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I'd put labor inequality up high. Men work more days per year & more hours per day at more dangerous & debilitating jobs. Longer commutes too. These burdens that end up destroying your body more often than not either need to be spread around or better compensated.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/03/24 05:29 PM
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I think you are reading the opposite point of what this lady is saying.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/03/24 03:49 PM
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Three cheers. It's everyone's responsibility to make a more just future.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/02/24 08:59 AM
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OP, you did many things right. Where you went wrong was putting in much more effort & concern than was shown to you. Many people are cowardly, inconsiderate weirdos who don't have enough respect for their fellow man to communicate clearly. In the future it would be wiser to only reach out two maybe three times before accepting they are weirdos that would not make a good friend or partner. I also hate people who make very simple things complicated & ambiguous. Unfortunately there is not a good wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:08 PM
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Yup, stuff like men don't cry is internalized misandry. But there is also just asshole men who don't value or respect other men & are eager to send them to war or sacrifice them in mines, class plays a part, but much of it is gender specific. It still blows my mind that 30 years after internalized misogyny entered the lexicon we finally realize there is a male equivalent, but for some reason it's called toxic masculinity. I think the British mines act of 1842 would be a good example of misandry …
/r/EverydayMisandry28/07/23 08:05 AM
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Worth noting that misandry doesn't require women hating men, just hating men. A patriarchy could still practice misandry.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/23 04:58 AM
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Fuck dude. Some people are born into easy lives & some people are born into challenging, isolating & painful lives. I get how you feel & I get why you feel that way, it bums me out to think how people will treat you & think of you after reading this. I can tell you are a good & sensitive person who can do good in this world despite being injured by it. There is sadly truth in what you say, but it's also important to remember every human & every woman is just a person shaped by their experience f…
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/22 07:02 AM
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Not sure what point you are making, but being scared isn’t always rational. You can be scared of immediate threats just the same as unlikely or imaginary ones.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/10/22 01:09 PM
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If it's so simple why did OP have to ask for advice? I guess he is too dumb to think of... don't talk his wife's cousin all by himself “The patient says, "Doctor, it hurts when I do this." The doctor says, "Then don't do that!”
/r/MenSupportMen12/10/22 04:53 PM
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... Because OP is asking for advice & that advice can change based on what the offenders intentions are. Maybe the offender gets off on it sexually Maybe the offender is trying to intimidate OP Maybe the offender is just proud and has zero impulse control Maybe the offender just has different values & doesn't consider the subject dirty or disgusting Each situation might be addressed differently. ...Somehow we went from "the way X makes you feel matters", to "the way X makes you feel is the only …
/r/MenSupportMen12/10/22 04:11 PM
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Something that always bothers me is when people conflate being more afraid to being less safe. Fear is not a reasonable proxy for danger or risk. It's almost definitely true women are more scared than men more often. That does matter, fear is unhealthy. It's also disingenuous when no-one knows or cares the population in question is less likely to be the victim of violent crime. It's not particularly meaningful that women are more scared & it's gross to focus on it while declining to mention that…
/r/EverydayMisandry09/10/22 12:52 AM
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What kind of support do you two have? You have a hard & heartbreaking road ahead of you. From what you say a healthy life your yourself, your child & the mother are not likely. If you two have family get them involved yesterday. If adoption & other choices are a no-go document everything remotely unhealthy, unfair, unsafe & abusive. Don't slack on this, you are gonna need ammunition if custody is the only way to keep your child & your self safe & healthy. The stress of a child isn't going to imp…
/r/MenSupportMen03/10/22 12:31 AM
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Unfortunately the reality is men most men are very ego-driven and are always trying be a leader of the pack amongst other men in their group settings whether it be at work, school, gym, church, wherever you go with a large gathering of a decent bunch of men ​ Well, I think I know why you don't get along with men. People generally don't like you when you don't like them. All I can say is I've spent decades around men & that wasn't my experience. When I was your age all the old timers working too …
/r/MenSupportMen28/09/22 04:16 PM
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Do you always talk like this or is it just this subject? It’s starting to seem like you are so uncomfortable with what’s going on you can’t even think about it much less talk about it. You are really hard to read but it kinda seems like you want someone to tell that you don’t want kids & shouldn’t have them. Sit down with your girl & hash this shit out. Hopefully you’ll make up your mind one way or the other & be able to concentrate on fucking & cumming again.
/r/MenSupportMen06/09/22 08:32 AM
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I'm happy to talk through this with you... But I don't have it in my to try and read between the lines & figure out what you are not saying. From your other comments it seems like you are tying to get someone to tell you. Is this by any chance how the decision to have kids went? Honestly if you don't like making choices & your wife is good at it that's fine. Just don't complain a few years after passing the buck if you don't like what you bought, it's really unfair to the person you put in the d…
/r/MenSupportMen05/09/22 06:50 PM
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Where do you live?
/r/MenSupportMen28/08/22 10:43 PM
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Regardless of how things should be, or could be, you aren’t going to get laid or a relationship unless you put some work in. Your friends recommend tinder? So try it. You won’t be forced to go any further than you are comfortable with. also join bumble where girls have yo message first. also figure out activities to meet & talk to women. If unless you are a 10/10 they aren’t going to beat down your door & overlook your timidness. Relationships take practice & skill. They are also worth it.
/r/MenSupportMen08/08/22 12:36 PM
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I’m only going by what he actually said. It’s also a good idea to really understand your values before you commit to them. Grip and volume are terrible proxies for someone’s character, even as metaphor. Either way if he wants some actionable advice or support he is gonna have to communicate the issue better.
/r/MenSupportMen10/06/22 06:00 PM
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... So I have a different take. It sounds like you really value absolute bullshit. Being loud & firm handshakes? Remember how ridiculous Trump looked bringing power his handshakes onto the world stage? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T84se4fc4KU Being loud? It sounds like you took good advice. I define masculinity ultimately as the willingness to stand up for yourself and what's right, but not bullshit. Why do you feel the need to present yourself as bigger & more important recently? It's possib…
/r/MenSupportMen10/06/22 11:03 AM
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Do you have CPTSD or PTSD? r/CPTSD is a complete shit show of people thoughtlessly validating self diagnosed sufferers. There is so little thought that bots could do the job just as well. r/CPTSDNextSteps is a community for people dealing with CPTSD. I don't know what the equivalent for PTSD is, but I'm sure there is one.
/r/MenSupportMen08/06/22 04:32 PM
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You might have to figure out more why you are so ashamed or embarrassed or what. The obvious thing to do is talk to shrink, in person or online, or get some xanax. What do you think when you see another fat person, or an ugly person, or a person who you think shouldn't feel good about themselves? Are you scared of being judged as harshly as you judge others? Practice forgiving them for being human, practice showing them respect & kindness, then do the same thing for yourself. Do the things that …
/r/MenSupportMen02/06/22 10:06 AM
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Strangely enough /askmen has the the best women on reddit & they are all perfectly willing to have faithful conversations with men as their peers. Keep your head up & keep looking for good people, they are out there.
/r/MenSupportMen30/05/22 09:58 PM
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Ten months isn’t nothing. A month in jail is more than enough to lose your jobs & rack up a ton of debt & headaches. Ten months is a pretty sizable deterrent for rational people too, especially for a population that used to have carte blanche to commit perjury, liable, slander and/or harassment. For irrational people 10 years isn’t more of a deterrent than 10 months because they can’t accept they are wrong or could be punished. Americans really are heavy handed when it comes to sentencing, which…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/22 05:43 PM
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No offense, but homeschooled kids are always so weird.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/11/21 06:37 AM
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Be careful with the soap. You aren’t supposed to use it every day, but it will tell you how relevant bacteria is. Hormones & your immune system also affect your smell so your micro biome might not be relevant at all. I occasionally use hibiclens on my balls before a date because they stay fresh for 24 hours & regular soap can’t compete. I’ll be really interested if the probiotic works, so let me know if you try. There are some strains of oral bacteria that make much more or less sulfur & it’s re…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/21 08:09 PM
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The worst thing is I’ve done that before https://www.amazon.com/dp/B078T95YFX/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_imm_EA1F49TDCERCR3Z5MHVK?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 I’m not endorsing this particular brand, it was just the only product of its nature I could find in 2018 & it worked remarkably well off-label.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/21 03:08 PM
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I’ve always had really sweaty feet, aside from being uncomfortable in the summer they were always freezing in the winter. 20% aluminum chloride really made a difference after 3 days of application. I hope you find some relief. In the last few years I’ve started heavy head/torso sweating even in the winter & it sucks.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/21 02:00 PM
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Just gonna leave this here: Comedians Dave Anthony and Gareth Reynolds examine women's deodorant and antiperspirant. Great podcast btw. Highly recommended.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/21 01:26 PM
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Out of curiosity have you ever used a sauna? Or tried hibiclense? It’s a surgical soap you shouldn’t use regularly, but it would be interesting to see if it made a difference. Finally, if the stink is bacteria related you could try a probiotic skin lotion to try & crowd out the unfavorable bacteria. (Or get someone who smells good to rub against you for hours everyday & transfer their biome). My uncle had a terrible rash on his legs that wouldn’t heal despite steroids & prescription creams. On a…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/21 01:21 PM
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a lot The body of evidence is vastly in favor safety. There are people with hyperhidrosis that use massive amounts of prescription strength antiperspirant over huge areas of skin. The die of natural causes & get Alzheimer’s at the same rate as the rest of the population.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/21 01:09 PM
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It’s called olfactory fatigue & it’s very real. If anything it’s a blessing that smells fade into the background.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/21 01:03 PM
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I also object to some men decided Women do plenty to enforce the norm that it’s rude to make other people smell your stink. I don’t think these people realize that if one side of the coin is men are responsible for everything is women are insignificant & nothing they say or do matters at all.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/21 01:00 PM
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Everyone likes benevolent discrimination, it’s only the other stuff that needs to be fixed.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/04/21 07:43 PM
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He is the only guy on base to actually show her any respect. It’s not respect to humor someone, that is what you do to children. She showed her true colors when refusing to shake after a fair fight. She isn’t lesser for losing a fight, anyone who gets in the ring deserves respect. She is lesser for acting like a shit & not acknowledging or respecting the person who allowed her a fair fight.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/21 02:59 AM
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They aren’t hopeless. They just need a real life woman to treat them with some respect and regard. So yeah... hopeless. It’s a pity when someone would have a healthier relationship by paying hookers.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/01/21 10:02 PM
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This dude is alright. He talks some shit & is wrong, but he put his money where his mouth is which redeems him in my eyes. If you’re courageous enough to have opinions & have them out loud you are gonna be wrong eventually.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/11/20 05:51 AM
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Because short guys have too much time & too few women on their hands. Thankfully it’s not a dealbreaker for everyone, but it definitely makes life harder. At best you find a partner who will tolerate it, no one seeks out short guys.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/20 06:50 AM
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It’s funny that some people only experience giving their seat to someone & others only experience being given a seat. I’ve given up my seat at least 1,000 times & even though I used to work 80 hour weeks & sometimes 30 hour days I don’t recall anyone ever offering me a seat. Kindness is it’s own reward, but it would be nice to see what it’s like lol.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/04/20 08:04 PM
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This is unjust in the micro, but will be good in the long run. People will care when women fall victim to unjust alimony laws & they probably won’t be able to make the new laws gender specific & able to disproportionately benefit women.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/20 01:13 AM
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Fair point about manslaughter vs murder; But the distinction is forethought not intent. The bigot isn’t an issue of paperwork, it’s an issue of saying someone’s gender makes them unfit & not someone’s ability. It doesn’t matter why you think so, it matters if let your personal shit effect an innocent and uninvolved person. I’m all for making people comfortable, but in this instance the effort should be invested in limiting the abuses of cavity searches, not giving people greater choice over who …
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/20 07:17 PM
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Who cares about thoughts? You measure people by their actions not their intentions. We are better than punishing people for thoughtcrime or for thinking someone is attractive. Why does it even matter what your doctor is thinking while he is doing his job? He either did his examination faithfully and professionally or he didn’t.It doesn’t matter if he is thinking about his taxes or wishing his wife had tits like yours. An officer is either doing their job faithfully and professionally or not. If …
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/20 05:31 PM
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You don’t see anything wrong with a male cop frisking your mother/sister/wife? What about cavity searching? Yes, that is wrong. But I don’t feel any better about a woman doing it & I don’t think a male or female officer is better or worse. If someone needs to perform a cavity search it should be a medical professional. Would you refuse to let a woman treat your prostrate cancer? If you need a gynecologist are you gonna refuse treatment if they have a penis? In the event that a child has special …
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/20 05:23 PM
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You are confusing merit with fairness.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/20 01:07 PM
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This relies on the assumption there is some work only women can do. If some people refuse to work with a male officer is that something we should tolerate? Is it really true men can’t be respectful & sympathetic to victims, or is that just more sexism?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/20 12:51 PM
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Thing is wealth is so concentrated there just aren’t that many dudes who can afford it.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/12/19 01:49 AM
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Out of curiosity what type of abuse are we talking about here? You talk about him like a caricature & I wonder if you understanding the actual person wouldn’t benefit you.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/19 03:47 AM
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I honestly think that flat earth & antivaxx ate test beds for state propaganda actions. What better topic than flat earth to test your techniques? No one will take it seriously & the repercussions if you are caught will be trivial.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/10/19 08:57 PM
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I think we have different ideas of what is normal/abnormal. Bodies break all the time, it's a perfectly normal thing. I'm not trying to pretend that broken is just as good as unbroken, or that ugly is just as good as beautiful, just that not perfect is normal.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/19 10:12 PM
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. I also want to seem normal when I can. Being sick/injured/disabled is perfectly normal.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/19 09:38 PM
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... and men will still pursue you/ reward you for being attractive even if you don’t wear heels. Men like women & they aren’t exactly picky or spoiled for choice.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/19 08:18 PM
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Oh man, I’m sorry. I hope you find a way to pipe up because I want to give up my seat to anyone having a hard time. I feel guilty when I don’t look out for my fellow man, and I feel good when I do, but I’m also not a mind reader. Maybe you could dangle a medical bracelet in their face when you ask. Everyone needs help sometimes & you are no less deserving than anyone else, advocate for yourself & give decent people the opportunity to be decent. Good luck man. There is no virtue in suffering & it…
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/19 08:16 PM
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Ehh. 99.99% of women have no meaningful power 99.95% of men have no meaningful power. If you look at the average guy on the street he barely has any control over his own life, much less someone else’s. Everyone has systemic issues in need of redress, but men don’t have an advocate in this & no one wants them to.
/r/MensRights15/08/19 09:45 PM
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I don’t know you well enough to say if it applies, but I think it’s a real issue. People don’t worry about bad things women do because they think what women do thus women themselves aren’t significant. A woman hitting someone is like a child hitting someone & treated the same way
/r/MensRights13/08/19 09:16 PM
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Standing for justice has nothing to do with involuntary celibacy. Women are humans & humans are fallible, criticizing a woman’s harmful conduct or a society which enables it shouldn’t make you a target for derision. I think a big reason people don’t care about bad behavior of women is they don’t respect women & their ability to cause harm, you think it doesn’t matter because women don’t matter.
/r/MensRights13/08/19 07:11 PM
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Also can you image what it’s going to be like when the first women soldier gets captured and tortured? This is why I want women in the services. War won’t be so palatable when 19 year old girls start coming home in body bags, missing limbs, with brain injuries & burns. Our appetite for war will be much diminished when we see women POWs. For whatever reason men being expected to sacrifice their bodies, freedom, health, mental health, liberty & lives is not the type of oppression we care about. Bu…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/07/19 04:44 PM
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Nah I think women are as capable as men in nearly all things & we should still act is if in the ways they aren’t. I want to live in a world where women are equals with equal obligations & benefits because that is a better world. Think about all the good things in the world, the new ideas & inventions, buildings & institutions. Now imagine 2x as many people doing the work. There is no reason women can’t invent things. There is no reason women can’t start businesses. The argument is oppression kee…
/r/PussyPassDenied20/07/19 07:44 PM
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It’s because you apparently only able to model history in one way (which is a valid one, but can’t explain everything) as oppressors & oppressed, and also completely discount anything which is inconvenient to your worldview. As a start, if you subscribe to the patriarchy school of thought you should also accept that 99.99% of women had no meaningful power But also that 99.95% of men had no meaningful power. There is far more overlap between men & women than you advertise & they are far more alik…
/r/PussyPassDenied20/07/19 05:05 PM
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People are so primed to see women as victims & men as villains that it’s almost as if abusive women have Jedi mind tricks in practice. When a women hits or harms a man people’s first concern is for her welfare. Oh no, this woman cut off her husbands dick, is she okay? This woman is slapping and punching a docile man, does she need help? I swear this society thinks of women more like children than as adults & holds them to the same standards and expectations. Fuck this equal rights & equal lefts …
/r/PussyPassDenied20/07/19 03:17 PM
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What do you mean you don’t have to touch it? ESP? ESP<sup>eepee??</sup>
/r/PussyPassDenied09/07/19 12:31 AM
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For context I am an animate pile of trash. I don’t drop the cover not do I lift the seat. I just piss in the toilet and not on the seat. On the rare occasion where some drops of piss land on the seat I clean it with TP. Unrelated but I have a nylon bell brush oh a hex shank I attach to my battery power drill for cleaning the toilet & another for cleaning everything else. Where does seat piss come from? Is it splash from the toilet or is it directly from the pp? I also walk into the bathroom with…
/r/PussyPassDenied09/07/19 12:30 AM
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100% of men had power over 100% of women I don't think that is remotely true. Even in a time where only men could own property you still needed the wife's permission to sell it. Oppression is one way to model a situation & It's often the most useful. But all of history has been shoehorned as oppression, and all of it men oppressing women. That there is no exception, that no difference between men and women can be explained by anything but bias and oppression should tell you something about the l…
/r/MensRights22/01/19 04:34 PM
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Not really. Your argument assumes that we started in a garden of Eden & men came around to oppress women. The truth is we started at peak tyranny and have been unfailingly building a more just and equitable society ever since. That men manage to move a bit faster than women isn’t proof of oppression. Especially when you compare the cost men paid compared to women to have the same right recognized. Whatever right or you want to discuss both men & women were initially deprived. Then people fought …
/r/MensRights22/01/19 07:36 AM
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Politics is one of the very few fields where I think there might be a legitimate argument for gender parity. There isn't one for STEM or firemen, The best solution for everyone is to let individuals do what they are good at & do what they like. If that leads to female nurses & male programmers so be it. But when it comes to representation in government there may be some benefit to gender parity. However, taking it as given that men will show bias, or that they lack some quality or knowledge or a…
/r/MensRights22/01/19 12:36 AM
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Is that true? both in law & practice? I know you can't get federal student loans, but I did not register for selective service & as far as I know all my votes have been counted.
/r/MensRights22/01/19 12:21 AM
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I hope that as an adult you use other tools. It's really a shame when a child has to fight violence with violence.
/r/MensRights31/12/18 09:52 AM
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But a random Russian can say anything they want, it doesn't mean anything. Shooting people is bad, stabbing people is bad, but it's ridiculous to say knives are guns. You are just using scary words. What does the wall have to do with socialism? I think you guys are just regurgitating the comparison jordan peterson makes between feminism and cultural marxism without really understanding it. Socialism: a political and economic theory of social organization that advocates that the means of producti…
/r/MensRights30/12/18 06:43 PM
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I wonder if they hear MensRights is a hate group & liked the way it sounds. It's moderations job to keep standards high & they do not.
/r/MensRights30/12/18 05:51 PM
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This sub is so broken & it’s a shame because there are so few mr communities. What does socialism have to do with feminism. You doubled down with more stupid shit?
/r/MensRights30/12/18 10:07 AM
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what a joke. Even if he was a legitimate psychopath she had a surplus of choices. This woman is a killer, she probably abused her son his whole life, slandered him in death & escaped justice. ​ I was abused as a child, when I was 11 i decided I wasn't going to get hit anymore so the next time my mother tried to hit me I grabbed her wrists (didn't stop her from kneeing me in the balls) and held on for dear life. She took the marks on her wrists & used them as evidence that I was abusing her. No o…
/r/MensRights30/12/18 07:38 AM
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I didn't say identical, I said alike & that is in the context of drive. If women had the same pressures & same rewards for working as men, they would work just as hard and just as much as men. Granted it would be at different jobs. A big reason women earn less money is because they can afford to. If men could get away with working the same hours as women they would. A man with a dead end job is still a loser in Finno-Scando land.
/r/MensRights30/12/18 07:10 AM
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Can you explain that? Socialism is a way of allocating resources. Fire departments are socialist, it's the right tool for some jobs and the wrong tool for many others. I don't understand at all how feminism is like socialism.
/r/MensRights30/12/18 06:41 AM
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I agree, but there are other variables. I think it's likely that women have less drive in practice. Not because of any inherent biological difference, but because we hold them to lower standards and expectations. They also have different (and when it comes to finances lesser) obligations. As an example, men will marry down without complaint. Guys don't really care about a girls career path when considering a mate. Women do, & I would bet that pushes men to work a bit more and a bit harder. Most …
/r/MensRights30/12/18 04:43 AM
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I'm not sure. Lots of women work hard inside their chosen profession. I don't think women are underrepresented in tech because it's hard, but because they don't like tech as often as men do.
/r/MensRights30/12/18 02:58 AM
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looks good. Thanks.
/r/MensRights28/12/18 03:04 AM
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No it shouldn't count as he is relaying a message & presumably a rapist would lie. It's also possible to say I don't want this to be a one night stand prior to sex, then revoke consent & get raped. As far as I know this sub is the largest MR group & it's a shame the standards are so low, I'm right there with you.
/r/MensRights28/12/18 02:28 AM
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After the two had sex, they continued to spend time together in John’s room. Jane, according to the lawsuit, told him she didn’t want their encounter to be a “one-night stand.” John, however, did not call her again and couldn’t contact her through Tinder anymore. For some reason I thought that was a text message after the fact.
/r/MensRights28/12/18 02:22 AM
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she did ask for a second date.
/r/MensRights28/12/18 02:15 AM
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Agreed. This is the largest community I know of & we have shit poor standards. It's an absolute shame people aren't leaving here with honed and focused arguments.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 12:50 AM
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No offense, but can we do better than this? This is one of the largest communities and the standards are shit poor. What is the point in fighting straw men?
/r/MensRights26/12/18 11:16 PM
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This is sad. I guess the assumption is these 20 year old kids are oppressors, & them hanging out with each other is oppressing people. But, in truth they are probably just people who need support & are offering it to each other. It's very peculiar to attack people's ability to help themselves & it's especially terrible if they are trying to fill the void you created.
/r/MensRights23/12/18 04:28 PM
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men and women take a different approach to evaluating each others looks. Men look for & at things they like and give them credit for it. Women get points for being nice, being funny, tits, ass, slim waist etc. Women look at men & find reasons to disqualify them. Career standing, social standing, build, height, face. Looks don't matter as much for men because 80% of men are unattractive, you can overcome that with high social & career status.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 05:43 AM
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Correct. There is nothing wrong with a natural smile. Being happy is enough, we don’t need to pretend to be insanely happy. All this ridiculous theater makes it harder to fully engage & gives your inner critic ammunition.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 03:32 PM
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It really is a joke that people are largely comfortable with this. Both that they don't care about this guy as a victim, and they they don't care about her as a perpetrator of violence. It should be obvious this is wrong, but people think you are a misogynist for wanting this situation remedied. I honestly think that in a lot of ways MRAs have more respect for women than the population at large. They recognize that what women do actually matters.
/r/PussyPass06/10/18 06:37 PM
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nah it's cool. By the standards of the day I am a misogynist also. I believe the pussy pass is real, common, harmful, unjust & sexist to both men and women. I was a victim of statutory rape & we know that gets a big pass (3 out of 4 men in prison for sex crimes report similar), Not taking it seriously is another way society is failing people. but I don't know how useful consequences would be for situations like this. No one, including the mother actually wanted this particular outcome. I'm not o…
/r/PussyPass06/10/18 06:27 PM
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Oh wow. My first time being featured here, I'm flattered. Oddly enough I'm all for women being held accountable for their actions, it's a shame when they aren't held to the same standards as other adults (although this girl was not an adult). But it's also useful (and not mutually exclusive) to look at problems from a population level. A lot of things had to happen for this to even be a possibility that she didn't tell anyone she was pregnant that no one noticed she was pregnant that she didn't …
/r/PussyPass06/10/18 03:39 AM
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I think you misunderstand what the gish gallop is. ​ There is no definitive empirical way to determine if someone is a racist. You can however evaluate their behavior and reach a pretty reasonable conclusion.I laid out some of the criteria I am using based on the information available to me. What would your approach to the problem be? Is it even something you would do?
/r/MensRights02/10/18 05:39 AM
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jesus christ, this sub has low standards. This post is dumb in a dozen different ways. Where is your pride?
/r/MensRights30/09/18 03:02 AM
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ehh. No one bothered to read it. Put the shock at the end. Start with the reasonable part.
/r/MensRights30/09/18 02:52 AM
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who's history of lying? This is clearly a frame work by which you can use to assess an accusation. To be used by the public, or by someone with subpoena powers. And an answer to the question regarding why all questions are weighted equally. This is just a first pass to demonstrate that you can in fact gauge credibility (which should have been obvious). If you really want to do this, make a database of accusations where the validity is absolutely known, & weigh the value of the answers. I'm not s…
/r/MensRights29/09/18 10:03 PM
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can you detail your requests? I didn't realize you made any.
/r/MensRights29/09/18 09:48 PM
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This is just a first pass to demonstrate that you can in fact gauge credibility (which should have been obvious). If you really want to do this, make a database of accusations where the validity is absolutely known, & weigh the value of the answers. Quietjackfruit is pretending anyone can make an accusation & there is nothing we can do about it, which is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights29/09/18 09:34 PM
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If I am being super honest, no. I don't think many people actually do. Everything people describe as ironic actually isn't. Why do you ask? I don't get that either?
/r/MensRights29/09/18 09:27 PM
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I'd ask though is, what constitutes "As much certainty as possible" That's a good question, unfortunately we are going to have to play it by ear. Part of the problem is we haven't had this conversation before, we always kick the can down the road, until this time when the can got too big. I always thought it was just feminism rigging the conversation, but as evidenced by OP, its both sides. Society is just bad at this.
/r/MensRights29/09/18 08:58 PM
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I come here because no ideas or facts or opinions are off the table. Share all that you've got. ​ If everyone would talk about their concerns & questions as freely as you did, we would have a lot less problems to solve.
/r/MensRights29/09/18 08:00 PM
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I don't care if the dude partied or had 3 ways. I do honestly care if he tried to rape someone. ​ That he actually lied about the inconsequential shit doesn't make the shit consequential. But that he did knowingly and intentionally mislead congress does absolutely matter. What kind of justice can you have if he does not respect the institutions of America? It's an important job, what you do & how you do it matters. If you put a fuck up on the court he will fuck things up. ​ So I don't see the po…
/r/MensRights29/09/18 07:52 PM
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this is better than nothing tbh.
/r/MensRights29/09/18 07:46 PM
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That depends on what standard we use for lying: Did he knowingly and intentionally say things to convince people of something that is not true? yes. Just as one example, the devil's triangle & boofing. We aren't idiots, it's not drinking games and farting. Can you categorically prove that he does not have an idiosyncratic definition of those two terms? You probably cannot prove that, but reasonable people can asses when someone is full of shit. Did Clinton lie when he said I did not have sexual …
/r/MensRights29/09/18 07:33 PM
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This sub has pitifully low standards, both for behavior and for reason. There is a big problem in America surrounding gender & we aren't going to find a solution if we play just as cheap and dirty as them. Have some respect for yourself and your ability to use reason. You have made an accusation, now lets try to see how credible it is. Step one: Are you willing to make your claim under oath? No? -10 credibility Step two: outside of your claim is there any evidence you have ever interacted with F…
/r/MensRights29/09/18 07:13 PM
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Thanks god. There is so little discussion outside this sub about how we fix America's problems with gender. There needs to be at least one place where all ideas and facts can be explored openly.
/r/MensRights29/09/18 06:04 PM
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Honestly we are all forming our opinions with incomplete information, there is absolutely more out there that can be used to implicate or exonerate. Americans deserve to make the most informed decision possible. In this circumstance that means an FBI investigation with people trained to ferret out the truth, and the ability to subpoena anyone who might have information & compel them to speak. We certainly will be able to determine that some lies are lies. I hope that anyone who lies to the FBI i…
/r/MensRights29/09/18 06:02 PM
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I'm on the complete other side of this issue. I hope we can all agree that a sexual assaulter is not fit to sit on the bench. That would be terrible for America, a justice needs to be the best among us, we hold them to a higher standard. Kavanaugh needs to prove he is qualified in order to get the job, not the other way around. It's impossible to say what happened just from the one account of the accuser, but Americans are entitled to make the most informed decision possible. In this case that m…
/r/MensRights29/09/18 05:54 PM
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I am skeptical of universal healthcare it does work out pretty well for most places. I have been there and seen it. ​ What we have is the worst of both worlds, It's not a free market where people can make choices about how much they want to spend. It's not a single pool where risk is spread out and shared evenly among everyone. Having healthcare tied to your job is terrible. It's terrible for entrepreneurship, starting a business is already expensive. If that also means you can't give your child…
/r/MensRights28/09/18 06:21 PM
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Even if you think Trump is smart, He is not making informed decisions. There is no dispute that he refuses to read reports or be briefed on an issue. It's impossible to come up with a proper course of action if you don't understand the problem.
/r/MensRights28/09/18 06:15 PM
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Here is what I believe. All men are created equal. Outside of physical feats, any individual of group A can be equal to any individual of group B. There may be population level difference, but you have to look at every individual as an individual. Everyone should have access to a high quality education. People should succeed or fail based on their own merits. If some people aren't being offered the same opportunities we should fix that. If they don't take the same opportunities that is their pro…
/r/MensRights28/09/18 06:11 PM
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since she has given next to nothing for information lol that's why you have an investigation. That's exactly what the FBI interview would cover. says it didn't happen who? did they say it didn't happen, or I don't know if it happened. It's different. Another reason I would love a proper investigation with interviews on the record. There are so many mistruths or misunderstood truths.
/r/MensRights28/09/18 04:42 AM
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your cynical, but the left does actually believe in this stuff and does care. It's not only a strategy. ​ Honestly I'm not convinced it's all smoke. It doesn't make sense that she would have been talking about this for years before he was even nominated. Kavinaugh is absolutely full of shit though. It's possible he is not lying about the assault, but he is lying about being a choir boy. Who gives a fuck if you partied hard 30 years ago? The question is did you assault someone. Aside from that he…
/r/MensRights28/09/18 03:32 AM
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what investigation are you talking about?
/r/MensRights28/09/18 03:15 AM
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I'm not as confident of any of that as you are. ​ I don't see the argument that dems have a double standard for themselves. Frranken didn't get the benefit of doubt for even a moment, much less a defense. Al Franken didn't get a chance to defend himself, or have anyone step in to do it for him. Hell, no one even mentioned that he wasn't even touching the bullet proof vest she was wearing. That one really bothered me. I think it's likely that was a political assassination, but the discourse was s…
/r/MensRights28/09/18 03:15 AM
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> If she's unwilling to do that much, then she doesn't deserve the airtime of a hearing. There is also the question of what Americans are entitled to, It's not just about the accuser. But your suggestion is a reasonable starting point. ​
/r/MensRights28/09/18 03:06 AM
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That's exactly what an investigation would do. It would be a single record of all claims by both parties, A record of how verifiable/verified each point of every claim is, A record of how falsifiable/falsified each point of every claim is, Informed questions asked by someone trained in getting to the truth, Actual consequences when either party is lying. ​ This is a dog and pony show. Even if you are earnestly interested in assessing the truth as much as possible, the information you need is all…
/r/MensRights28/09/18 03:02 AM
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The question is about what process would be fair. How do you investigate? Here is one way. You have an trained impartial adversarial investigator conduct an interview. You ask them direct questions, & verify as many of their answers as possible. If someone lies in their responses you accept that they are less credible than before they lied. Once you are done, if someone lied you punish them for it, so that America doesn't have to deal with as many liars. ​ Did you watch the hearing? It was not t…
/r/MensRights28/09/18 02:40 AM
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Personally I think the FBI should have fielded an investigation. There is no room for partisanship when trying to assess credibility, of course it was going to get ugly. Both the accuser and the accused should have been been asked clear and fair questions under oath, and both should be prosecuted for perjury if they were shown to be lying. Let's be pragmatic. Use the right tool for the job. Fuck teams. Fuck partisanship. Let's focus on justice, fair process, and one standard for everyone.
/r/MensRights28/09/18 02:01 AM
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The red pill has an unpopular ideology, but it also has a lot of nasty shit inside it. It's not just hated for what they say, but how they say it. ​ You should be allowed to hold whatever opinion you want, but that doesn't prevent you from acting with tact and class. Quarantine is better than banning and I oppose both on principle. Still, I would have more sympathy for them if they held themselves to a higher standard. Although you also have to remember that like incels, they are bitter and inju…
/r/MensRights28/09/18 12:19 AM
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I'm with you man. I wish this sub had higher standards for truth and accuracy. It's clear something went wrong with this woman, but it's not clear she intentionally killed that baby. She should have at least caught a charge for A man sorting through recycling accidentally stumbled across the infant’s dead body a few days later. That is a pretty terrible thing to do to someone. ​
/r/MensRights27/09/18 06:25 AM
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did she? A charge of neglect to obtain assistance during child birth was withdrawn last December Is that a euphemism in Canada? I'm always frustrated at how little information is actually conveyed in any article.
/r/MensRights27/09/18 06:19 AM
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That’s fine. But as of today there is no evidence whatsoever that any other nation is spreading propaganda inside our borders. There is only evidence that Russia is. For some sad reason the executive branch is resistant to even investigate it, much less act on it. We know what organization is doing it. We know at least one of their offices, we in some cases know individual peoples names. That is only true for Russian propaganda. No one else. Make no mistake, Russia found a cheap and easy way to …
/r/MensRights26/09/18 04:48 PM
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Yes. But unfortunately nothing strong enough to convince someone who strongly doesn’t want to believe. It’s a propaganda machine. It’s full of lies, and anyone who tells any kind of truth is immediately deleted and banned. Even years long posters get banned for doubting the god king. I went there everyday for 3 months trying to understand my fellow Americans. It’s fantasy.
/r/MensRights26/09/18 03:41 PM
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use your facilities for a moment. Why wouldn't they? Russian interests and American interests are often mutually exclusive. Like it or not the sanctions are really bothering the richest and most powerful Russians. Employing paid shills is absurdly cheap, its zero risk, the US is apparently taking no countermeasures, it's demonstrably effective. We have dozens of data points to say it's true. Not to mention Russia did it in Ukraine before the US It's really sad how receptive Americans are to it. …
/r/MensRights26/09/18 03:39 AM
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And don't forget there are absolutely undeniably paid Russian shills on Reddit. They are on The_Donald for sure, and I wouldn't be surprised if they were here also. ​ They argue both sides. They are always against you. Their only goal is to make Americans fight more and trust less.
/r/MensRights26/09/18 02:42 AM
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I do wonder how many people remain on each side who remember the other guys are still human. It could be the vast majority of people, but they are being awfully quiet. It seems like everyone is out for blood, any voice of temperance gets shouted down.
/r/MensRights25/09/18 02:21 PM
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I'm just happy to find some common ground. we are gonna have to find a way to live with the right eventually.
/r/MensRights24/09/18 11:13 PM
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It would be a travesty of justice if she were telling the truth they sided emphatically with Riggins I have faith that the jury did a good job, but I wish some of the articles actually explained the case. Her story had so many details in it that couldn't have been true," he said. "They started questioning her about the [pedestrian] tunnel, she kind of backed off. ... She was so evasive. It was unbelievable." ​ She is a kook though, and clearly not beholden to truth. From her blog: the mass schoo…
/r/MensRights24/09/18 10:12 PM
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I’m with you that this doesn’t seem like a big deal. I’m not attached to this show at all though. The “it’s about time” Does imply that dr who should have been a woman earlier. But in truth it doesn’t matter & gender parity in space aliens isn’t a real problem.
/r/MensRights23/09/18 01:43 AM
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Considering how trivial it is, that one bothered me more than it should. When you try and tell me I'm a sexist because I don't like bad movies you've lost your mind. Reasonable people should have been able to win that one. Looking back I'm surprised there wasn't more push back.
/r/MensRights22/09/18 11:40 PM
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The ghostbusters reboot was terrible. It really bothered me that accepting it was terrible was taken as evidence that you are misogynist. Now that the hype has died down, it would be interesting if everyone who dismissed criticism of that movie as sexism can say it wasn't a bad movie with a straight face. Funnier still is that the black character was a caricature, but there is this hierarchy of discrimination thing where a character cannot be racist if it's in a film that empowers women.
/r/MensRights22/09/18 10:31 PM
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Yeah. I'm also thinking about a regimented indexable way for men to share their stories. Kind of a long form survey with style rules. There is not much conversation about men's lives. Men go through a lot of shit that no one ever hears about. Not only would you get some quantifiable information about how prevalent certain problems are, But you would also have a source of compelling first hand accounts. ​ If someone tries to tell you something doesn't really happen, or that it doesn't really matt…
/r/MensRights22/09/18 06:09 AM
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Yup. I think it's really important to tread lightly and be respectful when you are in somebody else's house. You are trying to convince people who are not inclined to believe you to consider an idea they aren't inclined to like. Some people there are going to be completely close minded & won't act in good faith. But there are 106k people there. Some will be willing to listen to reasonable people. Reasonable people often find common ground, and a way to work together to further both of their caus…
/r/MensRights22/09/18 05:26 AM
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Honestly I would be really grateful if anyone from r/feminism would come here and share their position as calmly and respectfully as you did yours. It was clear that you made a real attempt to understand their position. You were respectful and clear when you disagreed. ​ A time will come when reason and reasonable discourse will prevail. But not today, and not on r/feminism ​
/r/MensRights22/09/18 04:47 AM
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That’s great man. I have been looking for this for years. This gets me thinking, What we are trying to do is important, but we are really bad at it. We are disorganized and almost completely ineffective. We need a Dropbox with all these studies. We need analysis of every 1 in 3 women stat.. and study. A list of men’s issues with talking points explained. A list of counter arguments to the most common bullshit A wiki for every case of injustice which made it to the news A regimented and indexable…
/r/MensRights20/09/18 02:22 AM
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I haven't been able to find the study But something like 3 out of 4 men in prison for sex crimes report very early sexual contact with a much older woman. Statutory rape is a real problem, but no one cares to see it prosecuted. You teach these kids a lesson when you tell them what happened to them is okay. When they later use the same lessons you taught them about what is an acceptable use of power then everyone remembers it's wrong again.
/r/MensRights20/09/18 01:40 AM
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It will be a good day when people admit that women are equally capable of both good and evil as men are. ​ As a childhood victim of abuse I will testify to it. Once people consent to actually see the problem in front of them their minds will be blown as to what they ignored. If we do it today your children will grow up in a much better world.
/r/MensRights20/09/18 01:23 AM
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Eh that’s only 16 years of having your wallet picked after being kicked in the gut. I honestly think this goes on just because A the state doesn’t want to pay B no one has any empathy for the guy, so why not him. It’s not that people rationalize this situation as just & we don’t agree. I think it just doesn’t matter to them that this guy is actively getting screwed for 16 more years. Some people probably think he deserves it; despite not knowing anything else about him. What do you think it cost…
/r/MensRights19/09/18 06:36 AM
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honestly I'm going to need to hear you walk though the logic before you say it's faulty.
/r/MensRights19/09/18 04:56 AM
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There's no devil in those details. If she were lying or wholly manufacturing a story she could have kept the story perfectly consistent between tellings. It's entirely likely that there as a transcription error, that she was crying, that she miss spoke. These are all perfectly common things. And they don't even matter. It's very unlikely that she made the story up in anticipation of a day no one could predict. ​ Besides that, the comment was on the quality of the reporting. The author might not …
/r/MensRights19/09/18 04:21 AM
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sorry, I was saying that the debate as to what % of people are repeat offenders are has no bearing on the merits of the case. It's really hard to say how many people are single offenders, in the case of sexual harassment they are difficult to identify because you do have only that one chance. A similar account (hopefully also with pre-nomination confirmation) would absolutely go a long way to settling the debate.
/r/MensRights19/09/18 12:30 AM
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he's being denied a lot more than simply being on the Supreme Court. He's being slandered nationwide and considered a sexual predator, which has very serious consequences. Fair point. This is something that we handle very poorly as a society. We could do so much better for both accusers and accused. What we have now is the worst of both worlds best of none. one thing that would help bolster the case is having other women come forward, since genuine predators very rarely do it once. This has no b…
/r/MensRights19/09/18 12:09 AM
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all fair questions. I really question the timing; if this was so important, why sit on it until after the confirmation hearing? Who the fuck knows. It could be strategy, could just be real life & things just work out the way they do. Even if the timing is strategic, it doesn't make the accusation more or less credible. She did reach out to at least one reporter who didn't run with the story. Would you know who to contact and how and when? I'm going to say that I am sufficiently convinced it's no…
/r/MensRights18/09/18 11:42 PM
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and that she’d never before mentioned to me or anyone, It appears that she did in fact mention it to her therapist years prior to his nomination. I don't know if Matt Walsh was unaware of this, or is intentionally misleading readers. It is however factually inaccurate and has not been corrected. and she can't remember the exact date or even the exact year or even the exact location of the crime, Do we know that she cannot? or only that she has not yet. There are enough legitimate concerns with t…
/r/MensRights18/09/18 10:02 PM
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These are all fair questions. ​ It's far from ideal that the accusation wasn't made at a time that it could be properly investigated or prosecuted. But we know life is often not ideal. I'm a dude who was a victim of statutory rape, I didn't realize the harm that it would cause until much later in life. Aside from the fact that it's too late, I'm not particularly interested in seeing justice done today either. It would be an unpleasant process for me to endure. But if I found out this woman was g…
/r/MensRights18/09/18 08:10 PM
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There isn't much evidence to support this, But Asia Argento appears to be a terrible and toxic person. I wouldn't be surprised if she played a role in Bourdain's decision.
/r/MensRights17/09/18 11:54 PM
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I have an absolute ton of respect for Rose McGowan for releasing this statement. ​ There is a narrative that any man who thought #metoo or it's participants were in any way imperfect was an apologist, or somehow complicit. That anyone too slow to raise the pitchfork was themselves a monster in hiding. I'm really glad to hear someone standing up for the underage victim and speaking against the adult predator. Of course gender shouldn't matter in this circumstance, but it clearly does when we talk…
/r/MensRights17/09/18 11:49 PM
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Just had to point out that this is the first time I have recognized someone on the internet as someone I have spoken to before in 20 years. You are the most memorable person I have met online, and not for any good reason. I don't think you have the ability to evaluate your behavior and ability, but please realize that you are remarkable. That you can be recognized for being obnoxious and unpleasant should be a warning sign. The last time we spoke I thought English was not your first language unt…
/r/MensRights17/09/18 09:13 PM
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The idea that an 8 year old cannot meaningfully consent to sexual contact should be fucking obvious. It's weird that people don't get it. when you are under age you are not savvy enough to understand sexual contact. When the other party is much older & wiser & possessing the authority of age there is tremendous potential for harm. That some people are cool with it is one of the strangest aspects of this sub. I'm glad they have the luxury of ignorance by not having been a victim themselves. And I…
/r/MensRights17/09/18 08:15 PM
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It’s obvious that it is staged. It’s over the top obvious. You can still debate whether or not it’s okay, but your outrage would be better spent on video documenting a real event.
/r/MensRights17/09/18 06:52 AM
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Jesus Christ you are off putting. You are talking to someone who enjoys arguing with others & hearing their viewpoints. I understand that you are a subjectivist and merit is not something you are able to consider. I understand that you are not a person worth engaging with. I'm sure you've never lost an argument in your life. This is not because you are as smart as you think you are, it's because you don't hold yourself to any kind of standard. .... I Think I recognize your spiel and username fro…
/r/MensRights17/09/18 06:40 AM
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and for skipping it It doesn't matter if you are right if you break the rules. Even if you are breaking the rules as a protest, you have to also be willing to accept the consequences otherwise it's meaningless. ​ Next time, take the class. Do your research. Take issue with unproven assertions & have facts to back up your claims. It will not only be more effective, but you will have actual grounds to protest if people try to punish you. I hope you get your shit together. You are probably right ab…
/r/MensRights17/09/18 06:26 AM
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The problem is when you prejudge an individual based on the group they belong to. If you are allow your knowledge (which is often inaccurate) of a group to color your perception of an individual you are treating that person unfairly. As an example If you are a juror and you are trying to determine if a black man robbed a store, if you take his race into account because you believe black people are more inclined to criminality, you have denied that man justice. If you have two house guests over a…
/r/MensRights17/09/18 06:02 AM
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Being that this is staged, I don't know if there is any point in discussing it. Let's have some standards for ourselves.
/r/MensRights17/09/18 05:49 AM
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That is a fair point. There is an argument that as a minor he is less responsible for his actions. Less, but not zero. ​ Trying to rape someone is bad. The supreme court is an important institution. An attempted rapist is not qualified plain and simple. Yes, it would be unjust to prosecute him at this point. But we aren't talking about putting him in jail. We are trying to determine if he is a suitable candidate for a very important job.
/r/MensRights17/09/18 05:45 AM
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I'm pretty sure being against rape is well in line with MRA ideology. He accepts that they are as of yet unconfirmed allegations. I don't see why this pisses you off. Please read the account. If you think that it is an acceptable way for one person to treat another, you are in the wrong place. ​ I'm not sure why you think this means he let's other people fuck his girlfriend. I'm gonna guess that your just a nasty fuck with no integrity who only cares about winning. Which is sad because I also ha…
/r/MensRights17/09/18 05:32 AM
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Should I assume this refers to Kavanaugh? I don't see why it's relevant that the alleged event occurred in the 80s. ​ Sure it's not ideal that the case wasn't investigated and prosecuted in the 80s, but that doesn't mean the facts of the case have changed since then. Either he tried to rape someone or he didn't. If he tried to rape someone he is not qualified for the bench (I really hope you agree with this). It remains to be seen how strong the case is. I hope you have the personal integrity to…
/r/MensRights17/09/18 05:23 AM
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I think in their guts they are okay with it. But they aren't so okay with it that they will say it out loud. It's time for us to control at least 50% of the conversation.
/r/MensRights17/09/18 03:47 AM
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yup Hopefully one day feminists will realize that by not allowing women to suffer the consequences of their choices, they are not respecting women's agency in having made those choices. If you work less, you will get paid less. If you work more, you will get paid more. If you choose a low paying field, you will make less. If you choose a high paying field, you will make more. You can't work less and get paid more without cheating. That you think the losers deserve it doesn't make it just. Women …
/r/MensRights16/09/18 07:05 PM
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Don't forget that in the US 5,000 boys are circumcised a day for no reason beyond tradition, and possibly aesthetics. (although it's kinda weird that people even have preferences for how they want baby dicks to look) It's a statistical inevitability that there will be accidents. All for something which confers no medical benefit whatsoever. It's really telling to me that people are more alarmed and concerned with toddlers getting their ears pierced than they are will a much greater number of boy…
/r/MensRights14/09/18 01:26 AM
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agreed. This count's as a handshake in my eyes. Hopefully one of us remembers. ​ ​ ​ ​
/r/MensRights13/09/18 06:18 PM
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That’s not a fair. Taking the time to research an issue and make a fair case doesn’t imply your case is weak. There isn’t a blood test or some impartial judge somewhere you can query. What qualifies someone as a racist & if you can prove they meet those standards is a judgment every individual has to make. For me personally, if you can give the wrong answer to any these questions you are a racist. Given the same opportunities and education is it expected that one race will perform better than an…
/r/MensRights12/09/18 11:42 PM
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Of course she is not going to be better than a good male tennis player. Men and women are apples and oranges when it comes to sport. She may have forgotten that but there is no reason that we should also. That she isn’t as good as an apple doesn’t mean she isn’t an incredible orange. Over time she has been better than 99% of her peers 99% of the time. Of course she can misattribute something to racism/sexism, either earnestly or cynically while also being an exceptional athlete.
/r/MensRights12/09/18 05:49 PM
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Look, It’s entirely fair to establish where the goal posts are before someone has a chance to move them. An honest argument with citations could take hours. It’s fair to ask whether or not it’s a futile endeavor. Some people wouldn’t be convinced even by a tape. It’s strange to me the you guys are so confident but won’t even answer one or two questions anonymously.
/r/MensRights12/09/18 05:39 PM
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How about a friendly bet. Within 10 years a tape or otherwise incontrovertible proof will come out of trump using the word as an epithet. (and not quoting something, or reading a book, or saying: you should never call someone a nigger). 100$ to a men’s charity of the winners choosing.
/r/MensRights12/09/18 05:22 PM
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I’m gonna sleep so I’ll just ask a bunch of questions. If you answer I’ll answer when I wake up. Has trump done anything that would imply or make it appear he believes darker skinned people are inferior to lighter skinned people? Has trump done anything that that would imply or make it appear he believes darker skinned people are equal to lighter skinned people? Does trump trump speak out against racist individuals/groups? Does trump accept endorsements from racist individuals/groups Does trump …
/r/MensRights12/09/18 12:15 PM
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It's fair to argue someone is a racist if they vote for Trump because it's quite clear that Trump is a racist and planning to act on it. The whole situation is a shit sandwich tho so there isn't much point.
/r/MensRights12/09/18 10:36 AM
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Serena is what happens when you think you are gods gift to the sport It doesn't excuse bad behavior, but she is a pretty exceptional athlete. I've certainly never worked as hard or been as good at something as she is tennis.
/r/MensRights12/09/18 10:29 AM
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Do you have a citation for decades old secret AI? What you believe is almost assuredly not true, but I am curious who told you it was.
/r/MensRights12/09/18 10:26 AM
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You are talking to two separate people who made different but not dissimilar points. Not the same person 3 times.
/r/MensRights12/09/18 10:22 AM
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I think the truth is women pick careers based on what they want to do more often than men do. Men choose careers based on status and earning potential first, and what the individual man would like to do most second. Women are more free to make that choice because they don't need career success to have access to love and affection in the same way that men do. Also men less often have their lifestyle subsidized by family or spouse or state so they cannot afford to not chase money. Of course it cou…
/r/MensRights12/09/18 08:34 AM
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no need. You either think it's okay or you don't think it's okay. Presumably you aren't fucking children so it's not that big of a deal that you don't realize it's a genuine problem with actual harm done to real and vulnerable people. ​
/r/MensRights12/09/18 02:39 AM
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3 out of 4 men in prison for sex crimes report having very early sexual experiences with significantly older women. ​ There is no reason to think a child is meaningfully able to consent to sex with an adult because that child also has a penis. There is also an abundance of evidence that it commonly causes harm and pain. Sadly many of these children grow up to commit their own offenses and cause even more harm and pain. Adults fucking children isn't good. I had sex with a decade plus older woman …
/r/MensRights11/09/18 10:11 PM
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I wish I could find it, But there is a study where 3 out of 4 men in prison for sex crimes report having very early sexual contract with a significantly older woman. It's a shame that we don't take this problem seriously. No one cares that it predictably harms boys or makes them more likely to be later offenders. But when they become the offender everyone cares again. When you are a child and you get fucked by an adult, you learn that power dynamics like that are appropriate. When everyone aroun…
/r/MensRights11/09/18 10:05 PM
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You can either get off more often so it's less of an issue. Or you can take drugs (like finasteride) to lower your testosterone. Being attracted to women is a pretty fundamental part of being a man. It's likely that if you could turn yourself into an asexual being it would do more harm than good. It seems like your issue is the way you act when you are attracted to someone. I don't know what to tell you except don't act that way anymore. If you feel awkward, or guilty, or weird for wanting to fu…
/r/MGTOW09/09/18 07:20 PM
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The Patriarchy is such a flexible idea that I'm not convinced it means anything anymore. Are the people in power disproportionately men? by many measures yes. But then again men do a disproportionate share of everything & are disproportionately represented in every metric both good and bad. Is this alone evidence of bias? no. the fact that 99.98% of men are not in powerful positions, and 99.99% of women are not in powerful positions is not evidence of much. Is there any real evidence that the .0…
/r/MensRights09/09/18 06:56 PM
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Am I dumb or does this make no sense whatsoever. Is this a joke? if so it needs some context.
/r/MensRights09/09/18 06:08 PM
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yeah. A 30 years past ex shouldn't even have the right to interact with you, much less your bank account. The fact that she was able to use a court to ruin his day is wrong. That she managed to get almost 400,000 dollars is a joke. ​ support herself after the divorce like every bloody other person If a woman is impoverished after a divorce the state will have to pick up the slack. Coincidentally it's the state who decides and enforces the law. Same as child support in cases where the man is not …
/r/MensRights09/09/18 03:56 AM
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If you think Mr. Rogers is problematic you are lost. He taught kindness, which is a quality that requires strength first and foremost. It's not something you perform for other people, but for yourself. He taught that everyone, just by virtue of being a human has value and is unique. He taught people to have standards for how they should be treated by others, and to hold yourself to those same standards. He taught the value of community & that as a human you have an obligation to your neighbor. .…
/r/MGTOW09/09/18 02:01 AM
2

it must have been all the soy that I ate.
/r/MGTOW07/09/18 11:13 PM
1

wait, do you honestly think I associate myself with the girl in red & it's causing me distress? or are you just trying to turn the tables... My criticism isn't that you are mean, but that you are putting on a performance where you build up, and then knock down a strawman, hoping that people here will see it and give you external validation that you are tough and smart. I guess the thing that offends me is that you are trying to include me in your fantasy role-play. Do you not see that you are ju…
/r/MGTOW07/09/18 11:03 PM
2

fuck, now you and I are on the same wavelength.
/r/MGTOW07/09/18 10:24 PM
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you and I are on a different wavelength.
/r/MGTOW07/09/18 08:16 PM
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To be honest BPD was a second hand diagnosis from my sisters shrink. Shrinks aren’t supposed to do that & my sister is an unreliable narrator in the rare moments she is coherent. Who knows what her problem actually was. Her brother who I met later in life told me she was diagnosed as “pre-schizophrenic” at 16. (This would be in the early 70s) she used to spike my grandmother (who I didn’t meet until my teens) with LSD for fun. My uncle filled me in that everything I had been told about my extend…
/r/MensRights07/09/18 08:12 PM
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My sister is a 40 year old shut in alcoholic who hasn’t said a single kind or honest word/worked an honest day/done a decent thing in at least a decade. Before I gave up and cut her off (she was an unrelenting financial and emotional burden that made no effort & paid no dividend) I was wondering if she actually has the mind of a child or if she is just a terrible liar with no regard or empathy for other people. as for myself, I suffer from (deep) depression relatively often & anxiety pretty cons…
/r/MensRights07/09/18 07:56 PM
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There are a lot of legitimate criticisms to be made about society in general & women in specific, ​ But you are right, Your life is your responsibility. When you screw up it's your fault. I'm glad some people here can see that.
/r/MGTOW07/09/18 03:50 PM
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since I am not on twitter & I think it's important to document this stuff. My mother had BPD and despite the fact it was obvious she was unwell people refused to see it. She was physically abusive, emotionally abusive,neglectful & she intentionally isolated me from my extended family & manipulated myself, my sister, and my father to keep us at ends in order to maintain her fiefdom. I also found out later that she would sabotage my friendships with peers for reasons only she understood. she used …
/r/MensRights07/09/18 02:22 PM
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That could all be true, But you aren’t stomping down radicals when you come to mgtow & preach to the choir. You also shouldn’t take other people’s bad behavior as license to do the same exact thing. If you believe you are better then someone, you should be able to demonstrate it with your actions. but they started it Is how a child justifies their actions. The m in mgtow stands for men. It’s not unreasonable to expect you to use all the facilities of a man and act like one. So far you have tried…
/r/MGTOW07/09/18 01:48 PM
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Do you feel like I tore you down or degraded you? Nothing I did was intended to make you feel weak, or small, or dumb. I’m holding you to the same standards that I would any adult male, because I don’t know any reason you can’t meet them. I guess I could be more delicate in my approach, but the tone of your post is advertising that you don’t need to be handled with kid gloves. no offense intended, but you just hit me with I know you are but what am I Pee Wee Herman might be a bit before your tim…
/r/MGTOW07/09/18 12:19 PM
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This sub advocates celibacy. It’s one of my big problems with the doctrine. It’s hard to imagine that it would be such a well regarded idea if the sub really did have higher than average testosterone. I actually wish it were true. This sub needs more self assured and assertive commenters, 90% of the posts are injured men licking their wounds after having fully accepting defeat. It’s time to actually go your own way and become something you can be proud of on your own merits. Stop trying to make …
/r/MGTOW07/09/18 10:41 AM
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If you don't use it you lose it. These are prime years for fucking. Your plan to be celibate for a decade & then pick up where you left off at 40 is not wise. Not to mention your prowess & the candidate pool is worse at 40 compared to 28. It's okay to focus on career, and not let chasing tail distract you, but not getting laid doesn't give you super powers like nofap seems to think. You can decide that women aren't worth the hassle, but it's just plain dumb to think you cannot afford to get laid…
/r/MGTOW06/09/18 05:58 PM
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It's empirically demonstrable that women are less likely to be charged, less likely to be convicted, receive lesser sentences, and are granted an early release faster and more often. But Comparing any two sentences is just anecdote & probably (cherry picking). We shouldn't accept weak evidence like this when used against us, and we certainly should hold ourselves to a higher standard. We need to do much better than this. ​ Both of these cases are from Australia btw.
/r/MGTOW05/09/18 07:20 AM
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It’s been years since I talked up this particular issue. But people are gonna say they want their babies penis to look like all the others That it’s actually a hygiene issue That phimosis (as rare as it is) makes it necessary That it doesn’t matter/is harmless/ is good That it’s a false equivalency with FGM which is the real problem & why don’t you do something about that Aside from the fact that it’s a men’s issue, you are asking people to care about something in addition to all the things they…
/r/MensRights04/09/18 05:51 PM
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Oh yeah. I’m not trying to convince you not to, but I would like to hear back after you try. Like I said, it seems really obvious. But people won’t care & will think you are a misogynist (by association) because you don’t think we should mess with baby penises. It’s crazier than you think out there. People believe it’s a zero sum game, that anyone who doesn’t want male babies harmed also wants to hurt women. Even worse, that misogyny is your primary goal & circumcisions are a cynical Trojan hors…
/r/MensRights04/09/18 05:16 PM
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Well, I hope you do bring this issue to people & that you get a better reaction than I do. It doesn’t hurt to try & you might know different types of people than me. Cosmetic surgery on babies should be an obvious one, but I find people are much more outraged by toddlers getting their ears pierced than infants having their genitals irreparably altered.
/r/MensRights04/09/18 04:52 PM
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5,000 babies have unneeded cosmetic surgery on their genitals every day. It should be a bigger deal, but it's not. I don't think it will work as a centerpiece for MRM because it's a tit for tat problem, and we cannot win those. Yes, it's obviously dumb, and cruel, and unnecessary, but we haven't been able to escape the idea that helping men defacto oppresses women. Justice is not a zero sum game, but to be honest even acknowledging men need help is dismissed as oppressing women. ​ You can demons…
/r/MensRights04/09/18 04:09 PM
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I'm glad to see posts like this. So much of this sub is just bitter people complaining about women. Almost no one is trying to make their lives better, they are just trying to justify and share their misery. Good for you for actually doing something positive and healthy with your time.
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 05:05 PM
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First, don’t think it’s pathetic to show weakness, It’s something only strong people can afford to do. In the short term find whatever salve you can. Long term though you are going to need to add positive things into your life. Things you can find value in. Since your here, I’m guessing a romantic relationship isn’t an option, but that’s to reason not to invest in platonic relationships. Do some volunteer work or help improve your community. It’s not a secret there are a lot of men out there who…
/r/MGTOW01/09/18 06:16 AM
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Someone being offended by the language was never my concern. My two issues are it's annoying to witness someone shout drive-by vulgarities. It's a waste of time & often gets in the way of actual discussion. the person doing it is obviously suffering & when you see someone suffering you should check in and try to help. Even if someone is acting like a child that doesn't mean they aren't a fully developed human deserving of care and empathy. Also I know how this world treats reject men, so it seem…
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 11:58 PM
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again, there is a big difference disapproving and being an asshole. You can shame someone just fine without being vulgar and acting out. If anything it's more effective when you can remain calm and present yourself as a reasoned and thinking individual. Besides, for your plan to work you have to establish yourself as someone with an opinion worthy of regard and consideration. Most people recognize that type of person and the type of person who anonymously hurls vitriol on the internet are mutual…
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 11:34 PM
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Sure, if you invite attention you can’t control the attention you get. But I was talking to the guy who got vulgar in his opening gambit. I wanted to know why he did it & I’ll give him his due, he understood why and admitted it. What’s wrong with civilly disagreeing with someone? Why are you advocating for name calling? I understand the harms (you make people feel like shit & people are less inclined to listen to your message). But I don’t see the upside. OP said he feels better when he can make…
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 01:57 PM
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Cool. Thanks for answering honestly. I was certainly judgmental but I was honesty curious what you got out of it. The way I saw the exchange, Someone was being open and honest with their life, maybe it was good maybe it was bad, but in general honest stories are good & useful to hear. Now you had an opportunity to share your feelings on their story with thousands of people. It’s likely many wouldn’t agree (because to be honest it is sex negative & most people are okay with sex). But your attitud…
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 02:16 AM
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again, if you aren't actually trying to communicate with people why are you talking? It's almost as if you go out of your way to make sure people don't listen to your opinion. Is it just to make yourself feel good? if so insulting people is a pretty terrible way to do it. Are you just trying to annoy people you don't like?
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 01:11 AM
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don't forget you were getting in the way of your friends who were trying to get laid. Sex might not be your cup of tea but plenty of people do like it. You were all assholes in this story.
/r/MGTOW29/08/18 10:47 PM
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Your coworkers are being polite and friendly. Why are you calling them cucks? why are afraid of them knowing what you do? If you prefer to be private just say something short and polite. Or sidestep the question & ask what they got up to. nothing much, same old stuff etc. I get that everyone has different levels of social skills, but you are imagining threats where there are none. Your coworker was being friendly and polite, it's not a trap or a trick. You should try being friendly back. You can…
/r/MGTOW29/08/18 07:24 PM
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What is the point of being a dick? You are presenting a message many people disagree with, and doing it in a way that 0% of people will actually listen. If you want people to consider your message you have to choose one Unpopular opinion OR be an asshole. You can’t do both. If you don’t want people to listen why are you bothering to post? Your opinion is valid and worthy of consideration, but they were right to ban you for your delivery.
/r/MGTOW29/08/18 05:29 PM
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self defense... The jurors knew she was guilty but chose not to convict. There is no way you can bite someones testicles (by accident) in an attempt to defend yourself.
/r/MensRights29/08/18 02:28 AM
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Double check my post history before you dismiss me as a SJW troll. I have a CMV on political correctness. This sub has very little of men going their own way. It’s all defeated men licking their wounds. That is okay, men need support too, but there should be some talk about adding positive things into your life and the world around you. 90% of what’s posted here is just complaining about women, these complaints often have merit, but there is nothing offering a path for men to go their own way li…
/r/MGTOW28/08/18 03:21 PM
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OP wasn't talking about going his own way, he was talking about hiding.
/r/MGTOW28/08/18 02:26 AM
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This is a terrible way to model the world. Life is not a war, avoiding life isn't clever. It is cowardly. People aren't against you, they are for themselves. Instead of being afraid of everyone and on guard all the time, try having a little faith in yourself. Are you so weak that people can easily take advantage of you? You act like it. Are you so weak that you can't survive and thrive during occasional hardship and adversity? You act like it. Most people are fundamentally decent who just don't …
/r/MGTOW27/08/18 05:58 PM
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That would kind of you. I started with a throw it against the wall and see what sticks approach, and then like real noodles discovered I had made way more than I intended. The main idea I’ve been trying to articulate is that it’s good that we re-evaluated men and recognized bad behavior. Being that women are also imperfect creatures it should follow that they have some qualities in need of redress too. It’s kind of a trap where if you accept A is true, and B is true, then C should follow. That n…
/r/MensRights14/08/18 04:09 PM
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yours is an interesting point I hadn't heard before. All of this is so damned complicated, and we have zero change of figuring out what is just & how to achieve it when people get fired just for talking honestly. I'm a lefty, and I don't understand how the rest of the left doesn't realize that if you are not allowed to debate something you will never get it right. garbage in=garbage out. ... I just checked your comment history because I wanted to see what else you had to say. Imagine my surprise…
/r/MensRights14/08/18 08:49 AM
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Thanks again for being very patient & much more fair minded than the average person.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 08:10 PM
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Then why not list your positions? I asked a whole bunch of different ways & I think you knew exactly what I was asking from the get go. What are women doing that is harmful/problematic/immoral/unethical/unfair/unjust? You know you can and would answer this question for men, why can’t or won’t you answer it for women? It’s weird because we didn’t have any trouble communicating openly and frankly until this question.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 11:50 AM
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Okay man thanks for your time. I did my best to communicate my question. I’m taking your answers to mean that you cannot think of, or are not willing to speak of anything problematic in the way women act or treat other people. It seems we’ve reached the limit of what information I can get out of you about what you believe. From my position it does appear that you are avoiding answering my question or you believe women are more or less perfect already. Thanks again for all your time and patience.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 10:43 AM
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I hear you, but you do know what I'm asking. It's generally accepted that there are things men should be doing differently, or that problems exist that are largely the fault of men. and that was even more true in 1950. had I asked you "what are men doing wrong" or "what should men be doing better" or "how are men harming society" "what common behaviors of men are problematic" in a different conversation I don't think you would have hesitated to answer. Certainly you can admit most other people w…
/r/MensRights13/08/18 07:50 AM
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Ok. It sounds like sidestepping, but no is a fair answer. Out of curiosity do you make the same point when the subject is what men need to change?
/r/MensRights13/08/18 02:52 AM
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first I want to give you credit for a clever screen name. I found it really reassuring that there was a woman not only interested in men's issues, but willing to listen to a different perspective without attacking. The fact that you are actually a dude is disappointing. It's a shame you that you start every conversation with a lie by default. Anyway I do have one question, Is there anything in your eyes that women are doing that deserves redress?
/r/MensRights13/08/18 12:35 AM
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If you aren't mad, it's even more sad that you are so consistently nasty. Now that you understand your mistake it would be appropriate to apologize for calling me a marxist, and to reevaluate the argument you misunderstood and judged "without merit". Especially since it wasn't an argument. It's ironic that you are so fond of your intellect, but are passing up an obvious opportunity to learn. You should reread our entire exchange. I probably have more faith that you can do better than you do.
/r/MensRights12/08/18 06:49 AM
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but it needs to be done with an understanding of how it can negatively impact the lives of others if done inappropriately that is fair and decent, but I think the people asking for this consideration also have an obligation to provide clear boundaries and guidelines as to what is forbidden. I don't know what greater consideration Damore should have given. If you read what he wrote, it's pretty clear (to me) he made every effort possible. It's not really clear to me that anyone is allowed to, I c…
/r/MensRights12/08/18 06:34 AM
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It really bothered me that nothing you said made any sense whatsoever. I think I understand what happened. You read >but it is one way among many to model the world And thought that "model" meant a plan to shape the world. A model is a way to understand or describe a system. Like a climate model. It is descriptive, not prescriptive. It's a way to discuss something, not a plan to do something. You seem to misunderstand people and assume the worst at the same time. You probably wouldn't have to be…
/r/MensRights12/08/18 06:12 AM
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The self fulfilling prophecy part is true, and if women are more susceptible we should figure out what we can do to change that. A lot of the studies that validated this concept have been invalidated though. Social science was always soft, but it turns out it was pretty terrible for a long time. I don't know if I entirely agree with the subconscious priming, but of course my own mind is my only reference, and it is subconscious after all. I hate to say it, but we do know there are some differenc…
/r/MensRights12/08/18 05:54 AM
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Even if they don't qualify as toxic femininity, do you have an opinion on any of them being real or fake? harmful or not?
/r/MensRights12/08/18 05:23 AM
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you are right that I don't understand the Damore reaction. He didn't attack women's ability, but their level of interest. He even included a chart to demonstrate that despite the differences between genders there is still a significant overlap. Even if a woman is less likely to be or do X, it doesn't mean the ones who X are inferior to men who X. Making everyone part of a group and not recognizing them as individuals is part of the problem. In most other contexts that is stereotyping. Also how d…
/r/MensRights12/08/18 04:58 AM
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I've been on the internet many years, the vast majority of people asking for an explanation are dishonest and only seek to waste the other person's time. My assessment at that time was that you are not like those people. dude, stop trying to have conversations with people other than the one you are talking to. How am I possibly supposed to know what your previous experiences and assumptions are. You are not listening I am clearly struggling to understand you. I am rarely mistaken in my assessmen…
/r/MensRights12/08/18 04:30 AM
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I hear you, but I'm more interested in what other people find valuable/useless. You don't owe me anything, no worries.
/r/MensRights12/08/18 04:10 AM
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That does not parse out to have hypocrisy or dishonesty. I don't say this to be mean, but is english not your first language? If so, please accept my apology in advance. who is talking about dishonesty or hypocrisy? What are we parsing out? Why are you being needlessly verbose? I can't tell if you are reading between the lines of what I wrote, Taking what I said to it's logical extreme and not including me with the dozen steps a long the way, or if you accidentally replied to the wrong comment. …
/r/MensRights12/08/18 04:08 AM
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You lost me there. I will listen to you if you walk it back a bit and explain how you got from point a to b. I also listen to JP but I think you might be shoehorning him and quoting him in the wrong context.
/r/MensRights12/08/18 01:44 AM
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still, I think it's a good time for us to collectively reevaluate what we consider acceptable behavior for women, what we reward them for and how, what we punish them for and how, and what standards we hold them to. Toxic masculinity may be retarded like you say, but it is one way among many to model the world. It might not be especially accurate but that doesn't mean it's useless. The world is just too complicated to ever fully articulate and understand, but we can grope around the edges of tru…
/r/MensRights12/08/18 01:35 AM
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PART TWO. I hit the character limit somehow I actually believe woman can do almost anything a man can, I just wish they did. If women were inventing things, building things, and doing things at the same rate as men, we would have a lot more cool stuff. The idea that men aren't letting women thrive doesn't hold that much water, nobody lets anybody do anything, if you want it done you have to do it, nobody actually gives you permission. The truth is we hold women to about the same standards and ex…
/r/MensRights11/08/18 11:47 PM
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I don't know what the actual definition of toxic masculinity is, but it has devolved to anything men do that you don't like. Even if it's not inherent to masculinity, or something only/mostly done by men. By those standards toxic femininity should also exist, here's what I could come up with as a first pass, I know it's gonna sound bitter, But we have spent 50 years reevaluating how men should act, the fact that we haven't done the same with women is crazy, and ironically due to toxic femininity…
/r/MensRights11/08/18 11:45 PM
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I'm still not sure why I subbed here, you guys are all too injured to think straight. Every post is trying to justify why you are miserable. I never see anything here about going your own way, or making anything better. Men are expected to be better than their nature, and largely are. We don't hold women to that same standard. That's it. That is the whole problem. Women aren't inherently shitty (any more than men), or cruel, or dumb. It's just that they get to live, and act, and think more like …
/r/MGTOW10/08/18 03:10 PM
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Thanks man. I enjoy telling people off, so I am glad for the opportunity to do so guilt free.
/r/MensRights04/08/18 10:25 PM
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How so? I don’t think you understand what a straw man is. Also it’s my life, so eat a dick. I might be wrong, but you should still help yourself to a healthy serving of dicks. You probably have the luxury of ignorance because you live in a basement & have never done anything with real people.
/r/MensRights04/08/18 10:15 PM
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I had sex with a (at least) 24 year old when I was 14. She was my sisters friend & offered to help me study. She never did & instead we spent a month fucking. I thought it was cool at the time, it was not. She was gross, a loser, and a predator. It normalized some things in my mind that were not good. It also let me think some things I did in the future were okay, they weren’t. I hurt people I care about, and one reason is because this event and others taught me the wrong lessons about what is o…
/r/MensRights04/08/18 10:12 PM
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Good luck man. You are going to be doing a lot of things differently. Don’t forget diet & sleep are the foundation you build everything else on.
/r/MGTOW01/08/18 03:43 AM
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I was looking for a good charity to donate to men’s mental health. Haven’t found one
/r/MensRights01/08/18 03:36 AM
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The good news is things are finally getting stupid enough that people will take notice.
/r/MensRights01/08/18 03:35 AM
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I'm not sure what your point is. And I'm not sure you’re sure what your point is. You haven't said enough for anyone to explain where you are wrong, and you are confusing that for being right. It is very frustrating to watch.
/r/MensRights05/07/18 04:51 AM
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Dude if a woman has the forethought to recognize she shouldn’t have a child l don’t understand why people would want to force her. Do you think these aborted babies have nice, wholesome, and well nurtured lives? They often grow up broke and abused, which you don’t care about. But they are also often burdens on the state which you do. Pro-life is such a strange position for people on this sub to take. If you got a girl pregnant & did not want a baby, would you want the state to tell you your on t…
/r/MGTOW30/06/18 03:26 PM
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No problem man. Hang tough, from over here it looks like you are in pretty good shape
/r/MGTOW19/06/18 05:00 AM
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I had my head up my ass for awhile, didn’t mean I didn’t love my father. Our relationship changed a lot as I got older & since you are a good dad, I bet yours will too. At the same time, don’t be afraid to break their balls a bit. Send them a Father’s Day card with a note informing them they forgot to sign this.
/r/MGTOW19/06/18 01:15 AM
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So I agree that these things are entirely too possible. And to varying degrees society encourages and the state endorses many practices that are unfair and unfavorable to men. But I also believe this only enables shitty women to be more shitty, it doesn’t convert or entice decent women to turn to shit. I also believe that like men a gross majority of women are by nature decent people. So yes the stakes are high and there are risks, but if you find a partner the odds of them being terrible are pr…
/r/MGTOW07/02/18 12:01 AM
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