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I always loved Kitty & Red's relationship on That '70s Show!
/r/RedPillWives06/07/18 10:14 PM
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It just doesn't have any major (romantic) relationship at all although it has a wonderful father/daughter plot point. It's historical fiction set in Moscow during the Russian revolution and beyond - everyone in my book club loved it. :) The Goodreads link will probably give you a better picture of whether or not it's up your alley.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/17 05:55 PM
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Slightly late to the party and it doesn't feature a RPW relationship but I just finished Gentleman In Moscow and LOVED it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/17 12:49 PM
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Pick Your Own berries/apples/etc. farms! It's a great way to be outside, laugh together and bring home some delicious fresh produce.
/r/RedPillWives05/08/17 12:26 PM
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Start a book club!!! Seriously, great idea. A friend of mine asked our local FB group if there was already one in place and discovered there wasn't one. She received tons of PMs saying if she started one they would love to join. Fast forward one year and we have a huge group that has to meet over the course of 4 different evenings per month to meet the varying schedules. There are about 8-10 people each night.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 01:35 PM
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I can definitely relate to much of what you're saying. The deeper you go in the isolation hole, the harder it is to get out. Even if the anxiety beforehand is painful, push yourself to interact. Try volunteering. Join a book club. Do things with an easy escape route if necessary -- just knowing one exists will help ease your mind.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 01:27 PM
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I'm sure there is a local coffee or tea shop in your neighborhood? Maybe suggest going there instead and either be honest about your motives or tell him you'd like to try some place new and would love his company!
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 06:46 PM
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My husband is on the extreme end of introversion and I'm on the complete opposite side as an extrovert but it totally works! I am out and involved in tons of stuff that gives my husband a panic attack just thinking about (if he were to come, no issue with my involvement) while he stays at home and reads/plays video games/does home improvement. We do spend time together but unless we both take care of our needs we're too grumpy to enjoy ourselves. He can't unwind and get his "head time" as we cal…
/r/RedPillWives21/05/17 02:44 PM
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My husband and I are the same match and you basically just described our relationship :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 01:16 PM
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I wish I had just relaxed and realized that I didn't need to worry about talking to every. single. guest. I put in tons of effort beforehand to make it a guest-friendly wedding accommodating the most socially anxious friends with lots of room to roam independently on the farm to food for all dietary restrictions...and of course it is nice to spend time with everyone that showed up to support us on our big day BUT at times I found myself so caught up that I often had to step back and just focus o…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 12:09 PM
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Yep. And don't get me wrong -- I think it is important to call out inappropriate comments in a way any administrator should do. But my frustration came from my team's response, re: turning it into how it made THEM feel and how the lack of empathy from students was now an injustice upon them. Ugh!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/17 10:17 PM
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I can't speak to non-profit funding channels/distribution, that is a whole separate beast :) My program existed to teach computer literacy in city schools/bridge the digital divide. Most of our students were in extremely impoverished and unsafe home situations and teaching them that computers can be a resource beyond social media was a difficult challenge. My leadership and peers spent more time teaching these students that saying "that's so gay" is a hate crime than they did anything about comp…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/17 05:52 PM
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Wow, thanks for sharing! This really hit home for me but my rose tinted glasses were shattered by the SJW echo chambers during two years serving an inner city AmeriCorps program instead of college. I still care deeply about many of the issues that brought me to the program but can't participate in the toxic organized systems that try to address them.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/17 12:22 PM
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My husband and I live in a city and one of our favorite day dates is taking books we've read and walking them down to our local used bookstore for store credit. We spend the next hour looking for new ones. Walk home, read, repeat! When we were in closer proximity to a record shop we would do the same with our vinyl...most shops have $1.00 and under bins where you can pick out some fun things you've never heard of. If it turns out to be terrible you get to laugh together and then bring them right…
/r/RedPillWives29/01/17 01:47 PM
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La Roche-Posay Anthelios 60 Ultra-Light Facial Sunscreen is the BEST sunscreen to wear under makeup. It works as a great primer too. I've had issues with others being super oily and thick but you can't feel this at all...I won't leave the house without it. Timeless Vitamin C Serum has worked really well for me, I've noticed my skin is much brighter since I added it to my evening routine MIZON Snail Extract for some slight acne scarring near my temples and redness. I've been using it for a few mo…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 01:46 AM
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I went through a similar situation when my husband's father passed last year -- they had a similar stressed relationship yet it left my husband depressed and withdrawn for the majority of 6 months following. Grief can surprise you as you have discovered! Definitely give him space. Just because he is going through something challenging doesn't mean he is no longer capable of leading your relationship. Trust he will come to you if he needs something and don't worry about trying to guess what he wa…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 07:08 PM
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That is DEFINITELY a magical website! Thanks for that!
/r/RedPillWives07/12/16 02:03 AM
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I am so grateful for the Christmas season and everything about it! The music, decorations, holiday teas, cards, gatherings, volunteering, etc..it brings out the best in so many. I am so grateful for my husband - always, but especially this week when he helped decorate the house with me. He loves Christmas too but definitely not as much so it was such a sweet gesture...he even surprised me with a trip to get special wreath. I am so grateful for the success of my business -- I launched my own onli…
/r/RedPillWives07/12/16 02:02 AM
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I love apples so much. I dream of perfectly ripe and MASSIVE honeycrisps like some dream of chocolate. Cameos and fujis are up there as well. Relevant :)
/r/RedPillWives05/11/16 01:56 PM
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I do the same with blueberries!
/r/RedPillWives05/11/16 01:47 PM
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I just read your posts - what a great follow up story! How have things been in the year since you posted?
/r/RedPillWives23/10/16 12:25 PM
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my little dork!
/r/RedPillWives11/09/16 06:52 PM
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I have a corgi bulldog mix and he looks like an adorable cartoon supervillian :)
/r/RedPillWives11/09/16 12:29 PM
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I hang his lunch bag on the door knob a few minutes before I know he's headed out :)
/r/RedPillWives10/09/16 02:56 PM
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This is so hard. Thank you for the reminder to work on it.
/r/RedPillWives06/08/16 12:21 PM
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So cool you make your own oils! Are there any good online resources for that? When my husband comes home he likes to sit on the couch and play video games for a bit so I get behind him, grab a magazine and rub his back while he plays. It's so nice for both of us!
/r/RedPillWives06/08/16 12:19 PM
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I'm reading A Man Called Ove right now with my book club and LOVE it so far.
/r/RedPillWives31/07/16 01:21 PM
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This is a great recommendation, thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 01:58 PM
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Me!
/r/RedPillWives19/06/16 12:53 AM
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What was his reaction?
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/16 11:01 PM
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I think that's mostly a comedy/sitcom problem. Even though there are other gender problems in a lot of dramas (think Game of Thrones, Better Call Saul, Orphan Black barring earlier depictions of Donnie, etc.), it isn't all weak male comedy tropes.
/r/RedPillWives12/06/16 06:56 PM
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the story of a couple having a mid-life crisis. a man who swallowed the red pill after realizing his wife was a controlling, cheating, insecure, bitch. These things aren't mutually exclusive :)
/r/RedPillWives14/05/16 12:07 PM
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YES to thermal protectants. I started using Peter Coppola Keratin Blow Out Spray about a month ago and my hair is much less dry.
/r/RedPillWives13/05/16 11:31 PM
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Based on a lot of your responses, you seem to have already made up your mind that this situation isn't going to improve in a way that you consider satisfactory. There is a lot of fatalistic tone: Well it wont be resolved resolved in a year -- itll just be an improvement. I dont know if it will resolve itself...there is nothing related to his work that changes directly in 8-12 months. I think that before you move forward in trying to make this relationship work, you need to shift your doomsday me…
/r/RedPillWives08/05/16 01:39 PM
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I guess my point is that the content of this sub is to make the middle age experience non-traumatic through proper self and relationship care. Everything is "give it to me straight" and focused on preventing a big reveal middle age disappointment.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/16 04:09 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1givu9/whats_the_point_if_women_are_going_to_hit_the/
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/16 01:56 PM
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Take some time to look around this community to find great content to answer your question!
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/16 01:25 PM
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Have you sat him down and told him directly the standards you need to maintain in your kitchen? Like a non-reactionary, hey you're a tenant in our home, this is what we expect from you. In my experience, addressing the problem in an isolated conversation as opposed to following the problem incident is a lot more productive and allows both parties to put emotions aside and work through the issues logically. There is great advice here about creating cleaning systems -- just bring whatever system y…
/r/RedPillWives16/04/16 12:32 PM
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I'm thinking about starting a blog giving advice to men on how to attract and date ambitious women. These women are very driven, independent, and can sometimes be seen as intimidating. My blog would break down the barriers and help men overcome that intimidation and attract these ambitious women. The blog would also give advice on how to succeed in the relationship and make it long-term. Is this something readers would be interested in? What are your thoughts on this? Naaahh
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/16 02:32 PM
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Almost everything on The Rules Revisited!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/16 11:02 PM
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I met my husband at 24 and only wish we had met sooner. "Memories to last a lifetime" is completely subjective. The memories I've made with my husband and throughout the time I've been with him are much more important to me than any I can think of from before. Having fun and living your life in a way that is meaningful and enriching to YOU is not exclusive to single life!
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/16 03:19 PM
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Sure and if that's the message she was going for it would have been easier to swallow without leading every point with "he should" and lining the following commentary with resentment.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/16 03:27 PM
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Conveniently, there is no mention of reason why these men should start putting in all this extra effort.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 03:34 PM
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Thank you, I really needed to read this today.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/15 03:19 PM
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Do you mind if I ask -- do you work? Part-time? Volunteer?
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/15 03:03 PM
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A lot of excellent fashion advice has already been mentioned but I want to add -- focus on your posture while sitting! It's easy to start slouching during a long lecture and obviously find a way to maintain comfort but keep your posture in mind. It's a really easy way to separate yourself from your classmates.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/15 03:10 PM
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Love love love this blog, thanks for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/15 03:06 PM
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I really enjoy Candace Cameron Bure
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/15 01:00 PM
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Despite the accuracy of the statement, I wish newscasters didn't always have to open with blanket shock controversy.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 03:26 PM
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Seconded. These were the first books I read after my wedding last summer -- they served me so well during the transition into daily married life. Congratulations!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/15 04:21 PM
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That's gorgeous.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/15 03:18 PM
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Only try to help him if he asks for your help. Do not attempt to solve his problems unless he specifically comes to you for advice. You don't want to undermine his ability to problem solve or create a long term culture of him relying on you for emotional support (which he will do sometimes without even knowing it...both of you will end up resenting this behavior). Listen if he specifically seeks out your ear. To preserve your own mood, take time for yourself. Read a book, go for a walk or do wha…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/15 05:53 PM
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