| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 409 | Everyone’s attacking this woman. The pick me’s are saying if you love somebody it doesn’t matter if they make $1 a year. The scrotes are saying she needs to stop being a gold digger. I say.. she’s got the right idea! | MOOD FOR LIFE | mybellyhurts_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 03:19 PM |
| 281 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away? | SEEKING ADVICE | mybellyhurts_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 11:12 AM |
| 241 | A PickMeisha in the wild | PICKME CULTURE | mybellyhurts_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 02:43 AM |
| 204 | My LVM ex-boyfriend’s girlfriend called me! What the hell | COCKHOLM SYNDROME | mybellyhurts_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:04 PM |
| 178 | All the pick me’s in the comments agree.. meanwhile I can’t be bothered to raise a grown man. Next | NAH, SIS | mybellyhurts_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:01 PM |
| 145 | Thought this fit nicely here. Don’t try to fix/change a man: | REMINDER 👑 | mybellyhurts_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 05:14 PM |
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| 2 | Everyone’s attacking this woman. The pick me’s are saying if you love somebody it doesn’t matter if they make $1 a year. The scrotes are saying she needs to stop being a gold digger. I say.. she’s got the right idea!I hear what you’re saying but I think the man should already come “fully ready.” I think it was u/sage_planter who said in one of my posts that we shouldn’t have to go through the knead, rise & bake process, you should be able to buy your bread ready. I agree. I think it’s not worth the risk to provide wife level support without long term commitment. Most men aren’t HVM, they’ll take your support and do nothing for you/ be ungrateful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:46 AM |
| 15 | Everyone’s attacking this woman. The pick me’s are saying if you love somebody it doesn’t matter if they make $1 a year. The scrotes are saying she needs to stop being a gold digger. I say.. she’s got the right idea!Right! My thing is that if I’m making $80,000 I wouldn’t marry someone who makes $25,000.. because I bet you he’d still want me to cook, Clean & take care of the children. I think as income goes up, the amount of effort goes up as well. I had to get 2 degrees for my salary. You know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 07:07 PM |
| 51 | Everyone’s attacking this woman. The pick me’s are saying if you love somebody it doesn’t matter if they make $1 a year. The scrotes are saying she needs to stop being a gold digger. I say.. she’s got the right idea!That was my reasoning too!! Men already make more than women on average and have an advantage.. & somehow he still makes less than me? Nah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:19 PM |
| 1 | "FDS needs to be shut down because they are body-shaming men!" lmao OKAY LIL' BITCH, welcome to our world!When men get one criticism they all the sudden wanna complain. Like we’ve been critized for 100+ things for years. Shut up scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Got this gem from a guy I used to see in college(my 19-year-old pickme era)It’s the 🤷🏼♂️ for me omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Feminist predicted the FDS community. Link to full article quote is from in the commentsI got fan mail the other day, from someone who saw I was active on FDS. Scrotes be mad all the time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:13 PM |
| 14 | Don't befriend men who hold average views on gender.Men would likely die without us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Proud of myselfLevel up!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 07:45 PM |
| 28 | All the pick me’s in the comments agree.. meanwhile I can’t be bothered to raise a grown man. NextThey don’t & the pick me’s in the comment were saying they needed to show this to their boyfriends so they realize that they were wife material | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:09 PM |
| 7 | TeeheeMy one friend spent >$300 on her ex boyfriend for his birthday & he left her a month after. This is why I don’t but guys anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 05:59 AM |
| 15 | This is literally LVM logic. They blame their lack of charisma on us instead of introspecting and becoming a better person to be around.LVM: puts in very minimal effort LVM: “Women are gold diggers!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 08:55 PM |
| 4 | Swallowing a load is suuuper empowering, guys. Girls who think it’s not are just annoyingI hate swallowing. I tell men I won’t swallow. No negotiation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Imagine Expecting a Period and Getting a Kid Like This Instead.Oh my goodness!! Imagine having a son like this?? I really want to raise my son better but I get scared seeing posts like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Why is there a rumor circling around that FDS women are ugly?That’s just a way for them to make us feel bad, and get us feeling insecure. We are all beautiful here. We have attractive personalities, keep ourselves healthy, and have many goals to achieve. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:49 PM |
| 5 | is there anything scarier than male entitlement?Im terrified of getting married tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:46 PM |
| 12 | They want to be seen as providers and protectors, yet seem to dislike girls who are attracted to and needful of their money. What exactly do they want?Why are you making another women feel bad? We lift each other up here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:41 PM |
| 4 | They want to be seen as providers and protectors, yet seem to dislike girls who are attracted to and needful of their money. What exactly do they want?They’ll finally leave us alone (: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:38 PM |
| 51 | Where is the lie though???“I’m not like other girls” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:04 PM |
| 22 | When have you walked out on a date that didn't meet your standards and what was the aftermath?I walked out after paying for my half of the date (because he told me to). I mean I’m glad to have figured out that he was LV right there. I left and blocked and we never spoke and I haven’t really thought about it until today. It doesn’t really bother me or make me feel guilty. Edit: he did try to make me feel bad about my standards but I stuck my ground. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:57 AM |
| 53 | Men confirm their “friendships” with women are completely fakeDid you see the comment where they said they have a female friend so that potential girls they date don’t think they’re creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:51 AM |
| 103 | I know, block and delete, but I still enjoy these screenshots from women who are taking no nonsense. (Not Me)I thought only middle school boys still said the “you’re ugly anyways” line Ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:47 AM |
| 14 | He's thinking of leaving her because she's not his "playboy bunny" anymore.He just thinks of her as sex. He never mentioned his love or care for her. Just sex. How awful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:32 AM |
| 3 | This is why I don’t date short men.My ex had a short man complex. So annoying like sorry you didn’t feel manly enough because of your height but be a man in other ways. Also that truly doesn’t mean he should put it on me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | What talking about preferences on the internet as a woman is likeHahaha I wanna save this and send it to men when they say shit like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:21 AM |
| 1 | My LVM ex-boyfriend’s girlfriend called me! What the hellThank you! And yes I think he was borderline sociopathic. No regards for feelings, just sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:59 AM |
| 1 | My LVM ex-boyfriend’s girlfriend called me! What the hellSo happy you got out of that relationship!! ❤️❤️ takes a lot of strength | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:41 AM |
| 7 | My LVM ex-boyfriend’s girlfriend called me! What the hellThink I will | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:46 PM |
| 3 | My LVM ex-boyfriend’s girlfriend called me! What the hellSuch a scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:03 PM |
| 25 | My LVM ex-boyfriend’s girlfriend called me! What the hellOmg so glad I didn’t take the bait | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:44 PM |
| 28 | My LVM ex-boyfriend’s girlfriend called me! What the hellI think he’s 30?? I don’t remember his age tbh 😂 blocked all that memory. Idk hers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:21 PM |
| 90 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!He told me that he was looking for a woman that wouldn’t put up with his shit and that would put him in his place. I think he was looking for a mom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:59 PM |
| 72 | My LVM ex-boyfriend’s girlfriend called me! What the hellYou know what? I think you’re 100% right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:23 PM |
| 2 | as a black woman does anyone else feel like white men treat you better than other men do?I’ve dated over 10 shitty white men so I don’t think it’s race related | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:32 PM |
| 20 | If he came with a mother like this, I’d be gone! 😂You couldn’t pay me to marry a men with a mother like this, I’ll live by myself (: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 02:07 AM |
| 5 | What Living With a LVM Looks LikeThank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 01:27 PM |
| 4 | The audacity of anime scrotes.I like the fact that he can ask for her to look a certain way but when it’s reversed, his fragile ego is super hurt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 12:50 AM |
| 128 | What Living With a LVM Looks LikeThe TV on the ironing board killed me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 12:41 AM |
| 3 | There's people in the comments saying that some of these are reasonable...Maybe we can use this as how to not pick a guy. Perhaps send them this and ask if they agree. Quick litmus test | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:57 PM |
| 36 | There's people in the comments saying that some of these are reasonable...Columbus also r*ped native Americans so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:22 PM |
| 2 | The bar is nonexistent at this pointNah, I can buy myself a $20 ring I like. Even better, I can buy myself a $500 ring I like. If a guy proposes with a $20 ring he doesn’t value you as much as you value yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Imagine being so insecure you can’t event hold a conversationLmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 04:47 AM |
| 8 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightI love this ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:56 PM |
| 52 | I am officially deleting all my dating apps. This is the second time in two days that shit like this has happened to me. FUCK MEN!Lmao I guess 7 means “once I’m done with work” now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:07 AM |
| 27 | I think we need to show this woman FDSEw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:05 AM |
| 1 | They just can't pick a narrative and stick to it, huh?Hilarious mindset | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?We talked a lot in between because of COVID | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?No, 2nd time but Third date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?Yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?I wish I could have | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?Haha thank you, a work in progress ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?Will reread thanks !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:53 PM |
| 38 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?Thank you! I only hope to grow from here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:30 PM |
| 16 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?Exactly!!! Yes thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:28 PM |
| 22 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?No sleeping 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:28 PM |
| 28 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?Wow I didn’t see it this way, I thought he was being a gentleman. Damn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:27 PM |
| 28 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?Omg i would have been mortified! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:26 PM |
| 21 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?I guess I didn’t really see that as creepy on till now but you’re so right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 02:02 PM |
| 17 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?Yes thank you like I was actually thinking about that too when I made my decision. If I ever invited anyone to my home that had to drive to visit me I would die before I made them pay for a meal, that’s just how I was raised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 01:12 PM |
| 30 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?If I had known that I was gonna be paying for my meal like it was an outing with a friend I would have bought myself way more drinks Lesson learned for me 🍸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 01:07 PM |
| 71 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?Thanks, I’m definitely proud of myself 😊💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 12:58 PM |
| 46 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?I know, I’m just glad I have this community 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 12:57 PM |
| 71 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?Thank you! I need the blunt words because I’m so quick to doubt myself in these choices | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 12:56 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Thank you! & happy cake day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 11:41 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020What do you guys say to someone that says “we should meet halfway, do you know any cool places halfway?” I don’t want to plan the date. But I’m not too sure what to say here Edit: he’s asking what we could do if he were to drive up to see me. How do I state that he should plan even though it would be my home town and I’m most familiar ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Question: do you guys see this as a red flag?? guy who wakes up early everyday for work 8am but on weekends sleeps in until 4pm.?? Like I want to cut some slack here but.. I’m just not sure if this is healthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:08 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Hi friends, What’s the time limit for dating to transition to commitment and being GF & BF. I know you have a 3 month mark for sex and max a year for engagement but I’m lost of dating to commitment phase | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 01:19 PM |
| 8 | A PickMeisha in the wildNot even $60 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:33 AM |
| 12 | A PickMeisha in the wildOh that’s awful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 04:42 PM |
| 23 | A PickMeisha in the wildI feel like I would have been the girl to do this but I’m so glad I changed my way of seeing myself. This community is amazing (: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:48 PM |
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