mystylejay Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Smth Girls can't understand...	Fundamentals	mystylejay	/r/seduction	23/11/21 09:59 PM
0	GF and friend with benefit: it's time to end.	Field Report	mystylejay	/r/seduction	15/10/21 06:31 AM

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1	Is a woman calling a guy "pretty" really a compliment? Don't care about appearance. the best compliment a woman can give you is a sweet insult. When she does, this means that she cares about you, she feels intimate. edit: I have recently met a girl: one day trip alone in the woods. We met (she was also alone), and we decided to have a short walk together (we were both on a job trip abroad, last day,free day). Then she dove into the (fucking freezing) mountain lake,while I waited for her. Then we had lunch together. Then she started to tell me "how a…	/r/seduction	05/10/22 07:06 PM
1	Is going out alone even productive/worth it? For me going alone is totally fine and, in many cases, even more productive. We have a saying: many birds don't make a nest.	/r/seduction	26/06/22 09:58 AM
1	Can you actually say whatever you want to women? Im which sense? Please elaborate. During hook-up it is always better to pay attention to what you are saying. You can be spontaneous but choosing "the best" version of yourself. As you create intimacy and connection, you can drop your "best self", by progressively showing also the other sides of you. However the process is slow, a long roadmap and several important milestones:)	/r/seduction	22/06/22 11:29 AM
1	How do guys feel about their arm being held? I don't have a specific technique for that:D this? https://images.app.goo.gl/VT1uSscZuX2U1pks9	/r/seduction	19/06/22 08:14 PM
3	How do guys feel about their arm being held? There's no rule. Every couple develops its own gestures and practices. Finding the right one, of course, might take some time. In the meamwhile, just relax: try to understand if there is smth that the other is realle hating(so to avoid), but don't be overattentive: you also have wishes, and he should pay the same attention to you as you ar to him;) Don't repress your personality,never;) PS I also am not for holding hands. I prefer holding waists.	/r/seduction	19/06/22 08:24 AM
2	No idea how to flirt. I used to practice in multiple settings -With friends, sharing the very same motivation as you (and maybe even more annoying and resilient and stubborn than you would be) -Alone, not with the aim of succeeding, but with the purpose of having another thrilling story about a big NO to tell your friends -Supporting your wingman that is interested in a girl: in that case if other girls are around, you can take it ad annoppprtunity rather than a risk	/r/seduction	17/06/22 07:34 PM
2	No idea how to flirt. I reccomend everyone to read The Game(novel) and The Rules of The Game (manual), to be read in this order. I was a total zero with girls. Actually I was an "imbalanced" player over so many aspects for the simple reason that no one told me how to do stuff. Then someone is telling you: "hey, there are rules and tricks and best practices. It's not magic, you need practice and exercise" And at the end of the journey,you realise that the 80% of the stuff is crap. But the 20% is pure gold..	/r/seduction	17/06/22 07:28 PM
1	Do you guys think women value looks or money more? There are women who value looks more, and others who value money. Not necessarily 50-50 But the question is pointless IMO. The true question is: which kind of woman dp YOU value more?	/r/seduction	15/06/22 02:06 PM
5	Should guy text first after sex? This. 1)You are not arm wrestling, so you can be generous even with nothing in turn 2)She made the decisive move. Now it is totally up to you. You must!	/r/seduction	13/06/22 02:02 PM
1	Looking to create a group, where we would do day game and improve our photos. NYC only 😅	/r/seduction	12/06/22 06:11 PM
3	Looking to create a group, where we would do day game and improve our photos. NYC only Yeah me too. I have learned it from How I met Your Mother... :D	/r/seduction	11/06/22 09:01 AM
3	What is game does it really work "The Game" says : there's nothing you can do to make a girl,who does not want to lay with you, lay with you. But there are 1000 things that you can do to make a girl, who might want to lay with you, not to lay with you. The Game is about avoiding these 1000 things. And in such a way, the distinction b/w neutral,receptive,umreceptive ones is minor stuff	/r/seduction	09/06/22 06:53 PM
1	Did my first cold approach today Yeah, sure. I am quite experienced, now. And I have just tried a couple of approaches (just for fun) 2 days ago. They went terribly, but I was with friends and we enjoyed anyways. Also: don't forget to try approaches with "B-series" targets. Not only gorgeous babes but also "normal ones";-). This is reducing your anxiety Btw great book. It makes the difference. Go on!	/r/seduction	08/06/22 06:57 AM
2	Does playing hot and cold work with women work? This. When you give attention to women, what you are actually doing is pursuing your interests. When women want your attention, they make you pursuing their ones.	/r/seduction	07/06/22 07:06 PM
1	I approached this girl, she sent me a lot of mixed signals but today I think I found out that I’m in the friendzone I know the feeling. If I were in my teens, I would definitely try to catch her before the summer starts. I did that and I got rejected. I soon forgot her, and spent a nice summer. Now, I would just give up, finding better fishes to catch You choose:)	/r/seduction	07/06/22 07:02 PM
1	Do you consider guys around the age of 30(28-31)weirdos if they haven’t kissed a girl, lost their virginity or maybe never had a girlfriend? Mostly yes, but I do not judge:)	/r/seduction	07/06/22 05:50 AM
0	Why do girls follow or coming to your place but won’t sex? This never happened to me in this way, but I happened to host girl at my place, create sexual tension and just not go beyond. We always did on the second time. Sometimes theyjust want to check that you can wait, while they are getting confident with your spaces. Your spaces, with tjeir props, like books, gin bottles, papers on which you write, the food you cook, the tools of your hobbies are creating connection for you. Esploit this!	/r/seduction	07/06/22 05:49 AM
1	Does oral sex(or more specifically face-f***ing count)? my competition score table was fuck 3pts oral sex/etc 2 pts kissing -1 pt (yeah negative) So you scored a 2:)	/r/seduction	07/06/22 05:44 AM
-14	So I am a police officer, very pretty girl, no BS. I was told I am 8-9. Why guys are afraid to approach me and just say hi, or is it the idea of dating a cop is scary? Hi, I am overseas (EU) not US. And I'd tell you that dating a cop wouldn't be a problem at all. And maybe, dating a US cop would even be kind of a fantasy;) But maybe for you over there it is different, and men are intimidated by "strong women". How to bypass this?Typically irony is a good weapon. We know you are 8/9. How about your soft skills?;)	/r/seduction	07/06/22 05:42 AM
1	Feminism taught me that women like men more than men like women (in general) and that women are more attracted to men in a more well rounded way, across the world and throughout history. and....?	/r/seduction	07/06/22 05:36 AM
4	Hi! Im M21 looking for a soulmate. But I’m struggling to find one Soulmate at 21? Never heard of it...	/r/seduction	06/06/22 10:07 PM
4	How can I meet any girls when I don't have friends to go out with? This. These are things that really lead me to meet new people and ate with girls -dance lessons -theatre lessons and amateur playing -climbing classes -creating sports group and doing activities all together(e.g. hiking) I never dated a girl from college or university:D A warning: I did all the aformentioned activities because I liked them, not because I was chasing girls! Girls andr friends are a consequence. Go for farming,not for hunting;-)	/r/seduction	29/05/22 05:45 PM
29	Are most hot women boring as fuck or have I just been unlucky? Dude, you wrote a lot putting a good amount of frustration in your words. But the answer is in the question. Why do you approach beautiful women? You are dating hot babes AND tHEN you realise how empty they are(which,btw, does not hold for hot babes for sure). Why not trying to approach babes you feel a connection with? b.t.w. The most gorgeus babe I dated was a total dumb. But it makes sense: I got her for her huge tits not for her tiny brain:)	/r/seduction	27/05/22 05:52 AM
0	I still haven’t had the courage to cold approach women Try reading "The game" (novel) and "The rule of the game"(manual), both by Neil strauss. They helped me a lot. The first, cast me in a "ludic universe", where dating is pictured as a Game, understanding that has hidden rules and methods that you can learn, and ultimately if you fail is not because you are wrong: you are just missing smthing that for someone else is obvious. The first helps you to build step-by-step confidence just as other people here advised: idle chit chat with, asking for adv…	/r/seduction	24/05/22 06:13 PM
2	If she tells you she needs to check if she has plans after you asked her out and doesn't tell you if she has until the day before the date? What's the point, dude? Did she accepted the date or not? If she did, she wanted to If she did not, she did not want to Delay in the aswer is...who knows? Uncertainy? Multiple dates? why do you care?	/r/seduction	21/05/22 05:41 PM
1	Is Money Worth the Wait? This. All true. Most of all: before dating a woman, learn how to deal with women, make them feel comfortable and wish to spend time with you. Once this happens,dating is just one step away. Good luck.	/r/seduction	17/05/22 04:32 PM
3	Men's fascination with male genitalia makes me upset. This	/r/seduction	16/05/22 02:08 PM
1	How to act after a rejection? You know dude, most answers really depends on your age. How old are you? Are you in you 18s or in your 30s?	/r/seduction	15/05/22 08:13 AM
3	Girl sent me a friend-zone text. How was my response? Would like to know for learning purposes. Dude, your answer is good. But the answer is only half of the game. What you are doing next is what it really matters. My one role is never tell what I am doing(verbal communication)Just do it. People will perhaps understand(analogical communication) IF you had a crush on her, and you desperately need to see her, then stop seein her. You would be just hurting yourself. IF she was just "a" girl and you think you can be good friends, then go for it. Especially if she might help you in hooking othe…	/r/seduction	13/05/22 08:25 AM
2	Am i being used As others here just said, FWB is mostly about "sex only". So yes, you are used, but in the same amount you use him. FWB works only if you have a good "social portfolio", as I call it. If you have your own life projects, friends, space for social validation, then you can also afford one (or more!) FWB. But if your life starts orbiting too much around the FWB, you have a problem.	/r/seduction	21/03/22 12:04 AM
1	I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspective Why? I am quite new, and also repost are useful to me. Yep it is a bit lame. And yep it sounds quite fake. But it is interesting atuff don't you think? How many times have you been deceived by girls? And still you learne smth. Just one more truth hiddein in falsity	/r/seduction	16/11/21 08:13 PM
1	Is 25 too late to start game? 25 too late? Put your head out of your ass, dude.	/r/seduction	08/11/21 02:36 PM
3	How do I make the first move? just remember that the first time you make sex with a girl can be "from terrible to mostly ok" For the "amazing-terrific" range you have to get to next times. :D	/r/seduction	07/11/21 10:59 AM
1	[deleted by user] Ask yourself what you will change in the future.	/r/seduction	30/10/21 12:49 AM
2	Body language while Making Eye contact with a girl? What is your advice Forget about body language to hook up. If you really want to tune your gestures, observe someone else at work. If you can't spot anyone really worth of, it means it is not so critical.	/r/seduction	29/10/21 04:34 PM
9	[deleted by user] My worst love crushes started with girls telling me "I love you,you are perfect for me". Girls who are emotionally involved will create the biggest damage, if the love is not possible.	/r/seduction	27/10/21 04:45 AM
102	How do I avoid boyfriend vibes? It's why universal questions are done by everyone, while universal answers are given by the few:-)	/r/seduction	26/10/21 03:02 PM
1	A trick I've found works great for getting women What's a cane? :-) you mean... a walking stick?	/r/seduction	25/10/21 08:20 AM
0	[deleted by user] harassing... that sounds very american:) I quote your first rrason hiwever	/r/seduction	24/10/21 07:45 AM
4	[deleted by user] Agree. She is just a bored cat looking for a small mouse to play with. You will get involved, have some passionate sex, but she will backup on her family when she will decide to do that. Keep your workplace a "safe zone"	/r/seduction	24/10/21 07:43 AM
3	I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before. If she did unsergo major changes, she will pop up in a more consistent way than with a youtube song.	/r/seduction	23/10/21 07:11 AM
2	I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before. Could not be more true:-) No major changes=the same shit	/r/seduction	23/10/21 07:09 AM
2	How can I change the way I see myself ? As I read if you see yourself as confident you will be confident . So how can I change the way I see myself thanks guys . Thanks guys IMO "self confidence" is way too broad as a concept. Brad Pitt or Jack Sparrow are both confidrnt but in totally different ways. FOR me it worked asking "in which field do I miss self confidence?" EXAMPLE I was brillant,cunning, a good entrtainer. BUT... girls were not looking for just an entertainer. I understood that "entertainment" was a)my talent and b) a comfort zone, and I decided to step out. HOW? What is an enterteiner afraid of? Loosing the approval of his audience. And ultimately....th…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 07:12 PM
1	GF and friend with benefit: it's time to end. That's weird. Scene1 Q: why are women doing the selection and not men?(=men wanna fuck every woman but not the other way) A: coz for a men is a 5(!) minute deal, whereas for a woman it could be a 9months+many yrs one. I understand.But: Scene2 Q:why doea it aound weird for a man to have one of his women lay wirh smone else? A: coz you might find an (unknown) child which is not yours. The philosophy is pretty much the same, but I do not "feel" the second one. I feel I am just jelaus of the orgasms…	/r/seduction	20/10/21 09:35 AM
1	GF and friend with benefit: it's time to end. paternity scare? In which sense?:-)	/r/seduction	19/10/21 02:11 PM
1	GF and friend with benefit: it's time to end. Of course. Seduction is light yrs away from "begging for a chance". But that's another story. 😎	/r/seduction	19/10/21 02:10 PM
2	GF and friend with benefit: it's time to end. I mean, ultimately we live in a society where the monogamic relationship ia preferred. So yes, the traditional couple is "stable"=encouraged by society, and growing up xhildren etx. Fluid relationships="less stable"=require much more dynamism. And in the long time it may end Also money is important. Mel Gibson has 9 sons from many distinc wives:-D I bet being rich helps!	/r/seduction	19/10/21 10:52 AM
1	21m - had first kiss on Tinder date but can't decide if I should see her again Great to hear that!!! The last thing YOU said is the golden rule ever😎	/r/seduction	19/10/21 10:42 AM
1	GF and friend with benefit: it's time to end. Ahah, not "anagraphically old"(37). I mean I am just tired (I did the trick other times in my life) and it is time to hang up the boots:-)	/r/seduction	15/10/21 08:31 AM
1	GF and friend with benefit: it's time to end. 🤣 I ll keep it in mind,bro!	/r/seduction	15/10/21 08:26 AM
3	21m - had first kiss on Tinder date but can't decide if I should see her again Wow, that's great story! Dude, you definitely need to date her again. I mean: NOW, the next w.e.. write her shen finished reading this post! Consider ○Yes, you are unexperienced(I was till 24...). There is no dance lessons to attend, you just have to go and dance. You will learn. ○lacking self co fidence is normal. Build it. How? Make your own decision, and learn from them,be bad or good. Do not wait for other approval (too much) ○girls at that age are still more self aware than boys. Trust her,…	/r/seduction	15/10/21 06:44 AM
2	Vanilla & not so vanilla. I agree on a point: on a subconscious level, people think fantasy<->porn<->slut On this I share my 2 cents with you:-) But fuck off fantasy: let's promote fantasy to wish, and wish to reality wish<->eroticism<->intimacy	/r/seduction	13/10/21 07:37 PM
3	Vanilla & not so vanilla. It is hard, but not impossible. HARD WHY? 1) You may definitely like different things: I have known girls getting wet when treated as slaves(with trust) and others when treated as princesses. The same is for men. 2)Very few people have a real sexual self-awareness. They split their life in "good dating"(girls you can have children with) and "dirty dating"(girls to have sex with). 3)Few people have experience or enough self-confidence to try something new with no fear to fall from a "good dating"…	/r/seduction	13/10/21 04:02 PM
1	Vanilla & not so vanilla. Totally DO NOT AGREE Erotic games/fantasy/intimacy IS NOT porn	/r/seduction	13/10/21 03:43 PM
2	Girl I almost hooked up with moved to another town but comes back in three weeks - how do I keep her interested? Yep exactly. Seduction is.mostly about hunting And you already did that. Relationships are mostly about farming, and the life has its own to say there...	/r/seduction	12/10/21 11:41 AM
2	Girl I almost hooked up with moved to another town but comes back in three weeks - how do I keep her interested? Prepare for HELL or HEAVEN, dude. I had many long-distance relationships. Some of them lasted for years, some others just for a few months or even weeks. If both of you are interested, it won't be difficult to find your balance. But if she is not, and she finds the distance too difficult to handle, and she gets INTERESTED IN NEW BOYS, you are done. In THIS CASE either she wil tell you(uncommon), or (most probably) you will be forced to understand on your own, slowly, like in an AGONY. ADVICE: -b…	/r/seduction	12/10/21 09:51 AM
2	[deleted by user] there is a quite simple way to discern: se if she is acting the same with everyone, or just/mostly with you. In any case physical contact is often useful: other girls will notice that you are intimate with her and your social value will rise. Win win for both of you. it s called board game.	/r/seduction	09/10/21 11:35 AM
3	Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing. I guess this group exists FOR A REASON, which is an obvious YES to your question. take care;-)	/r/seduction	07/10/21 07:46 PM
1	The free meal buzzard Split the bill man, and be honest with you. If you are sure she's just interested in the meal, just quit the date. If you are sure she's interested in the meal just because she does not go for bowling....well, it s time for you to level-up (from neanderthal to style-sapiens) If you are so suspiciuous and just wanna fuck her,probably that'll be love: you both wanna steal smth from the other one...	/r/seduction	03/10/21 10:26 PM
1	How do you rank yourself in terms of attractiveness? What is the point? You are just asking numbers, with no info on the "seduction effectiveness" or somethink like that. I can tell you either 10 o 4, what does it matter?	/r/seduction	29/09/21 05:42 AM
1	What do you do when a girl stares at you? Smile, right?	/r/seduction	28/09/21 01:18 PM
1	Phone number Vs Instagram It WOULD BE BETTER to ask for her pants directly.	/r/seduction	26/09/21 05:25 PM
8	[deleted by user] Hope you are a really handsome guy, leaving lots of girls free for us. Btw scuba coirses are full of girls...	/r/seduction	24/09/21 09:18 PM
1	[deleted by user] What are you waiting for? A written invitation on the imperial coach? Post it!!!!!! you have nickname for a reason...holy virgen...	/r/seduction	24/09/21 09:16 PM
15	[deleted by user] You can bet it, bro. AND DO NOT REST ON YOUR LAURELS! You probably need 2/ 3 women to feel totally comfortable.	/r/seduction	23/09/21 10:12 PM
1	Is it just me or do women evaluate what you are now, not so much your potential You choose the restaurant basing on how good the chef cooks the meat, not on how s/he might be good at cooking it one day. So, yes: always have a nice, fresh dish to catch customers. It"s not only for women, it is for everyone. If, in addition, you show you are progressively improving your menu, your customers will be more and more excited, and will build a stronger link with you. Short story long: I can wait for your potential to explode, but in the meanwhile give me a snack of it.	/r/seduction	23/09/21 04:06 PM
1	[deleted by user] Give a glimpse of realities she will never know....for sure it works;-)	/r/seduction	22/09/21 07:46 PM
-7	[deleted by user] It pretty much depends on how you are, how you look like, and how do you behave. Without that, an accurate answer is hard. But... Try a mixture of this: understand you are not meant to entertain her. You wanna sleep with her. -get credit: make her believe that you had interesting dates,experience, etc. " Wanna help with knots? Sorry, but am bad Really at this...you can ask my last girlfriend..(with whom you had a bondage session)" -use contact: show that you know when to touch her,hug her, dista…	/r/seduction	22/09/21 04:59 PM
1	I just Meet a beautiful girl. She works in a new store near my house. Im so shy, how can approach her? I agree. workers can be measliding. Once I got rejected by a receptionist (who was really interested in me) just because I made my move on her workplace.	/r/seduction	22/09/21 04:43 PM
36	[deleted by user] The solution is in the question, not in the answer. Why do you not feel a "man"? What is a man for you, and why you think you are not? Which goals will make you feel like "a man"? How much do women matter in your "manship diet"? 100%? 50%? 10%? State a prototype a man you would like to be (not Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise, dude....those are tough stuff, mostly driven by marketing)	/r/seduction	21/09/21 06:30 PM
3	How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo? Dude, never read "afternight" by Murakami? The whole story starts with a person reading a book in bar... Some hints -Do not stay there indefinitely. Establish a timeout(30 mimutes, a beer,etc), especially the first times. -Talk to the bartender, if possible. He/She will act as connection (and it is also hos/her job) -Become an habitual customer of the bar. People will start knowing you, you will get confident with the settings. -Reading a book is nice, but only if your purpose is actually readin…	/r/seduction	21/09/21 02:23 PM
1	How do you approach girls in the gym? In the gymI used to -Become friend with the trainer( that's easy) Then use the trainer to know other people. -Know people in general, then use them to know the ones matters to you. -Be ironic, not an alpha male! "today I would kist like to go home and splash on the sofa...do you mind lliftin it in my place?" -Negging someone particularly ridiculous with her or someone cloae to her (the Hulk-like guy stole all the weighs, and you say "uhm, we will have to bring stuff from home next Ti.e, coz Hulk…	/r/seduction	17/09/21 11:08 PM
1	[deleted by user] Your are far better than me at your age. So relax. three rules: 1-do not take rejection as a judgment on yourself. 2-Rejection hurts all the times: get used to it. The more you get rejected, the more you will change (at least at your stage). 3-The other people are looking what they want and what they are just as you do. Focus on yourself, not on the others. Co P.s. eager to see if you will be better than me at my age...ahahahah;-)	/r/seduction	17/09/21 06:10 PM
3	[deleted by user] Don't. Choose another girl, for various reasons -respect she is not interested in you (now) -she is not the only girl in the world. She is just the one you first spoke to. -your social skills are probably like a wooden spear in a world populated of laser blasters. Not a big issue, but... practice with others, first. Collect ideas, topics, expose yourself to the life and level up.	/r/seduction	17/09/21 05:13 PM
1	[deleted by user] You are following the wrong style model for men, dude. Keep on reading and tell.me what u thinkB-) 1 my wrist size is pretty much the same as your one. We are called "ectomorphous" somatotipes. Brad Pitt is a "mesomorphous" somatotype 2 we all would like to be like Brad Pitt. 3 I have slipped pants to many girls. Guess who?The ones who would neve lay with Brad Pitt(example,bisexual) Conclusion: Brad Pitt (& co) do are excellent fuckers as they are the prototype of the alpha male. But... being an…	/r/seduction	16/09/21 09:42 PM
1	How to be confident when dick size crushes self-esteem? In the wondeful city I live in, there is a nice saying. "small and playful" It's about everything,not just the dick. Small car? Small and playful Small dick? small and playful Small dog? Small and playful Small lollipo? Smal and playful etc etc etc Change your narrative boy. if I were 40cm long I would not be here replying you;-)	/r/seduction	15/09/21 05:37 PM
1	[deleted by user] a lot of overthinking	/r/seduction	14/09/21 11:40 PM
1	I feel so angry and dissappointed because of approach anxiety maybe there is smth u can change.... let's work ot out together a few questions: -how old are u? -what is your setting?(big city,small town, park,shops, etc) -what kind of cold apprpach do you use? -when do you realise your cold approach is failed?	/r/seduction	14/09/21 11:38 PM
1	I feel so angry and dissappointed because of approach anxiety I agree. Cold approach is not trivial, just because of the same reason why acting on a stage is hard: you pretend to be someone you are not. So failure is compulsory. To handle failure, be compassionate with yourself. Do not overblame you.	/r/seduction	14/09/21 08:20 PM
1	[deleted by user] Hi dude. All that glitters is not gold, for sure. Once I opened a bootcamp with friends, at very reasonable fees. We wanted to look professional, but never to sound like "gurus". What we sold, was not only the "theory"(of which now intermet is plenty), but we created a group. What people really enjoyed was the sense of brothership and common destiny we created. We made people speak the same language, act the same way, enjoy together, discuss together. We were linked to the territory: it does not…	/r/seduction	13/09/21 09:27 PM
12	How do you not feel a lack of self-worth when it comes to women? These are the most common feelings, dude. Believe me or not, until 28 I was just like you. I decided to change, and after just 2 yrs, girls found me attractive. What worked for me? -you are the price, you are the price, you are the price -you are the price,so you decide when to stop a conversation with a girl (politely, of course) -you are the price, so if she is not pissing you, you are not insisting. -you are the price, and a wonderful person. So it s a privilege for girla to spend time with y…	/r/seduction	13/09/21 12:08 PM
1	How can I (F18) get past the banter stage when flirting? Use a combination of things: - flatter/compliment people, but without being fake - introduce people with each other,if possible: you will be so active part in the social texture. -push and stop (not because it is going nowhere, but because you decide that) -make small steps: do not want to finalize all in one party, but build your game through different ones. This will avoid extra pressure on you, making you more comfortable with others. -Try to understand if you can be someone's wing-partner. H…	/r/seduction	12/09/21 04:33 PM
1	What to talk about with a girl on a date? To attune the answer to you, we need to know: -is this your first date? -if not, there was smth in your last one that went wrong and made you concern about small-talks? -if yes, well...first of all CONGS;-)	/r/seduction	08/09/21 03:17 PM
2	[deleted by user] Start from.the classics, dude. Read "The Game", breath the atmosphere, play the game, lose many times, maybe win once. decide what you want the others to tell about you.	/r/seduction	07/09/21 08:43 AM
3	What's one dating advice that didn't work for you and what did you learn from it? I have never used alcohol as panty-dropper but I should! A lot of girls (even my partners) told me that a little bit of alcohol helped them in a few situations.... of course you don't need to make them drunk, but just a little bit uninhibited;-)	/r/seduction	07/09/21 08:39 AM
3	[deleted by user] Totally right, ground stories do matter. But I hate the kind of "when-I-went-to-the-moon-people", that is people who did more than you, or the same as you but earlier ,bigger, and better.	/r/seduction	07/09/21 08:33 AM
2	Fashion is a big part of the seduction. So who do you follow for men fashion ? my answer in 5 steps Step #1: raise your "ground state", that is your everyday style. New Balance sneakers are better than nike trainers (unless you are really doing workout) T-shirts can be stylish, but only if in plain colors (no text, or colorful drawing). Use polo t-shirt. Wear shirts, and do it casually (not only for big events): Roll your sleaves, learn when tu tuck/untuck. Step#2: accessorize!!!!! Use bangles,bracelets,rings. Try a lot, feel it, test it, change ot according to season (I w…	/r/seduction	07/09/21 08:01 AM
3	How to approach a girl in a crowd? Yes, this worked for me a couple of times. I was extroverted but I had "low striking corfficient" with girls (i.e. I did not k ow how to hit them in a crowd). So I used to "bend the social network" to my purpose, e.g. create group events,pic nics, trkkings, going on discos. If she is not coming, this is kind of way of filtering out and you already have an anwser:)	/r/seduction	05/09/21 12:19 PM
1	How to be likeable/attractive from the very start? First, answer this question: what do you miss? if you tell us what you (believe) you miss, we might show you the way to get what you want	/r/seduction	25/07/21 01:18 PM
2	The concept of ALPHA is created for men, not for women.Do not be an ALPHA to hit on girls. I agree. ALPHAs are overrated. They are just A prototype of "successfull man", not THE prototype.	/r/seduction	21/06/21 06:11 PM