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Getting your finances in order is, as a man, incredibly empowering. There's a reason why it's called "fuck you money".
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:47 AM
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This has helped me. I can look back at good and bad times and see how I was thinking during them
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 05:03 PM
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anyone have experience switching to trades and other non-office careers in their late 20s?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 04:08 AM
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Yeah I did that a year ago a bit. I've done it when I feel really twisted. The best is when you go back to read it in solid frame. You might literally feel sick at how faggoty you sounded and thus may be able to pull yourself back into frame when you feel another episode of faggoty betaness coming on.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 02:12 AM
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Why the fuck are you majoring in sociology. It's basically like majoring in religion right? Since it's primarily feminist dogma Or are you trying to go into some role that specifically requires you study that? Are you trying to become a RP high school guidance counselor? Because that would be the RP equivalent of joinign the peace corps, in which case, fucking god bless you man.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 02:08 AM
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I have seen a few of these meltdowns from unrelenting asshole behavior on my part. If handled correctly, (fixing it in a 24hour period) the economy rebounds quickly but surely will crash again just as hard. The VIX ran high in my last relationship. Would do it again though. I made a point to call her out for her ”what am I doing?? Where are we going?" Meltdown the first time it happened. It helped mitigate future meltdowns but the problem is they never stop completely. I didn't want to compromis…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:38 PM
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No I have to disagree. I got my first taste of abundance mentality and ONS/plates by being in the anger stage and looking at women as nothing but sex toys, due to feeling like that had wronged me my whole life. In fact, the night I saw my oneitus all over another guy was the night I met a hotter girl.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:59 AM
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I think the outer child one was it. Read most of No More Mr Nice guy a year ago, might read it again as a refresher. Thank you both.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 04:03 PM
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Yeah no need to jump on the gear until you put in some real solid time in your twenties lifting natty and dieting. If you can't commit to taking lifting seriously and eating really fucking clean, you shouldn't do gear. IMO. Plus you will have better training knowledge. A friend that cycles told me "look at what you were doing in the gym a year ago. Look at what you do now. When would you do steroids, now or back then?" He was basically implying you learn more as you lift, and you can learn a ton…
/r/askTRP24/07/15 05:24 AM
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That would make intuitive sense. A girl who has a high school sweetheart and invests heavily into her first few experiences then, but then gets heart broken... turns into the female equivalent of one of us. Damaged and bitter, not trusting, etc. Add in problems with parents, especially father, etc etc. You have a slut lol
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 05:14 AM
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The only reason I didn't continue with Muay Thai was small injuries. Wanted to at least be able to lift. That shit was fucking awesome though.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 04:48 PM
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I mean, you could bulk and have people think you have "dadbod" for a while, which isn't bad if you are actually lifting and just don't have abs. Then when you cut you have this crazy transformation from dadbod to shredded. It will work as some good dread later lol Edit: you won't have actual dad bod, but they will classify it as that. Lifting but no abs.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 06:03 AM
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Quit, it really provides no benefits. Only negatives. Just prepare for those "fucking christ I really want a cig" moments when you have quit. Those suck
/r/askTRP23/07/15 06:00 AM
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I didn't state that was my goal nor did OP. OP said things didn't work for organic reasons. The top comment on this thread is one taking a moral ground, not discussing strategy. That's the problem I see.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 07:48 PM
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The red pill is amoral, rather sexual strategy is amoral. Your post, to me, seems to read NAWALT. If they really are thirsty virgins waiting for the right guy, why not you? Some other Chad or Chad wannabe will take them eventually. Do you think beta Bill will be her first and they will last forever? Do you think the beta virgin guys get treated in a good way by females? Do you think many or any of them feel one bit of remorse for leading the poor sap on? AWALT, given the right guy, the "Good qua…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 06:58 PM
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I move friends as my views change. Embracing TRP has changed who I want to hangout with and who I don't want to hangout with. It's resulted in cutting friends but also trying not to burn bridges, as people change (a lot don't).
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:15 PM
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"I just think everyone should be free spirits. Nobody is slut, just on their own path, we weren't meant to be with people for long." or something like that said like me to a new girl I just had sex with "yeah I agree, why do people make such a big deal out of having sex!" LOL you're not ltr material
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 04:32 AM
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Fuck her really good. Make her cum. Since idk women suck at making me cum, start jerking yourself off after you've been having sex. Let her try to jerk you and if it doesn't work, take her hand off your dick and finish yourself off. I did this plenty of times during our time together (this last short ltr ish thing) though I did cum from having sex and her blowing me. Say "that was fun" and continue to make her cum more than she makes you cum. Don't compliment her. Negs like Illimitable said. Act…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 04:27 AM
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You're clearly insecure man. Looks don't mean everything to women. Maybe for drunken ONS but you need some game to get anything else going. Start talking to everyone you run into. Nobody complements men out of pity, unless you are a halfwit retard who goes to a special class two blocks of your school day. idk read the fucking side bar. you clearly need to work on your game. You also might be taking yourself too seriously and people that do that are no fun. Girls like fun. also quitting is for fa…
/r/askTRP21/07/15 04:53 AM
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Unless I want kids or an std
/r/askTRP21/07/15 04:14 AM
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So this idea of you dump a girl, even if she was deeply in love with you and the sex, is why she won't come back after a few weeks? Like you dump her and then 4 weeks later decide to break no contact and try to restart things?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 03:50 AM
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And even then, even if they prove to be worthy of faith... they could slip up and lose it.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 03:47 AM
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"Making a girl insecure down to her core, then rewarding her intermittently is intoxicating to her." feelsgoodman Especially when that same woman, a year ago, would have strung me along for months while fucking chad, just because I was too nice
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 03:46 AM
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That's true. I really mean just in general. Some people are too literal/binary. I have this issue sometimes. I think why people may be like this here is because of the profoundness of the knowledge here. A lot of us were raised one way and this is profoundly different. At the same time, learn to try and find the intuition behind everything vs just asking for an answer. This was most profound when finally trying to figure out the intuition behind every kind of lift I was doing in the gym. Instead…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 06:23 PM
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I really hope they never forgive student debt I didn't have to pay for school. If I had it was ROTC, military then college, or some sort of trade school. I would have never taken loans out to go to college. I would say maybe a couple of STEM majors or some niche petroleum program would be worth it, maybe. If I could have had control of my college money, I wouldn't have even gone to college.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 04:27 PM
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People need better intuition
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 07:02 AM
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Lol she's glad you're not sleeping with other girls because less competition
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 06:58 AM
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This should be sidebar material. It's like Patrice O Neal and a few other gurus' best maxims.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 01:25 AM
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I like anti oneitis posts. Need more of them. A new one daily. I will master my biological imperatives and do what I want, instead of what evolution wants me to.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 06:04 AM
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Whenever I do extended no fap, my voice gets deeper. Not even joking. Extended as in a couple weeks+
/r/askTRP16/07/15 05:58 AM
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You don't have to lift much weight to get big and have muscle definition. I don't because I work around injuries. It's best to look like a pussy in the gym lifting baby weights, than be some cripple at some point in life. Let the homos judge me by how much I lift, fuck if I care
/r/askTRP16/07/15 05:57 AM
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Teriyaki and try to go light on sauce. Get brown rice instead of the white. Fried chicken, yeah it's greasy and fried but you can get a lot of protein and if that is your one shit meal of the day you can swing it. Just try to find a decent protein to carb/fat ratio. Aka get plenty more protein than the other two, to put it simply. Or any Asian food where you can get a meat heavy dish.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 03:06 AM
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Keep lifting and get more muscular. Serious.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 07:09 AM
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They traded massages? Like they massaged eachother?
/r/askTRP13/07/15 07:23 PM
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I felt and feel the same OP. I got a girl who loved me and pleased me in any way I wanted.I wanted more though.I didn't feel as empty but I wasn't content. I wondered if this was all life had to offer me. Idk it felt good to be desired by a desirable girl but idk. I have a string sense of regret and nostalgia for dumping my gf, but I realize I've always felt weird. Right now I feel lost. I'm on a monkmode path this summer, lifting and working, trying to not spend money. I hope I find a new path …
/r/askTRP13/07/15 07:11 PM
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Well, honestly. If you perform well you should be able to just get her to want to bang again.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 06:03 PM
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yeah that's some bullshit if they exchanged numbers. He's not even your real friend, bro, anything.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 04:59 AM
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How tall are you and how much do you weigh? Can you see your abs or do you have some fat? If you're underweight, as I was at one time, bulk up. Eat a lot of food but don't dirty bulk if you can help it. Eat more regular meal food and don't eat desert/sugary food/snack food bullshit. If you're over weight, don't eat so much and cut the above mentioned foods. If you can't see your abs and you're under weight. Get lifting now. Bulk up a little then cut. Have more muscle than before and get abs. My …
/r/askTRP12/07/15 10:39 PM
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Compound lifts are like squats, deadlifts, bench press. Things that usually use multiple muscle groups, take a lot of energy. I love bent over barbell rows. Your legs and core keep you stable as you row some weight. Sprints have been said to help raise test. I would assume HIIT or some other high intensity/sprint type thing would as well. Do you drink alch or smoke either weed or cigs? You could try to cut fapping completely. Use your girl as your only source of sexual release.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 10:34 PM
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As someone that still feels bummed about not having the ex anymore, and regrets dumping her, lifting/being active and trying to keep busy has helped. I often have this shit moments where I'm intensely reminded of her and kind of space out. I snap back to the moment pretty quickly and try to just not let the nostalgia bring me back into some regret mental loop. Right now fitness is really my rock, as well as continuing to do well in my internship. Tldr: fucking lift and run, go swimming, anything…
/r/askTRP12/07/15 10:30 PM
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Yeah live a different and more "exciting" life than them. Even if you don't make as much money.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 10:26 PM
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Yeah I got sick of siniliar drunk bs like this. Part of the reason let my ex go.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 08:59 PM
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Porn is like drugs. You don't gain much, if anything, from watching it.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 04:44 PM
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That's still not real. I won't be able to ever accept AI as real because I don't believe we will be able to replicate human brain to a T. At least not in our generation. Do you know much about computer science and specifically how AI is created? Can you begin to fathom how they would replicate dreams as humans create them? My point is: I wouldn't be able to accept it. A real girl would be better. I'm fairly perceptive and have pretty strong intuition. I would be arrogant enough to assume that I …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 02:42 PM
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What's your diet/exercise like? I run on the slightly higher end of natural test levels, so I would guess it's easier for me. I also have been lifting and generally living healthy for a few years now though, minus some few months I go into shit mode. You could try taking a good probiotic multi, fish oil, ZMA, and a few other staple supps along with working out. Do some sprint/HIIT type cardio. Do some compound lifts, they don't need to be heavy but it's much more effective if they are. Do you fa…
/r/askTRP12/07/15 02:38 PM
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She met with your male friend? What kind of male friends do you have that would meet with your girl without asking you first? Unless you meant it is her male friend, in which case she's acting shady in my book. It's all up to you and how you want to live. Even if she isn't cheating, I dont want a girl that outs herself in situations where I assume she could have cheated. If they do, they should feel the full wrath of my dread game and learn not to do it too often.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 02:07 PM
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Robot pussy will never compete with the psychological desire for me to make women cum. I love I can make them cum. Seeing them helpless in their own extacy that I am responsible for is hot as fuck. I like they desire me. AIF is a glorified fleshlight. I'll be happy to see weak men replace women with it. More for me
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 07:05 AM
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If she enjoys you sexually, just tell her you want to go again after you recharge. Say you want to fuck her more so after you cum once, try and go again a little after
/r/askTRP12/07/15 06:42 AM
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The point I was trying to make is that it is boring to them. Maybe not to you guys, but to women it is
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 05:42 AM
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I love dread. Huge advocate. I would put dread as one of the number one reasons I kept the last girl locked. Everything I did spoke "I can fuck other girls, they will be as hot if not hotter than you. I'm also good in bed and you know it. As soon as I find another girl, she'll try and fuck me better than you to keep me" Yeah I want to make a post on all the dread game I ran in this last relationship. My former BP self wouldn't have believed a girl would have stayed with me using this much dread,…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 02:32 PM
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It's because if the feelz they get in these enviorment. They can go out, get wasted, and end up with chad thubdercock giving them multiple orgasms. What the fuck is fun about taking alchohol, loud music, maybe drugs, and other stimuli out of the equation? See my point? While idealistic, the coffee shop thing is boring and not conducive to having a good time. Edit: just wokeup, reread your post, just echoing what you said I guess. Yeah my unicorn is a girl that needs less stimuli and risk taking …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 02:27 PM
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Put your own oxygen mask on before helping those around you. I cut crazy out of my life, that's just me. I can't handle crazy stuff, I have enough on my plate worrying about me, to worry about many others.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 05:49 AM
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I used to think like this, but I was thinking the other day: AWALT. A plate is a plate. Not all girls will allow you to plate them, but they may allow a guy of higher SMV to plate them. Does this mean the ones that won't let you plate them are any better? Fuck man I would say they are worse since they will give something liberally but make you think they don't. I would say all girls are willing to give sex out willingly if they right guy came around at the right time. That's why I would upgrade …
/r/askTRP11/07/15 12:06 AM
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I did paleo/no grain sort of thing for a month and a half. Boring as fuck but it worked. IF with lowered carbs
/r/askTRP10/07/15 11:51 PM
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Get her to sleep with you asap and then make sure you fuck her better than most do. They seem to come back for more often then not if you don't suck in bed.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 07:53 PM
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I don't recommend it Though I will help them out with situations that have an obvious RP solution and frame it in a way where it just seems like common sense to do. EI: some girl that's not giving a dude sex but getting favors from him and he's not happy about it. Axe her if she is using you. Helped a few dude friends with girls like this. Slaves no more, step one.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 06:24 PM
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This is such a shit level post and isn't even formatted correctly. Also why the fuck do you care what some nerds on the internet think about some wrestling bitch you have oneitis over? What the fuck did I just read? Yeah betas going to beta, this post adds little to no value
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 06:20 PM
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I like the whores, I just don't like how fickle they can be when shit happens in your relationship. Or all the "idk if I want to keep doing this anymore" because of some dumb argument you had drunk one night.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 06:01 PM
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"Humans love to "win", life is basically many battles of winning" Quoted. For. The. Mother. Fucking. Truth. It sucks major ass but it's true. I like it because I'm competitive and like to win, but it takes a lot out of what I thought was supposed to be life. Idk good post yet again abdada
/r/askTRP09/07/15 01:38 AM
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idk I feel like if I don't fuck on the first date, the chemistry isn't quite there, my game isn't quite there, or my SMV isn't relatively higher than hers enough. I don't want to wait for sex ever again. I bet you most girls have had some semblance of a ONS by the time they are done with college, at least ones that are attractive enough. Why wait for something she's given so freely before?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 01:18 AM
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This thread isn't about getting rich. Getting rich is like spinning a rotation of a few good looking plates the rest of your life. This thread is like telling people to talk to everyone they meet, but for personal finance. It's the beginning of smarter choices that will help people in the long run. Just like learning to strike up convos with everyone, that's not going to get you to be one of the best plate spinners around, but it will set you far apart from the masses.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 12:02 AM
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I would second that. Also learning to use them without getting into debt is a good habit to have.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 10:04 PM
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Something like this, maybe even expanded, could be a great sidebar post of its own. No BS personal finance advice.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 09:27 PM
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This is true. You can always liquidate assets if need be. Not that that is recommended though. I guess I assumed most people know of this emergency fund by default.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 07:54 PM
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I can totally see this. Most people in my generation (graduated or graduating school really soon) have terrible saving and spending habits. I'm sure they will get it together eventually, but I may be wrong. The rental market seems pretty strong right now. I want to eventually get into real estate when I have enough money and fully understand the logistics of it.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 07:53 PM
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Good point on junk food. Often eating healthy is mistaken as being expensive. Drinking cold pressed juice and kombucha daily can be expensive and is often what people look at as "eating healthy" by adding some fad thing into their shit diet. Now I drink both of those a day but I buy them both at costco or wherever it's cheaper and it's part of a relatively clean eating diet. Food is a major expense for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 07:51 PM
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That sounds like a worthwhile purchase. Buying a 4k tv right now just to be like "I have a 4k tv wohoo" when they will only drop in price and nobody even has 4k quality videos to stream yet, is a waste. Buying shit just to have the best stuff is stupid, unless it really matters to you. I think frivolous spending is like eating out too often, buying coffee if your work has a coffee machine they keep supplied, buying too many drinks at the bars when you could just flash some of your favorite alch …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 06:27 PM
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If grilling/cooking is a big hobby, then yeah treat yourself to something that you will use all the time and will retain value. Hobbies are hobbies, but the difference between not being a terrible spender and being smart and investing will be huge later in life. Even if one takes a few years of their working life to tone down spending, it can pay off later in being able to buy some fun things or have financial security and retire early. There was an article I read: http://www.gobankingrates.com/…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 06:14 PM
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I have to go back to the shop and see lol. I want to say it was called "tantric pleasures" or something by this brand that packages them in a circle shape. It was nice because it was tighter around the base and loosened up around the top ish area to allow the condom to slip around a bit up there while remaining secure, or something like that. Just had some more room while being secure. Lol part of it is about her, if she's getting off more than you are she'll want to fuck whenever you want to fu…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 05:33 PM
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I went to a sex shop with a girl that I was having sex with. We bought 20 different condoms and tried them out over the course of that week. I have a few really good brands that I saw helped her and I orgasm better. She loved the shit out of this one kind I need to just make my go to. I loved it as well.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 04:58 PM
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I am/was motivated by the same thing. What I wish is that I had let her break my heart. Instead of broke it through breaking hers and seeing the consequences of my own, honestly, heartless actions. Any negative actions of hers I shut down with immediate full force dread. She pleased me in any way I wanted and even began buying me gifts. Just yesterday she told me she could be friends with me but nothing more. It hurt, I felt and feel beta. I feel defeated even though I dumped her and caused her …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 03:59 PM
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Yeah I won't lie. I feel shitty everyday for dumping my girl. I question if it was the right thing or not. The only thing I can say is I aced all my assignments and started lifting and dieting when I broke up with her. I can't say I don't feel life is far more absurd than before, but there was times I wasn't sure if I wanted to live the rest of my life with her. Why was I with her if I didn't see a future? Idk man nobody will be able to tell you the answer in life, I guess you just have to live …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 04:47 AM
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I dumped my gf because I felt the same feelings you did. Idk if I'm crazy, but I felt having a girl there all the time (she basically lived at my place) made me lazy. I stopped lifting, felt okay being a pothead (yeah it's my choice but I don't feel like smoking weed anymore now that I don't get pussy as often lol) idk I let myself fall apart. Lost some of my game, I was getting a nice big ego/confidence boost from smashing rando girls that were cute, then I decided to just be complacent. Droppi…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 04:16 AM
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I would say don't openly smoke it. You keep some mystery up. Here me out. Example: there was a group of girls that didn't know me well. At the time I liked to party and that's all they knew. They also thought I had sex with a ton of girls and had 0 issue getting sex. What they didn't know: I was a massive pothead (at the time) This isn't a bad thing, it wouldn;t have really lowered me SMV with them, (fucked two of them in the their small group, almost got three, didn't want to deal with LMR) the…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 03:46 AM
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What causes them to suck with the LTR worthy girls? Is it because they aren't used to getting as much attention as the girls that slut it up, therefore doesn't have as big of an ego as sluttier girls and just take that attitude as either disrespectful or disinterest?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 07:47 PM
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Wow I can meet girls without feeling the need to always get drinks (since they typically need or want to). Fuck this sounds pretty decent, no lie. Now the question is if any decent women would show up, doubtful.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 07:03 AM
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I think it depends on how the relationship ended. They MAY go a little crazy if you break their heart and you date down A LITTLE bit not too much. But as SleepNow said, it could make you look worthless and make them grateful for you leaving if you date down. It's always better to date up.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 07:01 AM
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Extracurricular, gym, etc. Anything that requires extra effort and provides a benefit.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 03:40 PM
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Hey man, Taking the pill is rough. I am in the depression/anger stage as well. Right now I don't see the point in gaming new girls, everyday feels absurd, etc etc. Keep pushing on. Months ahead you will be a better man, sooner than you thought was possible. With improvement will bring changes. I used to be walked over by girls, I'm not bad looking, not terrible SMV just the worst frame and game ever. After working on areas of my life and improving frame and other TRP game concepts, interactions …
/r/askTRP04/07/15 03:28 PM
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This is the stupidest fitness advice ever. Especially if you have injuries like myself. This is exactly what you shouldn't do. Drinking dehydrates you, empty calories. You gain no benefit from alcohol, lifting-wise.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 04:30 PM
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I do very short, ~20 min cardio. It's easier on the body and from what I've read, it's all you really need. It does give you that high for like an hour after, but I do remember feeling better during the days when I used to run first thing in the morning. I like lifting > cardio though for T and physical SMV improvements
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 04:29 PM
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You can lift for 6 years and have: Shitty diet some of that time | Drink and party a ton | Not sleep well for a while | Cope with injuries | First two years was injuries, third year more injuries and drinking some beers often ( casual couple beers most nights thing) 4th and 5th took it more seriously but new tweaks and pains (elbows are fucked now that I can press properly and didn't use triceps for pressing much all these years). Etc. Some of the time was spent hardcore lifting and dieting, but…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 11:34 PM
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Oh totally. I know people that only make gains in the gym and suck everywhere else. It's all relative. I just see it as something that has only been beneficial, and is something to throw into any healthy routine. Feels good to have more muscle than average people (which is really not hard at all IMO). I think with anything, it's easy to get complacent and take success in one area and use that as an excuse not to try hard in others. In the OP It almost seemed like he was saying success in these o…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 09:28 PM
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Lifting is 100% relevant. Not that it is the only thing, but seeing progress week over week and seeing improvement in yourself builds confidence. Just make sure you're doing everything else you listed. I would just not write it off though. If you're making gains in all other areas mentioned, then also lift, you're going to accelerate gains in the other areas. I've been lifting for 6 years and while I'm not ripped or anything, I FEEL differently when I'm lifting vs not. Even if I have a shitty di…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 06:16 PM
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Babyface is a good thing, I would imagine you'll age well so plenty of time to get SMV higher and work on game or meeting more women. Get your T level's checked, maybe clean up the diet and try to take some zinc and other things that are shown to help keep male hormone levels normal. Small frame is fixable. How long have you been lifting? At my skinniest, I was like 120 at 5'10" in highschool. Now i'm like 6'2" 205 with the need to cut a bit more to about 190 then slow bulk again. I've "Filled o…
/r/askTRP02/07/15 06:44 AM
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Everyone applies TRP to their life in a different way, and they are free to do so. If someone doesn't want to get laid, cool more pussy for me I suppose. The red pill is about becoming a real man and losing the bitch self you once were. It's about cutting the cord on the bullshit in life. Tearing down the curtain, using your eyes for the first time. Everything else is a by-product of waking up: self improvement, getting laid, making better money, dressing better, etc. Yeah no shit, our biologica…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 05:23 AM
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My phone has been on silent for like the last two years. Only time I don't is I know someone is on their way over and I need to let them in the apartment or whatever. Then I turn up the volume so I actually get their call. otherwise, fuck that. My phone doesn't need to interrupt me.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 10:46 PM
1

yeah the thing is idk how I could do something like that. She works full time now as do I, and I don't run into her unless out on the weekends
/r/askTRP28/06/15 07:50 PM
1

Okay that sounds right from my experience and reading. Read the sex god method book, you can find it somewhere. Everything in there is gold. Start working on getting her to come with penetration or a mix of that and your hands. If you want to fuck this girl multiple times a day, you have to start making her cum a lot. I look at fucking girls as a fun form of work. My goal is always to get them to cum because I get turned on by seeing them orgasm, I'll finish eventually. I love the feeling of "I …
/r/askTRP28/06/15 07:24 PM
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Shit. I needed this. Have oneitis and this helps. I look back at last girl of 4 months and think she was great and we got along great. She was just codeswitching and highly attracted to me. Another girl of higher quality has the same capacity to do this, it will just be a better time than this girl.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 06:13 PM
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Yeah don't communicate feelings. Also if you get to having sex with them, fuck them well. Can't say enough about that. Read the sex god method. I don't even have a lot of experience with girls but somehow most like me in bed so it's really been the one thing going for me. Otherwise I would fail any form of relationship
/r/askTRP28/06/15 06:09 PM
5

Yeah don't answer next time. What works for me is usually saying "oh let me see, I don't a couple million" in some sarcastic way and then switching the conversation. Just do all you can to not answer and change topics. Now if she's pulling the "I don't want to be another girl on your list" bs, just be like "Okay cool, later" I've done the "okay cool later" thing a couple times in different scenarios and it's usually results in her 180ing. Seems like a shit test, looking to see if you would immed…
/r/askTRP28/06/15 05:55 PM
1

If you're in school, get in some extracurricular activities ASAP. I joined a bunch of clubs and such which led to making a ton of friends with generally more outgoing people. Some suck and I didn't keep going, but some were pretty cool and I met some cute girls and cool dudes to go out to parties with.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 05:48 PM
1

Did you make her orgasm during sex often? I read parts of the sex god method as well as a few other things and somehow can manage to usually get a girl to cum at least once (if they are sexually experienced, I haven't really tried with girls with lower N counts) during sex. This has resulted in them wanted to have sex more and as long as I fuck them good they want more. Also do you think this girl has been with many guys or at least had a decent amount of sexual experience with one?
/r/askTRP28/06/15 05:43 PM
1

Massive post, thank you. I don't know where I could boost my SMV currently other than areas I'm already working on. I already dress better than 95% of guys my age. I basically wear Nordstrom/Jcrew, and I wear the right fit for everything. Fit and then quality, but I have both now because of those discounts I used working at a few nice retail stores over the summers/school years. I'm lifting and running again. I got a dadbod over the last few months and am killing that by eating clean and working…
/r/askTRP28/06/15 05:34 PM
1

I don't want to crucify my SMV. The people that know me at my university think I'm really good with women and sleep with more girls than most guys. I don't make claims myself, I've just been always looked at as that guy, even when I wasn't/still am not. Yeah I have strong oneitis
/r/askTRP28/06/15 05:14 PM
1

Example of something self effacing?
/r/askTRP28/06/15 05:10 PM
1

Yeah if they were reversed, hell no I would not go back to her and would recommend any other guy to do the same. 2 & 3. Yeah I haven't smoked weed in over a month. I haven't gotten drunk/drank any alcohol for two weeks (maybe three?) Last time I got drunk was when I hooked up with her 3 weeks ago I think. I have no desire to smoke weed for a long time because I've been killing it in my internship by taking on more projects than before as well as reaching out to more senior people in the company …
/r/askTRP28/06/15 05:10 PM
1

Thanks for the harsh truth guys. I need it, and I'm glad nobody sugar coated shit.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 05:10 PM
1

21 is a rough age to be a man in this country. I was lost as fuck a couple years ago when I was 21, went to therapy and the works. Felt like I was in some kind of quarter life crisis where nothing had a meaning and absurdity was all around me. Pretty frustrating and utterly depressing feeling. While it hasn't completely gone away, when I look at experiences I have had since recognizing these feelings, I see that I'm glad I kept pushing, even when I felt it was pointless. I wasn't suicidal as you…
/r/askTRP27/06/15 06:19 PM
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The misc was my shit freshman and sophomore year of college, totally changed my perspective before any of my friends and I attribute it to me unplugging and ending up here
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 04:51 PM
1

eh fuck I turn 24 this year
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 04:07 AM
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Lol I don't want to even think of girls in their 30s, I'm only 23.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 03:46 AM
2

Yeah wrapping it every time has helped ease my mind, and I don't fuck with any girl that seems like they want kids (or want them to cum in them). Most girls I run into at my small university seem to see kids as a detriment to their goals as well. Still, I worry.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 03:43 AM
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Yeah I bought some To Boot New York Boots and they are awesome. Paid quite a bit for them, but they look just like the Daltons. That wing tip with the right kind of brown. Compliments for days so far. Also I can't say enough about having a decent watch. There are plenty of $100 watches out there that look amazing. I have two that cost me a combined $235 and they both look classy as hell and everyone compliments them. It's the little touches combined that give you a really 'well put together' loo…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 05:03 AM
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Haha I love the trading references. It's so true though. While they may get an ego boost from insta-matching just about any guy, they will never be able to to lock down someone out of their league. They may get hookups that are out of their league, but generally will not get relationships above their actual value. By league I mean their market value, they can get way more beta bucks and fake alphas, but they will still have the same problem they always have with trying to get a real AF to commit…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 04:35 AM
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An ultra high maintenance girl pushed me into the TRP zone after shit was going downhill. There are definitely attractive qualities that come with being high maintenance. She never dressed like shit, always wore classy but flattering clothing (just well put together look). Appreciated how well I take care of myself. But yeah, the princess/diva complex that comes with high maintenance girls equates to a bitchy neuroticisism (spelling?) that is intolerable and a clear redlfag of a hypergamous, bor…
/r/askTRP28/01/15 12:18 AM
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"Due to hypergamy women REFUSE to date down, but they're "educated" in their nonsense degrees so they want men equally educated or better." And if you look at her app screenshots in that article, they just list what school. I would rather know what they studied, and then from where they studied it.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 01:54 AM
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Damnit this is a great idea I wish I had thought of. Literally the reason I don't like tinder is because I refuse to bother with trashy women. Why didn't I think of this lol
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 10:41 PM
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makes me want to get back at my current oneitis by doing that with a girl on campus. Kind of motivated me
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 03:47 AM
1

Damn just seemed to be slaying the numbers game. Good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 06:04 AM
1

I would agree. Plus alc messes with gains and other stuff. I go and binge drink from time to time, but I try and do everything sober (socially) to try and really break down walls I have mentally.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 05:01 AM
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Long distance is shit. So if you do have to move, soft/hard whatever, just next her. It's literally the only way it works. I did have a girl that dropped off the edge of the world when she went away for four months, then she reappeared after a month and some change. I re-initiated contact and when she came back it wasn't really the same and idk I feel I wasted time. granted I did hookup with a few girls while we were in contact, I wish I had mentally moved on during that time and not talked to h…
/r/askTRP04/01/15 04:58 AM
1

I listen to stand up comedians podcasts, specifically "The IceHouse Chronicles" that Joe Rogan's friend Brian Redband puts on. There was one episode where a group of comics were talking about their camping trip in the woods where they did shrooms and they all told these amazingly funny stories. Basically that podcast is like 6 comedians or more podcasting while they have a standup comedy show going on in the main room (it's like the comics hanging out in the backroom of the club). I used to go o…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 01:07 AM
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I haven't seen this bit in a year. Bill Burr is an awesome dude.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 05:31 AM
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Wait, how could I volunteer at places like this? I was going to add volunteering as something I try to do every month (or every other week depending on time) as it seems like a fulfilling thing to do. I was originally going to walk dogs the humane society need to have walked since I don't have enough time to take care of one, plus my apartment is small. This sounds a bit more interesting though.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 05:19 AM
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