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ADVICEmy_chopin_liszt/r/RedPillWomen19/12/19 10:46 PM
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Out of necessity, cooking for sure since we have to eat. But besides that I love skincare and clean makeup. I love reading and learning about it. And fitness too!
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/19 03:45 AM
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Oh honey, you and I can be venting friends... after all these years I kind of just laugh it off because he’s in so many ways very wonderful. His clutter is his only problem, he literally has no other deficiencies. I mean I could go on and on but after 10 years... I legit gave up. I have to mention that he was motivated to de-clutter when we had babies because some things were just too dangerous so he understood that. But that just meant his clutter went from common spaces into the attic.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/19 03:41 AM
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I agree. A designated dumping area is always a good idea. I’m all for it!
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 06:22 AM
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My husband is exactly the same. Maybe worse than yours because he’s got a ton more years to collect junk. We have so much clutter in our house that I don’t even buy decor for the house. We have newspapers stored in our chimney, shoe boxes piled on top of each other with more papers and stuff stored inside like face products, razors, envelopes, restaurant menus, small condiment from restaurants and so on. At one point my husband had a drawer completely stuffed with Chinese fortune cookie papers! …
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 06:18 AM
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That is also very correct. If you’re at starvation caloric intake your body will restrict fat loss. This is why reverse diet comes in. During off-season I’m working to get my metabolism high and work to eat 2400-3000 so when I do lose weight and start to cut, I have plenty to cut without going into eating 800 calories a day and doing hours of cardio. Good observation.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 01:03 AM
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Assuming a person’s hormonal system is normal, metabolism is an interesting thing. As someone who is 5’3 my maintenance level is 2400 and that’s a day without any exercise. It’s fast because I made an effort overtime by increasing my calories gradually. People who are dieters will overtime have slowed metabolism because every time you diet, your metabolism adapts. For that purpose, it’s important to reverse diet.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 12:58 AM
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I use my fitness pal and lots of fitness people use it too. They offer free trial. After that it’s like $50 a year? EDIT: Sorry, didn’t answer your question. We have them start tracking first just to see how much they consume. After that we rearrange their macros. After that we gradually increase by 10-15%. So if you’re consuming 1000 per day we’ll ask you to add 100-ish to that. Keep at it until we get to a reasonable amount.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 09:15 PM
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Do you track your calories? If not, you need to accurately track your intake. We’ve dealt with client in the same situation as you and more often than not, they don’t consume enough. Start at least there first and see how it goes.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 08:21 PM
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I’m sorry to say but you kind of placed yourself in a crappy situation. Think about it... if I were buying something off Craigslist, I would meet the seller at a public place. If you’re buying a camera, why not ask him to bring it to his work or just meet at a public place? This is a stranger. I’m so, so sorry it happened to you but please don’t put yourself in harm’s way.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 03:21 AM
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Currently I’m switching over to Eminence but I also have 2 prescriptions from my Dermatologist. 1 is a combo of Hydroquinone/Tetnoin and another is just Tetnoin. I use the combo for marks I want to lighten and Tetnoin for any acne that comes up, it takes care of it within a day or 2. As for skin care, expensive doesn’t mean better. What people need are products that suits your needs and with consistency over time, that’s where you see results. If things aren’t working, see a dermatologist. I als…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 11:37 AM
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Starting early in life. My skincare routine started at age 14. I honestly believe this is one of the best thing my parents taught me. Don’t start skin care in your 20s, start in your early teens. Over time, through research, I’ve learned a lot. At age 30. I don’t have 1 single fine line. And my holy grail... understanding fitness and mechanics of the skeletal system and how to preserve it so it doesn’t break down.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 02:03 PM
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I second this. He was already looking for a way out.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 04:08 PM
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He’s already looking for a way out and your journal was a good excuse for him. I mean... how does someone book a date so quickly? Break it off and move on and no need to bake anything for him.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 03:20 PM
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I do like this too. I never understood the cold/aloof part TRP teach because I’m like, if they don’t like me (that much) why bother?
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 02:21 PM
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Definitely attraction but I really look for integrity, honor and being responsible for one’s behavior on every level, especially emotions. I can’t stand people who can’t demonstrate proper integrity, it’s an immediately turn off no matter what. Friends, family, romantic partners.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 01:46 PM
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Totally done this before. I just genuinely told him (over text) that I will meet him there. If he says he wants to pick me up, I don’t answer his phone/text. It’s something I’ve always been very, very firm on. I actually never had any issues, zero pushback.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/19 05:08 AM
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Men in their early 20s may not care about who they fuck because they’re not looking for commitment or marriage. If you give them another 10 years, their priorities will shift. If you’re honest about looking for commitment and marriage, college boys shouldn’t be one of your options.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 02:01 PM
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It’s all about balance. What do you bring to the table and what does he bring to the table so that the relationship is harmonious. There’s nothing wrong with really any choices you make as long you’re playing fair. If you want men to pay just so you can get free food and your bills paid without returning any type of favors, well, that’s not how this works. Personally, I don’t have a problem with paying, but going half and half financially is not ok after marriage because I’m having babies, takin…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 11:44 AM
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You can settle now or you can settle later. We all settled for something. The point of RPW is to find the highest quality man while you’re still young and youthful. This amazing gift doesn’t last forever. You said you lose interest as soon the man is yours. Just from that I can tell you enjoy emotional roller coaster rides, you must find a lot of excitement in dread games. If you don’t know that, you should read about it. I think a lot women need a certain level of dread... or the relationship c…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 03:36 AM
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Food. Food. Food. Probably because when he was single, he lived off frozen dinner. He still talks about it every once in awhile. Also, I make sure I check inventory around the house to make sure things don’t run out randomly where I have to make a special trip to the grocery store. It makes him feel like I’m paying attention to our home.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 05:52 AM
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Can you elaborate more? None of us here chat and flirt with every man. Does it have anything to do with your job or environment you’re in?
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/19 11:19 PM
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Now I do know some nurses who work from home. That’s definitely worth looking into. I had a friend who quit her nurse job in a hospital and worked from home doing other nurse related things.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/19 10:28 PM
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Correct, this is why I mentioned to research the supply and demand in your area. What I did was I pulled up the Associate Degree program by my community college and whatever caught my eye I researched. For me, a job was purely functional and I don’t have to like it. As long it’s safe, secure and flexible. I’m ok with really anything. I work in healthcare and I don’t really recommend nursing either because there’s patient care involved. Anytime you have to consistently work with people, you’ll li…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/19 10:12 PM
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I suggest community college with an Associate Degree that focus in a technical field that pays in the 30K-40K range for starting salary. I did it that route and definitely never regret it. I finished high school at 18 and completed my Associates by 20 made 38K with benefits right away. No debt! No stress and I work from home. Check online for nearby community college program and do some research to see the supply and demand in your area. Just make sure it’s a program in a specific field and not …
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/19 06:18 PM
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Learn how to better express myself verbally and have higher vocabulary count.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/19 12:43 PM
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I married someone way older. Not because that’s what I wanted but back then when I was in my early 20s, men my age just wasn’t mature enough and I wasn’t going to waste my time.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 10:28 PM
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It’s sooooo simple. It’s not that hard! I know women who need so, so much more. We recently had a friend who got married and that man is miserable and sick of the constant nagging on matters that don’t matter.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 10:18 PM
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It’s sad when these happen but we don’t know the details of their marriage. I’ve seen these happen too and to be honest, it’s just 2 that I’ve personally knew. The upside is I know way, way more decades long marriage than men who trade heir wives in.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 10:16 PM
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Are you taking about mature women who’ve been married to their husband for decades or just single women looking for a man? Because that’s 2 different issues.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 08:33 PM
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Your reasoning is why I’m a huge advocate for marriage. If a woman is going to give her best years (youth and beauty) to a man, she really should be married. In case she does get traded in, she should be compensated, especially if her role was a housewife. However, men are not trading in women the rate women are divorcing men. With that said, it’s very important to vet your potential husband properly to see if he values anything else other than youth and beauty. If a family minded man is in sear…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 08:31 PM
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Well, the answer depends on the man’s needs, wants and his circumstance. What you should ask yourself is how you can add value to the type of man you desire. Think about what you’re looking for in a husband and what you can do to bring him value. What my husband value may not be what other men value. You see what I’m saying? For example: I won’t date men with consumer debt, therefore I don’t have consumer debt. I won’t date men with anger or controlling temper, therefore my temperament also refl…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 07:01 PM
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I’ve visit r/FemaleDatingStrategy pretty frequently in the past and occasionally still do. It feels extremely one-sided that benefit women and women only. I’ve read once that no male sympathies are allowed... really? I’m into win-win situations for male-female relationship that benefit both people. Sorry, not for me.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/19 06:00 PM
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I would say I was more shocked. But if they’re angry, then let them be. Whatever happened to them could’ve been traumatic and hurtful. I do hope that they can get through their anger phase and hopefully have better relationships in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/19 05:50 PM
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Why can’t it benefit both people? I’m for as many win-win situations as possible. I mean, what is it that you want that benefit specifically to you? Feel free to suggest.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 09:12 PM
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Get a minimum of 7 hours sleep per night, no exceptions. Getting adequate sleep affects everything I do. From my mood, mental health and performance at work and gym. It even affects how I eat because when I’m tired, I’ll give into junk food more.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 08:00 PM
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If you don’t prioritize your wellbeing first, you won’t know what it means to have a captain that watches out for you. You’ll keep questioning... is this good or is that bad? Because you don’t even do it yourself. For example, my husband dated a woman in the past who he encourage to get in shape. That woman considered that a lack of acceptance on his part. Well, obviously, she didn’t find staying in shape a form of self care. You see what I’m saying here?
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 02:41 PM
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Let me ask you a question. Do you take the highest priority in your health and wellbeing? In terms of your emotional, mental, physical aspect of your life seriously? If not, then it’s easier for you to become a doormat. This is why you said in the past you allowed men to treat you poorly. Any women who value their wellbeing simply won’t tolerate it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 02:38 PM
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So y’all are casually dating without commitment? Basically, it sounds like that to me. Personally, this is just not worth the emotional and mental gymnastic. Things like this makes me go nuts. If enough time has passed just ask him calmly. If he doesn’t see y’all together in the future, then that’s the answer you’ll have to accept. You can’t force him to want you. EDIT: Mind if I ask, is he getting any girlfriend/wife benefits? If yes, why?
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 02:06 PM
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I totally agree. I know several moms who work high paying jobs and they work long and hard. They have other people help them and I know 2 that doesn’t even cook or clean because there’s no time so they pay for help. It is what it is.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 01:10 PM
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She reminds me of myself when I was 19. I think she just needs clarity and help on identifying her priorities in life. I don’t think she’s desperate at all. Some young people have good parent to lean on to help them identify their goals, while some don’t so they feel scattered.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 12:58 PM
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Correct me if I’m wrong but I think your anxiety is coming from not sure if you can have it all or not sure how you should prioritize your life? Look, if you enjoy college and is passionate about obtaining your masters, sure, go for it. But this takes a lot of dedication and you’re the one to decide how you’re going to “balance” all this without going nuts. If you just want a job that pays you enough... a masters degree isn’t a must. Also, the women I know who works high paying jobs with high le…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 12:50 PM
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Great communicator is key here and to be honest, most people are either average to below average communicators.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 12:38 AM
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I really, really dislike the word open relationship. To me, it says: “I’m going to explore other options while you’re on the sideline, but stay put because I could come back.” I can understand polygamy with consent, rules and boundaries but open relationship is not acceptable. Ask yourself, what’s in it for you? Like, what do you get from this?
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/19 10:08 PM
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Fully agree. Don’t play it, be it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/19 04:14 AM
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Your question is way too vague. You need to give more details. If you’re playing hard to get on a man that you have no interest in, then you’re just a jerk. But if you like him and just testing to see his interest... sure. But it all depends on how it’s done. It can or can’t work.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/19 01:59 AM
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I can be either introvert or extrovert. I can be either talkative or quiet. Depending on the situation and how comfortable I am. I don’t think I’ve ever figured out how to identify which of the 2 I am. I have no problem striking up a conversation in social group just to be chatty. I once had a friend who was extremely shy... to the point where you can’t even hear her talk and her body language just completely withdraw in front of strangers. Now, that’s awkward... but the complete opposite can be…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/19 07:19 PM
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My mother in law is very respectful. But from time to time she can get way too comfortable. I just let my husband know and he handles it. Let your man handle it and if he can’t, that’s an issue I won’t disregard.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 03:24 PM
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I definitely agree that this method has its risks. I think you proved that men don’t care for loyalty as much as TRP said they do. I do firmly believe that if a woman marries a man at his lowest, one of the vetting strategies is to see if he values loyalty. I’m always saddened by stories like this, although never actually see it in my personal life.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 05:31 PM
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This. I’ve spent a lot of time reading and learning about TRP before forming any type of opinion and this is the vibe I get over and over.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/19 04:25 PM
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Right, people need to realize what they want has a price.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 04:50 AM
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When you talk about rich and powerful, how do you define that? Millionaire? Billionaire? A man already at the finish line, beginning line or somewhere in between? You’ll need to identify your definition of a successful man. I married my husband who made 20K a year when we first met but his work ethic really paid off in the past 5 years and from this point it’ll only get better. I knew he’d get there and I did everything I can to support him and made his life easier so he can focus on his entrepr…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 03:24 AM
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Right, insoles aren’t going to help. You’re very smart to recognize that your flat foot is causing knee problems because it absolutely can! Without seeing you, you probably have adduction. Like 99% of the population, you lack glute muscles. It takes a very well trained professional with a good eye for muscular length tension relationship to permanently fix it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 02:56 AM
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You’re 20 years old. If you prefer an assertive, to the point women, date those who are in their late 20s. That wasn’t a trait I possess and lots of women that age doesn’t either. When you say “a lot of women” who are you pointing to? Should I assume you’re dating women who are 30 years old and playing games? If so, I wouldn’t put up with that. But expect it from girls in their early 20s. And obviously, my husband didn’t find me a turn off, I found him at 19 and he knew how to handle things, but…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/19 01:32 PM
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I wasn’t allowed to date until 18. That was my way of doing at that time. I found my husband shortly before 19 and married him at 21. What are you supposed to expect from an 18 year old girl without experience? We can be just as nervous as you and being direct and to the point sometimes come with age. Which is something I’m way better at it now at almost 30.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/19 12:50 PM
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Sadly, people can bait & switch. I don’t blame you for what you’re doing.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 05:35 PM
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I found this to be so true. A lot of women are so abrasive, in fact I find their humor match their mean-spirited demeanor. There’s sweet-funny and there’s borderline sarcasm.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 03:12 PM
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Identify your goals first. The overwhelming amount of self-help books will confuse you on where to start. My goal is to be a good wife and mom so my personal improvement revolves around that. I don’t have much time to read books, although I have but I’ve got a lot to keep up with the home, kids and a husband that work all the time. For me, it’s really being aware of my own behavior, catch myself realizing that my doings are toxic and ask myself how I can fix it. Just doing this has helped in the…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 03:10 PM
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Nope, next! Men lying about personal details hoping you’ll see their personalities shine through is just as bad as women lying about their personal details (weight, age, debt, illness and etc). TRP gives us crap for this so I’d say the same for men who pulls this trick. Bye!
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 01:46 PM
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LOL!
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/19 11:32 PM
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Not directly, but I’ve drop some very obvious hints. What are you doing tonight? So, you’re alone for the evening? I got nothing going on this week, what are you doing? Would you like company? I mean... I think that’s pretty obvious that I’d like to come hang out with you.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/19 11:32 PM
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I honestly believe people (men and women) are just using the word polygamy/polyamory to mask the fact they just want to sleep around without commitment. The massive amount of responsibilities to ensure the success of poly relationship is so, SO HARD! If a person claims to be poly, I would ask questions to see what type of poly they are. Or they really don’t even want relationships in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/19 04:25 PM
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This is what I was about to say. People (men and women) often throw the word polygamous around, but what they mean to say is they want to sleep around without commitment. A real, polygamous relationship has commitment and consideration of another person’s wellbeing. It’s not an one-sided negotiation.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/19 03:04 PM
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That’s a bit harsh, I was only making an example of my personal life and then going by what she’s saying on her side. Of course infidelity is complex and other people’s marriages have details that I’m not aware of. But to tell someone to reconsider a friendship is really not necessary. And you’re right, maybe the man isn’t doing his share or whatever. But I didn’t look way too deep. I was simply making an example and just catching up on a good friend.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/19 12:38 AM
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Good way to put it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/19 07:38 PM
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It’s not right for husbands to “just step out.” I work very hard for my husband (because I value his fidelity and happiness) and I do my share of responsibilities. If he steps out, I’ll be angry because that’s a a form of rejection for my efforts. At least in my opinion because I’m not working this hard for a man who doesn’t commit to monogamy. I’ll give an example, just this week, a super close friend and I texted back and forth and when we talked about our families she said her marriage is pre…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/19 07:31 PM
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Yes, always been that way.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/19 07:15 PM
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Hmm... I wouldn’t take it that far. But right after birth, no, it’s obvious the body needs to heal but if it’s been years, I’m not sure if I agree that NO MAN cares.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 06:38 PM
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I don’t have time to list all the health issues that comes with pregnancy. We can debate back and forth, all day long. There are ways to minimize those risks, just do some reading. Now, if there things completely outside of your control, ok I understand that. If you’re upset because you feel it’s unfair that we have to bear the burden of pregnancy, then you probably don’t realize men have their burden and risks too... that is, if they’re a responsible, honorable man.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 06:34 PM
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No dear, pregnancy accelerates the breakdown of the women’s body who does not make her health and fitness a priority. Whether it’s pregnancy or not, she’s going to end up overweight. Pregnancy simply ruined her body sooner than later. Make your health and fitness a priority and you’ll be ok.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 06:24 PM
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Being a red pill woman is a tool to obtain the best, high-quality man you can get commitment from. If these men you’re talking about is such low life and you’re of high caliber, then you don’t offer yourself to them. It’s nothing to be upset over. I’m a millennial and I chose to date older men to avoid with the immaturity of boys in their 20s.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 05:46 PM
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I agree about not needing others to tell you if someone is a good option. I’ve got my own values and priorities, I can figure it out myself.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 02:55 AM
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I completely understand why women find preselection to be attractive. I mean if other women want it, it must be worth something!!! But it doesn’t apply to me. Probably because I’m a very, very non-competitive person. If I don’t feel like I have 95% shot of locking down a man, I usually just give up and move on to the next. EDIT: It’s not because of low self esteem or not feeling like I’ve got nothing to offer. But competing over a man gives me too much mental hamstering and I can’t deal with tha…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 02:34 AM
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True, but if we seek high-value men who have options, we need to bring something to the table to demonstrate that being faithful to just one woman is worth it. I think this piss some women off because we now actually have to put effort/work.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 12:53 AM
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There’s so many ways to look at Polygamy and Hypergamy. Nothing is black and white and you don’t know what’s going on behind everyone’s relationship. As for men practicing polygamy, it’s only the top tier, maybe 10% of men who can pull this off. Also, you don’t know the stability and dynamics of these types of relationships. I don’t usually take these TRP posts too seriously or believe 100%. My only word of advice, if you’re seeking a happy, committed relationship from a high-value man, you need…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 12:49 AM
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Totally get it. Definitely conflicting. I’d love for marriages to be win-win, where both people feel they’re getting the rewards for their efforts. But I agree, I think both TRP and RPW should be aware of one another’s strategies.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 02:20 PM
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I’ve seen some YouTube channels that provide RPW advice to women. I think it’s good that there’s women out there trying to help other women think more traditionally. Now, here’s the issue, I’ve watched at least couple of TRP channels that warns men of RPW strategies and question our motives and intentions that it’s a bait-and-switch trap! I’m in a really happy marriage and I’ve applied a lot of RPW into my marriage and it works, my husband and I are both happy... what (bad) intentions do I have?…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 01:26 PM
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Honestly, there’s not much difference. As society change, so are people/families within the church. Some have lots of kids, some have 1-2. I’m seeing more and more diverse families now than 20 years ago.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 02:32 AM
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Don’t get jealous, women do their dirt too. TRP dudes can do whatever they wish and I don’t even judge them but they can count me out. They can spin plates all day long, as long I’m not one of their plates, why do I care? But realize that getting men to sleep with you is really not an accomplishment but getting commitment from the man of dreams who is your FIRST choice. Yes!!! That’s an accomplishment. EDIT: Ask yourself, do you really need the very top tier men? What is it that you want? Men th…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 04:29 PM
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I agree with this. Get involved with hobbies that develops you. To be honest, my self esteem wasn’t too bad because I had a great father to lean on. I mean he was really awesome. I can talk to him about anything. I remember even snuggle in bed with him literally until I was like 16. Crying or complaining about whatever.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 02:33 PM
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I’m gluten free (mostly) and eat a flexible Keto diet. Not because I think Keto is the queen of all diet but I simply gravitate towards a higher fat diet. People need an eating habit/lifestyle that they enjoy so it’s sustainable. It takes playing around with macros and experimenting to find a balance. But yes, sometime it’s going soy free, sometimes it’s something else.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/19 06:40 PM
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Honestly, my fitness and physique. Being lean, trim with great posture. No rounded shoulder with clavicles that protrude and unattractive forward neck look. Things like flat foot, knee adduction... these things eventually cause the skeletal system to wear and tear at a faster pace. I can go on and on. But this is my short explanation.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/19 04:51 PM
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I’d say the same, I found TRP, then MGTOW and basically watched every RP channel on YouTube before finding RPW. Why? Trying to fix my bitchy attitude. Needed a kick in my rear end.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/19 02:17 AM
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I totally agree.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/19 12:45 AM
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Very insightful. Love it!
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/19 12:44 AM
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Well said.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/19 04:00 PM
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I think the way a girl is raised really factors into her “femininity.” My mom was a homemaker and my dad was the breadwinner. There was a point in my teenage life where I looked down at my mom because I was taught in school that women need careers and college degree to be independent. Which... my mom was none of that. She cooked, wore makeup, had days where she dress up. She did girly things while my dad did manly things. Of course, when I got married and had a baby, it was just overwhelming to …
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/19 02:25 PM
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I read through most of the comment section and to be very honest, I see no point debating on personal dating rules. We’re all different in our SMV/RMV so one woman can behave a certain way while another probably can’t. Just like some men take whatever they can get and some men can be pickier. There’s some of books you can read, and some have already suggested. I personally have read some great posts in this forum that helped me too.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/19 11:33 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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