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ADVICEmuabirdie/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 05:38 PM
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muabirdie/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 04:54 PM
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OFF TOPICmuabirdie/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 04:50 PM
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DATING ADVICEmuabirdie/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 02:09 PM
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Sounds pretty hot tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 10:15 AM
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I don't like dating multiple people at the same time, I'm really monogamous. The second guy also wants kids etc. but there won't be a wedding in the near future.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 07:40 PM
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Some people blow off steam whipping a slave...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 06:28 PM
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Yeah that's true, your advice doesn't really benefit me... You don't even try to understand me.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 05:31 PM
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Uhmm oke sure... Just assuming I would even go on a 2nd date with someone who I don't have chemistry with is a bit weird. Basically nobody does that, so kinda weird you assumed that. It's a new situation for me that two guys are equally awesome.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 04:46 PM
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It was how your comment came across before you changed it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 04:40 PM
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Ow, you just changed your comment. Haha I haven't discribed their personalities very much because they are pretty similar. I have dated A LOT of guys and I have big firework chemistry with both of them and I also don't like having not both feet in one relationship, what is happening now. I just don't know which one to choose.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 04:39 PM
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Yeah, I think just choosing with your vagina is a bad idea. Thanks for the input tho :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 04:33 PM
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That is true. It's more of a gamble what our relationship will be with the younger one.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 04:20 PM
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Hahaha oke, guess we are different when it comes to dating. I have known neither long enough to have super strong feelings, people need to grow on me.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 04:18 PM
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I said it somewhere before but I want to have children between 3 and 10 years from now. I'm still very young so I have plenty of time but I would prefer to start before I'm 30. That is my ideal. Both are also good with that timeline.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 03:38 PM
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I'm not really sure what I want... Being a SAHM and completely taken care of sounds pretty nice. 😁 I do know the timelines of both guys and I'm fine with both timelines.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 03:29 PM
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I'll see how their personality work with mine. Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 03:10 PM
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I have crushes on both of them and can see myself ending up with both of them :/ I could fall deeply in love with either one of them. 😅
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 02:56 PM
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Hmm... Really difficult. I think if I would go with the older one I would have a really comfortable life, maybe go the SAHM route. The younger one would probably expect me to be an absolute equal most of the time. 🤔 is difficult
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 02:53 PM
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(He isn't a banker but he works for a bank, so less numbers more people focused.) I'm an ENTP 😁 I think both of them are E types. Very much people persons. I also think both are Se. Very much into travel and discovering new experiences etc. T/F I have no clue. And I think both are J... Very work focused/goal oriented etc. So they're very very similar.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 02:51 PM
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I don't know... A lot of these things really aren't applicable to my situation and are more generalisations. For example, 1 and 2 are looking for a more comfortable relationship (it's what I want and I vet for that). You are very right about the partnering vs providing thing tho...
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 02:35 PM
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Honestly, between 3-4 years and 8-10 years from now... I need to finish school first at least, for the rest I'm really flexible. I do want some kid free quality time with my partner first before becoming parents. And the second question is really hard... I think both would be really great dads. With nr. 1 I'm more confident because he has some young nieces and nephews he spends a lot of time with and he absolutely loves but 2 also thinks kids are awesome. Sooooooo 😅
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 02:26 PM
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By that definition it never happened to me but I'm also pretty hard to bully...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 12:24 PM
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It wasn't very threatening in my experience. Always happened on a busy street or station and was more like a 'where you going, babe' than a 'I wanna cum on your tits'. What happened to me were very neutral experiences. Never been followed luckily, that would be quite scary. I'm very smoll, I would be fucked if they wanted to do something, literally and figuratively.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 12:20 PM
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It never happens, what's your explanation?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 12:12 PM
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If it's such a huge problem why does an attractive 20 something year old girl have no experience with this big problem? Just weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 12:12 PM
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Never heard women say that irl, especially my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 12:09 PM
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That could be it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 12:04 PM
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You should try being spanked by a nice mommy sometime, it will probably help with the sour attitude.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 02:01 AM
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Dutch men won't even look at a pretty woman, they're so shy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:54 AM
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Catcalling virtually never happens, approach only happens in bars etc. Men here are pretty shy, I generally wave them over.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:49 AM
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Being a slut is bad but slut shaming is also bad. They're adult women, who cares what they do with their bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:40 AM
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Why wouldn't just talk with her instead of screaming at her?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:37 AM
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Do you want a gold star or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:30 AM
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I am extremely hot but I don't dress like a whore. Would that be a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:28 AM
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I don't drive, only use public transportation if it's too far to bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:24 AM
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Maybe that's why it never happens to me, I just don't really need it to happen so I don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:22 AM
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I also think it might be a bit blown out of proportion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:21 AM
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But you never went anywhere on your own?
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 01:12 AM
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I never said I liked it, just strange that when it supposedly is such a huge problem I never had to deal with it... Either I'm extremely lucky or it literally isn't a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:12 AM
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😭
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 06:42 PM
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That's rediculous... I think some women just have extremely bad luck with these sort of situations 😅
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 06:32 PM
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Omg...
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 06:23 PM
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Ow, then it happens quite often to me, actually hahaha
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 06:21 PM
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I think that might be it actually... I'm also pretty small but people have described me as intimidating... 😅 The only times people have called me I was pretty emotional and might have looked more vulnerable. That sounds terrible tho, it doesn't happen to often, right?
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 06:20 PM
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I also never felt very uncomfortable with it. Just responded with a quick thank you and walked on...
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 06:11 PM
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Quite a large Muslim population where I live. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:02 PM
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Good for you!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 06:01 PM
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Good for you!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 06:00 PM
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There is a huge discrepancy between my experience and what I hear about online. That's the only reason I care really 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:46 PM
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No, western europe. Large city
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:43 PM
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It's just very strange that I practically never have this happen but online it seems like everybody has this happen to them. I would love to see what is the the factor that makes a girl 'catcall-able', because what I see online it isn't attractiveness.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 05:40 PM
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Haha no I'm not. Don't worry :) Edit: it might be because I don't really look like a foreigner in those countries, I have very dark hair and I'm not too tall.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 05:33 PM
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I read/heard it somewhere. That it's more of a power thing than a sexual attraction thing, but I'm not a catcalling dude so idk...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:31 PM
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I used to take public transportation everyday to school in a larger city and I also have pretty big assets. Do you think it's exclusive to the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:30 PM
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I used to go to school in a very multicultural city and I took public transportation. So.......
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:27 PM
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That's pretty interesting, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:25 PM
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160cm tall, long brown hair (I used to color it bold colours), I generally wear glasses, I look pretty young (larger eyes, rounder face) but I dress more mature and minimalistic and I'm slightly above average in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:24 PM
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You pig ;)
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 05:10 PM
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I have been to Italy a couple if times before, have gotten some long stares but no remarks.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 05:10 PM
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What type of woman would you never approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:03 PM
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Why don't you guys just say; as equal sex drive to me and similar kinks... Makes it sound so much less rapey
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:01 PM
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I thought guys who catcall did it indiscriminatly... And if it is such a huge problem it should happen more often, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 04:59 PM
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Western Europe
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 04:57 PM
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If she impede or hinders my sexual satisfaction That sounds extremely rapey.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 01:59 AM
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Curly hair is beautiful, fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 01:56 AM
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Being powerfull is an attractive trait but it doesn't make someone attractive, just like being old is a less desirable trait but it doesn't necessarily make someone undesirable. I do not mind a slightly older more established guy tho ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 01:45 AM
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Long distance means that it's already not perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 01:10 AM
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It will happen if you are unfortunate enough to out live your friends. Good luck having a fruitful life full of hobbies and friends when you literally can't even walk anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:38 PM
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This is one of the cringiest things I've read in a while, thank you for that!
/r/askTRP26/12/18 01:36 AM
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These hypothetical questions are getting rediculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 01:15 AM
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Don't get children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 01:13 AM
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Wow, very edgy. Do you also have a katana collection?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 01:12 AM
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If you don't want kids it's fine but you will regret it whe you're an old fart. If you want to kill yourself because you're lonely and made shitty life decisions, go ahead. Btw, this is reality for a lot of old men and women who are childless. Not getting married and having kids = being lonely when you're old. I don't want to be lonely when I'm old, I want cute grandchildren and great grandchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 01:11 AM
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How do you think those Instagram fit girls get their bodies or do you consider them bulky?
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/18 12:55 AM
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Date old, rich men. Problem solved. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 11:15 PM
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After raising and loving the kids for years? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 11:10 PM
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He has been shaving his head since he was 17 when he started losing his hair O... Poor guy :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 11:01 PM
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That's the cowards way out, you coward
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:54 PM
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If you want to be a total feminine energy person and receive then you shouldn't be worried about keeping a conversation flowing anyway! He should entertain you and ask you questions while you lean back, listen and respond, if that is the kind of woman you want to be. But if he asks what you love to do and you answer this I like to design things. Make things look pretty, i.e. makeup, fashion, interior design, little arts and crafts. I like rom-coms. I'm a sucker for things involved with family, f…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 02:22 AM
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I said equal. In every way. Kindness is extremely attractive to all sane women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:08 AM
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Because they are charming. Cluster B's are TERRIBLE at staying in relationships. I lose interest pretty fast in these crazies but they are a lot of fun for a little while.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:06 AM
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It's all fun and games in your 40s and 50s but when you wake up at 85 and realise all your friends are dead and you can't pull young chicks anymore you will be terribly lonely. It's not pushing an agenda, it's a very sour reality for a lot of men and women. I'm not a bloop.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:02 AM
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Semantics. I mean the opposite of unreliable, if I was talking about monetary success they wouldn't be equal. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:49 AM
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I didn't advice you to get into male hobbies. It's just that media that is just made for men or just made for women is not the greatest. Dumb action movies are generally speaking shit just like rom-coms are generally speaking shit. There's nothing wrong with enjoying them but I wouldn't say that you have a big interest in cinema when you only watch female targeted smuck. Do you have anything you are really really passionate about? If you don't then you should really get something to be passionat…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 01:46 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:35 AM
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I still don't really understand... Focussing on a connection is, like, the basics of dating. If you can't get a connection with anybody dating would just be a waste of time, in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 01:28 AM
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If you have literally NOTHING to talk about it may be because you are a bit boring... Get a hobby and talk about that! Maybe literature, theatre or film? And not female targeted smuck or young adult fiction but media that is considered art.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 01:19 AM
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If you think big talk is really cool then guys who are turned off by it aren't for you anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 01:12 AM
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There is no typical redpill girl. It's a tool box. The main thing that is taught here is how to find and keep a guy that would be a good leader (of the relationship). It doesn't really have anything to do with being a housewife. Do you want to be a housewife? ...and wtf is interpersonal desire?
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 11:28 PM
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I watch my diet and bike everywhere instead of going by car... It's also EXTREMELY hard for women to get very muscular, if you get into "fit girl" territory most guys will find it hot.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 09:06 PM
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I could never date a men who was less intelligent than me...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 12:17 PM
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If it works for them, sure... I would be burned out after a couple of weeks and I'm a relatively masculine and dominant person. I just want a man to be 'the man'. Nothing wrong with it, not for me tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 12:09 PM
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Cuddling literally releases bonding hormones.......... That's actual science.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 12:00 PM
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Bullshit. Women lose attraction to assholes. If I could pick between two equal guys and one is kind and reliable and the other is a loser and asshole, I would definitely pick the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 11:58 AM
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After maybe years of being alone. Doesn't seem fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 11:53 AM
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I'm using anaïs anaïs from cacharel. It's floral at first but the base notes are wood, musk and leather, which makes it slightly androgynous. I love it. Always wear it. I also enjoy Chloe but it's too simple for me to be a staple.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/18 11:21 AM
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Maybe over years and years. Not over a couple of months. It's not a reliable method of personality categorization.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 12:13 AM
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Because the results can change within six months in the same conditions. They already told you that ...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 11:12 PM
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I totally agree and I'm a whamin. But they need to be nice to me or I won't like them anymore :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 10:27 PM
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At some point in time women don't want to be in casual relationships with you anymore because you are a dude who is in his mid 70s. You won't be able to work anymore because you are too damn old and all your friends are dead. Whatcha gonna do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 10:20 PM
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Totally got those vibes from this post... Just felt uncomfortable reading this.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 12:22 PM
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I would say with open relationships that if you aren't 100% enthusiastic about it, don't. I have seen some absolute shit shows with open relationships because of jealousy and insecurity. Him watching porn already makes you jealous and insecure!! I don't know if it's for you, OP...
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 12:16 PM
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Non monogamy is not necessarily anti red pill. You can still have the captain - first mate dynamic in an open relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 12:12 PM
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I wasn't disagreeing with you, calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 12:06 PM
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That's not love, it's infatuation. Unfortunately a lot of people confuse those two.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 03:30 AM
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Again, calm down. Choose a good husband that would be a good father to your kids. That's more important than having kids very young. Figure out what kind of relationship you want and be clear with men you start dating what you want.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/18 11:50 PM
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It's kinda hard... I don't think marriage is the be all end all of a relationship but it does fix up everything nice and tidy. If we don't get married we need to put eachother into eachothers will, he needs to declare he is the father when we have a child, we both need a life testament. It's just so much easier to get married then to get all these things in order without marriage and basically be married anyway but it wouldn't be a deal breaker, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 11:40 PM
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Not if you get plenty of kiddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 07:11 PM
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Girl... No... Tingles will always calm down. If this is a requirement you will only be in relationships with hot/cold players or have very short relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/18 06:38 PM
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Yes, most men on RP say that. It's bullshit. You're still young, it would be a slightly different case at 30 but even then it wouldn't be a lost cause. The relationship you left was definitely salvageable, he might have been the best you can get, especially since you are interested in gambling addicts. If the grass seems greener elsewhere you should water your own lawn. Work on yourself. See what you want. It's fine to take a few months to a year off from dating to become a better woman.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/18 06:33 PM
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But you won't be alone for decades and decades after young girls won't fuck you anymore. Not dying alone is why people married and started a family historically. It was like a retirement plan, still is in poorer countries. It never was or is about 'spreading your genes' like OP thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 12:39 PM
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Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 12:17 PM
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Marriage is about not dying old and alone tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 12:13 PM
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As long as they aren't whales or facially deformed I can work with basically every guy. How he makes me feel is so much more important than how he looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 11:28 AM
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I think the biggest red flags about you is that you just got out of a relationship and immediately start looking for a new partner and you dump a guy as soon as you get out of the honeymoon phase... Breaking up with someone because 'he doesn't give you tingles anymore' is generally not advisable. Calm down, work on yourself and start being happy even when you are single. Who told you that you are 'old' and who told you that girls who do online dating are desperate? I've never heard anybody ever …
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/18 11:16 AM
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Those are things a little makeup can fix until you've got it under control. Good luck anyway!!
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/18 01:47 AM
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Dark ride design for theme parks or the lesser option of game design... Which is fine too, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 10:16 PM
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What are the problems with your skin? I use a cleanser, toner (home made with glycerin and rosewater, I love this. Sometimes I use it during the day if I feel a little dry), spf 50 (only during the day ofcourse), eyecream, serum and a hydrating creme in that order. Using more steps would drive me crazy, I also don't exfoliate everyday, I've heard somewhere it's not the best for your skin. It's pretty hard to find products and a routine that works for your skin. It's more trial error and luck tha…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 09:52 PM
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I think it's good that you keep an eye on your son at all times. Can't you spend some quality time when the kid is sleeping?
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 02:59 PM
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Oei... Maybe you should do the math again, 30 years might be a stretch. I'm going to leave you forever tho. You are not really helpful in any way shape or form
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 01:15 AM
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Internet?
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 01:09 AM
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He is a multi miljonair at 33? Thats impressive and extremely unbelievable. Have fun living the dream and posting to purple pill debate because you are obviously so happy with this MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 01:04 AM
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Yes. Shit happens. He might lose his job/business. He might die and leave less than you might expect. You need to be able to take care of yourself when life takes over. It's naive and unhealthy to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:57 AM
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Build something up for yourself and have your own life and independence from your guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:50 AM
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Are you trying to convince me or are you trying to convince yourself? Build something up for yourself, you will need it in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:47 AM
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A secure future. A husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:37 AM
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You put your whole relationship history on Reddit, girl. He gets everything he wants and you barely get anything. I hope you are a imaginary person, actually, this is just extremely sad :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:32 AM
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I know, god I hope it's fake tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:28 AM
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These women personally told you they wanted to marry him? You don't have boundaries. A long time wish of yours was to have children. He didn't comply with that for 8 years. That is a huuuuuuge thing for a relationship and you let him trample all over that dream. You are not special to him. I can tell by the way your relationship is. He couldn't find better who would also keep her mouth shut at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:23 AM
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I have explained everything very well to you in my previous comments, you just don't want to listen. If he leaves you for a younger model he is never going keep paying. What will you do for him then? You would be useless he has a new silent vagina. That is literally all you are to him. And being somewhere where common law is a thing and he is paying the lawyers you are in a very bad place. I'm the opposite of jealous. I'm so glad I am not dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:18 AM
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Aaa he told you so? Dread game worked on you I guess. The only thing that makes you special to him is that he can do whatever he wants with you. You have no boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:12 AM
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Would you still have access to your accountant and financial adviser if he leaves you ? I'm not going to unpack your unhealthy world views here. You need to pay me for so much work ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:10 AM
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Because being a SAHM to his adopted son and never ever getting married or having children isn't what most women want out of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:02 AM
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You do not have a healthy view of sex, childrearing or finances. You are clueless on these things. The only thing you are to your husband is a vagina who doesn't disagree with him. It's hard to get in a commited relationship. I mean it took you two years the first time around. Some women are single for years. Having a pussy and agreeing with a new guy on everything does not make you 'better' than other women. Loads of women, actually almost all of them, are agreeable and have a vagina. There is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 11:50 PM
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He only commited after two years because he couldn't find someone else that would be fine with this, or he isn't as appealing as you make him out to be and he thought he could do better than you and you were a back up plan. You have no job and no way of supporting yourself, so inevitable this ship sinks and your great plan is getting another man to take care of you. Unfortunately there will be no man who is willing to do this. After you have been in this fucked up relationship with a man who has…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 11:36 PM
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No, but seriously. The only reason he 'picked' you is because you are the only one who would accept this lifestyle. I wouldn't go on Reddit too much because you might see how hopeless the future is for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 11:22 PM
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Whooo girl, you sound like feminist now! Don't let hubby notice, as soon as he smells an independent thought on you he will run for the hills.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 11:16 PM
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Your whole relationship history is on Reddit, he put you through A LOT of bullshit (if you are a real person), if you don't recognize that I feel even worse for you... I think my nationality has very little to do recognizing borderline abusive relationships. Good luck, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 11:04 PM
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Excuse me, but... Being non exclusive for TWO YEARS, YEARS!!! And after that you had to beg him to please unfreeze his sperm to impregnate yourself? Why would you put up with this bullshit? Be honest with me, you are a troll right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 10:37 PM
7

Yes, like math and foreign languages.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/18 08:24 PM
4

If my kids have a problem and come to me for advice I will give it to them. But only if they come to me. They need to learn things on their own.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/18 08:08 PM
26

I don't think it's ever good to raise kids with any doctrine. I will (try) to give them unconditional love and teach it's important to have goals in live. How they want to live their lives when they are adults isn't very much my business.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/18 07:44 PM
4

Oke :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 03:02 PM
7

The only thing you and your wife have in common is sex, food and she giving you compliments?
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 01:53 PM
6

This post is basically called "THE SECRET TO MAKE HIM LOVE YOU FOREVER". I thought my love life would be shaken to the core but it's extremely basic advice. I wouldn't call that 'nit picking', just annoyed with clickbait and people defending this clickbait like it's some kind of hidden knowledge.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 01:39 PM
2

Attractive enough to marry, obviously.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 12:01 PM
7

No need to get mean just because I disagree... No, they said "make him smitten forever." Baseline and being not even in love but smitten forever are two very different things. You guys are the ones who are being simple. If this is baseline it will make for a baseline relationship. I want more than that. I wish he would have explored what makes that happen.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 11:29 AM
7

I very much disagree with almost everything you said here. I'll keep in mind you think of relationships this way. Talking about things like they are facts doesn't make them facts. My future relationships is going to be much deeper than this.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 11:09 AM
5

What does this have to do with anything?
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 01:16 AM
15

Because there is much more to a relationship than just fucking, cooking and telling him that he is amazing. You can get a robot that does all those things. Building a bond and memories together are MUCH more important than these things you said here. That is the magic that makes a man love you, if you can get into his heart and you cannot do that with sex. It just doesn't work like that. What if a woman can't cook or have sex anymore? People get in terrible accidents or get horrible diseases. Ac…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 01:11 AM
31

Damn. I spend like €20-30 every two months or so if I run out of something skin care related and maybe €50 on makeup every 6 months. I'm kinda glad I'm so frugal now haha
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 12:48 AM
7

I think THE ABSOLUTE most important thing is that you are in touch with the feminine in you. Feminine energy attracts masculine energy, ofcourse. I get in touch with my girly side by getting out of my head and into my body, noticing how I feel and slowing down and expressing how I feel. Not necessarily with words, sometimes through art or singing a song or playing the piano. That's how I really feel like a woman. The rest is more preference. It doesn't matter if you want to be a housewife or a b…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 12:42 AM
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I don't know... I know men are simple creatures but there is more that goes into a loving relationship than these three things. It's extremely simplistic.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 12:22 AM
4

You are SO right. It's weird that people think guys are emotionless robots that only follow their boner, especially on this sub!!
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 12:19 AM
2

I've been reading about LOA again. Funny you bring these things up!
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 12:01 AM
1

I understand. But so early on in dating that is basically the only factor you are looking for, if there is potential for a good relationship. It's good to be mindful of this when you are in a LTR tho, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 11:58 PM
1

Most people here give good advice, I think.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 06:42 PM
1

It was pretty rude to talk about a very good guy as not worthy just because he doesn't do one thing that red pill advocates
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 06:26 PM
10

Yes, it will scare the guys off, guys who aren't interested in relationships. Nothing wrong with that...
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 11:26 AM
2

This makes me feel much better. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 11:19 AM
-4

BUT THERE WAS SO MUCH POTENTIAL T.T
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 11:18 AM
-2

I think I disagree... When I was still in love with my ex or obsessed with some crush it didn't matter if the most perfect man would be desperate to be with me, I only wanted one person at that time. Some people are wired like that. I'm also extremely awesome and beautiful so it's hard to see how she could be a 'better option'. (: I also don't understand what is wrong with being second choice. What if first choice turns out to not be as amazing as he thinks? Maybe I would have been first choice …
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 11:16 AM
1

I'm REALLY not interested in a RP man. So thanks for the useless advice.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 11:04 AM
9

You're probably right.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 10:47 PM
1

You're so right. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 10:41 PM
0

It was some girl he had a crush on for months. I don't think anybody can compete with her atm. He agreed it was a really good first date but she was/is like a fantasy girl to him. I'm really good at timing things very badly :'(
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 10:40 PM
13

Thank you :( I'm just feeling a little crazy because I have only seen him once. There is literally no reason to be this caught up with him. Which makes him feel even more special. I just really want to see him again. :(
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 08:11 PM
7

I had one of the best first dates ever with him, like 5 hrs or something just talking about everything... I think that's the main thing. I hate not being able to give it a real chance, so much potential :( I also feel like it's fine to continue dating after a first failed attempt, but he might marry her or something, so I really shouldn't keep hope. You're right about keep dating other guys, but I'm just so disappointed. Never really felt this shitty about being dumped when it's this early into …
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 06:30 PM
5

If I am not already in the mood he can generally get me into the mood. You can't just jump on me and start penetration (auch) kiss me and touch me. If he does that I'll be hot and heavy in seconds. Sex is not a thing that I give to my partner, it's an enjoyable activity for the both of us. I don't like that you make it sound so transactional.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 12:08 PM
8

That's not really the point of her comment...
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 12:03 PM
1

But the whole thing about MGTOW is that they won't do anything with women, not even have sex, because it's too risky, right? Because we just can't help ourselves when we divorce and take everything? Or we will baby trap them? That's all that I read about from them, which are fair concerns but doesn't really make them marriage material (trust issues galore).
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 12:00 PM
12

Never heard anybody say that divorce is a good idea... Where did you get that from?
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 04:24 PM
1

Yes because it was extremely easy for you to start a biological family with him. /s I don't want a man who thinks that all women are crazy sluts who will leave them divorce raped, thank you...
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 04:17 PM
1

I just prefer men who have the same life goals as me. Doesn't really have anything to do with what you said here...
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 11:28 AM
1

No, it depends on how much you loved that person.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 11:26 AM
4

It's just a hobby. If a guy spends a lot of time on a hobby and doesn't do anything else ofcourse that's a red flag. Stop demonizing video games.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 11:24 AM
3

Guys in that age range who would be worth it just don't have the time for relationships, guys who have time aren't worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 11:21 AM
34

Having an affair with a married man will turn good men off... Break it off and find a loyal guy, even if you guys would end up together he will most likely be unfaithful in a way to you
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/18 08:06 PM
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I know a few very driven and ambitious guys who also play, in my opinion, a lot of video games. For some men they just need vidya to wind down, if he plays a lot of video games and doesn't work or isn't in school it's a different story. Don't worry, video games aren't the devil.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/18 07:51 PM
6

Well ... You have another man's child for one. That's a biggie for most guys.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/18 03:17 PM
1

Congratulations! But I think I'm going to stay far away from the MGTOW types 😅
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/18 03:15 PM
4

Have you talked to college guys? Not really husband material if you ask me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/18 02:57 PM
1

Hooking up with strangers isn't really as amazing as your girlfriends let you believe...(I've had one or two FWBs and a ONS, it's really not that fun). Sex is great but it's even better with someone you love and created a bond with. You're not missing out on much, don't worry. Also don't drink too much, it's bad for your skin
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/18 02:53 PM
3

I don't really know about the pair bonding thing... I think if you have spend a long time with one person and had a great bond with them it's harder to get into another relationship than when you had sex with a few more casual boyfriends. And some girls will never be as attached as others.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/18 02:50 PM
3

There is a bond with every person you have sex with, not just the first one.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/18 02:44 PM
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