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That’s valid but therapy does work. The author obviously has a bias against people with mental illness which I find problematic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 05:53 PM
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Yeah it’s ableist for sure. So I know I disagree with this author. I wouldn’t want someone to immediately discount me because of my mental illness, so I wouldn’t do that to anyone. And if having some human decency and respect for differences makes me a pickmeisha so be it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:01 PM
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I fully agree !! Having a mental illness / neuro-divergence doesn’t make you inherently undatable or low value. I have 3 diagnoses I manage through therapy and the proper medication. I’ve been severely depressed and it caused a relationship to end and I would’ve never threatened to end my life. Maybe the book is trying to say undiagnosed / unmanaged mental illness? Even then I think it shouldn’t be included at all and leads to some ableist rhetoric I don’t stand behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 02:04 PM
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Read codependent no more by melody Beattie ! It truly helped me so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:00 AM
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Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller Codependent no More by Melody Beattie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:16 PM
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THIS THIS THIS !!! Thank you There are so many good support groups to plug into! Many are doing online meetings currently with the global situation. Personally 12 - step has done wonders for me even though I don’t have a substance abuse issue. There’s so many ways to look intuitively at yourself, therapy is just one of many ways to assist with that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 11:14 PM
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I just finished a 6 week intensive outpatient program to address some of my esteem and mental health issues and it has done wonders. Mental health and leveling up is a journey for sure, but therapy has really helped me recognize where my problematic behavior stems from, and now how to stop my LVW ways. Even if you don’t go to therapy, read books on attachment styles and abandonment wounds. It’ll give major insight into how you operate in forming relationships both platonic and romantic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 10:48 PM
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That’s the truth !! I just entered my 20s now and about to head back to college and hoping I find some ladies there with this same mindset! Like it’s not shameful at all, i just want it to be with someone I trust and know actually deserves it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:10 PM
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I haven’t read that book but now it’s on my list! We actually did this list as an exercise in one of my all-women therapy groups. Although I am only 20 it gave me a lot of insight on the type of partner I am looking for and how I need to priorité myself in a time like this! I read the list weekly as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 10:14 PM
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I’m incredibly new to the FDS community and still getting the hang of terminology so please excuse any mistakes. I’m still learning. I currently am hung up on an LVM that broke my heart so one of my main goals is re-learning to value myself and invest into myself/my website I run. I am a college student so academic goals: - no C’s - obtain an internship for the summer - only skip class when absolutely necessary I run a music blog about the local alternative music scene in my city and have a lot …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:34 AM
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