| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Little to no romantic experience, went to some parties with intention to change this | Field Report | my_coding_account | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | report #2: data point on timidity | Field Report | my_coding_account | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 10:24 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I (41M) was part of a celibate cult. I’ve left it. Help me start a new life of dating.I can't guide you but I can give my own experience as a late starter. I just joined the subreddit. 36, also not a virgin due a one time thing,ypeople have given me chances or asked me out but I've been extremely avoidant due to some childhood stuff and would have panic attacks on dates. I was also in a cultish group and left at 30ish (first part-way left, then fully and had to start a completely new life.) The group was not celibate or sexually controlling at all, so I started dating within it a… | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 04:47 PM |
| 2 | To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “appreciate this response, thanks. | /r/seduction | 31/05/23 12:33 PM |
| 6 | To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “I've generally found that it's that I identify "being myself" as someone that wouldn't talk to anyone or only talks to people when I have something to say, so when I find someone attractive, but don't have anything to say to them, that's difficult. I suppose that it's more that I'm trying to say something *not-needless*, rather than to say something impressive. | /r/seduction | 31/05/23 12:13 AM |
| 2 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?I found the opposite worked also - self honesty until you make it. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 05:05 AM |
| 6 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?It seems like a lot of the girls you would be interested in are probably in grad school or in related scenes. Where do you live? Maybe you should try San Francisco or New York. Plenty of ambitious women there. | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 03:52 AM |
| 3 | I’m 30, I have really weird facial features and I’m one of the uglier people I know, is it possible for me to be attractive to a woman? (Pics included)keep it up | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 05:12 AM |
| 23 | As a woman, I've noticed some things. Why do (some) men do this?Sometimes men sleep with a woman and then they feel much more emotionally safe to talk about their emotions and things, where before they didn't. So sex might change their mind. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Easily bored by everyone I meetbtw Only Fans was made by a serial entrepeneur who made 2 or 3 adult websites before Only Fans. He knew what he was going to be. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 05:48 AM |
| 6 | Getting girls is easyGetting out of your own way is hard. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | What does confidence mean to you?To me confidence isn't anything but appropriately calibrated expectations. Such that you know which things to avoid, and what type of failures can be recovered from, such that you aren't worried about the failures so much. It's a task or domain specific thing, like a 9 year old who has been riding a bike a few years is probably confident going around the neighborhood, they've fallen, they've gone fast, maybe gone off some small jumps. Social confidence is more general, though still often context… | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Let's build a team of wingmen on the San Francisco Peninsula in Burlingame, CAHi there, I'm a programmer in San Francisco looking for a local seduction community, generally down to meet people. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 12:38 AM |
| 3 | The cold approach vs Online dating: A statistical summaryHooollly shit, this is inspiring. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 09:51 AM |
| 14 | If you flirt with every girl you see you'll have multiple options by the end of the week (if not the same day).What do you think caused the random group of girls to spark up a conversation with you? | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 03:39 AM |
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