Quick Question...

Mrswhiskers · 2014-07-08T18:23:18+00:00

Probably going to get down voted to hell for this.

Most of this depends on how much she's contributing to the household all together. Is she paying half of everything? Is she working long hours? What is she doing when you're doing chores? Have you previously divided up tasks? I'm assuming you're living together and this is a LTR. I posted this in a different sub but take a look at this article and the website all together. There's a lot of gold in there for LTR.

kami_kakushi · 2014-07-08T17:44:31+00:00

your SO should be doing as you tell her, and she should be making efforts to please you and make your life easier

if she doesnt do this, and you do more house work than she does, then you are her bitch

you tell her straight what you expect from her, give her a rule book if necessary, and if she doesnt follow it, kick her ass out and go get someone better

if you SO doesnt do what you tell her, then what is the point of having her there?

reward her good behaviour, and punish her bad. if she doesnt do the dishes for example just leave and go hang out with your friends, or just go to a brothel, and dont tell her where you been, start cutting her out of your life, dont even talk to her, only give her attention and the things she wants when she behaves as you wish her to behave.

if she doesnt comply, then congrats you have a bitch for a SO, and leave her for someone better

liquid_Distortion · 2014-07-08T21:31:39+00:00

Sit her down and tell her to clean the house more your sick of doing all the work. If she throws a temper tantrum, just look at her quick in disappointment and leave without showing any more emotion back. Go to the bar and play some pool for a few hours with your cell phone off ignoring her. I bet you 8/10 times the dishes are done when you get back in a few hours. If not maybe you need a new girl.

mudra311 · 2014-07-08T17:14:20+00:00

Be straightforward and tell her what you want from her. Don't resort to ultimatums yet because you may not have to and dread game should be a last resort or reserved for something more serious.

Start simple and harmless: "help me with the dishes." "I want the living room vacuumed before I get home from work."

Title	Quick Question...
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	4
Comments	4
Date	July 8, 2014 4:42 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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