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Hence why I believe male behaviour towards women is biological. They really are driven by their sexuality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:13 AM
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That explains it lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:23 AM
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Soooo youtube is implying: Female body= inherently sexual, cant show Male body= natural, default body type
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:32 PM
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does she do that with you? Lemme guess lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:10 AM
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Neat. Thanks for posting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:49 AM
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I hadnt thought of it like this. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:48 AM
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I see where you're coming from. They've definitely created a system which enables and justifies men's behaviour. And I would think studying generational attitudes would be really interesting to see to what extent we can 'socialize away' misogyny (tho i can see that getting to be victim blamey. Like 'oh he couldnt help it. His mom didnt socialize him not to be a rapist!' Or 'Feminists just need to inform men not to be violent!' <-- something ive legit seen)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:29 PM
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Yea men created a patriarchal society which reinforces misogyny, and in turn reinforces the patriarchy. But id argue the misogynists came first, as in the patriarchy didnt create misogyny but misogynists created the patriatchy lol So much of this points towards men's nature rather than how they're nurtured.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:05 PM
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She's a narcissist. In one of her videos she calls herself a self aware narc. Take everything she says with a grain of salt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:53 PM
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I love this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:41 PM
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I just wonder if its nature or nurture, y'know? Rapey porn wouldnt be so popular unless there was a demand already, if that makes sense. I think porn reveals a lot about male sexuality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:24 PM
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Hmm do you think men have rape fantasies because of socialization or because of inherent sexuality (biology)? Like i dont think porn consumption is making men be rapey, more like they make rapey porn because male sexuality is predatory...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:16 PM
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Aww so cuteee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:29 AM
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Basedddd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:05 AM
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Nasty gaslighter. I felt gross just reading that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:26 AM
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Sounds like your mom came out on top! Trash taking itself out;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:53 AM
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Im glad it's helped you despite being an explicitly women-only sub. Your comment also interestingly seems to counter the argument that FDS is not 'inclusive'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:27 AM
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There absolutely are people who date men who aren't women. But this sub is a woman-only sub. This space provides dating stategies for women seeking relationships with men- y'know, straight relationship dynamics. Also, I'm bi. Doesn't change the fact that when im with a man, it's a straight relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:41 AM
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This sub doesn't just skew straight, it is a straight sub lol im also not sure why people who id as nonbinary would want to be a part of sub called r/femaledatingstrategy? I'm a brown woman and I havent noticed any racism or exclusion, id like to hear how other woc feel they're not recognized here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:08 AM
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I dont get it. Who are we supposed to be inclusive of? Men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:10 AM
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Same. Once you accept that there is no end to men's depravity, nothing will shock anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 01:42 AM
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Yes!!! The audacity was somethin else lol good job👌🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:32 AM
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What happened after? Did you respond or block?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:55 AM
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Oh yeah! All of that, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:38 PM
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After what kanye did to her (tell the world he wanted her to abort North, and how she treats him like the movie 'get out') i would question why she's even staying with a man like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:32 PM
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Maybe a bit random, but what are your thoughts on shallon? Im conflicted lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:29 PM
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Remember, women are gold diggers! Name drop expensive brands!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:07 PM
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He knew what he was doing. These men are not oblivious to power dynamics given the age gap, they are active predators. He said that to normalize the concept of teen girls and very young women dating old men. It's a grooming tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:01 PM
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Ding ding ding! This^ 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:54 PM
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I think you engaged and defended yourself for way too long. 1st question was a huge red flag, everything after that should have resulted in a block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:52 PM
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Societal grooming. Absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:05 AM
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We can always date other bi women! In fact I think there are more bi women than there are lesbians, so you'd probably do ok:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:37 AM
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Same, i find women more attractive in every way. I wish i had discovered i was attracted to women before i married a man lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:10 AM
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This was really great, thanks so much. In all honesty from everything I've heard about bi women on dating sites and in lesbian relationship, I find lesbian concerns about dating bi women completely warranted (watch the bi community come after me now lmao) 100% I respect lesbians' preferences for other lesbians. You're right that it's ok to acknowledge our differences, I dont take it as a personal attack. Plus I understand lesbians are not obligated to date me lol Ew to the 'loving dick' comment.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:17 AM
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Oh damnnn that wasnt my intent! But I can totally see how id rub some people off the wrong way like that. Guess in my defense its because i discovered my attraction to women after being married to a man and now that I have the 'choice' I prefer women. Do you think having any preferences for one sex over the other that's different from inexplicable innate attraction (idk like trauma, safety reasons, even political) problematic? Also, thanks for letting me know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:54 AM
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"I'm a woman and that girl is something else" still she had to infantilize the other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:40 PM
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Oh yea its definitely harder to find lesbian and bi women, for sure. I think we cant really wait around to be pursued when it comes to dating women lol I've heard once if you accessorize with a rainbow pattern it will help 'signal' your queerness haha would be nice if other bi women pitched in with their ideas!:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:34 AM
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Yea i agree, i think it's good to be wary of whether we're accidentally being lesbophobic. That's why even if im only going to be dating women i'll still call myself febfem and not a lesbian. Maybe we should ask lesbians om reddit or somethin how they think we can navigate wlw dating in a way that's not problematic:) It's def easier to date men because we dont have to pursue and men's standards are not very high lmao so while its good to question your internalized misogyny I wouldnt be too hard …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:55 AM
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Of course I wasnt trying to twist your words, we misunderstood each other. To clarify I dont think lesbian relationships are all roses and rainbows. One still needs to look for a HVW and avoid the shitty options within their dating pool. I will push back tho when you say "lesbians also perform the worst parts of masculinity". The worst parts of masculinity is going on a shooting spree when you get rejected or bullied, it's sexual slavery, it's grooming and raping children, it's producing and con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:41 AM
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That's sooo inspiring♡♡♡ im so happy for you to have found her!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:45 AM
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THANK YOU. 100% This!!! I would never again put up with male bullshit. I will never risk my daughter's life for shriveled scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:35 AM
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Ah, i hear ya. Def dont intend to imply lesbians dont face their own issues nor misogyny. I've decided for myself that it's better than risking me and my daughter's safety by dating a man. In your experience do lesbians openly and aggresively insult single mothers? ( r/whereareallthegoodmen) Do you know of any stats that show that stepmothers in lesbian relationships are disproportionally more likely to sexually abuse, beat and kill their stepkids, like men? Edit: I'd also like to add, that it's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:25 AM
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Yup despite all that, it beats dating men 😬😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:13 AM
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Dude i live in a very "queer-friendly" city, the one really popular gay bar we had got overrun by the straights and there are NO lesbian bars. At all. Also seems like online dating for bi women is a disaster, it's no wonder lesbians dont want to date us lol id need to really vet bi women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:20 AM
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YES the state of "lesbian" spaces are sooo fucking bleak online! Lesbians are fetishized by men, used as a way to make relationships 'kinky' by straight couples, cheated on by bi women with men, or told to shut up and suck dick (by varying groups). There are not even any wlw spaces left IRL, have you noticed?? They've been co-opted by straight people or pretty much every other flavour of the lgbt group. So... yea I get your hesitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:07 AM
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I'd say do it! We dont need to jump straight into a relationship, maybe just a date here and there lol give it a try:) Edit; I feel like I'm spreading the gay agenda lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:55 PM
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Oof that's all so accurate and well said👌 I completely empathize with every single point and I think if I were younger those would also be a deterrent for me. In my case I've got a daughter, and statistically stepfathers are way more likely to kill their stepkids, and it's usually accompanied by ongoing (sexual) abuse and beatings... No fucking way in hell are scrotes worth that risk. Seriously have y'all seen r/whereareallthegoodmen ? They do nothing but seethe at single women with children. Bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:50 PM
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I've heard of that common complaint from lesbians, partially why they're skeptical of dating bi women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:41 PM
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Fuckin dyingggg😂💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:18 PM
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What would you say is keeping you from taking that leap?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:04 PM
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Haha yea! The term's handy I think, because it does distinguish us from lesbians. I'm definitely not a lesbian since I do still have that annoying innate attraction to men lol it's best not to co-opt their word! Yesss there are SO many HVW compared to HVM, i think we should really stop bothering with scrotes;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:00 PM
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God im hungry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:35 AM
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That's really well said and makes a lot of sense, thank you ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:26 AM
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Ah gotcha, it's the inability to cook themselves that's the issue. Although, are we just assuming this guy can't because he prefers that his partner cooks? Sorry if I'm breaking the rules here, I've only just discovered this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:17 AM
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Question: is this bad? Like I dont mind cooking as long as the guy pays for the groceries, y'know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:06 AM
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Careful, seems like lovebombing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:42 AM
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