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You work for shit people then. I'm a programmer and it's awesome. Time spent at work: 8 hours max. Time spent working: 5 hours max. Time spent working HARD? 0 hours. It's a cush job, go dig ditches for a while if you're wanting some perspective.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 02:49 AM
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That does sound pretty gay. Got a garage? Get into woodworking. Wrench on your car. Build something. No garage? Same principle, but indoors. Get into electronics or whatever creative type shit you want. The goal is whatever your activity is, be learning/perfecting a skill while at the same time producing results and having fun. Figure out what that is on your own.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 01:21 AM
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I hear ya, that's why it won't work. My lazy ass is right there with ya, cashing checks and not giving a shit about contributing to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 10:29 PM
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It's a rationalization for people that don't want to put in the work, nothing more. Skilled people will get jobs, but it's not easy becoming a skilled person. Complaining about hypothetical job requirements is easy, so you see a lot of it.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:22 PM
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As a CS grad myself, I'd recommend spending some time in the field and see how you like it. The pay is great and sitting around all day in AC beats digging ditches. But if you find it isn't for you then apprenticing in a trade that has similar skills might be a good idea. You're getting the degree, use it a bit before you decide.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:19 PM
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Right and the answer is always "They din't do it right, but I will!" Riiiiiight
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 10:15 PM
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You're arguing against emotion, not facts, so don't expect to get very far
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 10:03 PM
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Insecure people gonna insecure, I guess. ¯\(ツ)/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 02:53 PM
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Go apprentice under someone doing a skilled trade. Go work in a kitchen/construction/whatever. Go learn something at a trade school. Go into debt for a university degree. Go join the army. There're a lot of options.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 01:25 PM
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So build credit and then do it? Again it's not hard, it just takes discipline, so my point stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 01:15 PM
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How convenient for you! Good luck out there...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 10:45 AM
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WELCOME TO THE RED PILL The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 10:16 AM
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Ain't no cure for an ugly mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 10:07 AM
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You keep cherry picking from my text, finding a single sentence to reply to and ignoring the facts and challenges I make to your argument. That's not how conversation works :) Race plays a part in sexual strategy, but it's not the end all be all. And TRP's advice remains the same: You're born with certain disadvantages but fuck you, overcome them. That is the message, biology is a bitch and we don't all have it as good as the next guy, but succeed anyway. So when you agree with race realism you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 10:04 AM
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What problem exactly? This is PPD so let's put the race thing aside (because TRP isn't about race it's about sexual strategy) and talk men/women... At what point does TRP claim that women should be controlled by men? Well shit, that's a loaded statement because you're using the word "controlled" in a derogatory way. In my experience the women in my life want a leader. Someone who will take control and ease their mind. That's what I've read on TRP, that's what I've experienced, but somehow people…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 09:48 AM
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Are we reading the same thread? All I saw was a guy speaking in generalities and then this guy getting asshurt :/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 09:41 AM
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...and? I agree that it's a mix of nature/nurture, but you never answered my question about where YOU stand. So here's a question for you regarding biology vs upbringing: Will most people born a retard (IQ <50), when placed in the right conditions, be nurtured to average (IQ ~100)? Will most people born a genius (IQ 140+), when placed in the wrong conditions, be nurtured to average? If the answer to either is no, welcome to the biological determinist camp. Our tents are all different sizes and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 09:36 AM
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This sub isn't about formal debate, we aren't going to regionals or anything... You have two options when you get this level of criticism, either address it head on and shut it down (because you, master debater, have the skills to do so) or file it under shitpost, ignore, and move on. Should the mods of the sub make that decision for you? Nah, you're capable of making your own decisions, because I say you can ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 09:28 AM
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Why do RPillers tend to be ultra biological determinists and think genes and evolutionary psychology are responsible for nearly all behaviors in society Are you taking the opposite stance? Clinical Psychologist have pretty much settled on the whole nature/nurture thing (meaning it's a mixture of both) and every day science is showing us ways in which nature wins (genetics). Where does it stop? Do you also have biological determinist views on other aspects of society too, like "poor people are ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 09:21 AM
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PPD will always uphold your right to white knight online, that's your God given right :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 09:09 AM
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Well put, that's what I was getting at with my reply but in a more roundabout way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 08:08 AM
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Basic feminine shit that compliments my masculine shit. If she's keeping me fed, taking care of the household, being the softness that tempers my hardness, etc then I'd have a hard time complaining about a few extra dicks (people in glass houses, after all). But absent those things, the juice ain't worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 08:05 AM
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Depends on the girl, the more she's bringing to the table the more leeway I'd have with the number. There's definitely an upper limit though, if a chick has 20+ something's up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 07:37 AM
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Housing prices outside of the big cities isn't that crazy. If you don't have 20% then you pay PMI on top of your mortgage. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 03:48 AM
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These new minimum wage laws are fucking eastern WA pretty hard though. But what's new, west side of the state drags its dick through everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 03:39 AM
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I didn't call you autistic, I was just using that Occam's Razor thing you mentioned before. Simplest answer, and all :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 02:12 AM
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Hahaha oh you're the kid that was claiming that there's some sort of global biological imperative, and women who dump you feel driven to help find you your next lay. 10/10 mate, it gave me a good laugh. Anyway autism aside, reproduction is a game. There are winners and there are losers, and everyone is playing to win individually. Biology plays a huge part in the game, individually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 01:17 AM
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http://i.imgur.com/cCJiL4N.jpg Of course I think genes factor into reproduction, what're you on about kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 01:00 AM
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For 99.9% of our existence sex and reproduction were inextricably related. Saying "that's just not how a lot of people approach it" seems silly, we're still very much slaves to our biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 11:13 PM
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If she doesn't want his problems to be her problems, why does she stay friends with him and ask him for favors? For the same reason I use Tinder. I don't have to own the cow and I get the milk for free. Orbiters are free resources without any commitment. I've even had exes say that if she ever gets bored with me and breaks-up with me as a result she'll help me find someone new because I'm such a great guy, but they never followed through on that promise. Sounds like quite a healthy relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 09:34 PM
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How common is it for women who dump a guy because they lost attraction towards him but think he's a great guy, friend, or whatever to help him find a new girl? Uncommon. As I understand it, if a woman doesn't wanna reproduce with a man, she considers his genes inferior, and would not want him to reproduce with other women either The second half of that statement is weird, I don't think people care at that grand of a scale. My exes are now somebody else's problem, that's where my give-a-shit ende…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 08:40 PM
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There's probably a fair amount of overlap. I doubt everyone who reads RP theory gets the same thing out of it, hell this sub is a great example of that. In practice I don't think it matters much. All roads lead to Rome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 02:08 AM
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I should put that on my CV... Not a terper, 2017 - Present
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 01:47 AM
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Rewarding work. Hard, but rewarding. Maybe I don't spend enough time in the sub itself (and maybe it's gotten more butthurt since the days I lurked hard), mostly I focus on the theory and ideas. Those, to me, read in very similar ways to the level of discourse on the job site which was a good thing. They say what need to be said and don't spare your feelings, in a tough love sort of way. Job sites are definitely NOT pity parties full of bitter dudes, so maybe we're talking two aspects of the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 01:46 AM
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Christ we're talking around each other and I'm getting bored... or maybe I just need a whiskey None of us--not reds or blues or whomever--can view r/TRP solely in the context of actual actions Yes we can, damnit. TRP says something like "when your woman acts irrational you can't react with rationality", so you go put that into practice and see the results. Those actions are real and measurable, and the words used to convey that message is what people get their panties bunched over instead of fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 01:19 AM
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Men weren't crass, no nonsense, straight talkers on your sites? What the hell were you building, support centers for men born with no balls? That's the kind of shit you'd hear all the time on any of my sites. They're locker rooms turned up to 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 01:00 AM
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That being said, there are obviously blues who take the most noncharitable way possible, that would be intellectually dishonest, particularly if they only do that to TRP posts/comments and no one else. I think we're saying the same thing, or close to it, just in different words. Either way arguing semantics is boring so I'm past it ;) TRP is written for men, by men, and as such it's rough around the edges and no nonsense. I've worked on construction sites and in kitchens, those atmospheres breed…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 12:09 AM
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Just a personal anecdote, but TRP has improved my relationships with women (both quantity and quality). I have a hard time arguing with the results, so I disagree with your last statement. And I think TRP is a little more pragmatic about the approach, not focusing too much on understanding what women are thinking and feeling, rather the results of our own actions and how to make better decisions when it comes to women. For a man, focusing on thoughts and feelings isn't a great place to start any…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 11:43 PM
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I think you're right, it's just so low effort
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 10:10 PM
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So no evidence, got it. Hopefully you'll one day kick the shitty habit, kettle
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 10:09 PM
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What beliefs do I hold that make me a shitty person? I can point to a handful of yours in this comment chain that definitely make you the kettle, so how am I the pot?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 10:03 PM
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I don't blame anyone, I don't care that people want to be intellectually lazy. It won't affect my life, except by making things easier by setting the bar lower :/ Anger is a powerful tool, for sure. There's nothing wrong with using a tool to build something, in fact it often aids in that building. On the other side you can misuse tools, or use them to destroy things. Maybe TRP doesn't focus enough on using tools properly to build, like I said I never got mad and needed to work through it. But my…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:58 PM
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The complete lack of self awareness from this one is astounding
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:51 PM
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Right, so you're a shitty person projecting his shitty attitudes on people to justify your own shitty tendencies. At least we know where you stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:50 PM
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Do you have an example where RP jumps the gun to evo psych and would be better served by looking at more traditional psych instead? I hadn't considered that before, but then again I don't think I've come across an instance where evolutionary realities and common sense didn't fit the prediction. Also I think there's a fair amount of regular psych in TRP, for example when talking about hypergamy you can point to pressures outside of evolution that affect how it manifests in practice. An example wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:47 PM
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You're right that the anger phase doesn't bring out the best in people, and you're also right that it's separate from RP ideas. TRP the sub gets a mix of both, and many of us have no problem sorting through it (though some of the more hyperbolic BPers in this sub have trouble with that). I found TRP a few years back, and it resonated with me. I never got angry, I never stopped loving women, I just found words to put to the things I had been observing in my life and feeling every day. Clarifying …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:40 PM
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So because you naively believe that the humanity of women is dismissed by TRP, it's ok to turn around and dismiss their humanity? Strange moral compass you have there, buttercup. Can't take the moral high ground when you're doing the same damn thing that you allegedly hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:32 PM
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It's too easy for emotional people to throw the baby out with the bathwater, the blue half of this exchange is a textbook example. You're right that the message is what matters, not the delivery. But it's simple for people to dismiss "assholes" rather than think/respond critically about what they're saying, because people are lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:26 PM
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Also I've never seen any advice on TRP that says "change women because they're the problem". All the advice is actually "change yourself because your understanding of women is the problem". And that advice works, which gives the blues, well, the blues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:23 PM
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You're right, we're all just sensitive, creative types yearning for an audience for our masturbatory RP novellas ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 11:38 PM
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you'd be better off educating yourself further instead of arguing with me. What a wonderful copout! I'm so right that if you disagree you better just get back to school you cretin ;) In many of the situations I described the wrong sort of behaviour (ESPECIALLY physical violence) will lead to getting attacked or raped Men are more likely to be the victims of violent crime, you want to take some sort of high ground regarding facts and academia, let your first stop on the education train be that. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 10:02 AM
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100% agree with the plausible deniability part, I'm batting 1000 with girls who have "not looking for hookups" in their profiles.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 07:28 PM
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Agree to disagree I guess. Please don't procreate :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:09 PM
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What a parent wants is infinitely less important than what a kid wants, you're kinda saying that with the whole child support thing and then saying exactly the opposite in the next sentence. Splitting up a family is bad for your kids and the height of selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:55 PM
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Holy shit at least pretend like you have some agency in life. This reads like a TRP primer, nobody is FORCING you to do shit, grow a sack and tell those low quality men to kick rocks. Ditch the victim mentality. Also our culture doesn't place value on women's looks, men do. In the same way women place value on a man's status and ability to provide. We all get objectified in one way or another, how you deal with it determines your character. Complaining about such trivial things speaks volumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:45 AM
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What a convenient way to absolve ones self of responsibility while at the same time reaping the benefits. I didn't say "have" no man, the discussion is need no man. Can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:38 AM
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I get along great with my female friends. Good, you should. Most of the women I know don't share your experience, which is a damn shame Alimony is becoming less and less common as women work more. So we agree it's an outdated concept and time to get rid of it? Cool. Child support however is about financially supporting a child, not an adult woman. But wait, thought the point was you don't need a man to support you and your decisions? Can't have your cake and eat it too (well, you can but that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:33 AM
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What a fun problem to have, right? Sorry Ethiopians, I know you're all starving but we're struggling too, we've got too much food and some of it doesn't taste great! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 10:35 PM
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Women tend to be more social and have better emotional and intimate connections with other women, negating their need for male companionship Yeah women friends are SO nice to each other ;) Also, women are income-earners now, and don't need to rely on men to supply them with an income. Good point, let's get rid of alimony and child support since women don't need no man. This results in women not needing men as much, which allows them to have an abundance mentality when it comes to romantic relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 10:31 PM
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Sure, I agree with that. That's my point more or less, it's easy to let yourself do that and then take up a moral high ground against the opposition, because it provides cheap happy feelings (the fast food metaphor). What's harder but ever more valuable is looking at both sides as well as your idea, challenging yourself and what you believe, and changing or reinforcing your beliefs based on evidence. But that doesn't fit the expectation of instant gratification most people have, which is why you…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 10:03 PM
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Haha I've never read Ann Coulter so I couldn't say. And all politicians are assholes, even Trump. Maybe less of an asshole than Hillary? Time will tell, or not. That being said I still agree with TRP theory, and I'd hazard a guess that most of us are able to think critically about the information and take it with grain of salt. Getting caught up on either extreme side is a fool's game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:25 PM
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I think there are plenty of middle people left, I'd venture to guess most people are middle people. It's no so much a symptom of "how polarized our views in America" have become, but rather "how polarized our portrayals of life in America" have become. Mark Manson said it pretty well in The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck (worth a read by the way, quick and informative), we live in a world where there is so much information that only the extremes are being reported because that's what get eyes/c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:21 PM
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I'm not sure that's atypical. I'm pretty much the same, pro legal immigration (welcome to the melting pot, pay your taxes dummies), pro whatever you wanna do to your body (as long as that shit doesn't affect me), socially pretty liberal and financially conservative, red. And I agree with /u/GinSmokeLies, if RPR was so mainstream it wouldn't need a separate sub. That should speak volumes to your assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:06 PM
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It'd be cool to see the stats on this, but my gut reaction says Hammer got it right and we're mostly UMC. I think it's more a cultural pushback against the current insanity of the Left, and while UMC people are more likely to be on the Left and WC folks are more likely to be on the right, it's gotten so silly that even classic liberals (like myself) find ourselves right of center. There's definitely overlap in the groups you mention, but it's an overlap of ideas more than demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:01 PM
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Young professional checking in. I see a lot of parallels between TRP and the current pushback happening from the Right vs the Left in America today. There's a little overlap but I don't think there's a correlation between our societal composition and TRP. I think we could maybe correlate the rise of TRP and the Right to the current madness of the Left and the resulting societal changes we've seen in the past decade, but that doesn't mean they're directly related.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:53 PM
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Why are you lying to a woman when you allegedly don't care if she bails? Why lie to a woman at all? Weak shit man. Either do the things you say you do, don't tell her shit about what you do on your own time, or let he know you're sick and roll with the punches. Lying and justification aren't masculine traits, dude.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 11:29 PM
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Spot on. Why take the word of some random assholes on the internet when you can go out and see for yourself? You shouldn't be accepting ANY of TRP without vetting it personally. Once you do that it's easy to see what the facts are, which posts go a little hard on the hyperbole, and which posts are just frustrated men venting.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 07:05 PM
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My generation invented hilarity. You're welcome ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 10:56 PM
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Must be my time of the month :/ I'm a sexist, yes. Men and women are different and should be treated differently. All of TRP agrees with that, and thus is sexist. I'm not a misogynist. I love women and they love me. An overwhelming majority of TRP doesn't hate women, and thus is not misogynistic. None of the basic maxims of TRP are misogynistic, that's counterproductive, though most of them are sexist. If a few "turds in the punch" are enough to get you to close your mind then there isn't much d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 11:24 PM
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How did you misinterpret (and then misrepresent) such a simple idiom? No wonder you're beating the "TRP is misogynistic" straw man, intellectual honesty and critical thinking aren't for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 10:59 PM
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Frame the post(s) as Q4RP and post here, seems like a reasonable middle ground. Not all TRP members are allergic to discussions that make us question our beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 10:11 PM
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That I don't throw the baby out with the bathwater, like some ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 10:07 PM
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So your views line up pretty close to TRP. I'm not gonna pull a TRP version of "If you believe in the equality of the sexes then you're a Feminist because that's what it means" on you, because we both know that's horse shit. But I will say that I think TRP is a lot less hateful/misogynistic than people claim. Most of us are moderate in our beliefs, and take a pragmatic or a la carte approach to TRP. We don't hate women, we love them and they frustrate us (a tale old as time). People on the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 08:53 PM
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Exactly. I know Ive heard people (that I trust as close friends) say they have seen wage discrimination with their own eyes. Ive seen people say they have seen it in their own lives and I dont think they would have a reason to lie. I don't doubt that there are some cases of actual sexism that occur. Same for racism. Or Ageism. Or whatever -ism you can think of. That is enough to prove that straight up sexist wage discrimination happens but its not enough to blanketly declare across the entire Am…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 08:37 PM
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I believe men and women are not equal under the law, but should be. The playing field is not level. Care to expand on that a bit? You've got the blue flair so it'd be a safe bet to assume you're saying women get the short end of the stick, but at the same time your "shit isn't fair but succeed anyway you pussy" response to OP is red as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 08:01 PM
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Actually I see them argue that if it exists for reasons other than discrimination you cant just say "women get paid less than men for the same work" because all of the nuance That's the part that most people take issue with. If you add up every penny earned by every woman, then add up every penny earned by every man, then divide the two you get the 77% figure that's thrown around. In no way is it honest to say that for the same work women are paid less. When you take into account hours worked, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 07:49 PM
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Men "settle down" because it increases the quality of offspring they have with that particular woman. Men "fuck around" on that same woman because it increases the quantity of offspring. Both are valid reproductive strategies, and a man who employs both has the greatest chance of successfully achieving his biological imperative (reproduction).
/r/askTRP06/04/16 01:59 AM
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Gotcha. I think the woman's decision to leave or not depends on the quality of man. Look at any high profile male who has ever been caught up in a cheating scandal. Pro athletes, actors, politicians, etc. Most of the time the woman knows he's cheating and will stay anyway (until it's made public and she is openly shamed by other women). Pretty basic TRP, women are willing to share high value men while high value men aren't willing to share women.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 07:58 PM
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Why do men cheat? We have a biological drive to fuck as often as possible with as many women as possible. It's an itch that we need to scratch. Why do women cheat? Women aren't biologically driven to fuck anything that moves, they are driven to find the best mate. Cheating is a woman saying "my current partner isn't good enough", it's personal. With men it's not personal, it's biological. This is why men are much more suited to having casual sex than women, and it's why it's not as bad when a ma…
/r/askTRP05/04/16 07:34 PM
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This is askTRP bud, if you want blue/purple perspectives go to their subs.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 07:27 PM
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"Stop what you're doing and leave" is standard RP advice, and it's exactly like /u/tenmileswide says above: If she actually means no then you're playing it safe. If she was only saying no then she'll change her tune very quick indeed. Either way you're doing the right thing. Anecdote: "No" has meant no for me a single time. Every other time (and I've lost count of how often this has happened to me) when I get a "no" and I pull back, before you know it she is the one initiating again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 07:04 AM
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And how!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 01:38 AM
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By needlessly tossing around insults and excess profanity you're turning those people off -- the more abrasive you are, the less people want to interact with you. See my canary in a mineshaft argument again. If you're going to cry like a bitch when someone uses a word you don't like then I care very little about your opinion, and chances are you're only going to try and language police my ass anyway. It's "identity politics" for the written word, only more boring. We've gone around in circles on…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 01:37 AM
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But why would you think you have to be in a "male space" to be totally honest? Among the privacy of my friends, or anonymous on the internet, I'm free to voice my unfiltered opinions and thoughts. In any other facet of my life, that's not the case. Here's an example: I like to tell inappropriate jokes. My humor is very spur of the moment saying something that's not appropriate or PC. That works when I'm in a male space, I was free to tell any joke I wanted on the construction site. Introduce wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 01:27 AM
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People tune out when you spam insults and curses. Your message gets through to fewer people, so effectively you're communicating less clearly. This is such a roundabout way of thinking I'm getting dizzy. Though that might be the whiskey. This is a fine rule of thumb for a sub like TRP, where outsiders are constantly trying to push their definition as to what's acceptable I've literally never seen someone in TRP push their moral agenda. I probably owe the mods a beer if it's so prevalent yet I've…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 12:52 AM
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I'm kind of confused why that sort of thing exists online It exists in male spaces, online or offline. Men bond through banter. when a guy turns to the other ice fisherman and says "I can't take another day of my awful wife" he doesn't really mean that either Venting isn't the same as bonding, though there's definitely some overlap. Here's an example: Buddy of mine was having a shitty day so I invited him over for beers. We're hanging out drinking and he's telling me about work being shitty and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 12:15 AM
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Do you care about communicating clearly? Did I not communicate my position clearly? Let me know which part and I'll try and make my point clearer. And I won't even say mangina. Probably. Adding frivolous insults does nothing but add static to the signal and drive away readers who are not already sympathetic to your ideas. I'd argue that it acts like a canary in a mineshaft. If I make a point and someone chooses to ignore that and instead take up the role of tone police, then it's time to batten …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 11:33 PM
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This venting and men talking to each other like men I'm not sure what this means. You could also call it locker room talk. Ever worked in a traditionally masculine or male dominated profession (carpenter, fisherman, roughneck, etc)? There you'll find some of the most foul mouthed, un-PC guys you've ever met. Or think about the old trope of male friendship. We say the meanest shit to our friends because we don't mean it and that's how we bond. "Men say say mean things to their friends and don't m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 11:12 PM
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Simple: Because I wanted to. I don't care if it polarizes people more. My goal isn't to prevent that (like anything I say has that kind of power anyway), I'm not Captain Un-Polarize-A-Ho. It's just my honest, unfiltered thought on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 09:23 PM
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Like the subs specifically, or the content each is based upon? Because while I lean very much red, I don't spend a lot of time in TRP. Sidebar material is pretty much all you need, the day to day posts are going to be men venting and discussing things that I already understand and don't need clarification on. This venting and men talking to each other like men is what scares a lot of manginas bluepillers away. As for the BP sub I've only been once or twice. Seems pretty circlejerky, lots of "TRP…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 08:14 PM
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Fuck me, that woman is terrible at being interviewed. It's a simple question: "Why shouldn't women be on the front lines of combat" with a simple answer: "Because they're not as physically capable as men, and combat is physically demanding". I agree with her points, but she represented her position very poorly.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 07:33 PM
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30 year old male. N ~30, dunno the exact number.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 07:01 PM
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If I had a nickel for every time someone from TBP assumed what I believe and argued against that...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 08:33 PM
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Identity politics are for angsty tweens on Tumblr. I don't care who came up with an idea, it either stands on its own merit or it doesn't. Also why would TRP "pledge our existence" to a couple of mentally ill brothers? They came up with a decent film (and then 2 shitty sequels) that TRP uses as an analogy. If they never made the movie the ideas would still exist we'd just draw parallels from elsewhere. The "society lied to you here's what's really happening" trope isn't exactly unique to The Mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 07:33 PM
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we'd frequently have to clarify "which side" people were on Ideas should stand on their merit, not on who is saying them or the "side" they're on. That's what OP is getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 07:19 PM
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I make them guess. "What do you THINK I do?" Or I'll tell them something dumb like pop song writer or male model. The clever ones pick up that I'm messing with them, the dumb ones I keep messing with to see how far it goes. Personal best: I talked about how hard it is to write pop songs for 90 minutes before I got bored and told her I didn't write pop songs because that's retarded.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 06:07 PM
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Not only that but group dynamics change when women are included. Pretty sure the Marines did a study on this and men in the squads ended up taking more risks when women were in danger vs men. I get the reasoning for it, all I'm saying is it's a clear case of discrimination based on se,x which is the definition of sexism. It's rooted in innate differences between men and women, sure, but it's sexism regardless. And it's not a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 08:32 PM
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This must be a leap day, because I'm on PPD trying to prove I am sexist! I think there are people who would call my previous statements sexist. I also think those same people believe sexism is always a bad thing, where as I don't. I have no problem labeling myself sexist, especially by the definition they use. Not letting women fight on the front lines in combat is sexist, for example. There are plenty of cases where sexism actually makes sense, but the typical reactionaries who are quick to poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 07:38 PM
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I think even by that definition we're still sexist. I don't treat women the same way I treat men, solely based on the fact that they're women and don't react well to being treated/talked to like a man (see the constant pushback to TRP's language). I don't know a man who doesn't put on kid gloves, at least a little bit, when dealing with women. I also believe that men as a whole are better than women as a whole 99% of the time, out of pure biological necessity. In order to reproduce a man has to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 06:05 PM
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I think they're saying that having more options for casual sex doesn't make you more attractive. A female 6 doesn't get hotter because they have more opportunities to have casual sex. What changes is the chances a male 6 has at having sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 09:23 PM
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OKCupid did a blog post on this with data from their site. Source: http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/ Two things stand out. First, the "Male Appraisals of Female Attractiveness": http://cdn.okcimg.com/blog/your_looks_and_inbox/Male-Attractiveness-Ratings.png Looking at that graph it's a pretty standard curve. Most grouped in the middle, mean and median are probably pretty close to each other. In other words, it's a good representation of the population. Now let's loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 09:16 PM
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If "TRP is Amoral" why do upvoted posts and comments make moral judgements against women? Your mistake is claiming that "TRP is Amoral". We at TRP say that sexual strategy is amoral (it's right there on the sidebar). All knowledge is amoral. Knowing how to build a nuclear bomb is amoral, dropping a nuclear bomb is a different story. TRP never claims that its members are amoral (that's retarded) or actions are amoral (equally as retarded). Just knowledge, which most people will agree is always am…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 08:07 PM
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Want the meaning of life and a cure for world hunger too? Its a bit broad I know but a starting point would be appreciated. Go read the sidebar. There's your starting point.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 11:39 PM
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I had never heard of Starkey before I saw that video, but watching it made me respect the man. He saw right through her bullshit and called her out in front of everyone at the panel. More men should treat womens' nonsense this way. Actually that leads to an interesting question regarding these professional victims. And I say professional because a lot of these women (Penny, Sarkeesia, Brianna Wu, Quinn) are leveraging this victim mentality into a business. Some of these women make a decent livin…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 10:33 PM
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This question is way too vague, how do you expect anyone to answer it? What are your goals?
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:06 PM
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Came here to post the same quote. Patrice knew his shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 09:42 PM
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It's written by Laurie Penny. She complains about her relationship problems, but is it any wonder that such a mousey, dyke haired, militantly anti-male woman has a hard time finding or keeping good men? Who wants to put up with all that baggage for (probably boring) pussy? Of course she's advocating for women being single. She's framing her personal failures as a good thing, and is trying to convince herself (and other women) that they're better off without men. Notice how it's never the attract…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 08:55 PM
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What's funny is I literally answered that question in my post: The problem then arises that few/none of these men are high value, so the woman sees it as creepy and So when you ask "Why aren't the nerdy girls drowning in men?" the answer is: They are, just not the men they want. /u/Nechama isn't interested in the actual discussion at hand, instead he/she is shifting to"What about the women who ignore the men??" which is both a boring discussion to have and also doesn't address the fact that nerd…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 09:45 PM
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Where in the world do terpers get this stuff? From real life. You've had two different people tell you this already, and I'm jumping on the train. I like nerdy shit, and I've spent a lot of time in the metal scene (the two groups that /u/UA_Hammer mentioned), and both are full of men vying for the attention/affection of the few ladies present. On numerous occasions I've seen girls at nerdy gatherings get swarmed with male attention, and they could have any/all of the men they wanted. The problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 08:51 PM
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More men need to have the "we don't negotiate with terrorists" mentality when they find themselves at the receiving end of the feminist/white knight hate mob. Tim Hunt is another great example. Instead of apologizing he should have treated it like the shit test it is and doubled down. "I jokingly said that women in the lab fall in love and cry. Judging by the feminist backlash, there seems to be some truth in that" Be a man, stand by your opinion. Have solid reasons to believe the things you do,…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 08:24 PM
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what specifically about the greater risk with marriage today makes for a greater reward Maybe I worded that poorly, I didn't mean to imply that marriage got more worth it because it was riskier. Marriage has, in the last 50 years or so, gotten increasingly more risky. The circlejerk in TRP is that it's not worth it, but not everyone who subscribes to RP ideology agrees with that. That along with saying you're "supposed" to take risks seems like an odd reason to involve the government with a rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 12:18 AM
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I'm willing to bet there are a lot of us who frequent TRP who also want a traditional marriage and kids, the 2.0 game as you put it. Voicing that opinion in TRP isn't going to make you more popular there, but that doesn't mean there aren't people who agree. It's one topic that TRP seems to be a little blind to. We're men, we're supposed to take risks in order to achieve the things we want. And yes, today marriage is riskier than ever before. But the greater the risk the greater the reward, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 10:16 PM
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Getting called out like this is a societal shit test. Society is built on the hard work of strong men, while weak men get tossed aside as they don't benefit society. If he responds in a butt hurt manner (pun definitely intended) it shows that he's not a strong man. This is where a lot of public figures go wrong: They apologize or make excuses, which only validates and fuels the haters. See Tim Hunt or Matt Taylor, apologizing made things worse for them. The correct response is the same as ANY sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 07:35 PM
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You're both wrong, the answer is Whiskey!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 08:14 PM
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That's not actually what TRP teaches It's easier for TBP to strawman us into these horrible rape monsters rather than have an honest discussion about these topics. It's a lot simpler for them to make false claims like OP did, such as "TRP, FYI, also says women who have sex with anyone but one man are terrible", or "TRP says unless a woman is screaming no at you and punching you, she actually means yes". Some people thrive on the rush of warm fuzzies they get from acting indignant, no matter how …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:25 PM
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They don't like guys who pester, but they like it when men just take it without giving a fuck about her feelings. Nothing turns women off like the man asking permission before he does something. This was one of my RP realizations before I even knew about TRP. When I was a much younger, dumber Mike, if I wanted to do butt stuff I'd ask "Could I maybe stick it in your butt" with big puppy dog eyes, and it'd get me exactly nowhere. Eventually I realized that wasn't working, so I switched my thinkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 09:51 PM
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If I had a dollar for every time a woman told me "We are not having sex tonight" and then they proceeded to initiate sex... well I wouldn't be rich, but I could probably go see a movie or something. And those are expensive these days. There's a difference between a hard "no" and some of the things women in particular (but all people in general) do/say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 09:37 PM
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Ok I take that back, you're right in saying that they don't have to match... it's about how you set up your study and choose to collect the data. If you're looking at this from a strictly logical standpoint, if we created a closed map consisting of people that are all connected sexually (which is what exists now, but is impossible to recreate via our methods of data collection), then the mean is always going to be equal. And if we look at enough data of a non-closed map the means don't have to m…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 07:39 PM
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Right before that he says: The "mean" average women has slept with less men than the "mean" average man has slept with women... According to your paper. Emphasis mine. The mean number of heterosexual partners for men and women must be equal, strictly by definition. If the means aren't the same then either people are lying, or your sample doesn't represent the population well, or, more than likely, both.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 07:01 PM
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This is some queer 4chan thing, buds, so time to ignore the troll. Here's the source, it's a ~30 page play/musical. http://imgur.com/a/fpfty Someone with more time than me TLDR it, maybe it's good enough to make it to Broadway. EDIT: Never mind, I skimmed it. Twist ending made me laugh.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 02:44 AM
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If you want to plate her then reply and be sexual from the start. 90% of my exes hit me up for sex after the relationships ended, so it happens. I'd just be wary of her wasting your time, if she doesn't seem down with the idea of banging you again I'd move on quickly (abundance mentality, you have other girls that don't waste your time available now). If you don't want to plate her, then ignore the text and keep on doing what you're doing. There's no reason to expend energy on her if you're not …
/r/askTRP22/01/16 02:08 AM
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I hooked up with both (no bang sadly) then you didn't hook up, stop hamstering yourself brother. My thought exactly. What in the hell does "I hooked up with them, but didn't bang" even mean? It's a goddamned paradox.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 10:39 PM
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"Male model, duh" said in a way that she clearly knows it isn't true. Or I'll make up a lie and see how long I can keep it going. My favorite was probably "I write pop songs". I spent 45 minutes telling some chick all about the day to day life of being a pop song writer, 100% improvised on the spot. It's good practice at building rapport and when the house of lies comes tumbling down it's fun to poke fun at he for believing it. Most of the time I'll just say "What do I look like I do?" and make …
/r/askTRP21/01/16 10:26 PM
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The problem with that is sample sizes. If the goal is to bang a bunch of women, then the process you take is pretty straightforward: Through trial and error you can come up with an idea of what works and what doesn't, and the more success you have the more solid those theories get. TRP is decent at this. If the goal is to find a good woman and settle down, then your sample size is at best 1 for what does work because your first success equals the end of the experiment. Then any trial/error you e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 10:13 PM
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TRP acknowledges that though, but it's not quite the way you put it... If someone comes in and asks "Hey, where do I find an easy one night stand or friend with benefits?" we'll point him to the nearest bar or club. If you're looking for a quick fish, those are your barrels. If someone asks "Where do I find a quality long term partner?" the very first thing we say is to stay the hell away from bars and clubs. You'll see day game recommended a lot when this is asked, because you're not looking fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 08:19 PM
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That's actually an interesting way of looking at rejection, maybe worth some time to flesh out the idea as a post a la "Rejection lets you know that you're at least giving off sexual vibes" and that rejection, in that regard, is a good thing.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 07:23 PM
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Adding to this: Have a workout in mind. Take that a step further, OP needs to have a program in place before stepping foot in the gym. SS 5x5 is pretty popular for noobs, that's what I'd recommend. Head over to /r/fitness and read the FAQ there. If you're out of shape, don't go crazy your first time 100% this. The next day (and likely the day after that) are going to suck enough as is, so don't go too damn crazy. Follow your program and don't try and be a tough guy on your first day. Lifting isn…
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:29 AM
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Did you read what he wrote? TRP is about male/female sexual dynamics. We don't talk about gay relationship dynamics because that's not our goal and it doesn't matter in the slightest when trying to achieve that goal. If you have a straight man asking you "how do I get women" and you proceed to tell him how gay people attract other gay people, you've done absolutely nothing to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 10:16 PM
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What are you doing now to find a better job? Sounds like sitting on ass waiting for a job to fall into your lap (and ignoring them when they do... see that stack of business cards gathering dust). Go read the sidebar and apply the same core ideas to job hunting. "How do I get a date with a chick?" Go fucking ask. "How do I get a better job?" Go fucking ask. "She said no, because I'm a loser" Improve yourself, become someone worth saying yes to. "I didn't get the job, because I'm a loser" Improve…
/r/askTRP12/01/16 07:58 PM
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We all have our crosses to bear. RP crosses are just more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 10:46 PM
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What do you expect though? Women don't give a shit about sports, outside of the alpha nature of the men and what they could provide them. If she'd ever spent two minutes watching a Blackhawks game she'd realize that "Toes" fella's last name isn't pronounced that way. It's just an (unfailingly vain) attempt to stay relevant to the conversation and keep the attention on her. Bitches, indeed.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 10:37 PM
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Yeah, for 95% of us the simple Calories in - Calories out equation is plenty. Want to lose weight? Eat less than you burn. Want to gain weight? Eat more than you burn. Remember that nutrition professor that ate Little Debby nonsense all day + a multivitamin and lost weight? Calories in - Calories out. http://www.cnn.com/2010/HEALTH/11/08/twinkie.diet.professor/ What you eat and when you eat it comes into play for seasoned/elite athletes trying to squeeze every ounce of performance out of themsel…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 10:15 PM
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No shit, there's a fitness sub for a reason. TRP should focus on the why of fitness as it pertains to the male/female dynamic. Leave the how to other subs, because it's off topic here.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 10:04 PM
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Hah no shit. Go walk around certain parts of Oakland as a white dude and you'll find anything but happy togetherness. Most of SF's beef is between the rich/poor, but there's a fair amount of racial/cultural tension as well (and not just black vs white).
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 01:28 AM
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That's because feminism isn't about rational thought, it's about blind hatred of all that is while/male and adopting a mentality of victimhood. They would look like huge hypocrites if they lashed out at the people that committed these crimes, because their talking points have (for years now) been "straight white men and the systems they built are the problem", and these events fly in the face of that. In these events the systems that were put in place by white men are the solution, but if you ad…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 10:41 PM
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I dunno shit about UK politics mate, I'm American. And like any good American I barely know shit about AMERICAN politics, not to mention foreign politics. My point is there is/was a huge ring of people grooming kids, and it should have been a HUGE issue that progressives pointed at and said "See? Rape Culture(tm)!!!". Instead they were afraid of being called racists because it was brown people doing the grooming, which is exactly what's happening here.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 10:36 PM
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Everyone should know how to safely own and operate a firearm. Progressives hate women who are capable of protecting themselves, and they hate the people who encourage women to handle their shit (Progressives call personal responsibility "victim blaming").
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 09:23 PM
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Typical progressive bullshit. Look at the handling of the Rotherham grooming ring, it's the exact same thing (and not at all surprising). Progressives are stuck between a rock and a hard place. They are anti-men, but pro-minority. When it's not a white man committing a crime they can't speak up because then they'd be labeled a racist by their fellow progressive nutjobs, so instead they have to sweep it under the rug and pretend that it didn't happen. Gotta make their world a safe space, after al…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 08:06 PM
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Most of this is good advice, but I think it only applies to corporate gigs (which are soul sucking and terrible) or other places I'd never want to work (good for catching red flags early). Getting a good job where you don't have to worry about bringing a briefcase because "you haven't earned it yet" should be most people's goal. And the way you get that gig shares some of the tips that OP wrote here, but it has a lot more in common with existing RP ideas. Really mastering the job market requires…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 06:17 PM
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I think most people, including myself, share your experience with family. For the most part family is supportive and excited to see you succeed, just like I'm excited to see my family succeed and will support them in their endeavors. OP is describing terrible people exhibiting toxic behavior. Family or not, the answer to these type of people is to not play their game (and cut them out of your life completely, if it's bad). Don't engage in the bullshit, don't care what they think, and don't let t…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:08 PM
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Meaning girls aren't slutty? Because I'm "in the dating game" and it's a great time to be a man who just wants to get laid. Minimal effort on my part yields results.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 06:55 PM
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So you can certainly cherry-pick posts from either end of the spectrum, but on the ground it's more halfway in between. This applies to everything, really. I think people just like to feel outrage, so it's easy to look at an extreme view and say "Look, XYZ is bad!". And yes, this applies to everything. Most Muslims aren't terrorist extremists. Most feminists aren't man hating dykes with blue hair. And most TRPers aren't card carrying members of the He-Man-Woman-Hater's Club. Addressing the hyper…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 09:26 PM
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It's not, I was talking from a quality of writing point of view. Being a dickhead to your target audience is a good way to have people ignore what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 06:42 PM
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I agree, there is a lot wrong with this post that makes me glad it got pulled (I didn't see it yesterday, but it looks like I didn't miss out on anything). I've seen a couple of posts on TRP that describe how marriage changes the game, all of them were well written, clear and concise, and thought provoking, while at the same time not patronizing to people with different goals. Basically everything this post isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 08:20 PM
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Rape Culture is an environment in which rape is prevalent and in which sexual violence against women is normalized and excused in the media and popular culture. Rape culture is perpetuated through the use of misogynistic language, the objectification of women's bodies, and the glamorization of sexual violence, thereby creating a society that disregards women's rights and safety. "Rape Culture" is bullshit, because none of the criteria are met. Rape isn't prevalent, in 2014 rape/sexual assault oc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 05:38 PM
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"I have never dated men who make more or are more successful than myself" + "Guys I have dated have made in the range of 60k-150k" = You're pulling > 150k a year. First of all, good job gettin' paid. Secondly, your situation is very atypical. Recently there has been an outcry of "where have all the good men gone?" from college educated, career oriented women. This is at least in part due to the fact that men aren't looking for someone to be a provider, and the women that were more family oriente…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:56 PM
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What does "getting any guy that has ever interested me" mean in this context? Fucking them? Because any halfway decent looking woman can fuck pretty much any man, that's not hard. Also I have never dated men who make more or are more successful than myself Either you're very successful, or you're dating losers. I don't know any women who make half what I do. None of my friends have girlfriends/wives that make more than they do. I can't think of a single man that I know that makes less than his w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:45 PM
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Looks like it was in someone's genes and upbringing to be an insufferable cunt. I don't think MIT, Oxford, or even Kahn Academy can help you there bud ;)
/r/MensRights14/10/15 11:33 PM
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Sexist much? Yes, I'm an unrepentant sexist. Men and women aren't the same, we aren't interchangeable. Basic biology and/or common sense make this apparent. A bunch of other angry shit and insults You're a peach, I like you.
/r/MensRights14/10/15 09:34 PM
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I didn't defend the article, I defended the position that people are a product of their genes and upbringing. The link I followed was titled "lead editors doesn't believe that straight white men are persons" and read the text under a big header called "Why Do People Shit On Me Just Because I'm (White/Male/Straight/Etc.)?" None of the content in that section did I disagree with or understand why it would be a point of contention, so I posted my thoughts on it. At no point to I talk about anything…
/r/MensRights14/10/15 09:14 PM
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I believe that this type of experience can transform a person, but anything less won't change his personality. Then there's no point in continuing this discussion. If you think that people aren't able to better themselves without external forces driving them to do it then there's no point in them even trying (and conveniently they have everything to blame but themselves). People who hold that belief will have mediocre lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 08:48 PM
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I only read #5 on the list, it sounds like people are bummed out by the rest of the article. I stand by my original comment on #5 though, and I think it's a reasonable stance viewed on its own (again, I don't know what else the article said). Cracked jumped the shark as soon as they started taking a political stance, I'll agree with you there. Social justice and comedy are antithetical.
/r/MensRights14/10/15 08:44 PM
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If all of us are walking bags of historical precedent then its not our fault we have some racist/opinions. "Fault" is a funny word here, and I don't think I agree how you mean it. Even if I believe that everything I am is a direct result of my upbringing and my genes, that doesn't mean I'm free from consequences of my thoughts/actions. Like I said it muddies the water as far as free will goes, but that doesn't mean you can do whatever you please without repercussions. If "we're just a product of…
/r/MensRights14/10/15 08:41 PM
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Upvoted
/r/MensRights14/10/15 08:28 PM
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True change is very difficult. A person's personality, character, values, and ambition are developed over many years during their childhood and teenage years. A person can't simply change all those things within a few months by going to the gym and getting a better job. If you come into TRP complaining about how "it's hard to change, guys" you're gonna get bitch slapped with some harsh truths real quick. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3dalxv/dont_talk_to_me_like_a_bitch/ In general…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 05:30 PM
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So I don't get how that's shitting on straight white men... reading it the things he says apply to everyone. Every single person is a product of their genes and upbringing, that's just a fact. You can start asking some fun questions about free will and determinism based on those facts, but again that's not limited to a single gender/race. If anything it's just a poorly titled section. It should be "why do people shit on me just because I'm white/black/gay/straight/male/female/a literal toilet?" …
/r/MensRights14/10/15 05:15 PM
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I had a plate who worked at a butcher shop, she'd constantly bring me steaks and weed. I'd give her the gift of great sex and my time back. All in all, not a bad deal. Girls are going to gift, let them and don't think too much about it. Make sure they're having fun fucking you and get on with life.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 07:38 PM
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Rumors are bullshit teenage nonsense, but you may as well use the opportunity to practice amused mastery and your agree/amplify skills: "I heard you got expelled from the school because you fucked a girl in the bathroom" "Only one?"
/r/askTRP09/10/15 07:22 PM
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From the sidebar: About Purple Pill Debate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill. So again, the question is: WTF does this have to do with PPD? TRP isn't Men's Rights, which is probably where this particular piece of internet drama belongs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 12:39 AM
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WTF does this have to do with PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 09:37 PM
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The part people take issue with is "at the expense of TRP". Here are my issues specifically (if you can call them issues, mostly I don't care): This post is low effort This very post is a great example of a post that contributes nothing to TRP theory or its readers, which is something I thought the mods were trying to crack down on (but it's GLO doing the shit posting, so fuck it?). Reading this post didn't improve my understanding of TRP, make me think critically about anything TRP says, or add…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 07:54 PM
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I've never done any of those... but then I don't suffer from paranoid personality disorder. Hah, nice ad hominem. But if you read my first post which you replied to, I state: Things you can do yourself to minimize your risks (some of which seem a little tinfoil hat to me, but that's ok) So while I wouldn't ever feel the need to take those precautions, I understand that everyone has their own tolerance for risk, and what seems excessive to you or me may be perfectly reasonable for someone else. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 07:28 PM
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no matter what you do you can never 100% prevent harm befalling you...be it rape, false rape accusations, illness, etc. There is an inherent risk to everything in life. Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 07:20 PM
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The issue then is you have to prove consent was affirmed, which is more what I meant. Verbal agreements are good, but lack any tangible proof that you'd need to safeguard against false rape accusations. My "so hot, I know" jab was pointed at any sort of tangible proof of consent. Sign on the dotted line. Look into the camera, show your drivers license and today's newspaper... that shit is a real boner killer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 07:03 PM
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I never said gun, I just said arm yourself. No shit "if you're bad with a tool, it can hurt you more than help you". Implied in anyone saying "own a gun" is "know how to safely use the gun" and "properly store the gun" and all the rest. You could make the same argument against owning pepper spray. If you don't know how to use it, someone could take it away and use it on you and that'd suck. That doesn't change the fact that, if used properly, it's a great deterrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 06:58 PM
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Nothing 100% prevents any crime. Being armed, among other things, lessens the chance that you'll be a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 06:44 PM
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He's saying arming yourself can prevent assault, sexual or otherwise. He's not saying kill yourself to save getting raped, that's retarded. But you know that, you're just being intellectually dishonest (shit posts in PPD? GASP)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 06:35 PM
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You're not going to get a straight answer out of BP people, because the real answer to "how do I prevent a false accusation?" is: You can't. Which is the same answer for any crime. "How do I prevent being raped?", "How do I prevent being mugged?", "How do I prevent my car from being stolen?". In each case there are precautions to take that minimize your chances of being a victim (which feminists call "victim blaming" and sane people call "common sense") but you can't ever be 100% safe. Things yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 06:32 PM
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I'm pretty damn disappointed in this highly emotional response from TRP I don't know if emotional is the right word. You understand that by framing the conversation in the way that it's presented, it points a finger at TRP right? I saw your comment to a different poster stating that you feel the blame is 100% on the shooter, and I think any rational person (RP or BP) would agree with you. The fact that you and so many others had such an emotional outburst to such a minor thing kinda says a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 11:44 PM
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And the question I can't get an answer to is: if you're not blaming TRP then why the hell even bring it up? Why frame the conversation that way? If you're not trying to imply guilt by association then I don't understand why TRP is relevant in the conversation at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 11:31 PM
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Why does it matter in the slightest that we share beliefs? What if this asshole was a vegan? Do we need to spend time talking about that and say to all the vegans "listen, we know you're not all like this, but the fact is he shared some of your beliefs so.."? I don't give a fuck that some crazy person shared a warped version of a belief I hold, it's irrelevant to the conversation entirely. The whole discussion is framed wrong, it should be "Crazy person can't get laid because he's crazy, gets cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 11:25 PM
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Where did I ever blame TRP? he was motivated by the red worldview Maybe I'm reading too much into it, but if you're not saying TRP had a role in this then why bring TRP into it at all? When you say: Not all Christians bomb abortion clinics, but that doesn't mean none do. I agree, and when that happens the conversation should be about why crazy people bomb abortion clinics, not about why Christians do it, because the ideology doesn't condone those actions. I'm failing to see why TRP is relevant i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 11:13 PM
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So you're saying that TRP is responsible for someone taking TRP views out of context and acting poorly because of it? That's disingenuous to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 09:03 PM
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Working within your perspective, would you be willing to admit that is he stayed "plugged in" he wouldn't have done this? No, I wouldn't "admit" that at all. I would make the opposite claim, that crazies are going to be crazy regardless of what words they read on the internet. This dude clearly has (had? he kill himself or what?) mental health issues which have/had nothing to do with TRP. There are plenty of us reds that are well adjusted, normal adults, we just happen to have different views on…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 09:01 PM
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TRP: "Don't wish it were easier, wish you were better" r9k: "Don't wish it were easier, wish everyone else was worse" They're polar opposites with overlapping vocabularies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:31 PM
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Parents make decisions for their kids all the time, because they have to. That's really the defining thing in the relationship. My parents chose my name. They chose what I ate. They chose what kind of education I got. They made major medical decisions for me. Their choices shaped me into the person I am today. Parents do these things, and the kids have to live with those decisions. That's life, and if you don't like it then fucking tough, because that's the way it is. So I think it's dumb to say…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 10:31 PM
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Holy shit that's cringeworthy...
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 11:57 PM
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Confusion is that you actually said you know guys who keep a physically written down list. do they write the dates down to? a physical description of the plate? or just numbers? Never in this conversation did I say I know people that keep physical lists. I asked why it was "weird" to track it by writing it down and not "weird" simply remembering it. The creepy aspect of turning what is a normal and healthy thing into a conquest, then turning it into a pursuit, then having to document it because …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 11:49 PM
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I'm not saying you want his life, that is irrelevant. I'm saying that in one sentence you said "keeping a list is weird" and then you proceed to talk very highly of a guy who absolutely keeps a list, but because it's not written down it's different somehow? There's a disconnect in thinking there. So I'd pose the question to you: Why is writing down names different than remembering them? What makes that weird, other than your assumption that people who keep a "little black book" are assholes whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 05:18 PM
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How is this Keeping a list is a weird as notching your bed post. Might as well buy a trophy and right their name on it, amirite? any different from this I'm friends with a guy who recently passed 100... blah blah blah... but how come he can seemingly remember 100 names without a list? The dude has a good memory, sure, but he's still got a list of women that he's slept with (it's just a mental list). You go from scorning dudes who bang so many people they have to write their names down, and then …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 04:32 PM
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If the bar is off the ground, it's called a rack pull. It's similar to the dead lift, but I have no idea why you'd want to do one instead of a full DL (which is more geared towards functional strength). Even if I had to steal the bar from the rack I sure as hell wouldn't be doing my dead lifts in the rack, there's no reason to be taking up equipment I'm not using.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 09:46 PM
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Oh you can just beat off! Sex is about more than just having an orgasm and you know it. Not always, sometimes you just need to get off. I eat when I'm hungry, I sleep when I'm tired, and I'll fuck (or have a wank) when I'm horny. Which is also why I can understand why a girl would be more selective, but also more promiscuous - why wouldn't you try to experience as much as you can and find out all about different people that you find interesting, roll around, laugh and do exciting shit with them?…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 09:28 PM
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Yeah my first response after reading that was: Chug the beer then and there, tell her she needs a refill, and send her to the bar. Not saying it'd be the right response, but I'd find it too funny to not do it.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 08:44 PM
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I worked fast food for a few years back in high school, my suggestions: Work hard-ish. It's amazing how little people try in fast food positions, so even a little bit of effort will make you a star employee. Make friends with your coworkers. All the people I worked with in fast food were crazy, and I have some fun stories from those years because I made friends with them. Don't let customers bring you down. Like /u/chadee said, practice keeping calm in situations where customers are pissed. Yeah…
/r/askTRP23/09/15 05:10 PM
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Well not with that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 04:54 PM
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Ugh, that woman's voice is like nails on a chalkboard.
/r/MensRights21/09/15 09:30 PM
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I haven't seen this kind of post before. I would love for this to be an ongoing series, or a potential new subreddit. Where would this content serve the best audience? Not TRP or AskTRP, it's nothing new or interesting.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:24 PM
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GOMAD is like 1600 calories right? If you still can't bulk after adding that to your daily intake, go to a damn doctor because something's wrong with your body.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 04:17 PM
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Cash makes the world go 'round kid, and it should be your BFF in the right situations. Specifically speaking to OP's point, cash is awesome at a bar date because: You build instant rapport with the bartender by talking to him face to face and throwing him a buck as you get your drink. If you frequent the same bar this becomes a form of social proof because you're shooting the shit w/ people who know you. Plus you'll get better service in general (and sometimes cheaper drinks). You force her to b…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 09:24 PM
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Damn statistics, you nasty!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 05:38 PM
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The ladies that stuck around the longest for me were the ones that I put the most effort into. About every third meeting we'd go out and do something I wanted to do. Go to a bar, go see something I wanted to see, whatever. These ladies stuck it out for 6 months instead of 2 or 3, and I attribute that to the added excitement of her showing up and me saying "get dressed, we're going out" after sex. It doesn't have to be expensive, it doesn't have to be anything elaborate, but something to break up…
/r/askTRP15/09/15 09:03 PM
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None of this contests my claim that privilege is contextual, it's actually making the point by addressing contexts in which privileges exist. I'll concede that gay people were one legal right short of a full deck, but that doesn't change the fact that there are times/places that being gay is an advantage. Ditto black. Ditto whatever else you can come up with. Hell, the pendulum has swung the other way and now we have protected classes of people who have get out of jail free cards (not literally,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 04:55 AM
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I once had to sit at the back of the bus, privilege don't real. Is this really all you have in response? Butthurt masked with snark? No refutation of any of the points I make, just crying about one example? I'm not saying I'm surprised you had to revert to such pettiness, I'm just surprised you didn't put up more of a fight first. I didn't say privilege is not real, I said it's 100% contextual, and as such it's pretty useless. Feel free to address that point if you disagree. Hell, feel free to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 01:11 AM
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"Privilege" is all contextual. In some cases it's better to be straight, in some cases it's better to be gay. I've experienced this first hand: Was barhopping for my friend's 21st birthday and she wanted to go to a gay bar. Spent 30 minutes trying to get a beer while the dyke (and I mean that in the most literal sense) behind the bar served every gay person that was waiting for a drink (even, nay especially the ones that showed up after me) before begrudgingly serving me. She made it clear in no…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:52 AM
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Gay people have their own privilege. Black people have their own privilege. Women have their own privilege. If we can play this game with everyone it's almost like privilege is a useless concept that just exists for people to bring out when they want to shame someone and lack anything substantiated. "Well you're a while male so you're privileged"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 11:42 PM
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Oh look, more blatant SJW racism in a thread discussing SJW double standards. I can't decide if this qualifies as irony, or if it's just inevitable stupidity... "This dude is white, he must hold a lot of power over those poor oppressed brown people" is both racist and patronizing. I think more SJWs would get that, but they're too busy trying to convince themselves they're victims and pointing fingers at anyone (and anything) other than themselves, because if they're victims then their own (numer…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 08:41 PM
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You do realise that not every RPer goes through the anger phase, don't you? In fact it's probably just a loud minority. Yeah, I never really got angry. I read all the stuff in TRP's sidebar, applied some of it to my interactions with women, and those interactions improved. It never pissed me off, it was more like a moment of "huh, some of the things I thought before are wrong" and I got on with my life. Out of 100k subs, it only takes a small percentage to post angry things to make it look like …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 04:48 PM
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I've done both, and you're right: Working for a company in a state with income tax but living in a state that doesn't have income tax? You pay income tax to the state in which the business is located. Contracting for a company in a state with income tax but living in a state that doesn't have income tax? You pay no income tax (you pay more self employment taxes this way, but there are loopholes to get around that)
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 05:20 PM
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Pros: The weather is consistent Public transit only sucks some of the time, most of the time it's ok There's a TON of shit to do/see/eat/drink. Gained some lbs down there, but it was worth it Good money if you play the game right Cons: Everything is expensive, especially housing. Be prepared to have roommates or live in a shitty part of SF (or in Oakland, there are some neighborhoods that are on the up and up) Too many people The pervasive attitude there is live to work, not work to live (at lea…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 12:28 AM
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If I was asked I'd tell her what I thought about it. If she doesn't like my views then she's free to try and change them or to fuck off. Be who you want to be, don't change just for some pussy.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 08:00 PM
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No I'm not, I'm talking about technology and engineering jobs all over the country, if you CHOOSE to live in one of the most overpriced places on earth that's your problem. Jobs in lower cost of living areas will pay less, because they can. Getting a six figure tech job in my city is hard, maybe 10% of the jobs pay that well. In SV it's par for the course, because nobody can afford to live there otherwise. Companies outside SV don't have to pay SV wages, so they won't in order to maximize profit…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 06:28 PM
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Good thing I Ctrl+F'd before posting the same thing. Patrice had it figured out
/r/askTRP09/09/15 06:00 PM
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Or they can take the easy and comfortable road and just work for 20 years, then retire young and do whatever they want. Dude, you're not describing Silicon Valley at all here. People make decent money (and have to spend a lot of that money just to pay the bills down there) but they also work constantly. 12 hours a day, weekends, whatever you want to call it "easy and comfortable" it's not. Source: Lived there. Worked there. Got tired of the rat race and left there. I live on 33k/year despite the…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 05:41 PM
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I made $100,000 in the bay area a few years back. I lived in a shitty neighborhood outside Oakland, paying $1,700 a month all for the privilege of (sometimes literally) dodging bullets. If I would have moved into SF, rent would have doubled easily. That kind of money in the bay goes fast, especially if you want to go out once in a while. I was making $60,000 a year in the northwest and after the cost of living differences the amount of money I was able to save was comparable. It's apples and ora…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 04:35 PM
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So do you have a question, or..?
/r/askTRP09/09/15 12:45 AM
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in college if you approach a lot of girls as a less attractive guy you are considered a creep. Another excuse. And also bullshit. I went to college bud, you're overestimating the amount other people give a shit about you and what you do. Also I already go to the gym for hours. But I don't have much to work with genetically. Yet another excuse. If you spent half the amount of time talking to women as you do coming up with these lame excuses, you'd be swimming in it (if you had a single ounce of c…
/r/askTRP09/09/15 12:35 AM
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More excuses, huh? I'm not surprised. Stop rationalizing your fear, approach girls if you are interested in them, and make them say no instead of just assuming they will. Even if 95% is accurate (and it's definitely not, but whatever) then you're looking for the 5% anyway, and you will never find them if you don't approach and ask.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 10:19 PM
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It's exactly the same, but it's so much easier to throw yourself a pity party than to admit that you're the problem, not your skin color. Get over yourself, this attitude is what's making you unattractive to women.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 10:09 PM
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"I only buy girls drinks after I've slept with them" if I'm feeling cocky and they're bangable. "Here's your water" if I'm not in the mood or they're ugly. "First round is on you, second is on me" if I actually want to get to know the broad. Or I just say whatever I'm thinking at the moment, because canned lines are for chumps.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 06:20 PM
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Agreed. All that "haha look at these losers" gossip is bitch shit. Women and kids do that, not men.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 06:15 PM
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TRP says races doesn't matter, because it's not something you can change. Every time someone comes to TRP whining about their race holding them back, TRP's response is "STFU, be better". Because most people find it easier to say "She doesn't like me because I'm brown" instead of the truth, which is they just aren't that great. TRP doesn't overestimate the importance of anything that you can't control (height, race, whatever), if anything it purposely underestimates the importance of those things…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 04:14 AM
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I'm surprised you aren't having to beat women off with a stick, what with the interpersonal skills you're displaying. It must be them, because you're perfect the way you are, sugar ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 02:50 AM
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Kids are going to be a risk no matter what you do. Right, I guess my point is that kids in and of themselves aren't a reason to avoid marriage like people are suggesting in this thread, because either way there is the potential for mom leaving with them. Maybe this should have been a response to /u/Cyralea, because I'm not clear on why, when you take divorce rape out of the picture, children would be a reason to avoid marriage. Unless TRP is also anti-fatherhood too, I don't see why.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 06:54 PM
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But if you want kids, you're fucked either way right? I mean if you don't move past a normal LTR you're not guaranteed to be in your kids' lives any more than if you wife the chick up then get divorced. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 06:29 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Oy6DwHAi70
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 04:20 AM
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What, you think he needs TRP's validation?? ;)
/r/askTRP02/09/15 09:08 PM
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go stick that self-improvement advice boner in some other chump's asshole Hit a nerve, did I? Little too close to home? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 04:29 PM
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The first thing would be how quick many people jump to conclusions about "female nature". It's one thing to comment on a trend you've observed among the women in your life, but it's another thing entirely to claim that it's an innate fact of "female nature". I'd agree that some people are quick to jump to the why without a lot of proof. Personally I believe that the most important thing to understand is how the world actually is, and then the knowledge of why can follow. I think TRP hits the nai…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 02:25 AM
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We're hipsters. If other people start liking the things we like, it won't be cool anymore!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 01:57 AM
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the blatant misinformation about family law drives me up a wall Which parts specifically? I casually read the men's rights sub as well, so I might be mixing up some of the claims, but it seems to me that men have at least some reason to be upset at the current system we have. Women initiate divorce more often, end up with the kids more often, are much likelier to receive alimony... As far as I know, all this culminates in TRP saying "don't marry, it's not worth it". And I understand that stance …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 01:50 AM
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In your opinion, what makes a TRP post bad? The content? The flippant way it's conveyed? The basic misunderstanding of grammar? And why are bad posts so prevalent in TRP? Personally when I see a post/comment in TRP that I think is shitty, it's either because the OP can't write for a damn (grammar) or because it contains a basic misunderstanding of TRP ("Are these shoes alpha, guize??"). But I agree with the content most of the time, at least to some extent, so my criteria are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 01:01 AM
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It sounds like your main complaint against TRP is that the content isn't accessible and the community is abrasive (which I understand why you'd feel that way, because both are true). What are your thoughts on the underlying beliefs themselves? Most BP people take issue with things that TRP claims, such as: Women mature at an earlier age than men, but men grow more mature than women over time Society would have you view women through rose colored glasses, but believing the rhetoric is bad for men…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 12:27 AM
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Because OP is wrong. Because "that guy" is better than you. It's really that simple. You can either throw a pity party because of that fact, or you can take some RP advice, man the fuck up, and improve yourself. Maybe you'll never be as good as him, but it's not about you vs him, it's about the shitty version of you vs the less shitty version of you (and maybe someday the good version of you). You and only you get to decide which version of you will win, nobody else gives a shit. If that knowled…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 10:39 PM
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I had the same experience, no idea where people get the idea that they have to rack up crazy debt to go to school. 2 years of community college was under $5k. Then I fucked around a little more than I should have at a state school, but I worked full time while attending and walked out the door with $15k in loans (that were paid off in a year without any sort of budgeting or belt-tightening on my part). School is only expensive if you're a) stupid, or b) going to be a doctor. Any state school wil…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 03:49 AM
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This guy nails it at the end too, when he talks about what rape culture implies about men. "Rape Culture" is basically feminism's version of original sin. Both say "you're bad because of the very thing you are, and we're the only ones with the solution". It's easy to see why that would be damaging, especially to the younger generations that have been fed these lies their whole lives.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 12:15 AM
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Right, that was more or less my point. The graph doesn't tell the whole story.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 10:37 PM
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And what about couples where there's only one source of income? Or couples where the women earn less than the men? Just because your cost per person goes down doesn't mean there's magically more money coming in that offsets that. I've got a buddy w/ a stay at home wife and a couple of kids. If you look at the cost per person then his numbers would be way lower than mine sure, but in practice his income is stretched thinner than mine because there are so many more mouths to feed/clothe/home.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 10:12 PM
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believe me, it is very possible to do so Write it up then. "Be the change you want to see in the world" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 07:01 AM
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Just work on yourself and let it come to you, which is indeed shitty advice as the OP said. This is the opposite of what TRP says, dude. "Just let it come to you" is what many men were told for years though it's often phrased "Just be yourself". TRP doesn't say to sit around and wait for shit to come to you, it says sack up and take the things you want in life because nobody is going to just hand them to you. Not once has anyone actually given a legitimate answer on TRP to how a guy can have sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 06:58 AM
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Reminds me of the guy on the subway: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O5GjlJYJF90#t=60 All charges against him dropped. Good thing someone was recording though, or that might have gone differently. I agree that your last resort should be violence, you should do everything you can to get away from the situation, but if you have to use violence then make it count. Put the assailant down and distance yourself if possible.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 03:14 AM
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Title should be: "Real Men Give Facials"
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 10:07 PM
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I went to The International this year (the big DOTA tournament, for the less nerdy reading this), and it was a fucking blast. It's fun to watch people do something you do but at a much higher lever, and you're surrounded by people that share common interested. We ended up making a bunch of friends and partying hard the whole week, just like we do when we go to hockey games, or football, or whatever. Side note: The after-party was full of RP proof. A bunch of pale, acne covered nerds were getting…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 09:44 PM
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I'm a millennial, though on the older end of the spectrum, so I guess I'll chime in while I watch the video. 1) I've worked nonstop since I was 16. The options were either work, or have no car or gas to get anywhere. Also, I used to give "discounts" to my friends when I was working at a grocery store kinda like this dude did with propane. Funny to hear his story now, say "hey that's stealing" and then look back and go "oh yeah... me too. Doh!". 2) I'm not afraid of rape claims, and that may be n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 03:37 AM
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If I had a dollar for every girl that didn't find me attractive, girls would find me attractive. Damnit, well done.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 02:57 AM
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Focus on consistently creating quality content, and then worry about growth. If your videos are good enough, growth won't be an issue.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 01:01 AM
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"The women here will act like your best friend. They will laugh with you, make jokes, playfully poke fun at you and make you think they are harmless. Then they will file complaints about you behind your back and point out any incorrect statement you make on the phones. They are old - mostly 55+ - and they hate young guys like you. They see you as their biggest threat, because you are. Intelligent tech-savvy young men can point out how bad of a job the other employees are doing. I lived this for …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 11:17 PM
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I hate clutter, so I ditched all physical media. Movies I have on Netflix or I download and stream to my TVs, Spotify for music, and a Kindle for books. Once I did that I took all my old books/movies/CDs to Goodwill and never looked back. I'd recommend you do the same. Take the books to Goodwill along with any old clothes you don't want. Switching to digital media saves the clutter in the first place, but I get that some people like real books more so just make it part of your routine. Or get a …
/r/askTRP20/08/15 05:29 PM
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Personally I try to see how much I can get them to pay for on the first date, both as a way to judge what kind of person they are and also to throw them off. Most women are used to getting things for free (especially on dates), so when I'm cocky and ask them when they're going to buy me a drink it's something they're not used to (and that discomfort works in your favor). Met a girl off Tinder two nights ago at my usual spot. I bought my first drink before she showed up, and then she paid for the…
/r/askTRP19/08/15 11:23 PM
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For anyone reading this: That's what student loans are for. I was in the same boat, more or less. White male, worse grades, and less EC activities. Parents made enough to live, but not enough to pay for my school. So I took out loans, went to a reasonably priced school, worked full-ish time, graduated, and was debt free a year later. That being said, college isn't for everyone and it might be a bad investment depending on what you plan to do with that degree (if anything). Sounds like it worked …
/r/MensRights12/08/15 06:48 PM
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Truth. Actions speak louder than words, for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 05:15 PM
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Uber makes #4 so much better. What used to be an hour wait for a $70 cab ride has turned into a 2 minute wait for a $25 ride (actual numbers for the same fares at the same times). I'm done with cabs, at least in cities that have Uber and Lyft.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 09:01 PM
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Louie CK agrees (and so do I): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xJnEN4yI1cc#t=260 Lay down a towel and go nuts. Or jump in the shower and go at it there if you're so worried about it. Or be like some of the people in here, get bummed out, and not get laid.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 06:22 AM
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The ones on TRP are, yes. Because that's what it's there for, it's like a support group but less queer. How many people went there angry, turned it all around, and then go on their merry ways? We can't know. In the last year since I found TRP I haven't once been truly angry, at anything. Not women, not life, the universe, and everything... nothing's pissing me off. Stoicism, baby... But you won't see me posting that shit on TRP, because there's nothing to be gained by others knowing that. PPD on…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 04:18 AM
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I used to be a LOT more pessimistic than I am now, though I couldn't say if it's a TRP thing or just an age thing. But getting as much pussy as I want, when I want definitely doesn't hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 04:13 AM
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In general how do I handle shit tests about my size until I'm bigger? You stop caring what other people think of you. Aside from that, you handle it exactly like every other shit test. Agree and amplify, pressure flip, amused mastery, whatever.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 09:22 PM
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You can buy a prepaid Visa card at a lot of different stores in the US. Walmart, Target, grocery stores... there's plenty of places that carry them. Go to the store, pay in cash if you're paranoid, and then use the card ONCE for the single purpose you bought it for. Then shred/ditch the card.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 12:14 AM
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Go lurk in the fitness sub for a while. Don't program for yourself, find one that fits your goals and follow that. Smarter people than you have spent a lot of time coming up with programs (SS, SL, PPL, whatever) that have proven track records. Want to get big? Lift often, eat at a surplus, and get plenty of sleep. And ask fitness questions in the proper sub ;)
/r/askTRP20/07/15 04:16 AM
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Morally wrong. Show me a quote from a TRPer that says it's morally wrong and I'll concede the point (for that dumb TRPer). All I've seen from the recent discussions is this quote from /u/CisWhiteMaelstrom: In GLO's PPD podcast he spends a considerable amount of time slut shaming and even goes as far as to call another person on that podcast a disgusting whore. One of my gilded comments that I'd post to if I wasn't on my cell phone is explaining why it's shameful to be a slut. I'm also working on…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 04:11 AM
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You're taking the position that slut shaming is morally wrong? Or is TRP saying that being a slut is morally wrong? Because I've never seen that. I'll grant you we say it's worse than being not a slut, but morally wrong? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 04:02 AM
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Moral criticism of TRP users is off topic for the sub, so I don't care if the mods remove it. TRP is for men to talk about sexual strategy, which is amoral (like all knowledge). I'd love to see some examples of TRP users taking a stance against women based on morality, because maybe I'm just not seeing it but TRP is heavy on the "this is how it is, deal with it" instead of "this is how it is, and it's THEIR fault"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 02:53 AM
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TRPillers despite claiming to be amoral , tend to use moral arguments against female behavior That's the crux of the issue right there. Knowledge and discussion are amoral, behavior isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 12:20 AM
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Jimmy Carr talking about the subject. I think this should be the official RP stance on the subject: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uXom0OP3Rwk#t=33
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 01:27 AM
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Those people get replaced by teams that come in and un-fuck it all. Expensive, but still possible. I've been on the receiving end of shitty legacy code, everyone who's been in the business for more than 10 minutes has. Companies are getting better at recognizing that kind of fuckery and putting a stop to it early. Well, good companies are. There are very, very few cases of people being truly irreplaceable.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 07:30 PM
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Yup. It's the corporate version of "It's not you, it's me..." Total bullshit, but something people say to try and be nice.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 06:00 PM
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Or they've been underpaying you for your skills and they NEED you to stick around so they save money. Everyone is replaceable if you have the cash.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 05:57 PM
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"oh if you don't lift 5 times a day and spin 12 plates at once YOUR LIFE SUCKS. Yeah, you were never red pill. Basically what I came here to say... OP's assertion is patently false, especially the part about plates (how many MGTOW are there in TRP?). Projection maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 06:10 AM
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Clean your living area after they leave your place! Once they know about the other girls, there’s no reason to leave evidence – don’t rub it in. Had a plate drop because of this. She knew that there were other women (I explicitly said yes when she asked months earlier) but for some reason it was never an issue until she found a single bobby pin on my living room table. Cue her getting upset and me soft nexting her. Live and learn.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 02:27 AM
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Yeah, my experience was about the same. I know some people in the industry who wouldn't mind making 50k to run their restaurants, the margins are thin in that business. Not sad I got out... though sometimes I miss sexually harassing the servers, those dirty birds...
/r/askTRP28/06/15 12:42 AM
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You're up your own ass, son. Got curious, so I looked into your post history: I'm only 22, just graduated Go spend some time in the real world, kid. I own my own business, and I have employees. The skills that let me build the business to the point that I could have employees aren't the same skills that make me a good boss to those employees. The answer to OP's question is in my post, and if you don't want to believe it then I don't really care (but you're wrong). There's no point compartmentali…
/r/askTRP28/06/15 12:39 AM
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Lots of butthurt in this post... get over it, and you'll go far. Why do employers think it takes skill to be a manager? Because it does? The skills it takes to do a certain job aren't the same skills it takes to manage people who do that job. I can be a good programmer, but that doesn't mean I'll make a good boss. I have good communication skills, but because I don't have any "managerial experience" I won't get hired DO: Get experience. Ask to take the lead on projects, even if your title isn't …
/r/askTRP27/06/15 11:25 PM
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De-escalate. If someone tries to start shit, just say "sorry brother, didn't mean any offense" and then leave. Don't stay in the situation, there's nothing to be gained from sticking around. Any self defense class will tell you the same thing. Afraid this will make you look like a pussy to a girl? She going to shit test you over it? "Why didn't you stick up for me?" "Because bitch, I'd rather spend the night fucking you than in jail because I killed one of those idiots" Edit: And if it comes to …
/r/askTRP27/06/15 08:49 PM
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TRP shouldn't have to prepare a treatise on how to write because that information is already available outside of it. But we should be able to convey the importance of it. We don't rewrite all of the Sex God Method in TRP, but we endorse the importance of it and tell users why it's important. Ditto any of the suggested readings. We don't have to waste our time explicitly telling idiots how to write, but it seems like we need to tell idiots that how you write conveys a lot about you, so write lik…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 04:03 AM
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It's not the responsibility of this sub to teach anything. And yet here we are, talking about sexual strategy and enlightening people that haven't been exposed to the ideas before. Why is writing like a damn adult any different from any of the other topics we discuss here? Writing like a half-wit makes you look like a half-wit, and if you're ok with that then TRP might not be for you. We agree that it's not our responsibility to do anything. That's not what I was asking. We have a sub, and we wa…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 03:14 AM
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I've re-read this sentence about 15 times and I still can't figure out if you're calling me an ignorant bitch or not. Do please elucidate. Haha, not calling you out man, just making a sweeping statement. Best work on my writing skills to be more clear :)
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 02:51 AM
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I mean... my username claims I'm a horse named Mike, time to ban me too? I say neigh!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 10:11 PM
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I side with you on this issue. There are a few accounts that set off my troll alarm, but as long as the discussions they start are intellectually honest it's not a big deal. It's once they start straw-manning and derailing conversations that it becomes an issue (and that's when I stop engaging, because what's the point?). HSW set off my troll alarms for a lot of reasons, but sometimes decent conversations occurred within those troll threads. Not always (though not never) with HSW, but it sparked…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 10:10 PM
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Why do you think so many people in here lack basic writing skills? Don't we harp on self improvement enough? Or is the readership just younger and don't understand the benefits of good writing yet? I agree it's a problem, but where does it come from and how do we fix it (other than enforcing the current style rules for us plebs)? Openly displaying your ignorance is a bitch move, be a goddamn man.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 09:32 PM
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You're having a "discussion" with taibo. He's a troll, and you're just feeding him. Notice how you answer a question and he goes "yeah, but what about this OTHER thing?" over and over again? There's nothing to be gained from the "discussion".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 07:56 PM
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Right, I wasn't trying to argue semantics with you or anything, I was just trying to point out that in or out of a monogamous relationship, most of the time the woman is the gatekeeper of sex due to simple supply/demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 01:03 AM
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Committed meaning "strictly monogamous on both sides"? Then whichever person wants to have sex the least is the gatekeeper. Generally that's women. Committed meaning "in a relationship, but shit happens"? Then the answer is resoundingly "women", because even if the man wants to have sex less often in the relationship, it's easier for a woman to find sex outside that agreement, because again men generally want sex more often than women. It's simple supply and demand. Typically men's demand for se…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/15 08:33 PM
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What /u/sixtysecondmonk said. You can't take the sexual experience of being a woman and translate that directly to that of a man. Women won't fuck people they hate, men will. I don't have to like your personality to find you hot and want to have sex with you, but I do have to like it to commit to you. Hell, a lot of the time you don't even have to be that hot if sex is on the table. We're biologically driven to have sex in a way that women don't understand (until they start taking testosterone, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/15 06:16 PM
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It's not only a number. And at the same time, it's impossible to know the real number, because everyone lies about it. There are no hard and fast rules, everyone you ask will give you a different answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/15 07:19 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/X8NkSX5.jpg
/r/askTRP16/06/15 11:23 PM
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If you read his advice it's a lot like regular game. Be aloof, be sexual (without being blunt), and be smart about the context of the situation. I'd say that part is learned, but it applies to more than just escorts. TRP says to be like this 24/7 when interacting with people, for good reason. The "don't discuss services" advice is just common sense. You're operating in a legally grey area, toeing the line between legal and illegal. Paying an escort for a date is legal, paying her for sex is not.…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 07:49 PM
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This still takes effort on my part to lead a woman into sex with me and I'm in anger phase. Sounds more like the excuse phase ;) I still can't wrap my head around losing $200 because of something like my age. http://i.imgur.com/9PGA5WR.jpg Supply and demand, son. This woman has a high demand, so she can choose to be selective. Go browse backpage again and count the number of times you read "no black men". Is their money worth less than that of a white dude? Obviously not. All it means is that th…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 07:41 PM
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I'm tired of having the front page flooded with this junior level shit from people who clearly have not read the material or old posts. That's a completely separate issue, my friend. It might be that high schoolers are more prone to shitposting, but they're also the group that needs TRP the most. You know that "If only I would have known this shit 10 years ago" feeling you had when you first learned about TRP? That's what we're talking about here. Banning a group is the wrong way to go about it.…
/r/askTRP13/06/15 02:01 AM
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How much do you identify with TRP? Your Flair is ambiguous. I'm red, baby! I've had study groups with more than 5 females in it. I went to a state school, so there's one difference in our backgrounds. There were plenty of women in my general studies classes (humanities, social sciences, the fluff everyone had to take) but only a few in my major classes. I didn't really need to interact with anyone (male or female) outside of the fluff classes, so my number might be low here. I guess I'm kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 07:14 AM
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Met: 1000ish Family: 30 Friends (pre-puberty): 1 or 2, girls were yucky back then Friends (post-puberty): 5 - 10 platonic friends Betafied me: 2 Academically: 5, but that's because we men in STEM are plotting to keep women out, and it'd be counterproductive to help them study. Fell for none of them. Lesbians: 3. Bonus: On the scale they'd be a 3, 4, and 6. I know a handful of girls that are down with girls, but they aren't included in the number because they tend towards men. Pants Women: 2 or 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 06:56 AM
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Yes, it's a common deflection. Any time a girl brings up your sexual past that's a good response. Often I'll get "How many people have you slept with?" and I'll respond with "Let's go to the bedroom, and afterwards you can tell me how many you think I've been with". Works for a lot of reasons, and in a lot of ways.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 05:55 AM
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What part doesn't work out? It depends entirely on your goals, man. Are you looking to plate some women? Then Tinder is for you. If you aren't succeeding then your Tinder game is weak, and you should search TRP for that Tinder game post from last year. Are you looking to find a unicorn and LTR up? Tinder isn't great for that, go approach in real life. I've used Tinder in the past with great results and minimal effort. It's an awesome tool, if you use it properly (and if it fits the job).
/r/askTRP10/06/15 05:25 AM
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I believe the word you're looking for is condor. I don't think you have to use a live one, but the dead ones don't offer as much protection.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 08:50 PM
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Or... Her: "How did you lose your virginity?" You: "I'll show you" You: Throw her over your shoulder, head to the bedroom
/r/askTRP07/06/15 08:47 PM
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TRP claims that women are less prone to loyalty, because it's not in their best evolutionary interests (which, when you consider the substantial investment a woman has to undergo for reproduction compared to a man, makes sense). In practice it doesn't always work out that way, you're right. But nothing is black and white, and even TRPers understand that (go look at PPD discussions of AWALT for examples). Loyalty and morality aren't the same though. And again, I think the bigger point that TRP is…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/15 08:43 PM
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Why would it ever come up? And even if it did, why would you EVER tell the truth anyway? Shit tests, go read about them. Agree and amplify, tell some outlandish lie, etc. "I haven't had sex yet, I've been saving myself for you" "It was SO romantic. She bought champagne, laid rose petals across the bed, and had Seal playing softly in the background..." "To a hooker, in the back of my mom's VW bug, parked behind the second nicest Dennys in town"
/r/askTRP07/06/15 08:27 PM
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I don't think TRP claims men are morally better than women. You might hear us say we're functionally better than women, but that's different. TRP removes the rose colored glasses that society provides when looking at women, so I could see where there might be some confusion. But men and women both have the capacity to be good or terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/15 07:30 PM
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Yes, did you? Here's the cliff notes, straight from the conclusion (page 17 of the study): This study finds dramatic unexplained gender gaps in federal criminal cases. Conditional on arrest offense, criminal history, and other pre-charge observables, men receive 63% longer sentences on average than women do. Women are also significantly likelier to avoid charges and convictions, and twice as likely to avoid incarceration if convicted. There are large unexplained gaps across the sentence distribu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/15 06:06 AM
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To put it simply. We should go with women and children first Right, from a species perspective this makes perfect sense because if you want to keep your species going, then you need women a lot more than you need men. It's one of those hard-wired things you mention. That's the way it is, and that "discrimination" has a specific purpose (that most should be able to agree on, even) so long as they have equality of opportunity, so long as we assess a sex only in the aggregate and give individuals a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 08:31 PM
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I don't think it's a myth.... check out the survivor vs casualty by gender chart for the Titanic: http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/6/69/Titanic_casualties.svg Regardless, the point I was trying to make wasn't about women/children first, it was about there being cases where discrimination can be positive. If you don't like my other example, how about the disparity in sentencing for men/women: http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2144002. If you're a woman, that's discri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 08:18 PM
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Sexism: Discrimination based on sex. The question "what is sexism to you?" is bullshit. We don't get to make up our own definitions to fit whatever narrative we're slinging. The feminist attempt to redefine words to fit their warped perspective is... retarded. Want to describe someone using their privilege and power over another group? Come up with a word for it, feminism is great at coming up with nonsensical new words to describe even the most trivial of perceived offenses (oops, there I go ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 07:47 PM
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Is there a section of the sidebar/core reading that talks about how male/male relationships work compared to female/male and female/female relationships? Because if not there should be, and this should be a big part of it. This is like Man 101: How Men Talk To Men. I'm not shy about letting my friends (often) know they're stupid faggots. Love those guys...
/r/askTRP06/06/15 06:41 PM
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Most places have multiple developers, making the whole thing a lot more social than you seem to think. People skills are just as important as technical skills these days, because you're not just sitting in a dark room typing for 12 hours straight.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 05:35 PM
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Correct. I'm a freelance coder making 6 figures. I get up when I want to get up, not when an alarm clock tells me. I work on the projects I want to work on, not what a boss tells me to do (wasn't always the case, but now...). I don't beg for days off, I work when I want to and sit on a beach when I don't. There are some downsides too. It's too easy to get stuck in the house and not see anyone for a week. You're sitting down all damn day, which sucks (making lifting that much more important). But…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 05:24 PM
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I had a similar experience in college, and it wasn't quite as bad as you make it sound. Listen up, /u/trp-throw... I had a sociology course (gayyyyyyy) where we talked about a lot of the same kinds of things. "Boo hoo, it's hard for women", "We need more social safety nets", all that hardcore liberal shit (says someone who's mostly liberal) that minimizes personal responsibility and hard work. I was the one person in class that disagreed with the echo chamber, and said that it's all bullshit and…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 10:39 PM
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http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/policies/law/risk.html
/r/askTRP03/06/15 06:21 PM
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http://lmgtfy.com/?q=48+laws+of+power+list
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 06:05 PM
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So where does the need for a man as a husband really come in here? Nobody NEEDS anyone else these days, but that statement is at odds with your topic What incentive does a woman have to get married in modern society? As far as what benefits does a woman get by marrying? Well there are a ton of financial ones (tax breaks, insurance through spouses plan, retirement/workers' comp for dead spouse, combining income, etc). And there are also a lot of non-financial reasons too. Want to be a SAHM? When …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 10:01 PM
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You can make $100k straight out of school if you go to the bay. You'll spend 90% of it just to scrape by, but the number looks cool
/r/askTRP01/06/15 09:46 PM
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Is that why there are so damn many of them? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 06:29 PM
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Start slow. Get out of the flat for 30 minutes a day and just walk around. Do that for a week, then bump it to 45 minutes. Then an hour. Get out of your comfort zone and just wander around. Get active even if it's just this little amount. Then look for something to ease back into socially. If you're smart you'll combine that with something physical, like a rec league. Then you're getting exercise AND meeting new people. Find an activity you enjoy and do it. No more porn. No more cam girls. Meet …
/r/askTRP29/05/15 08:13 PM
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I've never pulled a girl from a nightclub and I want that to change. Why does it matter where you meet the girl? The thing is I simply don't like them. I hate the kind of music they play and I just don't really know what to do when I'm there, besides just hitting on girls. Why hang out in a place you hate? Go to a place you like, and talk to girls there.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 08:05 PM
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Can you joke on the internet? I thought that wasn't allowed, and the thought police would remove it...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 04:54 AM
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I'm saying that "push" is a lot more passive than you think. You're stuck on the idea that "push" means she says no and you escalate anyway until she's too committed to do anything but fuck you (or something similar). That's not the case. I know of ZERO women who resist at the last minute if they really want you. Maybe we just meet different girls, because I've often (or at least on many occasions) had a woman say "we're not having sex" and then two minutes later SHE initiates it. Or maybe you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 03:23 AM
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Where is the 'push.' If you stop, you stop. That's not pushing. "Push" is a funny word in this context. I think of it more as squashing last minute resistance, there's no actual "pushing" involved. In fact if you're doing it right, and it's LMR and not a real no, she's going to pull you through that resistance herself. I think we say push because men need to understand that it's not a REAL no (and yes, the way I'm saying this is why BP thinks it's rape) and soldier on. It's all just part of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 02:45 AM
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All extremists make their groups look worse than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 02:01 AM
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I think people in general are good at feeling superior to other people, even (especially?) if it's unwarranted. People are funny that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 01:57 AM
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Or do you not have anything of substance to actually say? Do you?? I don't have anything to say because you aren't making an argument. You're just saying "TRPers are dumb and smell bad and have cooties and are dumb", and if you're going to be this willfully ignorant there's nothing I can offer you except my smartassery :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 01:42 AM
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Right, but if you go read about LMR in TRP, the "official" response is exactly what I did. Girl says no? Ok, stop all sexual contact. Hell, that's not even RP, that's just polite. The thing that TRP says about LMR is that when a woman says no, she often doesn't mean no literally. And yes, I hear how rapey that sounds out of context, but in my example that was exactly the case. And don't get me wrong, I've had no mean no exactly once in the time since I learned about TRP. And I respected that no …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 01:34 AM
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That's the thing about strawmen, as long as they look good to you that's all that matters :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 01:19 AM
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Most people are adverse to confrontation, so I completely agree with your statement "a lot of the people on TRP and even TBP may not be as aggressive in real life". It's easy to be an internet tough guy :) And maybe I conflate my own personal beliefs and TRP too much, but I honestly don't understand why people think TRP is hateful (outside of the dudes venting, which everyone does but not always in such a public way). Misogyny is the hatred of women. I don't hate women, I love those bitches! Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 01:10 AM
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Intentionally getting pregnant in order to force someone to be with you is blackmail, plain and simple. I'd argue that it might be worse than regular blackmail, since you're also putting an innocent right in the middle of the bullshit. Regarding the responses: If someone blackmails me, I'm sure as shit going to try and find a way to get out from under their control, because they're a crazy person and who knows what's going to happen next. Some of them are a little extreme for my tastes, but you …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 12:53 AM
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The ol' Tom Leykis Hail Mary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-F4zRV3rMpo
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 12:51 AM
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But for some reason BPers think it is. I had some LMR last night, and all of the LMR I've encountered has been just like it: Girl I'm with stops me and says "I don't want to have sex with you". I say cool, I stop escalating right away and start talking about the dumb movie we just saw. Not five minutes later she jumps me and it's all of 30 seconds until she utters those famous last words "Do you have a condom?". I'm at least 30% sure I didn't rape anyone last night, but I bet someone from the BP…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 12:45 AM
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Looking back at history it seems like men's honor and women's femininity are proportionate. We used to treat ladies a lot differently even a hundred years ago, but there seems to be a shortage of ladies these days, and so goeth the gentlemen :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 12:39 AM
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they preach lying, cheating, sneaking, manipulation, abuse, rape, and even sometimes allude to murder all to get their dicks wet and avoid any and all responsibility for their own actions Sweet strawman you've built here. Doesn't look that sturdy, but nice anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 12:31 AM
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The knowledge is amoral, and all knowledge is. Actions, on the other hand, aren't. TRP says "sexual strategy is amoral" because that's the truth. That doesn't mean you can't be a dickhead with that information, but that's you being a dickhead, not the information. So that being said, this chick acted like a dickhead. Not a bad strategy if you're trying to lock down a man, but it's still dickhead behavior on her part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 12:28 AM
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Gym time is you time. Focus on improving yourself, ignore the distractions. There are plenty of places to game women, the gym doesn't have to be one. That being said, if a woman approaches you and gets flirty, run with it. Get her to spot you, offer to let her work in, whatever. But remember why you go to the gym in the first place.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 11:35 PM
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Economics 101: Supply and Demand
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 03:30 AM
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Me, 2 hours ago: Just because other things are also dangerous doesn't mean that we can't discuss women (that's what TRP is for, sexual strategy for men). Yes, men can also make your life hell. Great. I don't have a deep seeded desire to make babies with men and make them a core part of my being like I do with women. You're willfully ignoring things I've already said. Not much of a discussion to be had if you've already made up your mind to maintain your stance no matter what and ignore any rebut…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 12:08 AM
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honestly, should i fear men who hold power over me? YES. You should fear anyone who has enough power over you that they can ruin you life in an instant. You would be foolish not to recognize that fact, and then take steps to mitigate their influence on your life. we're not in TRP, so what TRP is for is irrelevant Sidebar: Purple Pill Debate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill. So yes, TRP is relevant. TRP is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 11:29 PM
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yeah, if a guy wants to raise a kid that's biologically his, he has to find a woman to bear his child. that's the way it's always been, and that's the way it may always be. life isn't fair. I'm not complaining about this being unfair, because I'm not an idiot. You're completely right, life isn't fair. It's futile to sit around and complain, so get over it. You asked what power women hold over men, and that's a huge example of that power. From a biological standpoint, it's THE power, and by no ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 09:55 PM
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On top of what /u/Zxkkx-Kzxkzr said (and saved me a ton of typing in doing so), women also hold all the cards when it comes to reproduction. People are biologically driven to reproduce, but women are the gatekeepers when it comes to that. That's a huge power over men. Want to fulfill your #1 biological imperative as a man? That decision is in women's hands, not yours. Women have the ability to make your life amazingly fulfilling, or hellishly painful. And they don't seem to know or care. Which i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 08:39 PM
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women aren't out to get you. most women you meet don't give a fuck about you Right, and that apathy directed at men is what is so frightening to many. Women don't give a fuck about us, and at the same time they hold tremendous power over us, which is recipe for disaster. "With great power comes great responsibility" - Uncle Ben - Michael Scott And just like you said, women don't give a fuck. Most women feel little to no responsibility when it comes to men, and that's why NAWALT is irrelevant. Tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 07:21 PM
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Because I perceive myself as vulnerable, I have to learn how to read people and playoff their emotions. I try to be straightforward, what I think it is advisable to do so. That makes total sense. If you were to ask me why I think this difference in irrationality exists, I would have said both nature and nurture. Women have, out of necessity, needed to be more empathetic than men in order to thrive. To put it in a crass way (because I'm a big dumb TRP ape after all), women need to manipulate mens…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:22 AM
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What are the different types of irrationality? Men irrationally believe that they understand women. That is to say, men believe that women will think and behave like a man would think or behave (something the last few generations have been told over and over again by feminism). This is the source of mens' greatest frustration with women. Women irrationally believe that men will understand them. I assume this is also a great source of frustration for women. It's opposite sides of the same irratio…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 11:45 PM
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I can understand you and I desolated braid coming from Mobile? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 11:31 PM
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Oh, I know. The "cool girl" idea comes from the fantasy "best friend that you can also fuck", and I understand that gay relationships aren't like that at all (I think even gay men want a best friend that they can fuck, but that's beside the point). I wonder if it's the sexual aspect of a relationship that makes it impossible (or very very improbable), or if it's just the different archetypes you see in relationships (masculine/feminine) that gets in the way. I'd lean towards the latter, because …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 11:29 PM
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I can maybe agree with that, but I'd say we're differently-irrational. And the great lie that so many men are upset at is we've been told that men and women are the same kind of irrational. Different words, same concept and outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 11:15 PM
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I say what I mean, and so do all the men I know. Women say what they feel, which is where the disconnect is because men have been told (incorrectly) that women are as rational as men. That isn't to say that women are being dishonest with men, it's to say that women are being dishonest with themselves. Understanding that is the crux of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 11:05 PM
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What were you like before you became unplugged? In most regards, I was the same before TRP as I am now. I lifted. I improved myself (not as much as now, but still a bit). What changed was how I interacted with, and though of, women. Before I found TRP I was nervous around women, and played the White Knight (but only to a low degree, thank Satan) thinking it would get me what I wanted out of relationships. It never did, of course. Do you think all the sensationalist terms are necessary? I used to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 10:58 PM
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I've done this before on several occasions, and it definitely depends on the circumstances. If you're not good friends with the guy, then do whatever you want. If you are good friends, then talk to him first. Just say "this is what I want, but I'll totally respect your decision if you want to veto it because our friendship is more important". I'd have no problem if any of my buddies wanted to hook up w/ an ex of mine (hell, I'd give them pointers on what the chick likes) but I recognize that peo…
/r/askTRP26/05/15 07:44 PM
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I don't know a man who wouldn't want a boyfriend if it weren't for the fact that they are attracted to women. All the men I know are cooler than the women I know, but I'm driven to fuck women so that's what I do. That's why TRP preaches the importance of male friendships over female ones. Men have a lot to offer one another, things that you don't/can't get from a female friendship/relationship.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 06:20 PM
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Got out of a relationship 7ish months ago, started spinning around that time. Not sure if it makes me an "experienced plate spinner", but here it goes anyway: Do you just call them over when you feel like getting some? Yes. Or I'll make plans a few days in advance, if I know I'll be free. Do you take them out once in a while just for maintenance? I take them out if I want to go out, or if there's something cool to do, but not for "maintenance". Do any of your friends know about them? Yes, all my…
/r/askTRP22/05/15 12:24 AM
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And the top response equating it to "all guns are loaded" is perfect. Not all guns are loaded, but treating them that way is a good way to not accidentally shoot someone/something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/15 08:43 PM
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Anyone who's into fitness will say pretty much the same thing. Fitness isn't just strength, it's also cardio and flexibility. The thing w/ lifting is, you can get all of that in a single workout if you're doing it right. Go do some GVT 10x10s and tell me that's not a cardio workout. Or go ANY exercise with good form and tell me that doesn't require flexibility. I hit a point in my squat where flexibility was holding me back, so I went an improved my flexibility. Boom, squat PR. I hit a point in …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 12:29 AM
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100% yes. Every job I've worked that involved cleaning bathrooms, the women's room is always way grosser. As much as men get a bad rap for being disgusting people who pee all over everything, women are 10x worse.
/r/MensRights20/05/15 12:23 AM
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Religion: Bullshit Sometimes useful bullshit to some people Sometimes hurtful bullshit to many people Too prevalent in modern society for my taste
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 01:39 AM
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Right, but out of necessity we're talking in generalities here. We're a little lose on the terms, preferring "all" to "most", "never" to "almost never", etc. And there are reasons for that, which people have beat to death in PPD/TRP before, so I won't get into them again. So with that in mind: In general men equate respect and admiration from women to love. So in general, if a woman doesn't respect and admire her man, he doesn't feel loved. That's the long and the short of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 01:34 AM
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Right, just wanted OP to know it wasn't a sure thing (because it definitely can come back and bite you in the ass). And depending on what happens (or even just the state you're in), a broken lease will bone you next time you try and rent again.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 01:30 AM
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Men and women love (and thus expect to be loved) differently. Men want a woman's respect and admiration, that's how we feel "loved". Women don't respect and admire Betas as much as Alphas. For someone posting on here as often as you, you'd think you grasp this (even if you don't agree with it) by now :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 01:25 AM
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That's mostly not true. You pay rent in a fixed amount, the landlord doesn't care how you split it. Split it 3 ways for 2 rooms? Split it 50/50? The landlord doesn't give a shit as long as they get their money. If you're on a lease, you are potentially liable for all the rent per month, if you don't want to fuck yourself over. So if you just stop paying, you have to roll the dice that the other two tenants will pick up your slack for their own benefit. If they don't, then you're in trouble.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 01:19 AM
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Yep. It's men talking to men like men. People outside TRP seem to get caught up in the language more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 01:15 AM
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That's the thing man, she's a plate. Comes over to my place, maybe cooks some dinner, then sex for a while and leaves. We don't really go out, so running into other women with her doesn't happen. We're heading out to a bar tonight for her to potentially pick someone up... you said to flirt with other women with her there, do you think the actual picking up should be on me instead? I assumed that women would be more at ease w/ her doing it, but I might be wrong.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 01:22 AM
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Depends on what your goal is, buddy. Want casual sex? Tinder is great for that. Want someone of LTR quality? Stay away from Tinder.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 11:51 PM
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Pretty much. This question is just nature vs. nurture reworded. And we've known for a while the answer is: both
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/15 08:23 PM
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I like Jimmy Carr's take on the subject: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uXom0OP3Rwk "It's just so stupid, isn't it? Beating your wife, I mean, it's your wife. It's like keying your own car"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 04:58 PM
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Yeah, west coast you can live in a decently big city (not Seattle or SF, but not BFE) and make 100k and actually have money left to spend. I did the whole 100k in SF thing not too long ago, and it sucks... Remote is the way to go, second only to self employment.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 04:18 AM
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Yeah, if by "bottom of the totem pole" you mean "making 6 figures sitting in my underwear at home and drinking beer at noon". It's the worst! /s All non-junior programmers know that you won't make amazing money by working for other people. Some start their own businesses, and learn real quick that there's more to good software than just banging on a keyboard for 14 hours a day. Others don't care, and pull in good money for a cushy gig by any other standard. Have numbers to back up that 90th perc…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 02:42 AM
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Only time I've been asked for GPA was when I was at a college job fair, and come to find out the company that was doing the asking was a notorious shithole. They told me straight up "Have a 3.6 or we won't consider you", and in retrospect I should have just lied and said I had a 3.7 or something. Worst case they check, and you don't get a job you weren't getting anyway. Best case they don't check, and you get a job (fake it till you make it in action). For most employers, the important part was …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 02:37 AM
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I'm asking about the OPPOSITE of that. How do you, as someone who has money, keep the gold diggers off ya? Girls see the nice car and good shit in your house and might just decide they're holding out for a ring instead of just a fling.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 02:29 AM
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Do whatever you want, why is this a question for TRP?
/r/askTRP06/05/15 12:04 AM
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What about inadvertently displaying your income? I've thought about this a lot and came to the same conclusion you did, that raising SMV by showing income is a bad, bad idea. But if a girl comes over, she's going to see my car. She'll see my stuff, and while I don't have a lot of things, the shit I do buy is high quality (thus expensive). Outside of not having women over, and driving my 20 year old truck instead of my brand new car out to dates, what if anything can you do to minimize the impact…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 09:49 PM
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If your grades are below average, don't mention them. 95% of people won't ask, and the 5% that do aren't worth your time (tech employers that care about grades have their priorities mixed up). Network with everyone, develop social skills so you're not a typical awkward nerd, and work hard.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 09:44 PM
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Last time I stopped drinking it lasted for almost a year, to cut some weight off my fat ass. Not drinking any calories helps a LOT. I'd still go out to bars with friends/girlfriends, but I was the designated driver every time. People loved it, and never gave me any shit about it (a common problem if your core group of friends are drinkers, it seems). So you can still go out and socialize, but just have water/diet soda. My buddy tricks people by drinking a tonic water + lime, looks like you're dr…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 02:52 AM
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people brought up to believe sex is icky and degrading for only one gender outside of marriage will have the sort of reaction to female casual sex that RPers do I love women that have sex outside of marriage. I'd still be a virgin without them, or married to one of my ex-girlfriends just to get some action (shudder). I'm not (and RP is not) against casual sex, how would that even work? Many of us seek it out. I recognize that there are consequences for my actions, and the consequences from havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 11:46 PM
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If women become bigger sluts, will men cease to be studs? Interesting question. The answer is, of course, yes. If something isn't hard anymore, then there's not a whole lot of glory to be had in doing it. If all of a sudden everyone could run a 4 minute mile, would we watch the olympics and say "Damn, that Usain Bolt sure is fast"? Of course not, it's become unexceptional. An interesting followup to that question is: If being a stud is no longer an exceptional thing, does being a slut cease to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 09:43 PM
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As a bearded, tattooed, hairy, gut-having man, I can attest to that. I agree that the important part is the rugged/masculine vibe that the man conveys. On a masculine man, a gut isn't as unattractive as it is on a feminine one, because it's part of the whole package.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 09:08 PM
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The part of TRP that is concerned with self improvement would say "don't be unhealthy just to get girls" because that's silly. The part of TRP that talks about sexual strategy would say "Girls are attracted to it, so be that" because it'd work if they were truly attracted to the "dad body". It'd be up to the reader to decide what their goals were, and then pick accordingly. Edit: And just as a side note, I know women that are attracted to men with that body type. But they're also attracted to fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 07:10 PM
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Do you regret your past casual sex experiences? Nope, I regret being too afraid of women to approach, probably (who am I kidding, definitely) could have had more casual sex. But even then, regret is a strong word. Mostly I just look back and shake my head at that silly young guy. Has your promiscuous sexual past made you unsuitable for a relationship? If not, why? Nope. I'm very good at compartmentalizing sex, to me it can be a purely physical act. Besides, what do you mean "unsuitable"? I've go…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 05:48 PM
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Um... yes? Have you never tried it? Growing up I was pretty introverted, never really talked to anyone that I didn't know, was scared of women, your typical nerdy adolescent male. Then on day I said "fuck it, I'm going to act like a confident person even though it sounds terrible". Eye contact w/ everyone, talking to strangers, the whole 9 yards. Now it's second nature. I don't feel anxious or anything talking to people, and I'm much more confident/outgoing. All because I faked it for a while. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 03:33 AM
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Just because the data is biased doesn't make it bad, if you know the biases. And in this case, we do. In general, women are going to underreport their number of sexual partners, and men are going to overreport theirs. In reality, we should just call the data what it is: the number of people a person reports to have slept with. You can still find trends and draw conclusions from that, even though they pertain to reported partners and not actual ones. We all want to know about actual partners, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 09:31 PM
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I think the real money would be made with in-app purchases (or in-flap purchases, if you will). Tighten it up for only 99 cents!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 09:21 PM
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I understand the issues with self-reporting, but how else would you expect to get data on this kind of thing? It seems like working to understand the biases that exist when self-reporting, and then accounting for those biases in your study is the only way to even try and draw a conclusion. At least, until we can figure out which part of our DNA is the bedpost, so science can count the notches by hand ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 05:31 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/VFQLMaa.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 06:04 AM
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I've hooked up with a black woman once, but the only real reason I did it is because I wanted to taste the dark chocolate (maybe even just to say that I have). I can't quite put my finger on it, but 99.5% of black women just aren't attractive to me for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/15 11:25 PM
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They're strawmanning us as blaming our problems on women because the opposite of RP (bp) is the thesis that women aren't why you suck at life. Right, which is why I pointed out the fact that, when read without context, it sounds very RP. A BPer trying to ridicule TRP with advice that TRP preaches from the outset. The irony is delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 11:44 PM
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Then you don't know much about TRP What do you mean? It is not the fault of women that you suck at life. This is RP as fuck. Taking personal responsibility instead of finger pointing. It says that you are to blame for your failure of understanding women, and you are the only one who can change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 09:45 PM
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Oh snap, I don't have subreddit styles turned on and I just assumed that OP was saying that from the RP side, since that's a pretty core RP tenet...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 07:53 PM
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Love em, want to find a good one... or a few bad ones ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 07:48 PM
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The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. There are plenty of reasons to be nice, but TRP is for talking about sexual strategy, so often things are put in those terms. And the statement is true, just being nice doesn't get men laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 11:44 PM
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Yes, it is. Old news that the person I was talking to didn't know about, apparently
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 04:25 PM
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Except Tor loses its effectiveness if an attacker operates enough exit relays. A government could exploit this (and likely has). Combine that with the fact that they own all the big relays already, are storing all the traffic, and can force a CA to give up anyones private SSL certification w/o anyone being the wiser... you're pretty fucked already. "They don't think it be like it is, but it do"
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 04:53 AM
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I tease women all the time, it's a decent way to build rapport with someone. I've only had teasing fail catastrophically once, after a date with a woman who said she felt I was mean and didn't want her there because I was teasing her. "I deserve to go on a date with a man who wants me there, you don't care". It was a great way to figure out that she was super insecure, and not someone I wanted to spend any more time with. So yeah, I'm a fan of it. If the girl can take it (and tease back) then it…
/r/askTRP13/04/15 08:51 PM
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I don't hide the fact from my plates, and I won't lie to them about it, but I don't go out of my way to tell them either. Girls tend to leave little breadcrumbs around your place for others to find. Often it's a hair tie or bobby pin, or just clumps of hair that's clearly not mine. Every time the issue has come up I'll play it off as not a big deal, because to me it isn't. Every plate of mine knows, but none seem to care, which is pretty much the point. Only once or twice has a plate directly as…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 11:12 PM
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What's with all the rationalizations? There are a ton of engineering jobs out there, if you can't get one either you a) suck, or b) are in a saturated market. So either a) stop sucking, or b) go somewhere where your talents are in demand. Or I guess say fuck it and c) learn a trade ;) No excuses, there are always jobs for people who are good at what they do. The cream rises to the top, man. Strive to be that cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 03:18 AM
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I started working in the field in '08, but graduated after that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 12:48 AM
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My friends from school are working for Google and whatnot, they're making more than I am. But then again, they're paying for it in cost of living (SF is expensive). My results aren't typical, sure. But for 95% of my classmates, school has been a good investment. But that was partially my point above: you need a degree that isn't shit, and you need to do the math to see if it's worthwhile BEFORE you jump into it. Mine is worthwhile, so is most of STEM. And I didn't come out of school making $150k…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 12:40 AM
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But of course you'll say I'm just splitting hairs. Yes, I will say that. I will say that because the interesting discussion we could and should be having here is about my claim that men are genetically driven to fuck women, and that's why we put up with their shit (even when it's seemingly not in our best interest). But instead we're talking about your fundamental misunderstanding of the word "relationship" and your erroneous qualifier "any kind". http://i.imgur.com/JQknPc8.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 10:14 PM
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College is still a great investment if you get a degree that is worth the time/money. My story is like yours, except I went to a state school for 5 years, graduated with something like $16k in student loans, and now I'm pulling in $150k+ a year (which is 3x the median salary for my location, so... that's cool). Even considering the time savings if I went to trade school, I'd be hard pressed to make the kind of money I do for the level of effort that's involved. If you're considering trade school…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 09:59 PM
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Yes, that's the part of my comment that you should address. Well done. Because fuck it, let's just split hairs instead of having a real discourse. re·la·tion·ship the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected. You don't see why someone you fuck, or someone that has your kid, might be casually connected to you? You probably meant to write "You can get those things without any kid of romantic relationship with a woman" instead of just "any…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 08:59 PM
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You can get those things without any kind of relationship with a woman, whether casual or a LTR. You can get a prostitute for sex and a surrogate to have your brats. Both those are examples of a casual relationship, but whatever. We know trpers aren't logical, but you do write a lot of crap and try to analyze shit in your forum. Does this mean your brain turns into sago pudding when you cross a woman's path? There isn't any debating with your ad hominem, intellectually dishonest bullshit. This j…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 05:38 PM
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I asked why RPillers even bother with dating... What rewards are there? Just having sex? That's the question it answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 05:31 PM
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Good man, thanks for asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 12:53 AM
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Hey taibo, how've you been?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 12:35 AM
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Men want to fuck women and reproduce. It's a primal need that drives a lot of what we do, and you can't really "reason" with that kind of animal instinct. I know women are a bit selfish, irrational, etc. But that knowledge doesn't change the fact that I want to find a hot one and put some babies in her, even though I can come up with a million reasons not to. It's not about logic, it's about that drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 10:06 PM
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Setting up an alternative would be simple (as far as technology goes, this place isn't that damn complicated), and might cost a few hundred a month to host and maintain. /u/AmazonExplorer is right and the sidebar says to look to Puerarchy.com if something happens here, though the site doesn't inspire confidence (news article on the main page is from a year ago)... It'd be so much easier to create a general purpose site w/ actual features that benefit the community (searchable glossary of terms, …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:38 AM
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All the issues I've ever observed between two female friends have stemmed from the same source: Men. Women are in direct competition with each other for the best man, where as men are, for the most part, content with a good (not the best) woman. It'd be hard to truly become friends with your direct competition in any realm, but when you put it in terms of reproduction, that shit gets turned up to 11. Combine that with the level of entitlement your typical first world woman has (and I don't blame…
/r/askTRP07/04/15 03:56 AM
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Everyone makes generalizations Haha, well done
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 03:42 AM
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Because.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 11:46 PM
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Yeah, TRP isn't into tattoos. But at the same time, if you are then TRP can fuck off. Be a man and make your own decisions. My tattoos have helped get me laid. And I'm sure they've helped NOT get me laid. But whatever, I like them. Just like you said, don't get them for any reason other than you wanted them.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 07:09 PM
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It's not a shit test, it's an excuse. A shit test is pass/fail, this is just their way of telling you to fuck off and there is no winning condition. Stop trying to discern deeper meaning from such a trivial thing.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 12:56 AM
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This is... pretty true. I'm an Old Spice guy, and I get so many "you smell like my father" comments that even Freud would be impressed.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 12:55 AM
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You know that cliche about Catholic schoolgirls and how they're nymphomaniacs that have been repressed their whole lives, and then go buck wild once put into a new environment? That's the truth. The "no sex until marriage" line is good for men they don't have a desire to sleep with, if they want to fuck you bad enough they'll find an excuse. Oh, and the "new environment" I mentioned? That's college. You're 19, you in school? Because there's all the environment you need to meet women. Not in scho…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 12:07 AM
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Girls like it when it's on attractive men, and hate it when ugly, socially inept nerds wear it. Listen to /u/slater2j, and stop overthinking the shit you use to cover up your sweaty ass. It's just deodorant, man.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 12:01 AM
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So what's your interpretation of the situation then? I've been told on multiple occasions by different women that "we're not having sex tonight" while at the same time they're engaging in something pretty sexual with me. In bed naked. On the couch naked. This happens a lot when they're naked, I'm coming to realize... Anyway, it seems kind of like what TRP calls Anti-Slut Defense (which is a type of Shit Test), because the words ring hollow in the face of her actions. I've never had a woman say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/15 11:57 PM
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I was going to post this in reply to someone else in the thread, but I think it's more important you see it directly. I wish I would have found TRP earlier, there's a LOT to learn that is helpful, and looking back I see times in my life where the knowledge would have benefitted me. So read and absorb, focus on the parts that make you a better man above all else (lift, learn, work hard). The part you want to ignore when you're young (or I'd even argue that you want to avoid this when you're old t…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 08:16 PM
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Absolutely. I just paid someone $250 to do my taxes for me, which seems like a lot. But when you consider the time it would have taken me to do them myself (which I spent working instead), I'm actually making money.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 09:58 PM
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Here's that RP truth: Go figure that shit out for yourself. Sit down and do a cost/benefit analysis on school, and see if the numbers make sense. I left school with $15k in debt (because I worked my ass off while in school to keep costs low), but my first job paid $60k a year, and it's only gotten better since. That's a good investment. If school had cost me $200k and I was earning $60k a year, then that's probably not a good investment.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 09:51 PM
2

130 here. Maybe I should become a Jew to get on your guys' level. Not quite a Shitlord... maybe a Shitcount? Shitbaron?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 05:38 AM
1

Kitchen work is fun, but demanding. There's never any break in the work, if you need a smoke then you have to have another cook cover for you while you sneak away (and you get to cover for them as well). The people are some of the craziest I've ever met, in a good way. Every single minute of every single workday was one long sexual harassment claim after another. Cooks ribbing servers, servers ribbing cooks, it's a shitshow. And there's pretty much always a party happening after work. Every. Sin…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 10:22 PM
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Duh, everyone knows the real quote is: "Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks" ~ Churchill
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 06:18 PM
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Or it threatens the woman because if only unattractive men flirt with unattractive women, what does that say about her? There's no way she's in his league.. right? Creep shaming is a mechanism for preserving her ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 09:01 PM
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Winner winner. I've had this said to me a few different times right before we had sex (because they were exactly that kind of girl, the statement is pretty meaningless). /u/fnordsnord's response of "Neither am I" is the perfect way to handle it when you're escalating. I've also just straight up laughed in response, but YMMV with that.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 07:45 PM
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No doubt. I say the worst things to my best friends (the pieces of shit), because that's how men bond.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 07:41 PM
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After I swallowed the pill and broke up with my LTR (semi-unrelated) half a year ago I made it my personal goal to get to 20 (I was at 7 at the time). At 17 now, but it feels like cheating because Tinder is a barrel full of fish waiting to get shot, it's not even difficult... I'd say that the goal should be to approach as much as possible when aspiring to higher numbers a well. Having a higher number certainly changes your perspective on things, I'll give you that. And the journey is pretty fun …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 06:23 PM
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Go post this in /r/redpillwomen and lurk there a bit. I don't think anyone here is going to have an answer for you, as TRP focuses on men.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 05:22 PM
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Then find someone else to talk about this shit, because that video was unwatchable. Got about 3 minutes into it before I got tired of listening to Red toss a Decepticon's salad and closed the video. Not sure what your goal is in making these podcasts, but if you want many people to watch them you need to make them as accessible as possible. This wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/15 06:16 PM
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I think of it in the same way, minus the bit about intention. You hear about people upgrading plates, those are people that (knowingly or not) use their plates as a vehicle to an LTR. And I agree with all the benefits that /u/ECoast_Man mentions above, so most often while your plates aren't directly responsible for finding a quality LTR (meaning you usually don't upgrade), plating serves an ancillary purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/15 09:07 PM
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I think that it can be both, don't you? Meaning that one person can use it for sex and just sex, while another can use it as a vetting process for potential long term relationships (plus, sex). Hell, I think plating can be both those things for the same person, depending on their goals at the time (start out looking for sex, get it from plates, use the system to find someone that's more than just a hole, all the while getting laid).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/15 08:35 PM
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Plating women is comparison shopping, and you don't do that one at a time for anything, you do it side by side (because otherwise you lack any context whatsoever). You can only call a camera "good" or "bad" based on other cameras.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/15 07:45 PM
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I'd do it w/o voice modulation, but then again I'm not endorsed so who the fuck even am I to talk about TRP? But I've got the balls to say what I believe and not feel the need to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 09:07 PM
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Hahaha I'm a retard. I read that as "What's a proxy?". Carry on... I assume he recommends a proxy because he's paranoid about... something to do w/ someone knowing you saw the video? I don't really understand it either.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 08:51 PM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Proxy_server
/r/askTRP19/03/15 08:41 PM
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Troll. That's why /u/MRSPArchiver exists
/r/MensRights19/03/15 06:10 PM
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Haha, I love this so much. Was about to post it, good thing I did a ctrl+f first. "Yeah... well... you do have a nail... in your head..."
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 05:49 PM
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Another thought: There was a lot of "I can show you the study..." in that video. I think that yes, you should include those studies in the video description or annotate the video after the fact w/ links to the studies (for both sides, if they want to provide them). Because otherwise [citation needed].
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 07:20 PM
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I want to like this thing. I want it to not suck. I really do. Brain dump while I listen: Introduce the participants. Who's the blue broad? Who the hell are the reds? Make them write up a sentence about themselves and read them before jumping into the debate. Anyone stumbling upon this has zero context as to what's going on. Voice modulation sucks, knock it off. Sounds like you're talking with Optimus Prime's dick in your mouth. Give the participants a copy of the questions you're asking (to eac…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 06:32 AM
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Couldn't agree more. I've been the one doing the interviewing a few times, and if the candidate is someone that you would enjoy seeing in the office every day that matters a lot more than their book smarts (up to a point, at least). Nobody wants to work with a socially retarded genius, it's too much bullshit.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 08:44 PM
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Software contractor w/ one big client and a few small ones.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 08:39 PM
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I'm self employed, but I have clients that I have to answer to. I've had 4 or 5 jobs in the past that were more traditional (actual employee, go to the office every day...) and GPA didn't matter then either. It never came up and I had no reason to advertise it.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 08:38 PM
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I graduated with a 2.8, now I'm making $150k+ a year working from home in my pajamas (in a low cost of living city, too). GPA isn't important after they give you that piece of paper.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 06:15 PM
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SS says to go M/W/F. If you have T/F free, then to get the same schedule they recommend you'd go to the gym on Sunday. That way you have a rest day between every workout. Instead of M/W/F you'd do F/Su/T. Seriously, go read about SS. And go lurk/post in /r/fitness, that's what they're there for.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 03:26 AM
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I'd like to see #2, especially if it contrasted with what the female experience is like for modern woman as compared to 60 years ago. The comparison of both is hard though, you'd likely need to talk to some folks that were in the dating scene back then who can speak on the matter. Call up grandma and grandpa, explain what a podcast is, and get their 2 cents on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 06:04 PM
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Yup. After I lost 50lbs, my face looked weirder than when I was fat. Thank Satan for beards though, saved my face by not shaving my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 08:22 PM
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Losing weight (fat) is achieved by eating fewer calories than you burn, plain and simple. I've lost a bunch of weight with neither lifting nor cardio, just purely by cutting calories. http://i.imgur.com/muUoHkz.png As far as looking "toned" goes, look at people who do cardio only (distance runners) versus people who lift only (olympic lifters) versus people who do a bit of both (average gym rat). Distance runners are skinny fat, oly lifters are strong fat, and the people who do both are pretty d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 08:21 PM
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Callbacks also help with building rapport with women (hell, people in general), and are useful to have in your game toolkit.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 07:22 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/ElDVy.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 06:40 PM
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Quite the magnificent man of straw you've built here. Looks quite sturdy. Anti or cynical of science and/or modernity I'm as pro-science as you can get. Science is great. And I love the modern age, it's what lets me sit on my ass for 8 hours a day working instead of busting butt for 12 outside. Thanks, computers! Fearful of female sexuality RPers aren't afraid of female sexuality, we just recognize it for what it really is. Nothing wrong with calling a duck a duck. Hatred of/towards promiscuous …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 06:17 PM
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Well, either she drunkenly admitted to slutting around (I doubt it) Why would you doubt that, given her history? You said it yourself: fucking her was easy. I'd bet you a round of beers she absolutely slept with another person(s).
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 10:08 PM
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Yep. People I don't care about calling me names? So what? Why would I devote any amount of energy caring about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 10:02 PM
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Why do I bother coming to PPD? Why do I still think I'll have genuine conversations when 90% of the people in here are http://i.imgur.com/wfA7Xst.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 09:40 PM
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How can STDs influence mate choice when most STDs have no visible indications? We haven't been talking about mate choice (though if there are visible signs then yes, STDs will also affect mate choice), we've been talking about evolutionary implications. Dumping and dumping costs very very little in terms of parental investment. I could support a family and still have time to knock up women on the side. What is mysterious is why I'd have any discrimination whatsoever who I choose as a side fuck. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 09:20 PM
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1) There are a few evolutionary consequences to STDs, such as: Becoming sterile, thus making you an evolutionary dead end. Just because you aren't aware it happened doesn't mean it doesn't "make sense from an evolutionary standpoint". If you can't reproduce for any reason, you're out of the game son. Having visible signs of an STD and women refusing to have anything to do with you ("dude's got sores on his dick, I'm not touching THAT"), which makes you an evolutionary dead end. Children contract…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 08:34 PM
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Share?
/r/askTRP10/03/15 05:17 PM
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There are consequences to sex, such as STDs that have the potential to make you infertile, so bedding uggos has some risks that might not always be worth the reward. Not to mention the fact that if you're just indiscriminately banging away at anything that moves, you still want your kids to grow and reproduce themselves. Passing on your genes is important, but it's also important that the other 50% of their genetic makeup isn't bringing yours down later on (genetic dead end that may as well have…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 06:33 AM
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I agree, a little rundown at the beginning of who the participants are and what their pill is would be super helpful (and if the avatar pics changed to match, that'd help keep it all straight as well). Doing an intro podcast on what each pill is (or just an intro video that doesn't even have to be a podcast, just a compilation of info about each pill) would be super helpful to outsiders who wander into the archive and want to know what the hell is going on. Other people said this below too, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 06:23 AM
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And in my experience they're a good way to get some free kino in, as girls will often grab my arms to inspect the ink.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 06:22 PM
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This advice is given to adults, who have (or should have) more control over their lives than they probably realize. Nobody is going around telling crippled people "Maybe if you took responsibility and tried harder, you could walk again". Nobody tells child soldiers "Well, these are the choices you made, so go get shot". That's just stupid. You're a man. You're told to take responsibility for your own life because you are the only person who gives a fuck about you. You can change things you're un…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 07:43 PM
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I've got one, and the bitch loves me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 12:52 AM
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Talk to him. "Hey dude, I feel like we're not as close as we used to be, and it's because of Skank. How do we fix it?" Good friends can talk about this shit rationally and figure it out. If he's THAT much of a friend to you, cut her from your life, because he's worth it. Block her number, unfriend on FB, all that shit. Only hang out with him, not him and her together. Delete the pics she sent you (or, you know... archive them somewhere and get rid of any that are close at hand).
/r/askTRP06/03/15 12:43 AM
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I'm going to disagree here. I don't think that RP's views on women are that we "can't have any type of relationship with women other than sexual", in fact most men want a deeper relationship with a woman. The issue is that many women don't have anything to offer other than sex. I just got out of a relationship and over the following months I did a little retrospective thinking. In the relationship, the only positive thing that she brought to the table was sex. I worked hard, made a bunch of mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 08:14 PM
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Because it's so easy to disregard something new/different that challenges your viewpoints and demonize it instead of thinking about it critically and discussing it rationally. That's not just an RP vs BP thing, it's a human thing. We're creatures of comfort, and things that take us outside our comfort zone are perceived as threats to us. Edit: The downvotes on this comment are so deliciously ironic...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 07:53 PM
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Interjecting what you think a typical RPer's views on women are in order to further the circlejerk. Yes, that's what was disingenuous about it, especially since I said none of the above. I don't think women are whores (I mean, unless you're literally fucking people for money). I don't think they're flakier than men. I don't think they're any more greedy than men. I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt by engaging, and assume you're not just here to jerk circles but to actually discuss th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 07:41 PM
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Thanks for adding to the conversation with such a disingenuous response. That's exactly what PPD needs, more sensationalism and circlejerkery from the BP corner...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 06:52 PM
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Yeah, TRP is big on the whole "Don't wish it were easier, wish you were better" mantra. Women are women, it's my fault if I don't understand them, not theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 07:31 PM
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Agreed. It totally depends on the guy. I lost a (not that great) friend because I slept with his ex. Wasn't a huge loss to me, the dude was needy as shit, but it didn't do him any favors emotionally. That being said if the tables were turned, I'd high five the shit out of any of my buddies that tapped an ex of mine. I'd even give them tips ("Do this and she'll lose her mind. You owe me a beer") or warn them about her particular brand of bullshit. Why do I care? We're exes for a reason. I think y…
/r/askTRP04/03/15 12:54 AM
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If she responds then set up a time, have her over and fuck her. What's the question here?
/r/askTRP04/03/15 12:41 AM
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WHY do you have to be in a frat? So you can take someone's virginity? WHY are you so obsessed w/ bedding a virgin? Been there, done that, and it's nothing special. WHY haven't you taken my advice and read the damn sidebar and searched for ways to get over the anger? Because instead of rationalizing all this you should be focusing on getting past the issues you're having so you can be happy. WHY are you pointing fingers at "things out of my control" for your failings? Men don't do that, they find…
/r/askTRP03/03/15 10:00 PM
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This is a timely discussion, because I had a plate over last night and this morning she's checking her bank account on her phone wondering if her paycheck has been deposited yet and if she can go buy... whatever bullshit she buys, I forget. All I could think of the whole time is "Damn, I'm glad I got my shit together and don't have to do that anymore", because you're right it's nice not to have to stress about money. I'll have to check out the book (which seems to be available online with the ri…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 08:17 PM
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I love cash too, but if you're smart at using credit it can be better for you in the long run. Example: Right now I'm buying a new car, putting some money down but taking a loan of about $20k as well. Terms are 36 months, 0.9% APR, so I'm paying about $300 in interest on that loan over its life. I have the cash to buy the car outright, but I'll make more money investing that cash now and taking the loan than the other way around. If I can make more than 0.9% on the $20k, then it'd be silly to NO…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 08:09 PM
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Not just that, credit cards offer a layer of protection that debit cards don't. I had a scary moment my senior year of college because $4k randomly disappeared from my bank account (it was spent in Russia on computer shit, the bank assumed correctly that I wasn't doing that and called me up). This happened the same week that I needed to pay tuition, which I was paying out of pocket. It was a scary week, had to work with the school's bursar to stay in school on a promise of money later. After abo…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 08:04 PM
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Read what I wrote again, start from a few replies up. I never mention RPW, all I said is he isn't a man. And yes, it's because he cares about the opinion of strangers and needs their validation instead of defining himself and cultivating an IDGAF attitude for people who shouldn't have a say in his self worth.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 06:14 PM
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Exactly this. Make plans to meet the girl a few messages in, because you don't want to be the guy endlessly texting her. It's not terribly hard, just say you prefer getting to know someone face to face, that technology is so impersonal, blah blah whatever. Never had a woman disagree when I drop that line. If they still resist then move on, because you're throwing good time after bad, and your time should be valuable to you. And don't lob softball questions at her like "hey, what are YOUR needs a…
/r/askTRP03/03/15 04:13 AM
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I don't know where to begin... 1) You're clearly in the anger phase. This probably comes across in your interactions with people, and might be why you aren't getting a bid. "I've learned to love my enemies" is a pretty big red flag man. Same with "just so I can be a part of this ruthless and absolutely disgusting hypergamy that goes on around campus". Go search TRP for ways people have handled the anger in the past, and focus on that. It's not healthy to cling to it. 2) You're in your early 20s,…
/r/askTRP03/03/15 04:05 AM
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Oh man, the self awareness in this one... Yes, real men don't give a fuck about what others think, and decide who and what they are for themselves. Your reply (and this whole damn thread) is the polar opposite of that. I'll echo what /u/vandaalen said: I don't care, and neither should you. But you do care for some unknown reason, because here you are on the internet, arguing with a stranger about how much of a man you are. Knock it off.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 03:50 AM
1

Well you certainly aren't a man.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 01:58 AM
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That being said, I don't slut shame. But I also don't shout "she's a strong, independent woman!" from the top of the mountain either. I don't shame. But don't pretend like it doesn't affect relationships. And holy shit, hasn't this topic been beat to death in the TRP sidebar? The answer is there, but you have to be willing to actually look for it. Don't feel like rehashing it right now to circlejerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 07:51 AM
1

Agree 100%. The answer isn't "meh", that's some serious shit right there...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 07:47 AM
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Your version of a slut and mine are different, if we're talking raw numbers (I'd argue that the threshold is different for each guy). So I agree that every woman has a time in their life where they become a little less inhibited. For you it may be that a woman can have 50 partners and still be LTR material, but for me she has to have, say, under 10. That part is subjective, a slut isn't a slut to every man. But at some point, a girl can be a slut to you, and then she loses value in your opinion,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 03:43 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pbvrGiL_s70 TRP's views on slut shaming, masked in comedy. this is not the middle-east where a woman's value depends on how tight she keeps her legs together. Her value to me is partially influenced by how much/little self control she has. If she's a slut that can't keep her ankles together, then that makes her less valuable to me, because she's liable to keep spreading those legs. That being said, I don't slut shame. But I also don't shout "she's a strong, indepe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 02:38 AM
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It's a bit disconcerting that the site that's supposed to be the backup to TRP has stuff from 2013 on its home page. Dead site? Or just not needed (yet) and so it's ignored?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:52 PM
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Why are decreased marriage rates a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 11:01 PM
1

I've worked in offices for years before this, the fact that I work from home now is a testament to how much I've succeeded. That's the only reason I pointed it out. Of all my years in offices, having tattoos never once hurt me professionally. It's a brave new world son, tattoos are no longer a taboo. It's a good thing.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 06:17 PM
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Society will not treat you, the 24 year old graphic designer or 28 year old marketing associate the same way as my boss. You haven't earned the right to wear tattoos, and it shows that you have bad decision making skills. This type of thinking is so archaic and stupid. I'm a 20 something with a ton of tattoos, and I'm making 6 figures sitting on my ass all day at home (definitely not a "blue collar" worker). Society doesn't give a shit, and the parts that DO care are parts that I don't give a fu…
/r/askTRP22/02/15 12:33 AM
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My mom is going through that phase right now, it's just what happens at a certain age. "There's a cutie at work that wants to settle down, want her number?". Whatever, you silly old broad...
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:25 PM
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Can't upvote enough. Getting a tattoo for any reason other than "I wanted it" is dumb. Getting one to attract ladies is quite dumb indeed.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:05 PM
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Women love the stupid ones too, at least in my experience. But that might be because I have so many, the stupid ones are few and far between (but still there).
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:04 PM
2

Check your insurance, some (I think HMOs and maybe some PPOs?) require that you get a referral before you go to any specialist for something non-emergency.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:02 PM
2

My life improved after reading the core materials and putting them into practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 11:48 PM
1

Yep. This the best way to teach anything, not just RP stuff. Model the behavior, and encourage him to think critically about everything, even the stuff you're telling him.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 07:57 PM
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Give her an hourly rate, cash up front
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:54 AM
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Ditto /u/RPSigmaStigma: search function. Take your meds religiously. Don't take any chances where you might infect someone else. Inform people that need to be informed. Don't let it get you down, learn from it, handle your shit, and move on with your life. Not the end of the world or anything...
/r/askTRP18/02/15 12:02 AM
3

I'm unsure how to escalate to what I want What do you want? This question is vague as shit.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 11:53 PM
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Can second this, academia isn't nearly as interested in discovering the truth as they are in not rocking the boat. For the most part they shoot for "business as usual", and people who threaten that don't make it very far in that world...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 06:33 PM
1

What advice do you have for the average Indian male looking to improve his place in the dating game? 1) Don't be average, be the best man you can be. But probably more importantly 2) Stop using your race as a crutch. "I'm X race and so Y is going to happen to me" is a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 10:28 PM
1

It couldn't be because they don't feel that way, right? Must be repressed emotions and anger. /s The only "enemy" in TRP is the old, shitty version of yourself that you're trying to improve every day. "Don't wish it was easier, wish you were better".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 03:12 AM
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Before: Life was fine. But my relationships were always strained. Not that I spent a lot of time in any given relationship. Didn't get a ton of female attention, but then again I didn't have the balls to try and get any. Already lifted and had a decent job at this point, so RP didn't affect me much there. Now: Life is fine. Not in a relationship (left a bad one a few months after swallowing the pill), exploring my many options now that I grew a pair and started to approach and put myself out the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 03:07 AM
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Constructive addition to the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 01:13 AM
1

TRP is more understanding of men sleeping with multiple partners than of women doing the same, and I tend to agree with their reasons for that perceived hypocrisy. There's a lot on TRP about the slut/stud dynamic, I won't go into it here. TRP doesn't condone cheating, on the whole. Every time a thread pops up with "I wanna cheat" the top comment is always "Real men are straight up with their desires, and don't hide it like a pussy". That's why I said that my friend should talk to his wife about …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 07:36 PM
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Could, but I won't. Tired of beating this dead horse, and BP people aren't going to agree anyway. Was open and honest about my opinions of this shitty situation my buddy is in, and all I get in return is downvotes and outrage :) But can you honestly not think of any scenario, no matter how extreme, where those are viable solutions? If not then we're just different, you and I.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 07:05 PM
1

The answer to all of those is: Depends on the situation. I can see cases where each of those could be the best solution, extreme though they may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 05:40 PM
1

Should be "In their 40s". That's on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 09:17 AM
0

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/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 05:31 AM
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http://i.imgur.com/qTHxOZx.jpg What if she was in a fucking accident? How would you TRPers suggest handling a situation like that? I'd tell her I love her, and that I have biological needs. It'd be purely physical, but men have a deeply seeded need for sex. Any chick I marry will understand that, because I don't marry idiots. And if she wasn't ok with it, I'd either be committed to her enough to hide it from her (haha, how much does this sound like "I hit her because I love her"?), or I'd divorc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 03:18 AM
1

Yeah man, that's why I made that little edit at the end. Handling that sounds like it's the most important thing. And at the same time explore new things, find stuff that makes life more fun. And shit, you never know when one of those little hobbies will turn out to be a moneymaker. But most importantly, take care of that happiness.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 03:04 AM
1

Find things that you want to do for you, or things that you want to improve about yourself, and pursue them. We can't tell you what you're interested in, you have to go try a bunch of stuff and see what sticks. Harsh truth: Find a way to earn a living, don't leech off the system. TRP is about becoming the best man you can be, and the best version of you doesn't need someone else to take care of you. Edit: And focusing on how to manage your schizophrenia sounds like a good first step at self impr…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:18 AM
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They were fucking when they first started seeing each other. I imagine that's how the kids happened ;) I think cheating as a last resort in this case is fine. You don't. He may or may not, time will tell. I don't think it has to be selfish or reckless, but I'm a guy who can separate sex from all the baggage if needed. I don't think it's any more dishonest than marrying someone and then taking away such an important part of the relationship. I don't think it's any more dishonest than the emotiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 01:46 AM
15

Neo: What are you trying to tell me? That I can use PUA tricks to get women? Morpheus: No, Neo. I'm trying to tell you that when you're ready, you won't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 01:05 AM
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My first recommendation to him was to talk to her, and try to get her blessing to get a little side action. Cheating was the last resort here, if your goal was to keep your family whole and still be able to fulfill a basic human need (sex). I still think it's better than the alternatives, but not as good as being able to enjoy sex with your wife. I'm sure they've had extensive conversations about their sex life before. If I haven't fucked my wife in 5 years you can bet your ass we'd be talking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 12:50 AM
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Absolutely. I have a friend who's in a strange situation now, and my exact suggestion to him was to cheat. That might be a rough pill to swallow for some people (ha, jokes!), so here's the backstory: Dude's been married to this gal for 25 years, they're both 40, have 3 kids between 20 and 12 years old, living an ok lower middle class life. The only problem is, he hasn't had sex with his wife in 3 years. And before that fateful night 3 years ago, he went 2 years without. 1827 days, ONE sexual int…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 11:06 PM
3

It's all good buddy, first and foremost you do you. My whole point is that most TRPers don't hate women, and don't think they're just objects here for us to rape at will. TRP states that women and men are different, and understanding those differences is key to relationships of any kind. And TRP is full of men, talking to men, like men. That can be construed as crude or insensitive some times, but that's how we interact with each other (my best friends all call my fatty, even though that's not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 09:49 PM
5

Every group has that subset of vocal assholes, and it seems like a lot of PPD focuses on those exclusively. I'd definitely recommend lurking in TRP more, it'll give you a little better perspective than what you hear on PPD. Hell, PPD seems pretty circlejerky to me, as both sides are entrenched in their ideas and have a tendency to bait each other endlessly (this thread is a good example of that). It's refreshing to see someone thinking critically and actually engaging in the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 09:30 PM
1

I don't have any interest in contributing to the content of the site, but I know all about the various hosting options out there, and tools like Wordpress to get you up and running with a decent looking site that supports multiple contributors in no time flat. So if you're trying to go that route and don't have the knowledge, hit me up and we can talk more about it. I always wanted to do something similar, but I hit a major roadblock when it comes to producing content. I'm good at all the nerd s…
/r/MensRights11/02/15 09:10 PM
1

I like you, you're fun
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 08:54 PM
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Good answer, but I think it misses the point that RP tries to make, which is having options is the part that's good, not the actual act of cheating. Having women around that would be willing to sleep with you at the drop of a hat helps with social proof, outcome independence, and removing the pussy from the pedestal. There are many (I'd argue most) occasions where actually cheating isn't in the mans best interest. And if you spend any time in RP you'll notice that whenever the topic comes up, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 08:29 PM
3

Seconded. Don't wait for the moment, create the moment. Ladies like a bold man, so be a bold man.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 08:16 PM
1

I did the same thing last night, I wrote a dumb bot and stored the top ~1000 posts + comments in a sqlite database. If the paranoia turns REAL then it's easy enough to keep my stupid bot running and archiving content in real time. Cool to see others do similar things.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 04:20 PM
1

As far as I know BS4 works with 2.6+ and 3, but I'm not sure. I've got 2.7 installed everywhere... http://www.crummy.com/software/BeautifulSoup/
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 12:54 AM
2

Check out Beautiful Soup if the API is too limiting. I've written reddit scrapers with it in Python before. Hell, I might have the code laying around somewhere...
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 11:56 PM
1

We say oneitis because you're online posting about "how do I talk to her, how do I make her think I'm high SMV...". Not girls in general, but this girl. We might be wrong, but it's something to consider. As always make up your own mind. I second picking up Starting Strength. Follow the program, do NOT try and alter the program or come up with your own. Smarter people than you and I have spent a lot of time on these things, trust in that. If you're afraid of injury, then start light. Like, super …
/r/askTRP04/02/15 01:14 AM
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/u/dreckmal is right, you've got the oneitis pretty bad... "what do I do" you ask? Take her on a date. Escalate. Don't care if you fail, because a failure is still making you a better person. Don't try and fake SMV, find a way to increase it for real. And most of all, find shit that you enjoy that's not pussy, because it's not everything. Oh, and stop making excuses for not lifting. Start today. "Getting my diet right" is just a cop out.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 10:08 PM
1

Why not just point people at http://www.reddit.com/r/fitness/wiki/faq?
/r/askTRP03/02/15 09:39 PM
2

First of all, the language doesn't matter so much as the CS theory/practices you'd learn, and Python is a good language to start out with. Secondly, you're completely up your own ass. I'm making $175k a year using that "basement dwelling bullshit" language.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 05:22 PM
2

Good point. That's definitely the solution to that one problem, but it's hardly "the answer to everything" like OP says.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 11:40 PM
10

When has "MOAR PLATES" ever actually been the response? TRP beats a dead horse w/ the "Increase SMV" response if anything, and that has very little to do w/ the number of plates you have (except for preselection, and helps with abundance mentality, but otherwise...) The TRP message is don't worry about women, get your shit in order, and women are a byproduct of that. "What are you trying to tell me? That I can dodge bullets?" "No, Neo. I'm trying to tell you that when you're ready, you won't hav…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 09:08 PM
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http://www.codecademy.com/en/tracks/python
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 06:41 PM
1

It's all opinions. I'm a fan of the Patrice O'Neal 1-30 scale. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTYfCPB8Vtw
/r/askTRP25/01/15 10:59 PM
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This is getting into muddy waters, we're starting to talk about the morality aspects, and I'm looking for medical information. You're right, there are some sources in the original piece that discuss the medical aspects of circumcision, which reference such unbiased sources as doctorsopposingcircumcision.org ;) That's one of the issues with this discussion, everyone involved seems to have an axe to grind (an axe probably used to cut off baby foreskin, amirite?) Looking into it more, the CDC and W…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 11:35 PM
3

"If TRP actually worked then everyone else would be doing it" Don't know how many more ways I can say it... Science or GTFO But whatever, I'm done talking about it with you because there's nothing of value for me in this back and forth, all I'm getting are opinions and straw man nonsense. The level of discourse in this thread is abysmal...
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 09:42 PM
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If I have a boy and there's no compelling evidence to support circumcision, then yeah I'll let the dude choose whatever he wants. If there is compelling evidence that supports circumcision, then I'd make the call to do it in a second. Again, I haven't been put in a position to need to know that kind of thing so far in life, so I can't say for sure. Which is why I asked for some science to back up all the options that end up in these threads. I don't even know where to begin with the second half …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 08:23 PM
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That's a very reasonable perspective to take, and I fully understand people who are upset about having that choice made for them. Life, especially early on, is full of choices that are made for us instead of by us. We have to live with that reality, and in most cases we don't even think twice about it. But men and our penises are BFFs, so men are a lot more passionate/vocal about this particular decision that was made for us.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:49 PM
2

Yeah, oral circumcision is (or was?) big in the Jewish community. There are cases of babies getting Herpes from the process. Not cool man, not cool.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:42 PM
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I'm a cut male, and I like the aesthetics of it more than uncut. That being said, I'm glad that I'm circumcised, but at the same time if I was uncut I'd probably be glad to be uncut too. It's hard to say, since I don't have a frame of reference for being uncut (just like the uncut guys don't have a frame of reference for being circumcised). I'm not butthurt about it either way, I don't feel like my dick was mutilated and I don't have any issues sexually (other than not getting enough sex, am I r…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:40 PM
1

Me too, but that's a super unpopular view in the TRP/MR sphere. You say that in earnest, and then get downvoted to hell. You'd think a controversial subreddit would be ok discussing controversial opinions, but in this regard it's an echo chamber. Oh well, I don't really have an investment in trying to convince other people. I don't have any skin in the game. http://i.imgur.com/bv3izNi.png
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 06:53 PM
1

Hah, never tried it. I stick with wine bottles because a) they're supposed to be full of liquid and b) they're usually pretty dark to begin with, so it's hard to see exactly what's in them. Like I said, most cruises are ok with a few bottles, but definitely check before you go through all the trouble. If you go the shampoo bottle route, let us know how it goes. I'm imagining Superbad-esque shenanigans similar to them smuggling beer in detergent containers.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 03:26 AM
1

can I smuggle alcohol You bet. Most cruises will let you bring on a certain number of bottles (check their website) of wine, because most winos have their preferred brand and the cruise lines don't want to hear the snobs complain that they have a shit selection. But the bottles must be sealed to bring them aboard. So, what you can do it get a few wine bottles, fill them up w/ booze, and cork them again. Not a hard process at all, and it'll save you a ton of money if you plan on drinking during t…
/r/askTRP15/01/15 08:44 PM
1

It depends on the context, for sure. If it's playful then it's just another way to flirt (think 6th grade, pulling pigtails of the girls you liked). Flirt back, comment on how she must like being rough, etc etc. If it's in anger, then I personally see it as a shit test. She's like a child pushing the boundaries to see what she can get away with, and if you'll put up with it or not. In these scenarios, I always ask them "would it be ok for me to hit you like this? No? Then knock it off, I won't p…
/r/askTRP15/01/15 08:16 PM
2

"Help cops, I did this illegal thing and then I got robbed by the people that were doing this illegal thing with me" That's an awesome idea... Oh well, chalk it up as a life experience. Not many can say they got robbed because they busted in a pro. Get a new pro, this one's dead to you now. Double check your rubbers every damn time, and if it's really broken then say something. If it's intact, then flush it. Leaving that DNA around can only lead to trouble. Don't take a bunch of extra money with…
/r/askTRP14/01/15 04:26 AM
3

I was going to say the same thing. That squat is way low, same with the bench (you can only max the bar? Huge red flag). If I was OP, I'd go with SS and focus on the big 3 lifts. You're going to have a TON of noob gains, so enjoy those. Oh, and go lurk in fittit. They know what's up.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 10:06 PM
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Answering "I don't know, but here's how I'd find out" is a good way to approach this. Shows that you're honest, and you still get a chance to demonstrate value in your response. Either that, or talk through your thought process in trying to figure out the answer. "I'm not sure. My gut was telling me X, but if that's the case then Y..." etc etc.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 01:18 AM
1

I totally agree, it's two different worlds. Feels vs Reals, Religion vs Science. That seems to be an unpopular point of view in this sub :) The whole point was: If we're claiming TRP is science, why does religion come into the discussion? Still haven't gotten an answer on that. Not sure there is an answer to that, other than what I stated in my last comment.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 05:21 PM
0

Funny you mention Popper, because I was about to write something about falsification. From Wikipedia, source of sources: Popper stresses the problem of demarcation—distinguishing the scientific from the unscientific—and makes falsifiability the demarcation criterion, such that what is unfalsifiable is classified as unscientific, and the practice of declaring an unfalsifiable theory to be scientifically true is pseudoscience. God-based religions aren't falsifiable, and so they don't belong in a s…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 11:44 PM
1

Hence, it has NOTHING to say about religion and moral philosophy. And vice versa. Since you just said that religion has nothing to say about TRP, what's the point of this post?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 11:35 PM
3

Agree on all three points. One of the things that sucks about fittit is the stigma around steroid use, the taboo of talking about it, and the resulting self doubt that plagues that sub (and the gym in general, if you abstract the idea out). People post transformation pics where they start as a pile of fat then turn into a brick shithouse (practically overnight), and it's not so obvious to some people that they're using gear to get those kinds of results. I wish it was cool to just say "Yup, I'm …
/r/askTRP06/01/15 07:36 PM
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I've spent some time in academia as well, and that's spot on. They're resistant to change, and don't like anything that threatens the status quo. Not just in terms of unpopular opinions, for anything that isn't business as usual. Fuck academia. Bad money to bullshit ratio. Got out and never looked back.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 01:25 AM
1

You get what you pay for. I've had the "pleasure" of working on some outsourced code from India once. Never again... And you CAN get rich as a code monkey, you just have to hustle. You can't only bang away on code in your dungeon and expect to get rich, but how many successful tech startups include a technical founder? All of them. Be that kind of code monkey.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:27 PM
6

I think it's possible to go too far loving yourself, and it has to be a balancing act. For example: I look in the mirror and see a badass motherfucker staring back, but I know that I have (major and minor) flaws that I need to work on. I need to lose 40 pounds. Then another 20. I'm more introverted than I'd like to be. I don't dress all that well. But regardless of all that I still see a badass, which hurts my cause instead of helps. I'd say love the you that's still to come. Love the you that e…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:06 PM
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I've noticed a lot of negativity directed at tattoos in TRP over the few months I've been lurking. What gives? I've got a sleeve, and I'm only a pussy some of the time. No crying in public for me, and I don't give a fuck what people think of them either way, I'm just curious: why the hate? Can someone bring me up to speed?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 06:29 PM
1

Which seems almost backwards, since losing your hearing WOULD severely limit your ability to socialize, you'd think deaf people would want any/all socialization they could get. Beggars can't be choosers, kind of thing. It must hit you hard though, like you said. Some of the most bitter, dangerously alcoholic people I've ever met are deaf.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 11:23 PM
1

Blog: http://novembernothing.wordpress.com/ Goals: Fap less Gym 5 days a week, 1 hour minimum Talk to one new person each day Updates: http://novembernothing.wordpress.com/2014/11/01/nonothingnovember-goals/ http://novembernothing.wordpress.com/2014/11/08/nonothingnovember-update/
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:02 AM
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He didn't say to cheat on your wife, he said: "Re-examine your beliefs about sex. Come to your own conclusions." Many religious views on sex are... dysfunctional, to put it nicely. If religion is getting in the way of you having a fulfilling sex life, then you need to sit down and examine your views. If a particular view is in opposition to what your religion says, but you have solid reasons to hold that view, then disregard what the religion says. Catholicism's (recently reversed) view on birth…
/r/askTRP06/11/14 11:25 PM
2

As far as working out goes... 1) Pick a program Don't walk into the gym and start doing whatever the hell you feel like. Pick a program aimed at beginners like SL5x5 or SS, and stick to it. Don't program for yourself! Much smarter people have spent lots of time coming up with programs that have proven results, so if it ain't broke don't fix it. And if you're a noob, then your program is definitely broke. 2) Proper form is key Learn how to do all the exercises properly. Don't be a half repper or …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 11:35 PM
2

Couldn't agree more. In fact, if all you do is talk about it but never model that behavior yourself it'll do more harm than good.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 09:02 PM
2

Just like anything else: practice, practice, practice.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 08:47 PM
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