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MALE DEPRAVITYnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:23 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:47 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:52 AM
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nancy5559/r/askFDS13/05/21 07:30 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:30 AM
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nancy5559/r/askFDS21/01/21 08:54 PM
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nancy5559/r/askFDS10/01/21 03:01 AM
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nancy5559/r/askFDS11/02/21 06:29 AM
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nancy5559/r/askFDS23/04/21 05:28 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:05 AM
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LIES MEN TELLnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:13 PM
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LIES MEN TELLnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:04 PM
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PICKME CULTUREnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:20 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:49 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:00 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:57 AM
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LIES MEN TELLnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:17 AM
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DISCUSSIONnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:38 PM
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NAH, SISnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:48 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:09 AM
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NAH, SISnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:39 AM
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NAH, SISnancy5559/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:57 AM
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nancy5559/r/askFDS07/05/21 05:24 AM
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My ex tried to force me to have an abortion. He was 19 and I was 21. Yea we were young but i wanted to keep the baby. He yelled, cried, rolled around on the floor, told me for DAYS AND DAYS that I had to have the abortion. He kept having me make abortion appointments and I kept not going to them. He threatened to take a bottle of pills and end himself. It was pure hell. I ended up miscarrying. I stayed with him for six more years (almost seven). One of the final straws of me leaving him was that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:41 PM
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My alternate account got permanently banned from Reddit for saying that that post was disgusting and sexist. But that’s Reddit for you! 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:28 PM
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It’s because he sees you as an object, not as a person. I’d be mad if someone wore my shoes or took my phone without asking, and that’s how he feels about you as a person, he sees you as an object. He’s not jealous, he doesn’t care about you, his ego is hurt because he wants women to be obsessed with him. He wants to have sex with all the women he wants but with them not having sex with other guys. I would completely cut him off. I’m sorry if it sounds harsh but this is what it is. I spent way t…
/r/askFDS27/05/21 06:06 AM
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Demonizing bad men, not good men. That’s where you’re mistaken.
/r/PussyPass26/05/21 06:59 PM
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Yes many of us have been abused by men, so we teach each other the signs so that we can avoid men like that in the future. And I’m not a single mother, I’m 28 and I don’t have any kids although I do want them someday
/r/PussyPass25/05/21 11:44 PM
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My exes mom treated me like everything I did was wrong. My boyfriend never defended me. He was sexist and misogynistic towards me, and I know that it’s because he idolized his mom so much. She told me I hung up the curtains wrong, I hold my purse wrong, I take care of the cat wrong, I cook wrong, I hold a pan wrong, I don’t clean the desk right, etc and my boyfriend would always be backing her up and asking me in private “why do you do those things wrong!!!!!??” And I said “just because your mot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:57 AM
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I disagree with point 5. I’m an alcoholic but it’s because my dog was killed by my neighbors pitbull and my mom lose several fingers in the attack. Pair that with a toxic six year relationship with a LVM (just got out of the relationship finally and live on my own now) and it was the perfect storm of alcoholism for me. Luckily I’ve been able to make a couple female friends in my new town so far, I hope they don’t judge me for my drinking, I know I need to slow down or quit but I just haven’t yet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:37 AM
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Lol that’s not even what FDS is about but okay then 👌
/r/PussyPass25/05/21 02:14 AM
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Lol boo boo you don’t like me 😂 why, because I speak the truth? Taking half of a pedos money is somehow bad?? Lmao. It’s not like she conned him for his money, it’s not like she married him and immediately divorced him. She literally stayed loyal to him for almost 30 years and then she found out he cheated on her with LITTLE CHILDREN so fuck yea she deserves half. If he’s actually a child raper then she deserves it all!!!
/r/PussyPass25/05/21 01:20 AM
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Bill Gates is a pedo so you’re basically defending him
/r/PussyPass25/05/21 12:48 AM
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I’m 28. And I’m not wrong.
/r/PussyPass19/05/21 12:32 AM
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My parents are in their early 60s and they recently broke up. When my mom was with my dad, she was depressed and never left her room. She drank all the time. Now, she’s lost weight, made friends, she’s driving again (she hadn’t driven in almost ten years!) and she’s loving life again. She’s also having sex with two different FWB relationships (this is personally not my thing, but she and my dad stopped having sex a long time ago even though she wanted to my dad didn’t want to, so I don’t blame h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:11 AM
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I have to disagree with you on this one. When I was 18 (this was over ten years ago) my very first real boyfriend (he was 19) had two best friends: a guy, and a lesbian. They were all skaters and the lesbian had the most muscular arms I’d ever seen on a woman. She had a deep voice, very butchy, and always wore backwards baseball hats. My ex was a stoner guy and we would go to her house to hangout (there was like 15 of her relatives all living in one house, I’m not even exaggerating!!) They were …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:59 AM
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Omg yes!!! Let’s do an FDS book club!!! I would love this so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:37 AM
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I’m so sorry that you’re going through that, I’m still going through it!! I’m 28 but I look like I’m 18, I have men in their 40s hitting on me and telling me I look to young to be in the bar....then why the fuck are you hitting on me if I look like I’m under 21?!? It’s so wrong and it just shocks me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:52 PM
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The bottom comment was upvoted, my comment was downvoted. Apparently being 13 and dating a 17 year old is completely normal in their eyes. I was heavily bashed for suggesting it’s not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:50 PM
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I know right!!! Ya the worst part was that we met when I was like 18 and he was like 29, and I later found out that his ex was another TEENAGER like myself!!!! We were never really “together” it was more of a friends with benefits type of thing, I was so young and naive. He disrespected me in so many ways but that was the worst of them all. After that I told him I never wanted to see him again. Then he showed up at my parents house (where I was living) like nothing ever happened!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:39 PM
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I had an ex flush my plan b down the toilet after sex (behind my back) and he tried to give me CANDY IN ITS REPLACEMENT like he literally cut the candy into the shape of a pill and gave it to me TELLING ME IT WAS A PLANB he lied to me and tried to gaslight me!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:58 AM
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I can’t because I’m currently living in a small town and the police hate us. It’s a long, long story, but bottom line, an ex friend of ours (let’s call her Kathy) broke the windows on my moms car with a hammer in a drunken rage, we called the cops but Kathy took off, the cops were incredibly angry at us for calling on Kathy. Kathy didn’t get into any trouble. No charges were brought. Kathy then beat up my older sister. Again, police wouldn’t press charges. Kathy then left a voice message telling…
/r/askFDS14/05/21 01:09 AM
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He doesn’t like to hear about the problems in my life. My family has a bad problem with addictions and there truthfully is a lot of drama in my family. But whenever I want to talk about it, he always shuts me down. He says he doesn’t want to hear about my trashy family and their countless issues. He says there is a new issue with them every week (I don’t think it’s actually that often, but still). I would say 85% of the time, if I want to talk about my family, he tells me that they’re trashy and…
/r/askFDS13/05/21 10:51 PM
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Really??? This makes me so sad. I loved that movie as a young girl, I even cut my hair just like Natalies in the movie. I’ll have to go back and watch it as an adult, I had no idea. That’s so sickening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:58 PM
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All I hear is blah blah blah
/r/PussyPass11/05/21 08:14 PM
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I agree with you and I think this is such a stupid post. They were married for 27 years and she raised his children while he got filthy rich. She deserves some of the money. It’s funny to me how the men on this sub actually want their ex wives to die penniless after birthing their children. Unsubbed.
/r/PussyPass11/05/21 07:13 AM
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Okay then I take back what I said. I’m white so I guess I was mostly talking about white guys, but I don’t even date white guys anyways. And ya that’s unfair of me to say, I’m sure not all guys (white or otherwise) are weird just because they watch anime. That would make me a total hypocrite because I love anime haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:26 AM
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I’m still with him, sort of. We lived together for four years (dated for six years almost seven) and now I’m moving out into my own place. I’m currently staying with family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:00 PM
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The only time I think it’s okay to date a guy who watches anime is if he’s actually Japanese himself. My ex was Japanese and he loved anime, but like, NORMAL anime. Like Naruto, or Hiyozaki movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:54 PM
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Most men these days only think about their penis. They don’t want the commitment of a wife and children. They only want to have a “forever girlfriend”, who they drag on the relationship for years with, but never marry. Why? So they can continue to cheat, not put any effort in, not take the relationship seriously, but still get to have a free “bangmaid”. I’m 28 and I’ve spent all my 20s with my boyfriend, he hasn’t married me, hasn’t gotten me pregnant, and says he has no idea when he’ll actually…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:46 PM
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Me as well !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:41 PM
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The sad thing, is that she has half a million followers on YouTube, and I’m sure a huge chunk of them are girls/women. I hate that she’s out here brainwashing people with her bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:59 AM
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I responded to a post on social media where a woman was looking for a roommate in my city. I said I would be a great roommate for her because I don’t have kids or pets, and I have a good job. I had a few men pop up in my DMs basically trying to hit on me. They all had kids and one profile had his WIFE in it. It’s not that there’s anything wrong with a man having kids (I do want kids someday) BUT when it’s predatory and they’re only doing it because they want a free bangmaid/babysitter out of me,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:55 AM
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When I was 15, I “dated” a guy who was almost 30. We never had sex, only kissed. I’m 28 now and from what I hear he sits on his porch and watches the little girls play in the yard next to his house. Someone also told me that he was arrested for talking sexually to a minor. He has to be at least 40 years old now. Soooo fucking gross. He also has a girlfriend (two of them I think????) who either have no idea, or are in on his sick games. Nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:41 AM
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This reminds me of my ex so much. I had constant anxiety but couldn’t figure out why. Once I got rid of him my anxiety went away!! Turns out all of my anxiety was induced by being around him and his abuse !! I haven’t had anxiety in soooooo long now, it feels amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:10 PM
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My ex wasn’t into violent porn, but he did get boners sometimes when I would cry. He said it was because he wanted to cheer me up with his dick lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:00 PM
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I would LOVE to have a baby! But I spent the last seven years with a LVM who wouldn’t give me a baby. I’m 28 and starting over from scratch now. It’s hard as fuck to know that the person I loved and gave everything to, toyed around with my biological clock. I contribute low birth rate to LVM behavior. We get stuck with LVM and then we waste our reproductive years with them. I still want a baby but I know that I need to find a HVM first, I’m not gonna waste anymore time on LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:59 PM
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I’m 28, I have a friend who is 55. She came to my house crying the other day, saying that she’s sick of her husband not cooking or cleaning. She says she can’t even get her hip surgery because she knows that he won’t take care of her after the surgery, even though she takes care of him after all of his health problems. I told her to leave him!!! My mom was visiting (60 y/o) and telling her to try to work it out with him. My mom is a wonderful woman but she is so stuck in her pickme ways. I kept …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:48 PM
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Same here!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:21 PM
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Can someone please send her a link to this and DM her to tell her that she needs us (aka FDS)? I’ve actually messaged so many women on Reddit from AITA and relationship subreddits, telling them how awful their husbands/bfs are and how badly they need us. I’ve have so many women respond back thanking me. We are truly doing Gods work, if anything can find the woman in the post and reach out to her that would be amazing <33
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:25 PM
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I’m 28 and don’t have a license, although I have a permit and recently bought a car. I grew up poor (parents and siblings on meth and alcohol) and I never really had anyone to teach me. I also was on substances myself and didn’t want to learn. I’ve turned my life around now though and finally will start driving. But putting all that aside, she should leave him for his lack of determination for his future, also following women on Instagram for “eye candy”?? Disgusting, I would leave him for that …
/r/askFDS28/04/21 04:10 AM
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Ya that’s what I liked about it, was that she’s showing how women just begged for crumbs generation after generation, but now we give the middle finger and say fuck it, we don’t need a man (unless he’s everything we want, which would be way better than any of those things)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:28 AM
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This is very similar to my ex. We were together for almost seven years (lived together for four years) but he would only visit my family once per year (if that). He was a lazy bum. Smoked weed all day, and never made any effort to see my family. He rarely even saw his own family. It was so embarrassing to be with someone for that long, yet have virtually no pictures of him with my family. All of my sisters and brothers would get to have their partners come over all the time, even if it was a cas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:34 PM
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I disagree though because there are old shows out there that had a lot of teachable moments (although usually only regarding race and socioeconomic things), unfortunately I agree with you that there wasn’t enough for girls out there that was feminist and strong. Although I was obsessed with The Facts Of Life (there was an episode that was based around one of the girls almost getting raped, although I can’t remember which girl) and the rest of the episode was based around how girls and women can …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:25 AM
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Damn this really hit me where it hurts, thank you for this, I can see That I have a lot of thinking to do :(
/r/askFDS24/04/21 12:16 AM
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Thank you so much for this, and no he never really visited his family either. All he’s done for the last 6-7 years is sit on the couch and smoke weed. The only way he has income is from a website he created seven years ago that he still gets money from. It’s a good amount of money but if he actually worked on the website for more than twice a year (like he’s been doing) then it could really create a stable life for us. He’s quitting weed now and I’m quitting alcohol (I was a bad alcoholic and he…
/r/askFDS23/04/21 08:43 PM
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I disagree. There are tons of men who put women down, and it has nothing to do with them being rejected in the past. There are men who are “attractive” and have never been rejected, and they still treat women like shit. On the flip side, there are men who have been rejected countless times but still don’t use it as an excuse to treat women like dirt
/r/askFDS15/04/21 12:14 AM
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“People who only love you because of surgery, money, looks, titles, etc etc usually don’t really love themselves and need these things in a partner because they’re insecure” This is completely incorrect and goes against what FDS has taught us. Oh believe me, they absolutely DO love themselves, they’re narcissists, that’s why they believe that they only deserve to date rich fake people and they give no thought to how someone actually is as a person and who they are inside. Men aren’t stupid. They…
/r/askFDS14/04/21 10:36 PM
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You’re misunderstanding what “if he wanted to, he would” means. It doesn’t mean that men get to treat women like dirt unless he deems her worthy, in fact, this isn’t even how men operate. High Value Men treat ALL WOMEN with respect and worthiness, WETHER OR NOT HE WANTS TO SLEEP WITH HER. High Value Men treat women with respect because we are worth more than just to be “sex objects”, they value us as people, it’s a mutual respect thing. Low Value Men treat ALL WOMEN like shit unless he deems her…
/r/askFDS14/04/21 10:32 PM
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He’s a user who wants sex but without actually being there for you emotionally. He’s disrespectful, you did the right thing !! You don’t want to be with someone like that anyways. Remember: if he wanted to, he would. He doesn’t, so find someone better <3 someone who actually is worthy of your time, queen!!
/r/askFDS14/04/21 09:25 AM
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Even if it isn’t a product of capitalism, it IS a product of men wanting to use women’s bodies without our consent. “Oh so you won’t have sex with me? What if I pay you?” My ex cheated on me six different times, with six different prostitutes, and it destroyed me for a very long time. He didn’t have protected sex with half of them and even gave them oral (despite having not gone down on me in years). Prostitution destroys everyone involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:19 PM
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The article says, “Under DC law, the 13-year-old can’t be charged as an adult — even in a murder case. The 15-year-old suspect could be charged as an adult, but that would increase the burden of proof on prosecutors.” So basically in DC, if a juvenile is found guilty, even of murder, they can only be kept in prison until they turn 21, and then they are released. But if the prosecutor is successful in having them charged as adults, then they can go to jail for longer. We won’t know until it actua…
/r/PussyPass10/04/21 05:20 PM
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Those two are the scum of the earth, they are killers who deserve to rot in hell, BUT——they didn’t get light sentences because of their gender, they got light sentences because of their age. It’s the law in their state, that’s just how it is. Although I fully expect a push for them to be sentenced as adults, which would increase the sentence. I hope it happens!!
/r/PussyPass09/04/21 11:52 PM
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Treating each other with kindness is just a normal part of a relationship, this isn’t something you should hyperfocus on. Yes it’s great to make each other feel good, happy, etc, but this isn’t what you should be focusing on right now. Enjoy the ride, but keep your eyes open for red flags. The vetting process is just beginning. When you try to see if a man is high value or low value, that’s not just something that happens in the first few weeks of dating. It’s something that continues on. Hell, …
/r/askFDS09/04/21 07:08 PM
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I found the full clip (not fuzzy like the one I previously saw) and the smacking doesn’t seem as bad as I thought it was. But there are still dozens of instances of him being a LVM and treating her bad. Here’s a compilation of some mean things he’s done to her: https://youtu.be/ApELXxj0EW8 Heres another clip of him telling her to not touch him: https://youtu.be/qab4Iu4WFrg There are a lot more clips of him being mean to her too :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:56 PM
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Her dad is actually Stephen Baldwin (Alec’s brother), I don’t know much about him so I can’t say if he’s an LVM or not, but the probability is definitely high :(( All the Baldwin brothers seem like douchebags. Wouldn’t now be the time that they all gang up on Justin and say “don’t hurt Hailey or we’ll beat you up”? Or maybe they already did that? It’s just weird. Why is this being allowed? It angers me for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:34 PM
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If he wanted to resolve it, he would. He doesn’t care. Don’t give men like this any of your time. If he cared about your feelings, he would have made you feel better. He didn’t. Men ARE SUPPOSED to be affectionate after sex. The fact that he actually had the audacity to get mad at you for that just shows what a piece of shit he is. And stop apologizing to him!! Queens don’t apologize :) Men apologize to US for wasting our time 💅
/r/askFDS07/04/21 11:27 PM
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This isn’t a pussypass, it’s actually a penis pass, because 99% of the pedophiles that Ghlisaine and Epstein sold the girls to were actually men. These are high powered men who do NOT want their crimes to get out to the public. That’s why most of the testimony will be repressed from the public, not because she’s a woman.
/r/PussyPass23/03/21 03:53 AM
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My dad is 62 and single, and he always wants the women to pick where they go out for dinner. He says women have showed him so many crappy restaurants (his words, not mine), so I asked him why he doesn’t pick the restaurants that they go to, and he says he thinks it’s douchey (for lack of a better word) if the man is always picking the restaurants. So while I think it’s usually uncaring of a man to not have a date suggestion, I don’t think it’s always the case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:29 AM
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I love your comment sooooo much, thank you so much for posting it!!! I wish I had gold to give you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:39 PM
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This is exactly how Ted Bundy lured in his victims!!! He walked around with a fake broken arm in a sling and would get women to help him, then he would kill them!!!! Maybe the man who asked you for help really was hurt but you never know, it could have been a trap, and the smart decision is to get a worker to assist them and then walk away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:59 AM
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He’s probably a pedo himself, I once knew a guy who made comments like that, and ten years later he was arrested for turning a 12 year old girl into his “girlfriend”. Sick people out there!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:19 PM
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I completely disagree with everything you just said
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:45 AM
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That’s a really odd way of viewing relationships though, I’ve just never heard of that or ever even considered it, but I guess it makes sense that some people would be that way. I’m definitely not that way though, I have sex with my boyfriend because I genuinely love it and find him very attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:39 AM
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I’ve been with my boyfriend for seven years and we have sex every single day, with some gap days. It’s never boring for us, although I guess seven years isn’t very long, but still
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:01 AM
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I’m confused. I don’t do casual sex and I think it’s degrading and disgusting for both genders. I only do “relationship sex” (I’ve never even heard of this term before) because sex is supposed to be between two people who love each other. So what’s wrong in your opinion with “relationship sex”? Sex between two people in love is literally the best sex that there is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 12:41 AM
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What’s wrong with “relationship sex”?? As a woman who does NOT do casual sex, I am EXTREMELY confused by this. I only have “relationship sex”, that’s obviously the best kind of sex because sex is supposed to be between two people who love each other. Are you saying that “casual sex” is better than “relationship sex”? Ive never heard these terms before so this is extremely weird and unsettling for me to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 12:38 AM
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I’m 5’4 (and a woman) and at 125lbs I look like I’m dying, I have family asking me if I’m on drugs or starving myself. At 150lbs I look slender, toned, and healthy (this is my current weight). My BMI is 26. BMIs are bullshit, especially considering that as women, we have an entire additional organ that men don’t have (a uterus, aka our womb), so while the BMI chart might be a decent enough guild line, it isn’t perfect, and can be way off (aka telling a skinny person that they’re fat according to…
/r/PussyPass05/03/21 01:34 AM
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This isn’t sexist. For whatever reason, she was given this opportunity, and you weren’t. There are a lot of factors that can go into this. Is she older than you? Does she have more experience drawing? Does she live closer to him? Did he actually give her the machines to keep, or is he just leasing them to her? My ex boyfriend got into a good college, and I, a woman, didn’t. There were many factors that went into that, namely that his parents had lots of money, he had a car so he could drive to t…
/r/PussyPass04/03/21 11:55 PM
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The girl on the cosmo cover is a normal weight. It’s posts like these that make women hate their bodies and get anorexia. Tell me, what’s wrong with her body? How much thinner do you want her to be? Do you want her to be as thin as a child? And for the record, it’s not nice to body shame anyone, male or female. It’s stupid to say that men are forced to be in good shape, yet women are accepted being fat. I’ve seen both genders be made fun of/praised for weight loss/gain. This post is stupid.
/r/PussyPass04/03/21 11:46 PM
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I was expecting him to ask for her Venmo to offer her money after the break up. That was one of the few HVM things that my ex did for me (other then that he was a LVM in most ways). But it was sweet he did help me out financially after our break up. Seeing that this guy has the audacity to ask for money back from dates????? Wow, that’s a new low
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:52 PM
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You must have misunderstood my post. If a man wants a housewife, he needs to pay all the bills. Otherwise, it’s 50/50. If he expects her to pay half the bills, then he needs to do half of the chores, like a grown ass adult. Where did I not make myself clear? I apologize if that wasn’t clear in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:12 AM
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Lmfao I don’t care about weight xD I like fat guys better. Height? Hmm. Yea well I’m 5’2 and I dated a guy who was 4’11. If he hadn’t cheated on me, I would have married him! I was so in love. But after he cheated on me, yes, I can’t lie, I’ve found that I do like men taller than me. Not by much, as long as he’s my height (5’2 or taller) then I’m happy. It’s funny because I would have never even thought this way until he cheated on me! Some men say it’s all about height, but I would have happily…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:09 AM
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Lol what? I don’t understand what you’re trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:14 AM
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Haha yep that’s just how we were! Couldn’t have said it better myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:14 AM
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Thank you for making my point for me. Women have no problem being the main chore person, as long as the man pays. That’s exactly what I said in my post! Many men expect women to split everything (bills, utilities, etc) yet they still expect women to be housewives. That’s not how it works if you expect a woman to pay half the bills. Thank you for agreeing with me!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:12 AM
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As long as he’s Asian and has a penis I’m happy (this is me speaking STRICTLY of physical appearance. Obviously when it comes to love and the important things, there is much more to it then that. We need to love and respect each other, NO CHEATING NO LYING, etc.) but yea other then that, I’m not picky with appearances. I’m much more attracted to how he treats me. Asian guy with a penis who loves me and won’t cheat on me???? Marry me fuck yah!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:51 AM
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I think this ties into the whole “men want a woman who is a perfect wife, cook for him, clean for him, be a perfect wife just like his grandfather and father had before him”. Well guess what? Back then, men actually, you know, WORKED. I hate seeing entitled men out there who say “if she’s not wife material, I don’t want her”. HAHAHAHHA. Seriously, these men actually expect that a woman will work, split the rent, split the bills, keep a clean house, cook for them, and raise the kids all on their …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:46 AM
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I am 100% disgusted by casual sex in all forms. The stable man I fall in love with and the man I have “fun with” will be the same person. Casual sex disgusts me. Sex is supposed to be special. When I am happy and in love with a good man (who is honest, trustworthy, and doesn’t cheat on me, obviously) my horniness knows no bounds for him, I will want to be having sex with him every single day. Sex is for true love <3
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:10 AM
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I don’t care what my husband looks like, as long as he is kind to me, doesn’t cheat on me, and loves me, then I will have sex with him every single day and love him forever. My horniness knows no bounds when I’m truly in love with a good man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:07 AM
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I’m disgusted by casual sex, I think sex is something that’s meant to be special between two people, so I really will not continue a conversation like this with someone who is okay with that kind of thing, especially considering that we’re talking about two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:04 AM
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I think you misunderstand what a HVM is, a HVM is a man who has love and respect for his woman, he doesn’t cheat, doesn’t lie, doesn’t manipulate, etc, and women want a HVM because we want to have mutual love and respect with our partner, we don’t want to be treated bad. The women that get stuck in relationships with LVM (low value men) are usually women who have low self esteem, or who grew up in a dysfunctional family, so they don’t know what a healthy relationship is supposed to look like (th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 02:36 AM
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Wow what a sad outlook you have on life. I’m a woman and if what you’ve described is beta, then that’s exactly the type of man I want. Stable life, kind, loving, who wants kids and a happy family. Sign me up!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:48 PM
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Mine didn’t talk to us about either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:47 PM
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That was such a good read, thank you so much for posting this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:37 AM
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He’s so hot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 09:22 PM
3

I disagree completely, Adam Driver is sexy as fuck. I would totally date him if he was a regular guy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 09:22 PM
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I disagree. I think Adam Driver is sexy as hell. I would still wanna date/marry him if he was just a normal person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 09:21 PM
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This was my ex 100%. He grew up rich and spoiled, I grew up poor, and I did everything for him, but he still constantly cheated on me with hookers. Broke my fucking heart each time I’d log in and see that he was still paying $30/month to access “escort service websites”. Any man from any walk of life can be a LVM piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 10:11 AM
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About ten or so years ago, back when Wiz Khalifa was with Amber Rose, I remember RiFF RaFF doing an interview and saying “Wiz made it cool to have a girlfriend and it changed how I view women” (something along those lines? I forget), and it always made me appreciate and respect Wiz for loving Amber and not hiding it (even though eventually they broke up), and it made me respect RiFF RaFF more for accepting that yea, a lot of men treat women like objects, and it took seeing another man treating h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:26 AM
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If a women is into BDSM it’s most likely due to deep seeded issues that she has, some of it might even be subconscious. It probably comes from low self esteem or something else like that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:06 PM
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Men: DoMeStIC ViOlEnCe iS WrOnG! aBuSiNg a WoMaN iS WrOnG! ......UnLeSS iT GivEs mE aN eRecTioN, tHeN iTs OkAy! DoNt kiNk ShAmE! Seriously what the fuck is wrong with men who are into BDSM. Fucking nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 05:32 PM
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Well then maybe they act like creepers and you just don’t know it? Or maybe their picking the wrong women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 05:17 PM
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I never said that. But for the record, any time I’ve ever refused to date a guy, it’s usually because he acts creepy to me in one way or another. One guy told me that marrying 12 year old girls should be legalized (barf), and another guy repeatedly asked me to have sex with him even though I was in a relationship (I blocked him after that). And whenever guys ask me out randomly (example: I’m at a bus stop and the guy asking me out is a random stranger), they ALWAYS say some creepy shit to me (to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 04:38 PM
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When I was 15 and this guy was 30 he dated me for a few weeks, we never had sex thank god but still, I look back on it and I’m so grossed out by him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:45 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/heavy.com/news/stas-reeflay-valentina-grigoryeva-youtube/amp/ He also pepper sprayed her in the face and abused her in the weeks leading to her death. He got paid to do this by other deprived men on his Live Streams
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:12 AM
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The point of this post isn’t to bash men, it’s to show men who have low self esteem that they have it way easier than women to find a partner. So many incels say that women are picky, they only want hot or “tall” men, etc, when that simply isn’t the case. Women are attracted to way more than just looks, therefore, it’s much easier for an unattractive man to find a partner than it is for an unattractive woman to find a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 06:22 PM
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My ex was a Japanese man and incredibly sexy (I’m white and I feel like I’m average looking). I gained weight towards the end of our relationship (this was not why we broke up) and I was very self conscious about my weight. I felt like when people looked at us, they automatically thought “why is he with her? He can do way better”. His own family commented on my weight and did it in a sneaky and mean way. He personally didn’t care that I gained weight and still thought I was sexy regardless. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:11 PM
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No.......it’s just.......For example, my brother is 25 and yes he wants to get married and have kids, but he also has a lot of friends. I’ve always been jealous of his social life. He’s not a “Chad” or a “cool guy”, he’s a chubby guy who doesn’t have a lot of money (we grew up poor) but he has so many friends and I’ve always wanted that (I’m a woman who has always had a hard time making friends, I’m 28 if it matters). I want kids, my ex boyfriend dragged his feet on marriage and kids, but at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 05:07 PM
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I’ve never met a man like the one that you described
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 02:51 PM
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It shouldn’t take four months of therapy for a man to put effort into the relationship, remember our motto, if he wanted to he would!! He clearly doesn’t and is just doing therapy to keep you content, I don’t think he actually plans on changing
/r/askFDS01/02/21 02:49 PM
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I agree with this statement, & btw I haven’t been able to reply to comment threads either lately, are you on mobile? Mine is getting screwy, I hope reddit realizes this and fixes it!! Oh and a better way to tag someone (instead of putting @) is to put a u/ next to their username (example u/missmadeofpain) that way it will show up for them in their reddit notifications (I just learned this recently lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:09 PM
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I’m 28 and I used to feel that way, but not anymore. And don’t worry too much about aging, I use face creams and anti aging stuff too (I’m actually obsessed with it!) but I do it for myself, not for a man. And for the record, my ex cheated on me with six different prostitutes while we were together, and FOUR of those women were 55+ (my boyfriend and I were in our early 20s). LOTS of men love older women. Don’t get me wrong, it broke my heart when I found out he cheated, and obviously we’re not t…
/r/askFDS29/01/21 07:15 PM
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I agree completely. Promiscuity destroys men and women both, and usually they behave this way because of deep seeded issues that they might not even know they have. I learned in a psychology class that when men and women are beaten/molested/neglected as children, that a part of their brain that controls sex/love becomes fucked up, and it can make them lash out violently or sexually. I myself was molested when I was three years old (I’m a 28 year old woman) and I never knew it until my dad told m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 02:15 AM
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This sounds like my ex, he expected me to end sex with him cumming in my mouth almost every single time we had sex, but he only went down on me once per year. In 2020 he didn’t go down on me for the entire year. I left him early January of this year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:23 PM
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Hey I’m so sorry I didn’t see your comment until just now!! Thank you so much & you can message me anytime too :) I’ve been slowly but surely getting stronger emotionally each day, I’ve been staying with family and I’ve been driving my car every day trying to get better and better at driving. It’s been a little over three weeks since I left my ex and I can’t believe all the things I’ve accomplished in this time, he really was holding me back. I know that you’re accomplishing things too and I’m s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:43 PM
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My problem with it, is that he’s having sex with her unconscious body while there’s vomit on her pillow, and she appears to be fully unconscious. So when he stops and realizes this is weird I’m having sex with an unconscious woman, that’s when she suddenly wakes up and says “why are you stopping motherfucker?” It’s meant to be funny that she suddenly wakes up while he’s having sex with her unconscious body and tells him to keep going or whatever. That’s messed up to me. The joke is: “I was havin…
/r/askFDS23/01/21 02:05 AM
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She wasn’t the actual DA in the court room with me, no. But she was the one who contacted the news and had our case put on the news, and she talked a lot of shit about me. She fought hard for me to go to prison. I don’t know why she hated me so bad, maybe there was an incentive for her to get more young offenders to go to prison? I honestly have no idea. But, for the rest of my life, whenever an employer googles my name, they see those articles and news clips online. It was one thing to get my e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 09:26 PM
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He might be young but he’s a real man!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:47 AM
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I couldn’t agree more. My life is a thousand times better without my cheating gambling ex. Fuck that shit!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:42 AM
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Holy fuck that was terrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:26 AM
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Holy shit I needed this so bad right now I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:20 AM
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I love it!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:12 AM
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Thank you so much for your comment and for the support!!!! It means so much to me you have no idea <3 & I loooove how you put that into words, about how I feel like my identity isn’t fully mine, it didn’t hit me until you said that, but it’s 100% true. I felt like my identity was merged with his. I tried so hard to get him to change but nothing worked, and now I’ve accepted that there’s nothing that I could have done to change things. I love your post so much and I relate to it so much, I have i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:18 AM
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Thank you so much <3 ya it was really bad, I’ve posted about him on reddit off and on for years, both with posts and comments. I didn’t realize how toxic our relationship was until I joined FDS, it helped me finally be okay with us breaking up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 06:51 PM
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My ex would be FURIOUS if I watched porn or masturbated. Like, he literally wouldn’t let me masturbate. If I was in the bedroom alone for more than five minutes he would come in and get me. Come to find out, he was subscribed (PAYING ACTUAL MONEY!!) to countless porn sites. I checked his email and saw lots of charges from a company called “CCBill”. It’s what hooker websites and porn websites use to discreetly charge their customers so that their partners won’t know what they’re up to. Oh yea and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:54 PM
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I relate to everything you say SO FKN MUCH. I was a pickme girl for years and I didn’t even realize it until this sub. And side note I’m really glad that you brought up race. I’m white and my LVM ex was Japanese, I was with him for six years. He said it a million times: “you’re only with me because you have a fetish for Asian guys, you don’t even care about me” (my ex before him was Korean but we only dated for six months). I used to feel so bad when he would say that, I would reassure him that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:53 PM
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I agree, I left me LVM after six years of being together (and living together for 4 years) we broke up Jan 4th 2021 I have moments where I cry because I miss him and I miss the good times, but overall our relationship as a whole wasn’t working. There no shame in being heart broken after a break up, even with a bad partner it can be an emotional experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:18 PM
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My ex cheated on me six times with six different prostitutes and he acted like being a prostitute is no big deal and that porn stars should sleep with the men who watch their porn more often because it makes them lots of money to do it. That whole relationship was traumatizing. I left him Jan 4th 2021 and I’m staying strong 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:14 PM
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My ex cheated on me six times with six different prostitutes and he acted like being a prostitute was “no big deal” and a great way for porn stars who wanna make extra money by sleeping with the men who watch their porn. That relationship was traumatizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:12 PM
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Yea these women will mutilate themselves and LVM won’t even fuck them anyways. It’s so fkd up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:44 AM
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I agree completely. My ex only went down on my three times in the last three years and it broke my heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:42 AM
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Omg this is so true, I wish I had an award to give you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:33 AM
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Wowwwww. Holy fuck. That blew my mind. Thank you so much for commenting that, I completely agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:42 AM
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I personally love anime and I’m super into Japanese guys. Some of them love anime because they watched it growing up, others don’t like it and never have. Anime doesn’t bother me especially if it’s a cultural thing, because like I said, that’s the race I’m into
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:53 PM
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I always had my ex in my profile picture on Facebook, but the reason I did this was because I posted to a community Facebook page looking for friends (FEMALE ONLY) because I was new to the area, and I had like three different MEN message me trying to be friends even though my post said female only. One of those guys was married, the other one looked like he was on drugs, and the other one was just some random guy. After that, I made sure to keep my ex in my profile pic that way I wouldn’t get we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:45 PM
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I want to add that the responses that men gave me were so utterly sexist and pathetic. “Were you doing all the housework?” WHAT KIND OF QUESTION IS THAT??? If a man broke up with his girlfriend I doubt that other men would ask him about household chores. Hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:14 PM
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Him or me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:12 AM
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Ya basically that’s one of the reasons I left him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:12 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:12 AM
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Because he was abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:12 AM
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Yea but I’m not saying to waste time on a man who isn’t worth it, I’m talking about if a woman is in a good relationship with a HVM then she shouldn’t have to censor herself if she’s having a good in depth conversation with him
/r/askFDS15/01/21 04:28 AM
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I think it’s good to write long paragraphs if you’re in a serious relationship. And if doesn’t respond the way you want, then just leave him! I’m not gonna censor myself and type short little texts to please him. Plus if you do that, then you’re playing mind games. This goes against the FDS handbook of being upfront and not playing mind games, it’s all about being honest and getting what you want out of the relationship. This is the only way to make a man learn to respect us.
/r/askFDS15/01/21 02:15 AM
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I’m not into “hook ups” or “casual sex”, i think sex should be special and sacred so I’m not gonna comment on this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:48 PM
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Oh nice thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:29 AM
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What is OLD? I’ve seen in mentioned but I’m out of the loop D:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:58 AM
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Haha omg I love that so much!! Ya I love to play out crazy situations with my sims, it’s like a drama show where we get the be the creators haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:43 AM
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Same!! This is why I love playing The Sims so much haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:15 AM
1

I’m white and I only date Asian guys, I highly doubt that they’re the “least desirable”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 09:57 PM
1

So the man who has a missing leg shouldn’t be allowed to own property? Drive a car?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 09:51 PM
1

I don’t hate men and I don’t think all men are bad and all women are good. I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 07:44 PM
1

So by your logic, if there are two men, and one of them is missing a leg, that means that they’re unequal right? They can’t be equal in other ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 07:22 PM
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I’m not putting down incels, I’m saying that we relate to them. No, we don’t trash talk on men because of incels. We trash talk men because of the bad ones we’ve dated. I’m saying that incels are relatable to me because they trash talk too, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Shit only gets bad once someone loses their mind and starts killing people (which sadly has happened in the incel community). FDS isn’t guilty of killing anyone. But even still, I think that most members of the MGTOW/incel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 06:57 PM
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Lol cool
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:23 AM
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Hey I’m not gonna lie, a lot of us have been hurt by men and we make jokes when we shouldn’t. But I see the same shit from men in the incel forums you know? We’re clearly all people who have been hurt and need to move on and grow and learn, and change
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:23 AM
1

Lol then why do people keep telling me about random statistics about child abuse when I’m talking about walking alone at night
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:22 AM
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The fact that you said you felt dreadful in the relationship but too scared to lose it really hits home for me. Things can be awful but at the same time you have this illogical worry to stay because you have this illogical attachment from trauma bonding and stay because you hope they change. Fuck that! You’re so right girl. I left my LVM on January 3rd after 6 years of being together. If I can do it then any woman can. Good luck to you on your new life!!! I’m so excited for mine. I’m 28 and fina…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:29 AM
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My ex cheated on me with multiple prostitutes who were mostly all 50+. For the record, we’re in our 20s. So yea the milf thing is real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:22 AM
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I love your comment so much and I couldn’t have said it better myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:18 AM
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Hijacking the top comment to give my view on things: I don’t like this. It implies that our words to LVM is not enough, we need to stick around and push them to comprehend our feelings. It goes against the rules of FDS: Men aren’t stupid. They KNOW that they’re hurting us......they just don’t care. LVM comprehend things just fine. They just don’t care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:17 AM
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I don’t like this. It implies that our words to LVM is not enough, we need to stick around and push them to comprehend our feelings. It goes against the rules of FDS: Men aren’t stupid. They KNOW that they’re hurting us......they just don’t care. LVM comprehend things just fine. They just don’t care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:17 AM
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This is why prenups are important for both genders. This is also why it’s good to have money saved, no matter your gender. If a woman is with an abusive man, she can use her savings to get away. If a man has an abusive woman try to take his kids away, he can fight it with a good attorney from his savings. No matter what gender you are, you need to vet the person well, and see who you’re dealing with. You need to make sure you have savings, and a back up plan. It’s just a good way for people to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 06:57 AM
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I would be honest about what you want out of the relationship (although that’s up to you), but don’t tell him what you want out of a man (random example: don’t tell him that you like a man who opens doors for you, because if he’s an abuser, he’ll just start opening doors for you to lure you in to be his victim, and he’ll obviously stop once he’s able to control you. These men don’t want love, they want a person to control). Instead, just see how he is naturally. If you’ve vetted him and he’s not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:50 AM
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Yea but I can say the same about men. A man can be great going in, but once their married, he can use his money and power to keep her away from her kids, or even kill her if she tries to leave him. There’s bad people out there of both genders, but I really do believe that most people are good
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:30 AM
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Ya I agree 100% with you on that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:28 AM
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Yea that’s why I left my ex the day I found out, because I didn’t want to be a “sucker” and be involved in that nasty shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:26 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:25 AM
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More women are primary care givers for children than fathers, so obviously more children would be abused by their mother than their father. Child abuse is disgusting no matter who the perpetrator is. But what this discussion is about, is walking alone at night. Nothing more nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:25 AM
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I never said that. We’re talking about walking alone at night
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:22 AM
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Yea but you picked the wrong woman to marry, I’m sorry but it’s the cold hard truth. It doesn’t mean that all women are like her. Just like how I was in an awful six year relationship with a man who was emotionally (and at times physically abusive) it still doesn’t mean that all men are that way. That’s why I’m so grateful to r/FemaleDatingStrategy because it helps me see the signs for future relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:10 AM
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See this is exactly why r/FemaleDatingStrategy is so amazing. It tells women to have standards and to stop ending up with guys who treat them bad. Also I disagree with you about “chasing bad boys”, because the women that I’ve known who have been in these relationships didn’t do it because the man was a “bad boy”. A lot of these men start out normal at first to lure the woman (victim) in, and then they start slow with the abuse. It happens so lightly at first that the woman doesn’t even know she’…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:06 AM
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You can be equal in one way, and unequal in another.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 04:32 AM
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All of my female friends have been walked all over by men. Alcoholics, gambling addicts, hooker addictions. Girls who have married single dads, just to become slaves to their husbands and the husbands control them, won’t let them work, force them to take care of the step kids but NOT getting her pregnant because he sees her as free labor. Girls who have married guys who force them to cook, clean, raise the kids, won’t let them get a job BUT ALSO won’t give the wife any money. Making the woman wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 03:51 AM
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No problem! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 03:43 AM
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I agree that telling a man upfront what you’re wanting out of a relationship can be bad, because he might fake that shit just to be with you. It’s better to secretly vet him and see who he REALLY is before revealing what you want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:26 AM
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Ive only met two American women in my entire life who were like this, and I’m literally an American woman who grew up in America. What makes you think that American women are like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 12:15 AM
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For the people who don’t know, “pickmeisha” means that she’s a “pick me” girl. She only does things that will attract a mans attention, she puts little effort into actually loving herself or having any self worth. A “pick me” girl is a girl who will only end up with a LVM (a Low Value Man) because she has low standards and only wants love. She’s a girl who can’t see that there are bad men in the world who take advantage of her. So basically a “skipmeisha” is a girl who has nothing to do with any…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 12:14 AM
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I agree completely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 12:10 AM
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I’m a member of FDS and you’re wrong, what we want is the exact opposite of what you’re saying. We’re looking for a relationship where WE ARE NOT being controlled, nor do we want to control our partner. We simply want a man who is going to have mutual love with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 12:08 AM
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Lol are you joking? Love is the basis for humanity, and a nuclear family is what keeps society going, and turns civilizations great. We NEED monogamy, and I only choose monogamy. You don’t have to want that for yourself but society needs it as a whole and it’s the most important thing for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 12:04 AM
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Wow this totally looks like my first boyfriend from ten years ago. But he was a really nice guy, he was a stoner/dumb and unambitious which is why we broke up because we didn’t really have a future together, BUT he was a really really nice guy. Still this makes me laugh, thanks for making my day haha. I love this image
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:51 PM
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Well legit anyone who fucks a hooker is a loser, how is that even a debate? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 08:44 AM
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My ex cheated on me six times with six different prostitutes (!!!) half the time he didn’t even use protection!! HE LICKED ONE OF THEIR PUSSIES and did 69 with her!!!!! I was an idiot and stayed with him longer. If it weren’t for this sub, I wouldn’t have gotten out of that relationship. Oh yea and he only went down on me THREE TIMES in the last three years. He went down on me TWICE in 2018, ONCE in 2019, and ZERO TIMES in 2020. Thank fucking god I found this sub finally and it saved my soul!!!!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:13 AM
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Prostitution is disgusting and it should be illegal everywhere. My ex cheated on me with prostitutes and it destroyed my soul
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:41 AM
2

I completely agree and I couldn’t have said it better myself!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:37 AM
2

No I don’t believe women should play sports unless it’s women playing other women. There was an MMA female fighter named Fallon Fox and it was later found out that she was born as a man and she was banned from MMA which I think was fair (there are videos of Fallon Fox fighting women on MMA on YouTube you can still see them they’re up there)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:58 PM
1

Yea but if I had a boyfriend who walked behind women at night etc I wouldn’t like that either because I would want him to be a gentleman and be courteous to other people’s feelings, and that goes for both genders, I would walk on the other side of the street at night as to not weird out whoever was walking, wether it was a woman or a man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:48 PM
1

Okay so the cases you’re bringing up are of women who have been raped by lesbians, aka lesbians who have high testosterone (similar to men), see it all goes back to testosterone (which men have more of). Women get raped more often. 90% of rape victims are women. I’m a woman and I wouldn’t wanna freak anyone out at night it doesn’t matter what their gender is. There’s nothing wrong with being courteous and not freaking people out at night, what’s so hard to understand about that. Yes I do believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:46 PM
1

I’m serious. If I had a boyfriend who felt that way then I wouldn’t be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:36 PM
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It’s possible to be equal in some ways, and not equal in others. Do I believe that women should be allowed to drive and own property? Yes. Do I believe that women are smaller and weaker and need to be protected? Yes. Imagine two men of the same height and one has red hair and one has black hair. “They can’t be the same height, it’s not possible because they have different colored hair!!” That’s ridiculous. It’s absolutely possible for women to work, drive, own property, but at the same time, to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:35 PM
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90% of rape victims are women. In third world countries, little girls have their clits removed that way they can’t experience sexual pleasure (if your clit is gone you can’t have an orgasm from any form of sex, that includes penis in vagina sex, penis in anus sex, etc because your clit is where your pleasure connects to). They do this so that women won’t have pleasure. In Saudi Arabia, women aren’t allowed to talk to men who they aren’t related to, or they will be put in prison. They can’t drive…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:29 PM
2

Yes but men do it far more often
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:19 PM
1

I mean that it’s worthless in terms of WOMEN HAVE A SHORT TIME FRAME TO GET PREGNANT. We as women have to be picky and make sure that we find a man who loves us and protects us and help us raise our kids. That’s why I left my ex, he just didn’t fit what I wanted. When I was in my early 20s I was stupid but now that I’m 28 I know what I want and that’s a man who respects me and respects my time frame and that I want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:18 PM
2

I agree with you 100% and I couldn’t have said it better myself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:18 PM
1

Don’t listen to that person I highly doubt theyre a woman. They’re probably a man pretending to be a woman to get their point across (reminds me of r/AsABlackMan where people pretend to be black on Reddit to get their racist points across but they’re really just a white racist person acting stupid). But ya thank you so much for your comments I agree 100%, these people are so offensive and backwards it’s insane
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:02 PM
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Women want a man who will have mutual love and respect in the relationship and who will have and raise children with us (not all women or men want kids and I get that, but my point still stands). And when I say that sperm is worthless, I mean that sperm is good forever, a man can have kids for basically his entire life, but women only have a small amount of time to have kids so we have to be picky and make sure we choose a man who will love us and protect us and our kids, it goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:59 PM
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I mean that it’s worthless in terms of WOMEN HAVE A SHORT TIME FRAME TO GET PREGNANT. We as women have to be picky and make sure that we find a man who loves us and protects us and help us raise our kids. That’s why I left my ex, he just didn’t fit what I wanted. When I was in my early 20s I was stupid but now that I’m 28 I know what I want and that’s a man who respects me and respects my time frame and that I want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:58 PM
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I never said women were inferior, I said that women are small and get victimized so we need to be protected. Any good man would have no problem doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:55 PM
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Lol this is why I would never date a man like you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:21 AM
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Lol because if we gave out sex freely then every loser with a penis would fuck us. What dont you understand?? Women can only have children from the ages of 20 to 35. That’s a teeny tiny time frame. Eggs are precious. Sperm is worthless. If we’re going to fuck a man, we better make damn sure first that he’s a reliable and loving and suitable man who we can fall in love with who will protect and love us as well as our offspring. It’s basic biology. And that has nothing to do with looks or money. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:11 AM
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Hah, he wasn’t flirting with me. What makes you think that any kind gesture towards a woman is flirting? Are men that pathetic and depraved that they can’t make a kind gesture without wanting to fuck someone? You’re really putting down your own gender huh? And for the record, you never answered my last point: men suffer violence AT THE HANDS OF OTHER MEN. If some race of green aliens came down to earth and cohabited with us, and people started saying “omg these green aliens are experience 80% cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:02 AM
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Haha wow, your comments are ridiculous. Women are smaller, women suffer immense amounts of sexual violence. A good man (a REAL man) has no problem doing these things to make a woman feel safe. I’ve been robbed before, I’ve been stabbed before (in the thigh, no big deal I survived) and men who do this for me mean SO FUCKING MUCH TO ME. I once had a man tell me in the middle of the night on my walk home from work “hey I’m letting you know I’m here and walking near you but I’m not a weirdo I swear”…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:47 AM
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Yea honestly I do think men need to take these precautions. It’s their gender that rapes, molests, rapes children, beat women, beat children, rip vaginas and anuses on porn scenes, rob and shoot women in the head in the middle of the night....... Are all men violent and evil? Fuck no. I have an amazing father and brother. BUT it is the male gender that abuses women, and men need to make women feel safe. The same way that women always offer themselves for emotional support to men (but the man jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:39 AM
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I also posted about him on my backup account called u/NothingFancyOkay and everyone on r/relationship_advice told me that it was okay that he called me fat and ugly, but that I should have never taken $400 from him (I took that money behind his back to retaliate against him for calling me names and kicking me out on my birthday) I did some online shopping for myself with that money on his debit card
/r/askFDS10/01/21 01:35 PM
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I agree 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:03 PM
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