| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | Victim mentality to avoid responsibility 101 | Debate | n_o_inspiration | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 09:24 PM |
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| -1 | Victim mentality to avoid responsibility 101Supply and demand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Victim mentality to avoid responsibility 101It's so interesting that you actually think that's the standard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:55 AM |
| 0 | Victim mentality to avoid responsibility 101I absolutely agree, keep in mind whatever topic I comment and talk about here is what I've noticed in the sub, my experiences in real life are nothing like what I see on here. I do this for fun tho. But again, 100% that generally people who constantly complain are not people I wanna be around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:48 AM |
| 0 | Victim mentality to avoid responsibility 101Wouldn't the ones who have to settle with someone lower on the scale be the "inferior" one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:38 AM |
| -1 | Victim mentality to avoid responsibility 101What are you talking about, how does that answer my question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 10:34 PM |
| 0 | Victim mentality to avoid responsibility 101I've seen a guy with no arms or legs with his wife. Make yourself interesting enough where there's something you can talk about. How do you usually approach girls, what's something you say to start a conversation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Victim mentality to avoid responsibility 101And then what? What happens to people who don't end up with someone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Victim mentality to avoid responsibility 101Considering how low the actual percentage of women were simping for that guy, it's ridiculous to say it's an accurate representation of the majority of the population | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Victim mentality to avoid responsibility 101Yeah since it both consists of biology and environment, you would work on your environment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 10:22 PM |
| 1 | The "bare minimum" is not the same as a low standardMinimum safety standard is not enough to pass regulation anymore. It needs an upgrade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 09:49 PM |
| -3 | Victim mentality to avoid responsibility 101Maybe, but I've only noticed men complaining, it's not an issue that women really talk about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women.No, bless your heart. Explain how exactly have women created an environment that leads to patriarchy. I'm willing to hear the other side out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women.Oh ok, walk me through it please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women.Are you sure you're responding to the right comment? We were talking about men devolving to patriarchy, I don't think that was created by women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women.Okay based on what? The report you provided clearly states there's not enough data to make a well informed conclusion. Is this something you decided based on your feelings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women.Okay what's your point? This is based on a 4min conversation, in what world is that enough to prove anything of importance? I think they explained it pretty clearly, you just have to read the whole report: It’s worth noting that the amount of data available is different for each of the attributes. Since the participants only have 4 minutes to talk with their partners, they may not have sufficient information to judge on all 6 attributes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women.So they actually will devolve. Can't say I'm surprised 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 08:22 PM |
| 4 | Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them?Shouldn't you understand simple concepts, like supply and demand? Can you imagine if Russia raised oil prices, and then Hungary came and was like: "Hey it's not fair, you have to lower the prices cause I can't afford it!". How do you think Russia would respond? Now connect the dots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 08:08 PM |
| -2 | Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women.Oh no, don't tell me they devolved. Damn it I knew we shouldn't leave them alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 08:01 PM |
| -3 | Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women.It's time for them to evolve and adapt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 07:48 PM |
| 0 | Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women.Interesting how common it is for people to make accusations without giving examples.. Do you actually think it proves anything or contributes to the conversation in any way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 07:43 PM |
| 1 | women who complain about dating only have themselves to blameListen, I have a solution. So, remember how women asked men to leave us alone, and then men threatened how they will make women obsolete? Let's all just agree to keep our word! Do you think it's possible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 07:01 PM |
| 1 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.I'm wondering, what do you think about what you yourself said, that when women were given equal rights we started dominating everywhere? What does that tell you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | women who complain about dating only have themselves to blameThretening us with the sun rising? What? I dont understand, what does that mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicWow I even get a second opinion today?? That's great, I didn't know there were so many psychologists here, thank you. Do you maybe wanna try and give a logical argument to anything I said or would you like to keep calling me names, seems like you need to relieve some tension? I really don't mind, I have thick skin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicAre you just pretending not to understand so I would keep talking to you? I think I figured you out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 06:04 PM |
| 1 | women who complain about dating only have themselves to blameDidn't you say women should become obsolete? Why do you care if we make fun of you? You can deal with the men making fun of you, it's your problem now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicFirst of all, why would I have any emotions towards you, like I don't know you, I'm a stranger on the Internet trying to give you advice and you're complaining to me about how I'm too cold and not empathetic enough towards you, don't you see how that's weird? Again, I don't know you therefore I am not gonna have any emotions towards. Don't you feel awkward complaining to me about that?? Bro... Where have I said anything about the guy's looks or literally gave any kind of acknowledgement to what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 04:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicI don't know how to read so i make up a random answer. Ask yourself why you're so insecure that you get so worked up over random people online If you wanna bitch and moan just say so, otherwise take the advice provided above and idk get a job, you obviously have too much time if things like this upset you to the point you need strangers online to tell you you are a perfect boy and those mean girls were just jealous of you Why tf would I uplift you or any man, who tf are you bro? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicAaand the point has been missed completely, work on your aim and good luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Men say they are criticized for having high standards but it seems they are criticized for having low standards as well?I feel like these days people are obsessed with the way they are perceived, so anything that doesn't present "the perfect image" is taboo. I was actually just commenting somewhere else on how I think confidence is built, cause always say oh just be confident, but wtf does that mean?? So my belief is that you build confidence by investing in yourself, learning new skills, having experiences, and getting to know yourself, that way nobody can tell you how to feel or what to think. So just like you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Men say they are criticized for having high standards but it seems they are criticized for having low standards as well?It's not a question if they thought they deserved you, that's for them to figure out. What I'm talking about is if you actually felt those women actually deserved to be with you in such an intimate way. I feel like when you let people in who are maybe not the best option for you, you might lose some respect for yourself. I would just like to clarify I'm not a prude or something like that, I've had my fair share of fwb, it's just that I wish I was a bit more selective, but I guess you learn as yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Men say they are criticized for having high standards but it seems they are criticized for having low standards as well?I would like to add btw, you said you were criticized for being with overweight women even tho you were attracted to them. My best guess is because of beauty standards in our society, in their head they probably thought that you were with overweight women because you couldn't get a slimmer one so you had to settle. I had the same assumptions made About me when I was with my ex who was 5ft6 while I'm 5ft10, I just know people assumed I was with him for money, when in reality everything was 50/50 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Men say they are criticized for having high standards but it seems they are criticized for having low standards as well?That's good, if it's a one night stand that's cool, but did you actually feel like they deserve to be with you? Andrew Tate is physically attractive to me (just the body, his face looks like a chipmunk), that doesn't mean I would let him near me. Ironically I found myself standing right next to him in a bar 2 years ago 😂, but you get the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:48 AM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...Being objectively attractive makes it easier to initially attract someone, being nice will keep you afloat for maybe up to a year, but actually providing real value (I'm not talking about materialistic stuff, although it's a plus cause it usually means you're not incompetent and you take responsibility), what I mean by real value is: are you someone I can GROW with, are you satisfied with the experiences that you have, or are you somebody who always tries to learn new skills, hobbies, tries to g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Men say they are criticized for having high standards but it seems they are criticized for having low standards as well?Depends what do you have to offer in order to have "high standards" (also depends what high standards mean to you, if you're looking for a physically attractive woman who doesn't offer much else, you'll probably need something superficial like that to offer back, usually money or physical appearance as well) If by high standards you mean a quality person, somebody who will enrich your life in a way that is gonna be more meaningful, impactful, and qualities that are gonna be more valuable as the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:37 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicAnother thing, giving constructive criticism/advice is not attacking or blaming you are anyone else. This is a reason why you and the oop should be working on yourself, once you actually invest time and effort into yourself your confidence will grow and you won't constantly feel attacked and like a victim blaming other people for the situation you're in. I'm not trying to protect your feelings and make you feel better cause the girls at school are mean to you. I'm giving you concrete advice and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 02:16 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicNobody is blaming the guy, I literally said I can't know what the situation is, my standards for "putting effort" might be different than yours. Can you give an example of how is he putting effort to look attractive? If you read my comment you might understand why some women would think he is to "blame". What I mean by that is that his reaction and the fact that their comments even stuck with him say that his priorities instead of being working on himself so his options are better he is focusing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 02:03 AM |
| 1 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesIt's not that hard to imagine yourself in someone's shoes, especially with a situation like this. Sounds to me like these friends are just too lazy or don't care enough to put any effort in fighting for what's right, it's easier to just not do anything, especially if the guy who was cheated on doesn't make a big deal out of it. Also, you said you understand why the women stuck with the cheating wife. Unless it was a domestic violence situation (but even in that case, if you're a friend you would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:40 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicVery good explanation, simple supply and demand. He should also think about what kind of people use dating apps, something tells me it's not people who are good communicators with a rich social life and options. Just like Michael Scott once said: A man went to a $3 lady of the night, got crabs and when he went to complain she said hey it was $3, what did you expect, lobster? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:26 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicActually that's a very good point, you have to wonder why is he matching with women he's not attracted to? Also I'm curious how the conversation ended, did he stop replying or did he "put them in their place" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicI kinda feel he might be talking about himself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:12 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicWow where are these people that believe everything women say? Obviously not including other women who have had previous experiences that are the same as the one this hypothetical woman is talking about, I mean if you eat shit food at a restaurant and somebody else says that the food there is shit, you're not gonna think they are lying right? Now imagine 90% of the people who go to that restaurant say the food is shit, you're gonna think there might be some truth to it, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:06 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicIs it the most popular way to successfully meet people? McDonald's is extremely popular, but does it actually do what food is supposed to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:55 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicConsidering a scary amount of men doesn't even wash their own ass, it's a gamble what the standards are when they say they take care of themselves. Who knows, the guy might have been Mr. Poopy butthole Whatever the case may be, just the mentality of "their standards are too high, somebody better should be approaching me" is in itself unattractive. And it's something that you can sense. When a man insultingly below my league approaches me I don't think his standards are too high, can't really bla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:53 AM |
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