seduction06/12/16 06:12 PM
1

I don't know. I do know conclusively that women are weird.
/r/seduction06/12/16 05:21 PM
3

Don't neg something doesn't feel right about it in my opinion.
/r/seduction06/12/16 02:09 PM
1

In order to develop relationships with anybody, some skill in communication is involved. This is regardless of age or gender. So, yes, even in high school there will be a degree of strategy and thoughtfulness when it comes to getting the dating life that you want. It's up to you to realize that vision.
/r/seduction06/12/16 02:08 PM
1

Bad sex happens ... I don't know what to tell you. It's an awkward act. Do your best to restore the relationship using whatever abilities you have, but if you feel like it's a lost cause, move on.....
/r/seduction06/12/16 02:05 PM
1

I don't know what a discord server is.
/r/seduction06/12/16 02:02 PM
3

poetic
/r/seduction05/12/16 09:50 PM
1

Yes. Though it may have just been your karma, i.e. it was beyond your control. She has her own emotional atmosphere and maybe she just wasn't in a place to hook up that night. That's my two cents at least.
/r/seduction03/12/16 07:21 PM
1

A clerk is when thing. A stranger literally on the sidewalk outside with no context is another.
/r/seduction01/12/16 09:41 PM
3

lol. it does that on a per subreddit basis, and is dependent on the amount of karma you have accrued in that subreddit.
/r/seduction01/12/16 03:50 PM
7

I am somewhat against approaching strangers on the street. Most people find it startling in my experience.
/r/seduction01/12/16 03:46 PM
1

You're at the beginning, so now you have to think about what the next logical step would be to move things forward. Your whole life should be moving forward.
/r/seduction01/12/16 02:45 PM
1

Nobody gets what you're saying.
/r/seduction01/12/16 02:44 PM
1

It sounds to me like you'll just need to get more experience with this sort of thing so you are less anxious. "Getting your feet wet" in this area does take a bit of time.
/r/seduction01/12/16 02:43 PM
1

This is somewhat humorous, though it appears you don't find it funny yourself. I wouldn't worry too much about it. Just try to be mindful of the fact that relationships are a two way street and that letting the other person invest is just as important as investing yourself. I hope that makes sense.
/r/seduction01/12/16 02:40 PM
1

I second this.
/r/seduction01/12/16 02:38 PM
2

Do what feels natural. You don't need to be trying to game your girlfriend particularly during the act. Just enjoy yourself and congratulations.
/r/seduction01/12/16 02:36 PM
1

My advice would be to find somebody you trust and is skilled at talking to women and try and learn their ways. Preferably somebody your age, as that might eliminate any limiting beliefs you may have about yourself and what you can achieve.
/r/seduction01/12/16 02:35 PM
1

Don't be creepy with eye contact, on the flip side of the coin.
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:41 PM
4

Don't neg women .
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:41 PM
1

you just take her back to your place...all the fiddle diddle stuff in between is just bullshit. Take your sights off the prize and have a more panoramic view...you may have been overly fixated on the results here, and as a result come off as creepy to her.
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:40 PM
1

It may or may not make you spoiled, rotten.
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:39 PM
0

nope.
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:38 PM
1

If I were you, I would continue my pursuit of sexual intercourse with this individual. She has a "pink hole," so to speak, so why not take advantage of the opportunity to have some love making?
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:38 PM
1

I really like ice cream....so for me, I'm not so sure that I would share my precious cone with anybody but myself. I would probably just eat it and not even bother to offer her any delicious dessert. Thanks for your honest question, M
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:37 PM
1

I'll believe it when I see it.
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:35 PM
2

does it come with LSD?
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:35 PM
1

you fuck her
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:28 PM
1

cool
/r/seduction30/11/16 02:47 PM
1

shut up
/r/seduction30/11/16 12:59 AM
-4

strangers dont want YOU to fucking talk to them.
/r/seduction29/11/16 12:18 AM
-5

dont talk to strangers.
/r/seduction28/11/16 09:01 PM
1

discipline in the sense of using your intelligence and being straightforward. The opposite of sloppiness.
/r/seduction28/11/16 12:41 PM
3

What I mean is that the process of using kino will actually make you more comfortable using kino because you get used to it. There's no way around it particularly.
/r/seduction28/11/16 12:40 PM
1

yes regret is no good!
/r/seduction28/11/16 12:39 PM
1

use kino...?
/r/seduction27/11/16 11:26 PM
1

Discipline brings confidence.
/r/seduction27/11/16 11:25 PM
5

Take the leap. That's all there is to it - the willingness to be daring, even if only for a moment or two.
/r/seduction27/11/16 11:23 PM
1

I mean, it may not be better. It's situational and intuitive, not totally logical.
/r/seduction27/11/16 06:21 PM
3

Yep.
/r/seduction27/11/16 06:18 PM
1

yes i consider myself a good texter . generally its a little bit of attraction and then meeting up somehow. have to call too
/r/seduction25/11/16 08:28 PM
1

I am in the same boat. You have to use whatever connections you have to try to get a group together to maybe go out or whatever. That means possibly becoming friends with people who are second or third degree connections.
/r/seduction22/11/16 11:52 AM
-1

free tour is free hence the fucking name idiot
/r/seduction22/11/16 11:50 AM
1

THIS. THIS IS WHAT I NEEDED.
/r/seduction22/11/16 11:49 AM
1

yea well my moms fat so youre a fucking winner jerk
/r/seduction22/11/16 11:48 AM
1

the first serious response i get, thank you
/r/seduction22/11/16 11:48 AM
-1

this is fucking dumb
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:25 PM
1

how to bang hot chicks
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:25 PM
0

you don't
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:25 PM
0

nope
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:25 PM
1

tldr
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:24 PM
1

tldr
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:24 PM
1

SHUT UP STOP POSTING BULLSHIT
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:24 PM
3

drink more and start puuuuuuking
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:23 PM
1

so how do i get to have sex with girls ?
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:20 PM
1

just whip it out and fap
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:19 PM
0

you'll never get a girl
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:16 PM
1

i dont know? my cock is so small you can't see it though
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:13 PM
-1

mine is -4 inches
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:13 PM
4

check your inbox
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:12 PM
0

Thanks I will try Thailand to get my cock hard and out of my body. Thank you
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:12 PM
1

big cockkkk
/r/seduction21/11/16 09:52 PM
0

rub her titties
/r/seduction21/11/16 09:52 PM
3

you bang her again
/r/seduction21/11/16 09:52 PM
1

always double text it gets me so much cockkkkkk
/r/seduction21/11/16 09:50 PM
2

shut the fuck up.
/r/seduction21/11/16 09:50 PM
1

developing your humor! incredibly important. It begins by developing an appreciation for the natural ironies of life. That gives you a light touch on reality instead of taking things very seriously like WCEpi. He's so serious it's funny! HA!
/r/seduction21/11/16 09:47 PM
-12

ugh, pickup
/r/seduction21/11/16 09:45 PM
1

nothing will make you happy as long as hatred is in your heart!
/r/seduction21/11/16 12:21 PM
3

hm, maybe try banging her?
/r/seduction20/11/16 02:59 PM
1

I find your choice of language to be humorous. Maybe just be patient with her and let things unfold naturally. Try not to get too attached to your ideal version of reality and things will work out how they are supposed to.
/r/seduction20/11/16 02:48 PM
3

Sorry to hear that you are confused. Focus! Moving things in a "forward" direction is how to "keep things going." It is simply about not dropping the ball. It requires a degree of being comfortable with yourself and being relaxed.
/r/seduction20/11/16 02:45 PM
2

I'm not sure there is a direct answer here because everything in pickup and relationships are dynamic and situational. The advice I would give you is to trust your intellect more and have a sense of what she is feeling so you are not coming off too strong, or not strong enough. I think balance is the key. Hope that makes sense, M
/r/seduction20/11/16 02:44 PM
1

As you have already mentioned and are aware, there may be a period of time where she needs some sort of space to figure out who she is now and what she wants to do next. You'll have to communicate with her to figure out where she's at and if she would consider having a relationship with you. At that point you will know whether or not pursuing is the wise option. Cheers! msmiitz
/r/seduction20/11/16 02:42 PM
2

You may have to accept the fact that women and relationships in general do take time and energy to cultivate, shape, and grow. There is a level of commitment involved that you may have to reflect upon and decide whether you want or not. Pickup is about learning to develop relationships properly so that both parties get what they want.
/r/seduction20/11/16 02:39 PM
2

I think it's definitely important to reflect and think about any mistakes you made in the past with women and think about what you would change to see it go in a different direction. It's a good exercise and may help you convert women into friends or sexual partners by not making the same mistakes. Also work on becoming a more postive and wholesome "you," and that will make you attractive and attract the things you want in life (which is by nature the same statement).
/r/seduction20/11/16 02:34 PM
2

I second this.
/r/seduction20/11/16 02:31 PM
13

say whatever you want, give yourself more space to be creative and express yourself openly.
/r/seduction20/11/16 02:30 PM
1

you can try but the chances of success may not be that great.
/r/seduction20/11/16 02:30 PM
1

god, RSD is a fuck of a website.
/r/seduction19/11/16 07:05 PM
3

dur
/r/seduction19/11/16 07:05 PM
1

yes.
/r/seduction17/11/16 12:49 AM
-1

too long
/r/seduction16/11/16 08:53 PM
-2

tldr ?
/r/seduction16/11/16 08:29 PM
0

give up
/r/seduction16/11/16 08:28 PM
1

not necessarily. you may be getting hookers to snort coke off of your penis. one never knows.
/r/seduction16/11/16 08:27 PM
1

If you're all about looks as a basis for attractiveness, be my guest. But it won't do you much good as most people get uglier as they age. So I hope for your sake you're developing yourself internally as well.
/r/seduction16/11/16 08:26 PM
1

he's my friend too
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:48 PM
2

lol that last sentence.
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:47 PM
1

thanks.
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:45 PM
1

you didn't bang her thats where you went wrong.
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:27 PM
2

psh, little details.
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:26 PM
1

lol
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:26 PM
-5

thanks for your little advertisement.
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:25 PM
1

Thanks for your opinion. Let me know when you get to something real.
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:21 PM
1

2 could be interpreted as being a rude, inconsiderate douchebag like every other person in the world. "Saying whatever you want without giving a fuck," what does that even mean? You just sound like an asshole who doesn't have any regard for anybody but yourself. And 1, this subbreddit is about getting girls, not fulfilling your little dreams.
/r/seduction16/11/16 05:52 PM
1

no
/r/seduction16/11/16 03:22 PM
1

tldr make shorter.
/r/seduction16/11/16 03:21 PM
1

i laughed at this in a good way. and i agree with most of it.
/r/seduction16/11/16 02:36 PM
2

Good for you I don't know what kind of response you are looking for.
/r/seduction16/11/16 02:31 PM
1

Go out, get out of your house and out of your comfort zone and learn to socialize. I think you already know the answer to your question.
/r/seduction16/11/16 02:30 PM
2

Rude is being rude, and having an attractive facade is no excuse for poor behavior. It generally demonstrates a lack of social intelligence and calibration, and that is more important than looks in my opinion.
/r/seduction16/11/16 02:27 PM
1

yea don't use racism, politics, or anything that could be rude in your humor as it generally sets a negative tone and people may even begin to view you in a negative light. In order to go from friend to lover your conversations have to take on a sexual tone.
/r/seduction16/11/16 02:26 PM
0

Girls love to stalk other people's social media profiles, particularly guys. So it could either help you or hurt you depending on the quality of your profile, and the image you are constructing for yourself. I think you probably can understand what I mean by that.
/r/seduction16/11/16 02:24 PM
0

1, actresses are crazy 2, life isn't about acting silly all the time like fucking Will Ferrell 3, stop avoiding talking to strangers.
/r/seduction16/11/16 02:20 PM
-1

Try to add her on facebook.
/r/seduction16/11/16 02:18 PM
1

Hopefully an approach like this would correct either any misconceptions he might have about approaching, fear, or negative behaviors. But it could also lead to a jaded attitude where he is no longer sensitive as to what others are feeling and has a false sense of entitlement. Really he needs to get some traction and feel like he is improving in his social skills.
/r/seduction16/11/16 02:17 PM
1

stopping giving a fuck refers to the shedding of your self-consciousness. It doesn't refer to being mindless and saying crude or rude things. So you are somewhat on track with your statement about not wanting to be disrespectful. In order to lose your conscious inhibition you have to trust your intelligence and learn to direct the energy of situations, similar perhaps to dancing.
/r/seduction16/11/16 02:05 PM
3

But sometimes you have to have game for her to want to change locations with you. All the time actually....unless you just "get lucky."
/r/seduction16/11/16 02:02 PM
11

Logistics in pickup refers primarily to finding a good place to take a women for...erm....further developments.....
/r/seduction16/11/16 01:59 PM
1

tldr ...?
/r/seduction16/11/16 01:58 PM
1

Good, those are good things. Keep doing what you are doing and find some women !
/r/seduction16/11/16 01:58 PM
-1

sure you do. you have to have spider senses, though :)
/r/seduction15/11/16 06:02 PM
1

Don't worry about rejection so much. It's a matter of luck and compatibility which are pretty much beyond your control anyways. As for models, most are shallow and cunty.. fuck models.
/r/seduction15/11/16 01:43 PM
2

meditation helps to connect us with our inherent human dignity and basic goodness. Try reading Chogyam Trungpa's "The Sacred Path of the Warrior" where he explains this in greater detail. Best,
/r/seduction15/11/16 01:41 PM
2

stop playing video games completely. start reading books and becoming a fascinating person.
/r/seduction15/11/16 01:40 PM
1

hahaha this is great and incredibly true.
/r/seduction15/11/16 01:39 PM
1

don't talk to strangers if they don't want to be talked to is my rule of thumb. bad karma.
/r/seduction15/11/16 01:37 PM
1

jailbait
/r/seduction15/11/16 01:35 PM
1

i used to hook up with a girl who was in her thirties. i'm 23. you have to have solid game and emotional IQ as they have seen a lot more than you presumably and are quite calibrated if they are cool. some of them like sex more. try it out.
/r/seduction15/11/16 01:33 PM
1

relax and trust your intelligence. you are your own greatest ally and best teacher
/r/seduction15/11/16 01:32 PM
1

don't hook up with one of your buddy's crushes. unethical.
/r/seduction15/11/16 01:32 PM
1

use complete words and complete sentences and proper punctuation. that gives people a clear and proper understanding of what it is you are presenting by posting something on this forum. thanks,
/r/seduction15/11/16 01:28 PM
2

good luck with that...all i think about is sex. i'd rather see him use his sexual energy in a constructive way
/r/seduction12/11/16 12:18 PM
2

It's more of the recognition of the fact that you as a human being have inherent worth, dignity, and value. That takes a bit of reflection. It might help to view others as equals that have equal potential as you instead of thinking of others as superior to yourself.
/r/seduction12/11/16 12:17 PM
2

Almost all of it is skill. It's particularly important. You're saying things deliberately hoping to capitalize on some reaction she may have. It's entirely skillful. It's up to you to learn how to understand emotions and arousal and how to construct your language so that these elements are being engaged.
/r/seduction12/11/16 12:15 PM
1

Start to frequent some places and talk to the people that work there.
/r/seduction12/11/16 12:14 PM
1

haha!
/r/seduction12/11/16 12:13 PM
1

One thing is to reflect on what type of women you might be attracting by using Tinder in such a way. The quality of women you'd be getting may not be what you wanted. Attracting women by having a positive demeanor and lifestyle is a more fulfilling method of getting the girls you want in your life, wouldn't you say? Something to think about.
/r/seduction12/11/16 12:09 PM
1

Us y'all shake it off and keep moving by shaking it off and keeping moving.. what else is there to do? Eat a bucket of chocolate ice cream?
/r/seduction12/11/16 12:05 PM
1

make sure you have their undivided attention.
/r/seduction12/11/16 12:03 PM
1

take her to a pawn shop or a prostitute corner and feed the hookers popcorn.
/r/seduction11/11/16 11:59 AM
1

say. my dick is too long for your old ass hands har har
/r/seduction11/11/16 11:58 AM
1

Have some patience. And stop trying to improve your experience.
/r/seduction11/11/16 11:56 AM
2

negative nancy over here.
/r/seduction10/11/16 12:13 AM
1

like two or three for me.
/r/seduction10/11/16 12:11 AM
21

sit near them if you want and then try and initiate conversation. or pull your dick out and lay it on her book and say "here."
/r/seduction10/11/16 12:10 AM
1

You have to trust yourself and allow yourself to express yourself openly and freely without hesitation.
/r/seduction09/11/16 11:31 PM
1

Everybody has a basic level of intelligence. I am extending faith to people that they are in fact able to speak to a woman and not have to feel handicapped or something. I am empowering people to actually do it instead of lurk on reddit making nasty comments like yourself.
/r/seduction09/11/16 11:30 PM
1

it may just be your personal disposition towards work versus class. what i am telling you is that your discipline will help you with internal confidence regardless of external situations.
/r/seduction06/11/16 05:31 PM
1

Well obviously you are confident in that situation because thats something you've cultivated for yourself. Maybe you're good at your job or just feel at ease in that environment. Having that sort of discipline (ie maintaining eye contact, etc. that you mentioned) outside of work will produce similar results for yourself as your actions will condition your mind.
/r/seduction06/11/16 05:09 PM
2

I would say communicating interest in an appropriate way, and being able to maintain conversation.
/r/seduction06/11/16 05:04 PM
1

gotta be a douche
/r/seduction06/11/16 04:42 PM
2

oh, in that case, there is absolutely no hope for you.
/r/seduction06/11/16 04:41 PM
0

isn't this how rape happens?
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:17 PM
1

wow.
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:16 PM
1

cuz they are a bunch of whiny little computer jocky faggots. some of them.
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:15 PM
1

you just start to bang her its as straightforward as that
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:14 PM
0

you should give up you obviously suck....
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:13 PM
1

married chicks always want the D.
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:13 PM
1

start networking brah you at a college where there are tons of people join clubs etc.
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:09 PM
1

You should quit posting stupid shit.
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:09 PM
1

I agree with this sentiment.
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:05 PM
1

NICE ! YOU HAVE BEEN PSYCHOANALYZED
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:04 PM
1

improve your fucking grammar and then come back and we'll talk fucking punk
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:00 PM
1

saw your profile time to fuck
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:59 PM
1

You'll have to sense when the moment is right for yourself. The opener can be anything, preferably a statement. Speak in statements that might help.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:57 PM
1

you already asked them for notes, so the next logical step would be to introduce yourself and talk about class or whatever. That's what I would do. You already have the common ground of being in class as students with one another.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:53 PM
2

you just bang all the hoez nuff said pussy
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:47 PM
1

bang all the hoes ignore teh parentsszz
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:46 PM
2

haha.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:45 PM
1

its probably just in your head. you have a mind, two legs, and two arms, what makes you think you're so special as to be creepy?
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:40 PM
2

one of those thinker guys. lol..
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:38 PM
1

strangers that are not ready for your generosity become uncomfortable being approached and thus want to leave the situation, and will not want to give you their number. Edit: it's different if they ARE ready to receive your generosity, but it is up to you to sense it, which is a subtle art in and of itself.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:36 PM
1

it is good advice you should take it. Bothering people is negative karma.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:33 PM
1

yea, not sure.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:32 PM
1

too fucking wordy
/r/seduction05/11/16 05:17 PM
0

dont approach strangers.
/r/seduction05/11/16 05:16 PM
-1

dont approach strangers.
/r/seduction05/11/16 05:16 PM
3

tell her to go away....
/r/seduction05/11/16 05:16 PM
-2

dont bother strangers bad karma
/r/seduction05/11/16 05:16 PM
1

ask them to shit on your chest. get it?
/r/seduction04/11/16 07:14 PM
1

yea, if you're soft....
/r/seduction04/11/16 07:13 PM
1

I've bought it. Basically what I do is get a boner at the club rub on girls titties
/r/seduction04/11/16 07:13 PM
1

usually banging her
/r/seduction04/11/16 07:12 PM
2

the black guy. he seems ungenuine to me and he never looks happy haha.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:20 PM
1

RELAX BRO
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:20 PM
1

get naked and bang the hot chicks 101 ?
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:19 PM
1

i dont like that guy.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:18 PM
3

1.95 million as most women be crazy yo.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:13 PM
0

I agree that this is obviously an obstacle for you. The discriminatory detail here is whether you are having problems meeting attractive, normal women, or whether you are and are not getting it to go anywhere. I hope that makes sense. It seems like your problem is just not meeting enough women which in that case go out or use your networking skills.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:11 PM
1

relax and act normally, I would say. Your locus of control comes from yourself rather than ping-ponging and reacting towards your environment.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:09 PM
1

This happened to me for a long time... I had to go out by myself and get a move on in my life in order to break it. Hope that helps.
/r/seduction24/10/16 06:15 PM
2

Giving up produces no results for you, though. Especially long-term. You may end up with a vacuum of nothingness in your life if you give up. Giving up is not an option, frankly. Stagnation is death. You need to be more gentle and kind to yourself. Everybody has something to offer this world. There's value that were born with as human beings. It's up to you to discover that. Best,
/r/seduction03/10/16 03:20 PM
1

Your mental continuum stays with you regardless of where you are in the world, as you have found out. You haven't yet changed as a person. You're going to have to learn to meditate. That may be your only hope at taming your mind. From there, be kind.
/r/seduction03/10/16 03:17 PM
1

women are scary fuck them
/r/seduction01/10/16 02:01 PM
1

talk to more sluts
/r/seduction01/10/16 02:01 PM
1

anything . anything pleasurable that your mind can come up with. It's more about letting loose
/r/seduction01/10/16 02:00 PM
1

PLOW LETS GOOOOO
/r/seduction01/10/16 02:00 PM
1

TLDR?
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:59 PM
1

Be social in bars. Talk to dudes. Get dudes numbers. Basically be gay
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:58 PM
1

Play no games.
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:58 PM
1

What's your opinion on canned tunafish?
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:58 PM
1

do it!!!!
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:57 PM
1

First, you maintain a rock hard erection. Then you rub it on their asses. and say "Bitch, let's dance." Then you ejaculate.
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:57 PM
1

Girls are gay. Get a hobby
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:56 PM
5

you bang 'em out, on the spot. Obviously.
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:55 PM
1

have interesting snapchats or snapchats that have value. It can be any thing. should be pleasurable.
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:54 PM
1

Don't say that
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:53 PM
1

can u do a tl dr i dont have time to read this huge post?
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:53 PM
3

youll have to be smart as well. If you're not smart focus on being present at least so that you can direct the energy of the interaction appropriately.
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:53 PM
1

Have a good time, let loose. Don't worry so much about whether or not you are boring. Be true to yourself.
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:51 PM
1

Wear good-looking clothing. Have strong eye contact. Don't be shy. It's more of a matter of getting into conversations with the girl rather than getting her to notice you. You as a man will usually have to put in effort.
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:50 PM
1

No, use common sense. Don't do with family.
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:48 PM
1

HUNT FOR SLUTS
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:56 PM
1

LOL LETS GOOOOOO TAKE ME OVER
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:56 PM
1

just keep sleeping with girls youve already done it
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:55 PM
1

ask to feel their titties
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:55 PM
2

throw her in the van
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:54 PM
0

no.
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:53 PM
-1

get flashier tits
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:53 PM
1

dont talk to strangers
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:53 PM
9

dont talk to strangers bro
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:52 PM
-1

Why don't you just become a faggot?
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:51 PM
0

i just try to masturbate furiously. that seems to help
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:51 PM
1

Try and have sex with all the hot girls
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:50 PM
1

Funny, I was called a skinhead (I'm bald) and then had beer poured on my feet. Something like that is so extreme all you can do is laugh.
/r/seduction16/11/11 07:24 PM
1

If you lose your nerve, they'll smell it. So don't. lol fanx?
/r/seduction18/09/11 04:21 AM
17

Don't be a PUA robot. Be genuinely charming and for god's sake listen. It sounds simple and it is, but sometimes you get so focused on game that you forget you are talking to a human being with the same wants and needs of any of us. I really like this. Sometimes I feel like I get too caught up in what I should be doing with respect to game instead of treating people as human beings. Show some compassion, crack jokes, have a genuine good time, and a lot of the time things will just fall into plac…
/r/seduction17/09/11 10:41 PM
1

I know RSD has a shit ton of footage but they only release it during their "hot seat" talks and other special events. Has anyone been able to find them?
/r/seduction06/08/11 03:29 AM
2

Learning from naturals is so useful. I need more natural friends
/r/seduction06/07/11 09:50 PM
1

He seems like a pretty genuine person
/r/seduction08/06/11 04:12 AM
1

Will Smith isn't a phony
/r/seduction08/06/11 01:11 AM
1

I'm not talking about philanthropy or saving people, I'm talking about being alpha while giving value to interaction. I realize there are other people in the world that would qualify.
/r/seduction07/06/11 10:14 PM
2

We get it, a lot of people on reddit are introverts. What everyone has failed to address is the OP's question, are introverts doomed to fail at game? The answer is no. A large part of the game is LEARNING to be more social in every day life. It may seem like work in the beginning, but as you obtain more and more experience in the field and socializing in general, it breeds competence, which in turn breeds confidence. The game becomes FUN, and you'll learn to enjoy going out because you now place…
/r/seduction23/04/11 03:53 PM
1

what the FUCK
/r/seduction17/04/11 05:46 AM
3

Careful, negativity is not attractive. Frame it well
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:30 PM
1

I love it! Jeffy from RSD uses this to pick up an HB9 while tandem hunting with his fuckbuddy in Get Laid or Die Trying.
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:29 PM
6

I don't know, there are a lot of PUAs who use a lower energy vibe to their advantage. Mystery is a perfect example. He talks slowly, leaves room for silence, and sometimes straight up doesn't respond. The alpha male mentality can manifest itself on different energy levels.
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:06 PM
1

Thank you for the detailed response. I think you did a good job delineating the trickiest issue I have - the logistics behind talking to them in school. I have hard classes so 1) there simply aren't many hot girls in my classes and 2) the classes generally require my undivided attention and leave no time to talk to them. This limits me to lunch and the hallway, aka congested mayhem. I'm not really sure what to do
/r/seduction14/04/11 06:40 PM
1

Could you elaborate on the situations/venues bit? Simply inviting over can sometimes come off as too forward, especially if you haven't really hung out with the girl outside of school.
/r/seduction14/04/11 01:05 AM
2

I just tried it....that was fantastic.
/r/seduction01/03/11 06:03 AM
2

You talk a lot about being in the present, how are you able to to silence the "monkey chatter" and live in the moment?
/r/seduction23/02/11 04:13 AM
3

Sometimes
/r/seduction23/02/11 03:14 AM
6

From the same newsletter: "The way I explain "alpha-ness" is by using the 2 examples of an alpha wolf and a silverback gorilla. You see, both are alpha, yet one defines my game, while the other, is incredibly try hard. The alpha wolf needs to convey his alpha-ness through growling and looking mean. It is energy intensive,there is no assumption. While the silverback gorilla just chills back, squatting at the top of the mountain with his harem, making the bitches feed him grapes and shit. It's ful…
/r/seduction21/02/11 11:52 PM
1

I know exactly how you feel. And once it begins to chat it begins to loop on itself, making it very difficult to get away from. The key is to become aware that you're having brain chatter, listen to it objectively, and be very skeptical of its authenticity. Be stubborn with yourself; don't take any of your own shit. Essentially, tell yourself that your thoughts are YOUR bitch. Hope this helps. Thoughts make wonderful slaves but terrible masters.
/r/seduction20/02/11 06:24 PM
1

I've got alopecia areata (universalis)..which means I have no hair anywhere on my body. As long as you have a normally shaped head, just shave it. You'll get used to it much faster than you think. Its just hair.
/r/seduction03/02/11 04:01 AM
5

like the ones with long snouts and fur?
/r/seduction02/02/11 12:05 AM
1

oh my god
/r/seduction08/01/11 05:35 AM
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