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What’s the problem with “dog mom/dad”?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 06:05 PM
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Women certainly enjoy sex. But not in a way men do it. Many guys would have sex with a woman they aren’t attracted to, just for the sake of physical pleasure. Women, on the other side, are not going to do it unless they are attracted to a man. So if a woman says she doesn’t like sex, it means she doesn’t like it with you (or whoever she is with).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/21 03:06 PM
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Well some of these points are actually not that bad… But not all, of course.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 06:52 PM
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Lol credit score. What if he’s a millionaire that pays cash for everything and doesn’t even have a credit… I guess it means he doesn’t qualify))
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 06:12 PM
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Yep, it’s noticeable that the phrases, punctuation, sentence structure, length etc are typed by the same person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 06:51 PM
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Definitely fake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 10:38 PM
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Bad teeth are associated with bad genetics that could be passed on offsprings. It’s a programmed biology that makes a woman seek the best alpha genes. If women were attracted to “defected” genes it would lead human species to extinction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 08:26 PM
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She can’t be 34
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 08:40 PM
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Not all men who have a job and a car are good or even average looking. It doesn’t have to be an overweight single father, but a compromise probably needed. Maybe he won’t be ideal in all areas but you could find something you like about him even if it’s a personality trait.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/20 02:52 PM
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Of course it matters. Would you rather be with a happy person or with a miserable one? I want both of us to benefit from the relationship, and both to enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 02:44 PM
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Why don’t you date guys who are less attractive themselves. I mean not all men are cute either, so even “ugly” women can have someone in their life if they look for someone below average looking. It’s all about perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/20 02:32 PM
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What age is she looking for? How much younger?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 09:26 PM
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Day by day, hour by hour. We’re getting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:52 AM
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He is definitely more fit and athletic than a normal / average body.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/20 01:48 PM
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Some guys also have bad genetics on where that fat goes. Like when a guy has skinny arms like sticks but fat round belly...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:31 PM
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I believe that your mind power can be stronger than primitive urges. Agree. It depends on your moral compass. If you have high moral standards you can control your primitive urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 02:49 AM
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I like to have a partnership. I’m aware of polygamy and hypergamy but I enjoy having someone to share life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 02:37 AM
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I agree to disagree. Have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 02:17 AM
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She is just as pretty as a younger option. She has a better understanding of man psychology so she is easier to deal with, no drama or emotional immaturity that younger women have. She might has more appreciation of what the man does and offers to her, again due to maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 02:07 AM
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He meets her and finds her more attractive than other women. This thing, I don’t know if u ever heard of, it’s called... chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 01:57 AM
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Because he might likes her more. Are you saying there are no 30 y.o. men who marry 40 y.o. women? Or at least 5 years older? Or even the same age? (10 years difference might be a bit too much, but 5 years older/younger is common).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 01:46 AM
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40 year old woman who is in shape, has good makeup skills and looks good can have relationship with a 30 year old guy. There are men who date their own age too and don’t limit themselves to 18-25 y.o. Age is just a number. Some women can look younger too. If he doesn’t want kids he won’t care she is 40 given she looks good. The looks matter more than the actual age in her passport.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 01:35 AM
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Then they hit 35 and suddenly they are 5 years from 40. And then she can just marry another 40 year old. My mom’s friend got divorced at 40 and married someone a few years later. My neighbor married a man at 60 after becoming a widow. It’s not the end of ur love life just because u’re now 40, 50, or even 60. If a woman takes care of herself she will always have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 01:20 AM
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Trp says women at 30 have difficulty to secure a partner because 30 y.o. men prefer younger women. It wasn’t my experience since plenty of guys my age are interested in women their age. And the majority of marriages are actually among people about the same age (+-5). And not 10-20 years difference as trp fantasizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 12:53 AM
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Well I agree with the last part actually. Feminism took it too far. It was meant to be for women to have a choice to work if they want to. It shouldn’t be shameful to be a stay at home mom or even just wife. If a woman satisfied with her lifestyle being at home it should be accepted as a norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 12:43 AM
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Gonna need some examples because what you’ve said thus far doesn’t show you know much about it. Your knowledge on it seems very surface level. Give some examples of this “bs.” One of the misleading quotes from trp “Men age like wine, women age like milk”. And then they provide u pics of brad Pitt and leo DiCaprio as an example. Both genders age about the same, depending on genetics, diet, lifestyle obviously. There is no wall at 30. As a woman (and probably some men too) you get attention even a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 12:37 AM
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There are both men and women who try to date out of their league. Many men have extremely high standards too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 12:25 AM
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None of those women, or women in general, would have considered those men for marriage had any of them not had the resources to support them. That’s what the marriage agreement is. Exclusive sex in exchange for resources. It’s been that way since the beginning of humanity. You can make it sound as rosy as you want but that’s the backbone of a committed relationship. Women might judge a man based on his ambitions and drive to obtain status, career, money, but marriage is not based only or even pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 12:19 AM
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I’m not saying hypergamy doesn’t exist. But those examples you provided are not the rule. If those women left their husbands due to them getting injured or unable to find a job, they simply did stay with them only for resources and the marriage was hinging by a thin thread to begin with. But it’s not every relationship/ marriage out there. Plenty of women in my circle are actually making more money than their bfs/spouses. Also, I have read a lot of material related to trp. And even tried testing…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 08:50 PM
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Red piller doesn’t believe someone can actually like/love/desire him for who he is. That’s why they think women want to use him, his resources etc. He thinks he is worthless so the only reason a woman would be with him is for his resources. He then ends up attracting the ones who want to use him. So his version of the world ends up matching his red pill mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 08:00 PM
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I find this sub informative and not brainwashed like red pill etc. Other than that, it’s entertaining and thought provoking. Sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:49 PM
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I’m 5’7 and have dated a guy 5’5. I obviously looked taller including on all the pics we took. I prefer a man to be taller than me but the short guy I dated was attractive and had all other qualities I value. Height is not a deal breaker to me. Especially if he is attractive and stuff. So to answer the question, I would go for the attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 11:28 PM
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Neutral as well 🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 10:13 PM
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If you’re 6 feet tall, sorry, you don’t qualify. You need to be 6’1” minimum.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/20 11:25 PM
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What does 420 mean?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/20 09:46 PM
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I’d take 1,2,4,5,6,7... Those are not a deal breaker for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/19 02:27 PM
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When I realized this and reallocated my time, my income increased, I bought a house, got another degree, and advanced my career by leaps and bounds. Yet redpilled men like to say if she hasn’t married by 30, she will end up homeless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 12:38 AM
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Yeah, I’m kinda curious how dating and relationship dynamics have changed in the last decade, that’s why I like to read people’s experience. And I agree, it does make you appreciate what you’ve got even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:59 PM
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I am happily married, but I don’t find reading and debating about relationships and human psychology to be a waste of time. To me it’s a fun thing to do in my free time. I don’t think this sub is only for single people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:50 PM
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women almost always prefer an older man than them. I’ve always liked my own age and a bit younger men. Older men (5-10 years and older) were a big turn off for me. All my friends are also married or dating guys their age, and not much older ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 05:59 PM
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It’s not even about being a mother that makes a woman valuable. She might has never had biological children, it doesn’t make her less of a woman. Women can mother siblings, ideas, communities, projects, plants, animals etc. Woman’s worth does not depend on her fertility alone. Moids try to push the menopause scare to shame women and make them fear, though in fact, menopause can be a liberating experience, and not the end of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 06:00 PM
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This is beyond stupid to think that the only value a woman has is to propagate. Women are valued for many other important qualities and contribute to the society besides giving birth to children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 05:44 PM
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This sub and the information it provides is a game changer, so they don’t like it, because all their little pick up tricks become exposed. When more ladies start practicing the right dating strategies, men will have to adjust and work harder or stay useless and unhappy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 08:32 PM
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I agree. A few days of texting and collecting some basic information can be helpful, because honestly it did save me time in the past when I found out red flags during the discussions via text. But I agree you shouldn’t have much expectations based on how a person talks over texting and let yourself develop any attachments. Because some people are more confident when they text but then they act different irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 08:23 PM
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The same. I don’t find anyone older by more than 5 years to be attractive, they r like a different generation to me. My husband is 2 years younger and it’s perfect to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 04:26 PM
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The first one doesn’t seem attractive after all, since he is scared to drive long distance, and therefore isn’t manly enough. I wouldn’t want someone with this degree of mental problems. I’d pick the second dude with a confident personality as long as he somewhat ok looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 04:07 PM
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😆👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 11:54 PM
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Lol ignore women and you will have them chasing you. How about put your effort in the relationship instead? Might have already had a gf by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 11:49 PM
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I agree it’s not weird to add him on fb or ig. Don’t overthink it. Especially if u have common friends it’s not that unusual to randomly add a person you know in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 08:46 PM
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What a loser. Sounds like a job interview, not a flirty dating game. He will never get a girl with an attitude like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 08:37 PM
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• Working on my diet, incorporating more whole foods and removing processed one. • Started to devote time to take my dog hiking: good exercise for me and good stimulation for the pup. • Experimenting with new hairstyles. • Taking time to re-evaluate my activities and decide whether it is still something I want or doing it out of a habit. • Learning and practicing gardening too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 06:19 PM
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I’m happily married too, but I wish this sub existed years ago and I didn’t do the embarrassing mistakes in my yearly dating years. I’ve done all those things this sub wants you to avoid, such as chasing a man, lowering your standards just not to be alone, hating myself for not being good enough etc. I wish I didn’t have to learn the hard way. Thankfully, I ended up meeting this man and recognizing the things he does to me. Just like in the previous commenter case, my husband had to fly to meet …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 04:57 PM
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Yes! It’s not all about looks. While looks is what grabs attention, your energy is what is capable to keep his attention long term. Thanks for reminding it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 03:05 PM
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Just curious, how old is this person?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 02:33 PM
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Omg rpw is just insane. Most of the stories they post asking advice is where a woman is a complete doormat like a recent post with a woman working all day, coming home doing chores while her bf (not even husband) playing ps4 and working 1 day a week. And she is asking why she isn’t good enough and feeling guilty that she asks him to do laundry because she is at work for 2 shifts. Yeah, how is Red pill working out for u? What a sad silly women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:05 PM
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Those people on the site are not even average men but the lowest trash possible. I agree that we shouldn’t bring their sick fantasies here and discuss it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 04:52 PM
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Well this whole situation it’s a bit awkward. He invited her out, she said “oh, the place is out of my budget” so she already made a statement she is going to split the bill. The guy might thinks she wants to pay for herself (some women actually do and insist on paying for themselves), so he might don’t want to sound pushy or make her uncomfortable and asks to go to a cheaper place instead. The right thing in my opinion, to never even mention the money thing because men are assumed to pay for da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 05:34 PM
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It’s not going to change a cheap man. There’s no value in letting a man know where he messed up. Just leave him wondering what went wrong and why he is suddenly ghosted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 03:16 PM
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You can teach kids, not grown up men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 01:37 PM
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It’s not your job to educate him. No matter what you say to him, he will label you (a very bad word). Move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 01:34 PM
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Don’t ask him to pay. High quality man would never even think about letting a woman he asked on a date to pay. If he is cheap, then “thank u, next”. As a woman who values and respects herself you don’t have time or interest in broke cheap men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 01:30 PM
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Omg! This is hilarious and so accurate it’s funny and scary at the same time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 01:16 PM
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Same applies to everyone in life. Don’t feed energy vampires that get satisfied if they manage to hurt your feelings or make you angry. Put your energy and time into things and people you value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 04:44 PM
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Exactly. Everything they are doing is taking about women all day. If they were to actually go their own way, they might gain more respect to themselves by focusing on other areas of life. But the mgtow community has the lowest quality men there is, sad middle aged losers with financial and mental issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:32 PM
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There are successfully married women in this sub too, because a lot of advice resonates with their own values and strategies that were used while they were dating and choosing the right men. It’s awesome that all women have the access to the knowledge now, thanks to this sub. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:23 PM
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I think the problem is that society has been indoctrinated into believing that woman is inferior to man (many people don’t even consciously acknowledge it because hundreds of years of women suppression have successfully put this information deep into subconscious mind) and the system is designed to benefit man to the maximum. It will take time before more women wake up to their real potential. Until then we will see men getting angry that feminine power is rising and women realize their self wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:06 PM
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But that 85 year old woman’s story.., just wow 😮😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 02:05 AM
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Yes, look at the myth of “hitting a wall”. Men actually hit the wall the hardest, and if he has no resources by age 40 he is basically useless. They dream about reaching 35-40 and have 18 year old girls chasing them. In reality, those 18 year olds are creeped out by these old men. And 40 year old woman that takes care of herself can now easily go out with 25-35 year olds. Mgtow got it all backwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 01:53 AM
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Rpw is indoctrinating you how to stfu and serve your master. FDS is actually showing you to realize your self worth, be the Queen who is in control of her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 01:05 AM
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Practically speaking, seems like the financial aspect is the reason (it includes health insurance, tax returns, assets etc). Other than financial security, maybe a certain status? (though it could be debated, but doesn’t it feel good to have a high value man as your husband).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:49 AM
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Lol your comment made a moid to lose his s***.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 06:49 PM
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How old are you? Because you know if you’ve been with your bf for 9 years since elementary school then you’re about 20y.o., and it’s ok to wait a bit to save for wedding etc. But if you’re over 25 and he still hasn’t proposed, it won’t happen. He probably just end up improving his finances and in a few years will find a younger woman he will marry within a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 06:37 PM
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Most women here want a HIGH VALUE MAN, not a broke boyfriend. Please read the sidebar. Great point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 06:26 PM
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"Boyfriend" "9 years" Unless they’re both 20 y.o. being just a gf for 9 years is sad... What a waste of time! ... and youth .. on someone who doesn’t even want to make you his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 06:20 PM
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He will leave eventually as subconsciously he feels emasculated knowing you pay half... Years ago I dated a guy who always paid for our dates. One night we went out to another city and parked his car not knowing we can’t park there. So it gets towed. He was in a panic, said something like he didn’t have the 300 to get the car. So you guess it, I’m like a “superwoman” come to rescue him and pay to get his car. I feel like a hero I just proved to be a great friend, right? That’s what I thought. We…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 06:14 PM
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”a real woman” who’s been relegated to the gf position for 9yrs 😂😂 That’s an example of when a woman becomes basically a doormat and is too convenient for a man. Works all day, gets home, cleans up and cooks, serves her “master”, performs in bed, and then split bills 50/50 with him. Poor thing. And on top of that, the man doesn’t even bother to put a ring on her finger since this woman has no self worth whatsoever. No thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 06:01 PM
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Make it expensive to waste your time and they will focus on you or find an easier target. From my personal experience, when a man really is into you he will spend money on you, or in other words, invest in you. In other words, if he doesn’t want to contribute to your life financially, he doesn’t find you worth the effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 05:51 PM
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It just means your boundaries interfered with their intentions to take advantage of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 05:29 PM
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We’re in college. You can be 18 or 35 and still be in college.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 09:17 PM
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Yea this one is a bit weird.. What is he vulnerable to? If it’s like being a sensitive guy, then no thanks. I’d rather replace this word with “attentive” or “caring”, but not vulnerable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 03:00 PM
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Because all those traits without a physical attraction will mean you see him as a friend only. Chemistry is still something you can’t replace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 02:55 PM
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Yes! Leave those long paragraphs to your diary, but don’t show the guy you’re hurt cuz it won’t make him suddenly like you, and instead will feed his ego. Silence is power in this case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 10:12 PM
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I was able to let it go because he’s proven himself to be reliable and makes the effort to see me. You guys have been dating a while probably. The above advice about texting applies more to those who are in a very beginning of the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 06:04 PM
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Finally, there is a sub that is actually puts woman’s interest first. It’s funny how if a woman has multiple guys she is a slut, but if a man dated multiple women he is encouraged and called Alfa male etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 08:56 PM
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No one says to run away, hide and block him so he can’t ever reach you. You are missing the point here. It’s about not killing his interest with being too available or easy to get. If he has to work for the privilege to take you out, he will instinctively put more value into you and the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 08:48 PM
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Usually if a guy really likes you he will request a second date immediately. It all sounds you should continue seeing other people. Definitely don’t text him anything, give him space and time to hopefully reach out first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 08:22 PM
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If you need to, start with the easy version (knees on the floor) and work your way up.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 08:17 PM
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Yes, it was a mistake to ask him about his schedule. He has to initiate the second date. And it’s best if you don’t agree to see him right away, let him know you’re in demand and have other plans already. Let him chase you. Men love this sh**. The less available you are the more they start to desire you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 08:14 PM
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You need to chill, sis. You did your part, went out with him, now it’s his job to get YOU to go on another date with him. Be prepared to move on if he doesn’t step up his game and start putting effort in getting to see you again. Read the previous post in this sub: don’t fall for a guy until he proves himself to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 08:09 PM
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I guess 3 times a week a few sets should be good until you get the result you want and after that you can do less frequently just to maintain them. Once you start you will find what works best for your own body. How many real pushups (not the version where you put ur knees on the floor) can you do right now? Check out a video on YouTube how to do them properly.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 07:58 PM
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I enjoy all your posts and the wisdom you share! Thank you for being awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 07:47 PM
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Pushups are awesome, they will target your whole upper body including arms chest abs. Also strength training won’t make you lose weight cuz when you gain muscle you gain weight technically.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 07:37 PM
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Oh I know a woman who dated a guy for years and he was saying marriage is just a piece of paper. Later they broke up and he got married less than a year after. So men know exactly what they are doing, and if he says marriage is not important as long as we love each other, he just doesn’t feel you worth the hassle of getting married, or that you’re a good gf material but not wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 05:12 PM
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You got emotionally attached way too soon. If you aren’t even dating he probably doesn’t have as a strong attraction as you have developed for him. At this point, I would just let him reach out to you on his own, and then don’t respond immediately, and the best thing is to actually start seeing other people and not focusing on him too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 01:43 PM
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She probably saw him online. I see attractive guys on Instagram all the time and don’t know how to show my interest besides leaving a like lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 01:04 PM
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Genetics play a role too, as well as diet and overall lifestyle, life satisfaction etc. There are women and men out there that look much younger than their age, but the overall trend is that both genders age at the same speed. Red pill likes to say how women over 30 have aged eggs and no good anymore, but so are men’s sperm quality declines with age, so it’s not all on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 09:50 PM
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Wow never thought about it this way. It’s eye opening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 07:11 PM
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He looks nasty and unkempt, probably stinks too. The attitude though is a complete junk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 06:46 PM
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😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 06:45 PM
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I believe he could be 43, some men age fast due to genetics or even stressful jobs, or too much smoking and drinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 05:53 PM
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They start going bald, get wrinkles due to not wearing sun screen like women do, they also experience the effect of hormonal changes with age with lower testosterone and therefore they start gaining weight around the waist and boobs become saggy, it takes more effort at the gym than it used to be in their 20s. Let’s be real, men hit the wall at the same rate as women. When I was 20 I didn’t find 30 year old guys attractive let alone 40... and preferred guys my age (21-28).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 05:49 PM
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It’s almost like you need to focus only on 1 aspect, he is either smart or funny, kind or active, respectful or passionate etc, but not all of those things together. It’s nearly impossible to find someone who can check all the points and not have any serious flaws at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 08:36 PM
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The same to me. I discovered vibrator in my early 30s and it’s better pleasure in the way of intensity and quality than any man ever performed. I do however like to be intimate with a man I love , it feels nice to have a partner for emotional connection and stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 08:32 PM
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It’s a different feeling when you’re actually married vs just a gf / baby mama etc. Being a wife gives you a different status and security. What if he dies (god forbid, anything can happen), then you r technically nobody to him from the legal point of view unless u live in certain states that recognize community marriage (or whatever it’s called). Another example that might be not related to you but still, if you ever decide to vacation in Maldives, they won’t let you stay in the same room (u wo…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 09:51 PM
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Why is it advised not to text for a long time, including a bit of sexting? Wouldn’t it make him crave you more?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 08:00 PM
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I remember seeing a picture of my first ex that I dated in my teen years. Now, 10 years later he looks like a loser and after chatting to him a few minutes I thought how could I be in love with him, he isn’t even my type. I was very depressed when he broke up with me back then, but I thank him now for doing it and letting me go to get a better life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 07:25 PM
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I agree with previous comments, I didn’t see anything sexual. The pic doesn’t give any suspicious vibe at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 03:43 PM
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Dates should be fun and entertaining. If it starts feel like a part time job, it’s time to move your attention to other areas of your life, and take a break, do some hobbies instead. Put it on hold at least temporarily so you replenish your energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 01:25 PM
4

Should we ever compliment a guy, like telling him he is hot? If u have a crush on him, should you make sure he doesn’t know it , especially if he hasn’t fall for u yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 01:17 PM
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We need some education on how to flirt in person because honestly a lot of first contacts happens online, so many women don’t even know how to flirt to someone you haven’t been introduced to yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 09:19 PM
1

How to stop the brain from falling in love with its own fantasy? I want to be more realistic but fall in the trap of my mind all the time. It almost seems like a live in a fantasy world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 04:20 PM
2

What apps would you recommend instead of bumble?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 01:10 AM
1

If we’re not wired to fall in love this way, then why do we fall in love with someone we never met in person? It happened to me multiple times😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 01:04 AM
5

My favorite sub where women are actually supporting women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 12:43 AM
2

Oh yes, good point! Sugar does have the ability to mess with collagen, and we need our collagen to look young with good skin and no wrinkles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 07:59 PM
11

Maybe he doesn’t want anything serious with anyone in general, not just with you. Don’t take it personal. If you’re looking for serious relationship, then guys like him don’t worth your time, no matter their financial status.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 07:04 PM
3

I would also add that removing sugar from the diet works amazingly: you lose weight without even trying to cut portions, your skin looks better and you feel more emotionally stable. I still eat deserts but my rule is no more than 25g of sugar a day (including sugar from sauces etc). It’s amazing how much it changed my health (physical and mental).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 06:31 PM
4

Very cruel in my opinion. You could have declined the offer instead of doing this mean thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 06:12 PM
4

She can’t enter the country without a visa. You probably confuse a visa with a green card.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/19 05:27 PM
9

Maybe she doesn’t know if those hobbies are what she actually likes, or she just do it cuz everyone else around does.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/19 12:53 PM
10

It’s too expensive... to be single.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/19 01:12 PM
8

I guess you qualify then.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/19 01:11 PM
29

What’s wrong with construction business? I don’t get it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/19 01:08 PM
24

Mental health is tricky. If one hasn’t been diagnosed it doesn’t mean they don’t have serious mental issues. So you will have to screen them yourself pretty much.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/19 08:40 PM
6

Correct. As a 30 y.o. she was born in late 80s, it makes her a millennial. Baby boomers were born in 40s, 50s, 60s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/19 05:24 PM
2

I’m 100% 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 08:32 PM
4

Probably from different men too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/19 03:02 PM
6

Dieting doesn’t work. How can you temporarily restrict calories but later go back to ur old style of eating and expect not to get fat? The fat lady who wants to get skinny should look up what lifestyle lean women have. It’s not about dieting it’s about having a healthy lifestyle overall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/19 02:31 PM
8

Yes, be polite but keep your life private. I’ve been there and it’s better to stay out of their circle because otherwise it will drain your energy.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/19 01:52 PM
7

Wow the story is heartbreaking, there is so much pain and regret in her voice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/19 01:00 AM
23

This is a great comment! Having more than 1 partner is a waste of time and energy. I would rather have quality over quantity. Investing yourself into many people is not for me. I would rather work on my relationship with one person and make it stronger, have more memories together, work on our goals or my own hobbies and goals.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 01:34 PM
1

30F. I don’t watch it anymore, cuz it no longer interests me. When I watched it years ago I liked 3d, role plays with a story line, hardcore, bdsm, and big boobs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 05:02 PM
10

It’s probably means that women generally don’t need sex every day especially when have been married a while. Most or some men prefer sex more often than their wife/gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:10 PM
2

I avoid taking anything that messes with hormones. So my only birth control methods are condoms (I actually don’t mind them at all), sometimes “pull outs”, and in my safe days I use no protection. I know my body well by now since my period is very consistent.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/19 01:39 AM
1

Lol 😆
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/19 01:28 AM
6

Since men are perfectly capable to control their urge to sleep around there is no excuse to cheat knowing how much emotional pain it would cause to his wife. If man loves his wife and actually respects her he will have enough will power to stay loyal.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 05:27 PM
3

We don’t know the whole situation. What if the guy sincerely regrets about his actions and has learned from it. OP didn’t say what age they r. I mean if the guy is only 19 y.o. it’s a bit of a different story than it being a mature 35 y.o. man. So I agree I would never judge the whole situation without knowing the details and personalities involved.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 05:21 PM
29

It wouldn’t bother me if my man is concerned about my financial spending if he provides for me. So unless he pays your bills it’s none of his business how you spend the money you earn.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 05:06 PM
8

So, does he suddenly want you to step out of stay at home mom role and work? Things like this should be discussed between spouses.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 04:59 PM
3

Traveling has become a trend. It’s like something you suppose to do to stay relevant.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 03:50 PM
31

I believe pretty girls can get away with bad attitude or at least people are willing to forgive them way more than an average or ugly looking girl. For someone who is so so it’s important to have a pleasant personality to compensate for unlucky bad genes.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/19 12:33 AM
2

It’s not always like that, just once in a while.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 05:05 PM
14

I need a day off sometimes too.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 02:57 PM
10

My husband got used to me making breakfast, so the day I don’t feel like cooking he gets mad. I might have spoiled him.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 11:48 AM
1

Doesn’t matter to me, both options are fine. F
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 04:38 PM
2

Also i assume the reason a 20f would date 40m is his resources/money. But I know plenty of 25 28y.o. males that already situated with careers, own house car etc. So there’s no point to marry a man who will widow u at 50-60. Having much younger gf is more like a fantasy of red pilled men. The reality tells a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 02:55 PM
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I didn’t know anyone in my circle who would be with 40 y.o. while being 21yo, cuz it’s kinda gross to date someone your DAD’s age! 30 y.o. is ok though cuz there’s more things in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 02:47 PM
1

I agree with ur statement. I just wanted to clarify what does “much older” means in this case? Like 10, 15, or 20 years older?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 02:43 PM
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I agree. Don’t you have an instinct to protect people you love and care about? Like wtf is wrong with people who say it makes sense to be a coward rather than being dead. How would someone respect himself knowing he/she ran away like a coward?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 02:21 PM
2

My husband is the type of people who would get in the fight even if it was some stranger getting harassed let alone his wife, friend etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 02:13 PM
2

When I was in my early 20s I would consider 35 year old man to be too old for me, and unattractive. Only now being in my early 30s I can relate to a 30 y. o. obviously. So I think this rule with dating someone half age plus 7 is absurd.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/19 05:03 PM
5

It’s fine when you’re younger and this rule seem to make sense, but things would change if we talk about 80 year old man who according to this rule should date a 47 year old woman. It’s kinda weird.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/19 04:57 PM
4

I didn’t see this comment before I posted my reply, and I absolutely agree with you. I find it makes more sense to be with someone who is about your age so you can relate more to each other like age at the same time, go through life stages together.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/19 04:52 PM
3

Since women generally live longer than men, I don’t see why a 30 year old woman would marry 46 year old man to end up a widow by age 55-60. I think it makes more sense to stick to your age group, like young adult with young adult, middle aged with middle aged, and seniors with seniors. Well unless someone has a preference to be with much older or younger partner.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/19 04:46 PM
4

I agree. I used to dress up more but it doesn’t match my lifestyle anymore. I used to put more effort in looking feminine and dolled up when I was single. I no longer wear heels simply cuz it’s not practical in my life. I just make sure to still look somewhat attractive and fresh but dresses and heels just don’t suit my lifestyle. And I agree that there’s more to femininity than clothes, and you can look super feminine wearing activewear. It all depends on your personal style.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 05:05 PM
5

Been there. Try to stay positive and understand that it might be the time for a new beginning. Who knows, ur new love might be on the way and you need to clear up the space in your life for the love of your life. Everything happens for a reason. Focus on other areas of your life, take care of yourself and your needs.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/19 12:37 AM
1

Hate HOA, really didnt want to buy a house in a subdivision with hoa but was in a rash. Have already had multiple complains from the nosy neighbors (mostly bored with life retired folks that have nothing better to do in their life than drive around and look for a reason to complain). Our next house will be without hoa. At the moment we'll just have to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 09:29 PM
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