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No, I don't.
/r/MensRights09/08/17 12:02 AM
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Diversity of background makes sense. Diversity of things you cannot control does not (race, sex, etc.)
/r/MensRights08/08/17 07:49 PM
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The biggest thing now is the market. Let the market decide. I am not radically Caplitalist, but the government mandating diversity isn't going to solve anything. Take your business to equal opportunity companies, or don't. You vote with your money.
/r/MensRights08/08/17 06:10 PM
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You got a great answer, I'll tack on why this is a huge problem in current times. I'll use women for an example, but you can substitute a lot of different minorities and identities that aren't represented in certain industries. Women are no different than men and should be given equal opportunities to succeed and gain meaningful employment. Women offer a different perspective than men and should be represented equally in businesses and organizations. You see the problem? You can't have it both w…
/r/MensRights08/08/17 05:04 PM
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Honors means smart kids.
/r/MensRights04/08/17 04:00 AM
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Special Ed includes advanced students as well. I was technically in special ed since I was in honors classes and programs.
/r/MensRights03/08/17 09:23 PM
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It's annoying because Milo is so wrong, and yet he's very right about certain things. What does it mean for your movement when figures like Milo can make accurate critiques?
/r/MensRights28/07/17 04:12 PM
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If I could go back in time, I'd rather not get circumcised. The biggest problem is that the child doesn't have a choice and doctors push it for absolutely no medical benefit. Let the damn kid make his own choice when his older.
/r/MensRights26/07/17 04:11 PM
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I remember watching The Red Pill when Cassie interviewed some of the feminists. Almost in the same breath, one said that sexism hurts men and then said men should toughen up.
/r/MensRights23/07/17 09:04 PM
8

And yet an 18 year old boy will have to register as a sex offender because he received nude pictures from his 16 year old girlfriend.
/r/MensRights05/07/17 08:30 PM
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The guy said they were going towards the playground. Sounds like the dad overreacted and tried to save face.
/r/MensRights27/06/17 10:51 PM
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I think people didn't see the /s
/r/MensRights27/06/17 05:58 PM
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"But I thought he was kidnapping my child." Sounds like the kid was better off with the stranger than Gotta-Prove-My-Competence-Through-Anger Dad.
/r/MensRights27/06/17 05:26 PM
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Also, she's a 2 year old. She isn't that quick. I'm not saying you should be watching your children like a hawk, but the occasional glance would have prevented this.
/r/MensRights27/06/17 05:25 PM
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Absolutely. Even if we could ascertain "consent", this is clearly an abuse of power. If the 16 year old boy wanted to date someone his own age, can you imagine the shit storm from the teacher?
/r/MensRights26/06/17 01:59 AM
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That's why I didn't specify an age. But, I can see where my comment isn't really necessary. So I'm deleting it.
/r/MensRights25/06/17 10:58 PM
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I think it's not even worth using the word "consent". The whole point of statutory laws is that they can't consent to sex no matter what.
/r/MensRights25/06/17 09:28 PM
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They did a second one. Are you suggesting that one or the first? Both?
/r/MensRights03/06/17 03:29 AM
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I've heard the Sam Harris debate is just horrific because of that. EDIT: Would you say he's stuck in some Neo-Platonic form of the "truth"?
/r/MensRights02/06/17 11:31 PM
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Hmmm, I should have clarified. I mean more so the massive opposition. You would have thought Hillary had a landslide win. And I'm not supporting Trump here, I'm just saying that the opposition is only giving the movie and Cassie more support -- which is great as I support the movie and bought it on Amazon. There are some Democrats, particularly, who think Trump didn't have enough air time, but that's more anecdotal on my end.
/r/MensRights02/06/17 10:36 PM
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It's how Trump won.
/r/MensRights02/06/17 09:45 PM
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It really grinds my gears when feminists try and say feminism is equality for all. No, no it's not. I really don't care that feminism is for female rights, that's fine and the true definition. The problem is semantic and ideological. Don't try to change the definitions. The people who see both sides are called egalitarians. That's not necessarily true either. Actually, there's no middle ground when comes to philosophy on the subject. Most other philosophical systems view the sexes on equal terms…
/r/MensRights02/06/17 09:32 PM
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Cultural Marxism has been an incredible blight for a long time. Listen to Jordan Peterson, he'll give you way more intellectual ammunition against Cultural Marxism.
/r/MensRights02/06/17 09:24 PM
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''I skimmed through......but I saw no serious discussion'' I love it. So, uh, you watched for about 30 minutes (roughly when Cassie switches from showing the bad side of MRA to the positive sides) and made a judgement. Great. Sounds like exactly what every feminist does when it comes to statistics (0.78 per dollar).
/r/MensRights02/06/17 09:20 PM
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People like that should be put on a watch list. People like this also seem to not understand what equivalency logic is. You can flip the scenario and come up with the same conclusions.
/r/MensRights01/06/17 07:47 PM
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Probably ONLY lefts.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 10:12 PM
2

Call me an optimist!
/r/MensRights31/05/17 08:20 PM
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Censorship is born out of fear. They're afraid. What with people like Cassie Jaye finally becoming disillusioned and helping others to do the same, this wave of feminism has maybe a year left tops.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 05:18 PM
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"Feminism is about equal rights for both sexes!"
/r/MensRights31/05/17 05:16 PM
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Wow, did they read the article? The article basically said he did nothing wrong and yet people are talking about consequences. Fuck off.
/r/MensRights30/05/17 11:55 PM
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It's hard. You'll get used to it after a while!
/r/MensRights30/05/17 06:34 PM
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What about his daughter's mother?
/r/MensRights30/05/17 06:30 PM
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I know what the trope is, but I never connected the dots with traditional gender roles.
/r/MensRights29/05/17 11:21 PM
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I THINK it's in this talk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jvVs273-EKI&t=0s If I remember correctly, he mentions it in multiple videos and lectures. This one is good, nonetheless.
/r/MensRights29/05/17 11:20 PM
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Moonlight is brilliant because it's a critique on the black community. I'm so happy it won.
/r/MensRights29/05/17 07:56 PM
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It's insane. I mean, we have mediocre movies like Hidden Figures next to Fences and Moonlight for best picture (not to mention it's not even factually accurate). Get Out was pretty good but this movie is sitting at 99 fucking percent on RT. It was definitely not that good. I enjoyed it a lot but the racial messages were incredibly strong and required virtually no thought. All the villains were white while the blacks were virtuous. Jordan Peele is a strong writer and director, and it was good for…
/r/MensRights29/05/17 07:41 PM
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This movie is going to be terrible anyways. DC and WB just need to shove all their money at Nolan to at least have a good script.
/r/MensRights29/05/17 07:36 PM
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That was my thought. Maybe it will end up like the new Ghostbusters movie where it's actually horrible but people still defend it.
/r/MensRights29/05/17 07:35 PM
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This principle plus open female and feminist pandering leads to basically every single refrigerator or appliance commercial you have ever seen in your life with the "dumb old dad" and the "smart, saavy mom who saved the day" trope. Damn, never realized that. That's fucked.
/r/MensRights29/05/17 07:34 PM
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I was talking to someone yesterday and she said she really wants to work for a tech company owned by a woman or a minority. Like, it's crazy when you actually meet these people.
/r/MensRights29/05/17 07:33 PM
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Slavoj Zizek says it should tell you something about your ideology when businesses are able to adopt it.
/r/MensRights29/05/17 07:32 PM
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Or several lawsuits brought against her and GU.
/r/MensRights22/05/17 11:45 PM
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Even men were doing it to women during the Salem witch trials. All you needed to do was say the other person put a spell on you, even though you just couldn't keep your cock in your pants. With women, they just needed to say the other person overpowered them. Now, they're "too drunk" to have conscious consent. It's the same story just a different time.
/r/MensRights18/05/17 02:35 PM
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You know, I'm not 100% sure. Actually, I found this. http://blogs.findlaw.com/blotter/2012/07/how-long-can-you-be-held-without-charges.html
/r/MensRights17/05/17 09:59 PM
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This is an aspect I've completely forgotten about when it comes to rape accusations. We're ruining lives now, even if they are acquitted. 50 years ago people were being murdered and lynched (let's not forget that lynching usually involved castration while they were still alive) with even less evidence. It's truly horrifying that women still have this power even after we "learned our lesson."
/r/MensRights17/05/17 08:09 PM
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Proof is needed for charging. The police can arrest and hold you without charging.
/r/MensRights17/05/17 07:58 PM
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That's the issue, too. I have to clarify in my post just to avoid anyone jumping down my throat.
/r/MensRights15/05/17 04:32 PM
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I'd be willing to venture that the majority of people who are convicted of actual rape are not serial rapists. That is, people who are going to pull a random person in an alley and sexually violate them. With that being said, if you have sex with someone who's unconscious, you're committing rape.
/r/MensRights15/05/17 04:22 PM
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DID YOU KNOW 1/10 PRISONERS IS A WOMAN?!
/r/MensRights15/05/17 02:11 PM
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I love Jordan Petereson's critique of these protests. He doesn't really mind them, he just wish they had more substance to their chants and protests.
/r/MensRights15/05/17 02:02 PM
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Alright, I'll say it. Most surgeries go fine. The thing is, some don't. Some boys completely lose their penis or a good portion of it. My stance is, if just ONE botched circumcision occurs, that's too many. The boy is not giving consent. He doesn't deserve even the 0.001% chance that he'll grow up without a functioning penis.
/r/MensRights15/05/17 01:56 PM
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I'm still waiting for all my money to show up.
/r/MensRights15/05/17 01:45 PM
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I'm starting to think of it like the death penalty. Sure, some people deserve to be put to death; but, [if] there's just 1-2 people who are innocent, it's not worth it. Likewise, if a few people who committed rape go free because of a lack of evidence. So be it. 1 innocent person does not deserve to go to jail.
/r/MensRights15/05/17 01:37 PM
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I'm not against people doing it for religious reasons. I'm circumcised myself, but my family isn't Muslim or Jewish. The "health benefits" are pretty irrelevant nowadays. I just get frustrated when MD's are spouting archaic science that's been disproven many times over.
/r/MensRights09/05/17 02:50 PM
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MD's will actually recommend and even insist on the procedure.
/r/MensRights09/05/17 02:38 PM
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Somehow liberal feminists don't see the problem when businesses support their cause.
/r/MensRights07/05/17 11:10 PM
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we double our potential for innovation Would love to see some studies on that.
/r/MensRights07/05/17 08:53 PM
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Sarandon is pretty hardcore left. It was pretty telling when I heard she wouldn't be supporting Clinton.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 11:57 PM
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I stopped reading after the paragraph on scapegoats. The hypocrisy was simply too overwhelming.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 11:54 PM
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Sounds like y'all don't live together. This is pretty easy then. Completely check out. Go to her place to bang then leave. Make it abundantly clear she is no more than a plate. If you can do this without staying attached, you probably can't, then you're good. For me, I couldn't stomach having sex someone who committed worst sin anyone can commit: betrayal. I probably couldn't even get it up. Best to just walk away from this and never speak to her again.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 06:22 PM
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That'd put a big dent in my career path Dude you're 18. You've got plenty of time to develop a career path.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 06:05 PM
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Please, please, please keep an eye out for any depression or suicidal thoughts. Do not take them lightly. Mental illness is hereditary and could manifest at any time. For advice, think back to all the times you fucked up with women. Feels bad right? Okay, do the opposite next time. Think about how much regret you'll have if you don't kiss the chick who's obviously into you. Getting over rejection is another beast in its own, so you'll have to go through that. Again, rejection is hard and if you …
/r/askTRP18/12/14 11:07 PM
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That's what I was thinking. If OP said its fine she'd probably say, in her head, "Really? You're letting me go out with a dude I only met once? In a club?!"
/r/askTRP18/12/14 11:03 PM
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I wouldn't worry unless she takes it further. Hanging out in person is one thing, adding on facebook is definitely another. Some women legitimately forget, in the moment, that the dude could want more than just friendship. You might have to explain to her that she ought to be weary. Guys don't just friend beautiful women JUST to be friends, unless he's gay. There is always an alterior motive. I've definitely done stupid things in the moment that were harmless at the time and I had no intention o…
/r/askTRP23/10/14 10:33 PM
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Well that's where I align with TRP. You really shouldn't be that surprised if someone cheats on you. Sure it'll hurt, but you have to look at your mistakes and move on. Also, always be cautious of someone who is so willing to jump into a relationship. It means they have an agenda and may not have much interests outside of the relationship - which is doomed to fail. I look for the ones that are almost taken aback by me asking them to be exclusive (usually 2-3 months in if its worth it).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 02:42 PM
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I dated an asian chick for a while and they seem okay with length (she loved cowgirl so I could bottom out) but the girth seems to have issues. I'm around average girth and it was still a pain to get in if she wasn't super wet, even after a few months of constant sex. That being said, with time and practice, a chick can take almost any dick (save for the monster dicks). If she's not willing to give you the chance, then you may have lost frame or she's terrified of her vagina being permanently to…
/r/askTRP23/09/14 05:04 PM
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Its not impossible to plate your ex and it sounds like you're over oneitis so I say go for it. Treat the questions about missing you as shit tests and respond accordingly. Keep being direct, letting her know what you want from her without any fluff - this will insure that she knows the nature of your relationship. Once you do this, you're pretty much out of monkmode - saying you're ready to be presented to the world. Once you plate your ex you need to IMMEDIATELY start finding other plates. This…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 01:41 PM
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She sounds immature and really inexperienced. So ask yourself if you're willing to put up with that. It sounds like she DOES know how to take care of you, which might be worth it. But, looks like you don't have abundance mentality since you care way too much about this. Spin other plates and she'll come around eventually. I wouldn't give up on this one yet.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 01:15 PM
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"OK" Proceed not to answer the rest of the night or just use brevity. If she asks whats wrong, tell her you're out doing something and you'll talk tomorrow. If you're not actually out doing something, nothings worse than a lie so go fucking do something.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 02:29 AM
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2) Your worth, as a man, is completely dependent on how much pussy you get. This is toxic. This is never advised anywhere on TRP. In fact, quite the opposite. If a poster is obviously obsessed with getting women, most RPers will see right through it. TRP isn't a pick-up artist type philosophy, its more about giving men an identity. 3) Women are bad because they are women. Most will rationalize this away by saying that they don't hate women, they just understand their behavior. Every good quality…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 04:13 PM
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I made a pact with myself that I wouldn't contact my ex until I found someone I like just as much or more than her. Most of what your feeling is just residual because you haven't found someone with the same chemistry you had with your ex. There are plenty of women out there who can fulfill it, you just have to find them. Contacting while still in oneitis is a terrible idea and you should distance yourself as much as possible.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 08:13 PM
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Treat it like you would a buddy. You can tell the tone in someone's voice if they're serious or just attention grabbing. Blabbering on and on about a coworker? Irrational and silly. Getting super quiet and only saying a few words about her boss harassing her? Probably a legitimate issue that needs deeper probing.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 08:07 PM
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He doesn't need to next her yet. He just needs to be aware of the red flags and be prepared to plate her when they present themselves. Just be careful OP. If you force her to confront her issues, she may drop you for a dude who is willing to distract her from them.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 05:07 PM
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You downgrade her to a plate and start spinning. You were second choice. Show her how high your SMV is and make it higher than scumbag Mike by lifting, going out, having more plates, etc. It doesn't concern you whether the other girl knows or not. The only way to salvage your sanity is to plate your current GF. And quality girls don't give 2 shits about some dude who stops talking to them. That is, if you demonstrated your SMV properly.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 02:34 PM
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Be more independent. Have things to do alone. Find hobbies and interests like art, writing, lifting, sports, etc. You'll never run out of things to do
/r/askTRP25/08/14 02:28 PM
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Same thing happened to me man, may still be happening. Just give some time, maybe go monk mode for a little longer. It's been 3 months since my break up and I'm still having issues.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 06:07 AM
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Read. Reading will allow you to learn certain metaphors, how to tell stories, learn new words, explain things in a different way, etc. there are so many benefits to reading everyday, it's ridiculous. Obviously, don't become a recluse and read all the time. Read maybe a chapter a day depending on the book and go socialize. Practicing your writing is also a good skill. It will help you learn structure and transitions. Too many people can't transition conversations or get off topic quickly.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 02:48 PM
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It sounds weird because you asked her on a date and you're still going by yourself. If you said, "I'll be at starbucks around 8 to do some work if you want to join." That will make more sense given your response.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 01:23 AM
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This is awesome. So would you say the dress situation was her just playing coy? From her reaction to the freezing, seems like she just wanted to tease him a little more before he destroyed her vagina.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 12:51 AM
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Why the hell would she want to help you improve? She's a shitty person, if anything she'll try to sabotage you.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 08:56 PM
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As a general rule of thumb, I perform kind gestures but am generally an asshole when I talk to people.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 10:04 PM
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No. If they cancel and don't reschedule then there's nothing more you can do.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 10:03 PM
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I'm pretty adamant about the fact that most cheating is calculated and premeditated by women whereas men tend to do it in the heat of the moment. That being said, most will give you signs before they cheat, it's up to you to law down the law and prevent it. Hanging out with a random dude you don't know? Say your piece and if it doesn't work, dread game. If that doesn't work, then she had already planned on cheating whether you change or not
/r/askTRP14/08/14 03:08 AM
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You can use this to reverse wingman herself. Basically, she'll help you at first then get jealous. Once she sees you demonstrating SMV, she'll want you so bad. If you play it right, the two of you will bang the first time you're supposed to "wingman" each other. This is one of the best scenarios. You can hit on other women freely while another follows you around.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 03:23 PM
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Awesome. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 08:13 PM
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Damn. Nothing destroys a joke faster than asking someone to repeat it 2-3 times. That's brilliant. Do you have the link?
/r/askTRP06/08/14 03:50 PM
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Thou shall not date oneitis. Fuck other girls first, get this chick off your brain, and approach her again.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 07:27 PM
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Yeah OP. Last LTR would literally beg me to let her give me a BJ. Then sometimes she would just enjoy "playing" with it. Those women are out there.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 03:44 PM
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Agreed. Uncork it and hang on for dear life, OP.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 03:36 PM
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Honestly, you'd be hard-pressed to find girls who haven't been ruined. Try a climbing gym. The chicks there tend to be more open and actually look for LTRs. They may not be pure virgins, but their values are more in line with an LTR. The hardest part is finding one who DOESN'T have a boyfriend.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 08:05 PM
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Sounds like she's got some self respect, other issues going on, or a combination of both. Doesn't look like a red flag to me yet. Some girls are intimidated by TRP and the Gina tingles. Give her time like the above guy said, keep your plates spinning, and eventually she'll give into your SMV. If she doesn't, you learned some valuable skills and you can next without regret.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 12:25 PM
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Test boosters are good if you want your levels to stay/get back to normal. Roids are still the best and cheapest for the results.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 05:10 PM
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Arnold Schwarzenegger's encyclopedia of modern body building has really helped me immensely during my workouts. I suggest purchasing that, I wish I had done it sooner.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 03:07 PM
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Part of being red pill is spinning plates so you'd want to have several women with whom you could have sex when you wanted. Once a week is good with no plates.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 04:30 AM
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Totally understand man. Always start things like this as a discussion: "If you were going to have a bachelorette party, where would you go?" [names big party city] "Oh, well check out this article I read. Kind of fucked up. Those places are crawling with creepy guys." Or what have you. I've had many RP talks with different women and I've always started them as a discussion. If I need to put my foot down, I will; you just didn't need to at that point. Better to plant the seed and have her come to…
/r/askTRP28/07/14 11:22 PM
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Yeah. U need some protein in there m8
/r/askTRP28/07/14 10:00 PM
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This is the best advice. She's not being unreasonable and you just look like an asshole. Give her a little attention: go on a hike, make dinner, she'll be gushing before you know it. LTRs aren't plates man. It's crazy how many people are still unaware of this fact.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 09:56 PM
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Your friend needs to get over it. You should be helping him to become red pill.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 09:53 PM
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I'm still confused why you would bring this up to her. It's like if she hates chocolate and you say, "you're not allowed to eat chocolate." It doesn't make a whole lot of sense to her. She was probably just arguing for the sake arguing because you were forbidding something she didn't even plan on doing.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 09:48 PM
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You'll get over it. You were hardly together for a long time depending on your LTR experience. Keep working on you, and spend less time in your apartment.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 08:32 PM
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He said it's a work apartment, so he probably gets rent for super cheap or free.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 08:31 PM
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Your "best friend" is an asshole and not that he didn't deserve this, you should have taken the high road like u/andehpandeh said. You're better than this.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 08:27 PM
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I don't understand. Are you really bad at sex?
/r/askTRP28/07/14 03:37 AM
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Makes me feel like a man and subsequently she wants to feel like a woman.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 04:19 PM
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Cut contact completely. Block her number and Facebook. Or, if you like banging her, keep banging her. No harm in a little bang once in a while. But from what you've said, this bitch is a sociopath and wouldn't think twice about trying to have your love child.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 04:18 PM
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Do you have plans to go to college?
/r/askTRP26/07/14 01:38 AM
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You have no obligation to her. Offer condolences and wish him the best.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 01:36 AM
1

I'm not really clear. What are the current issues with your wife?
/r/askTRP26/07/14 01:35 AM
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Yes but I think men are more "customizable" than women. Plus it's pretty cool to be physically superior
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 11:04 PM
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Then make it all about yourself. Look for changes in you before looking at the relationship, eg going to the gym, picking up some new hobbies, reading more, better diet, etc.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 07:19 PM
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Kegels can actually make PE worse. It will cause even more involuntary contractions in the muscle. Go with reverse kegels (the sensation of pushing out urine), always 60/40 reverse to regular kegel ratio. Reverse kegels will help your relax that pelvic muscle and help control your ejaculations.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 07:15 PM
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Absolutely. Work it in slowly. Don't just become an alpha all of the sudden. My thinking is that you want to continue the successful relationship while ridding yourself of beta habits, correct?
/r/askTRP25/07/14 07:13 PM
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I always follow the TRP rule that apologies should be rare and special. That being sad, if you really snapped at someone and try didn't deserve it - make a point to apologize and move on. Also, if you can't remain calm in tense situations, I suggest you look at your life and stressors to prevent snaps from happening. If you have a problem with someone, it should always be posed in a calm and constructive manner.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 07:10 PM
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Fingers in the mouth or simply a hand on the neck usually do the trick. But yes, let's leave choking for missionary.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 07:04 PM
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"I have better things to do." Less harsh, "life." Busy seems a little try-hard in my opinion. I think she'll see through it. Those responses are actually honest and will get her hamster on steroids. Keep your interaction to a few minutes then walk away. Keep looking at your watch or phone to keep track of time. If she's in the middle of something then stop her and say you have to go.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 04:14 PM
1

You're pretty tall for an Asian guy and taller than most girls. You're supposed to bulk of you're skinny fat. If you cut, you'll just be skinny. Clean bulk to 180 then cut to 175.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 04:06 PM
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Find a rebound to bang for a while and continue no contact. It will take a while for her to be off your mind but keep pushing through no contact.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 02:59 PM
0

A lot of women are more sensitive during their periods and they're mood swings can be more dramatic, hence "horny" becomes "I need some dick now!" Oblige her. Period sex is pretty fun as long as she's not heavy flow.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 03:07 PM
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Types of rock climbing: Bouldering: the cheapest but you don't climb very high. Problems are very difficult and short. Gear: shoes, chalk, crash pad Sport climbing: the next step up. You'll be climbing short to longer routes setting your rope as you go. Falls are scary but are generally less dangerous than bouldering. Gear: shoes, harness, quick draws, anchors, and rope. Trad: really awesome form of climbing. There are no bolts so you'll be setting gear in cracks and nooks while climbing. Terrif…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 02:58 PM
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Nah she should be downgraded to plate. No need to stop having sex. There's also no reason for her to not disclose this shit. It's really immature to hide that. A mature person would say, "hey this is X we used to date." The fact that she didn't tell you this shows she's not worth an LTR and only plate status.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 02:52 PM
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Seconded. Fucked my buddies ex literally weeks after they broke up. He was at college and she was in high school. I know, I know. Bro code. To be fair he was hitting on chicks left and right and probably was going to cheat on her anyways. I digress. High school relationships just aren't worth it. And yeah, she will probably lose her virginity her freshman year and come crying to you about it. Bang and leave. Those women aren't worth the time of day because they actually lie to themselves about w…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 08:05 PM
2

I think his best option is to be frank, "I'm a dude and I've been in his shoes before. He's only looking to get in your pants. That's it. He doesn't want to be friends, he's just hoping you'll want to hook up." Had this happen a few times with my ex and I was always right. First they just propose they go out catch up or simply 'hang out.' Then I drop some RP, so she goes NC or simply ices up. Then they're true colors show. They start pleading with her to take them back or trying to shit talk me …
/r/askTRP23/07/14 07:46 PM
2

Trying to get a rise out of you. What would you do if this person was a bully? Ignore and walk away. Or you could do what u/jamieoneal82 said and treat her like the slut she is. It'll only bring it home that you're only interested in sex and not a relationship.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 01:16 PM
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This works really well with kids: "He didn't make them that way!" "I know he baked them AND I'm making them tonight, my way." No further explanation needed. If she wants them a certain way she can make them herself.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 04:57 PM
1

Yes you are very naive. You really want to stay with a girl who let a creepy old dude cuddle with her and kiss her? "Oh babe, I just let this guy fuck me because it would be too awkward to say no. Sorry." Get a fucking grip and get a girl with a spine. RP women may love their man but they are also strong, and willful individuals. Find one of those.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 04:49 PM
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What the fuck? Yeah dude ignore the shit out of these people. There's no reason you have to be friends with that dude, and you sure as hell shouldn't care about that piece of shit you had oneitis for. Oh and side note, she's telling people she hates you because she's not over you.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 04:41 PM
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She lost interest because you probably didn't show any. It doesn't take much for a woman to turn her head the other way.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 04:31 PM
2

This isn't true. Alphas are protective of their plates. They're not afraid to drop them on their own terms. If another alpha, or would-be alpha tries to step in it's a matter of not backing down and really seeing how strong you actually are.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 04:30 PM
1

This is weird if she's bringing just him around. I'm always wary of new "friendships" with the opposite sex in an LTR. Tell her you know what he's doing, he's incredibly transparent and you won't have him in your place of living anymore. That's that. If they really want to hang out they'll go somewhere public, if she starts going to his place, well...you know what to do.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 04:25 PM
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Treat her like an old classmate from high school. Someone you're surprised to see but not really interested in rekindling a friendship. Say, hi, how are you, and leave it at that. No need to force a coffee date or anything it's too recent after your break up. Also, as another user said, act like you're in the prime of your life. It'll leave her wondering how you're doing so well. You may even be able to plate her but I wouldn't recommend it with your oneitis still going on
/r/askTRP22/07/14 03:38 PM
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Why are you going on first dates to bars? Always pick something free or at least inexpensive. Take this chick hiking. I guarantee she'll love you for it.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 02:56 PM
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Absolutely agreed. She's probably not bullshitting you about the friend and it shows her value for placing friendship before some random guy (bros before hoes right?) My response, "Okay." then she'll probably try to reschedule and you respond with, "We'll see."
/r/askTRP21/07/14 02:53 PM
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Ex went through my reddit account when I was just discovering TRP. That did not go over well. I said a lot of disrespectful things about her, most I wouldn't have said to her face which is pretty beta. She got over it and actually spent some time reading about TRP. She had some difficulties with trust after, but it didn't really affect our sex life so I didn't worry about it. Sometimes she would shit test me saying things like, "You're being really blue pilled." or "Are you red pilling me right …
/r/askTRP21/07/14 02:49 PM
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Super late: Its easier to tell if she's actually digging on you. Women who do not make time in their schedules for you are not worth the effort. How many times have you seen a chick blow off her friends or dude for another guy? Its really not difficult and the girls who say they're busy are just trying to get you to stop talking to them.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 02:46 PM
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Stop being angry at this bitch! Anger is passion, and passion means strong emotional feelings. On the contrary, you should LOVE this bitch! Her cheating on you is the best thing that ever happened to you, according to all your recent accolades. If you ever see her again, give her a huge hug and say, "I'm much better off now, thanks for showing me how terrible of a person you are." Maybe the hugging and one liner bit and are too much, but really don't dwell on some cheating whore. You're much bet…
/r/askTRP21/07/14 02:39 PM
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You should have dropped her after she didn't kiss you. You basically rewarded her for an outcome you didn't want by answering her question. I was gaming a chick I worked with for quite some time who sounds similar to your girl. She essentially flirted with every other male coworker, trying to garner as many orbiters as possible. What made me different? I literally didn't give her the time of day. Any time I did it was when it was convenient for me and she initiated. She would invite me to things…
/r/askTRP21/07/14 02:10 PM
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Lived with a pregnant woman and her husband (family friends, and it was the baby daddy too for the record) for a few months. I concur. Living with them was like living in an ice box. I felt frozen out of everything. Only after did my mother tell me she was getting almost Zero support emotionally from the dad/husband. Your wife will probably not remember the times you were beta but she sure as he'll will remember when you were an asshole while she was pregnant.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 01:20 PM
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Drop her. I dropped a plate recently, mostly because very little sexual chemistry, also because our conversations were shit. Abundance mentality, brother. There are at least 10 chicks like her and better.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 12:22 PM
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The oneitis is really fucking with your frame dude. Maybe you're spending too much time with her? Additionally, this is why it's useful to have female friends when in an LTR. If you're ever feeling like you're clingy you can call up a female friend for a lunch date. It's like have a plate you don't fuck.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 08:19 PM
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It's more weird that you haven't met him. You'll probably want to meet the guy first before you make an assumption.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 02:38 PM
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Game him, call his alpha into question. It's like shit testing but you are also trying to get others to recognize your leadership as well. Additionally, it seems like he's trying to be alpha through words - not action. Oust him by actually acting on your alpha characteristics. Be a distraction, not a therapist. Take her on a date to something fun. If she starts talking about her problems, change the subject. Don't offer advice at all or if you do make it simple and move on - no need to discuss f…
/r/askTRP19/07/14 02:24 PM
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This has probably given me the most confidence in my last few relationships. The sex was so good, and they were so exhausted by the time we finished, I would be surprised if they even had the libido or energy to cheat. A woman only cheats to have certain desires fulfilled. If she is sexually fulfilled but not emotionally fulfilled, she'll only be looking for orbiters.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 12:14 PM
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"I'm x amount per hour."
/r/askTRP18/07/14 11:43 PM
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She is not a higher quality woman if she doesn't respect you enough to follow through on her plans. Honestly, I next any girl who cancels - doesn't even matter the excuse. If it's legitimate, they'll come back around anyways.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 01:45 AM
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Look at fixing the small things first and the rest will follow. Don't let her make decisions about dinner, dates, movies, etc. unless it's something she comes to you ahead of time, "my friend told me about this great place for dinner, let's go there this weekend." Have a plan prior to most of your meetings and execute that plan. If you want to have sex that day, then do it. There's no reason you shouldn't be able to, what else is the purpose of an LTR? Just do things tht make you feel like a man…
/r/askTRP17/07/14 01:40 AM
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Most people are free on weekends like Saturday afternoons. It's much easier to say, "we're hanging out Saturday." If she has an excuse then you walk away saying, "maybe I'll see you another time." Typically she'll come back with, "but I'm free on x day!" But no, asking a chick what her schedule looks like next week isn't beta.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 01:32 AM
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Absolutely. When I first discovered redpill, I was still in an LTR. There simply wasn't enough info and I just looked like a jackass for about 2 months of the relationship. Now I know that the goal of a red pill LTR is to basically keep a similar dynamic from dating to relationship. I was a smooth mother fucker when I was dating my last LTR but switched to comfortable beta mode later.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 01:26 AM
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You are VERY lucky. Or just know a good thing when you have it. Unfortunately, blue pulled and non-red pilled men think things like bad sex or infrequent sex will change with an LTR or marriage. You can't develop chemistry, that shit just happens and you'll know it right away.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 01:22 AM
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It is. Age of consent is different, but child pornography is pretty black and white. If she ever sends you nudes, delete them. It's tempting I save them but becoming a life long sex offender is not worth it. And all she has to do is immediately regret the pics and file a police report.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 11:36 PM
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I've been around several different social circles and a lot of what these people are looking for is stories. If you can relate to them anecdotally, you're fucking golden my friend. High school is a perfect time for making some stories.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 11:29 PM
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Sounds like they're coworkers. But yes, my last ex had a friend who didn't particularly like me. She didn't pull the kind of stuff that jealous fat friend is doing, but it was enough to annoy my ex. Eventually, ex cut contact with this friend until she chilled out and came back around. If you escalate to an LTR, this chick might just cut fat friend out of her life. If she doesn't, you're both in for a rough time.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 11:25 PM
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This might be a good idea. At this point, nothing of value will be lost and he only stands to gain. He could tell her something like, "my place. Friday 10:00. Don't be late." She either comes or she doesn't. If she shows up and still tries to get him to orbit, he should kick her ass out and resume NC.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 11:18 PM
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Once money starts flowing again, get your testosterone and estrogen levels checked. Otherwise look at some ways to reduce stress like breathing exercises and fitness. It's up to you whether to take back your gf or not. As soon as you broke up with her she hopped on the cock carousel. Honestly, I wouldn't take someone back if they did that. Shows a lack of respect.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 11:07 PM
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Be open to anything, if you get invited somewhere go - be it a party, club, after school hangout, etc. The more popular guys and gals will definitely shit test you to see if you're worth hanging around. If you pass these then you should have an easy time getting in the better crowds. Also, join like 8 clubs, seriously. Not only will it look on college apps, you'll span several different social circles and everyone will know who you are. And smart is cool now, don't fuck up your grades and take A…
/r/askTRP16/07/14 07:04 PM
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If you know she was grinding, and you're ok with her doing that then yeah hanging with a female friend is fine. I was assuming she was literally going to dance with her friend.
/r/askTRP11/07/14 09:22 PM
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How much do you trust your GF? Hanging out with your female friend instead may only blow up in your face so it might not be a good idea.
/r/askTRP11/07/14 03:15 PM
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Absolutely. My last LTR started with a hike, then she says she's hungry and suggested we go eat (I wasn't particularly hungry but I wasn't full either). So we go to the place, Jason's deli, she goes to the bathroom and I order and pay for my own food, then she gets hers. Months later she remarked how I didn't pay and I simply told her there was no reason to - she suggested we eat and I didn't know if we would have a 2nd date or not. Not sure if this affected much but we split many costs in our r…
/r/askTRP11/07/14 03:10 PM
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Yeah, starting with "what's up?" May sound innocent enough but it could lead them to believe you're not interesting. Try to be clever like you're approaching them all over again.
/r/askTRP11/07/14 03:06 PM
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Those are the users that, unfortunately, get the most publicity. While I feel like women are different from men, and when dating one cannot treat a woman like a woman would treat a woman - I think there is a equal domination in the relationship. Women tend to dominate certain aspects while men dominate others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/14 11:30 PM
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Be straightforward and tell her what you want from her. Don't resort to ultimatums yet because you may not have to and dread game should be a last resort or reserved for something more serious. Start simple and harmless: "help me with the dishes." "I want the living room vacuumed before I get home from work."
/r/askTRP08/07/14 05:14 PM
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Beware that the older sister may only be into you because you're taboo - you're dating her younger sister and therefore off limits. My advice is to slowly fade out your current GF, maybe suggest a break or something with no string attached. You need to plate the younger sister BEFORE you plate the older one if my theory is correct. If you pull this off you'd gain my utmost respect. Plating siblings is a pretty good accomplishment.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 05:06 PM
1

"The ass you used to have." or "The ass you should have."
/r/askTRP08/07/14 04:18 PM
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The more you practice game, the less effort it takes.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 02:58 PM
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No, I was once like you. I just learned when I was talking to fill the air when I actually had something to say. Just use your normal social skills but be more deliberate with what you say and you will command an audience.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 11:35 PM
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Why would you like your buddy's hand-me-down? Seriously, plate, bang and bang some more. There's no reason to have feelings involved.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 11:27 PM
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When you get what you want. You wanted to be back in the "loop" of things. Wait until you are and reward her. You might have to "talk" about it when she gets back. And by talk, I mean tell her she needs to keep you informed about things or this relationship is not going to work.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 01:41 PM
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Look down on him. Spectate on his actions. Start to critique them in your head. Remove yourself from the situation as much as possible. Never take anything personally.
/r/askTRP04/07/14 08:13 PM
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You can keep making excuses man. Keep your integrity. If you're friend thinks he's so alpha because he's richer than you than drop him as a friend. You don't need that in your life.
/r/askTRP04/07/14 07:42 PM
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The good thing about TRP is that it applies to most social situations. Don't lose frame. I would tell him that he's being immature and needs to spend some time in time out. Stay silent suggesting the conversation will not continue until he leaves. If he doesn't, suggest you move somewhere else and the group should be under your control. This will only piss him off and make him look even more stupid in front of everyone. Never back down. Remember. Don't be afraid to get in your buddy's face, he's…
/r/askTRP04/07/14 06:50 PM
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where everyone expects old me Then force the new you in their faces. Force them to accept and fall I love with the new you. You don't have time for friends who are stuck living in the past, the best friends (and girlfriends for that matter) are the ones that grow and change with you.
/r/askTRP04/07/14 06:43 PM
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Sounds like you've got a pretty good thing going. I'd love you to cross post this to askmen or something just to see what they say lol. Probably something along the lines of "listen to her and talk about it after every time." I will say, as long as you make your GF feel number 1 you should be fine, ie don't fuck the girl in ways you've never fucked your LTR. Godspeed anon. Post an update after your first time, MFF cuckold is pretty interesting.
/r/askTRP04/07/14 06:41 PM
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No why would you ignore her? It's her job to be selective and she didn't see you as a possible mate. Just be minimally courteous and go about your day.
/r/askTRP04/07/14 06:34 PM
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Sounds like he's not a leader. Try and take charge of things because it appears the project will be in better shape with you at the helm.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 09:28 PM
3

Yeah conversation looked like you were friendzoning yourself all over again.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 02:54 PM
1

Does anyone have experience with Silat?
/r/askTRP01/07/14 11:48 PM
2

What's her sexual past exactly?
/r/askTRP01/07/14 08:48 PM
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Beta: Cheat and stay with shitty girlfriend Alpha: break up with GF, plate her, then fuck other plates Also, I asked a similar question when I was in a LTR and I was very happy to see that the majority of RPers are against cheating in any form. Love you guys.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 07:40 PM
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Yes. Next her and move on to your girls that will actually give you their time. Stop communicating with her cold. If she contacts you again (she probably will), great. If not, then you haven't lost anything of value anyways.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 07:36 PM
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You're thinking about her too much. She didn't give you what you wanted and you left, its pretty simple. There's really no reason to communicate with her at all. If you don't have abundance, at least pretend you do friendo. Fake it til you make it.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 07:25 PM
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Just broke up with my ex around a month ago so PM me with any specific questions. Also I have a thread about some recent hookups if you check my submissions. Take things slow. Go on a date without any expectation of sex. Kiss close and say goodbye. Not only will these chicks go crazy over your blue balling them, you'll start building comfortability which is what you're probably missing. You may lose some plates looking for a quick fuck, but right now you shouldn't give a shit because youre still…
/r/askTRP30/06/14 04:37 PM
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I always get stuck at these situations too. Most of the time I have good enough rapport to keep myself as the center of attention. Could it be a shit test?
/r/askTRP30/06/14 04:30 PM
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Some people have lower prolactin and higher testosterone naturally. Others need to moderate things like masturbation so it doesn't affect their love life. It's similar to having a lean body and high metabolism and just telling someone to eat like you do.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 04:21 PM
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Prolactin rises and testosterone decreases after male orgasm. While some people will never experience the negative aspects of this, others do.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 04:19 PM
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First off. Don't base anything off of LoL ranking. You need to get that out of your head. Even the pros admit solo queue is mostly luck. Take a break from ranked and learn to have fun with game again in norms or team builder. Look up MCAT materials online and get a head start on things you want to know. You work out so start learning the different bones and muscles in the body. Why not get started on your essays now? Wake up at like 6 or 7 on Monday and start doing outlines for them.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 08:00 PM
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You'll have to be creative with your plates, though is it impossible to bring a girl home? Also, use this as an opportunity to practice practice practice. Don't sweat the failed game, learn from it. You'll do wonders in college.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 01:29 AM
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She confessed, he forgave her, she'll be back in your arms within the month. Different scenario, but I've had a chick who will hook up with me then get all Catholic-guilty about it and cease contact for a few weeks to a month. Then, she'll be right back again. Just keep your plates spinning and she'll phase in and out.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 01:27 AM
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Nah, not at all. I've had very little contact with her since the break up. Memories are fond, so its mostly that slow withdrawal from comfort back into anxiety and freedom.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 01:22 AM
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You're absolutely right haha. I guess I was spoiled to some degree, now I've been knocked back down to grunts so to speak.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 01:21 AM
1

Ah I gotcha man. Caber is probably the best bet then. Good luck
/r/askTRP28/06/14 01:20 AM
1

Look into l-dopa. As far as I know, dopamine can reduce prolactin, hence why it's easier to bang multiple times in a row with someone you love than a ONS
/r/askTRP27/06/14 11:01 PM
1

I didn't mean length of time, I meant more quality of erection and how fast you were able to get one.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 05:32 PM
1

Cortisol can affect performance, not sure about refractory period. Though, if your performance is lacking then I'm sure there will be a longer refractory period.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 05:16 PM
1

This is the general consensus I've seen. Too early and too few to tell.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:50 PM
2

I moved. Parents moved and I wanted to relocate for years, just needed to finish school.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:31 PM
1

Thanks for the encouragement. Makes a lot of sense now.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:26 PM
1

This is what I was thinking. I've lost that oh so sweet comfortability factor that one gets in LTRs. Its why I'm planning on seeing this chick again, to build some sort of FWB and also save some face.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:24 PM
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Ex is 1200 miles away, otherwise I'd still be with her (she was a great GF and the sex tho). How do I "teach" them? This chick is young (I'm young but she's 4 years my junior) how can I do this without seeming creepy? I know girls around my age will be more receptive to constructive criticism in bed as I am as well - I'm a little concerned she will be off put by it.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:18 PM
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Don't be afraid to concede every once in a while, just don't lose frame - that's the important part. I was once like you. I thought that TRP was all about never giving up ground, but sometimes you have to give up a few inches to gain a foot. Make your concessions occasional and special, so she appreciates them. That's really the important part, once she stops appreciating the compromises - you lose frame.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:16 PM
7

You can support equality under the law without being a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 05:26 PM
2

Maybe this will finally raise the point of absurdity insofar as carrying something that could potentially get you killed. E.G. I have a $500 purse therefore I am worth approximately $500
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 05:57 AM
0

I see the changes with any major thought or thinking gaining notoriety. The diehard opposition will get most of the attention while the diehard support gets the same amount. The practical applications of TRP will start to dissolve from the mainstream while buzz phrases like "rape-culture" and "treating women like children" will become more popular. Its sad, but pretty much the downfall of anything getting a lot of attention. If someone is really interested in TRP then they can take the time to u…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/14 08:19 PM
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Let's say I marry someone who frequently had sex with me before the marriage. Then, after the honeymoon, she suddenly goes cold and we do it only once a week. Now, I don't feel entitled but what the hell changed? I think entitlement is the wrong word. People who get married should want to have sex with each other frequently. I agree with not basing a relationship solely on sex, but come on, where's the fun with out it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/14 05:38 PM
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I think stoicism is the wrong word to use here. Emotionally grounded would be a better description for what the OP is talking about. Basically, his emotions ought to be consistent, not absent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/14 12:16 AM
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It depends on how you explore your emotions. There's a lot of truth in coming to people with solutions, not just problems. If you are emotionally exploring around a woman you like, stay calm and ruminate about solutions to a certain problem. There are obvious exceptions like the death of loved one or other tragic events.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/14 12:13 AM
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"Slut" is a relative term. So, what should she do? Find someone who's partner count his high enough that he doesn't consider her past slutty. Also, the general TRP consensus is, if you're a chick and your partner count is getting high - stop. You're depreciating your value. Not necessarily my own view, just what I've seen of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 10:04 PM
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The problem with this thread is that everyone is going to get nitpicky about what TRP is. The thread should have been about, "Have you ever slept with someone you considered 'alpha' how was it?" Sounds like your first guy was young and brash. Someone who is experienced in Red Pill knows the value of giving a woman a good time. Plus, if you turned him down the first time for (sex, anal, oral, what have you) TRP dictates this guy drops it. If I'm constantly pestering you for different sexual acts,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 10:01 PM
1

I would argue admiration is a form of following.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/14 01:45 AM
1

Jesus never wanted to lead but he was one anyways. Reluctant leadership is still leadership. By the fact that you admired them, they were a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/14 12:45 AM
1

I always saw it as Alpha = Leader Beta = Follower which I think is essentially what you said. An alpha who cannot gain leadership or followers under him will probably leave society and outcast himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/14 06:36 PM
1

I always thought that for women their ultimate prize is marrying an alpha. Kind of like alpha guys tend towards virgins or women with low sex counts, women want to lock down that alpha. It shows that she's the alpha woman for "capturing" and keeping an alpha with her. Women want to be proud and show off their partners. The betas typically don't have a lot going for them or they perceive it this way which is why you have hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/14 06:32 PM
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think that they need to impress or even outright bribe women This doesn't always correlate to low value. There are plenty of wealthy men that I would consider to be alpha yet they still spend money on women. Obviously, if you're devoting a chunk of your income to a single women or even multiple women (assuming this incoming isn't really disposable) you probably fall within beta bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/14 06:31 PM
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As a male you want to have sex with a "slut" because she is easy and doesn't demand commitment. Not necessarily, it just sort of happens that way. The real prize would be a virgin purely because of the challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/14 06:28 PM
1

You shouldn't be downvoted for that. I've seen comments where women are shaming a fit woman with abs saying men who like that are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/14 12:19 AM
1

Its all relative. I'm not going to choose to date a fat girl because there are fitter girls out there I like more. If you take away all of that then it'll become who can get the least fattest girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/14 12:18 AM
3

I think that's where I first heard about it. I've since checked other sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/14 12:10 AM
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with abortion a likely candidate for the decline. Its actually really interesting to see the correlation for this. Countries where abortion is legal and relatively easy to have done have lower crime rates than countries who outlaw abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/14 08:55 PM
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Actual rapes have decreased. They have been decreasing over time probably because more are being reported. Rape hysteria sensationalizes rape making it seem like their are more rapes occurring than reality tells us. Its called Mean World Syndrome. Consequently, we've known for quite some time that sexual abuse is mostly perpetrated by family members or someone that the victim is fairly familiar with - something that rape hysteria doesn't really talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/14 08:53 PM
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Rape peaked in the 1990s (along with crime in general) and has been going down since then. People who sensationalize rape are doing more harm than good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/14 08:30 PM
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Where does the fire analogy work in accordance to quality? Is a big fire a quality guy? EDIT: Rereading it, I know what you mean now. So, I have to be a big fire AND be burning something important = an orphanage or Children's Hospital. It can still work with the water analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/14 12:56 AM
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For them, it's more like the taste of the water, right? That's kind of the point. Women are so bombarded with men trying to initiate sex, they're looking for the best of their selection. Whereas men are not consistently approached by women, so their "standards" may be a lot less. Back to the water analogy, if you're dying of thirst in a desert, you don't care if the next puddle has shit in it - you'll drink it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/14 11:45 PM
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I think TRP considers older women to be easier because they've hit that "wall".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/14 03:38 PM
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Its called the "wall". Older women, according to TRP, are less desirable because they're past their prime. This isn't true of every woman, but the thinking is that women in their early twenties tend to tan, drink, party, eat like crap, etc. and it catches up with them around 30. Not saying I agree, just stating their general theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/14 02:58 PM
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Something that hasn't been said yet is status. Women want what other women want. Men like to feel like they've overcome a challenge. Women who have fewer sexual partners are seen as challenging because they are selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 06:07 PM
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Most of it was taught to me by Bob Ditter. I'm sure its some of his books talk about it. I can see if I can find other research.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/14 04:07 PM
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Modern Psychology tells us this is not going away. Young boys, especially ages 5-8, I believe, undergo a sort of "anti-mommy" phase. They reject anything feminine or like their mom. They want to be tough and manly like their fathers. That's why you see so many young boys tease each other about crying, girly clothes, feminine characteristics, emotion, etc. They embrace sports, the outdoors, action, in an effort to escape femininity. This isn't something we can readily change. The only thing we ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/14 11:41 PM
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Sounds about right. Hopefully its not hate. We should have reasonable discourse so if people disagree they can post instead of hitting the downvote button. I love my current girlfriend. The little quirks like cuddling up with me, letting me take charge in certain situations, just being a general caring person are the things I love about her. She's VERY girly, in the traditional sense, but I like those things. Some guys don't want that, and that's totally fine. More often than not, I see that as …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/14 07:23 PM
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Honestly, I think men who are attracted to girls who are "one of the guys" lack male kinship and role models in their life. You can see this with the stereotypical gamer crowd. Most of them lack the characteristics of manliness. This isn't true always, but you see what I mean. I was like that in high school. I was all about tomboys. Once I got to college, bulked up, and changed my attitude about dating, I wanted a typical woman. My girlfriend fits the bill and we've been pretty happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/14 12:32 AM
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It'll slowly happen, like weight lifting. Now, you don't bat an eyelash if you see a woman doing bench press, squats, etc. Exercises that are supposedly manly. Now we know that both sexes benefit from these movements. It'll take another 5 years or so, but when you start seeing more women in professional gaming - you'll know it's changed. You also have to think about the lifestyle choices one has to make to be a professional gamer. At least half their day is devoted to gaming, barring any scrimma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/14 12:20 AM
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Summary: They just want to stand out from the rest and be put on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 12:14 AM
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"Oh, I have tons of guy friends. I just don't get girls. LOL XD."
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 03:52 PM
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You're working with a negative connotation. Some of the more harmless things we do when dating are still manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/14 11:11 PM
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I did a quick search but you might be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/14 08:33 PM
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We all know genetic and environmental factors both synergize into a working human being. Saying one is absolute over the other shows little knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/14 07:57 PM
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suicidality Never heard anyone use that. And by definition it only describes the act itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/14 07:48 PM
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Absolutely. But that's dating. Both sides are manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/14 07:46 PM
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"Rapey" also detracts from the actual gravity of rape itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/14 07:45 PM
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College is a hell of a place. Seriously though. I think it shows immaturity if you resort to alcohol for your game. To be honest, if I'm single, at a bar, and hitting on some chick I'm going to buy her drinks. I'll be drinking as well though. I've had chicks come to my place and ASK me for some alcohol so they could start drinking. But yeah, shoving drinks in someone's face and not even drinking your own is pretty weird and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/14 07:43 PM
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Its a generalizations of sluts. I've had this conversation with my girlfriend. Some girls can handle sleeping with a lot of guys, some girls can't. Honestly, failed relationships and the reason for their failings are more important. Conversely, so as not to alienate women, men are similar. Some men can handle a high sex count, some literally just fuck what they can in a disparate attempt for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/14 07:47 PM
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Lets also remember, slut is a relative term. To a virgin guy, a slutty girl could have slept with 4 guys. To a guy who's well into the double digits, a slutty girl could simply be someone who bangs more than 6 dudes a year. Its all relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/14 07:43 PM
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Thank you. This is a nice change from askmen where people insist you're insecure if someone's history bothers you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/14 07:40 PM
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Saw an advertisement earlier on one of the TVs at the gym. Maybe its relatively new?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 01:07 AM
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It isn't. If its ever found out that the doctor did that, he/she could lose their license. Always get a second opinion or just have the test done at birth.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 01:06 AM
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Yeah, its actually pretty easy. You can get strangers to disclose just about anything simply by agreeing with them and sharing related stories.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 01:04 AM
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And you do? Tell me about how you time traveled from the 16th century and experienced oppression. Oppression is, and always will be class struggle. High society women did not have to worry about nearly the level of oppression that poorer women experienced in those times (even now).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/14 02:46 AM
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What we see as oppression, they see as protection. Our culture has things like abortion, birth control, adoption, divorce, etc. In cultures without those things, a woman's body is sacred. Not to say that we don't respect a woman's body in Western Society, we just don't see the need to protect it as much as say, Islamic cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 11:19 PM
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Alpha is being a leader. The stereotype of an alpha seems to follow more of the bad boy, or douchy guy. Not so. Alphas lead and are strong leaders. You can't be an alpha by alienating everyone, you need followers in order to lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 03:02 AM
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Right, and I didn't mean to sound like I was criticizing you - you're just looking at it in an odd way. Its not about treating women like they're stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 08:48 PM
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I've never understood this. If a woman is black out drunk and pulled over for drunk driving, she's found responsible for her actions. But, if she's black out drunk and has sex, then she's not responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 08:45 PM
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I don't think of women as less intelligent than men. But I know that I have a MUCH better chance of sleeping with them if I treat them that way. This isn't necessarily the point. The point of game is treat a woman like another player, objectifying her. Strategy is being able to compartmentalize certain scenarios and predicting their outcomes. Basically, you're trying to be one, two, or three steps ahead of whoever you're gaming. To do that, you have to objectify.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 08:35 PM
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Yeah, the way I see it is you're both going to be good friends or never speak to each other again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 08:32 PM
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Yeah, this makes more sense. Plus, there's rarely multiple alphas. While there will be strong men in every tribe, there's really only one alpha - he's the guy who gets to spread his seed in whatever he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 08:30 PM
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I agree with you. I also think those are few and far in between. Some people may be able to look past a woman who has been through the entire University of Florida defensive line, but I wouldn't and its because I want someone who is more selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 05:30 PM
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Women who sleep around with a large amount of partners are negatively viewed because they are not selective. How do you feel about getting a job that hires just about every Tom, Dick, and Harry? Its similar. There's no sense of accomplishment or self-worth with dating a slut. Females are supposed to be selective of their males because they can only mother a small amount of children compared to the amount of children a man can father. Since women are the selectors, it is an accomplishment for a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 05:19 PM
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The term asshole seems to have taken the place of "strong-willed" in our society. Don't get me wrong, there are genuine assholes out there. Most of the asshole behavior we see is just someone not taking another person's shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 05:11 PM
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Woops, getting back to this super late. I when on a few dates with one and it just didn't work out. We had a few mutual friends, so we just ended up hanging out again and being friends. The other I actually took on a date, then 3 years later she tells me she has a crush on me. I didn't feel the same way, she's with someone else now and happy - I'm happy for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 05:08 PM
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I'm a nice guy. I go out of my way to help random strangers, I pick up trash outside, I volunteer my time when I can, etc. But I also don't take shit from anyone, and some people would call me an asshole. Actions speak louder than words, fellas. Be the guy who acts in the nice and not the one who just talks the talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 05:05 PM
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You'll have both parties becoming empowered in different ways. But its kind of like philosophy, much won't change except for the people who actually WANT to research and read the information.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/14 05:16 PM
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I think people misunderstand the meaning behind "friend." I have two female friends that I could actually depend on to help me in a pinch, not including my current girlfriend. Conversely, I have about 5 male friends that I can depend on the same. Interestingly enough, both of my female friends have a brief dating history with me in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/14 05:14 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/14 05:10 PM
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Neeson has all of my respect so I assume there were other factors at play and the article is just spinning something he said off-hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/14 07:52 PM
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Did you feel like you were both physically AND emotionally dominant? I think that's exhausting for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/14 07:49 PM
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Unfortunately, with the media and internet so advanced, people are taking more second-hand (or window advice as I like to call it) advice instead of experimenting themselves. Window advice is kind of like window shopping where one looks around for the advice that best fits their needs and uses that, instead of experiencing the world for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/14 07:17 PM
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Kids will pretty much do whatever you tell them and they'll emulate their environment. Forcing a kid to do anything is negative but letting them do whatever they want is also negative. If I ever have kids, I won't isolate them based on sex. If my daughter wants to go hiking, sure, if my son wants to help my wife cook, go ahead. But this whole gender neutral thing is so out of whack that you're confusing the shit out of a whole generation. I would want my son to be strong physically and mentally,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/14 07:14 PM
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Coolidge and Harding were notoriously corrupt and were apart of the Robber Baron era in our history.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 07:07 PM
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Honestly, it seems most of this stuff stems from "cyberbullying" or, in my words, people taking the internet too seriously. Modern Feminism, rape culture, health at every size, seems to be 99% on the web. Probably just a coping mechanism when they're called out or just flat out wrong.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 07:02 PM
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If he knew anything, it's never completely gone and sex is still painful for virgins.
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