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my_pua_journey/r/seduction03/02/19 05:05 PM
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Inner Game my_pua_journey/r/seduction21/06/21 03:14 PM
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Conversationmy_pua_journey/r/seduction15/03/20 12:04 PM
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Good job man! The first cold approach is always the hardest so if it goes good really gives you a confidence boost. Sometimes its better to just go in expecting to get blown out and do it anyways, then get a nice surprise when it goes good.
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:57 PM
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Sure yes it is but still seem more difficult. What is your opener when you cold approach these days?
/r/seduction22/10/20 07:50 AM
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really? I start conversations from snap chat stories all the time. just ask a question or comment about what she posted
/r/seduction23/05/20 08:15 AM
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Life =shit happens. Well spend this time studying about pickup to keep yourself motivated
/r/seduction21/03/20 07:53 AM
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It teaches you to at least get every girls Instagram that you meet on the first interaction
/r/seduction21/03/20 07:51 AM
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Lol no that's not me. Check my post history. I just thought he made some good points.
/r/seduction15/03/20 12:22 PM
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Yes this is actually a real concern for game in Asia. People are taking this shit seriously here which is why in HK we still only have 129 cases still after over a month. Hope this doesn't kill game in America especially with Asian girls.
/r/seduction12/03/20 07:05 AM
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Post updates! I did a 30 day challenge once of doing one approach per day and it totally got me over approach anxiety. Its hard but worth it.
/r/seduction16/02/20 11:37 AM
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Remember when you're 50 you can still score with a girl who is 21. When women get older they loose their power over men very quick.
/r/seduction08/06/19 11:10 AM
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Just wondering if anyone else notices the same effect of dressing professional vs casual. On the other hand it might just all be in my head and I just feel better when I'm dressed nice so I'm more confident.
/r/seduction16/04/19 02:57 AM
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Yeah my city is a major financial center so a guy in a suit is not that unusual. I've just noticed a more positive reaction from women when I'm dressed professional.
/r/seduction15/04/19 10:14 AM
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Well yes both dicks and pussies are pretty disgusting by themselves. Its more about the body they're attached to. I've even talked to girls who describe their vaginas as looking like "alien creatures" lol. Good reason to never send dick pics to girls.
/r/seduction04/04/19 06:43 AM
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I don't really go out to do "sessions" but I try to do a few approaches per day. I would say 3 approachs each day on average. About 1 out of 3. So around 33%. I've only tried for and gotten two instadates. Too low to count a ratio but I really should be trying for more instadates and less number closes.
/r/seduction04/04/19 06:40 AM
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Sounds like she is bi curious you should invite her to join.
/r/seduction04/04/19 06:33 AM
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This sounds about right to me lol
/r/seduction03/03/19 10:08 AM
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Good job man! the first approaches are always the hardest but once you do a few of them you start feeling in the zone. I feel like its easier to approach girls who are by themselves rather than two sets or groups of girls but whatever works for you!
/r/seduction26/02/19 05:06 PM
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So if she doesn't want to go to your place that day then where do you take her?
/r/seduction25/02/19 06:06 PM
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I'm not in college but I will go to university campus sometimes to do cold approach. It works great. Maybe try going to another university nearby to do cold approach if you're afraid of running into people you know.
/r/seduction23/02/19 02:57 AM
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Good post. If when you approach a girl you are thinking about giving her a genuine compliment without expecting anything in return, you actually just want to make her day, then its very difficult to be wrapped up in your own head being afraid to approach because you might "get rejected" or some other bullshit. Approach with the intention of helping someone and making her feel good, rather than what you can get out of it.
/r/seduction10/02/19 10:15 AM
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Good post
/r/seduction04/02/19 07:15 PM
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You know when I go out to do game and with how hard it is mentally I've often thought that if I was disabled in some way that "doing game would be impossible"... so I'm very glad to hear that you have proved my assumptions to be totally wrong. Geat inspiring story man! Glad to hear you have created the life you wanted for yourself :)
/r/seduction04/02/19 12:00 PM
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Yup very true if it was about getting a job I wouldn't care about getting rejected its a total mindset thing. Funny thing while I was out approaching a homeless guy comes up to me and asks me how to get to a church about five miles away to sleep in. He has the address on a piece of paper and asks me which way to walk and then asks me for bus fare to help him get there. I knew what he was doing the whole time of course but I was thinking if this guy isn't scared to look stupid by approaching peop…
/r/seduction04/02/19 11:52 AM
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Yup the first line of my journal is "November 11, 2017. Today is the day I decided to change my life." its really useful to look back on to see how far I've come from even being too scared to say hi to a random girl on the street. Just feel like sharing here sometimes for motivation :)
/r/seduction04/02/19 10:59 AM
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might be useful to others getting started in daygame if they can relate
/r/seduction03/02/19 06:12 PM
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Good feedback. So what do you recommend as using a direct opener for daygame? I usually come of indirect so I was trying to make my intent clear by asking her in a joking way to be my girlfriend on the street within one minute of meeting her. She showed up expecting a date instead of friendly coffee so I was thinking its a good approach but maybe I should try another direct opener?
/r/seduction02/02/19 08:29 PM
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Daygame! You see a cute girl on campus just go up and talk with her.
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:21 PM
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You mean in terms of approaching showing direct intent so she knows that its a date not just hanging out with a random guy she met on the street.
/r/seduction20/01/19 05:08 PM
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Yup I agree us men are pretty shallow. Its just nature I guess?
/r/seduction20/01/19 03:09 PM
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so get her in the right place and position wait for the right moment and go for the kiss, fuck it up, try again with the next girl, until I get it right lol
/r/seduction04/01/19 11:36 AM
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Yup I was expecting that response but I'm really stuck on how to escalate. I'm setting up dates from cold approach so the girls know they're on a date and that I'm into them, but that's where I drop the ball on the date. Got any ideas on how to initiate and escalate?
/r/seduction04/01/19 11:08 AM
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Thanks for the positive feedback. So I've gotten pretty good at cold approach and getting coffee dates. I'm actually in China and learning Chinese so its easy to stop girls walking because they think I'm just a lost foreigner. So I'll ask them where Starbucks is in English and then switch to "actually I just thought you were cute and wanted to talk with you" in Chinese and I always get a giggle and a positive response. So its easy for me to number close and get them to come meet me for coffee (a…
/r/seduction04/01/19 11:05 AM
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I love your approach man. This is way more efficient than getting numbers
/r/seduction22/11/18 05:07 PM
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great advice. I have to try walking with them more it make more sense than stopping them when they're in a hurry.
/r/seduction27/10/18 03:24 PM
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lol well how else are you going to meet women? Tinder?
/r/seduction20/10/18 06:12 PM
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I notice big cities actually girls are friendlier when you cold approach. idk why.
/r/seduction20/10/18 06:12 PM
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been there done that lol
/r/seduction20/10/18 02:34 PM
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No haha. Bars and clubs are the absolute worst places to approach girls. During the day is definitely better but maybe when they're at a mall or somewhere less in a hurry. The entire point of daygame is being able to approach girls whenever and wherever you see them You just need the right strategy.
/r/seduction20/10/18 01:33 PM
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Lol ok then what is your suggestion for cold approaching? If you see a hot girl you want to talk to would you not at least try approaching her?
/r/seduction20/10/18 01:19 PM
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31 is fine for most girls who are 18. It will actually probably work in your favor instead of against you.
/r/seduction17/10/18 01:42 PM
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