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What I’m saying is, if you actually interpret the advice on this forum as it’s supposed to be, the advice is basically saying “be confident, don’t put up with bullshit from girls, have a purpose in life, reward good behavior and punish bad behavior, workout and be in shape.” This advice is just to make you a better person. If you embrace it, it’s not like you’re using “one liners” to “pick up” women and “tricking them.”
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:29 AM
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Entrepreneurship
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:18 AM
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She is the exact same as a 5 or 6. Just better looking
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:17 AM
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Yes. Using actual advice here basically means you have made yourself a confident man who stands up for himself and is responsible and achieving success
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:16 AM
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I yell at my girlfriend all the time about who is a “Chad” and who is a “virgin”. And show her virgin vs Chad memes and she thinks they’re funny. She doesn’t care enough to google theredpill and understand it’s existence. She’d rather watch Instagram stories of makeup and baking. I don’t think girls care or try to look up this stuff. Also it’s not like if they “knew” what a red pill technique was, it wouldn’t work on them. All advice here will always work on girls. Because AWALT
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:14 AM
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An untrained female could do these lifts lmfao
/r/askTRP13/12/20 11:16 PM
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Are you constantly on a test base, or do you do cycles and completely stop?
/r/askTRP13/12/20 11:15 PM
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It’s because you give off needy vibes, probably subconsciously, but she can pick up on them. I’m very attractive and used to still have this problem all the time. UNTIL I truly dedicated myself to fucking at least 2-3 plates at all times, and not giving a fuck if I blow a girl off and make her upset. I had to strictly follow the RP principles and remember AWALT in all situations and rewire my brain. Initially I had to fight my natural tendency of “oh no I’m being too mean to this girl”... but ev…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 05:14 PM
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Indeed
/r/askTRP01/08/20 09:38 PM
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Idk. Feel there are more fit guys then girls. like even a random guy who is a construction worker who eats McDonald’s but doesn’t eat too much can be like a 5’10 160lb normal slim person. But more women are fat?
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:52 PM
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“Any coed sport league except softball” ... lmao
/r/askTRP05/07/20 03:36 PM
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Lol
/r/askTRP05/07/20 02:44 PM
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No I didn’t miss the point. You’re asking if putting a pic of you with a plate on a snap story would help you with “pre-selection”... attracting other women because they see you with another attractive woman and know you’re desireable. I’m saying this is a Luke warm tactic to try and attract girls. If you just “be awesome” and not thing about it, and plan adding pics of girls to your snapchat... you’ll be better off
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:14 AM
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Does your college have more than 100 total people? Answer is likely yes. Shouldn’t give a fuck about old oneitis. Forget she exists. There are 5,000 hot girls at your school that could also become oneitis... it you could just bang THem
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:56 AM
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If you have to ask this question, you aren’t in the right mindset. don’t “plan” taking photos to make yourself look cool. Ever watched girls shaking their hips and flipping a cup on top of their ass on Tik Tok? ... doesn’t make you think they’re cooler, does it
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:55 AM
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This happens to more people than you’d think. Just remember you did nothing wrong. yo life will move on.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:41 AM
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You just have to completely not care. I’d cut the time/frequency you’ve been hanging out in half. When you do hangout with her, you must lead. And must do only dank activities that you actually want to do just for yourself (go karts, golf, build something at your house, practice Hatti practice for your softball team and make her watch, etc). If you don’t care and slightly do your own thing more, everything will be fine. If she still doesn’t want sex then eventually break up
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:39 AM
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23 year old mother of 2?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:15 AM
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Either method works (bring her home that night, OR setup date for another day). I will say that when commute to home is 20-30 mins, after getting a drunk girl to agree to go home with you, oftentimes things can go south in those 20-30 mins as it allows for her to re think her decisions and change mind. If she changes mind. Then so be it and hangout with her at house without sex. Or send her home
/r/askTRP28/02/20 03:01 AM
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“Why should I be different” - because if you’re not one of the 10 other thirst my guys begging for nudes, that sets you apart and makes your frame appear stronger “I bet she sent nudes to someone else” - this is the wrong mindset. You should not give A FUCK if she sends nudes to someone else. If she does, they are beta cucks who can’t get her in real life. You are the prize. That’s how u should think
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:58 AM
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1) why do you feel the need to send nudes? 2) why do you feel the need to receive nudes? Speaking by principal.... A real alpha doesn’t need to show off his body non requested, nor does he need to receive naked fake pixelated pics on his phone. A real man would Fuck her in real life, and not care about nudes. That’s my advice...
/r/askTRP27/02/20 11:48 PM
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Yeah. You got to abide by the rules/advice of TRP even though it may feel unnatural. Eventually it will become natural and you will have more success with women.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:02 PM
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I would text her at the end of the following day. It’s fine to say “I had a great time, let’s go out again”... but try to open her with an inside joke from your previous date. Then text back and forth 2-3 times, and setup specific date and time for next date. Usually a couple days in future. I think second date should be 2-5 days from first date if you’re trying to build something. This just my opinion
/r/askTRP14/02/20 06:39 PM
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If you CARED what she thinks of you. The most ultimate thing to do would be to not block and simply not care at all. But you SHOULDNT care about what she thinks about you at all. If not blocking her causes you stress, that’s nothing to feel bad about. But then you should block her for peace of mind.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:31 AM
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You did the right thing bro. Sounds like you are very young since it’s your first GF. Your lucidity to the situation is impressive. You will go far
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:29 AM
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Yes, a good example
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:26 AM
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Idk why you’re being downvoted. No “friend” would do this. Only reason is that he wants to fuck OP girlfriend
/r/askTRP08/12/19 11:23 PM
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Correct
/r/askTRP08/12/19 11:22 PM
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Yeah I know. I guess what I’m saying, is the last time around (first time we “dated”), it’s not like she exactly did any “traps” or seemed evil.... just MEGA EXTREME affection from day one. Not at all texting me all the time. But in person she is mega intoxicating, freakishly high sex drive and good at sex, and gives me lots of compliments. Not sure if overthinking and it’s just normal one itis
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:06 AM
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Maintain frame. Act like you don’t give a fuck. Say everything and make every decision at work with 100% confidence
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:29 PM
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DONT FUCKING TALK TO ANYONE. Get a lawyer
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:24 PM
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This is exactly what I did. Nexted and never looked back. Now... let’s review the story below which happened earlier this evening. It is the most AWALT thing ever. I feel I now have graduated as a veteran of theredpill. match with girl on Bumble is “one itis” from 4 months ago that I “nexted” and “never looked back” she messages me cute inside joke from when we Hungout I message back figure she just wants to bang. Reason I nexted is because suspicious she was riding cock carousel and Branch swin…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:40 AM
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You’re saying I should have been less “alpha” and been more sweet and caring to her?
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:48 PM
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it was moving towards the girlfriend realm. We have not explicitly discussed. I’m invited to her friends house to play board games, go out for dinner with her friends, etc. I like her, and this is actually what I want with her. I’m just torn between whether I should have acted “alpha” and said “you’re misbehaving goodbye”, or tried to continue “comforting” her even though she was arguing with me about a stupid thing (me paying her on Venmo)
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:35 PM
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Indeed. I was chad when first met her. Raw dogged multiple times after meeting on bumble first night. She doesn’t even take birth control and didn’t even say anything (I’ve since always wore condoms). Guess this type of girl isn’t worth it anyway. High volatility even more than normal girl who is AWALT
/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:44 AM
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I know. Are all girls this level of THOT? seems a pretty high level of THOT based on previous experiences.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:39 AM
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I saw signs that brought me back to a dark time I had with previous LTR. 1) her actually showing me texts with “an old guy from the gym hehe” sending very suggestive memes 2) her being distant while on vacation 3) her instead of hanging with me the day back from vacation, FIRST going to a “business meeting” with an “old guy from the gym” and then calling me drunk AFTER and showing up at my house drunk/high and giving me crazy sex. 4) then she casually texted me today about how she set up a docto…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:01 AM
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I know dude. For the first ~ month I had a side plate. But I dropped the side plate because this girl was giving me mega attention and being extremely sweet + seemed promising. I broke the cardinal rule and feel fucking retarded. ..... I don’t understand how bros who aren’t aware of TRP get LTR girlfriends naturally. Like... my friends have girlfriends and MOST of them weren’t “spinning plates” before getting one. ...... I honestly dropped the side plate because I “felt bad” when banging her lik…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:46 AM
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Yeah, I first noticed signs of cheating ~6 days ago. Then she went on a weekend vacation (so I hadn’t seen her in a few days) and called me drunk last night and came over and fucked me (feel she might have fucked other guy right before) ...... I never asked her to hangout in the 6 days since I noticed at all, or texted her without her texting me first, or acted needy. But I feel still like a beta cuck bitch for not just ghosting instantly 6 days ago. ...... What do you make of this, and of me?
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:37 AM
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Thanks bro. I just “hard nexted” her via text after some continuous suspicious behavior. Still banged her last night actually. She showed up to my house drunk with suspicious details about where she’d been ...... Hasn’t even responded to my text “nesting” her. That shit burns real bad that she doesn’t even give a Fuck about me or our short relationship. AWALT
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:08 AM
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That’s what I’ve been doing. Don’t want to “lose” and have her formally break up with me though. I know it’s 100% ego, but that hurts. If I think she’s gonna do it to me, would want to do it first and have higher value ...... I realize that I’m even thinking this is totally beta. But it’s the way my brain works
/r/askTRP14/04/19 11:43 PM
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Couldn’t find better word to describe. She cooked all the time, said “I’m only your baby”, planned trips with me, Hungout 3x a week atleast, slept over, accidentally said “I love you”, had freaky sex, definitely didn’t sex with other guy (until now which I suspect) ....... Just asking if it’s better to not say anything and let it fizzle + get ghosted... or literally say “this isn’t working” in a short text to end it in its tracks
/r/askTRP14/04/19 11:34 PM
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Dang man. This girl has gotten even colder to me since I last posted this. Do you think I Should I text her and break it off first so I can “win” and save my dignity? ..... or should I just completely go no contact and never say anything
/r/askTRP14/04/19 11:20 PM
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Indeed. I need to give less security and disagree more + ignore sometimes. She’s my only girl know which makes me subconsciously have scarcity mentality. Just hopped back on tinder and am messaging girls now. Kind depressing, but it’s what I’ll do
/r/askTRP13/04/19 02:59 AM
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Dang yeah I know. Btw any advice on why girls always seem to date me for 2 months (exactly) and then ditch me for someone else. I’m 27 for reference. Good looks. Decent job. Some real estate investments houses. ....... I try not to be beta but they always ditch me after 2 months and have no respect
/r/askTRP13/04/19 02:41 AM
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Indeed my friend. Sucks, because until last 3 days I noticed no signs of this and she was super sweet. Cooking for me, kissing me in public. Had accidentally told me she loved me once, would plan our future vacations.....Seems she feels she has power over me now. ...... One thing I will say, is when I first met her, it was overwhelming how super nice and sweet she was to me. Kissing me for hours and massaging me with lube, breakfast naked. Almost freaked me out. Some suggested a thing called “lo…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 02:04 AM
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No.. she does marketing. works out at one of those CrossFit gyms where everyone talks to each other and there are coaches, etc. and people feel like the gym is a “family.” Apparently she talks to “old dudes” at the gym and wants to “help this one with his website.” ....... I agree it sounds like BS in first place + is disrespectful to me even if In the 20% chance she is innocently helping some guy .... I am in better shape than her and lift FYI
/r/askTRP13/04/19 01:21 AM
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I definitely believe she’s actually meeting a guy from gym to “help with website”. Despite the evident anterior motives... but the simple fact that I asked to hang Monday when she got back, and she said “no I’m doing this.... let’s plan on wednesday”... I find to be disrespectful. ...... Up until this we’ve Hungout 3 days per week every week and fucked every time (I know. Too much frequency for TRP standards). You think she’s definitely about to branch swing?
/r/askTRP13/04/19 01:16 AM
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Every girl wants chad. she still choked on my cock before leaving and I suck her pussy juices out and spit them into her mouth. And spit on her face while fucking her. .... Asking how to position myself back into position of chad so I don’t get this disrespectful behavior from her... or if I should apply dread??
/r/askTRP13/04/19 01:12 AM
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No. She is bullshitting
/r/askTRP13/04/19 01:02 AM
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Yes. Good advice
/r/askTRP03/03/19 07:28 AM
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Indeed indeed. Will continue fogging. Which is what I’ve been doing. I thought maybe the consesnus was that “a real man States his ideas”. But you’re right there’s no point. Especially since I ACTUALLY don’t care about their political views
/r/askTRP03/03/19 07:27 AM
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Best way is to just quit cold turkey. Get rid of all games. Sell or destroy them. Stop hanging with any “gamer” friends. Urge to do it will never completely go away. But it 95% will. Don’t “reduce hours per week”. 100% stop
/r/askTRP13/01/19 06:01 AM
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Hey Dude, I have felt like this before and sometimes I still do. Basically the exact same thing you’re describing happened to me with my friend/gf. The only way to help yourself is to focus on improving yourself... for yourself. It’s okay if you work towards goals at first with it in mind that you’re becoming better than them and you will destroy them and make them jealous. But eventually you must let it go and live your life.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 05:16 AM
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Don’t live in Durham though, because Durham is a piece of shit. Live in Raleigh or Cary or Apex. Source: I’m from the area.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:02 AM
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So I should just be like “yeah you’re coming over [kiss emoji] ?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 02:42 PM
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Unless black
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:35 AM
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I want to date her. But I’m afraid of getting into the pussy “beta” mindset and putting her on pedestal. Which is why I posted here
/r/askTRP26/04/18 09:57 PM
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I don’t think I have to. Have already fucked her multiple times. Was just trying to think of shit to do besides hang at my apartment because that’s boring. Should I tell her I changed mind and just tell her we’re hanging at apartment?
/r/askTRP26/04/18 09:41 PM
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Idk what I want. I’m fine if she wants to just be a plate. But she seems cool so I figured I’d see where it goes. I have a job, and workout 4-5 days a week, and have small businesses I work on. Kinda hard to dedicate time to more than 1/2 girls..... I guess the whole point of a plate is to literally invite them over, bang, and kick out. So technically I do have time for that I suppose
/r/askTRP26/04/18 09:11 PM
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This exact same thing happened to me like 6 months ago, except it wasn’t a 9/10, it was some 4/10 fat chick from my Highschool. I wouldn’t talk to her at a bar so she ended up spilling her drink on me and then THROWING HER GLASS AT MY FACE. I walked out of the bar bleeding out of my forehead, then had to explain this to the cops. Ofcourse she told the cops I ASSAULTED HER. Ended up lawyering up and had to deal with this bullshit for 2 months. Fucking loser bitches who think they’re entitled
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 07:05 PM
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I’m not sure. I’ve only really been reading this community and actually applying principles for like 2 weeks. I went out downtown with a friend and held frame while talking to 3 different 8’s and made out with all of them and brought one home. Normally I would just be a little more nervous and chat up 6’s and 7’s... I just walked up to all of them and if they gave me shit I tried to tell myself “actually what you’re saying IS COOL. They are dumb” and it worked. But yeah I see what you’re saying.…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 06:27 PM
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I feel like maybe I AM somewhat of a Chad. I am buff, good looking (always have been), own 3 houses, have a decent job and have friends. The problem is I ALWAYS am depressed about not having a girlfriend. However it isn’t TOO hard for me to bring home pretty hot girls and bang them. My problem, is They’ll bang me once or a few times and then ditch me and not want anything more (me Even ones that are less attractive than me). I think I’m that maybe I am the male equivalent of the fake boob blonde…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 08:46 PM
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