nagaisou Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Getting her in bed How have you been trying to get her in the mood? Usually for women, foreplay starts way earlier than men think. Give her a kiss in the morning, hug her after you came home, never forget to continue to try and seduce her and make her feel special.	/r/seduction	05/03/20 07:11 AM
0	How can I date my professor? I don't understand why that would be awkward. I mean, I know some people may frown upon that, but I don't understand the reasoning behind it. He is no longer your professor, so there is no power-play in question here. You are just two adults who happen to have met each other at a University. If you can really come up with a reason why that should be weird or bad, please enlighten me.	/r/seduction	02/03/20 09:54 AM
1	Is it bad to get overly sexual through text with a girl you only briefly met once? Nope, you are worrying too much. You have had daily video calls, that's already better than several dates. In someways, I believe video calls are more intimate than actually going out on dates. I usually only video call with my significant other or someone I am very close to, I never want to video call someone I just started dating. Use the next few days to build up more sexual energy, the anticipation will make the eventual meetup one of the best time of your life.	/r/seduction	02/03/20 09:46 AM
1	Nonreactivity vs pushing? My first reaction to that shit-test would be "Yes, I am totally a fuckboy", with a smirk on my face. Treat it as a joke and have fun with it. Nonreactive is also fine depending on the situation (like if you are already in the middle of telling a story, basically anything that's more interesting than her shit test) But pushing in this case I believe devalues yourself, or at the very least could make things a bit awkward. You are basically responding to something negative with more negativity. (an…	/r/seduction	02/03/20 09:40 AM
1	How to handle your birthday when you have multiple 'things' going on? It sounds like you are in a way misleading these women (not "things") you have going on right now. If you are just in it for the fun of it, be a man and own up to it. Regular sex is taking place, that is not an early relationship. Being afraid of fallouts because you didn't invite them sounds like you know they are expecting more, but you don't want to give up the sex so you want to trick them into staying.	/r/seduction	02/03/20 09:26 AM
2	I'm socially awkward. Any material to help with this? It sounds as if you have been giving too much of your own opinions or commenting on others. One thing came to mind that could help is to compliment people and appreciate their accomplishments more.	/r/seduction	02/03/20 09:12 AM
1	Is Why can't you do both? They are not mutually exclusive. If you are only being her friend, it is very easy to get friend-zoned. How much you can flirt and be sexual depends on the response she's giving you too. I find that going into it with the expectation of being a friend, but at the same time be mindful of when you can try some seduction is a good way to go.	/r/seduction	02/03/20 09:07 AM
0	How can I date my professor? I don't see what the problem is, are you still his student? You said you had no feelings for him the whole semester, so I am assuming you are no longer his student. In this case I do not see anything wrong with dating him. Don't make such a big deal out of it, just continue to chat and really get to know each other.	/r/seduction	02/03/20 08:58 AM
2	What's a polite way to tell a girl "Yes, I want bang you and cuddle you and take you out to dinner, but I'll probably cut it off after a few months"? “I am available, but not available for commitments”	/r/seduction	10/01/20 12:59 PM
2	[deleted by user] This is hard to do using words. Usually if you have to try hard to get the conversation going, the attraction is not there. The best you can do is to maintain value by not being needy. Words should only be used to set up meetings or keeping yourself on the radar. There might be examples online of interesting things to say to get the conversation going, but those examples are only going well because the attraction is already there. Also, in the beginning stages of attraction, trying to do too muc…	/r/seduction	03/01/20 10:31 AM
1	Should I text this girl I went out with a couple of weeks ago? I would say gauge the temperature with “Happy New Year (Her name)!” but don’t follow up with “What you’ve been up to?” You misread the situation and repelled her, so all you can do now is wait for her to forget that. Make the message generic and don’t try to get her to invest by asking questions. If she’s now interested again, a happy new year will suffice to get you guys talking again (she will be the one asking the “how have you been?” questions). A little tip for next time, you should always …	/r/seduction	30/12/19 11:00 PM
1	If a date who initiated takes a rain check should you wait for them to reschedule ? If he/she didn’t immediately come up with the next meeting time, I would say don’t bother. You could wait a couple of days and hit them up again just to see. But I usually take cancelling as a IOD. Plus, you don’t ever want to be passive and wait for the other person to act.	/r/seduction	30/12/19 10:41 PM
1	If a girl facetimes me when she's drunk, does that mean she has high interest in me? You are the booty call, take it or leave it. Though my experience is that the sex is not as good anyways.	/r/seduction	30/12/19 10:12 AM
1	Will you rather his/her trust or his/her body? If you are really soulmates, shouldn't you guys be a match both mentally and physically? If I only have the hots for the person, definitely just the booty call. However, my endgame is always to find someone with great mental AND physical compatibility.	/r/seduction	30/12/19 10:09 AM
1	I'm interesting, but not fun. How should I fix this? I was just about so say, op might think Hank Hill is boring. But if you work it the right way, you could still be interesting enough to be the star of a popular tv show.	/r/seduction	30/12/19 10:01 AM
2	Where is the line between conveying value and bragging? Totally agree with the other responses. I kind of hold a belief that the dogs that can't fight bark the loudest. If you need to "tell" people how successful you are, you are not really that successful yet. Sometimes it is not about what you say, but how polished your action and words are. If you have a successful career, chances are people will be able to tell. From the places you dine at, the hotels you stay at, clothes that you put on, your demeanor, etc.	/r/seduction	30/12/19 09:54 AM
2	Does banging a girl in 2020 mean anything to her? Sure I have, I think that's only fair. The time have changed but I think it is for the better. If the girl is only with you because you've had sex, how healthy of a relationship could it be? You can't expect to be compatible with everyone, and sex is part of that. What if she's really into BDSM and you are just not into things getting that physical? This example might be somewhat extreme, but you can see each person can have different preferences when it comes to intimacy. With women becoming …	/r/seduction	30/12/19 09:44 AM
1	Natural player friend's advice Could it be that you are just not the right attractiveness for your demographic? For example I am considered a big Asian guy, which might not work in some Asian countries. Some likes really skinny men, which I am definitely not. You mentioned that you could get laid back home, so this could definitely be a possibility.	/r/seduction	30/12/19 09:32 AM
2	As a shy guy, how to show interest? Be playful, exaggerate and turn it into a joke. I have been joking with this HB9 whenever we are together in a group about how she's my dream girl, and now I am dating her. If you are unsure, saying it in a joking manner. It doesn't have to be sexual, but just something that shows you are probably interested. Second, learn kino, and work that into your interaction with girls. Both of these give you an opportunity to gauge the girl's reaction. The more positive feedback you get, the deeper yo…	/r/seduction	30/12/19 09:27 AM
1	Is the pickup artist known as Mystery currently in jail? I think he looks better now than when he appeared on his show. But perhaps it is because reality shows always over-exaggerate on outfits and makeups.	/r/seduction	30/12/19 09:18 AM
2	Does banging a girl in 2020 mean anything to her? I've met all kinds, which is what you would expect since everyone is different. I've had someone that asked if I am going to delete all dating apps the next day, and I've also had ones that only call me up from time to time when they are feeling wild. I do get that "damn it would be nice to see her again" feeling sometimes too. But then you realize a flaker is not the kind of girl you want to spent a lot of time with anyways (even if sex was phenomenal)	/r/seduction	30/12/19 09:12 AM
5	What are different, unique ways you guys flirt? I would say kino/touch is the best IOI to look for. If there is sexual chemistry, two people will definitely want to be close to each other. Whenever I get those IOI’s, I know we can at the very least have a fun time flirting (and it almost always lead to something intimate)	/r/seduction	26/12/19 08:37 AM
2	[deleted by user] I would still show her that I am interested in her (obviously not during her mid-cry about wanting to breakup). There’s nothing wrong with this. I wouldn’t call this “making a move” but more like being honest with yourself and with her. Just try not to have any expectations, be honest for honest sake. Let her figure out how to respond to your interest, and respect her decisions. If you never give her any reason to consider you as something more than a friend, she possibly never will. By telling …	/r/seduction	26/12/19 08:24 AM
2	I want to find a girlfriend, but I struggle at socializing with new new people. How do I overcome this? Think of three stories of your experiences that you can tell. Often times with each new friend I find myself retelling the same stories. The more you do it, the more you refine it into something more interesting for the listeners, and at the same time more of your personality will show. Then as you use it to make more friends, you naturally gain more stories that are worth sharing. With some good stories in the back of your pocket you also have less pressure when meeting new people. Since you ca…	/r/seduction	26/12/19 08:08 AM
1	[deleted by user] I would ask her to recall her best and worst getting hit-on stories. It’s usually a lot of fun. And at the same time you could learn new tricks or know what to avoid in the future.	/r/seduction	13/12/19 06:44 AM
1	How do you actually act natural/relax at dates? Fake it until you make it. Study the body language of confident people. And just imitate it, you will be surprised how it can slowly change you.	/r/seduction	13/12/19 06:39 AM
1	The art of negging I personally never liked negging. There are other ways to make the girl want your approval (raising your own value!) Negging is just so passive aggressive, and it’s basically putting other people down to make yourself look better. You can check out “Models” by Mark Manson. He talked about it in there and it pretty much sums up my own thoughts when I read about negging in the mystery method	/r/seduction	13/12/19 06:34 AM
1	Should I text her or wait it out? I don’t see anything wrong with texting her. I would probably go with something like “I just thought of our make out session and it brightened my day”. Keep the energy going. But, the more important thing is what are you looking for with the text? You guys are 4 hours away. It seems like she also understand this is more of a fun thing than a relationship.	/r/seduction	13/12/19 06:23 AM
1	Should I go for it? Perhaps you are over thinking it? Just one sign is not enough to tell what kind of a person she is. Even if you are both interested, you are not becoming a couple like tomorrow. Just spend more time together and find out more. (Flirting is also a fun stage for both parties, don’t skip it)	/r/seduction	13/12/19 06:18 AM
1	Unsure of interest level Yes it is indeed tricky. But I imagined myself doing the same thing if I were in their shoes (and I have). It’s still very early in the relationship, so it’s kind of weird saying “I’m not interested” and reject the other person completely before any meaningful interaction. I now just take it as evidence that I have not attracted her enough YET, and move on to other girls while keeping her on the radar (which you are already doing). My experience is that if the initial attraction is not there, it…	/r/seduction	12/12/19 06:09 AM
0	Getting rejected because of too much physical contact on date? From your story, it felt like you tried to get too physical too soon. This is only your first date, and you already wanted to hold hands. Did she give you any signs that says it’s okay to do that? Perhaps look up kino escalation. On first dates I always start with light touches to the arch of her back or arms when I am guiding her as we walk. These places a more innocent and you can use her reaction to those touches as hints. Also, if you already sense that she’s not re-initiating, that’s when y…	/r/seduction	12/12/19 04:47 AM
1	Unsure of interest level My experience for situation like this is that, even if you successfully got her to come out, it wouldn’t be the kind of girl you would enjoy spending time with. But, I’ve messaged something like this the day before to make sure she commit: “Hey (name), I need a confirmation on tomorrow since I will be making a reservation”	/r/seduction	12/12/19 04:28 AM
0	Need a good Tinder opener I’ve come to realize that sometimes the opener doesn’t matter much, as the interaction needs to go both ways. So now I just keep it simple. Something like: “Hey (name)! It’s nice to match with such a cutie pie”	/r/seduction	12/12/19 04:23 AM
1	Natural player friend's advice Chances are, you are simply not noticing the IOI’s girls have been giving you. Guys are just not as finely tuned. I would suggest to research online and know what can be considered IOI’s. Once you start to pay attention, you will get better. There are times when I could successfully predict if I can kiss-close a girl I just met by end of the night. Attraction works differently between men and women. I don’t consider myself to be an attractive guy either. But all you need to do is be clean, well …	/r/seduction	12/12/19 03:06 AM
5	Natural player friend's advice I’ve actually done this when I was in Japan. I would visit a bar, sit down, order drinks and just play with my phone. It would be the kind of bar with seats but also people dancing all over. Eventually, girls who are interested in you will make eye contact or suddenly appear close to you, or even go as far as tapping you to get your attention. It became very easy to start talking to them. It is my opinion that though guys are the ones that are supposed to make the first “obvious” move, women are…	/r/seduction	11/12/19 10:41 AM
3	How to make a move on a friend? (20M) Yes, you need to learn kino. Don’t just jump straight to grabbing and kissing. Use kino to flirt and build up her sexual energy. At the same time you can gauge her reaction, and you will know better when you can kiss her	/r/seduction	10/12/19 02:32 AM
1	Guy input needed (work) TLDR it would not stop my advances but I will definitely use it as an opportunity to learn her character and adjust my goals accordingly. PUA 101 would tell guys not to worry about bf when making advances. This makes sense because guys should focus solely on the girl. If the attraction is there, she would break up with the bf. From my own experience, however, I would use this opportunity to learn more about the girl. Since I already know she has a bf, her reactions to my advances will show what …	/r/seduction	10/12/19 02:25 AM
-1	5 anti ghosting Texts I've successfully used to get girls responding again. Enjoy. Almost upvoted just because of the "#metoo" tag lol	/r/seduction	27/09/19 08:54 AM
1	Went out with women, learnt she has a boyfriend, did I mess up here? Definitely agree with you about not being with a cheater. But we don't know what the situation is with the bf right now (or whether there is still a bf or not). It's not like they had sex. The thing is, if a girl is hot in person, and cold when not, that's already a red flag in itself.	/r/seduction	27/09/19 08:50 AM
1	Kind of a friend being flirty at this moment idk what to do Learn to keno escalate my man. Try touching her, from slightly innocent areas (quick tap on the forearm, light hand placement on her lower back, etc) and gradually move to less innocent parts (shoulder, hand holding, waist, butt...), and all the while secretly observe her reactions. If you get a resistance, or you don’t sense her reinforcing the physical contact, then stop, that’s as far as you can go.	/r/seduction	27/09/19 07:41 AM
3	Got number after failed kiss attempt, not sure what to do Her still willing to give you her number after the rejection COULD be a good sign (assuming you didn’t misinterpret how well your interactions were, and that she didn’t just give it to you so it’s less awkward after the kiss rejection) But, what you should do from this point shouldn’t change that much. Just hit her up from time to time and see how responsive she is and whether you could escalate. Honestly, even if you kissed that night (or even slept together), she could still regret it the next…	/r/seduction	27/09/19 07:31 AM
12	Went out with women, learnt she has a boyfriend, did I mess up here? Why not just proceed as if you don’t know she has a boyfriend? Judge her base on her actions. Knowledge from a secondhand source should only be be put at the back of your mind, don’t let it interfere with your initial interaction with the person. If she’s cold when you guys are not seeing each other, then judge her base on that, don’t assume it’s because of her bf. You are still getting to know each other, she doesn’t need to disclose that fact to you anyways. Just let the attraction build natur…	/r/seduction	27/09/19 05:32 AM