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7

Sounds like you've taken them before. If they had the answers, why are you here?
/r/askMRP18/02/26 08:58 AM
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Oh look, this question again. I get the appeal of the Disney fantasy of being loved for what's really inside. She should've loved you while you a loser and you can't be sure if she really loves the real you. That's early anger phase bullshit. If you'd have done any work, you'd realize that. The fact that my dick gets harder for a woman after she loses weight, starts wearing makeup and improves her skincare doesn't mean that my newfound desire isn't genuine. You're clearly framing it from her poi…
/r/askMRP16/02/26 08:59 AM
7

Does being a semi practitioner means having not done even enough reading to know what a covert contract is?
/r/askMRP08/02/26 06:34 AM
5

As a confident, deep voice mega chad with a giant cock and not a random aut1stic r3trd on the internet: I give you permission to say no to your wife and make the decision you already know is the right one.
/r/askMRP10/12/25 08:44 PM
1

BREAKING NEWS: MAN NOT ATTRACTED TO WOMAN THAT'S NOT HIS TYPE - more at 11
/r/askMRP20/11/25 07:32 PM
5

OYS #17 & 18 it is time to own my shit Lot of talking, thinking, and deciding. Not a lot of doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/25 07:44 PM
11

OYS #1: June 29, 2021 OYS #2: Sep 7, 2023 OYS #3: May 7, 2024 OYS #4: Oct 29, 2025 See you next year bud. I'm loving this trainwreck.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/25 03:00 PM
1

Well said https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RaMUZW2X8Ok
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/25 03:14 PM
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I want the space. I don’t feel like she deserving of my presence right now anyway. Let her earn it back. Let her hamster spin on that wheel of what I could be up to. I also started a membership at the trendiest gym in town, Are you gonna stop wanting your space once she's earned it back or is this a giant CC?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/25 03:06 PM
4

The obsession with body count by some in the RP community is something I've never quite been able to parse. What exactly changes when she crosses the arbitrary limit that you've decided is one 'too high'? Do you still believe in the madonna-whore dichotomy? As long as you're getting what you need/want from whatever relationship you have with her, why does it matter?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/25 01:57 PM
2

That should be where most of your drive, motivation and yes income is coming from Is that really true for you? It's only been a necessary evil for me. My purpose has always come from the shit I get into outside of work hours.
/r/askMRP23/10/25 08:17 PM
3

So I should I keep making dumb jokes when she asked 4 times already and it's not fun or funny anymore? Not funny to whom? Is it really my frame if instead of saying what I want to say How could it be your frame if you're not saying what you want to say? after I laughed it off a bit, I keep trying to amuse myself when it's clearly not funny anymore? Who decides it's not funny? Just because she's not having a bad time doesn't mean you have to join her in being boring too. Sometimes I just want to …
/r/askMRP10/02/25 04:44 PM
18

Was this written by AI?
/r/askMRP01/02/25 08:04 PM
5

Remember, it slipped out and she helped him put it back in
/r/askMRP01/02/25 05:30 PM
4

A legit diagnosis with no action isn’t actual work. Could you actually expend on this? Are you still not taking meds for it? ADHD literally makes it harder to do the work. You have and will continue to lose so much time from ADHD.
/r/askMRP24/01/25 08:42 PM
7

You're just gonna overlook over the part about telling the truth then post later about how the secret techniques from WISNIFG didn't work aren't you?
/r/askMRP22/01/25 03:35 PM
1

Well, you have the status quo and the life you want. You're either willing to sacrifice the status quo for the life you want or you're not. It's not that complicated. I'm not sure you brought up cheating and her leaving, bit, you would be surprised the mental gymnastics that are possible when it's time to justify something. That's neither here nor there though. You go to work and bring her your paycheck. In exchange you get pussy once a month. That's some expensive pussy from where I'm sitting b…
/r/askMRP16/09/23 02:32 PM
2

So your life is prefect except for the teensy weensy part where you're not having as much sex as you want you're finding scraps to try to piece together a semblance of a sex life. It bothered you enough to go searching and find this place. You're putting in hours of reading and effort, but your life is totally perfect. You're making 100% sense and nobody is seeing through you. You're the first guy to come here and try that line. At least you didn't say "used to be alpha"
/r/askMRP16/09/23 12:25 PM
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I'm confused. What's there to figure out?
/r/askMRP18/08/23 05:34 PM
2

Have her peg you and show her how you want her to act when you're fucking her.
/r/askMRP04/08/23 06:35 PM
4

Teachers and drill sergeants don't set standards for behavior based on how people were raised or where they're from. Standards are standards. Not everyone can meet them and that's okay. Those people are cut loose, but most people step up when they realize there is no bending.
/r/askMRP12/07/23 11:56 AM
2

Stop wasting your time. It's obvious he is addressing a strawman and not what you're writing.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/23 06:04 PM
2

Are you one of those dudes who is so sexual repressed that they can't have passionate sex outside of "make-up" sex so they date girls that are always causing drama so they have an excuse to bring forth the passion that there ashamed of in every other context? I knew a guy like you once. He worked through his shit and now he's just angry at the drama his now wife brings to his life. I suppose you could just never address the underlying issue and keep outsourcing that part of your life to shitty w…
/r/askMRP30/06/23 12:50 AM
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Don't care abt the $100, its more how she's avoiding it In a perfect world, what would she say and/or do to make this all better - short of giving the $100 back (that's not happening) This seems to be all about ego - which from where I'm sitting is a stupid thing to have dealing with a plate that has a boyfriend
/r/askMRP30/06/23 12:35 AM
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Depends on you. I used to get it often enough and with tears and hysterics. One day I had enough and told her that she was never going to know and to decide if knowing that piece of trivia about the guy she's dating is a deal breaker for her. If it was, she would need to find another guy. Last time she brought it up. Doesn't sound like you're at that point so keep having fun with it.
/r/askMRP28/06/23 02:03 AM
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Oh boy hey i ve been taking fin 1 mg for 10 days - libido went down about 40 % and penis erection about 40%and it would get erect just with a blow from gf- to lower the dose or to quit? - been clean for two weeks and all went back to normal Her fault somehow i am male and i dont orgasm - just once in a while because i feel like shit afterwards.. she does though Also her fault I presume Definitely nothing else going on. This is all her fault Hold on. she has probably high body count as she told m…
/r/askMRP26/06/23 12:27 PM
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I'm in good shape so more kids would just be fun for me. What does this mean?
/r/askMRP23/06/23 09:06 AM
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I probably misremembered that part of the story as I don't remember them having to get or use any tools to unlock the door. They just used their card and I was in and there she was knocked out on the bed.
/r/askMRP22/06/23 01:29 AM
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Here's an anecdote: The day of my military graduation was early June in Alabama. After being in the sun for fucking hours and sweating through all layers of my uniform, we went out to lunch with my family. Afterwards, my wife at the time headed to the hotel first. I was wrapping a few things up on base (no CAC and such) and went to the hotel about an hour after. I wanted nothing more then to go in the shower. When I unlocked the door, i realized she used the chain to latch the fucking door. I co…
/r/askMRP21/06/23 03:57 PM
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Girlfriend
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/23 11:20 PM
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I thought I was in r/TooLivelyBedrooms for a second there
/r/askMRP18/06/23 04:45 AM
4

Covers contracts upon covert contracts. You don't have to do everything but you have to do something. You're choosing instead to do nothing and play victim just like your wife.
/r/askMRP17/06/23 04:21 AM
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If we're saying they're going to shit test you and continue to butch and complain The problem is your premise. Who is we?
/r/askMRP12/06/23 12:34 AM
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Man, who would've thought that a woman agreeing to get married after only one month would be hiding some crazy. Decide what the end game is for you and start moving on that direction.
/r/askMRP08/06/23 06:46 AM
10

Without hiding behind the kids and religion, why are you still married to someone like that?
/r/askMRP08/06/23 04:44 AM
14

Dude, she knows you don't like Condoms. The reason you still have to wear then isn't because you're not reminding her enough.
/r/askMRP31/05/23 07:41 PM
15

Sounds like you suck.
/r/askMRP24/05/23 12:49 AM
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Roles 1 and 2. Sounds like you're failing #2.
/r/askMRP24/05/23 12:45 AM
4

while we were dating But were you exclusive? That's the only part that matters. Did you just decide you had a contract that while you were dating the two of you would be exclusive? Only, you didn't bother to tell her about this contract, setting you up for the disappointment and resentment you're experiencing now? Now your ego demands you're the best in her eyes in every way and that she tells her friends the same. I'm just imagining a woman crying because I have good memories of other girls I d…
/r/askMRP05/05/23 02:01 PM
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Da fuck does anything that happened before you were exclusive matter? You think women are chaste virgins until you meet them then they turn into where's for you? You're supposed to realize that Disney is just a fantasy. Are you a Disney adult? Your insecurities is what has ended the relationship. Imagine having a hissy fit because she dared to break the mold you put her in of being the perfect trad wife. Now she's just like them. The audacity. The betrayal. You poor victim. She's clearly the pro…
/r/askMRP05/05/23 02:37 AM
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This will be a tough week to enforce this will as I am going to her place to empty the house. It should be easy as hell in this day and age. Nobody remembers phone numbers anymore so just delete her as a contact, unfriend and block her on all socials. Don't leave yourself a way to message her.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/23 04:53 PM
1

I don’t know why the fuck I do this, but I need to figure out the cause and fucking stop
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/23 04:30 PM
2

severe injures to my shoulder is preventing me to doing it No, it's preventing you from using your shoulder to work out. There are lots of things you can still do that won't aggravate your injury.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/23 02:49 PM
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Fat but don't look so with a shirt on. I stress eat [but only] sometimes, so to counter act that I either fast or OMAD. I still gym, but not that hard anymore, and not that frequent either. Not to give excuses, but that is my excuse for not being more successful with chicks. You try really want to soften the blow to your ego. You're a fat virgin that eats away his feelings and doesn't lift. The closest I have come to it is my dick is on the entrance of the pussy, the girl gives me LMR or "I am a…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/23 08:52 PM
5

My God. You sir, write like you're a victim of life.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/23 08:33 PM
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/u/YDDMS, Listen to this guy. I've been on g-series orders. Don't do anything dumb. It's not worth it. She's not worth it. Divorce is common in the military and there are huge infrastructures in place to help you through it. Don't let your anger take over. Play this smart. When I divorced I had the option to either file in the state I was currently in, or the one where the marriage was registered. You may not have to wait. Talk to base legal. They can't advise since they're not your lawyers, but…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/23 05:46 PM
1

The main thing that's been bothering me is I don't take the 672364923 point lead in status I should enjoy when I'm talking to a group of women half my age. I still act like we are peers. You guys can check me if I'm wrong here, but if a young beautiful woman wants an older man to fuck her, she probably wants to feel that status difference. If she wants to fuck an equal, she can go to the club. So my game is like riding a bike. I never forgot. But I'm still riding it like a 22 year old dreamer. B…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/23 07:57 PM
0

"if my feelings are hurt, why can't you just say I'm sorry for hurting you?" "Because I'm not" You're probably not to say shit like that though
/r/askMRP22/03/23 11:55 AM
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History repeats itself. I make gains (health/physical/confidence/relationship), I get content, and I quit MRP. One good thing will happen, and I think "Well shit done changed up now, I'm the fucking boss". I am learning that this just isn't true. I get too excited by the incremental progress and lose sight of my mission. I think this is because I've been so desperate for change, but I'm open to more feedback on why I'm like this. Easy. None of it was ever for you. Being RP is hard. That's why yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/23 04:16 PM
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This was prompted by me texting this to her: https://www.suzannevenker.com/relationships/the-top-6-most-important-things-women-need-to-know-about-men/ Men are easy to please and quick to forgive. Men live to see the woman they love happy. A man won’t always come out and tell you he’s unhappy, so you’ll have to read the signs. Men don’t like to fight with women. A man’s identity is inextricably linked to his ability to provide and protect. Men respond to sweet talk and bottom lines. Jesus Christ.…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/23 03:56 PM
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Let's do a thought experiment to assess sunk cost fallacy: If you were meeting a new woman for the first time today and she promised you the life you have with your wife now (almost no sex, breathes a sigh of relief she won't have to fuck you when you bring up polyamory but always cockblocks you when you find someone that logistically makes sense), would you feel guilty for leaving her?
/r/askMRP15/03/23 08:28 PM
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all her friends don’t think so either She's already started the PR campaign. Be ready to have everyone turn against you and tell you how you're in the wrong. The version of the story everyone else will hear from her will not make you look good. I truly hope this is a hill you're ready to die on. If this is an important boundary for you, it needs to be. As /u/AlohaMaui808 said, you're not viewed as the prize. I've told a girl smoking was a turn off for me the first time I tasted on her breath a f…
/r/askMRP06/03/23 04:10 AM
2

Finances https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B077184SNV/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 I ended up having one of these on a bookshelf by the front door and just had her put the receipts there. You want htis more than her so just fucking do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/23 02:14 PM
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/r/askmrp is what you want You're definitely not following Rule 2 and are probably not following Rule 1 either.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/23 06:28 PM
1

Well, knowing what you'd like to avoid is a start. It'll be double effective when you know both what you're running from and what you're running towards. You are giving up a lot of agency with some of the things on your list though Losing my job Get a second job/multiple jobs Start my own business You could also gain skills to become more valuable to make the process of replacing your job easier Heart attack/stroke/ cancer Fix health I hope you have more concrete measurements of what success loo…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/23 03:43 PM
2

sounds like a problem you're creating by not shutting the fuck up
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/23 02:18 PM
3

It was the wife's bday weekend, so we celebrated with friends. All day of event, i was teasing, Cocky funny, push and pull, gaming her, and she reciprocated often, and was game for it. Were you doing it because you were having fun or has the covert contract that putting on this event for her + flirting = sex? She tracks her cycles, and she is NOT OVULATING, but i went full retard and decided to go rambo. Do you limit your authentic sexuality only to when she's ovulating? Do you have any deep-roo…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/23 05:05 PM
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I see what you're getting at. Ultimately, it would be for him to have the ability to convey the new paradigm better than "go read these books." If this style of parenting is important to him, lowering the barrier of entry down to a few key points rather than hours of reading is a positive. Obviously, even that doesn't guarantee any outcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/23 07:19 PM
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Or read the book yourself and distill it into easy actionable steps. School have textbooks but still use teachers
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/23 04:31 PM
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"you better do X or mommy is going to get angry" She's using guilt. Arm her with some tools to be more direct instead of using this kind of manipulation. I think WISNIFG has some. People will default to the kind of parenting that they got.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/23 01:37 PM
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There is a lot of generic phrases sprinkled throughout to check the redpill lingo quota. While that is common for a OYS#6, it shows you want to be liked by some autists pretending to be cool on the internet. Sometimes I don't feel motivated or energized, but I can accept not all workouts will be awesome or good. Somedays I'm great on squats but perform poorly on the bench and barbell rows, for example. Or the other way around. What matters is the long term game.I workout everyday for 50min to 1h…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/23 07:38 PM
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but now I’m sitting there wondering if she’s ovulating. Is intellectualizing another way to cover up your fear/avoidance Are there areas of your life that you're not doing this with?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/23 02:14 PM
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You're doing things (which is good), but there is a thick layer of ego covering every section of your OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/23 02:08 PM
1

I didn't engage her in explaining why I just did it I didn't go to her for validation I just do what needs to be done I don't need validation, especially not from her. Bro, we get it. Now focus on not being fat
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/23 08:27 PM
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Is “I have to work“ coming out of stress or is it a shit test/comfort test? Is it an opportunity for me to be the oak that I’m missing? What happened: She invited you on a walk, invited you to ask about her challenges. Your response: Bro, you're killing my mood, STFU. I haven't read your other OYS so I can't be 100% of your dynamic with your wife, so take the rest with of this with that in mind. If we were to try taking off the RP hat and think about it like a person without autism, it just soun…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/23 07:10 PM
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You need to get way more specific about your needs goals Get to 100k - finances are really weak I need 6 months of emergency funds. Pay off debts. This is a math problem. Do you know where your finances stand? If you have the numbers, you can make a plan and see how long it'd take you to accomplish your goals. Figure out how to get more time - I spend an 2 hours a day for commute, then 9-5 at work. If I sleep for 6 hours that leaves 4 hours for myself. 2+8+6+4 = 20. Am I missing something? 4 hou…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/23 06:50 PM
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my wife accommodates my needs there that's a hell of a way to frame having sex with your wife
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/23 06:21 PM
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How the hell did this happen? I'm struggling to see where it is exactly I fucked up. Easy. You never swallowed the red pill. None of it was ever for you. That's why you stopped when you won. Mission accomplished. It was always about finding a girl and getting that white picket fense. Being RP is hard. That's why you couldn't wait to shed off all of it the second you reached the goal. You found a girl you liked and could finally finally be loved for the real you and not who you were pretending to…
/r/askMRP07/02/23 03:13 PM
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Sometimes you have to lie to kids to get them to take their medicine. MRP has evolved to be self improvement disguised as a way to get laid. Once you're working out, pursuing a mission that lights a fire in your eyes, meeting great people and overall being an awesome human being living an awesome life, you realize how you don't have to 'game' anymore. You don't have to go out of your way to flirt with other women in front of your wife, they'll flirt with you in front of her. You don't have to tu…
/r/askMRP02/02/23 01:24 PM
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Wednesday night she grabbed my hand in bed and put it on her hip. On Thursday night she asked me if I wanted a handjob She actually came downstairs after putting the kids to bed and helped me fold clothes and asked if I wanted her to make me some eggs which is uncharacteristic and she was trying to initiate conversation which I engaged in It seems like she's trying. You don't like the way she's doing it and instead of telling her what you want, you decide to turn the autism to the max.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/23 02:43 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/23 02:38 PM
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We managed to find time to go on a date alone together. That said, it was my wife’s suggestion (logistics freeing up the kids) and she picked the place to eat. A big fail for me, I need to take the lead moving forward. Why is her going out of her way and handling the logistics to spend time with you considered a fail? What standards are you using to determine that?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/23 02:12 PM
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I recommend the book How To Do The Work. It helped me identify some patterns/beliefs I didn't know I had.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/23 03:36 PM
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48 6'3 235 pounds 10% body fat. Lifts: bench 425 1rm squat 455 dead lift 380 13 days ago 6 months ago I got a slap in the face when my wife told me I was sloppy and unattractive. This actually came out of her mouth which was a pretty good indicator that I was sloppy and unattractive. I hadn't been in the gym for 2 years due to being quote unquote too busy with work so I got to work. So those are one-upon-a-time numbers then ​ Also, what exactly did you own since last OYS? You did chest day?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/23 03:29 PM
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That is fucking hilarious. I love the juxtaposition. She DEERed. You shit tested. She tries to STFU. She failed and said something snarky. You hit her with another shit test. She STFU and tried to leave to do something else without seeming butthurt. You try to accuse her off starting it (lol). She later owned her shit and made the house spotless not because you asked but because she wants to live in a clean house. Never change /r/askmrp
/r/askMRP22/01/23 01:01 AM
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Be sure to leave the house and go sit in a parking lot in the car for a few hours to get her hamster spinning and get that dread up.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/23 04:26 PM
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A refreshingly honest OYS#1. Only thing I want to point out to you is that you are not a passive observer of your life weight creep comes back Everything that's in your life is there because you've let it happened and tolerated it. It also means it's within your power to change.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/23 04:15 PM
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Once you've seen these posts long enough, it becomes very easy to see through the ego protecting attemps of OP. Do enough of the work through your own bullshit and everyone else's becomes obvious
/r/askMRP16/01/23 04:49 PM
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Go to /r/Showerthoughts and start spouting some of that shit If you're explaining why you're STFU'ing, you're not STFU'ing are you though.
/r/askMRP10/01/23 08:04 PM
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You're either 100% she you want kids or your aren't. It's either non negotiable or it's not. It's not that complicated. You're either willing to make the sacrifices for it or you aren't. You were saving that pedestal and you found the next queen to worship. Sacrificing a core conviction for a woman. I can't wait to see how this movie ends.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/22 05:19 PM
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will need to turn down some sex in her frame in order to make her appreciate my attention enough to work for it. Oh look, a covert contract. You've put an extra layer on top of it, but you're still on the dancing monkey improvement plan. Your goal isn't to get your dick wet, it's for her to appreciate you so you can feel important. Spoiler: putting that on her is retarded and will lead to resentment from both of you.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/22 05:15 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=\_BFSLPjUCUU
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/22 07:51 PM
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By all means, get tested again doing all of the things they tell you to do beforehand and avoiding what they tell you to avoid. If it's confirmed you have low T, just don't stay in a bad position because you're harboring some kind of judgement about people who are on TRT.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/22 07:02 PM
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You're 100% spot on. The book essentially highlights that for a lot of women, their sex drive is almost entirely reactionary. They don't get spontaneously horny like we do but will get turned on once the act has already started. "You can do whatever you want" is likely the most sexually forward his wife is capable of being. In her mind she's giving the most flashing green light she's capable, but he gets butthurt because he's listening to her mouth noises instead of accepting her receptivity. So…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/22 04:58 PM
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You're retarded. Go read Come As You Are. A woman's sex drive works a little differently from yours.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/22 02:24 PM
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testosterone is low (below 270). I'm not really into the idea of TRT certainly don't look like I have low T 25%bf my guy...
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/22 02:16 PM
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I can avoid creating the marriage I want because I'm so ready to leave. I should be using this mental energy creating the life I want regardless of my wife's behavior The middle ground is to act as if she's dead. What would you be doing different than you are now?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/22 02:08 PM
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Potential girlfriend? Two dates and she's already in the running for girlfriend status. Are you afraid of being single or do you just want to lock down a steady source of sex?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/22 02:02 PM
1

Fitness: Wait, did you tweak your shoulder and just quit the gym entirely? 5x5 isn't the only program out there. There are tons of machines that take the weight off of your shoulder while still allowing you to train your body.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/22 01:54 PM
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I recently read Indistractible, it has some researched backed tools to help with this distraction (that's what you're using it as) /u/Ablo-
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/22 01:43 PM
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Height: 5’7, Weight: 172 I'm curious, what's your body fat at? We're the same height and I've just recently decided to start gaining after being 150 and lean for a year.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/22 04:57 PM
2

That's an impressive collection of buzzwords. Not looking bad in front of retards on the internet is the most important thing to me and I'll do whatever to achieve that. That's why I chose that as the motivation to get better.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/22 06:47 PM
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Physical Dude, you're fat. You don't need to spend so many words explaining why you're fat to internet retards. Nobody cares. We all know why you're fat. Throwing in what you used to lift a few months back to soften then judgement, why? I still care too much at how I am perceived, what ppl think about me Ah.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/22 04:36 PM
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respected by all. show other men what it means to be a true gentleman. How will you decide when you're there? Why have others be the judge of your success? I switched right back into the same beta/embattled-alpha mindset as before. I went from being focused on my goals to being childish and needy, or being aggressive and trying to control the situation. I don't like either of those options. I just want to live my own life and be with someone who is happy to support my endeavors. It's not obvious…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/22 04:14 PM
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Sex she bitches about it whenever Spotify generates a strange song. Is sex still a big deal for you? You can just laugh and not take it all so seriously. Can’t own her pleasure, responsibility comes back to me. You're kind of half-assing it here. I've had success asking her to use her own fingers to masturbate herself for me. I've had girls who would do it and afterwards still maintain that they've never masturbated because I instructed them to do it and they didn't do it all themselves. Point b…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/22 02:32 PM
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38.4 years - Been lifting regularly 1/week for about 4 months. Good gains. Now added a 2nd lifting session. - Bench: 50kgs (110lbs) ; Deadlift: 50kg (110lbs) ; Squat: 40 (88lbs); Pull-ups: 2 (working my way with TRX) ; I'm not saying this is a troll post, but, if it is, you gave it away too early with the age
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/22 06:47 PM
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Instead of being a little bitch because some retard on the internet is being mean to someone you don't know and trying to police the behavior of others, why don't you give him the constructive advice he's not getting from me?
/r/askMRP27/10/22 01:12 PM
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I tried to initiate sex by using words. She responded with words of her own. I got upset, walked out on her, then ignored her the whole next day. The bitch didn't deserve my fancy words.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/22 07:27 PM
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You've done zero work. You're not worth the effort.
/r/askMRP26/10/22 03:59 PM
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You're retarded, but this is the retard play pen so I guess you're posting in the right place. For any newbies reading this, that was absolutely the wrong take away from that interaction. OP still posts in r/deadbeadrooms and doesn't own his shit.
/r/askMRP26/10/22 03:53 PM
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I was just pointing out how much mental space you gave to her POV. It's like you have this need for us to understand her view and how you're being oh so reasonable and accommodating of her inputs. Here's how it reads if I remove every sentence where you're not the actor. No we. No us. No passive voice. Just what you want. Had an argument with the wife over future working arrangements. I brought the issue up on Sunday. I tried fogging, and while it didn't seem to affect her it kept me from panick…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/22 03:42 PM
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You didn't post your height, weight or body fat percentage. TL DR Be attractive? It really is that easy simple. Why should she put in any effort when she knows the chances of you leaving her are 0%? She's doing you a favor staying with you and no woman would actually get with you once they got to know you. You're more unattractive than you think.
/r/askMRP26/10/22 01:29 PM
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Your succinct when talking about yourself but turn into one verbose motherfucker when your wife is involved.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/22 08:02 PM
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That's a lot of words to say you did nothing this week to move you forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/22 07:47 PM
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. I know I will lose interest fast, and would rather spend time doing something more productive That's a part of your personality you'll learn soon enough is always lying to you because you got the validation of the approach and don't want to risk falling face first when you fuck up the close.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/22 07:31 PM
1

aiming for a 500 cal deficit daily Goals for next week. Drop 2 lbs A lb is ~3500 calories so you'll only lose a lb/wk with that deficit. Either adjust your goal or your deficit.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/22 06:33 PM
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The reason you feel like you're being taken for granted is because you're doing things as part of a big covert contract. If you did them because you wanted to and they made your life better, you wouldn't feel bad when they went unappreciated. Because you're doing it to make people think you're a good husband/father/leader, you feel cheated when they're not on their knees worshipping you.
/r/askMRP24/10/22 12:45 PM
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Yeah that ain't it Chief, all you're teaching her is disrespect and boundary crossing makes you horny. That all she has to do to quiet the little boy throwing a tantrum is let him stick his peepee in and he'll be so grateful to finally get sex that'll all will be forgiven.
/r/askMRP20/10/22 04:33 PM
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I need advice Paragraphs
/r/askMRP20/10/22 12:41 AM
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LOL This is fucking gold! You want to convince everyone you've mastered DNGAF so bad. The ironic thing is; the harder you try, the more obvious it is where your head is at. There have been thousand of guys here just like you and you're not fooling anybody. Your ego is so big and fragile.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/22 08:36 PM
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I want sex because I like sex, I'm horny AF most of the time, and I've shed the insecurities that held me back for a long time. At the same time, I've gotten to where I'm very OI about my initiations. Hence not seeing getting laid as validation. On that front, I've also gained a lot of confidence and made progress toward the "prize" mentality. Seriously, she's lucky to get it -- I'm good looking, in great shape, I'm a good lay, and I'm fun. Nor am I seeking the good lover validation. I dropped t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/22 07:48 PM
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You're having a really hard time embracing your sexuality. I don't back down / don't apologize for that ("you should be concerned when I don't want sex"), That's deflection, not ownership. Me: Negative inquiry - (Do you) think that's healthy? Grumbling about how I think she's broken...I STFU. More deflection. How fucking hard is it to say "I don't feel bad and I'm not going to apologize for wanting to fuck my wife." If you can't even accept and own up to your own sexuality, how is she supposed t…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/22 08:39 PM
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Age 25 I am quite set in my ways Shut the fuck up
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/22 08:17 PM
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You strike me as a man who fills his schedule with activity so he is always too tired and busy to confront the really important things that need confronting. You're talking about a lot of shit that doesn't matter. To anyone. Not even you.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/22 07:59 PM
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I removed the parts of your OYS that weren't just you DEER'ing to your wife or internet retards Career/finances: I have been running an online financial newsletter business which has really taken off in the last couple of years, plus with my income from teaching, I'm nearing the $200K/year mark. The goal is now to save as much money as possible to build a buffer for the future Sex: Fucked the wife twice last week. I will consider that a win Frame: Need to really STFU. The end
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/22 07:35 PM
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Your wife is saying "I feel bad because you..." But you're hearing "I feel bad because you..." So you're answering with YOU. When she's talking about HER. Then you're getting angry that answering with YOU when she's talking about HER doesn't do anything. Of course it doesn't. Fuuuuuck. Well put.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/22 03:52 PM
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Do I DEER (thankfully no, but instead I make a sarky passive aggresive comment which clearly showed I care) D stands for Defend friend.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/22 08:54 PM
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what's the proper way to handle this? "I want new furniture for the bedroom." Not everything needs to be some Machiavellian scheme.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/22 01:08 PM
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SOMEONE used too small a pan" in front of everyone. I make a joke about nagging. She brings it up later that I was mean to her. I say well you were trying to make me look bad in front of everyone, you'd already said it was fine without changing the pan so why bring it up again. She says "you're too sensitive about this stuff" she's right. It was just another shit test I failed in front of the group by getting butthurt and caring. There is a difference between butthurt because you're a little bit…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/22 12:54 PM
2

Do you remember the part about covert contracts? If you don't, it's time to give it a review.
/r/askMRP12/10/22 07:35 PM
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I've completed NMMNG Didn't that warrant at least a "thank you" or a kiss on the cheek? I fought down the desire to ask her why she wasn't more grateful for my help in taking care of her problems, why she couldn't show more appreciation for me. Doubt currently reading WISNIFG she's going to eventually complain and guilt me into doing more than my fair share of work Doubt
/r/askMRP12/10/22 07:30 PM
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Not who you ask, but your body adapts. What really matters at the end of the day is total calories consumed. Whether it's spread out or eaten all at once doesn't really matter too much once you get used to it. It's just intermittent fasting turned up to 11. Since you only eat one meal, it eliminate the possibility of overeating from snacking and you can account for all calories consumed very easily if you stay away from any drink that's not water. If you've ever done IMF, you know how easy it is…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/22 01:30 PM
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The lifting portion is the only part of your OYS where you're the focus rather than others' judgement of you. The relationship portion is all about your wife and her reaction to you. Game is all about that sweet, sweet external validation. I wrote a poem and a woman with good photo editing skills talked to me. SHE ACTUALLY TALKED TO ME GUISE!!! I TOLD YOU I'M HAWT. Whatever gets you doing I guess.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/22 04:20 PM
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I am 100% being sabotaged. Shut your whore mouth you weak fuck. Unless she's holding a gun to your head, you're a little bitch that betrays his goals because his self respect is secondary to even the possibility mommy could be upset if he were to ever say no. Your whole OYS is written like you're a plastic bag floating in the wind letting life happen to you. If if permeates your OYS, I guarantee you that it has seeped into every area of your life. Context. We've had a rough month with the passin…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/22 03:59 PM
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I would like to get some trial experience I should try harder Now I try to frame I have been making it a point I have tired to increase my attractiveness I'm noticing a pattern with action and outcome here. Do. Or Do not. There is no try.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/22 01:06 PM
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That's a lot of larping. Your entire OYS is just so, insincere. Convincing some retards on the internet that you know MRP by hitting all the talking points isn't gonna unfuck your life. You're trying to win points rather than actually fix anything and it's really fucking apparent. Edit: Well shit, you deleting it actually got me to check your profile. That was fucking rabbit hole. You're drooling over crossdressers at r/SissyChasity but encouraging them over at r/TGandSissyRecovery. What's that …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/22 12:56 PM
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Dude, shit or get off the pot. You're riding the fence because you're scared to fully commit to your new life. You need to let go of the familiar. You have to sacrifice who you currently are so you can become who you want to be. You can't have it both ways. Starting over is scary, but you know it's necessary. Use the fear to fuel you rather than as an excuse for how you can't do A, B and C in your new life because you haven't closed the book on X, Y, and Z in your old life. Stop it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/22 06:14 PM
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I'm escaping one form of addiction for another form of addiction. But I was for sure so much more productive when I was on them Stop being retarded. You have a diagnosed medical condition. It's nice when the cure can be achieved to lifestyle choices, but other times it takes medication. Hair loss https://www.reddit.com/r/tressless/ ​ There is a fine line between accepting yourself as you are and dooming yourself to failure by convincing yourself you should be good enough as you are. Think of the…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/22 06:00 PM
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when I'm talking to her for too long I get extremely bored Do you feel obligated to follow her wherever she goes with the conversation. Women are not great conversationalists by default. If you allow them, they'll drag a conversation down the most boring path imaginable. Pook was huge for me here. Try just turning your mouth into a stream of consciousness and see what comes out and where it goes. Some horses will actively fight even going in the direction of water.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/22 05:47 PM
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It's fine if he really means it and willing to follow through. Ultimatums are only to be used if you're actually okay with both outcomes.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/22 07:18 PM
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Frosted tips like Gui Fieri
/r/askMRP25/09/22 11:45 PM
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Has the quality of newbies here been so bad that you guys can't see an obvious troll post when you see it? This is fucking gold.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 05:08 PM
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Nice guys are motivated by validation/avoiding judgement and shame. That's a conveniently narrow and specific definition. Deny your needs for long enough and you forget you're doing it out of shame/guilt and you start to tell yourself you're doing it because you're stoic or hyper independent or whatever. You're not doing it for them (true), you're doing it because self denial has been internalized to the point that you see it as an identity. Why not? Because some things have pre-requisite knowle…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 07:12 PM
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Dude, do you even know who the fuck you are?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 02:30 PM
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Oh, hello old me. Are you sure you're not just a nice guy who internalized that his needs are a burden on others during childhood and now that those shitty childhood strategies are no longer working in his adult life (shocker); instead of letting go, you're dressing them up as some bullshit enlightened Zen non-attachment to outcomes? Or am I just projecting? tbh, I was conflicted about posting this. This might actually not be a good reply to give to someone at OYS#3.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 02:13 PM
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I had to click on your profile after the final question because it seemed like it was written for /r/aita. Are you crossposting to get some internet retards to validate your feefees?
/r/askMRP06/09/22 06:56 PM
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From one recently divorced guy to another. Stop looking to women for meaning. Stop orienting your life like you're preparing for your next marriage. Live an awesome life. Try some shit. Figure out who the fuck you are when you live alone and can do whatever the fuck you want. Most importantly, fix your shit. You know you have some fucked up parts of you. Address that. Journal. Go to therapy. This isn't really a part of the journey this place is able to help you with. There is no roadmap for this…
/r/askMRP03/09/22 02:59 PM
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She needs until February to move out, but what about filing the papers? The part that actually matters. You're focusing on the wrong thing. Your marriage is over. You now have a roommate. Make that mental shift and see how dumb of a question you're asking is. Work on yourself and start gaming other bitches. You'll realize very quickly how special she's not. The truth of dating is that the bar is much, much, much lower than anyone is willing to admit so standing heads and shoulders above the rest…
/r/askMRP24/08/22 03:42 PM
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https://youtu.be/QCmEBd6KKAQ?t=120 is all I could imagine while reading that. You couldn't gone to the OYS thread, but you come here with whatever this is. Although with your post history, none of this is surprising.
/r/askMRP23/08/22 08:35 PM
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Your running wouldn't have done jack shit if you weren't in a caloric deficit.
/r/askMRP23/08/22 02:49 PM
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The way you phrase this question makes me think you've never really gotten past the fuckaround stage of lifting and never really made it a part of your life. Edit: 3 days ago on /r/relationship_advice: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship\_advice/comments/wudbm8/lack\_of\_money\_is\_putting\_a\_strain\_on\_my\_marriage/ To give some background first , I am 36 male , my wife is 37 female . She lives in Canada and I live 40 minutes away in Michigan . We have started immigration paper work but don…
/r/askMRP23/08/22 02:45 PM
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I also realize that maybe it's a lost cause, but either way, my focus is bettering myself for this relationship, or the next one Why even post
/r/askMRP17/08/22 08:11 PM
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One of the best things I ever got out of this place is that Verbal Intercourse Is Optional and Pook thought me that even if you choose to engage, you don't even have to respond to what was said. Here's some homework for you: next time it happens, reply I want to eat your ass or whatever random shit was going through your mind
/r/askMRP05/08/22 12:35 PM
3

Not natty Minimum wage Is gear cheaper than everyone has been saying or are you actually that much of a leech?
/r/askMRP05/08/22 12:22 PM
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Jesus. Every Un-Happy Wife Is A Rape Victim in the flesh
/r/askMRP04/08/22 08:42 PM
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Beautiful
/r/askMRP02/08/22 01:55 AM
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So, what everyone everyone else has been saying
/r/askMRP30/07/22 02:59 AM
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Well, this is the retard playpen after all
/r/askMRP29/07/22 06:11 PM
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OYS #52 early 30s, 5'7, 148 lbs, 16% bf (scale), divorced, no kids My last OYS was 7 months ago. MINDSET After making the realization that I married my wife to repeat the familiar, dysfunctional dynamic of my childhood. That realization allowed me to shed a layer of ego and let go of some of my old patterns. I found myself relaxing and learned to be more relaxed, open, and authentic. One of my plates even commented on my recent change. I moved across the country mid-May. During that week on the …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/22 03:14 PM
1

If you don't care then you don't care but if you want to have a slut all of the time, you're going to have to have a slut all of the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/22 01:44 AM
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I'm only saying the weight you suggested are too high for hours frame but I'm not disagreeing with you on principal. You're much taller so I understand why you'd think he'd still be skinny at 160.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/22 01:39 AM
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It definitely will.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/22 01:38 AM
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"fucking is the only thing you think about, and don't talk to me like a Pornstar" I don't know your situation that well but it's probably one of or combination of You're aftercare sucks. You're making her compartmentalize her inner slut to just when you're fucking You're making her being a slut feel like an act, which I'm guessing is not what you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/22 07:06 PM
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I'll take a link too.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/22 06:54 PM
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At 5'6", I'd suggest shooting for a weight of 175-180. /u/WokenJew I don't know how you store weight, but as a 5'7" guy, I'm fat as fuck at 160 so I unless you're an elite level lifter (which you're not, you're gonna be a fatass at 175-180. You could be more blessed genetically than I am, but, just my personal experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/22 06:42 PM
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You're putting in thr work and it shows. (which obviously is not true because is spent the majority of time for my family and my kids development) It's time to start working on your internal game though.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/22 07:32 PM
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This is a lot of "I did the alpha things, why didn't things fall into place?" I'm 29 swallowing the pill eight years ago got cold feet at that point and have had them since been married a year Try not being a paper bag moving to the sway of the wind and other people's needs and expectations. she makes me... that I can't help but... And now we're married But our families It's obvious you've done literally zero reading.
/r/askMRP07/07/22 02:42 PM
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When I Buy A T-Shirt I Feel Guilty
/r/askMRP29/06/22 06:55 PM
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Lurker that also goes to r/relationship_advice and posted this gem last month I'm in a similar situation. My wife is currently in therapy but when she's in therapy she tends to talk about things happening to her and not really about her mental illness ( she offers to me what she talks about , I don't ask). That's kind of beside the point though. She wakes up literally every day mad at the world, she can't stand her kids most of the time ( she claims she feels trapped yet she doesnt work at all a…
/r/askMRP29/06/22 05:45 PM
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I'm conflicted reading this. It's obvious how far up her ass your head is. It's obvious you're running the program like a robot because you're at a point where most men start questioning the program and start forging their own path. You're broadcasting a message for others to not go down the same path you went but it's obvious you're still walking further down the path because you haven't figured out any better. While this would get rule 9'd in the OYS thread, you strike me as someone who would …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/22 05:32 PM
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Notice when you’re outgrowing your borrowed frame I experienced this a few months ago. This is so fucking hard to see. You'll have successes that reinforce that the way you're seeing things is right. It's hard as shit to separate yourself from a crutch that has carried you far. What got you here won't get you there is simple advice but hard (in my experience) to execute because it's not always clear when a tool has outlived it's usefulness and it's crossed the threshold to being a hinderance.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/22 02:17 PM
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I did the work only to be met with increased scrutiny, paranoia and anger Oh boy. Not even touching that one. This belongs in the retard playpen /r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/22 07:43 PM
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The retard playpin is at r/askmarp OP has such hits like: Is my wife twerking/grinding on me a sin? Do I really always have to cum inside her if I'm catholic?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/22 05:42 PM
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Well, shit
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 04:51 PM
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I act this way myself. I expect those around me to act similar. Oh look, a covert contract
/r/askMRP07/01/22 07:06 PM
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OYS #51 early 30s, 5'7, 147 lbs, divorced, no kids MISSION To live a life of freedom and growth. PHYSICAL BJJ: 3/3 Sessions Muay Thai: 2/2 Sessions Lifting: 2/4 planned workouts. I’m in quarantine after testing positive for COVID. Luckily the symptoms have been mild. I’ll be clear to lift after Saturday once my quarantine is over. I met some arbitrary goals I set for my training this week. I was actually able to keep my hands up for all the rounds of sparring during Muay Thai for the first time.…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/21 03:24 PM
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Maybe if I’m entertaining enough side action I’ll stop being so fucking thirsty. As another recently-divorced military guy, that's how it was for me. I had the same urges right after my divorce, but it goes away after you have a couple of plates at the ready.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/21 02:10 PM
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Man, reading that really reminds me of this scene
/r/askMRP17/12/21 05:07 PM
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You pulled me in with the title but then blue balled me. You bitch.
/r/askMRP17/12/21 05:00 PM
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Unless you're using the word demonstrate some other way, it reads like you're a dancing monkey putting on a show for others and you can't wait to do more dancing.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/21 06:42 PM
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5'6.5", 154 lbs SQ 5x110lbs, BP 5x132lbs, OP 5x77lbs, DL 5x121lbs, BR 5x108lbs I feel that I've hit my max on OP, and almost my max on BP. I'm 5'7, 150 and I can confidently say that, no. You haven't.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/21 06:03 PM
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Demonstrated techniques picked up in Carnegie’s book and focused more on connecting with people whom I did not know and learning more about them. Also took a few opportunities to demonstrate value with quips and flirty banter with a few of my wife’s friends. It came naturally. Now I must take more opportunities out of my social circle to demonstrate my value and see what I am made of. It's funny how you immediately follow this section with I have become laser focused on my motivation and energy …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/21 05:42 PM
1

That has to be really unattractive! Even your motivation to fix it is external. You might benefit from the advice of resetting multiple times a day, every hour if you have to.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 07:05 PM
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I am doing inner work and continue to journal almost every day. It still reads like a damn roller coaster. My emotions are all over the place like I'm a manic depressive. High on life one day, ready to jump the next. Is there a correlation between your mood and your sexual successes?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 05:32 PM
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I feel kind of bad letting my wife eat junk food alone like ice cream alone, and that makes me eat it too. when I don't eat junk food I feel guilty
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 03:33 PM
2

I'm also stalling out on my bench. Pin presses and floor presses is what worked for me. It may work for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 02:54 PM
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OYS #50 early 30s, 5'7, 148 lbs, divorced, no kids MISSION To live a life of freedom and growth. RETARDED MENTAL MODELS When I was driving to see my family during Thanksgiving, I listened to PON. I’ve had this urge for weeks to write a victim puke about my ex in my journal. I’ve been resisting it based on implementing PON and avoiding living in the past. I finally gave in yesterday. It started with me blaming her for things and pointing out her flaws. I then realized I knew all of those flaws an…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 02:40 PM
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Alright, I think I finally figured out my lethargy and lack of follow-through recently. It was my diet. Even though I've been so inconsistent with exercise recently, I realized my weight was not only holding steady but went down slightly. I didn't realize I was in such a deep negative caloric deficit. I added a high protein high fat meal today and it was night and day with my energy levels. Once a year or so this happens and I somehow always forget to check to see if the basics are dialed in.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/21 02:31 PM
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What an eclectic post history. Of all of the subs you post on, why did you think this is the one to ask this question in?
/r/askMRP09/12/21 03:52 PM
4

This is a whole lot of shoulds and will-dos but not a lot of dids.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/21 03:55 PM
1

feminine person who is looking up to me and is trusting my actions, If I'm high enough value she'll look up to me and trust my actions while being both supportive and advisory retarded version of waifu/mommy fantasy
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/21 02:34 PM
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OYS #49 early 30s, 5'7, 148 lbs, divorced, no kids MISSION To live a life of freedom and growth. MINDSET I sat down and wrote down the traits of my ideal self followed by concrete action I could take to live closer to that ideal. That has helped me plan out my days and points out where my approach to things currently fall short of that ideal. Now I have something to refer to when making a decision. Sometimes I watch myself spinning my wheels when choosing between two things that both benefit me …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/21 02:01 PM
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More than anything I just want to be a fun, happy person to be around. I want to cultivate positive energy and stop being such a fuck. I want to feel okay being by myself and without the validation of others.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/21 01:28 PM
1

I also bought the adjustable kettlebells and expanded the dbs to 120 lbs because I like heavy db rows and it was a no brainer for me. Full disclosure: I haven't used power blocks but IronMasters were consistently considered the closest to the real thing Here is a great comparison of your options: https://youtu.be/EVmEgHMhZKY
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/21 06:38 PM
1

What I did was divide expenses based on percentage of income. She brings in 15% of the total household income so I'd have her pay 15% of the rent/mortgage, utilities and what not. Although, I'm not really sure what the problem is. Do you feel guilty asking her to pay for things when she's so poor?
/r/askMRP03/12/21 05:17 PM
2

home gym $1500 is a lot money for a home gym if you already have the basics IronMasters are the best adjustable dumbbell in the market. 100% metal and feel just like regular dumbbells without digging into your legs when they're sitting on your knees. Dip belts are not that expensive. A good leather one will last you for a very long time. Pioneer Fitness will customize it for you if you feel so inclined. I like to geek out about home gym gear so let me know if you have any question or need sugges…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/21 02:11 PM
2

Frame: It's not a good look, it sends low value signals, and it just demonstrates a weak frame. You had me until here. The reasons you give for not doing it are entirely external. You do it for eternal reasons and now want to fix it for an entirely different set of external reasons.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 04:56 PM
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You also said their texts aren't sexual since you got back together. Respect is now part of it too suddenly. She also hasn't cheated again. I don't give a shit either way but every word you write reads like you're doing this because you think that's what you're supposed to be doing to play the roll of red-pilled man.
/r/askMRP01/12/21 12:00 PM
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If the line in the sand is no cheating during current attempt, why does anything that happened before matter? Are you trying to do what a 'red-pilled' man would do?
/r/askMRP01/12/21 11:43 AM
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You're welcome. I'm glad I could help.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 02:47 AM
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Honestly, it's a one step process if that's all it is. Past you did the best he could with the information he had. He had a lifetime of soft lies whispered in his ear from every level of society. The dude learned and is now doing better with the knowledge. What more do you want? Just forgive him and let that shit go dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 07:33 PM
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I need to remember who the fuck I am. And who exactly are you? It reads to me like you don't know and you're blaming women. Is your identity something you use to outsource to the women in your life and now that you don't have that option, you're angry at the discomfort it brings you rather than doing the work to figure it out? Are you angry that women just are while you have to work to answer such a simple question about yourself? My experience has been that when you're angry at a class of peopl…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 06:58 PM
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So you had sex and talked about stuff with people. Cool.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 06:48 PM
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OYS #48 early 30s, 5'7, 148 lbs, divorced, no kids MISSION To live a life of freedom and growth. PHYSICAL I usually have the opposite problems of everyone and tend to lose weight during the holidays and I weighed in at 145lbs (from 149lbs) when I returned home after Thanksgiving. It was mostly water weight as I weighed in at 147 the following day. I’m throwing in an extra day of BJJ and Muay Thai starting this week (now at 3). The goal is 4, but ramping it slowly and seeing how it affects recove…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 03:14 PM
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Hopefully ExtremeOwnership has the guidance I am looking for here Extreme Ownership is not about finding that balance. The Dichotomy of Leadership addresses it better.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/21 05:50 PM
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Thanks. I'm uncategorically against being exclusive for the time being and (now) know not to make those kind of the decisions in the honeymoon period.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/21 10:53 AM
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GYM 4+ days per week This is the only one of your goals that's not shit. The rest are just vague and fluffy bullshit that have no concrete way to measure progress or completion. Add atomic habits to your reading list.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 07:06 PM
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Since my wife is a coworker in a different department, who attended the party, too, she might have seen and heard them or not. Maybe some female colleagues were looking at me, too. I don't know, and it doesn't really matter to me or bother me one bit. The important thing is that I felt good and knew I looked good, too. Then why even include it in your OYS. Listen man, if you want to lie yourself, go ahead but don't expect anyone else to drink the coolaid. It's pretty obvious where your head is a…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 05:09 PM
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OYS #47 early 30s, 5'7, 149 lbs, divorced, no kids MISSION To live a life of freedom and growth. RETARDED MENTAL MODELS I realized this week that I’m a classic over-preparer. I tend to put in a lot of leg work or want things to be juuust so before acting. That leads to a lot of wasted time and I tend to start things later when I feel ‘ready’ when in reality I was ready long before. The earliest example I can think of is even as a teenage skeleton playing WoW in my room, I’d spend weeks grinding …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 04:30 PM
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My post hasn't been edited so go back and reread what I wrote but this time pay attention to your ego and try to figure out why you felt the need to defend yourself against something I never said. Also, if you internalized and implemented what you got from those books, your post wouldn't read like it does.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/21 08:58 PM
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My goals are to get guidance, That's not what this place is. By the way, how is that a goal you can make happen at all when it depends entirely on retards on the internet? Did you just listen to those books to check a box and didn't actually pay attention to them? The very first line at the top of this post is: A fundamental core principle here is that you are the judge of yourself No one is here to tell you how to live your life. This is where you come to post things you've done and getting fee…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/21 06:32 PM
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It's not a laziness thing, I just haven't been prioritizing You get the same 24 hours that everyone else does. You can just say the other shit you do is more important to you easier to do than lifting. 2 hours a few times a week to lift. It's odd that you say you've lifted for years but still think you need this much time to get a good workout in. Compound lifts allow you to hit multiple muscles at once so you can hit a whole section of your body in just a few exercises. You're now one of those …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/21 05:30 PM
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One issue I need to resolve soon is sleep. Are you not sleeping because you can't sleep while the object of your sexual desire is within arms reach but you're good if you go to the couch? Because that's when I sleep I feel guilty shit. Or are you having trouble falling asleep period (even on the touch)?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/21 04:44 PM
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I wondered what kind of OYS I'd get from a man who is still introducing himself as a couple on OYS#25 and it's about what I expected.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/21 04:16 PM
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she deleted some pictures I had of her recovering deleted files is super simple. There are tons of apps/programs for it
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/21 04:10 PM
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Style I feel like people are going to make a big deal if I start dressing up. 2 things: 1, Isn’t that the point? Who gives a s hit if they make a big deal. If you want to look like a million bucks, look like a fucking million bucks. People having feelings about it is irrelevant. 2, just like when I changed my hairstyle and grew my beard longer, a few people made some comments (positive), but for the most part nobody gave a shit. So I’m in my head for no reason. No, you're in their head for no re…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/21 04:06 PM
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/u/AlphaChameleon777 Hook grip. Sports tape on your thumb if you need it
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/21 06:13 PM
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You can get a shitty incline bench for $100 from Amazon/Walmart (even cheaper if you go second hand). I don't know what your goals are though so maybe it's just not worth the cost to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/21 05:37 PM
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The fuck? Yes you can. Flex your fucking legs and push your back into the bench. Are you doing it on a flat bench with no back support?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/21 04:23 PM
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If your lower back hurts from a shoulder exercise, I'd say 99.99999% of the time it's because you're not bracing with your legs and core. It's a full body exercise.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/21 02:42 PM
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Pleased that my squat baseline that I de-loaded to was 40kg. Less than a year ago 20kg felt heavy. Next goal is 50kg. It took you a fucking year to go from the bar feeling heavy to having 10kg on each side? Next year, your goal is to add another 5kg per side. Incrementing at 1kg/session due to age and slight build The math doesn't add up unless you only lift once every three weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/21 02:26 PM
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OYS #46 early 30s, 5'7, 149 lbs, divorced, no kids MISSION To live a life of freedom and growth. MINDSET It was overall not a great week. I fucked up on the basics (sleeping/lifting) PHYSICAL I failed to turn my major will from last week into a did for this week. I didn’t sign up for BJJ like I planned. Not only that, I only worked out once since my last OYS (instead of my usual four). I kept telling myself to delay leg day so I wouldn’t be too sore for BJJ on the following day - which I never s…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/21 03:43 PM
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Fuck it, legs for me. Specifically, I'm throwing in the Bulgarian Split Squat Drop Set (John Meadows style) at the end of leg day.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/21 02:52 PM
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None of it was about making it a great experience for me...it was all focusing on her. Literally the first book you listed, NMMNG points out to be aware of good lover validation. Are you sure you're not a retard that came into this with that goal and skimmed over or ignored everything that tells you to not have that as a goal?
/r/askMRP10/11/21 12:59 PM
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OYS #45 early 30s, 5'7, 149 lbs, 9% (navy) divorced, no kids MISSION To live a life of freedom and growth. PHYSICAL I’ve decided to pull the trigger and scrap my strength goals and return to a hypertrophy focused workout (PPL). I’ve decided on an MMA gym and have also settled on BJJ as the sport I learn first. I was going to start my free week of classes yesterday but my car took a shit on me and I didn’t get it back until late yesterday. I’ve had a cough for two weeks and decided to finally tal…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/21 03:07 PM
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Yeah, it's starting to get cold and I was always cold already to begin with. The plan is to bulk back up to ~155 during the winter months.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/21 01:08 PM
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I lift because it makes me feel good, look good, is great for my health, and I like picking heavy shit up and putting it back down again. I'm not some crazy body-builder here like some dudes, but I look pretty fucking great naked. With so many things vying for my time, a man only has so much. This is what it boils down to. While I do like seeing numbers go up, the main reason I lift is for how good I feel afterward and how great I look naked. Don't ask questions you're just looking for validatio…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/21 01:06 PM
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Thanks. I'm gonna spend a few days mulling this over. This is the next level of being my own mental point of origin.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/21 03:29 PM
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OYS #44 early 30s, 5'7, 147 lbs, 9% (navy) divorced, no kids 5-3-1 Maxes: OHP: 141x1, DL: 282x1, Bench: 209x1, Squat: 252x1 Goals Maxes: OHP: 160x1, DL: 380x1, Bench: 245x1, Squat 320x1 MISSION To live a life of freedom and growth. PHYSICAL Last week was my first fully off week from lifting after running 5-3-1 BBB nonstop since April. The goal for the week was to increase my protein intake while sleeping and eating a lot. I only succeeded in sleeping a lot. I even lost weight during the week. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/21 12:43 PM
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I find myself with defenses up in regards to sex and what I want, I keep using humour to express my desires and I think it comes from a place of letting myself down easy rather then to get a laugh, its the wrong use of humour and it means I am not assuming the win. I am not sure why I am defensive about my desires, I freeze up when I try to be blunt. I think it is either fear of judgement or of rejection, I have a hard time feeling out where the issue lies though. https://www.reddit.com/r/marrie…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/21 02:04 AM
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I have developed contempt for seeing beta behavior in others and haven’t really known what to do about it. Here is what worked for me. It may work for you. I found myself succeeding and backtracking a lot in the beginning. What finally made it stick was developing this kind of hypervigilance and utter contempt for undesireable thoughts and behavior whenever they popped up in my head. Long after those behaviors have been erased, that hypervigilance and contempt remains. It's there because I backs…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/21 02:46 AM
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i am also 100% confident that I will gain it right back up if I am not careful. How fat are you? I know my problem is eating right before I sleep. that is when the sweets or junk food cravings come. Breakfast and lunch I am pretty disciplined. Since last week I have been eating fruits and tons of water when i feel the cravings come. I'm disciplined with food except for when I'm really hungry Back in the Army at 19 I was 152lbs lean, but it will not be realistic of me to get to that level at 40. …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/21 12:37 AM
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The second being is against who I feel to be. This stood out to me. Did you decide this yourself consciously or is it the result of the momentum of how you were raised to be?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 04:53 PM
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Conversation Tactics is the name of the book series. The author is Patrick King.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 03:32 PM
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How do you guys keep it fresh? I just can’t be fucked half the time but then I do want a fulfilling sex life so I’m not sure how to balance this. What does a fulfilling sex life mean to you? Is the sex life you want the one you actually want or are you co-opting someone else's vision? If you have to force it then maybe the result isn't worth it to you - and that's okay.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 02:52 PM
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OYS #43 early 30s, 5'7, 148 lbs, 9% (navy) divorced, no kids 5-3-1 Maxes: OHP: 141x1, DL: 282x1, Bench: 209x1, Squat: 252x1 Goals Maxes: OHP: 160x1, DL: 380x1, Bench: 245x1, Squat 320x1 MISSION I want to live a life of freedom and growth. PHYSICAL After running 5-3-1 BBB nonstop since April, I’m taking Tyred_Biggum’s advice and taking a week off. For months I consistently weighed in between 149.5-151.5. I weighed myself on Wednesday and I was at 148. This prompted me to look into my diet and I r…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 02:08 PM
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ELECTRIC LEAF BLOWER I couldn't figure out why this is part of your OYS ROGAINE The active ingredient is 5% Minoxidil. You can that cheaper at a lot of places. You can buy a 6 month supply of the oil from Costco for ~$22 or the foam for $50. The oil gave me horrible dandruff that went away after two weeks of switching to the foam. Some people have no issue with the oil though so YMMV.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/21 11:47 PM
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I plan to be 248lbs this time next month, with similar milestones each month till March. 2 lbs a week is a very agressive cut. Just know that it will be taxing to be on that kind of a cut for almost 6 months. If you start feeling like shit, the play is to increase your calories slightly (while staying in a cut), not scrapping the diet entirely. Relationship: You're a delusional fat fuck if you think she should be tripping over herself to suck your dick. Finances You make it sound like there is a…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/21 12:52 PM
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Have you found the calculator to be accurate? For example, I'm convinced I have way more gains in my upper legs than a mere 0.4 inches and I've only been training neck for like 6 months and I was 14.5 when I started so I think my ceiling is higher.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/21 05:06 PM
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The Journaling thing is what helped me the most. I start every journal entry the same way. Here is todays: No porn: 46/49 days - Current Streak: 32 days - Longest Streak: 32 days What gets measured gets managed. I don't get angry when I fail. I have no goal to hit. It's just a metric that I track because it's important to me. That's what worked for me and it may work for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/21 03:16 PM
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Professional: Making 150k per year The second I read this, I knew what your OYS was going to be about.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/21 01:51 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/k3b2fPt These seems very conservative maxes for generic potential. Then again, 16 lbs of lean muscle mass is a lot on a 5'7 skeleton.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/21 03:09 AM
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185lbs 5'5'' Tired of the diet yoyoing You're the second person I've heard this from this week. You're making the same mistaken assumption that a lot of fatasses make. Diets are not binary. It's not either starvation rations or glutenous indulgence. There is a lot of room for calibration between 1600 and 3000 calories. Also, once you achieve your goal weight, you don't get to celebrate by going back to eating the way that got you fat in the first place. The obvious will happen and it's another d…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 05:50 PM
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Stats CW 185lbs Height? Do you even lift bro? If so, how much?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 04:21 PM
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makes some comment about how I get everything I want while my wife gets nothing. When a woman talks about her feelings, sandwich it between "I feel..." and "... right now." If you had that in mind, you probably wouldn't have failed the ensuing shit tests so badly.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 04:15 PM
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I've been running BBB. I think a fully off week will do my body good. I'll finish this week (Week 1), take next week off and do another Week 1 at current weight and see how it goes. Thx.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 06:33 PM
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Hmm, that prompted to look back at my response to you two weeks ago to double check. I didn't give her a say to support her. Me letting her live with me while she finishes her schooling is me supporting her. Obviously me giving her a say wasn't as magnanimous of an act as I fooled myself into thinking. I had the covert contract or making her more likely to have sex with me. I am allowed to change my mind on this, but I'm not ready to pull that trigger just this second.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 06:07 PM
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should will try to see You don't have to use so many words to say you don't lift. You can use machines to work body parts without putting weight on your shoulders.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 03:44 PM
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OYS #42 early 30s, 5'7, 150 lbs, 9% (navy) divorced, no kids 5-3-1 Maxes: OHP: 141x1, DL: 282x1, Bench: 209x1, Squat: 252x1 Goals Maxes: OHP: 160x1, DL: 380x1, Bench: 245x1, Squat 320x1 MISSION I want to live a life of freedom and growth. PHYSICAL I've been running 5-3-1 in earnest since at least April without a break. I had to back off of Squats last week after repeatedly failing lifts during the last cycle. I'll spend a month or so doing low weight high reps. OHP getting as grindy as Squats we…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 02:00 PM
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Diets aren't binary. You could've just increased your calories while remaining in a deficit. 10 pounds a month is very aggressive and not sustainable long term. The best diet is one you can stick to. You're making the common mistake of thinking one you've lost the weight, you can go back to eating the way that got you fat in the first place then say diets don't work when you become fat again (who would've thought).
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/21 08:20 PM
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5'7" 200lbs. This is literally the most important thing that you need to address You need to put down the fork. You can't outwork a bad diet. Download something like MyFitnessPal and start tracking the food you're shoveling into your mouth. I'm 5'7" too and I feel fucking gross at 160 so I don't know you managed to delude yourself into thinking you're just "husky" at 200lbs. How has your weight changed since you started lifting? Unchanged? Were you fatter or did you tell yourself you were bulkin…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/21 06:13 PM
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You've been lifting for almost a year but you don't post your lift or stats so I have no fucking clue why I keep falling for it. Ego. You think you're special for having read some books. It's the same reason conspiracy theorists think they're great because they have some secret knowledge that the rest of the sheep doesn't. If you had some actual accomplishments of your own, you wouldn't need to take so much pride in something you had no hand in constructing. Style. I cannot dress for shit. I bou…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/21 03:39 PM
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pointed it out and she got pissed. She’s not lazy at all she will help out a lot around the house but she does things so inefficient and stupid imo. People in here are giving you the benefit of the doubt, but are you a condescending asshole when you point out how stupid and inefficient she does things?
/r/askMRP18/10/21 10:42 AM
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She doesn't think I will protect her I assume there's an unwritten from herself there. I should have stood up for her at the moment, pulled her aside, and stood up to her when we left. I'll own this part The only thing you should've done was drop your voice a few octaves and tell her to sit her ass the fuck down. You're under no obligation to back up a drunk retard. You have no idea the other person's temperament or if they have a conceal carry permit. Good thing the other dude had a better head…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/21 07:45 PM
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Your OYS is very other-people-focused. Looking at the sections of your OYS, do you do anything just for yourself? “I’m sad you do not put the same amount of investment into our marriage with trips and plans as you do visit your friends; perhaps I am jealous that you have more friends than I do.” This could've been written in a journal or just been you thinking yourself through this. Why did you feel that you needed the audience?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/21 07:30 PM
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she had feelings and she needs to process me leaving The Medium Is The Message
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/21 07:17 PM
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Yes it's ego. Failures are softened because you weren't really trying anyway. If you were really trying, you would've succeeded. Or so you tell yourself. Choose something hard. Something that will challenge you. Then decide and commit to succeeding. Stop taking it for granted that you're awesome. Put it to the test and don't give yourself the out of "I don't really care if I succeed so I won't really try."
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 09:15 PM
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Yes, frame is when a giant turd gently caresses your prostate on the way out and leaves you with a feeling of ecstasy.
/r/askMRP13/10/21 07:16 PM
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Goal: gym membership before I post OYS #2 I would give a specific date so you don't give yourself permission to not post OYS#2 if you fail to get this done.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 03:40 PM
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In limbo and im essentially waiting for her to reach out or for me to cave and reach out to meet her when im back from my business trip - advice needed. I love this girl and its bad Imagine agreeing to become an orbiter for your ex. Pussy you've already tasted. Go into monk mode until i leave this country Why? Why waste that time not getting better at game? The time will pass anyway, you can use it putting in reps or being a retard.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 03:21 PM
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Academics All semester I've been more or less slacking on my coursework. I currently have good grades in all of my classes (I do all of my work), but I'm always doing things at the last second. My time management is bad. This is the same issue I faced during my internship: putting things off until the last second, listening to music while I should be doing work, and napping too much. I am doing my best to address these habits. I've been listening to less music, and waking up earlier. I will cont…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 03:12 PM
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I did everything I wanted and I still felt a little disappointed I asked myself, why the fuck am I doing this on vacation. I did not have a good answer other than to stay disciplined. What do you want?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/21 07:31 PM
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I can tell she's a little bored with me I know it's still in her mind I also have this gut feeling that she may be seeing someone else or at the very least texting someone else. Haven't been able to verify and I don't have evidence it's just a gut feeling. I feel like she doesn't want to be around me most of the time. My god. Your hamster is gonna have a heart attack.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/21 06:34 PM
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Extremely ashamed of past beta behavior or failures One thing you'll learn as you get older is you will always be able look back and see how much of an idiot you are. That's good though, it means you've grown. Old you did the best he could with the knowledge and mental models he had at the time. You've since discovered/built better models so you can't help but cringe at old you. Forgive him, he was doing the best he could with what he knew.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/21 05:34 PM
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I was expecting more entertainment based on the title.
/r/askMRP12/10/21 03:43 PM
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OYS #41 early 30s, 5'7, 149 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4, divorced 5-3-1 Maxes: OHP: 141x1, DL: 282x1, Bench: 209x1, Squat: 252x1 Goals Maxes: OHP: 160x1, DL: 380x1, Bench: 245x1, Squat 320x1 MISSION I want to live a life of freedom and growth. PHYSICAL I hit all of my attempted maxes last week. OHP was the only lift that felt really grindy. I didn’t attempt squats as I had been failing reps throughout this cycle. I’m gonna change up the weight/rep scheme for squats for a few weeks …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/21 02:57 PM
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Whenever I open my mouth in conflict, I sabotage myself Shut. The. Fuck. Up. It's literally one of the only three things you have to do at this stage.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/21 12:42 PM
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Well, she was close to finishing her career change when I decided to divorce. I said I'd keep supporting her until she finished. She asked for it in writing in return for the uncontested divorce. I've brought girls over when she's not around before but there's only one day a week where that's feasible. I wanted an open door policy and didn't want to just spring it out of nowhere with no heads up and fuck up my living situation. And no. She knows I was already seeing other women. (Had a condom ri…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 08:47 PM
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Had to scale then down due to sitting on my ass for the last 2 weeks. I promise that you didn't lose strength over two weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 01:37 PM
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Of course he doesn't. He thought he'd be cool and some internet retards would be proud of him if he got his wife to let him fuck her face. If his desire was genuine, this wouldn't have been an issue.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/21 04:46 PM
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TL;DR for the rest of you. The rest is just ego stroking and mental masturbation. I don't lift I have issues to do with keeping boundaries, maintaining space and time to my self. I still have unresolved ABOUT SAYING NO TO WOMEN
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/21 04:19 PM
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it could be a frame test, or LMR, or just wanting to slow the pace down a bit. Or she could've just not been horny enough. I like my nipples played with, but only when I'm already feeling good. It's a feel better button, not a feel good button.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/21 01:29 PM
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OYS #40 early 30s, 5'7, 150 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4, divorced 5-3-1 Maxes: OHP: 141x1, DL: 278x1, Bench: 205x1, Squat: 252x1 Goals Maxes: OHP: 160x1, DL: 380x1, Bench: 245x1, Squat 320x1 MISSION I want to live a life of freedom and growth. DIVORCE/ROMANCE The divorce was finalized on Friday morning. I saw plenty of examples of what the post about Divorce Not Needing to be a Nuke is talking about. Everyone in the courtroom was there for a non-contested divorce and they were chat…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/21 12:31 PM
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Just go to his profile. He's all ego and no substance
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 07:19 PM
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Let me tell you something you already know. You can't control other people. You can only control yourself. What use is it to worry about what they may be thinking or doing? All you control are your actions once you find out. You'd give a lot less fucks if you weren't a gross neckbeard (I see that picture in your profile) and had other bitches giving you play for just existing. You're not there so you cling on to this girl for dear life because the truth is, you can't really do better because you…
/r/askMRP30/09/21 05:22 PM
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lol. My wife told me to become redpill. Let's do it boys. Move this to the retard playpen: /r/AskMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 05:14 PM
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That's quite the victim puke. Why did you post this? Did you have a question? Do you need validation from internet retards? If you see this as a bad thing, what are you doing to change it? There is not a single action item here. At all.
/r/askMRP30/09/21 05:07 PM
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It'll take time and patience to get there. You first have to recognize when you start supressing them and then just letting them play out. Experience them. They have no power over your actions. I'm gonna plug The Untethered Soul one more time.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 02:03 PM
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I wanted her to not be happy. Does it only happen when she's happy or are you not able to stand any emotion from her at all? If that's the case, the problem is you being so separated from your emotions and suppressing them for so long that you seek to flatten anything that may get a rise out of you (positive or negative)
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 12:55 PM
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Another opportunity to plug the book The Untethered Soul. It was a game changer for helping me do this and it may do the same for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 12:53 PM
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You're so angry and it oozes from every sentence you write. As for your skin issue, maybe you're like me and just have sensitive skin and can't handle daily hot showers or soaps that are too aggressive? I had a skin issue for years and switching back to cold-tepid showers and going back to my old soap solved it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 12:51 PM
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It's important for people to see this. I'm in the middle of a divorce (no kids) and so far I've only paid the $225 filing fee. We're seeing a judge tomorrow and only have to pay the court recorder $44 for the two of us. If it gets finalized tomorrow, the entire process will have cost under $300. I almost sprung for lawyers right off the bat, but realized that we can just talk about it and come up with an agreement that works for the both of us. We settled on terms we're both happy with and it's …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 12:08 PM
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I had an ex do that shit to me once. Once she legitimately told me "you know, everyone I know things you're a dick and wonders why I'm still with you. I always defend you." She said like I was suppose to be thankful she's been making me out to be a monster to everyone else. I never put my hands on her playfully or otherwise so be careful with that shit. If she ever decides to claim DV, people have a prior example to point to.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 03:13 PM
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what do I say in these situations? Nothing. Just be better. Be the guy that gets it without her having to spell it out for you, like in My Secret Garden.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 02:15 PM
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Mental: The Untethered Soul was a game changer for me when it came to dealing with random emotions and a wandering mind. Give it a read or listen, it may do the same for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 04:44 PM
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Give Come As You Are a read or listen. It'll explain your realization.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 02:42 PM
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I got an offer. I closed the deal. Some retard on the other side of the screen is doing the nod of approval. Good shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 01:30 PM
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OYS #39 early 30s, 5'7, 150 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4, divorcing 5-3-1 Maxes: OHP: 137x1, DL: 278x1, Bench: 205x1, Squat: 252x1 Goals Maxes: OHP: 160x1, DL: 380x1, Bench: 245x1, Squat 320x1 MISSION I want to live a life of discipline, freedom and growth. MINDSET Everyday I take on more around the house and are starting to live as if I’m living on my own. I actually get excited and happy to do more knowing that I’m only responsible to myself and have no expectation of anyone else …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 12:32 PM
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A lawyer for the marriage. A psychologist for your mental stuff. A medical doctor for your physical stuff (your test).
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/21 01:40 AM
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neighbors got some good entertainment out of it slaps herself in the face 3 times I'm not saying she's seeing you up for a DV charge, but... the groundwork is there. You need professional help.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/21 06:54 PM
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I need actionable steps that will fill my brain with things to say. Read conversation tactics. You have more things to talk about than you think.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/21 02:49 PM
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This is for you to own your own shit not to get your wife to own her shit so you can remain unattractive. Also I’ve been victim puking about my wife’s lack of enthusiasm and lack of affection towards me since pretty well a year before we got married. You can't say you didn't know what you were getting into.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/21 01:34 PM
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Height: 6'00'', Weight: 64kg Dude, you need to eat like it's your fucking job
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/21 01:02 PM
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I tried to get her to straddle me and kiss, she was reluctant and instantly said "I'm not having sex". I kept trying, felt myself getting worked up. I was told it didn't feel natural, it felt forced. Same old complaint, I want sex and expect it. Got to bed, tried to initiate kissing to lead to sex. More reluctance, and a hard no. I laid awake all night thinking about it because I didn't get my validation. I'm still a fucking fag. A thought I've been having, I haven't often been genuinely horny l…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/21 12:56 PM
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Give Come As You Are a read or listen. It's a little too woke at parts imo, but the knowledge is valuable when it comes to the wide range of how a woman's sexuality can express it self.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/21 12:16 PM
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Is it Dirty Talk by Jake S. Master?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 04:31 PM
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OYS #38 early 30s, 5'7, 149 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4, divorcing 5-3-1 Maxes: OHP: 137x1, DL: 278x1, Bench: 205x1, Squat: 252x1 Goals Maxes: OHP: 160x1, DL: 380x1, Bench: 245x1, Squat 320x1 MISSION I want to live a life of discipline, freedom and growth. MINDSET For the last 2-3 months, I was tempted to cut down to 145 because I still saw a lot of fluff in the mirror. I’m not sure what happened, but recently I’ve just been seeing a jacked dude. I know I didn’t gain a shit of musc…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 12:19 PM
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31M - 30F | 5’7” | 180lbs - 22% BF I'm also 31 and 5'7. You're delusional if you think you're that lean (would still be fat). You'd be 22% if you were maybe 20 pounds lighter. Take a picture of yourself shirtless, seeing a static image may help take off your rose tinted goggles.
/r/askMRP19/09/21 02:52 AM
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The kid is set for two doctor's appts (real doctors) to deal with her thing. That's a win. Finally. Good job man. Two. I'm getting shorter with my wife. This is vague enough that I don't know what it means, but I hope you're not going out of your way to be confrontational. I'll just copy this line from /u/MrPaschulke's OYS Becoming a captain is about building my own ship, not about starting a mutiny and wrestle control from my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 12:34 PM
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You text her in your OYS and now saying you have strong initiations. Stop it. You're probably subcommunicating that you pushed all the right buttons and sex is supposed to happen now. Are your initiations fun or are you a robot on a mission? You eventually need to get to the point where a no is not such a big deal. It could be a million other things but my gut tells me it's probable one or both of the above. There is no way you can both be pursuing validation and somehow have her not pick up on …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 10:43 PM
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ok if you aren't a creep and don't act like I owe it to you. Literally giving you the answer I have it in my head that once a week is the minimum acceptable amount for me. I find myself initiating more often than I'm genuinely horny, it must be validation seeking sex That shit ain't sexy. You're initiating to fill good about being able to get sex, not because you find her sexy. That shit dries up pussies and she can sense it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 09:49 PM
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I don't get the feeling from reading this that you've internalized that it's all your fault. This reads more like "she sucks, but I let it happen" rather than "I made her suck." Like /u/Remington-Holmes pointed out, you had a part in building and reinforcing the version of you that she has in her head. It's all your fault.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 04:17 PM
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Husband: This is a little harder to answer. I want to be my wife's oak, her base from which she conquers her world. Her man whom she looks up to, with whom she loves to have a great time and share a good laugh, and whom she craves to fuck her brains out. That's the wrong frame. Husband: I want to be an oak. I want to be a man worth looking up to, I want to have a life full of laughter and good times. I want to be a man who fucks. Those are all things you can achieve without anyone else's input, …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 02:18 PM
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5'9", 235lb Food was good except for this weekend, where I ate too much at a social gathering that I hosted. I'll have to have iron focus and discipline to keep from stuffing my face with garbage food every time it's available. It's cute that you have flowery goals, but you're fucking up one of the fundamentals. I was wondering why so little of your OYS was about your weight when you're this fat, but you've actually done negative work on this front. 235 lbs - Sep 14 232 lbs - Sept 7 (absence) 23…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 01:39 PM
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Good to hear you're more disciplined this week. You have a lot of random shit on your plate and they're not at the same level of importance. Rank them in order of importance and get them done in that order. Do your homework and work on getting a fucking job. That'll positively impact at least two of your other goals.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 12:22 PM
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I seem to keep pulling them If you're not stretching already after workouts, start doing so. It's a game changer. I was debating whether to focus solely on writing and graduating vs. picking up extra paid work to fill the gap. For now I will focus entirely on writing and graduating. FWIW, I think this is the right choice. Every month you don't graduate is another month at a much lower earning potential. There is a real cost to delaying graduation. That's one of the realizations that got me to ge…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 01:17 AM
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close when needed in a non-needy way Playing things back in my head, this was definitely it 100%. Ah well. Live and learn.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 11:01 PM
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The Mystery Method is a book/audio book. It happened like 6 or 7 weeks back I think. She was flirting aggressively with me for weeks before finally just writing down her phone number on my receipt and giving it to me unrequested. We met in person once. I was getting compliance, nudes then... just stopped replying out of the blue.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 09:54 PM
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OYS #37 early 30s, 5'7, 150 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4, divorcing 5-3-1 Maxes: OHP: 137x1, DL: 278x1, Bench: 201x1, Squat: 252x1 Goals Maxes: OHP: 160x1, DL: 380x1, Bench: 245x1, Squat 320x1 MISSION I want to live a life of discipline, freedom and growth. MINDSET I realized this week that I do not currently have an awesome life. I have an okay life, but not an awesome one. Once the divorce is finalized and STBX moves out, my life will be pretty void of social interaction outside o…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 08:02 PM
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Just making sure I understand whatever this is: you're getting nothing but silent treatment and shit thrown at you and giving her unlimited comfort because....? That's what maintaining frame is?
/r/askMRP10/09/21 03:28 PM
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trying to kick start some momentum. LIFTING Starting is the hardest part STUDY I allowed my self to get very distracted in the past WORK Looking at jobs (lazily) RELATIONSHIP I'm supposed to be spending [the time] doing my own shit. MUSIC gonna have to kick myself up the ass to start. SUMMARY All in all everything is looking pretty weak. I know what I want, I just need to take the action needed. Look man, there is discipline and there is motivation. Motivation has you doing things when you're in…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/21 12:28 PM
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You're in the process of substituting her frame for the frame of a internet retards on a message board. That's evident from your pre-DEERing. Slow down. Figure out what /u/Pristine-Implement0 wants instead of just doing the thing that the internet retards will pat you on the back for.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/21 04:14 PM
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130 lbs I have been cheating on the intermittent fasting a bit in the AM/PM since I don't seem to be gaining much weight. How tall are you? Why are you doing IF if you're trying to gain weight? If you're struggling to gain weight, you need to eat like it's your fucking job.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/21 12:12 PM
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He wants the win of leading his wife to making a good decision more than doing right by his kid. Fucking pathetic. u/RedCoquette, Once you gave her the chance to do the right thing and she dropped the ball, pick up the fucking phone and book the appointment yourself. You know the type of person she is so you're just getting angry at her being herself. That's retarted. You're resisting internalizing that it's all your fault. You're doing some impressive mental gymnastics to make it so you're powe…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/21 03:20 PM
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Thank you for this. Definitely overthinking.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/21 12:35 PM
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NMMNG Wait, hold up. How is this in your reading list and you don't see the giant covert contracts you have around sex and her attraction. Attraction isn't a choice.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/21 06:06 PM
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No one said to post your max. We asked to post your lifts.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/21 06:02 PM
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5'10, 220 lbs Lifts- Bench - maybe 225 Squat - maybe 300 to 350 Deadlift - used to be 315, no longer Deadlift due to back issues So you're fat and haven't lifted lifted heavy shit in a long time (I'd guess years).
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/21 05:56 PM
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You excluded put your height, weight or lifts. You are a black hole of neediness. Your wife could give you all that you think you want (she can't btw) and that still won't fill the black hole that is your lack of self worth.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/21 05:43 PM
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OYS #36 early 30s, 5'7, 150 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4, divorcing 5-3-1 Maxes: OHP: 133x1, DL: 270x1, Bench: 201x1, Squat: 252x1 Goals Maxes: OHP: 160x1, DL: 380x1, Bench: 245x1, Squat 320x1 MISSION I want to live a life of discipline, freedom and growth. MINDSET I spent the holiday weekend traveling to a town a couple of hours away. I didn’t go with a plan but did most of the stuff I wanted to do. I had a good time. I said a couple of weeks ago that I don’t really know who I want…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/21 01:41 PM
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Getting the flaws pointed out on your Bill Burr post triggered you enough to make this, huh?
/r/askMRP07/09/21 09:08 AM
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5'7, 178 lbs, 16% Scale, 17% Navy, Divorced I'm 5'7 so I was having a really hard time figuring out how the hell you weren't a fatty at that body weight with those lifts. Something is not adding up. For OYS 1-4, you were 5'10". You didn't post for four months, but posted OYS#9 and apparently shrunk to 5'9" during your absence. You stayed that height for two months until you reached your current height of 5'7" at OYS #17. OYS#1 5'10 175 lbs 14% fat scale OYS#9 5'9 169 lbs 13% fat scale, 14% navy …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/21 03:05 PM
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Why is this the type of retard that TRP produces? Embrace your 5.35" dick bro, it's not getting any bigger.
/r/askMRP31/08/21 10:33 PM
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And you should. The best way to avoid the hangover is to not drink yourself stupid. That doesn't mean you need to spend the next day useless though if you fuck up.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/21 06:09 PM
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Not vomiting but not fully functional Electrolytes. Either down a Gatorade or Pedialyte to cure hangovers.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/21 05:35 PM
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The photography hobby is new, less than a month old new. The aversion to being photographed is over a decade old. I knew people who had this completely false persona online and it felt slimy to me. As a reaction, I took the opposite view because that's what you do as a teenager. I just never bothered to reevaluate that view. I'm not sure what the change is. I want pictures. Fuck how that may be viewed by anyone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/21 01:37 PM
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OYS #35 early 30s, 5'7, 150 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4, divorcing 5-3-1 Maxes: OHP: 133x1, DL: 270x1, Bench: 201x1, Squat: 252x1 Goals Maxes: OHP: 160x1, DL: 380x1, Bench: 245x1, Squat 320x1 MISSION I want to live a life of discipline, freedom and growth. PHYSICAL Besides for Bench, this is the strongest I’ve been at the main lifts. I gave it a few weeks but I’ve decided to remove some volume for the assistant lifts for DL and Squat days. Those two days are the most taxing. I feel…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/21 12:11 PM
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She throws the d word around way too much and I'm tired of letting it happen. I'm going to establish a boundary and say that if it ever gets thrown out again, it had better be with intention because I'll be following up with papers if it ever gets mentioned. These words feel hollow. Are you actually prepared to burn it all down? Is this an actual boundary that you have or is it something you're saying because you've seen others have that boundary and think that's the RP thing to have?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/21 03:49 PM
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I [29M] recently broke up with my gf [27F] of about 5 months I'm out
/r/askMRP27/08/21 12:42 AM
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Sorry babe, I'm not doing this tonight Good shit. You're starting to have standards. She's learning that there is a point where she's not worth it anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/21 02:14 PM
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Fuck yeah
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/21 07:03 PM
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ectomorph As someone who was a 5'7" 125lb skeleton for all of high school, I can confidently that that is bullshit. I only ate enough to poop 2-3 times a week. You're just not eating enough. Track your calories. Calculate how much you need to be consuming to gain weight for your activity level. Eat that amount. It won't always be fun and at times you'll have to force feed yourself, but all that matters is calorie in and calorie out. Keep tracking and stick to it until it stops requiring effort.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/21 05:03 PM
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I used to squat barefoot and would recommend the shoes. The slight angle makes a big difference for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/21 04:34 PM
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OYS #34 early 30s, 5'7, 150 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4, divorcing 5-3-1 Maxes: OHP: 133x1, DL: 270x1, Bench: 201x1, Squat: 252x1 Goals Maxes: OHP: 160x1, DL: 380x1, Bench: 245x1, Squat 320x1 MISSION I want to live a life of discipline, freedom and continual growth. MINDSET I don’t know who I want to be. The physical stuff is easy, but I’m not sure what kind of man I want to be (personality wise) so I’m not sure which direction to go in. PHYSICAL Maxed out all of my lifts this week…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/21 02:37 PM
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I have read the entire sidebar No the fuck you haven't. You wouldn't have such basic questions if you had. Reading the sidebar doesn't mean just looking to see what's on it, but actually buying the books and the links. You seem to think you're missing the one weird trick, and i'm telling you that's not how it works. You need to actually do the work.
/r/askMRP24/08/21 12:12 PM
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Your problem is that you have no frame. At all. Your problems can be solved by hitting the sidebar at mrp, OYS and STFU. Any suggestions for heading off / arguing less about her feelings? STFU. Any suggestions about getting her to own her own shit and diet and make friends and shit You don't control other people. MRP fixes the man. Get your shit in order. When you're a man of high value, you can then decide if this relationship works for you or not. As a man of high value, you'll have options. T…
/r/askMRP24/08/21 09:40 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/21 09:15 AM
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She set up a dating profile and starting to prep socially by starting to turn everyone against you and you take it as an empty bluff. OK bro
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/21 12:22 PM
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You're a fucking retard. Read that again without the RP buzzwords.
/r/askMRP22/08/21 01:26 PM
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I simply told her each time it would be rude to leave as this was planned in advance Rude to who? You've read the books so I know you have better tools to assert your desires. Unless, you didn't want to be there either? Then why stay? Unless... adults do not act this way and I need her to appreciate that. It's because you went to all that trouble to plan something for her birthday and here she was not appreciating it and letting a little mental breakdown get in the way of your validation.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/21 11:21 PM
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Is this a viable strategy? Did I label this wrongly in the initial post? Game - minimally existent in my current day to day. Started to implement with wife and practicing covert communication, kino and changing things that I routinely do subtly but things she will absolutely notice. Going well so far I do see some small changes with her attitude. A lot of (most) new guys here approach MRP like they're looking to pick up a set of tricks that will get them the sex life they want. If I do this, she…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/21 05:00 PM
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Holy fuck you're a mess. You have a lot of work to do. Reading: The Rational Male NMMNG The Way of the Superior Man Put down TRM and TWOTSM. Those books are beyond you at the moment. Focus on NMMNG, then read When I Say No I Feel Guilty. Your highest priority should be to dislodge your head from your wife's ass. I'm not sure how you're having trouble doing that when: wife has brought up divorce, separation and opening up the relationship with strict guidelines for me (not so much for her). I get…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/21 02:04 PM
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I think you're ready for TWOTSM and Iron John.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/21 01:09 PM
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She displayed interest. She gave me her phone number completely unasked for and was sending me nudes. Just went cold all of the sudden. 100% of the time I start to return a girl's interest in a straightforward manor that's been chasing me, it always goes to shit. I just need to slow my roll. I know it's not the same for everyone, but that's just been my experience 100% of the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/21 05:40 PM
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I probably wasn't clear. Attacking the mindset is what got me to be angry whenever I saw it. I changed by just letting it go. Getting angry at the trait was useful once upon a time when I needed to change but that reaction has long outlived it's usefulness. That's the realization it took for me to let it go.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/21 03:14 PM
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I only want to address a small part of your OYS The way he talks to everyone in this company pisses me off because they all just accept it Aren't you doing the same thing? All you've done is gone online and larped to some retards on the internet about how you're gonna stand up to your bully. Those things that make you angry, are you angry because you see yourself in those people? I changed but still held a lot of resentment towards the guy I used to be. I would get irrationally angry at people t…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/21 02:19 PM
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OYS #33 early 30s, 5'7, 151 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4, divorcing 5-3-1 Maxes: OHP: 133x1, DL: 270x1, Bench: 197x1, Squat: 245x1 Goals Maxes: OHP: 160x1, DL: 380x1, Bench: 245x1, Squat 320x1 MISSION I want to live a life of discipline, freedom and continual growth. MINDSET Over the last few weeks, a lot of my hobbies and time wasters have lost a lot of their luster. Not in the depressive sense, but in the this-no-longer-serves-me sense. It’s not a feeling I’ve felt since college a…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/21 12:53 PM
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And what are planning to do about any of this? That's the part that's missing. Doesn't have to be big. Just point to a goal and how you'll know when you've accomplished it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/21 01:08 PM
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OYS #32 early 30s, 5'7, 150 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4, divorcing 5-3-1 Maxes: OHP: 128x1, DL: 261x1, Bench: 197x1, Squat: 245x1 Goals Maxes: OHP: 160x1, DL: 380x1, Bench: 245x1, Squat 320x1 MISSION I want to live a life of discipline and freedom. I want to always thrive to reach my ever changing ideal. PHYSICAL Lifting has felt really fucking good this week. Adding extra protein and fat to my dinner has resulted in a noticeable improvement in the quality of my morning workouts. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/21 12:59 PM
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MRP fixes the man not the marriage. This OYS is a thinly vailed dancing monkey covert contract.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/21 01:39 PM
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OYS #31 New account for OpSec I know for a fact that my wife knows my main account's name (admitted as much). I’m the guy that posted about opting for divorce during the ultimatum this week. I understood the confusion caused by me posting that on a different account than I had my OYS posts on. That with the fact that I had a low OYS count made many assume that I was new. I have old OYS posted on this account if anyone cares for backstory. both early 30s, 5'7, 150.4 lbs, no kids, married 3 years,…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/21 12:37 PM
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