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I think Kevin is good for Purple Pill guys. I’ve been listening to him for around three or so years and his most value content is the 2018-2019 content around men’s style and men’s improvement, which can help men with women indirectly. Regardless of his background, many of the things he talks about are true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:30 PM
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Can't be living in reaction.
/r/seduction30/12/16 06:26 PM
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Ooooo i would think so...
/r/seduction20/04/16 01:45 AM
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LOL
/r/seduction20/04/16 01:44 AM
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Stopping in front of them can be awkward. If you're not a master conversationalist it's not the best way.
/r/seduction19/02/16 12:26 AM
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Oh dang I heard him talk a bit about this on The Daily Show.
/r/seduction14/02/16 10:09 AM
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That's actually A good way to look at it. I'll keep this in mind.
/r/seduction07/02/16 03:11 AM
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Good idea. Thanks!
/r/seduction03/02/16 09:07 AM
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Hope it goes well too. Yea haha, I haven't gotten any obscured looks from women yet but it's bound to happen. Thanks, I'll just do it regardless of whatever
/r/seduction03/02/16 04:53 AM
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Found it. I'll get started. Thanks so much!
/r/seduction03/02/16 01:04 AM
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Hmmm.....this is neat. I'd think most would break so I may not seem too creepy. I think I'll try it!
/r/seduction03/02/16 01:00 AM
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I kind of do this already. When girls check me out in class or on campus I pretend I don't notice, but I do want to be able to do both because when I "accidentally" make eye contact with hot women, the way I break it is not acceptable haha.
/r/seduction03/02/16 12:57 AM
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Yoooo......Chris Bale is THAT dude.
/r/seduction09/12/15 07:55 AM
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Women see potential in you, which most men I'll say don't have. You probably have other qualities women really like. Great example of how you don't need to be rich to get women.......as long as your life is potentially going somewhere good.
/r/seduction09/12/15 07:53 AM
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Not impossible though....and it really depends where you look and what kind of job.
/r/seduction07/12/15 04:02 PM
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What Gloots said. You don't want to be broke right? Get some part time job you don't mind doing at least or create a small online business. On top of reading and exercise I would say meditate/practicing Mindfulness and improving your style. All that will greatly boost your development as a man
/r/seduction07/12/15 08:50 AM
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That's pretty good. I've also had low self esteem because of how skinny I was (and still am but I've added up a little) but it's not that big a deal to me because I wear clothes that compliment by body type well and I eat well. It's just how I'm built. In your case you seem at a pretty good weight now; you just have to change the way you think about yourself (accepting who you are) and what you have to offer. You shouldn't expect rejection but you shouldn't expect anything out of this women as w…
/r/seduction06/12/15 06:50 PM
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If you don't think it sounds genuine it won't sound that way. If you have to devise a way to open to a girl you're trying too hard. No matter how well crafted it is, if it isn't coming from a place of authenticity it'll fall flat.....plus girls don't give a damn about openers...a "hey how's it going" is good.
/r/seduction06/12/15 02:03 AM
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A lot of hot girls are like that.
/r/seduction06/12/15 01:53 AM
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You're putting too much thought into I think (ironically). You shouldn't care if she rejects or want you; you also shouldn't have any outcome in mind. You probably don't get this a lot so you're shocked and don't know what to do is it? When you say she didn't reject you do you mean she gave you her number or chose to hang with you?
/r/seduction06/12/15 01:52 AM
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Waiting for one, yea. On one, you have to be somewhat quick about it. You have to make sitting next to her seem natural and that you're just taking any ol' seat. "Hey/Yo, how's it going?", very simple opener that isn't crafted, scripted, or try hard. You can still "open" if she's on her phone, but there could be an instance where you know she doesn't want to talk, like if she looks like she's really "occupied" with whatever she is doing on it.
/r/seduction06/12/15 01:46 AM
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Head nod.......I should do that instead
/r/seduction03/12/15 05:58 PM
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Thank you, this does help.
/r/seduction29/11/15 11:23 PM
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I was wondering where you have been. Honestly I've put a pause on approaching but this update has given me MAJOR inspiration to go out again. I remember a month ago when you just started and look at you now! It's crazy!
/r/seduction29/11/15 08:20 AM
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I always feel like if I did that I would seem like I'm staring, but I may have to try to hold.
/r/seduction19/11/15 07:21 AM
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I'd say during day game girls are more reluctant to giving their numbers because they aren't in that state of "meeting guys" as opposed to parties. This doesn't mean you can't be successful in the day game but during the day on a college campus people aren't in that mode usually; a lot may be worried about stuff like their classes and such. Are these girls asking you questions? Laughing at the things you say? Giving you full answers? Being genuine? This is what you want because this way you guys…
/r/seduction17/11/15 07:00 PM
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are they brushing you off right when you go up to them? If not, how long are the interactions before going for the number?
/r/seduction17/11/15 06:28 PM
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How are you approaching?
/r/seduction17/11/15 06:23 PM
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That's more probable I think haha
/r/seduction16/11/15 03:51 PM
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That's not bad. If your pops doesn't care then it'll work fine with your rooms on different floors. Don't try to apologize for not living on your own too, I know some guys will try to over-explain their situation (making them look insecure) when it doesn't really matter. Own the situation that youre in no matter what it is (even though this one isn't really bad at all).
/r/seduction16/11/15 07:15 AM
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Just don't respond, she may respond again. Maybe it's just a mood change.....she is working after all.
/r/seduction16/11/15 07:14 AM
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The right time I think is when there is some sign that she is actually interested in you, which can be shown in few ways like genuinely laughing at the things you say or asking you questions. If she isn't really responsive that obviously isn't a good time. You're a complete stranger to her, so you need to have some sort of connection before asking for it, even if it's small. Then again, some girls may just give you their number with just a 30 second interaction , and that can go either way.
/r/seduction16/11/15 07:09 AM
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This
/r/seduction15/11/15 09:09 PM
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I'll give you that (considering you're not fronting and don't fork over 3/4th of your check on it).
/r/seduction11/11/15 03:10 AM
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A vehicle is just to get to a place in a quicker amount of time, it's not some thing that elevates your status. Although it makes transportation easier, If you're able to get to places without one then who cares? If you're a cool, funny, and charming guy I'm sure most girls will overlook that. When it comes to dates, you should have them set up within walking distance from your home so bringing her home is simple.
/r/seduction10/11/15 07:16 PM
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Indifference > confidence.
/r/seduction08/11/15 08:51 PM
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even if your "reputation" suffers who gives a shit? What is a girl going to say, "KingChord had the confidence to introduce himself to me and ask me on a date?"
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:02 PM
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I'd like to add that you shouldn't 'ask' for it. You should tell her to give you her number ("I have to go but give me your number and I'll text you sometime" or "let's exchange numbers"). Asking for it sounds weak and is pretty beta.
/r/seduction03/11/15 06:50 PM
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Don't be needy. If you're texting back instantly it just shows you don't have options. Don't put her on a pedestal. And yeah there is a TON of information if you search.
/r/seduction29/10/15 11:18 PM
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You don't feel entitled to beautiful women and are putting them on a pedestal, when really they aren't different from you. You also need to feel comfortable with yourself before feeling comfortable with others. If you don't feel like you deserve beautiful women then you won't get them or come off as inferior.
/r/seduction29/10/15 11:13 PM
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C'est bon!!
/r/seduction29/10/15 08:01 PM
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Yoooo Mr. CAPS! This is awesome! It just goes to show; approaching isn't a beg deal. That rationalization will get you, that's why you have to create a small window for yourself (3-5 seconds).
/r/seduction29/10/15 12:44 AM
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Wow, I really enjoyed this. A lot of the things I read are more "things you should" to attract women but this is different, and it makes sense because a lot of men just seem like they are acting from a script when approaching or using overdone openers.
/r/seduction27/10/15 06:05 PM
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Kevin Hart's uncle said it. "SAY IT WITH YA CHEST!"
/r/seduction23/10/15 04:39 AM
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Ok I see. I've never approached over my shoulder but I'll try this out.
/r/seduction23/10/15 03:24 AM
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No I mean when a girl cant see you because you're behind her and you want to approach (from the side).
/r/seduction23/10/15 02:34 AM
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Good comparison you made.
/r/seduction23/10/15 12:05 AM
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So on a college campus when you really can't get IOIs, what indirect opener examples do you have?
/r/seduction22/10/15 08:33 PM
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You can approach from the side. She just needs to know that there is someone near, so that would be her 4 o'clock.
/r/seduction22/10/15 01:21 AM
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That's very good. You didn't die. I guess once you control your nerves you'll do better. Definitely an inspiration.
/r/seduction22/10/15 01:15 AM
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Oh this is VERY true in my area (N. Cal area). Shoot, I've never seen a solid approach by another guy before to be completely honest. It's good because in that situation it clearly shows you have some confidence.
/r/seduction21/10/15 03:34 PM
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Oh it is. She's heard that one before several times. What I use is "Hey you, what's your name?". She then says her name, then "okay, pleasure/nice to meet you, you seem interesting".
/r/seduction21/10/15 06:31 AM
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Your stomach is already turning, so you might as well get it done or you'll have felt that way for nothing. If you decide not to approach youre basically saying her opinion of you is more important than your opinion of you, aka rejecting yourself. With approaches, when I'm about to come up, I put this N sticker on her (not literally). Her beauty may stun me, but when I label her as a normal person (the N sticker) I sort of calm down. 8s, 9s, and 10s arent any more significant than than anybody o…
/r/seduction21/10/15 03:53 AM
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Woah
/r/seduction21/10/15 03:42 AM
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That's growth!
/r/seduction20/10/15 04:41 AM
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Oh I see. No, I value myself more, but I can make accommodations as long as they are minor. I can be boring for a girl by just asking yes and no questions if she likes that, but lame? No way. Good thing this is a hypothetical.
/r/seduction18/10/15 05:35 PM
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This is one hypothetical all right.......well if I approached a 1000 girls in a month and got a 100% rejection rate, I'd still be me but I would develop new interest/hobbies or learn to be more interesting and fun. I would assume they don't want me because I'm boring.
/r/seduction18/10/15 05:19 PM
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HS yea I think it's a bad idea because you will see people recurring over the span that you're there. College is the best idea because you see new people everyday and you'll usually never see the same people more than once unless you have a class w/ them.
/r/seduction16/10/15 04:33 AM
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You don't want to do anything. Just back off and see if she responds to you, if not, you'll find someone else.
/r/seduction16/10/15 04:24 AM
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Maybe you can take a simple stroll if you have free time between classes? You'll always find at least one person.
/r/seduction12/10/15 06:32 AM
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"Oh, well no problem, take care" (walks away) Quick and easy, not to mention the vibe you give off (you don't care if you get it or not).
/r/seduction06/10/15 06:39 AM
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On to the next one.
/r/seduction04/10/15 07:15 AM
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Thank you for the link! I really need to try this out.
/r/seduction02/10/15 02:01 AM
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Mmmm true
/r/seduction01/10/15 07:16 PM
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hmm, that's interesting. I should try this out. Thanks :)
/r/seduction01/10/15 06:18 PM
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Yea of course, the build up is important but I didn't know if one way was more effective than another.
/r/seduction01/10/15 05:44 PM
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I see. I'm just now starting to approach, especially at my university where there is an abundance of women. So far I have only been making small conversation with women but I'm going to start to get numbers. I'm really working on myself so I'm not as afraid to approach than I was to months ago.
/r/seduction01/10/15 05:03 PM
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Great post. I heard about this illusionary technique but I haven't really put it too use. The more you know.
/r/seduction29/09/15 07:25 AM
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Wow, this was a great read. If you dont like her being so clingy or whatever you don't like about her you have to let her know straight up, since you see her at your salsa club.
/r/seduction28/09/15 05:48 AM
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I'm sure next time you go on campus you'll find others to approach. It seems like you're doing okay with approaching.
/r/seduction27/09/15 11:13 PM
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She could've lost attraction. This is why you really don't want to be so readily available on the phone. It could be what you were texting, but I'd say just back off and see if she hits you back. If she does I wouldn't respond immediately you see it but if she doesn't it's over. If you keep trying to get a response it shows neediness. Women want a challenge not some guy who always there and ready to kiss her ass......ultimately the attraction fades.
/r/seduction27/09/15 11:00 PM
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NEVE EVER SHOW OFF. You shouldn't have to ever qualify yourself to a woman.
/r/seduction27/09/15 05:44 PM
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Ian Connor isn't the best looking guy but he has maxed out as much of the controllable stuff as best he could. There's tons of examples of people who aren't Zach Efron in the face but still pull very well.
/r/seduction27/09/15 06:39 AM
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I'm obsessed with Bleach (obsessed may be too light to describe) as well as read manga and watch anime but it doesn't really affect my chances with women. Enjoy anime as much as you want. It does not make you some sort of nerd and if any girl thinks so she's someone you really don't want around you. There are "otakus" who do nothing but watch it and it's understandable why they suck with women because they are so used to only talking to people on the web. Again, you can watch as much as you want…
/r/seduction27/09/15 02:01 AM
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"The man who thinks he can and the man who thinks he can't are both correct." - Henry Ford
/r/seduction26/09/15 05:41 AM
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Im in almost the same predicament as you. Looks like you got some good answers.
/r/seduction24/09/15 09:57 PM
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That's why one shouldn't attach an outcome when approaching.
/r/seduction24/09/15 08:29 PM
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Possibly, but woman also like men with ambition...with real goals.
/r/seduction24/09/15 07:28 PM
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I have to remember this.
/r/seduction24/09/15 07:26 PM
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Bit him in the ass and then some
/r/seduction24/09/15 07:25 PM
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Awesome. You didn't reject yourself and went on approaching her.
/r/seduction24/09/15 06:17 PM
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If we're going to die anyways then we might as well get everything we can while we still have the chance.
/r/seduction24/09/15 06:15 PM
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This is awesome. I really need to write that phrase down and remember it before approaching.
/r/seduction24/09/15 06:08 PM
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