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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 223 | 'Like your a senior in HS and I'm a 4th grader' bruuuuuh | PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME | napdt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 04:46 AM |
| 93 | I'm confused. Is this sarcasm? Is it a fake profile? | napdt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 07:38 AM | |
| 23 | I (22F) just broke up with my boyfriend (21M) of 5 years. I DONT WANT TO BE A PICKMEISHA ANYMORE. | LEVEL UP | napdt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:21 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Never film yourself having sex, don’t trust BS attempts at covering the truth when your gut is screaming at you, and if you learn that your partner has a PHub ACCOUNT, by all that is holy, RUN.I'm feeling nauseous. Really. This woman needs to break up with this pornsick and cheater ASAP. Plus, she needs solid boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:16 AM |
| 3 | New FDS Spotify Page! Now with SIX Playlists! Please post any songs you would like to nominate for the playlist under "FDS Anthems" on the Subreddit or the Website! Thanks!What about YouTube? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:27 PM |
| 26 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.YAAAS!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:49 AM |
| 11 | R/LadyBoners has NO taste 🤢 what’s with the crusty old white men??Even as a 21 yo I do find CF attractive. I wouldn't date him tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 06:43 AM |
| 5 | Sigh...... block and delete. She made a logical conclusion at the end and still wants to keep him around?!I feel you, sis. I did the same thing for my ex. He asked me to be his gf the same day I sent him nudes 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:42 AM |
| 5 | FDS Mood For Life Song 😍😍😍. Feel free to suggest songs similar to this oneThank you! :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:07 AM |
| 5 | Don’t break your own heart, ladies.Gotta save it. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 09:49 PM |
| 12 | So thoughtful 🥰This was literally my ex lol Boy bye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:35 AM |
| 60 | I love how OP handled this like a queen 🙌👑 the audacity of this selfish guy trying to pressure her into being a warm fleshlightUgh. Sounds like my ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 07:36 AM |
| 26 | You shouldn't have to beg for respect. Never *love* a man who would disregard you like this.Ugh. That was the worst part "I want to break up with him beacuse he forgot my birthday. Am I overreacting?" I had to cleare my browser history after I read The Handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 06:06 PM |
| 11 | On the ground outside...Oh, absolutely lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:04 AM |
| 10 | Man freaks out over girlfriend’s period products, then apologizes and begs her not to leave him. She needs to throw the whole man awayWoah, that is so scary. He such a manipulative trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 07:19 AM |
| 14 | Thank you, next.Situationships are THE worst. It nearly destroyed my mental health. This guy never considered me his friend. He told me that we were a "thing." "You are not my friend, you are so much more than that. Don't overthink it, b" he said and I bought it. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 06:23 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Thank you so much. I appreciate your advice. I already uninstalled the app, I'm feeling better. I will give myself time to heal and work on my goals. I bought a new embroidery kit and I'm going to embroider my way to the top haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 10:12 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Should I uninstall WhatsApp until I star my semester? I'm feeling anxious about my ex. I want to text him so bad. It's weird though. Sometimes I feel perfectly fine, like 'I despise him; I don't need him', but sometimes I feel this urge to know about him. I daydream about him everyday. It's ridiculous. I rely on the handbook to give me some sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:43 AM |
| 20 | A chilling story of a woman who almost married a cheating narcissist- her blog post revealing his true nature blew up his life in a spectacular fashion. Important reading!This is so disgusting. That man is repulsive. Poor woman, her feelings are so raw. It's been a year, so I hope she's getting the beautiful life that she deserves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 10:06 PM |
| 2 | The way to pay it forward when you have fully committed to leveling up and becoming a HVW & FDS Queen is to modeling this behavior in support of other women, believing women, speaking out when you see something wrong, and making sure women are safe if something seems off. Manifestation is powerful!I tried to convince my sister to, at least, record the conference, but she told me the girls agreed on not recording anything. They feel scared, and it's so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:36 PM |
| 2 | The way to pay it forward when you have fully committed to leveling up and becoming a HVW & FDS Queen is to modeling this behavior in support of other women, believing women, speaking out when you see something wrong, and making sure women are safe if something seems off. Manifestation is powerful!Ugh. Tell me about it. The lack of empathy from this lady was unnerving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:31 PM |
| 3 | The way to pay it forward when you have fully committed to leveling up and becoming a HVW & FDS Queen is to modeling this behavior in support of other women, believing women, speaking out when you see something wrong, and making sure women are safe if something seems off. Manifestation is powerful!Thank you so much!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:18 AM |
| 12 | The way to pay it forward when you have fully committed to leveling up and becoming a HVW & FDS Queen is to modeling this behavior in support of other women, believing women, speaking out when you see something wrong, and making sure women are safe if something seems off. Manifestation is powerful!He's a pedophile. One student has a cousin, WHO IS 12, and she recognized him in a picture as his former teacher. He tried to groom her, but she told her parents. He said "your height is perfect, but your are a little bit younger than me. I would buy you a nice house and make you my wife in a few years if you want to". I don't know why this man is not rotting in jail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:55 AM |
| 12 | The way to pay it forward when you have fully committed to leveling up and becoming a HVW & FDS Queen is to modeling this behavior in support of other women, believing women, speaking out when you see something wrong, and making sure women are safe if something seems off. Manifestation is powerful!Absolutely true. The girls felt she was diminishing the situation. Some of them don't want to be in English class, but if they don't show up, he will know who are the students involved and they want to remain anonymous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:44 AM |
| 11 | The way to pay it forward when you have fully committed to leveling up and becoming a HVW & FDS Queen is to modeling this behavior in support of other women, believing women, speaking out when you see something wrong, and making sure women are safe if something seems off. Manifestation is powerful!Yes! There is one girl who has his number (not only his, but all of her teachers') and he is the only one who replies to her WhatsApp status with "compliments" like gorgeous, pretty, beautiful. He uses emojis 😍😘🥰 and it is absolutely gross. They collected all the evidence in a huge file. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:38 AM |
| 8 | The way to pay it forward when you have fully committed to leveling up and becoming a HVW & FDS Queen is to modeling this behavior in support of other women, believing women, speaking out when you see something wrong, and making sure women are safe if something seems off. Manifestation is powerful!Yes. The girls are doing it, they are totally aware of how awful it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:22 AM |
| 31 | The way to pay it forward when you have fully committed to leveling up and becoming a HVW & FDS Queen is to modeling this behavior in support of other women, believing women, speaking out when you see something wrong, and making sure women are safe if something seems off. Manifestation is powerful!The principal is speaking with the psychologist about how to proceed. However, I believe the principal talk to the teacher because he contacted one of the girls and asked her who were those students, and that they were speaking ill of him. He told her that he was a good man, and that she knew he was a 'playful guy'. Plus, this 'playful guy' has a daughter. Poor thing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:46 AM |
| 4 | When you realize someone you're been seeing is a LVMThank God we leveled up, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:21 PM |
| 24 | The way to pay it forward when you have fully committed to leveling up and becoming a HVW & FDS Queen is to modeling this behavior in support of other women, believing women, speaking out when you see something wrong, and making sure women are safe if something seems off. Manifestation is powerful!Thanks! I'm really glad this sub is educating women. We deserve better. Indeed, it is quite empowering. We're speaking out against depraved people and advocating for women's rights. This community is so wonderful! Thanks for posting the picture, i needed the reminder ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:19 PM |
| 122 | The way to pay it forward when you have fully committed to leveling up and becoming a HVW & FDS Queen is to modeling this behavior in support of other women, believing women, speaking out when you see something wrong, and making sure women are safe if something seems off. Manifestation is powerful!Edit: Thank you kind Queen for the award, and to Queen /u/Heukki for the gold! These are my first awards ever I appreciate it :'D Also, thank you all for your encouraging replies! THIS! My sister's English teacher is sexually harassing girls with inappropiate comments before and during the lockdown. Thankfully my sister is not one of them. She's a high school student, and she encouraged her classmates to speak to the principal. It was tough to convince those girls. They were scared, some of them… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:39 PM |
| 9 | When you realize someone you're been seeing is a LVMI was such a pickme! I remember that time when I texted him "please, talk to me" when he was treating me like dirt and hanging out with his friends 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:04 PM |
| 2 | *long, exaggerated, justifiable sigh*This is so sad I want to cry. Poor girl. Sweet Lord. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 10:06 PM |
| 6 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?You look like a pug | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:11 AM |
| 12 | Which one of you Queens was this?WHAT A QUEEN MOVE! LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 03:16 AM |
| 9 | Thought this was appropriate hereOne of the reasons I love playing chess lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 03:49 PM |
| 6 | Thank you, ALL of youAwww! Congratulations for leveling up!! That's amazing. I'm so glad you're thriving 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Gentle reminder, ladies! Don't even change the course of your life for a HVM, don't lose yourself for anyone! It'd always end in tears.PREACH IT, QUEEN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:00 PM |
| 18 | You owe it to yourself, sis🙌🏽YES! Good timing. I needed this so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕Sis, what a beautiful work and message!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:53 PM |
| 2 | My nightmare breakup-let's find the lessons!Gosh! What a nightmare. My ex LVM wanted 4 kids lol. Can you imagine? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:52 PM |
| 5 | My nightmare breakup-let's find the lessons!Thank you so much for sharing. You reflected my own story with my ex. I'm so glad you were able to choose yourself. Again, thanks! You reminded me that I made the best decision ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:23 PM |
| 5 | 'Like your a senior in HS and I'm a 4th grader' bruuuuuhI'm not the girl lol She's 21 and the man is '29', but dude looks way older | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 06:23 PM |
| 16 | 'Like your a senior in HS and I'm a 4th grader' bruuuuuhDon't worry! I'm not the girl. I just found this on the Tinder sub. Apparently, he's 28/29, but dude looks like he's in his 40s. Thanks for your concern, and I'm so sorry you had such a terrible experience 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 07:32 AM |
| 8 | 'Like your a senior in HS and I'm a 4th grader' bruuuuuhPoor girl, it just got weirder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 07:23 AM |
| 1 | What is my ex trying to tell me here?Block and delete, that's THE mantra for dealing with LVM 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:51 AM |
| 1 | R/Dating Banned Me For Advising Young Women Not To Fall For Manipulation Tactics To Have Sex Early/ Without Commitment On A Woman's Post Opposing Men Expecting Sex On The Third Date (EYE ROLL)Happy Cake Day! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 04:22 AM |
| 4 | He's already threatening to lose interest?!So, this man takes the MBTI to justify his shitty behavior. "I'm an ESFP, babe, so don't expect commitment from me. Wanna fuck? :)" Edit: typo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 04:07 AM |
| 4 | Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsessionYeap! My ex follows the Kardashian-Jenner clan. He is a total loser lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 03:49 AM |
| 46 | Pretty much all of the comments were telling her she needs to COmMuNiCaTeI'm so glad she made the best choice for her. Deep down she already knew what to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:37 AM |
| 11 | What do we think about burping and farting?I thought that only happens in poorly written sitcoms. Fortunately, you don't live there 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 05:21 AM |
| 11 | YikesShe sounds so proud of being his mother lol She's literally bragging about how this manchild needs her, that's such a turn off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 04:34 AM |
| 21 | A full grown tape wormThat's scary. Poor woman. Hope she finds us soon because that guy is messed up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Leaving Him Was The Best Decision I Ever MadeCongratulations for choosing yourself! LVM are not worthy of time.Good for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Same old, same old: found LVM logic on Middlemarch by George Eliot, published in 1871. I was astonished to find FDS-esque wisdom in this novel. The character, Casaubon, is in his 40s when he marries Dorothea who is 21. She expects him to be wise and he never lives up to her expectations.Now, it makes the book even better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Marriage timeline - am I ridiculous ?What a jerk. He should tell you that he doesn't want to get married. 4-5 it's too long. Don't waste your time, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Signal phrases that suggest a guy is LVMAnd ENTP as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 05:37 PM |
| 2 | A (male) friend of mine posted this lately...Indeed. That's the LVM circle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMYess, I totally agreed with you, especially in the last part! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 11:41 PM |
| 17 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMYour description was accurate af! Even the weed stuff! He's such a hypocrite, always telling people to not do drugs, but likes to smoke weed. He tells people about how porn is bad, but watches anyways. He was so manipulative, 'Send me nudes, I don't want to watch porn'. Dude, it's not my responsability! This makes think that he was the hypocrite in our relationship. What a jerk. This is my problem. I always see potential. You're right. He's not willing to change for himself, let alone myself. La… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:11 PM |
| 2 | I (22F) just broke up with my boyfriend (21M) of 5 years. I DONT WANT TO BE A PICKMEISHA ANYMORE.Thank you! I'm trying to improve myself and let hurtful things go. I'm improving my Queendom! And I'm going to study abroad for a year as soon as this Coronavirus thing ends (I did not do it last year because my LVM ex told me he would not tolerate a LDR 🙄) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 05:29 PM |
| 2 | The Power of “So What?”Gotta save this post! It helps a lot, especially with reason number 2 and 3. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 05:37 AM |
| 1 | I (22F) just broke up with my boyfriend (21M) of 5 years. I DONT WANT TO BE A PICKMEISHA ANYMORE.Thanks! Indeed, this is a new beginning and I'm enjoying it. Life is too short ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Scrote steals photo to make people believe he has a girlfriend.Ew, what a creep. And that drooling emoji, just no, no, no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 05:27 AM |
| 3 | I (22F) just broke up with my boyfriend (21M) of 5 years. I DONT WANT TO BE A PICKMEISHA ANYMORE.Thank you so much. I'm improving myself and reconnecting with my old hobbies, and not holding back my quirks just because he didn't like them :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 05:20 AM |
| 2 | I (22F) just broke up with my boyfriend (21M) of 5 years. I DONT WANT TO BE A PICKMEISHA ANYMORE.Thank you! It's really tough, but I'm willing to leave everything in the past and learn from my mistakes. I'm going to enjoy this journey of self-esteem first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Anytime I consider OLD again, I just look through a folder on my phone of fucked up things men have said to me. This is a particularly odd one.Ewww. What a creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Special occasions ~ then & nowGirl, congratulations for upgrading your life!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 03:12 PM |
| 7 | Special occasions ~ then & nowHow did you do it? I'm in the part with awful boyfriend. I'm feeling so lonely. I seek for validation. I have self-esteem issues and that's why I'm settling for less. I accept his breadcrumbs and it makes me angry because I can do so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 03:11 PM |
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