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| 28 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020I think the man I’m in love with is in love with me as well, but he’s so emotionally stunted that he won’t be with me. His loss. I’ve decided to walk away. I’m an adult. I don’t want to play this stupid game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | My ex sent me an apology emailThank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 09:20 PM |
| 4 | Posted an image of my icecream and this guy just starts shitting on me. And they wonder why hot girls never date themWhen a guy tried to call me a pump and dump (I don’t remember the context, I just know it happened) I said he was mad because I wouldn’t fuck him. I just insisted on this point whenever he tried to clap back. Even when he said like “I wouldn’t fuck you” or “I have a girlfriend”. I just said it until he eventually stopped. Childish? Yes. Fuck him tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 06:35 AM |
| 4 | You can never convince a man to love youMy ex beat me in the car, in front of the hospital my mother was dying inside of. His reasoning was jealousy, he thought I was cheating Ouch my heart. I am so sorry it happened to you. My ex husband also beat me out of jealousy because he thought I was cheating when I wasn’t, but being beaten like this when your mom was dying... I am so sorry. LVMs have no shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 06:23 AM |
| 6 | You can never convince a man to love youI’m like you. Raised in an abusive household. I am also pretty kind, and very beautiful (though I’ve gained weight from staying home and I’m trying to lose it now). If you check my posts, I have talked about my ex. I also thought I was leveling up when I met him. I’m 32 he was 40 when we met, 41 now. I also overextended myself. I’m way above his league but I still loved him intensely. I baked for him, I texted him every day, I made love to him better than I did to anyone else and I was a good fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 06:12 AM |
| 1 | I hope it's not a repost :)It’s not sad. People in real life find me gorgeous and yet I have rarely received any dick pics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 04:11 PM |
| 169 | Don’t lower your standards sisWould be more accurate if he said “I don’t want to”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 11:18 PM |
| 5 | FDS and dating when you might be considered LV?I’ve seen “low value women” mentioned a couple times here but I always see that the women in this sub stand up for any woman without value judgement. In my opinion, no woman is low value anyway. Whether she is a mom, not a mom, young, old, rich, poor, prudish, or loves to sleep around, does not matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 06:05 AM |
| 18 | Approximately 90% of women on relationship adviceThose “I don’t need a fancy ring” girls annoy me so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 05:52 AM |
| 3 | Mood when I found this subMy mom would always say “men love bitches and sluts!” And I would never get it. By bitches she meant women who don’t take shit; by sluts she meant you needed to drop the nice virgin girl act/attitude. But the issue was that I never really understood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:52 PM |
| 10 | Wife stuck in Deadbedroom marriage sets up online dating profiles and is flooded with male attention, affection, and messages in under 10 minutes. Husband comes crawling back and wants "to fix it". THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! NEVER LET THEM MAKE YOU FEEL UNDESIRABLE!I downloaded Tinder secretly when I was married. Just to check it out. I was craving affection because my ex-husband (husband at the time) wasn’t giving me any love. We had just been married a year... I was desperate. He was (still is) low value and worthless... immediately I matched with handsome men who had nice professions and were handsome. I remember the ego boost. When my ex found out though he beat the crap out of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 06:46 AM |
| 0 | If you’re dating during a pandemic, you’re letting him know right off the bat that you’re desperate.Yeah but you will still be following authorities guidelines. It’s not the same as the woman in the post who lives in an area where you can’t even go have a drink, you know? Yours don’t sound desperate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 07:39 PM |
| 8 | If you’re dating during a pandemic, you’re letting him know right off the bat that you’re desperate.This has nothing to do with the topic. You will be allowed to go outside... so?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 06:50 PM |
| 6 | If you’re dating during a pandemic, you’re letting him know right off the bat that you’re desperate.Yeah. I was talking to a couple of guys and I’ve been leaving it at that. That one dude and I have been texting forever now. I have no intention to meet him anytime soon. He also hasn’t asked. I have dropped the other dude who kept asking when we could meet. Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Female PhD candidate is a club dancer at night because she does not get paid enough as a graduate student, another woman calls this empowering...I wouldn’t be sure about that. Companies are quick at berating the “low level” workers but usually aren’t that mean with higher-ranking employees. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 02:30 AM |
| 3 | Female PhD candidate is a club dancer at night because she does not get paid enough as a graduate student, another woman calls this empowering...I have never understood how sex work could be empowering. I’m saying this as someone who knows lots of sex work comes from a place of despair and trafficking but also know quite a few people who do it because they want to. Never understood it. How am I supposed to be empowered by touching myself for scrotes on camera? Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 02:26 AM |
| 31 | I took action !!!Omg. My ex wasn’t even talking to me anymore yet he logged in to my Netflix! I changed the password. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 02:19 AM |
| 1 | A HVM will always take care of you when you’re upsetOh my sweet summer child | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 04:20 AM |
| 3 | A HVM will always take care of you when you’re upsetEeeeeh I don’t know. My ex would do stuff for me all the time, like real HVM shit but he would also beat me!?!?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 03:49 AM |
| 31 | Can't wait another month for her to be available because of a pandemicHe’s already doing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 04:31 PM |
| 6 | Never again queensI don’t think this is a joke about degrading. She just means she’s been having sex and been in relationships with clowns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 04:29 PM |
| 9 | Ms. Kitty Is Asserting Her BoundariesI’m Turkish and that reddit circlejerk about all Turks loving cats is bullshit. But other Turks downvote me to oblivion whenever I voice it... that poor kitty was probably abused by a man at some point. I hope someone takes good care of her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 04:20 PM |
| 1 | LVM want you to stay in the mindset of competing against other women. The only way to win their games is not to play.Ah so good. I will use this line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 01:46 PM |
| 26 | Don't settle for a guy who gives you worse back massages than the ones you give him.I have always had back pain and my best friend (female) at the time would give me long back massages just to help relieve the pain. The compassion I’ve received from my female friends has never been matched by any male. My ex husband would give okay massages, mostly because I told him what I liked and he ended up learning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 03:44 AM |
| 12 | LVM want you to stay in the mindset of competing against other women. The only way to win their games is not to play.She left him. I’m guessing it’s not related to what happened, but in the end she dumped his ass less than a month later. Also I just remembered that I added “Have some pride!” Will add to my original comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 03:06 AM |
| 4 | What was a Pickme behavior that you've looked back on and regretted?I truly am. Gru contacted me last month but I ignored him. Twitter sometimes shows you tweets from people you don’t follow if some of your friends favorited those tweets, and recently that brought a tweet from Gru in my newsfeed. Turns out the idiot unblocked me after I rejected him last month. It gave me the opportunity to block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 06:20 PM |
| 11 | Men are perverts and they know itYes this is gross, but also very real. All the men I know of any age are pervy in one way or another. He’s just telling the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 06:10 PM |
| 105 | LVM want you to stay in the mindset of competing against other women. The only way to win their games is not to play.When I caught my ex with another girl, I didn’t attack the girl at all. First of all, she probably didn’t know he had a girlfriend. Secondly, he probably told her I was his crazy ex when he saw me arrive. Thirdly, I was and still am too classy to respond to the bitchy thing she did in response to me catching them. I didn’t say a mean word to her, I didn’t call her names or anything. Apparently, in my state of shock, what I did say was “Girl, he told me he loved me just two days ago, are you gonn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 05:56 PM |
| 13 | Turning down sex yet remaining sexyHow would you turn down sexual advances? I have no problem saying no, that’s not the issue. Just say it. But it’s how to say it so that the mood isn’t killed Do not put yourself in situations where “the mood” can be killed by your own fault. For example, do not be alone at your or his place. In public, there is no sexual mood and therefore no mood you can kill. and so that they don’t think I’m some vanilla newbie in bed? Who cares? If you never wanna have sex with them, it’s not important. Also,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 05:44 PM |
| 19 | Scrote seriously considers dumping gf bc she won't walk fasterControl issues. If he’s young, he’ll age like milk (which means he’ll just become another toxic mofo women will have to deal with). He should just subscribe to MGTOW and stop dating altogether. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 05:36 PM |
| 8 | LOL.Lmao! Your comment made me laugh for real. Those are the Pickmedors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:59 PM |
| 7 | This sub is about a specific way of dating, if you disagree with it make your own dating sub.Just dealt with someone who told me over and over in my post about the book Why Men Love Bitches that such a read was for Pickmeishas who needed to play aloof, change, and basically deny their natural personality for men to like them, and that a man who loves you will love you when you’re needy as well. I told her that the book was pretty much the essence of this sub, but she kept disagreeing despite the fact that she admitted to not reading it, and she told me eventually to get therapy. Lol. I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:51 PM |
| 18 | This sub is about a specific way of dating, if you disagree with it make your own dating sub.The most pick-me friend of mine who always wanted to split the bill because it was “unfair” to the guys landed a man who wouldn’t let her pay for anything. He’d get up and say he was going to the restrooms and pay. Suddenly, she became okay with the men paying for everything. She’s still with him and they have two kids now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:40 PM |
| 31 | Don’t be a fanSaving this post. It will be a good reminder. One of my friends is dating a guy who never texted her first. Recently she stopped communicating with him and he texted her asking how she was doing and talking about how his week had been going. It’s almost too cliché because it’s so predictable, but so are men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:32 PM |
| 7 | I paid $12 to cringe constantlyRead it again! I don’t hesitate to read again and again the things that help me. Sorry about the LVMs. They are draining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:10 PM |
| 9 | I paid $12 to cringe constantlyPeople definitely do wipe their feet on you if you give them the opportunity to. I like to believe I don’t. Actually, I tend to treat the people around me nicely, and even more so when people go the extra mile for me, but from experience, many don’t even notice when you or others go out of their way to do something nice for them. Also, I’ve never been able to be hot and cold intentionally (been it plenty of times unintentionally) but the book preaches valuing yourself above all. It’s not really … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:09 PM |
| 1 | I paid $12 to cringe constantlyAh! Spoke like the true high value woman that you obviously are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 03:58 PM |
| 1 | I paid $12 to cringe constantlyActually your first comment was pretty arrogant, yet you’ve been calling me condescending. Projecting, much? And I did read both your comments entirely, but it didn’t make sense that you were writing “to me” on a post that is so tied to a book that you haven’t read. Which is why I didn’t even engage with you about that specific thing. But since it seems like you wanted a response to that point, here it it: next time you see a post about how a person relates to a book you haven’t read, maybe forg… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 03:49 PM |
| 2 | I paid $12 to cringe constantlyYour first comment was actually pretty condescending, talking about how this is about “changing your true essence” and “forcing yourself to be aloof” and this second comment is pretty arrogant as well. For example, your “Well I DROPPED the guy” comment. What’s with this sub and some women who try to slyly put others down by basically saying “well, unlike you, I left”? So much for supporting each other. And this is obviously a post about a book that helps women know their worth, I’ve explained it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 03:23 PM |
| 8 | I paid $12 to cringe constantlyFirm believer that there’s no such thing as needy with the right person. If your partner of several years pulls away from you for reasons related or unrelated to how they feel about you, you might get needy. Neediness depends on a mix between one partner’s level of self-esteem and the other partner’s level of affection. It has nothing to do with the right or the wrong person. However, and to your credit, it probably does happen way less with a quality partner. If you have to force yourself to be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 12:28 PM |
| 24 | What was a Pickme behavior that you've looked back on and regretted?What’s with Negative Value Men and being in love with girls they can’t have? My ex Gru was in love with his ex. After I ignored him for six months, he texted that he loved me last months, and then recently unblocked me on all social media (which gave me the opportunity to block him, so yay!) I do believe they’re never really in love with anyone, they just like pretending they’re “deep” by loving someone they can’t have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:50 AM |
| 28 | What was a Pickme behavior that you've looked back on and regretted?I did a lot of pick-me things with my ex boyfriend Bullet, like giving him presents for no reason and such, but I’m most ashamed of having been a Pickmeisha with Gru, because while Bullet was low value, Gru was negative value. That’s how bad he was. I dated Gru about a year ago and he dumped me within two weeks, but he strung me along for the next two or three months. I booked and paid for an AirBnb for a romantic getaway. What did he do? He brought his video games and just played all day and wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:15 AM |
| 14 | What was a Pickme behavior that you've looked back on and regretted?I was 40 minutes late to my first date with my ex and then I had to cancel and leave 15 minutes after I got there and sat at the table. I apologized to the guy and we agreed to have another date a couple days later. That’s the only time I ever paid for his meal, and I did it as an act of apology for making him wait so long and then leaving after 15 minutes. It seemed like a good reason to pay for his meal at the time. He protested a lot but I insisted, so he let me. Never paid for anything after… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 03:57 AM |
| 16 | I paid $12 to cringe constantlyDefinitely! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 03:40 AM |
| 5 | Ex went on VacationI dated Bullet for four months. He only asked me to stay overnight once. But when I caught him with the girl he was cheating on me with, guess what? She was there to stay the night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:22 PM |
| 11 | ‘My husband broke my elderly dog’s legs but I still love him’ call the police and get a divorce pleaseFirst thing I thought was “I would abort” but if you say that online, even on pro-choice platforms, people jump at your throat because “how dare you”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 03:06 PM |
| 3 | ‘My husband broke my elderly dog’s legs but I still love him’ call the police and get a divorce pleaseYeah it looks like she won’t learn anything from this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 03:03 PM |
| 5 | ‘My husband broke my elderly dog’s legs but I still love him’ call the police and get a divorce pleaseShe will learn nothing from this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 03:02 PM |
| 11 | 8 types of LVM from How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get InvolvedMy ex husband is bipolar. I feel like there’s a lot of people out there who manage their mental illnesses well, but he’s not one of them, and as a result I just don’t want to date anyone with a mental illness anymore. I have been beaten to a pulp by that man. I’ve lived penniless because of that man. I’ve been humiliated and held down literally and figuratively because of that man, and his harassment made one of my ex boyfriends run away because despite the fact that we were separated, he couldn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:11 AM |
| 25 | Refusing to help people you "love" is BS. HVM are happy to provide and support.I’m a little off-topic with this and I might be called a bitch, but a while back a post was going around Facebook by a girl who was praising her man for making some food for her while she was sick. To me that’s a bare minimum, but whatever. The girl was a gorgeous brunette, while the guy was basically a bridge troll. Since the post had so many comments I assumed the OP wouldn’t see it and said something along the lines of “lol seeing how out of his league she is, he better cook for her if he wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 04:56 PM |
| 19 | The busty blonde took her own life , check out her nudes .... how awful is this!?What the fuck. I’ve seen more respect from people in imgur towards dead personalities. May she Rest In Peace. She was beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 07:29 PM |
| 20 | I’m crying y’allI didn’t think I would see someone else voice they were happy to be growing up. I realized in my 20s that it was such a relief for me to be an adult. For different reasons, but still. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 07:18 PM |
| 253 | I’m crying y’allWhen I wrote in the posts I made here and on another sub (deleted since) that my ex was ugly (despite the fact that I was and still am incredibly in love with him) a particular brand of Pickmeishas gave me grief and told me “so when he loved you he wasn’t ugly? He’s only ugly now that he dumped you?” Yeah no he was always ugly, I just didn’t feel comfortable voicing it before lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 03:27 PM |
| 31 | the Porn Free Relationship VS the " Sex Positive " RelationshipI dated one man only who didn’t watch porn and the sex was the best because since he didn’t jerk off a lot, there was no need for me to go fast on his dick for him to actually feel pleasure and have an orgasm. It was refreshing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 10:12 PM |
| 32 | Attacking and abusing women who share their stories of rape and abuse here on this sub is unacceptable and you will be bannedThe one time I called the cops on my ex husband, they treated me so badly and they were so gentle with him (despite the fact that I was the one covered in bruises and he admitted that he was beating me) that I do not trust the cops now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 07:39 PM |
| 125 | Attacking and abusing women who share their stories of rape and abuse here on this sub is unacceptable and you will be bannedA little off-topic, but a month ago I saw a post about Whoopi Goldberg not wanting to be married because she didn’t want someone in her house, and one of the top comments was “unless they’re paying all my bills”. Having a shitty man just because he can pay for stuff is not the point of FDS but it seems like many, many newbies absolutely don’t get the point of this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 06:04 PM |
| 15 | Attacking and abusing women who share their stories of rape and abuse here on this sub is unacceptable and you will be bannedTHANK YOU. I have been beaten in the past and got shamed online for not leaving or calling the police. As if! I had my reasons (my pets) and I would be badgered whether I revealed why I wasn’t leaving because people would say “they’re just pets, take them to a no-kill shelter”. First of all, no-kill shelters are often full, and secondly, my pets are my family, and telling me to drop them was inhumane, especially in a situation where I needed them. And I would also be badgered if I didn’t reveal … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 05:54 PM |
| 18 | I was beaten for having confidence last night.What a piece of shit. I hope he dies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 05:40 PM |
| 9 | I was beaten for having confidence last night.He will come back. If he doesn’t come back angry, he might apologize in a direct (directly apologizing) or an indirect way (being nicer than usual). Do not let that convince you to stay with him. I know that every time my ex apologized I was like “well it’s alright, he’s not that bad”. He ended up beating me so badly that I had to stay in bed for a week. He treated me like a cockroach. Was it the first time you were being beaten? Because strangling is usually something that happens after they al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 04:29 PM |
| 20 | I was beaten for having confidence last night.I am so sorry for what happened. I have been beaten and strangled by my ex too. Please if you can go see a doctor because you can die after an attempted strangulation. I was also beaten again and again by my ex and he was saying the same things “I’m not a c*ck!” when I first talked about being separated and living together as roommates, which I wanted because he was beating me. He said the same things, that he paid all the bills and such. He even said the “I deserve to have a friend to vent to!”… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Read that again.I am so proof of myself because after my last breakup I jumped right back on the dating scene, but when it came to going on dates... I realized that I didn’t want to do it. At all. I realized that I was exhausted. I felt grown up, finally. Haven’t been on any dates since. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 07:04 AM |
| 4 | RPW pickmeisha agrees to “open situationship” with BF where he can fuck others and she can’t. This is bold, unadulterated male bullshit on full display. LADIES, THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!I do not read RPW because the pick-mes make me angry every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 05:00 AM |
| 6 | Not your mother's rulesHonestly, I don’t want to have first dates anywhere in my neighborhood, or near my neighborhood, or near my workplace. Some people will say I’m paranoid but I don’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 04:57 AM |
| 11 | That’s what happened when he watched too much pornMy friend looked at porn like five times in her life (probably less, considering the reaction she had) and messaged her fiancé in a panic telling him that her vagina was weird. They were both virgins and he didn’t understand what was going on. He got worried though. And then it turned out she just didn’t have a pussy that looked “innie”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 04:49 AM |
| 6 | Found on Instagram. Damn it struck a chord.Me too. And he tried to contact me last month but I ignored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 06:05 AM |
| 25 | Found on Instagram. Damn it struck a chord.This reminds me of my ex-boyfriend Gru (not his real name, but I’ve made a post about him last month). Gru was mad at me for being smart and asking him questions when he tried to pull his manipulative lies. As a response to my genuine curiosity, he started saying I was not a good person and such. He truly, truly tried so hard to wear me down. I felt like I was going insane from his gaslighting. But he has taught me a nice lesson: a lot of men cannot stand it when you don’t bow down and take thei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 12:22 AM |
| 12 | New York Woman Left Paralyzed After Being Choked By Long-Time BoyfriendI screamed all the time when my ex husband beat me up, no cops were ever called. And even worse, the neighbors would all talk to him like they didn’t know, but they all heard the screams. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 12:12 AM |
| 2 | New York Woman Left Paralyzed After Being Choked By Long-Time BoyfriendI think I saw it depicted negatively years ago on Nip/Tuck. If I remember correctly, Christian did it to Kimber and she freaked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 12:11 AM |
| 8 | Sis, If You Have to Write A Whole Essay Here To Ask Us Whether He is Playing You and You Should Move On...I absolutely agree with this. Makes me think of the posts on Facebook groups: “so my boyfriend of three months said I was too fat for him, told all our friends that he would rather date my sister, and I caught him having sex with my childhood friend in our bed. How do I make him understand that I’m hurt? Don’t tell me to dump him. Also I’m 2 and a half months pregnant. No negativity please.” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:41 AM |
| 8 | Sis, If You Have to Write A Whole Essay Here To Ask Us Whether He is Playing You and You Should Move On...I might get downvoted for this but we are only human. Making the decision to leave someone you love is difficult, even when you’re a confident person, or even when you know they’re a LVM. I posted here a couple days ago and one of the comments was (I’m paraphrasing) “well I would have blocked him, I don’t see why you’re over here even talking about him, none of that would have happened if you had blocked him” and blah blah blah. Made me roll my eyes. A lot of people are strong and that’s awesome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 02:20 AM |
| 2 | My ex sent me an apology emailThank you! The night he broke up with my I said “please I just wanna talk”, and he refused again and again. So now, he won’t ever get a single word out of me again or hear the sound of my voice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 02:52 PM |
| 59 | A woman for our timesI like that she even got a flower for herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 07:19 AM |
| 3 | My ex sent me an apology emailHis apology email is awful. The more I read it, the worse it gets. “A woman came into my life” as if she fell on his dick out of nowhere... eye roll. I will never reply and will not ever say a single word to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Highly intelligent women - are you with, or only date, other highly intelligent men?Everyone is different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 01:38 AM |
| 8 | Girl, go to therapy, please...Bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 09:19 PM |
| 9 | Good evening lurking scrotes! How is the coviditude coming along?Responding with a clown emoji 😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 03:45 PM |
| 12 | Just saw a post on AskReddit asking men what women do they think is hot but is actually not and the results...Plus it isn’t even true. I was way, way better looking than my ex-boyfriend and when I was not into him he liked me so much! When I started being more available for him and being more into him, he started breadcrumbing me. Most men like a good chase and they will chase you if they’re truly into you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 03:42 PM |
| 1 | My ex sent me an apology emailThank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 03:39 PM |
| 9 | Highly intelligent women - are you with, or only date, other highly intelligent men?My ex-husband was also considered gifted in high school. He never got a degree but was incredibly intelligent. His mental illness was what stopped him from having a normal career path. My ex-boyfriend (whom I posted about two days ago) was highly educated and successful in his career, but honestly was not that smart, despite being part of the academia. At first I didn’t think much of it but about a couple months before he broke up with me I remember texting a friend “Bullet is not that smart”. L… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 03:17 PM |
| 88 | This is what happens when you compromise and date a pornsick man. This guy chose porn over his girlfriend and told her to fuck off and thinks he’s not the asshole.This girl is awesome. I am 32 and it’s only with my last boyfriend (whom I posted about) that I’ve gained this kind of maturity, but homegirl’s out there already telling an asshole to get out of her life. Good for her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 03:06 PM |
| 18 | TruthMy ex doesn’t even have enough meat on his bones to feed the tigers. They would just snap him in half. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 08:03 PM |
| 0 | My ex sent me an apology emailLmao! I won’t but it’s funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 10:01 AM |
| 1 | My ex sent me an apology emailI wasn’t even hurt when I mentioned the infidelity though so honestly I don’t even know where he got the “deeply hurt” from. I mentioned that I was cheated on in the past by a partner and then I kind of laughed it off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 10:01 AM |
| 3 | My ex sent me an apology emailThis made me cackle because that’s pretty much what he said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 07:57 AM |
| 2 | My ex sent me an apology emailI’ll send him a formal invoice in the mail 😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:10 AM |
| 5 | My ex sent me an apology emailHe wasn’t an abusive partner, so I’m pretty sure the other girl dumped him because... come on, she was young and hot and he’s a less-than-average-looking, skinny, nerdy 40 year-old guy. She probably knew she deserved better. Especially if he was so into her and thought about marrying her so early after they met. He thought all the pretty girls would treat him the way I did. He was wrong and he has received a heavy dose of reality. So now he’s alone because of no one but himself. He chose to reje… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | My ex sent me an apology emailI will! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:45 AM |
| 14 | My ex sent me an apology emailI have an ex who has been chasing me around the internet 😂 We don’t live in the same country anymore so he’s been trying everything. Every couple years or so he reaches out from a new account and blocks me when I don’t respond. We broke up exactly ten years ago, and he still reaches out despite the fact that he’s married and a dad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:39 AM |
| 3 | My ex sent me an apology emailMore emails = more material for FDS 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 11:37 PM |
| 15 | My ex sent me an apology emailEven if he gets closure it won’t erase what he did. But I hear ya. I regretted giving him my email as soon as I did but also my curiosity got the best of me. To be fair, he apologized in his first message anyway. He didn’t know if he was blocked but still sent it. Not replying to his email will mess with him anyway. 💁🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 11:13 PM |
| 15 | My ex sent me an apology emailI haven’t dated a single man who would be able to write this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 11:06 PM |
| 47 | My ex sent me an apology emailSince that clown gave me shit and used my love for helping animals as a reason to explain why he stuck his D into someone else, here’s a picture of a puppy I rescued in September. She has been adopted into a great home and her mom regularly sends me pictures. She’s a big girl now but these are from the day she was given to me. https://imgur.com/a/AO9Shnm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 10:40 PM |
| 13 | My ex sent me an apology emailHahah thank you! It helped that I swore I wouldn’t ever speak to him again. I would suggest other women to write a reply, like I did, without sending it. It helped immensely! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:52 PM |
| 9 | My ex sent me an apology emailYes! That’s the one! Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:50 PM |
| 11 | My ex sent me an apology emailMiddle-life crisis? I don’t even think that’s what it is. He had those problems before and they didn’t result in him sticking his D into someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:49 PM |
| 12 | My ex sent me an apology emailOh wow. You’re completely right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 08:48 PM |
| 3 | My ex sent me an apology emailThank you for the chef’s kiss! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 08:39 PM |
| 10 | My ex sent me an apology emailHahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 08:24 PM |
| 52 | My ex sent me an apology emailLet his embarrassing words hang out there, flopping in the wind. Such an awesome way to think about it! Convinces me even more to not text him. Even your indignation and anger will validate him, don't give him any of it. Thank you for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 08:03 PM |
| 36 | My ex sent me an apology emailOh yeah. In the past I would forgive such shitty guys but now I won’t even say a word to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:53 PM |
| 105 | My ex sent me an apology emailThe email is so weird because he does admit he did something awful, but then he uses literally any reason to justify why he did it. Like a friend said: His health+your pets does not = another woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:45 PM |
| 35 | My ex sent me an apology emailHe actually wasn’t blocked on WhatsApp which I rarely use. To be fair, I didn’t think he would ever text me again. He didn’t say anything in three weeks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Don’t explain why you’re leaving. Just leave. He doesn’t care and it gasses him up to know he upset you. Literally ghost him from your life for maximum damage potential and move the fuck on.I don’t think he would insist at all, he’s too socially awkward for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 04:28 AM |
| 75 | LegendNot even that. My ex husband paid all the bills but he sucked regardless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:06 PM |
| 52 | LegendThat’s exactly what my mother says. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:05 PM |
| 7 | Husband of 12 years hits wife, she posts to relationship advice, read the male replies below. JESUS.I have plenty of pets and I can tell you that they do not get to the point of fighting without at least a few warnings first. But my ex-husband would just slap me or choke me without warning in the middle of an argument because that made him feel powerful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Husband of 12 years hits wife, she posts to relationship advice, read the male replies below. JESUS.I also didn’t see it becoming a frequent habit, but at some point I had to stay in bed a whole week because my LVM ex-husband beat the crap out of me three days in a row. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 04:14 AM |
| 62 | I saw this and thought of you lovely ladies!!Holy shit. This is my ex husband and me. He was fat because he only ate junk food; He didn’t shower often because he said he was too depressed to; He didn’t get haircuts or do his hair; He didn’t trim his beard; He always walked around in his underwear after sleeping half of the day; He dressed like crap and said it was because he was fat, but anyone can dress fine; He always said I abused him because I screamed at him. Mind you, I was screaming because I needed help around the house and he NEVE… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 02:34 AM |
| 9 | HVM doesn't just mean a rich man. HVM is a mentality.That’s what happened to my ex boyfriend. He turned LVM real quick when he got that cash coming in. Turns out he was LVM all along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 03:55 PM |
| 16 | HVM doesn't just mean a rich man. HVM is a mentality.My sister’s husband: immigrant, works difficult jobs for little pay but loves his home life and always helps everybody. My ex husband: refuses to work some jobs because he’s “too good” for them, regularly pretends he is going to kill himself for attention, beats his immigrant wife (me) and never helps at home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 03:53 PM |
| 20 | Was he looking to make a skinsuit “it rubs tha lotion on its skin” 🥺🙄😂Lmao at the title 😂 People fetishize black women so much though. Not in a good way. I had an ex who told me once “I saw a black woman, she was gorgeous, looked like chocolate and I wanted to lick her”. It was gross that he was talking about another person like that. She was nothing to him but something to be “licked”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 05:29 PM |
| 24 | I asked him why he's poly and the answer is what you'd expect.Well it’s a thing that gay men are more vulnerable to HIV. Like it’s not prejudice. It‘s like the populations of some countries are more vulnerable to it as well. However, my ex who just dumped me was straight and I need to get tested now because I caught him cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 05:26 PM |
| 16 | I asked him why he's poly and the answer is what you'd expect.That sounds gross as hell lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 05:24 PM |
| 12 | This pandemic is a great way to weed out LVMs.I am anxious about having supplies because I have pets and I want to be prepared for them at all times. Makes sense, they’re my responsibility. I can eat anything but dogs and cats, especially cats, can’t be just given “anything”. That’s why I also have plenty of pet carriers (i have more carriers than pets) that I clean after each use. That way, if I need to go somewhere quickly I just have to shove the animals in and put them in the car. My ex husband was always making fun of “preppers”. I wen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 05:18 PM |
| 29 | Don’t explain why you’re leaving. Just leave. He doesn’t care and it gasses him up to know he upset you. Literally ghost him from your life for maximum damage potential and move the fuck on.I intend to never say a single word to my ex again. I might see him in public but I don’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 04:46 PM |
| 10 | When to spend money on a HV man?I gave my ex a handmade valentines card this year and he dumped me like a lil shit not even a month later. Fuck that. Not spending shit on any man anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 11:02 AM |
| 54 | Imagine being this delusional about dick valueReminds me of a guy from Tinder who wanted me to come over late at night because we joked over text and I lost a bet that was $10. He legit started telling me he would pay for an Uber for me if I wanted to come collect the money. I said no but he insisted. I told him that not even a sex worker would show up for such a ridiculously small amount of money so he promised me “dick”. No thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 11:00 AM |
| 8 | What Being a Pickmeisha Looks Like From the Other SideI dated a man who was super nice, studying to get a great job, polite, awesome... but I found him so so boring. Sometimes they can be great on paper but there is no chemistry. I miss him though because he was a positive vibe to be around. I hope he’s doing well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Crime documentaries, and so many women wait until it's too late?When I was a child my dad was working in another town and only came home every once in a while. He was abusive to my mother. I was small back then, too small to understand, but one day I heard my mom say he called and just said on the phone “I’m going to kill you” and hung up. I remember my mom telling people and crying. I realized years later that she was scared out of her mind and was telling people for support. My mother was abusive with her kids but no one, no one deserves to go through the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 01:31 AM |
| 2 | My most LVM ex texted meThank you 🙏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 05:28 PM |
| 2 | My most LVM ex texted meI’m blocked on all his social media, but I felt if I said anything to him, he would have taken it as attention. He wanted attention, positive or negative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 05:12 PM |
| 2 | My most LVM ex texted meThank you. You are so nice, and your words truly make me feel better. I’d rather live with my cats, my dogs, and go out by myself than have a LVM. Gosh, I’m so happy I’m not the person I used to be. I truly know my worth now. Thank you so much for your nice and encouraging words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 05:11 PM |
| 7 | My most LVM ex texted meThis is the kindest and best comment I’ve ever received. Thank you so much. Thank you for pointing out that I was at my most vulnerable and still resisted. You’re right. I guess this just shows how little I think of Gru that even in a time like this, I would rather not be comforted than be comforted by him. I was such a doormat at the time Gru and I met. He dumped me out of the blue two weeks after we started dating, two weeks! We weren’t kids. I was 31. Yet he dumped me but kept stringing me al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 11:13 AM |
| 5 | My most LVM ex texted meI didn’t see this comment until now for some reason! Yes they crawl back because they want to wear us down and make sure they still have power over us. I believe Gru wants a piece of me to make himself feel better. He even said he would still like to be my friend “even if you don’t wanna be romantic”. Which means he texted me assuming he still had a shot at being in a relationship with me! Lmao! The worst part is that my last contacts with him in September were not very bad. He should have kept … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 06:50 AM |
| 29 | What? On Earth?? Was the logic here??? I don't really care what the logic was but seriously?I’m going to steal the line “you probably wanna find someone that’s ok with zero effort”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 05:10 AM |
| 5 | My most LVM ex texted meI’m glad too. My first reaction was “ah shit the read receipts are on!” And then I thought “well at least I can leave him on read”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 01:18 AM |
| 9 | My most LVM ex texted meAbsolutely. He hated me because he realized I would not take everything he said as gospel. He clearly felt threatened. But I have to admit it was satisfying to receive his texts and leave him on read last night. Hahaahhaa! He is pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 09:04 PM |
| 5 | My most LVM ex texted meThank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 08:22 PM |
| 14 | 🚩REMINDER: NEVER PAY ANY ATTENTION TO MALES WHO HAVE EVER PAID FOR SEX/WENT TO A STRIP CLUB🚩Ding ding ding! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 07:32 PM |
| 4 | My most LVM ex texted meThat guy sounds just like he wants to wear you down. Don’t listen to him ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 07:31 PM |
| 15 | My most LVM ex texted meGru also made me feel that way. Not good enough. Not pretty enough. Even made me feel like I wasn’t enough of a doormat! Please if you need to talk feel free to message me. I would love to be petite but I’m 70 kg. Yet I’ve learned to love myself the way I am! Sad to say it but Bullet helped me build my self-esteem a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 07:27 PM |
| 6 | My most LVM ex texted meI forgot to block the number before I deleted the texts! Also I didn’t know my read receipts were on. I recently had to restore from a backup and I guess that changed the settings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 06:57 PM |
| 4 | My most LVM ex texted meOh yeah I am so pissed! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 06:46 PM |
| 3 | My most LVM ex texted meCompletely, yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 06:24 PM |
| 5 | Don't date men who are mentally illMy ex husband was and still is bipolar. I cannot tell you the misery he put me through. From poverty, to jealousy, to violence... so much physical violence and then saying it was my fault. I feel bad for agreeing with you because it’s not someone’s fault if they’re mentally ill, but I’ve been there and done that, and I deserve some peace. I have PTSD from the beatings I was given. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | nOHahahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 10:33 PM |
| 11 | A (37M) just started talking with me (21F) is that weird?Run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 07:48 PM |
| 6 | I slipped up 😭This comment made me laugh and I love it because up to the hand emoji I thought something happened. Nope. Just a preventative measure. Teach me to be like you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 03:51 AM |
| 19 | Do you know a HVM who gave you some faith in men?My ex’s grandpa. They’re very old. I’m going to make it short. Cares about his wife’s comfort and tries to do anything for her to be fine. Worked hard his whole life to provide and ended up rich. The only time he gets “mad” at his wife is when she tries to do something and he doesn’t want her to get tired or fall but she’s being stubborn. I was told that when they were younger, he’d tell his kids to not bring the grandchildren to visit on Sunday because it was his special day with his wife. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 02:15 AM |
| 14 | Such a disgusting porn-addicted man. Sadly, theres plenty of them out there. Found on r/creepyPMsYou can just post it and give me credit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 02:08 AM |
| 62 | Such a disgusting porn-addicted man. Sadly, theres plenty of them out there. Found on r/creepyPMsReminds me of a guy I dated last year. After we broke up I would go on his profile and read his tweets sometimes because I’m nosy. After a while, I started realizing that he was only replying to girls. I went through the list of people he followed and it was 98% girls. Also he started claiming after we broke up that he was into “unconventional beauty”. So he started following girls who were pretty but who could have easily been manipulated into losing their self-esteem. Later that day he retweet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:43 AM |
| 13 | Most of the comments are telling her that it’s fine if her boyfriend does thisHe’s having a full blown emotional affair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 11:50 PM |
| 61 | I feel ill after reading this, especially with all these children involved.Does she really believe he’s not fucking the women? I think the guy has impregnation fetish. This is sexual for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 11:47 PM |
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