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TRP fixed my marriage. I was in a dead bedroom situation with a wife that wouldn't hardly do anything adventurous. I applied TRP and now we get along great and she will do just about anything I want in bed. I fixed it a couple of years ago, but you can't let up or you will be right back where I started.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 08:48 PM
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This sounds like me. TRP saved my marriage in a very similar method to yours. I was in the situation where I only got sex on my wife's terms. I was turned down probably at a 10/1 ratio and I got completely fed up. I had started reading TRP and heard about the power of No. I made a decision that I was done asking for sex. After a few weeks she actually initiated and I said No. Holy shit you would have thought the world had ended. The crying and carrying on was crazy. She told me how bad it hurt h…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/17 10:30 PM
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Work computer crimes. They probably need capable techies.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 05:50 PM
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Absolutely not. That would be a disaster of epic proportions and not worth it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 02:39 PM
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I don't think he realizes it. He tends to get drunk and passes out early whenever we party. The BFF is way more obvious after that happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 02:39 PM
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You are right. I'll continue as normal.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 01:14 AM
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Not trying to brag. Just trying to see best way to handle it. I guess it's just steady as she goes.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 01:13 AM
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You don't have to be busy. I think it's better if you aren't actually. If you are busy she will just think that is the reason. If you turn her down to do something like read sidebar material or watch something dumb on TV you will get the message across. She will instantly learn that withholding sex is useless, because you no longer need it. With a simple "no" you have rendered her most powerful weapon useless.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 04:52 PM
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You are headed in the right direction man. I was in a borderline dead bedroom situation a few years ago before I found TRP. I have to say it's now fixed. My wife and I are both happier. I also have unlocked her kinky side. I spank, her and tie her up regularly these days, when it was very vanilla before. TRP saved my marriage. Her friends can tell also, because she has mentioned that she can tell at least one is jealous and wants to fuck me. Have you turned down the wife for sex yet? I'll never …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 04:23 PM
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My wife is a SAHM. She had a decent job making $15/hr when we got married. Once we had 2 kids we calculated the child care costs and figured she was making under $2 take home pay. It wasn't worth it for her to work for such a small salary. Once she was home with the kids, everything became simpler. I also think my wife is a better mom than the people at the day care center. She was able to get the kids to any necessary doctor appointments, school functions etc. She coordinated all of the househo…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 06:02 PM
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If you make $60k, you have no business diving a BMW or a Benz. Those are for when you are making $100k or better.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 08:12 PM
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As others have said, start small and prepare. My guess is you have probably painted. You already know that 90% of the work is removing switch covers, washing walls, and cutting in any corners. Rolling out a wall takes like 15 minutes. I would also that be especially careful when dealing with kitchens and bathrooms. Working in those areas can be disruptive to the daily activity in the house. If you aren't sure you can get it done when it needs to be done, it gives you the perfect out to hire a pr…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/16 05:19 PM
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Super easy method for the guys with motorcycles. Ask the girl if she wants to go for a ride on the back of your bike. If she does, you are generally good to go.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 04:48 PM
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I think it's the perspective. If you are on your knees staring at a hard cock you are about to suck it will look way bigger. You wouldn't be able to see where the top of the dick ends easily.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 08:38 AM
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Tell her it's not all bros at the gym. They allow women to have memberships as well. Then leave and the hamster will hit overdrive.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 03:30 PM
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My ex wife actually asked me to help load the truck she was taking to the guy she met online in another state. She was actually surprised that I turned her down. I couldn't believe she wanted me to help her take half of the shit I bought away from me.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 10:13 PM
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I think visiting TRP and MRP as visiting with my coach. You may be on top of you game right now, but the only way to stay there is to keep practicing and studying. Look at someone like Tom Brady or another top athlete. You think he skips watching game film or meeting with his coaches? My guess is that he spends more time studying then most of his peers. That's how you make things last.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 06:17 PM
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It all depends on the situation also. i was once pulled over for doing 90 in a 55. I knew I was caught and guilty so there was no point in attempting to bullshit the cop or anything. I talked myself out of that ticket by asking him for a favor and to let me off the hook and promising I'd slow down. Much like sales, don't be afraid to ask for the outcome you want. I'm 99% sure if I didn't outright ask for a favor, I was getting a ticket so the only thing I could reasonably do was to talk to the o…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 05:52 PM
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Married 15 years here. Found TRP a couple of years ago. Marriage is the best it's ever been, because I found TRP. Before TRP, I would have given my marriage 3/10, now it's 9/10. I know this isn't normal RP playbook, but I see me and my wife growing old together. Kids are doing well also.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 04:04 PM
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Also flying isn't as expensive as you might think. You can buy a plane for under $20k if you want or just rent from a club. Most people think it's expensive, but really it's similar to RVing, owning a boat, classic cars or other power sports. All of those things cost a fair amount and like most of those hobbies, you can get buy with something cheap or spend big.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 07:26 PM
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I'm saving up and plan to start my PPL training next spring. It's cheaper if you have the cash saved up and do it quick from what the guys over at /r/flying tell me. It's great sub. I'm also going the club route as I can rent a C172 for $85 wet.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 07:05 PM
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Because I made it perfectly clear that I'm the prize and they are not. That is RP even if they don't realize it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 11:11 PM
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Exactly. I work with these women and I've been married for 15 years. That doesn't mean I shouldn't keep practicing. Keeping skills up is why I've been married 15 years.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 11:10 PM
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You need to work on your self esteem if you feel like a dumb mule. You are there to do a job and you should go out of your way to kick ass at it. Make the managers feel dumb for paying the other guys double for less productivity. One technique is when you do meet with your boss, ask the following question. "What can I do to make myself more valuable to the company?" Make it clear you want to improve your salary and you want specific targets so you know what it will take.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 03:08 PM
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Don't be a pussy. You can what you want when you want. There are no banned books/websites/forums etc in my home.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 03:05 PM
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Asking for a raise with less than a full year at the company wouldn't get you anywhere where I work. 4 months in doesn't tell them all that much. Also without knowing what the actual job entails it's hard. I saw advice here on looking for new employment. Be careful about job hopping too much. When I see a resume with a bunch of short duration jobs, I don't consider it. It takes us three years to fully train an employee, so I don't want to start that investment with someone that just works for th…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 01:06 PM
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There is no GF, because girlfriends don't do that. Don't say a word and never contact her again. Block her on all media and become invisible.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 11:22 AM
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My wife does this regularly and I've only been lifting for 5 months now. I'm also 46 so it's taking me longer to rebuild muscle than it did when I was younger. I'm getting to big, but she also thinks The Rock is super hot and would probably fuck him given the chance. Once again, ignore what comes out of their mouths and watch their actions.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 10:24 AM
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I think you need to take your meds. If you are truly sick, you need to work with the professionals. There is a ton of trial and error with the meds and it may take a few years to get a satisfactory cocktail, but that is what you do. Also only get meds from a psychiatrist and nobody else. Having a GP prescribe those sorts of meds is like having your general surgeon do your brain surgery. Also realize it take a few weeks after a med change before you really know how it's going to work. The adjustm…
/r/askTRP27/05/15 07:37 PM
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Have you been officially diagnosed by a psychiatrist? If not, you don't officially have any of these problems. How many times have you been to the psych ward and how long have you stayed? Are you taking your meds exactly as prescribed by your psychiatrist?
/r/askTRP27/05/15 04:37 AM
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That's your job as a man to figure it out.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 12:42 PM
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IANAL, but this is what I've been told and seen done. Cleaning out accounts or maxing out cards shortly before a divorce isn't a good idea. Judges are generally smarter than to let you get away with that. What you can do is make sure you are in a good position. Since you are taking your time, I would make sure that your wardrobe is up to snuff, you have decent shoes etc. Maybe pick up a new pair of jeans or two. You can also make sure the tires on your car aren't worn out and make sure the sched…
/r/askTRP22/05/15 03:23 PM
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That is a good plan. I knew a guy that would go to the club to pick up women that wouldn't leave until he has three failures trying to pick up a girl. There were many times where he was leaving the club before he got to three.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 02:29 AM
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Why do you use so much? The reason you are useless for three days is you are using four different substances. This is costing you a lot of money in three ways. The cost of the drugs, the pay raise or promotion you won't get and the enormous amount of money that a college education costs. I advise you quit everything. If you don't think that is realistic, smoke weed only. Drinking will just lead you to doing the other drugs and weed is the least addictive and doesn't leave you unproductive the ne…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 11:17 AM
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As Patrice O'Neal used to say. Give her what she needs, not what she wants.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 10:04 AM
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You can't make yourself taller, but the way you carry yourself speaks volumes. A well dressed 5'8" guy that walks tall with good posture will look better than a 6' guy that's hunched over with bad posture in bad clothing.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:36 PM
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Nice. Just this weekend I had a party and I got very drunk out by the fire. Apparently I was an asshole to her and I believe her as I don't even remember the last couple of hours of being there. She started to complain and I shut that down pretty quick. I explained to her that there will be times when I'm a dick, just like there are times that she can be a bitch. I also said that this would not be the last time that this happens, but I'm an overall an awesome guy. If she thinks that she can find…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 01:48 PM
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There are also people that will attempt to dox you IRL and it can have bad implications IRL so it's best to use a throwaway here. You don't want to lose a job opportunity 10 years from now, because some SJW figured out who you are and made a website linking to everything you said here. I've seen plenty of guys say, fuck it I own my shit, but realize there are consequences for everything. Using a dedicated RP account costs nothing and has no downside.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 01:39 PM
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15 years married and I would say I'm now +2 at least to her. She's had kids and medical issues along with age which has lowered her SMV also due to some weight gain. I've discovered RP and been gaining SMV and lifting. Job is going well and I'm making almost triple what I was making when we got married. Here biggest worry these days is that I will leave her for someone with a higher SMV. Self imposed dread FTW. She's been a quality mate the whole time even when I was BP so I have no plans to lea…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 06:20 PM
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What's funny, is that I hadn't come across TRP yet, but I just knew I had to change something. I had become outcome independent without realizing it. You are so right about the power of "no." I think it needs to be used fairly sparingly as the more you say "no" the less powerful each "No" will be.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 03:19 PM
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That's a good point. My wife wouldn't be receptive all the time if I just went up to her and asked "Wanna screw." She will respond much more positively to me putting in a bit more effort than that. There is no reason it can't explained to he the same way. Put a bit of effort in and it goes a long way.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 03:13 PM
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I hear what you are saying, but since this is MRP it also varies a bit depending on your relationship. Someone might make their wife a smoothie every morning because she is doing something nice for the husband or taking care of the kids. When married and especially if kids are involved it needs to be a teamwork situation. I think the key is to make sure she is doing her 50% of the work. Division of labor is fine, but letting her sit around and eat bon-bons while you bust your ass is never accept…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 03:10 PM
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Remember he started a couple of years ago. I honestly started fixing my marriage by using RP principles before i discovered TRP.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:21 PM
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I was pissed when the out that rule in place, but I also now think it's a good thing. It has forced posts to require more effort and I believe high effort leads to high quality.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 08:13 PM
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I'm only a few shows in, but there are many more of them. Dante Nero is the host and he was an actual pimp as well as the co host of Black Phillip. They are very RP, but do fat not quite as funny as Patrice. Worth checking out for sure.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 11:16 PM
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I started listening to Black Phillip during my lifting routine. I have now also expanded it to Beige Phillip as I finished all of the Black Phillip episodes. It's not just theory, but I find it useful as well as funny.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 10:54 PM
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I meant child protection services. That's what they call it in my state.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 04:22 PM
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You can always call cps if you think she really doesn't have food for the kid. They will come in and make her show them her cupboard and fridge.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 03:02 PM
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I found it 2 years ago and it changed my life as well. It was so bad, I used to frequent /r/deadbedrooms. My marriage is actually fixed now and it's not just fixed for me. My wife's happiness has increased just as much as my own. I try to spread the word, but I never use TRP directly. I have run into a few people including my own brother that are in the same situation I was in. I usually point them at MMSLP, NMMNG and SG Method. At that point they are on their own as I feel I have led the horse …
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 12:23 PM
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Yes, you are expendable. I'm not saying break your back, but bust your ass to do the best job you can do while you are there. For me, I can't imagine doing it any other way. I take pride in my work and I don't like to do anything to a low standard be it my hobbies or my job. Also you will build a reputation that can be helpful in case you find yourself unemployed. I have many contacts with customers, vendors, consultants and other companies that I have built a reputation with. If I were unemploy…
/r/askTRP31/03/15 05:51 PM
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Not unlike my own turn around. To think I used to frequent /r/dead bedrooms My wife and I are both happy now, but she couldn't talk tell you why.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/15 10:54 PM
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Take her out for breakfast after she spends the night in your bed. Work up the appetite in the morning.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 07:47 PM
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Trust me, I know what I'm talking about. I supervise 4 teams with a total of 26 people for a Fortune 500 company. Where I work everyone is expected to be professional. That means letting your supervisor know if you think they are asking you to do something dumb. This information has to be presented in a very professional manner. It's more of a "Are you sure you want me to do X, because that might mess up Y?" You don't make it about questioning authority, it's about making the company is efficien…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 06:46 PM
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This guy is right on. destructive compliance is a thing and management sees right through that bullshit. Remember you work for the company and not your boss so your loyalty needs to be with the company. If you are asked to do something that you don't think is a good idea, double check with your boss and state the reason you are questioning it. If you are then told to do it anyway, do it, but don't do dumb stuff just because someone that's telling you to do it may not have all of the proper infor…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 04:47 PM
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If she thinks you have a bunch of money, she's not going anywhere unless some guy with even more than you is showing interest. Good move on not talking actual numbers. Otherwise it's too easy for her know exactly what it will take to branch swing.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 02:39 PM
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Ask her if it's cool for you to message your ex GFs on facebook and go to their birthday parties alone.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 02:21 PM
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That's exactly what I'm doing. I'm saying as little as possible on the issue. I'm letting the hamster do the work for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/15 12:47 AM
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When she answers the phone, give it a minute or two in case she just needs to take care of some business. If you can tell she's going to be taking for a while go to the gym. Don't tell her your leaving our anything just be gone. Obviously if you have small kids or something you need to tell her, but even then it should be a quick statement that you are headed out. When you get back, she will probably ask where you were etc. Tell her you were working out and make sure you don't come across as but…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/15 12:49 PM
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Yep. I bet all three women for the tingles for OP that night. I bet Jamie is still thinking about it. She probably has a crush on OP at this point.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/15 12:17 PM
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This post is great advice. The only thing I would do different, is if she attempts to initiate sex. Turn her down and go lift or do whatever you have been doing at that same time of day. She will likely freak the fuck out and I know this is hard for you too, but this is the very best way to demonstrate true OI. This will also instill dread as she may think you are getting it elsewhere. Based on my experience, she will start to increase her efforts at that point. I turned my wife down one time an…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/15 12:08 PM
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I had a conversation around this subject with my wife. It came up, because she questioned why I seem to have a double standard. I told her that men and women want different things so it's not the same. I then played her the Time Ho segment from Black Phillip. The time ho is the male equivalent of a slut. She understood where I was coming from after that.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 09:53 AM
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Because there are people that despise TRP enough to dox you. Are you good with everything you say here being shared with your employer and everyone you know? This will also be shared within the context of the most extreme posts that have ever graced the sub. You will be labeled a misogynist. Every future prospective employer will see this information when they Google your real name. Bottom line, lots of potential downside and having a second account is free and easy.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 09:11 AM
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I like that. I'll bust that out next time.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 12:26 AM
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Now you have to completely next that girl. Full no contact as she had made herself unavailable. Don't be surprised if she pulls the "let's just be friends" and tries to turn you into an orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 11:49 AM
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What are the odds that op gets a taker before he gets to 7?
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 11:45 AM
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I have a very traditional household. My wife does all of the cleaning, laundry, dishes etc and I do most of the things that need to be done outside. I have had success when I do my chores, especially if they are particularly manly chores. My wife seems to get turned on whenever I'm out in the garage wrenching on cars for a couple of hours. If I were to help with her chores, it wouldn't do anything for her though.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 09:59 AM
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I plan to offer my daughter about $5k towards her wedding if she decides to get married (she's only 13 now). I'll also offer somewhere around $10k as down payment on a house if she agrees to elope or have a courthouse wedding.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 04:08 PM
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If you don't know, I would say a lawyer is necessary.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:21 PM
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I think that is part of the deal running your own start up. As long as you see the current situation as temporary, keep the business going well. You do need a plan on how you will get back to a normal work week just like all of your other business plans. Make sure you pay attention to that goal just like the others. My guess is if your business is going as well as you are leading us to believe, you will have no problem getting plenty of pussy in the future.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:16 PM
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I think you need to get ready. Really, what can she do? Divorce you over reading material? She can throw a temper tantrum, but all you have to do is hold solid frame and don't waver. It doesn't matter is she openly resists. This is all about changing you for the better. Worrying about her opinion of your reading material is about BP as it gets.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 07:45 PM
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I guess my wife wasn't interested enough to actually look at more than a page or two. Even if she were to pull back the curtain a bit it wouldn't overcome my improved frame and looks. All of the teachings work on a subconscious level and I don't think it would be the same as knowing a magic trick. This stuff is programmed into her DNA and she can't help herself. That's the same reason AWALT. You don't bother to attempt to change them, because it can't be done.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 05:56 PM
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This is preventing me from buying and sidebar material. Do you guys only read these books in secret somewhere? This hurts to read. Go ahead and order the books and read them right in front of her. The first mate does not approve the captain's reading material. If she wants to read them as well, she is free to do so, but that will not affect your frame. If she asks what it is all about you can tell her with conviction that is it about becoming a better man and husband.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 02:31 PM
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Same plan we seem to be on. It's funny, because like you the first time she mentioned that other women will want me etc, I told her she didn't need to worry about it. Then I checked myself and realized silence is golden. Just this morning she tried to wake me with sex, but my alarm went off like 30 seconds later to go to the gym. She knew I wasn't going to miss my lifting so she went with me again. After the gym and a shower she tried to get my in bed again, but it turned out I had an important …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 02:25 PM
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No it's a legit issue. She has an appointment to have bloodwork done this week and has a review meeting with the doc next Tuesday. Last time it was checked she was near the border of needing to increase her syntheroid. She's going to ask that the doc at least move her to the center of the range.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 02:15 PM
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I finally started lifting and doing other workouts the second week of January. I have been listening to my archive of Black Phillip as my workout audio. I'm helping my mind as well as my body at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 10:04 PM
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Hillary was also Secretary of State which is the number one cabinet position. Personally I don't care for any of them so far. I'd really wish they would stop playing politics 24/7 and fucking govern for a change. I don't care to hear about presidential candidates for another year.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 04:19 PM
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Why would you lose access to your kids? Where are you located? Fathers have a decent shot at 50/50 custody these days in many states. Go for custody of your kids and the child support won't be as bad. Also shop your attorney. You want the best there is, every penny you spend on a top end attorney will be saved 10 fold in the settlement. Make sure you don't blackmail here with the evidence as it's illegal. I would start the divorce proceedings and if she starts to be a complete bitch and says bad…
/r/askTRP23/02/15 06:48 PM
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Dude, if you know you don't have HPV you can get vaccinated for it. Talk to your doc. I didn't used to know this, but my sons doc found out he was sexual active and recommended it.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 11:35 PM
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Semi related information here. I see a bunch of acronyms being thrown around incorrectly here, so I figure I'll set the record straight on those. MFM - 2 guys running a train on a girl. Both guys are straight and interaction only with the girl. MMF - 2 guys with a girl. Guys are also engaging with each other as well as the girl. FMF - Threesome. Guy doing both girls, but the girls aren't really doing anything with each other. MFF - Threesome with the girls engaging with each other.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 11:30 PM
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I see your point, but if he is doing things differently than he has been doing for years, doing a bit of explaining (not asking permission) might be alright. Once he establishes a pattern he should stop. In my example I started going to a certain brewery on Wednesdays which is mug club night. I told her where I was going for the 1st couple of weeks. Now she assumes I'm going and doesn't even bother to ask and I don't mention it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/15 09:32 PM
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To add to this you could have used her non-compliance as an excuse to spank her ass while you were doing her.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/15 06:01 PM
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A couple of items to add to the poor column. Should have made her come to your territory in the first place. Should have picked a place more conducive to conversation. This is probably easier to do if she is in your territory.
/r/askTRP08/02/15 01:40 PM
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OK here's the deal. Your plan is not realistic. In psychology you pick research or clinical, but you don't do both. They are separate and very different specialities. I recommend you update your plan to reflect that reality.
/r/askTRP08/02/15 01:29 PM
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Do you even lift bro? You should be lifting for you not for women. My guess is if you get in shape and you actually have money you'll end up finding women without looking to hard. Either way, stay healthy for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 06:10 PM
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You don't have a girlfriend anymore, you have a roommate. The main difference between these two types of relationship is sex. You are not having sex so that makes you roommates. I suggest that you start treating her the same as you would any of your buddies that you would have as a roommate. Tell her you are now roommates until the lease is up or however you can manage to live separately. Tell her you plan to see other people and she is free to do so as well. Be realistic and realize she will ha…
/r/askTRP29/01/15 12:55 PM
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Pro-tip for negotiating salary. Use vacation as a negotiating tool after you have negotiated salary. If you think you have settled the money aspect, and you are earlier in your career try for three weeks salary right out of the gate. If you are 40+ ask for 4 weeks. It's also a fine line between taking the higher offer whenever one is presented and choosing the right job. If you change jobs too often it looks real bad to potential employers. Use abundance mentality and realize you are interviewin…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 09:51 PM
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Go watch "Fifty Shades of Grey," as the movie comes out that weekend. I realize you don't give a rats ass about that film, but the theater lobby will be teeming with horny bitches when that lets out. Good place to practice some game.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 04:52 PM
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add a winky face ;) and I like your response. Gives plausible deniability if she got mad and posted to social media etc. Problem is she might actually take him up on it.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 06:06 PM
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True, but most of those guys have no long term method to make money. They might rake in some good dough for a few years, but they end up squandering it quickly. Most of them are bankrupt within a few years of retirement. I wonder how many of those girls stay around once that happens.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 03:22 PM
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As another guy that had been married for 14 years now, the transition to rp is hard. I've been working on it over a year now and it's really starting to pay off. I was a beta for a while and used to do all of the mistakes you read about here. You obviously can't go all alpha overnight and for ltr you still have to have beta qualities. I think you are handling it pretty well from your report. One suggestion I would make is to look at your sex life. I sort of use that as a barometer for the relati…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 12:48 PM
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I agree on the pressing charges thing. As far a Ray being lunged at, you have to realize that was in response to him spitting in her face. I believe he spits on her both outside and inside the elevator. If someone did that to me, I can't say I wouldn't go off.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 06:48 PM
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Reminds me of a concert problem I had with three entitled girls. I was on the rail for an Allman Bros show and had been there since before the opening act. I had purposely got there early with my wife as she is 5' 0" and like to be able to see. About 2/3s the way through show these three girls show up and try and weasel their way in. These bitches tried to get me to move and I was having none of it. They were completely shocked that I told them to get lost since they were probably 8/10 in the lo…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:17 PM
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In 45 and have been here over a year. There are extreme views here I disagree with, but the overall message is the bitter truth. My 15 year marriage has never stronger and my wife wouldn't be able to tell you why. Advice to newbies: read the sidebar and use an alt. We are hated enough that you could be doxxed which can have real consequences.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 11:45 PM
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Good for you man. I'm married myself and I found this place over a year ago. MMSL and Sex God helped me. I have gone from a borderline db to a much happier marriage. She would also be one to tell you she is happier and she doesn't even realize why.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 07:02 PM
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This guy screwed up in several ways that would have kept him out of jail and he wouldn't have a felony record now. Here the his two biggest mistakes besides ever meeting the bitch in the first place. Why did he tell the wife he was going to divorce her before the papers were served? If would have made all of her accusations look like retaliation, but instead he lets her know so she can play offense first. Had a shit lawyer when facing serious charges. He even acknowledged the he didn't think he …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 03:57 PM
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Well I guess it depends. I like to occasionally drop some rp truth in other subs using non rp terminology. If the white knights see rp in my post history they will call it out and I'll be downvoted to oblivion. It makes it easier to spread rp knowledge when that doesn't happen.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 08:49 AM
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I have one piece of advice for the newcomers. You may want to use an alt for any redpill posts/comments as you risk being downvoted all over reddit just for posting here.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 07:53 PM
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I think it actually has a lot to do with the distance between the clit and the vaginal opening. When it's closer girls are far more likely to orgasm from piv sex.
/r/askTRP11/05/14 03:06 PM
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The dog is far more loyal than a woman. As long as your dog knows you are alpha you're fine.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 03:15 PM
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I have to disagree with you here. I consider the stay at home mom situation to be very redpill. My wife was working, but I asked her to quit after our 2nd child was born. She was making decent money, but by the time we took out child support and all of the extra meals we ate out she was only clearing $2/hr. For me it was worth giving that up to have my kids raised by my wife instead of being in day care. We have a very traditional arrangement where I work outside the home and she takes care of t…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 06:39 PM
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I know that feel as I got married the first time at 21. 2nd go around has been much better.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 07:59 PM
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I'm married and happy. I know marriage gets shit on around here, but I feel like most of the folks here are in their 20s. I don't want to be the guy that's still single and 75 years old with no kids. Having watched my father have a battle with cancer in his 60s and seeing how much his wife helped him through that makes me feel as if I made the right decision. I don't even really like the woman, but she supported and cared for him and that's good enough for me. I've though about bringing this up …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 07:42 PM
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I would add that you need to make sure you fuck her good. Make sure you get her off and she should feel like she got shit fucked out of her. You can do the lovey dovey stuff while you cuddle in bed after the hot and steamy sex. Read the Sex God Method by Daniel Rose for the details on how to do this. You can find it online.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 08:19 PM
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Fun fact. If a chick will go for a ride on the back of your bike she is also willing to fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 08:20 AM
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Dude. You actually have a decent business idea. Kind of like the RSD workshops and such, but you could do it as a high end concierge service. Hire some personal trainers for the lifting, hotties to have them practice game and show them mistakes. You take them along with a few of these hotties for a little social proof and hit the hottest clubs on the planet. Spend travel time teaching them RP philosophy. $50K later their entire life is improved and they graduate.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 08:48 PM
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Do whatever the fuck you want to do. If you feel like going go, if not find something else to do. This is of course with the understanding that you are truly over your ex and no longer give two shits about her.
/r/askTRP13/04/14 12:36 PM
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You need to stop seeing the girl. You should sit her down and explain that you are not getting what you need from the relationship. Tell her if she truly cares for you, she will respect your wishes and never contact you again. Then block every her on every means of contact. Every time you think of her redirect that energy into lifting. If you don't have easy access to a gym you can do push ups and other exercise that doesn't require equipment. It will be a little bit like she died in the beginni…
/r/askTRP13/04/14 12:32 PM
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I don't know man. I think there are a couple of issues here. One is you are in a LTR and you are trying to change your behavior while in this relationship. You can do that, but it has to be a slow change. If you were all beta before and all of a sudden start acting all alpha she is going to wonder what happened to the guy she thought she knew. Also remember unlike a FWB situation LTRs require a mix of both alpha and beta behavior. Seems like you could have cuddled with her for a few minutes, bec…
/r/askTRP10/04/14 10:26 AM
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I had that issue with my wife as well. Now whenever she asks when I'll be home I give her a crazy late time like 5:00 am.I give her this time when she knows I'll likely be home at 10:00. Then of course she asks when I'll actually be home and I tell her I will not commit to anything earlier than 5:00, because if I tell her 10:00 and I show up at 10:30 she gives me a hard time. She created the problem and I'm no longer playing that game.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 04:05 AM
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Make sure he knows not to take any bait for some no strings sex with her. She seems to just be crazy enough to sperm jack him.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 02:35 PM
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I hope that is sarcasm. As a bluepiller in recovery, I'd like to laugh in her face. Do you know how many blue pill guys have purchased drinks and got nowhere? If they really wanted gender equality guys would be drinking for free half the time.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 01:53 PM
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Instead of asking her what she is doing tomorrow you should invite her out to discuss the matter. Already have plans so if you and some buddies have some sort of plans for Friday night invite her to that. My friend and I are going to x on Friday. Why don't you come out and we can discuss it?
/r/askTRP02/04/14 01:36 AM
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If this is true, the wife has fucked herself. My guess is the guy will recover after a bit of time, maybe even faster if he finds his way here. He seems like he is a capable guy and fairly driven so he will end up with someone younger than his wife. The wife will quickly find out that the guys she's banging don't want a LTR with a post wall slut and end up wondering why her husband is such an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 11:18 AM
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If the sex dries up, you can break this rule as the place is in your name only. If she breaks the rule, kick her out.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 11:29 AM
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First of all. Don't shit where you eat. Unless you have a job that you really don't give a shit about, this girl is off limits to you. Plenty of bad things can happen as a result of dating a coworker and just about all of it will be directed at the male in the relationship. If you still want to pursue this girl knowing the risks, you need to stop being her orbiter. You suggested that she stop by that night. If she really needed to talk to you, she knew how to make that happen, but she obviously …
/r/askTRP09/02/14 01:51 PM
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Reading this just confirms the whole "most responsible teenager in the house," analogy. I happen to have a teenaged son and the one mistake I'm always trying to council him on is the impatience and need for instant gratification. He has a tendency to makes purchases for a cheap version of something even though I usually recommended waiting for another paycheck or two so he can get a higher quality item. Invariably buyers remorse sets in once he realizes he didn't get what he really wanted and no…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 11:17 PM
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What guy accepts random friend requests from a hot girl they never met on Facebook? If you don't see that as a scam/catfish immediately you are a moron.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 10:09 AM
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You can always flirt with another girl that is not as pretty for extra effect. She will then wonder why you ignored her and hit on some girl that is not as hot. If the other girl responds positively you get instant social validation.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 12:39 PM
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I don't actually choke my wife. I put my hand on her throat, but I don't do any squeezing or anything that would cut blood flow. She likes it, but I wouldn't do more even if she asked, because I wouldn't want to hurt her even by accident.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 04:30 AM
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More like This, because women are relationship terrorists.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 03:02 AM
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Shit man, you don't even need a throwaway for your story. You are here now making yourself better every day. Wear that experience like a badge of honor for what you've been through. There is no shame in making mistakes, learning from them and improving yourself.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 02:43 AM
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Upvote for mention of Bell's beer. BTW it's Hopslam season.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 01:16 AM
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That makes sense is this type of situation where the woman lied, but the guy is an equal partner when the birth control is skipped altogether. Of course the next thing that happens would be the women lying to protect thier interests so I guess we'd have to resort to notarized affidavits before doing the deed. When can get the the pill for men again?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 09:06 PM
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She is no way an 8. She's a drug addict on Fentanyl and a host of other drugs. When is the last time you saw a drug addict that was an 8? It doesn't exist at least for me. I'd say she loses 3 points for that alone so the best she would be is a 7 and that's if she looked like Kate Upton. She's probably a 5 at best that has yet to come to that realization because he has put her on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 06:12 PM
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I'm thinking you should read up on game and such as much as you can. Also hit the gym and lose those pounds. You could then possibly follow that up by attending some gaming seminars and such. I don't believe they are cheap, but I think they may be worth the investment in your case. I think some of these classes even have hot girls that you practice approaching on and then tell you where you went wrong. Can anyone else she done light on this, because I've never attended an event like this, but I …
/r/askTRP05/01/14 02:52 PM
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Wait what? When did this happen? I've heard crazy stories out of NK, but somehow missed this one. Bitch must have been suicidal.
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I'd outright tell her you don't do long distance relationships. She's free to go and can hit you up when she returns, but you are both single while she is away.
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You don't quite understand. People dox you, find out your real name and then put up web pages saying you are misogynist and make up lies about you. Then you look for a job someday and a prospective employer googles your name see the controversy and doesn't bother to interview, because companies don't want to hire anyone they see a risky. Then this follows you around for a couple of decades. Don't risk it.
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Another way you showed weakness that I have not seen mentioned yet was contacting her during the week after the first weekend of fucking. Because you either contacted or responded to her it showed that you don't have other options. You would have been better off being too busy with work/hobby/friends to get together with her. I'm guessing you could have made yourself too busy until a week later and then sent her a text that you are going to whatever event you wanted to pick out the following Fri…
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