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35

I stopped listening ages ago because I couldn’t stand her. It’s when she spent 2 episodes trying to tell everyone someone on Love Is Blind was a narcissist. I haven’t felt like I missed out on anything since and it really does seem to have gone off the rails
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/22 11:16 PM
16

Come to the Midwest. Let’s be friends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 08:51 PM
24

Did you mean to quote a rob Thomas song bc I think I’m here for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 08:49 PM
67

I am dying at this still. Fucking goals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 01:50 PM
219

Poly 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 06:00 PM
29

As a coupe owner. Jack diddly fits in there. But I love my car and it’s meant for … not having those types of things fit in there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:43 AM
44

Srs, but I actually do this and it definitely never works
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:42 AM
2

Ok, but I love Jason Segel and hope no one tells me anything problematic about him rn. The live performance of the Dracula song from Forgetting Sarah Marshall is something I watch as a pick me up all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:42 PM
62

Manages to spend an weekend with her in south or Central America or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 09:59 PM
34

we banged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 09:58 PM
65

I don’t actually use OLD for the purpose it’s intended for but will look at it if I’m bored. As a result, my profile isn’t that serious and I have myself with a bag of salt and vinegar chips as one of my pictures. I had one guy suggest a movie, at home, where we both buy our own bags of chips. I had another that told me he would love to buy me said bag of chips. When I told him that was too easy and he could buy me dinner instead, I never heard from him again. I wish this was any kind of embelli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:42 AM
22

I get Lilith has a lot of personal experience with narcissists but listening to her argue about her personal opinion on whether or not someone has it for the last third of the episode took away from the other discussions. There are a lot of different types of narcissists out there and not all of them display the same characteristics that she outlines as her defense. It’s ok to talk about your experiences and why you think that, but to continuously bring it back when it’s not so black and white i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 12:24 PM
8

Wait … you didn’t like pickle Rick??? 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 06:01 AM
85

Pepperidge farms ‘members
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 06:00 AM
195

“Remembrance day was a nightmare” really sent me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:58 AM
30

Sad truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 02:22 AM
1

Lord of war is one of my favourite movies and I wish I never saw this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:27 AM
46

I’m in healthcare and I’m not gonna lie, I do this to men hahaha. It is really funny the few times I have talked to someone medical who doesn’t even bother to ask what I do tho. Might as well have fun at their expense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:21 AM
2

Never Have I Ever is the bees knees FR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 03:23 AM
15

Agreed. My time is priceless. His is worth 4-6$. Pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:57 AM
5

I don’t disagree! Thanks for pointing it out (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:45 PM
11

True! It was just a poor and lazy excuse/ writing for the matriarchy to let them go but it didn’t take away from what was the contrast between the progressive utopia and what the men had become once separated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:35 PM
12

There’s a great Rick and Morty episode that alludes to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 02:33 PM
17

Sis I - 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 02:32 PM
37

Hahaha ew. I was recently talking to a guy that did this and was way too open about things I would not have expected without reciprocation on my end. Luckily, the fact he only ever wanted to text about this nonsense for such an extended period of time bored me. Bro, you are not novel or exciting and your inability to consider a phone call or face time is more alarming than your trauma. And therapy is great but please don’t announce “I have therapy today” as if I need to be reminded of your amazi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 02:36 PM
65

Tell me you play pikachu Here’s a fun study for you: Insights into Sexism: Male Status and Performance Moderates Female-Directed Hostile and Amicable Behaviour https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0131613 TLDR: “Low-status males that have the most to lose due to a hierarchical reconfiguration are responding to the threat female competitors pose," the researchers, from the University of New South Wales and the Miami University in Ohio, write. "High-status males with t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 09:55 PM
193

BOTH YOU AND OP PREACH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 02:55 AM
3

Imagine being such a depraved void of a sentient being, that this is what you do to woman after woman, and despite that, being so entirely empty and unfulfilled. Like this scum of scrotedom is starved. I’m assuming this would all escalate to the point he would accidentally kill someone while having sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 11:26 PM
14

🥇 🥇 🥇 I just spit out my coffee and I wasn’t even drinking any
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 01:56 PM
8

When I used this to figure out my moon and ascendant. I basically cried at how accurate of a read it was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:00 AM
68

Add Quentin Tarantino to the basic scrote starter kit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:55 AM
66

I got in an Uber one time with my ex when it was winter and I had huge faux fur hood which I leave up because, it’s freezing. The driver asked, not me, but my ex to ask me to take my hood down because I “looked beautiful.” Honestly it was a really weird and creepy situation and it’s possible the guy was recording his riders. I’m definitely in the same boat as you tho. Ride share is my only option in an urban area. With some of the worsening crime happening these days, I have pretty much abandone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 02:20 AM
66

Cocreator of smut website that objectifies women exposed. Barstool fanboys were always an immediate turn off for me. I mean, this is where "Saturdays are for the boys" originated from, right? How am I not at all surprised? Glad the laundry is out to hang regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 09:00 PM
2

Kind of love this and super intrigued. Definitely an experience I want to have (like, generally speaking, not in relation to the current discussion). I think there should definitely be a place for them and it would be beneficial for myriad reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 05:03 PM
2

Really wish this was subliminally embedded in all women. No need to find a man to support your “future kids” if you plan not to have any. We can’t blame solely biological drive for making these types of decisions. I think socialization plays a big part in it too but no one wants to question something they consider an innate desire / need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 04:01 PM
20

I highly, highly recommend the podcast Faculty of Horror. Two badass women dissect the horror genre and numerous movies through an academic and feminist lens. They did an episode on Babadook and it was fantastic! I'm too squeamish to watch much, or any horror, but I kind of live vicariously through their podcast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:35 PM
45

My ex was jealous of my cat even tho my cat had a special relationship with him more than me at the time hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:33 AM
36

It’s also used as an excuse. My ex was 10 years older than me. I got into a great program for specialty training in a different state and he imploded. Especially when I told him I would evaluate my job prospects wherever they seemed the best (in particular because I have a high student loan burden). He started fucking around with a girl 15 years younger than him who ran his company’s Instagram page - he was a 38 year old realtor (add it to the list of garbage professions not to date). Rather tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 04:18 AM
34

Thank you! I made this point on a post where Islam came up previously and it did not go well lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:52 PM
34

I kind of love it???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:27 AM
7

Hateful lover 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:22 AM
1

“Attacking other women for their life choices is not really a good strategy on a sub like this.” Get vaccinated and leave me alone 👌🏽 If not for yourself at least for your son? You had to scroll down a ways to see the only other “argument” I was in. And you’re the one that responded to this like 2 days later. You are blocked because I don’t have the time or energy to deal with another unnecessary response from you in 3 days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:33 AM
3

Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:33 PM
1

Defund was always a dumb slogan. Demilitarize was a better one to start with. I also think sending appropriately trained people (not the po) to domestic violence type calls would be much more beneficial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:49 AM
2

I prefaced my comment with this isn’t a remark about your personal experience. If you took that personally, that’s your problem. I’m not even going to bother reading what you wrote here. ETA: cardinal suggestions of FDS include avoiding getting baby trapped by LVM if you can. “Biological drive” is an excuse men use to rape, cheat on, and harass, (among many other things) women. Don’t even try to use that as an excuse for your, or anyone else’s willfully poor decisions. A report for self harm? Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:57 AM
2

I think this is why the “not all men” narrative is a dangerous and stupid one. It lends itself to males sympathizing with men only, while disregarding women. Edit: words and stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:42 AM
2

I’m not really going to get into your personal experience or your suggestion. Rather, I want to point out that if people do not have resources or social support in the current climate, not having kids is also a choice. Definitely access to birth control and health literacy are some road blocks there, but not necessarily for everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:19 AM
477

Lol “false accusations of domestic violence” - proceeds to very graphically depict violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:07 PM
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This isn’t a black and white issue. Pointing that out doesn’t make me an ally to the “not all men” crew or any less of a feminist. While I can understand criticizing the asinine policy, what I have read in this sub is a disappointing generalization of an entire religion. Ignoring millions who don’t practice or perpetrate misogynistic religious ideology among them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:21 PM
47

I never noticed that detail. Thanks for pointing it out. That is awesome and I need to watch the video again once I get home!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 06:54 PM
-9

Lolllllll I am agnostic and they haven’t. Nice try tho. Hate on one religion only, yeah, not any kind of issue there. Good. Bye. - was a nicer thing to say before you edited your comment. I’ll say it instead. Good day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:29 PM
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Lol, ok. Me and my entire family come from this religion. You don’t think what you do and your experiences constitute selection bias? Walk your bigoted self out of my realm please. The focus on just Islam is the issue here. Myriad religions make the same transgressions against women. Fuck, look at texas. That is sponsored by right wing extremism in Christianity. But no, Islam is the problem, you’re right. I’m not in the business of arguing with hateful people on the internet. So I’m going to sto…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 02:55 PM
15

It’s a bit of a reach to go after an entire religion because of the actions of a corrupt fraction. And I say this as someone who is agnostic and very critical of all religions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 02:45 AM
14

A lot / most men are ignorant chicken shits and probably just cower / flew. That being said, the ‘TIME’s Karl Vick wrote in September, many of the men are fleeing the same enemy nations across the world find themselves up against. “Placed one atop the other on a map, the number of people moving to join Syria’s civil war would appear as a barely visible black thread in the wide, wide arrow pointing out from the country: 20,000 people going in against 4-million headed out. And while most of the fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 02:43 AM
22

Apparently this is not totally true! It is regionally dependent. https://fullfact.org/immigration/ask-full-fact-are-asylum-seekers-mostly-men/ While the EU has more men then women, Syrian refugees are split 50:50. I make sure to look up the stats to be certain!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 02:36 AM
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https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2021/08/17/women-flight-refugees-afghanistan-kabul/ Washington Post Full Text: “Where are the women?” was the refrain ricocheting around Twitter in response to a widely circulated photograph of hundreds of Afghans crammed inside a U.S. Air Force C-17 plane leaving Kabul on Sunday. “Not many women could be seen at Kabul airport on Monday where crowds thronged the tarmac of the runway in a desperate bid to get out of the country,” the BBC reported. “For what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 02:29 AM
10

Wait. Wait. Wait. While I was fully ready to pass judgment here, I’m going to urge you all to read the article here as well as the Washington Post article, which I can paste below in case of any pay walls. While I see a lot of rhetoric saying these men are leaving their families, this does indeed seem like a way to marginalize refugees. The root cause being inequity from the country they are coming from. I dunno, I’ll let the more educated and capable step in to make judgement and explain things…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 02:27 AM
8

I had really conflicted feelings about this episode. Probably for similar reasons. And the whole “it’s ok as long as it’s a good time” mantra.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:55 AM
15

Same (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:14 PM
6

I didn’t take it personally, I just thought it was funny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:54 AM
6

Libra moon and Aries ascendant 👋🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:32 AM
22

Having a child is expensive AF. If it’s cost prohibitive than maybe rethink the whole compulsive need to have a child. Idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:45 AM
10

Scrotey scrote scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:02 PM
64

Here for the musk hate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:44 PM
4

Would love a code too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:11 AM
63

​ Men who are anxious about their masculinity are more likely to support aggressive politics and to have voted for Trump
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:19 PM
2

That was actually a good test. If you haven’t taken it, I recommend it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:53 AM
16

Same! I moved a lot and last year tried to connect with other women in a new city. Basically an identical experience (except I didn’t get asked for money either).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:17 AM
13

I’m deceased
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:46 AM
3

And kambakht
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:27 PM
68

I think there’s an episode of Bob’s Burgers devoted to this phenomenon too IIRC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:52 PM
3

Great response (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:36 AM
1

Sure. By your definition, Donald Trump And Jeff Bezos have a lot of potential too. The point being, potential doesn’t change a track record of being a garbage human being. It’s why people recommend not dating others for their potential as a core principle in looking for a high value partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:29 PM
1

What potential?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:54 PM
2

Hijab-and-Shoulders shampoo sent me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:28 PM
4

Similar background and completely agree with this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:22 PM
7

Congratulations! 💕 love everything about this (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:03 PM
20

There are so many of us but are so scattered about. I can completely relate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:34 PM
5

Love you all infinity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 08:02 PM
4

Congratulations to you for getting out. You have remarkable strength and your life is only going to get better. Wishing you the best and lots of love!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 01:00 PM
88

A goomba to his Mario. I’m crying. But side note, this hit deep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:53 PM
2

Tbh I thought that until recently, well, I only found out 2 years ago. I’m also well into adulthood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:23 PM
22

😂 this hit deep. His movies are trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:05 AM
41

Honestly, the main point. F all that noise about having kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:58 AM
42

Lmao the hospital I trained at let them drink and have jello to their heart’s content. Sucked the couple of times we did have to do GA. I see a pitcher and some drinks there, so she may have had at least that. Homie is a a turd regardless. But just wanted to let you know not all hospitals have the same protocol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:54 AM
9

Underrated quality content right here. Thank you for making my night 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:49 AM
25

We’ll stitch elaborate tapestries using all the leg hair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:23 AM
24

This is how I deal with it too. Pretend not to notice and move on. I have social anxiety and confrontation here is usually beyond my mental capacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:48 PM
11

lugging a baby in a carrier, these days, so I can see them coming and prepare my glare for when it happens. I feel like this is one of the reasons I get super awkward when I pass by couples in general. Basically avoid eye contact and hope to not be noticed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:46 PM
4

Nah. I enjoyed it (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:35 PM
22

We had the same experience lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:43 PM
82

Omg yes! I saw this post too and totally closed my eyes and took a deep breath before looking at each post I agreed with, hoping it wasn’t like -18. So relieved that I saw it upvoted and other women that agreed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:37 PM
17

While I agree with your sentiment, I don’t think it’s relevant as I don’t think anyone is demeaning domestic labour. It has just been pointed out that she can pay for someone to do those things - and the comment made by her ex implies that she’s wrong for doing so? Not cooking for yourself but being able to hire someone to do it for you also doesn’t mean you’re eating junk food all the time. I would love to have someone make me balanced vegan meals 3 meals a day, 7 days a week... and snacks in b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:34 PM
14

I’m so sorry to hear about Zeus. My cat is my baby too and I would certainly be terribly heart broken if I were in your situation. You definitely dodged a bullet with this one and his awful personality. I hope you feel better soon and I’m glad you have another kitty to help you while you’re upset (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:51 PM
7

Exact same situation here. Nice to know we aren’t alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:32 PM
4

Haha I’m still friends with his former friend and friend’s wife, who are forever amused by his poor decisions. At this point it’s just entertainment when they give me an occasional update
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:14 PM
33

“It probably means you’re more of a pick me than the exes, because they didn’t tolerate shit. You’re not “better” or changing him.” I agree with this whole heartedly. After being the woman my ex changed for (unbeknownst to me at the time), he cheated on me and triangulated me with another girl. This is because I wouldn’t get engaged to him until after a year of LD. One year I had to move in order to complete my career training. So he probably would have reverted back to his super LVM ways given …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:00 PM
18

🤗 💜 been there but also came to the conclusion that he will always be a piece of poop. You’re so much better off now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 04:57 PM
37

I learned so much today. They’re not married but he has 6 children from his 2 other marriages I think and Grimes gave him 7. There’s a 17 year age gap between them and she is now blonde. Personally, I think he’s a piece of shit and gets too much credit for things he only has little involvement in. That’s just me tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:18 PM
24

This is the real MVP comment right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:03 PM
13

I never got into it either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:58 PM
20

I saw this on the front page this morning and the top voted comment that appeared first went something along the lines of “age aside, he shouldn’t have, because they had no chemistry.” I thought about saying something but realized my day would be better if I didn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:58 PM
24

The most accurate summary here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:08 PM
33

Your username is amazing. Just like you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:04 AM
7

Same! Send over a DM here as well when you get the chance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:18 PM
35

I wouldn’t call wanting to have your own genetic progeny a need. I think it’s pure selfishness that we have been conditioned to accept as normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:16 PM
3

I was just wondering the same ... like why are you on there then? But someone mentioned he may just be there to pick fights because he needs attention/ supply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:16 PM
1

I can relate to this. Also feeling like I need to find a balance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:10 PM
2

Choonies 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:41 AM
20

This. I was in basically the same scenario with someone I knew who incessantly asked me to come see him. The last time he did, he felt compelled to mention that he was seeing someone but “it’s still pretty much an open thing, don’t think too hard about it.” I told him that not having a talk about being exclusive doesn’t make it an open thing. And if it really was nothing to him, he wouldn’t have mentioned it. I think they, in some scenarios, want to be able to throw the responsibility of making …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:26 AM
28

I now need to move to this city
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:38 PM
31

We only go to the gym to be gawked at by them or in a feeble attempt to get picked up. Honestly this is THE reason I stopped going to the gym and found other things to do. I would love this to be a reality. So jealous of the woman that she had these in her city already and a women only boxing gym!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:38 PM
9

Smooth brains. I Stan for that description.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:37 PM
89

Wow. I didn’t expect to be attacked this morning. Lollll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:16 PM
7

Really want to emphasize this comment. I like how you mentioned surgery in general. Always do your own research. A lot of patients don’t have great health literacy and because of the for profit structure of medicine, doctors and surgeons don’t necessarily have a ton of time to spend with their patients. Take time figuring out the risks and benefits and never hesitate to ask questions. If you get brushed off and aren’t willing to answer reasonable questions, find a different physician.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:55 PM
12

Haha some of them look like what I call diaper butt! I always had thicker thighs and a butt, it’s funny that I wanted the opposite; to be flatter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:36 PM
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It’s interesting that you (and many others) have been subject to this kind of commentary because, conversely, in the high fashion world I feel like women are commended - not having any curves. If anything, it should reiterate the fact that anyone else’s opinion of your body is completely unimportant. Someone’s perception of beauty is basically indoctrinated into them by the media / popular beauty standards. Standard that recycle. How unoriginal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:27 PM
4

Omg same. I want to be friends with both of you 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:29 PM
3

It’s funny, I don’t have a Hindu background but I came to this conclusion about religions in general as well. Glad to hear people see similarly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:55 AM
27

This describes my mom’s dinner parties. I’m pretty sure I was questioning why the men got served first while the women do ALL the work - from the age of 8
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:52 AM
45

I would bet those awful words were based on the fact she had darker skin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:09 AM
53

Child free represent! Honestly, the certainty of this aspect of my life makes a lot of decisions and a way of life much easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:35 AM
7

Hahaha I’m laughing because I’m assuming you referenced the other post - which was, a menagerie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:27 PM
2

I agree with this and think it’s so important. We should absolutely practice and foster an environment of inclusion even if people come with differing perspectives. Disrespect and hatred doesn’t change minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:25 PM
13

This made me smile this morning. Incredibly well done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:39 PM
2

The mic drop that was heard around the world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:14 AM
3

This quickly seems to have escalated into cats vs dogs because a lot of people took your post as a personal attack on their preferences. Ladies, this post was not about you. And if you don’t have anecdotal experience like some of the posters have to dislike a (any) subset of living creatures, don’t use your (often misguided and inaccurate) stereotypes to justify it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:12 AM
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😂 she has posted the same essay like 12 times here. I don’t even have the attention span to read all of it. Girl you need a TLDR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:08 AM
3

I’m sorry ): I do believe it was the Pocahontas sleeping bag tho. I’m jealous myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:05 AM
7

Both my exes want dogs to meet women haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:00 AM
0

You can get hook worms and parasites from dogs or any animal. This isn’t unique to cats. The risk of getting toxoplasmosis even while pregnant is incredibly rare. The CDC and humane society say to avoid that even minimal risk, pregnant people should use rubber gloves, wash hands. The specific parasite in question is more commonly acquired by humans from eating undercooked meat. This is such an awful myth perpetrated by - I don’t even know what. Word of mouth? You shit in your house too, don’t yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:58 AM
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Untrained and bad ownership. Pitties are actually very sweet natured. If they’re aggressive, they have been trained or neglected to be. You alluded to that already but I just felt like chiming in!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:52 AM
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I think it’s interesting that the people who are offended by this post have displayed exactly that attitude. Idc if someone says they don’t like an animal, but don’t come swinging wildly saying “they smell and put their butthole everywhere.” Like clearly you haven’t had an animal, any animal can smell or have butthole behaviour. This post isn’t an attack on you because you don’t like cats. Relax y’all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:40 AM
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I want a lamb too! Like a rescue lamb? It’s a dream!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:38 AM
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The risk of getting toxoplasmosis from cats, even while pregnant is exceedingly rare. If you don’t have help to clean the litter during pregnancy, the CDC and humane society recommend you wear rubber gloves as a precaution. Humans more commonly get it from consumption of undercooked meat. “ It's unlikely that your cat will give you toxoplasmosis. In fact, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, "people are more likely to get [toxoplasmosis] from eating raw meat or from garde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:17 AM
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Yeah that was messed up. I think the cat was sick and he thought he was euthanizing it or something. But imagine if it was a dog instead? He put it in the freezer...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:05 AM
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Haha let me know in a couple of months how you feel about this. I am obsessed with my cat. My entire family would agree that he is another family member. They are unique and have their own personalities just like people and truly should be treated as such! Yes some people DO go way overboard with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:03 AM
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My cat used to play fetch but learned that he would much rather have me come and retrieve the hair tie than him actually bring it back to me. He will come and drop it near me to let me know he wants to play. It’s adorable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:51 AM
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I would agree to disagree here. I completely agree it’s not our obligation to teach, argue, or convince anyone of this position. I do think there are women that may be on the fence about this particular behaviour and it would be helpful for someone of that nature - who is curious and open minded but not the most astute. You noted yourself that half the population is below average intelligence. You’re entitled to your opinion however and generally speaking I do agree with you - only those open to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:00 AM
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That’s a really good frame of reference to understand part of the reason people are so defensive about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:54 AM
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To be clear. I am not asking for myself. I come from a science background. However, if you assume that random redditor x who stumbles on this sub is going to go through your post history, through old posts, or do a google search looking for information that asks them to open their minds to information that challenges their established beliefs, it would be naive. Make it easy for them. I want others to have easy access to a source if the OP mentions it. Otherwise most people are happy to say this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:32 AM
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I just want to make a quick random PSA. If you are going to bring up science to back your argument, PLEASE provide (reputable) sources! I know the studies are there and I know about this link and correlation. This doesn’t come from a place of disbelief. However, with the rise of disinformation and it being healthy to exercise skepticism when reading things online, I think it’s only beneficial to do as such. And may help those who are on the fence see that the claim is truly backed by some scienc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:00 AM
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There is no next time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:52 PM
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Socks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:52 AM
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Stay strong beauty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:24 AM
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You go girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:28 AM
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While I agree with the sentiment in your post and am so sorry you had to experience that but glad you noped out of that situation. Is going to a movie indoors for any type of date / dude worth it in the middle of a pandemic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:30 AM
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It says nothing explicitly about gifts. And yes, I expect a man who is serious about me to take the time and energy to prove it. If you call that “pursuit” than so be it. Here is a post from a FDS member from 10h ago. Since you’re so good at sharing one post and saying it’s applicable to everyone: “ 10h I make mental notes about what the people I date or hang around with like so that I have ideas for birthdays and Xmas. I had so much fun picking out some really cool shit for my bf of just over a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:48 AM
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I’m sorry, did I miss something? Where did I say that men are pursuers? If a man’s love language is gift giving, then give gifts? Like everyone likes gifts? And it’s fun to give people surprises outside of birthdays or special occasions. I think that’s applicable to both sexes, and again, should be something both people do for each other in a mutually loving and serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:34 AM
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People have different love languages. Some are satisfied with certain things more than others. To say that everything should be 50/50 along all those things is pretty naive. But you are entitled to your opinion and whatever type of relationship you want to have. The link you shared is one example. FDS, just like TRP, TBP, etc members exist on a spectrum. Taking one example and applying it to everyone in the community isn’t an accurate screenshot of how every person thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:29 AM
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You can still buy things for your SO or make them dinner, etc. Saying a prescription to FDS means you expect to pay for nothing and do absolutely nothing is not accurate. I will reciprocate the energy I receive. That being said, my expectation is that if someone is trying to impress me and wants to show their commitment, they should pay on our dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:15 AM
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I completely understand. I think it’s one of my biggest struggles in life. It’s hard!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:46 PM
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I know taking criticism is hard. And I truly suck on the receiving end too, but I think she said it nicely enough. If we aren’t called on some of our bad habits, how can we expect to grow?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:02 AM
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If you’re looking for something in the same vein that isn’t trash, r/changemyview is a good one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:03 PM
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The best part I saw was a guy who explained how he tries to impress his wife every day. Sharing that tip got him an award and a bunch of upvotes. Then he gave a real life example of how he spends time on how he dresses and how low effort cargo shorts are and got massively downvoted by the cargo short brigade men of Reddit who were salty that their look was used as an example of what not to do. Puke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:01 PM
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Fun fact. The word hysteria is derived from the Greek word hysterika - meaning uterus. “In ancient Greece it was believed that a wandering and discontented Uterus was blamed for that dreaded female ailment of excessive emotion, hysteria.” https://academic.mu.edu/meissnerd/hysteria.html Fun times, am I right??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:55 PM
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Absolutely agreed. Let them keep the trash. We are so much better than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:52 PM
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Thank you for sharing this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:51 PM
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If I wanted to listen to men spout bullshit i wouldn’t knowingly be in the only properly modded female space on Reddit Exactly this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:39 PM
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100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:09 PM
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Love you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:52 PM
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The patriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:31 PM
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A friend of mine went to Australia and said she found a greater amount of attractive men there. I figure I’ll make it my first stop once we can travel again so I can form my own judgement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:30 AM
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Idkkkk how I feel about the taliban comment, since I have seen some nice beards! And other women sometimes like it too. It all depends. That being said, beards are usually for men with small jaw lines. It gives them a fuller appearing jaw structure and presumably that is perceived as more manly. There’s a really good meme out there about how men accuse women of cat fishing with makeup but then shows you like James Harden, Drake, or Henry Cavill with and without a beard. https://www.google.com/am…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:25 AM
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The two or three times I made profiles for an OLD app that had a range above 30, I was amazed that men looked even older. I started to suspect that some of them were flat out lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:21 AM
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Maybe he’s compensating with his girlfriends. He hasn’t had a girlfriend over the age of 25. Not an embellishment in any way. That is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:06 AM
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I found this sub because of this exact situation a few months ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:59 AM
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Not only does it have to be explained, but they FIGHT AGAINST CHANGING THEIR BEHAVIOUR!! You know, because it’s “nOrMaL” and we are just “iNsEcUrE.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:43 AM
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Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:10 AM
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McChicken Always remind yourself of the McChicken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:46 AM
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I like to keep them around for reminders. While maintaining little to no direct contact with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:53 AM
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I think part of that comes from the fact that a prime recommendation in this sub involves ... reading the handbook. And members should read it when they have time to! Either way maybe comment you have seen the topic in the handbook which recommends x but you’re wondering about y? But I understand that sometimes people just want answers too. And there are definitely women in the comments that provide answers to them, along with a few that say “read the handbook.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:29 PM
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I have had a similar experience with a lot of male physicians. They’ll date PAs, nurses, speech and physical therapists, teachers, hair dressers, real estate agents, housewives. Female doctors are “too ambitious” tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:13 PM
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“Because men have the audacity to have standards outside of their value.“ This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:08 PM
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Every time a man disappoints me I get prettier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:38 PM
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Also dated a narc for 2 years. Things were great until the mask slipped off. Then went through 8 months of hell with a textbook discard. They’re just soulless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:54 PM
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I have had that issue in my past too but plan on not being this way anymore. Haven’t been able to initiate break ups so just push people away and instigate until they break up with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:13 PM
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This reminds me of the fallacy that men age better too. Which I have learned, at the age of 30, is completely false. My girlfriends keep getting hotter and these dudes just get fat and bald.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:52 PM
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My ex is a creepy pig demon. He’s 40 now and follows girls 21-25 on the gram. I didn’t make the cut when I turned 29. So glad to not be part of that mess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:50 PM
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You are beautiful. Have an amazing day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 12:50 PM
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I need a piece of that vegan blackout chocolate wedding cake. You can even keep the gold flakes on my piece if you want 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 12:44 PM
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Ugh. Heard this in March. So glad the trash took itself out of my life and I discovered this community!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:44 AM
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Hey, don’t knock on those Audrey movies. I’m assuming you haven’t seen Funny Face if you had something to say about Roman Holiday haha! Although yeahhh, classics because of the old school thinking. For what it’s worth, Children’s Hour was kind of an amazing movie for it’s time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:08 AM
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Completely agree. The same way they pushed Bernie out of the ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:04 PM
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Fellow Aspie. Completely agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:39 AM
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Me IRL in my last relationship. I was so sorry while he was cheating on me and 'needed space to think about us' - which went on for 8 months. The lessons I took out of that though have made me who I am today and why I relate with the FDS way as much as I do. I'm building a life where I'll be happy by myself and will not tolerate any immature tomfoolery. I'm lucky the trash took itself out of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 02:58 PM
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Those are peonies. He’s high value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:19 PM
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They honest to god don't care what you say to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:43 PM
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I consider following and interacting with 'influencers' to also fall under this category and 100% would not date a man who did this. I'm genuinely interested in your thoughts on women who voluntarily monetize their bodies on instagram and build careers off it. Presumably this is a decision they are choosing to make as opposed to being nonconsensual, but I always feel conflicted about it because it seems to propagate a detrimental way of thinking where it has been normalized to objectify women. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 12:50 AM
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SAVAGE. I LOVE IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:23 PM
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I agree. I tend to have that problem when trying to make someone aware of a bigger issue for example. Trying to figure out the best way to go about doing that these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:22 PM
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This would be so much fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:40 AM
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You got this girl. You will come out stronger and wiser from this experience. I know it may not help acutely, but give yourself the time you need to heal and love yourself again. You are worth it (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:49 AM
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I would absolutely use an app like this! You also have my full unwavering confidence and support. Unfortunately, I am not a coder in any way. Good luck queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:44 AM
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