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Debatenationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:39 PM
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Purge Discussion!nationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:05 PM
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Purge Discussion!nationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:24 PM
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Purge CMV!nationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:51 PM
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Purge Discussion!nationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:30 PM
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Purge Discussion!nationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:50 PM
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Purge Science!nationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:14 PM
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nationearthdotcom/r/ExRedPill01/08/21 04:00 PM
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Purge Discussion!nationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:39 AM
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Purge Discussion!nationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:04 PM
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Purge Discussion!nationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:23 AM
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LIES MEN TELLnationearthdotcom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:41 AM
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Purge Question For Women!nationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:37 PM
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Purge Science!nationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:01 PM
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Purge Question For Women!nationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:28 AM
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Discussionnationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:07 PM
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CMVnationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:59 PM
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nationearthdotcom/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:59 PM
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All women lust after the same narrow set of criteria, height, jawline, and status
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:59 PM
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It isn’t just that though, it’s that women’s expectations of men are largely unobtainable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:28 PM
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Maybe we just expect that we can be honest without peoples feelings getting in the way. How should I phrase this in a way that isn’t offensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:09 PM
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This will probably be deleted before I comment, but become proficient in whatever it is you do so you can have higher status, accept your relationship will only be superficial and won’t be fulfilling, and approach lots of women and don’t internalize rejection. I’d say work on your looks but a superficial relationship like that it probably doesn’t matter because she’ll be more interested in money and luxury. Or just hire an escort because approaching a relationship from this angle isn’t going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:13 PM
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I guess the issue is that when I say it people think I’m coming at it from another angle or they take it as an attack on their whole being. Kind of annoying because how defensive people get over the idea of white privilege, feminists get just as defensive when it’s their own privileges being discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:09 PM
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But it’s the truth, if as a white man I have to admit that I have certain privileges in society, which I do, why can’t women admit that their beauty standards are less strict? They’ll say that men just have to shower and put on clean clothes, but that doesn’t make them desirable, it just makes them presentable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:03 PM
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Why do women get so defensive when you tell them they have it easier? All of the standards for men are genetic stuff out of our control, all the standards for women are things that can be learned like make up or style, and the scope of what’s attractive for a man is so narrow, but women of all different types are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:47 PM
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This is what worries me about having children, in particular a son. What if all the advice I give him is outdated. I think generally the macro stuff holds true over generations though. I’m 31 so I’m part of a generation that grew up with the internet so I feel I can navigate most interactions being online. In a lot of ways I feel more in tune with the younger millennials/older gen z than I do with my age group. I had very teenage interests in my mid twenties where as the people I went to element…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:31 PM
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If that’s the case you need to drop your strategy brother
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:28 PM
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Why is spring break, love island, the bachelor, etc the metric everyone compares themselves to around here? Maybe this is whole red pill blue pill purple pill debate is just normie stuff but I’ve never been interested in that lifestyle nor am I friends with people who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:53 PM
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If I was single I’d ask you to send her my way, but to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:19 PM
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I guess I’m lucky then, I love alt chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:17 PM
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Why don’t guys just alternativemaxx? I don’t think guys understand how much they can control about their appearance, like stretched lobes and face tattoos and shit and women will look at that and be attracted to you. It’s seems like the guys who complain the most about hypergamy and not being able to get girls are always so generic looking and chasing after generic women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:07 PM
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I would unfollow anyone who unfollowed me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:34 PM
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I’ll give that a try, I am scared to post in this subreddit though because I don’t want to be banned
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:26 AM
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I agree with that, I have been involved with two women who do chaturbate, both have a history of being molested by family members, one responded with hyper sexual behavior and the other stopped doing camming because it brought back too many bad memories and it just made her disgusted and feel uncomfortable with society in particular men. I get what that guy is experiencing, my situation is so weird. When I was 17 I fell for the "girls like assholes" belief and despite being a virgin I would lie …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:25 AM
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You think I unironically think that job placement in a feminist utopia will be based on height?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:59 AM
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Tbh, I don’t see any issue with a matriarchal society, most hunter gatherer societies were communal and often ran by women, like the Iroquois confederacy for example. This statement was a joke but there are two main issues which I think exist. One is that I do think that incels are damaged by patriarchal standards but their frustration is misplaced. I agree with you that their issues with dating are often self constructed. Many refuse to even talk to women and instead fester in their confirmatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:58 AM
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Tbh I notice that as well, it’s like guys who are generally "yeah women should receive equal pay and I don’t have any strong opinions about abortion" It’s like the guys who are vaguely feminist do ok and then the guys who are super cucked about feminism seem to repel women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:51 AM
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I’m just joking, feel free to post on r/inceltear though, I like reading peoples reactions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:49 AM
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Who are they attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:40 AM
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Yeah, it’s called outside
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:34 AM
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Ok, so here is the future feminists want. Equality in the work place, which means the all female board of executives is giving themselves huge bonuses and promoting based on height alone, in fact male height is the determining factor for job placement. Then no men under a 7 are able to be in the same room as a woman, all of your grocery shopping is to be delivered via apps or at segregated grocery stores. Women are making 20k a month selling nudes online, as a man who isn’t part of the 20% your …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:32 AM
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You first
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:06 AM
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Who are you rooting for? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:14 AM
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I keep having things I want to say here but I always forget to write it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:10 AM
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It’s ok bud, you’re our dummy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:41 AM
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That is exactly what OP asked
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:18 AM
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Can you share the video?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:17 AM
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People would be bored, ultimately I think it would be a good thing for society, but I am an introvert and like being able to talk to people without leaving my house
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:16 AM
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Same, makes me sad I wasn’t able to have sex as much as I wanted to at that age 😭 Nurses are always hot af, I had a nurse who I used to trade nudes with on Snapchat, she lived in another state. girls are just great, I’m a fan. I wonder what my testosterone levels are too, maybe not everyone feels this way all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:06 AM
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I think it is possible to accept that you shouldn’t pursue someone, but I think that desire will be there initially from the mans perspective at least. His experience does sound like how my thoughts are though when I’m in a hyper sexual state, but they have calmed down since I’ve gotten older, but if I allow myself to get into a hyper sexual state it’s easy to be overwhelmed with those thoughts. I hate that I have this desire to look at women all the time, I hate that I have this wandering eye, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:34 PM
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I’m just giving my experience, I can only think of once that a girl was obviously trying to use me. i was a teenager. I was dating this girl. Another girl lied to me and said my girlfriend didn’t like me so I hung out with her and got a bj. First girl found out about this and was upset obviously. I ended up hanging out with another girl who was my ex girlfriends friend and we went to the mall and she kept asking me to buy her things seemingly as a way to get back at me for cheating on her friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:18 PM
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Please share some of your worst examples. Women are either interested in me or not interested in me, I’ve never been led or or lied to by women. If a woman didn’t meet my expectations of her that was on me for wanting something that wasn’t there, but I’ve never been used by a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:10 PM
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I think women do develop feelings, there is a lot of discussion online about how feminism promotes hookup culture but it mostly just benefits men and that women aren’t really benefitting. But just like everything I’m sure it depends on the individual. I never really felt connected to the girls I fooled around with not have i really felt connected to girls I’ve dated in the past, but I also deal with low empathy and traits of ASPD, so I’m kind of a bizarre case. I think that is true, if you can m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:09 PM
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Tell me about some of the cruel things women do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:52 PM
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I’m hardly handsome, I’m only 5’9 and I have an ugly nose, I was talking to my gf about this earlier, she was telling me about her and her friend would hang out with this guy because they would buy them food and alcohol and stuff. The only reason he did that for them despite them not being interested was because he allowed it, it isn’t some conspiracy against men, it’s literally guys not having enough self respect and enough of a backbone to walk away from situations that don’t benefit them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:26 PM
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I’ve never witnessed the cruelty they claim to be inherent in women, most of the cruelty involves being rejected by them which isn’t their responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:09 PM
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Why not try rogaine first? You can buy it OTC. If you want a relationship just tell her, I promise you if a girl likes you enough she will forgive just about anything. Women are nowhere near as cruel as TRP tries to claim. I’ll add that yes, hair is more attractive than not having hair, but what’s less attractive is lacking confidence. So wearing a wig because you’re insecure about being bald is unattractive, wearing a wig because society values men with hair and you don’t want to be limited to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:53 PM
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Hopefully my son will pass them onto me when he’s done. "Wow, I’m sorry my son treated you like that, let me take you out and we can talk about it" "Yeah, guys suck at that age, I’m so happy I outgrew all that and I know how to treat women the way they deserve to be treated" 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:15 PM
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Y’all love being hurt, don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:03 PM
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It’s tough, I always thought I would want him to be a player because that is how I measured masculinity by my own metrics, but I’m realizing that my mentality is skewed. In a perfect world I’d like him to just find someone who treats him well and they are happy together and have a happy relationship. But part of me wants to teach him how to chase women but I wouldn’t know how to tell him some of the things I’ve learned without him becoming traumatized or disgusted by me. Like when he has a crush…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:02 PM
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Telling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 04:56 PM
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Telling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 04:56 PM
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I remember the other thing I wanted to post, the whole "Chad" thing is stupid, it’s all perspective. Every man who gets the girl that another guy doesn’t is a "Chad" because that guy who she didn’t like is jealous. Whenever I’ve been with a girl there’s always been a guy or two telling her I’m an asshole or whining about how girls never like guys like them. And just so you know, yes, we’re laughing at you. Yes, I’m the one replying to your texts to her and we’re being subtly dickish. Yes, she’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 04:46 PM
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So you should be disrespectful?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:09 PM
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It’s only creepy if she isn’t attracted to you and there’s no way of knowing if she is attracted to you without approaching. Solution? Approach but be respectful and learn to be more subtle and read social cues. You know what compliment several women have told me they want to receive? "I like your shoes" I saw a guy when I was working at a cafe compliment a woman on her nails and he said, "that’s probably the most unexpected compliment you’ve ever received from a straight man" She seemed genuine…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:57 PM
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I just want to add that I mostly agree with you except for some nuance, but I want to remark on how men think women have it so easy and don’t have to try, but they fail to realize how much time, effort, and money goes into learning and using make up and other skin care effectively which while I understand they do wear make up for themselves, it does make them look more presentable by societies standards so it isn’t like women are swearing off cultural norms and still having men throw themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:47 PM
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I don’t think it’s necessarily that guys aren’t trying hard enough, it’s that they’re trying in the wrong ways. I tried really hard when I was a teenager but my approach was all wrong. I saw my mom being abused and I saw girls crying over their boyfriends treating them badly so I legitimately took the "girls like assholes" mentality to heart and I would be able to get girls interested in me, but they would stop talking to me before we had sex. It’s funny because the one girl I did have sex with …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:43 PM
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Not other women entirely but supplemental women, like bonus women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:59 AM
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Finally! So here’s what is on my mind today. 1.) my wife and I had an amazing day together 2.) I realize how lucky I am because we started dating when I was 21 and she was 18, she only dated one guy before me, and we both have low n counts. she will try anything that I recommend sexually, doing it standing up, standing 69, deep throat’s with her head hanging off the bed, all the things guys in here are saying wives won’t do. As we’ve gotten older over the last 9 years our sex life has calmed dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:37 AM
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My partner and I go out and play Pokémon Go every other night, your man is out there somewhere 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:20 AM
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I guarantee you guys have a better chance talking to girls on Instagram than they do on tinder. I’m aging myself but most of the girls I met were through MySpace and Tumblr, the reason I was so successful was because these girls could get an idea of who I was because they could see my posts. Even before learning about all these dating issue I noticed that I had the worst luck on tinder. I matched with very few girls, only was with one girl long term, she was 19 and I was 27, other than that I di…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:16 AM
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Men outnumber women on OLD, I think that shows that most women don’t value that approach and would rather meet someone who has a decent personality and at least decent hygiene. The problem with OLD is that you can’t get an idea of the person you’re talking to based on a small blurb. The app is designed to fail both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:03 AM
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Let people live, if their actions aren’t personally affecting you then who cares? If it’s the case of a friend or someone you care about just tell it to them straight if you’re in a position to offer advice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:41 AM
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Is this the community chat for today? I have a list of grievances I’d like to air
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:02 AM
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Chad doesn’t exist, he is just a made up boogie man to describe a guy who "got to her first" because in your mind women only exist as sexual objects to be collected and conquered rather than as complex people with changing wants and needs of their own
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:54 PM
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But that’s my issue I guess is the hook up disparity between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:18 PM
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What if you found out your partner was only with you because they felt you were the best they could do and are only staying with you to not be single? I feel like your mentality is constructing your own problems. Your partner has their own feelings and they’re not just a toy that exists for your sexual gratification. You still have to weigh whether your needs are being met, is it something tou really want to do or do you only want to do it because someone else did it? I think you can communicate…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:19 AM
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Don’t know why more guys don’t realize this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:49 AM
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This is a good one, I do not like going down on girls anymore. I just find it boring, before you get upset I don’t demand blowjobs either. I used to eat ass and I’m not really interested in that anymore, I don’t think girls like having their ass ate anyways, I think they just let me do it to appease me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:35 AM
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That’s what gets me though, they’re not as thirsty but they have more sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:32 AM
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I would like to know if I make the cut
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:58 AM
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What is the ideal ratio?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:52 AM
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Frame as in body proportions or frame as in how you carry and present yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:29 AM
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Tbh that article is looking at men and women 18 - 30 Women will typically date and hook up outside of their age range so I could see that playing a role in it, especially past 25 they’re probably hooking up with guys over 30
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:17 AM
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Accurate. This is why I’m so interested in this topic. I’ve never really been single, girls do like me, but I’m teetering on that edge where I can see what it’s like on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:14 AM
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I feel like this is an example of how women are attracted to dark triad traits. From my observations I feel like the majority of guys who have sex regularly do this. I’m able to do it too and I don’t experience empathy fully so I don’t really feel guilty about it, but sometimes I wonder what it’s like to feel like a normal person and feel emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:13 AM
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What are those characteristics?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:10 AM
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Why do I feel like I read this on another thread earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:10 AM
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Do you think I pull based on our limited interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:09 AM
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Why not play the boyfriend role then after sex say things are moving too fast? I feel like that’s what a lot of guys do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:08 AM
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So what can men realistically do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:36 AM
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So is the solution for guys to learn to be less creepy or is creepiness dependent on the woman’s perception?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:34 AM
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What is really causing the rise of male sexlessness? Is it that guys are inept when it comes to women? Are the incels right? I’m losing sleep over this and even though I’m in a relationship so I don’t have to worry about sexlessness, I need to understand why my brothers are having such bad luck. I mean female sexlessness isn’t really rising so it is a male issue, however it is higher than it’s ever been, but still, that means more women are having sex than men, there needs to be some explanation…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:30 AM
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Because nobody can compare to Josh Allen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:23 AM
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Why avoid the truth? I’m just deceiving myself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:06 AM
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I go on tiktok and I immediately see tiktoks with girls in the comments claiming to have 30+ previous sexual partners If women really dislike all the male attention they receive, how are they having so many partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:53 AM
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Yeah, I think it’s just easier to be purposefully shocking online, plus I guess just like the other thing I do like the attention of getting a rise out of people. But like, deep down I just want to be a pure person, I just feel scared because of things that OP has noticed that I’ve noticed too. It’s hard to be vulnerable, it takes courage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:35 AM
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You just did respond to it though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:33 AM
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Sure, I’ll take your suggestions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:26 AM
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Are you telling us Mr. Dr. Gree likes being pegged?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:25 AM
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I’m just a stupid boy so my brain isn’t capable of understanding this question, it sounds like she would still peg me if I wanted? I don’t get it. So she won’t peg me because it makes her more attractive. She doesn’t have to do anything she isn’t comfortable with, people change over time. If being pegged is that important to me I’ll find someone who will do it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:21 AM
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Oof, yeah that would hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:20 AM
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Oh yeah, I definitely think I’m cluster b, I just don’t really want to go to a psychiatrist because I don’t feel like they’d help me. My thing is that I didn’t have sex when I was in high school so I feel entitled to do whatever I need to do to get girls to like me and I like to role play as a manipulative teenage boy. The thing is that for me it’s role playing but for them it’s real. I just don’t really have empathy or the capacity to feel guilt about it because part of me enjoys it, like I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:19 AM
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I think he’s getting at the idea that women will do crazy sex acts for other men then supposedly withhold sex in a marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:14 AM
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I’m being completely sincere, I’m curious to know I’m lacking self awareness about. Is it in regards to actually being abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:11 AM
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Then what do I need to be self aware about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:09 AM
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I’m saying I’m not bitter at women, I’m bitter at myself. But I’m more curious about why you think I lack self awareness? I’m very calculated in my actions, I’d say that requires a high level of self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:04 AM
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How am I not aware? What is there to be aware of?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:00 AM
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I’m bitter for personal reasons, and I’m insecure, but it motivates me and my approach works consistently so why should I complain? Plus I enjoy the power dynamic, I enjoy making women submit to me, I like presenting my false self and slowly letting my true self be revealed, I love the obsession these women feel for me whether that’s positive or negative
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:57 PM
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It works though, how are you going to tell me it doesn’t? Everyone woman has a long list of abusive exes. You just have to find the commonalities and act upon them. The problem with red pill guys is that they’re too bitter and they show their hand too quickly. You have to be sneakier than that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:48 PM
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Funny how it works though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:44 PM
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I don’t see it as abuse, besides women created the rules, it’s what works so don’t blame me for giving them what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:43 PM
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You don’t realize I’m gaslighting you, do you? So emotional lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:41 PM
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And why is that my or OPs responsibility? Speaking of trauma bonds if they are reading this far, another good line I like to use is to create this idea in their head and tell them that the world is cruel and bad to us and that the only positive about our lives is that despite our suffering we have each other and it’s the only thing that makes living worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:40 PM
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Abuse is a choice, are you really going to take women’s autonomy away from them? Like I said they can leave any time. It works, that it isn’t his responsibility, what reward does he get for playing by a set of rules that don’t work?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:35 PM
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I just don’t see how it’s abusing anyone, you’ve got a relationship and that person is free to walk away at any time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:32 PM
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It’s just a word to communicate what he should be looking up, I’m not encouraging him to force anyone to do anything they don’t want to do, I’m just telling him what works and considering that life is unfair, why shouldn’t he hack his personality to get the best results?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:30 PM
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No, I’ve been faithful to my gf for the past three years, but prior to that yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:22 PM
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I’m advocating men to do what actually works, abuse is a mindset, and nobody is forcing anyone to stay in a relationship they’re not appreciated in, so I don’t see how this is abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:21 PM
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I want to try this just for fun, not even to get laid because I’m faithful af, but just to see if people believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:16 PM
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Dude I’m certain I’m a legit sociopath but this is too much for me, no way this would work lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:07 PM
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I’ve been using that one since 16, came up with it all by myself too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:06 PM
2

It can be learned. Watch a lot of movies and listen to a lot of music geared towards women. When I was a teenager it was the Notebook and emo music. There was one guy in particular who did really well with girls, he would be really silly and make a lot of puns and I copied him the most. I found a guys cell phone in the bathroom once and I read through his text messages, he had a girlfriend but was talking to a lot of other girls and he would say things like "can I get a cute picture of you befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:05 PM
2

Hm, what is an example of a big lie? Like "we’re only together until the lease is up" or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:56 PM
3

One of my best lines that I used to say to every girl is "talking to you makes me feel like I’m in middle school and I’m having my first crush again" That kind of sweet talk is what makes girls fall hard for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:55 PM
1

I think the thing is I see enough of the blue pill and red pill stuff and I understand human relationships and psychology enough that I know what works from each. I don’t want to come across as disrespectful to women because I don’t hate them, I have no grudge against them, I’m not bitter towards them, I just know what works for me and that is being a bit of a wolf in sheep’s clothing as cringy as that sounds
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:47 PM
2

Are you advocating he do what I tell him? I’m surprised lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:39 PM
0

I’m envious of you then. The guys who get laid the most are the most manipulative. I’d rather not cuck myself if possible. The worlds unfair, we have to play to our advantages. There’s nothing noble about being a martyr
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:37 PM
1

It isn’t that they find the actions of the bully attractive but instead the qualities that are innate in bullies, the confidence, the self assuredness, the indifference to criticism/violence. So imagine a guy who is timid and the guy who bullies him. If the timid guy asks a girl out and he gets rejected he will probably sulk. If the bully asks that girl out and gets rejected he won’t let it shake him. When people say girls like assholes they just mean a guy with a back bone, who will speak up, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:35 PM
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Work on making yourself as physically attractive as possible in regards to grooming, hygiene, and style. Look up narcissistic abuse cycle Love bomb, withdraw affection, breadcrumb, future fake. Those guys were nice to the girls until they got what they wanted then they become mean and the girls were left wanting things to go back to how they were. Then play the numbers game, approach as many women as you can without letting them know about each other for as long as you can
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:13 PM
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Dude, do not, please do not, I don’t even know how to express this concept rationally, but don’t take the lyrics of some random singer as being some type or universal truth. I remember her song exes and ohs being on the radio and it was the cringiest thing I had heard in a while. Like I don’t even know how to express this, but you’re quoting a song with oooohs and aaaahhs. There is nothing profound in these shallow utterances striving for relevance, she’s the daughter of a has been 90s comedian …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:54 PM
2

Why do you think so few women are on tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:32 AM
2

So the thing I’ve come to the conclusion about with chadfishing is that it is more a reflection of how men who don’t get attention from women would treat women if they had the power to do so. I mean what are we really proving here? People are attracted to attractive people, that’s hardly news. The same could happen with an attractive woman choosing to mistreat men, this doesn’t shed light on female or male nature, it sheds light on human nature and sadly in that regard humans suck. There are a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:26 AM
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It isn’t so much delusions at this point as it is a general lack of empathy. So I had sex once at 17 but I wasn’t able to get a full erection because I was nervous so I don’t know if it counts, and then I didn’t have sex again until I was 21. When I was a teenager I never had trouble getting girls to like me, it’s just they never wanted to sleep with me and I would become really angry about it, so looking back no wonder they didn’t want to sleep with me. As a teenager I’d hang out with girls, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:50 AM
2

At this point I might as well try to get banned from every subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:37 AM
2

I was just expanding on what I previously said, don’t misconstrue me talking out loud as having anything to do with you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:34 AM
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I wish there was a place to talk openly about incel stuff without it being edgy and hate filled. I don’t hate women, I just have a very skewed mindset and I know that I’m the problem, but once I start opening up about my delusions people want to lump me in with those other people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:30 AM
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I always get banned when I talk about my real feelings, I’m finding I like this subreddit a lot so I try to choose my words carefully
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:29 AM
2

I really wish I could see a therapist but I don’t want to deal with appointments or insurance, I wish I could confide in someone online and tell them all the fvcked up things I think and see what they think is wrong with me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:25 AM
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And they’re not going to sleep with me if I go out of my way to be rude to them either. Maybe I just have some opinions you don’t agree with, not everything is about trying to get laid, especially when we’re all strangers separated my computer or phone screens
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:36 PM
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No, it just shows people age and their priorities change. It has nothing to do with dual mating strategy. The boyfriend is a dick, but I get where he is coming from, there is probably a reason she didn’t work out with the basketball player, who also aged and probably is dealing with sports injuries or will be down the road. It’s just a very shallow and narrow minded view, it’s like how are you going to blame someone for not dating you when you haven’t even met yet. Like if she rejected him for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:41 PM
2

Q4W: how would you describe your conception of a "Chad?" Not necessarily in the way that men describe them as being a generic 6’4 investment bank that comes from old money, but instead what is your perfect, ideal type? And then tell me how you would be comfortable/flattered with this guy coming to enter into your life, how would you like for him to approach you and with the idea of wanting to get to know you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:42 PM
3

Now they’re also sleeping with bums and yet guys are complaining about women’s standards being too high and not being able to get any women interested in them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:36 PM
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Idk, I’m 31 and still wish I got to sleep around in high school, as I’ve talked about extensively on here it’s really damaged my commitment issues to an otherwise perfect woman. I guess the issue is that no matter what happens we’re going to be disappointed and think the grass is greener, I’ve just accepted it’s the human condition to be miserable so we shouldn’t feel guilty or remorseful about anything we do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:35 PM
1

I mostly support the ideas of anarcho-syndicalism. I would prefer someone who is at least a few points left of center and a few points down the y axis but they don’t need to be smashing cop car windows and occupying the stock exchange, just generally believe that healthcare should be a human right and not get angry at the fact that some people receive food stamps. I find tankies, libertarians, fascists, moderates, liberals, neoliberals, conservatives radfems and fundamentalists to be incompatibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 01:07 PM
2

Yes, I’d be open to that even if I wasn’t in a relationship with her girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:08 PM
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I’m not going to try to rationalize how I feel because it doesn’t matter, what matters is how I make her feel because she is the victim of my actions. I just wish I could be as pure as she is, but I’m a selfish predatory monster. I can try to fight my impulses and I do, but I wish they weren’t there. I got the prize, I found love and companionship, but I crave that adrenaline rush of newness. I just hate that I’m like this and I am trying to change. Idk, I blame it on borderline personality diso…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:57 PM
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I know this is really shitty but I’m intimidated by women with high n counts and I’m horribly jealous and insecure so the ease at which my female partner could find other people would make me really depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:52 PM
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Maybe that’s what it is, maybe it is natural for me to think about other women but acting on it is the problem and I’ve never really had to think of truly losing her from my life and seeing her with someone else so my naivety can’t fathom it. I just want to be everything she needs but it’s hard sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:23 PM
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Well it sucks because I love her with all my heart, I cried when she had a surgery recently because the idea of anything going wrong was too much to bare, I don’t even know how to begin to express what I would do for her or give to her if she needed it without hesitation. Like I would risk my life for her if it was necessary. It’s like physically and emotionally I’m hers, but then other women it’s just like their bodies and auras and just existence, like I just love femininity and it makes me we…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:21 PM
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Then why do I have these conflicting emotions? I know this isn’t a personal forum or whatever but I guess in my personal experience I think that we can have these conflicting emotions and it doesn’t discredit the other. She is the perfect woman for me but that still isn’t enough to make me not fantasize about other women and enjoy their attention. I don’t think that makes me an inherently bad person
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:15 PM
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What I’m getting at, and I’m not trolling or trying to get a rise out of anyone, is that I don’t think someone who cheats is always a bad person. You can truly love your partner but still feel that desire. I love my partner dearly but my mind is always thinking about other women AND her. I just feel like that’s how I’m wired and it doesn’t make me love her or care about her any less. I don’t think that makes me a bad person because my actions reflect my love for her, but physically I’m still att…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:05 PM
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What if a guy is willing to do all that because he loves the person but he still cheats?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:59 PM
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Yeah it’s definitely silly, a lot of these attitudes are based out of fear I think
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:06 PM
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Most women aren’t catching 100+ bodies. Most women are disgusted by the thought of that. Most men don’t have easy access to hookups. That is why most guys who want to sleep around have to play the boyfriend role but are actually still pursuing other women. Chad fishing is an anomaly and an example of how power corrupts. I think that it is an example of male power fantasy, it shows what these guys would do if given that kind of power, they would take it beyond its ethical limits. I don’t think tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:34 PM
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You’re doing better than most guys I’ve known then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:31 PM
1

Ask men how much of the sex they’ve had was with partners who weren’t fully committed to the idea but instead gave in because they wouldn’t take no for an answer or guilt tripped them into it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:24 PM
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Yeah because that is totally comparable bud
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:20 PM
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Fair point, and I don’t disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:59 PM
1

Realistically how could older guys attract younger women that doesn’t involve a sugar daddy/sugar baby dynamic? Do younger girls get the hots for older guys? I don’t see why they wouldn’t. I’ve wanted to hook up with a milf as long as I can remember, so I’d imagine women are attracted to older guys it’s just that so many older guys are creepy about it so younger girls are uncomfortable about their attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:58 PM
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I’m fat too, you can still get fat chicks and girls that aren’t super shallow, you will still have better luck if you get in shape though otherwise it’s your attitude for sure, like your username and everything, it’s clear you view yourself this way and that manifests in how people view you even if you don’t act that way in person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:54 PM
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Do you only see people in your life once? I think if you’re viewing things in the scope of one off relationships you’re missing the point. These things can be adapted to how you interact with coworkers, bosses, your barista, etc. When you can manifest a positive life it will reveal itself in other aspects. You could easily "trick" strangers into having sex with you by presenting a false self, but at that point you’re just being a weasel. No shame in it, I’ve weaseled my way into girls lives befo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:34 PM
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Yeah, and we engage in relationships anytime we interact with someone. When I am buying groceries I have a temporary relationship with the cashier, I have a temporary relationship with the person standing in my way in the aisle, I have a temporary relationship with the person behind me who I hold the door open for. If you adapt these characteristics it will show in these mini relationships and become part of your character so it is displayed even more in your real relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:20 PM
1

I admittedly was not active in the red pill community, but wouldn’t this be what they call maintaining "frame?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:18 PM
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I’m capable of understanding nuance, I just really need it spelled out for me so I’m thankful for posts like this. Honestly it took me until I was 21 and someone point blank telling me "girls always like you, you just push them away because you break down at the first sign of rejection" Turns out I was verbally abusive without realizing it, also turns out I deal with something called rejection sensitive dysphoria. Once I changed my behavior my success with women sky rocketed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:17 PM
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Agreed, I made myself an incel in high school by thinking that girls like assholes meant they like abusive fuckboy types and I was confused when no girls wanted to be with me. "Nice guys" often aren’t nice, they’re insecure pushovers who would do the same things the "asshole" guys would do if they got the chance. The secret to dating success is to not internalize rejection and to be matter of fact with women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:56 PM
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I hate admitting this to myself but I always noticed when I hung out with my very petite female friend that other women looked at me more where as if I was by myself or with my guy friends I never caught women looking at me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:42 PM
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Here’s the thing thing, women want a man who is desired by other women but only is interested in her. I think the red pill mistakes this to mean you should brag about all your past relationships. I tried that in high school, it didn’t work. In the words of the 1975, "she makes me hard but you make me weak" So with this information what are you going to do about it? How can you use this to make yourself more attractive to other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:37 PM
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Agree 100%, girls don’t like assholes, they like nice guys it’s just that you’re not a nice guy, you’re an insecure wimp that can’t handle rejection, the assholes you want to emulate play the nice guy card and don’t let out their asshole side until after the woman is hooked on them. Guys on here really think not responding to a girls text message that doesn’t even know you exist is going to get her obsessed with you and they think "good morning cutie 😘" texts are simpish behavior that will repel…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:17 PM
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Allegedly yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:26 PM
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Tbh at first I thought guy on the left was Brian Laundrie, we really do all look the same, don’t we? 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:18 PM
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I think a lot of these kinks aren’t as mainstream as they seem sometimes. I spent a lot of time on tumblr so I was under the impression that most girls have kinks like that, but I feel like it’s a small segment of the population and it depends on the culture. I don’t think it’s a symptom of mental illness because let’s be honest, everyone is a little mentally ill, but I think people who have mental illness probably are more likely to enjoy sexual deviance. You can always start out slow with a gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:47 AM
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BDSM is so 2003, find yourself a girl with a DDLG kink
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:43 AM
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Thank you for this insightful and well written response. You make a lot of great points and I think this kind of understanding of human relationships is the exact thing I’m looking for in subreddits like this. I wish all of the responses could be this elequontly written and so well explained. I know this is completely personal and anecdotal but what you said makes me reflect on when I was a teenager which is when a lot of my bitterness and resentment regarding intimacy began. Guys here will say …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:33 AM
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Tbh I’ve never been in that situation, I’ve been with my gf for 9 years and my love for her has only grown. Other girls I have done sexual things with I didn’t have feelings for and things ended before we were that serious. I don’t think I could continue to have sex with someone I’m in a serious relationship with if we were truly drifting apart though, I’d probably be too hurt and miss when things were good
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:01 AM
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I guess that justifies my stance then, if the sex isn’t there then most likely the emotions aren’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:52 AM
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Yes, I would still sleep with someone if I wasn’t emotionally invested, I think for me emotions develop more fully after sex because before I’m unsure if she really trusts me so I’m not going to invest emotionally into someone and allow myself to be vulnerable for someone who doesn’t like me enough to be intimate with me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:45 AM
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Funnily enough I assumed Finn Witrock was over 6’ because he looks more like a male model with the hunter eyes and all that, but i looked the two up after posting this and was surprised to find out he is a very manly 5’9
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:41 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:59 PM
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It isn’t that looks matter or don’t matter, it’s that they aren’t everything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:42 PM
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He is also bald, and supposedly women aren’t attracted to bald men. I think the issue is that you’re trying to find some absolute truth in human nature when humans are mostly unpredictable. What about all of the women who weren’t tweeting about him or sending him money? He is a conventionally attractively man. He got lucky in that regard, but like I’ve said before everyone has strengths and weaknesses and they have to cater to them. It’s all holistic, looks are a big part of the equation but mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:41 PM
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We’re painfully insecure and most of our acts of aggression are from a place of weakness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:53 PM
2

Shit, that’s a good idea ngl I wonder how many times I have to do that to pave some new neural pathways
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:45 PM
2

I imagine a more "Chad" version of myself actually
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:26 PM
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Plus most celebrities wouldn’t even be that desirable if they weren’t famous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:25 PM
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Interesting, that’s what I’m most curious about. I don’t think I could do an open relationship because as a guy you’re not going to have as much opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:24 PM
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I had fun, I feel it was cathartic for my mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:05 PM
1

How does your husband do hook up wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:01 PM
0

Just DM girls on Instagram, it’s like OLD but their guard is down so as long as you’re not a creep you’ve got a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:50 PM
2

When she says "anyone can be nice, anyone can compliment you on the things you want to be complimented on" Don’t you guys get it? Being nice and complimenting girls does work. The issue you have with women is you’re playing the asshole card too soon then going back to fresh and fit or whatever the fuck and hearing them and your boys telling you not to be a simp, but girls don’t like being treated badly, they like being treated like queens. You’ve got to play the nice guy card first until they ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:44 PM
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Guys, watch this kind of stuff and take notes. If you’re subtle enough about it you can isolate girls from their friends and family and have them all to yourself. You have to play to your advantages, and sadly letting her still have access to dick because you want to "respect her boundaries" isn’t going to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:38 PM
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Is this the girl that was talking shit about Pete Davidson dating an 18 year old being "gross?" I have no use for her whining and opinions disguised as facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:36 PM
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Just let the hair go and use minoxidil on your beard if you have patchy facial hair because the worst side effect is heart palpitations, you don’t have to tick every box, you just have to be attractive enough that she gives you a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:32 PM
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Orange tic tacs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:24 PM
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Maybe because the old adage still rings true, women are more attracted to good characteristics than looks. My girlfriend and I were talking about this while watching American horror story, who is more attractive Evan Peters or Finn Witrock? Insecure guys on Reddit would have you think that Finn is the more attractive of the two, and he might be conventionally attractive, but I guarantee you more women who like the series would find Evan Peters more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:22 PM
1

If you wanna be a cuck go ahead but suddenly it makes a lot of sense why my dad has 5 different kids with 4 different women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:05 PM
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I like eating ass but I have no interest in anal sex, most girls just do it to appease their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:57 PM
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Tbf we aren’t exactly sending our best people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:54 PM
2

I don’t want a family, I don’t want to be a father, but I want to be a dad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:40 PM
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Maybe I’m gay but I find the guy the more conventionally attractive of the two. Personally I wouldn’t be attracted to the girl on the left because she looks like the kind of girl that would string guys along and wouldn’t be submissive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:32 PM
1

Better yet just crinkle ‘em a bit and go in raw
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:25 PM
1

We’ll see about that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:05 PM
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Please it was a typo you know what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:03 PM
4

Ya got whooshed boyo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:33 PM
1

Yeah but have you ever had a girl push back on your d while doing doggy style? Makes the insufferability more sufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:27 PM
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You’re absolutely right, it’s like me getting self conscious about the height thing despite having dated a lot of women. The women who care about height aren’t the ones I’m trying to attract so I should care about their opinion. Most women just want the guy to be taller than them which is reasonable, not all women demand a guy be over 6’ otherwise nobody would date anybody. Jeez it seems taking the gloves off for purge week has done wonders for my mental health being able to just put it all out …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:22 PM
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Be direct, be persistent, don’t internalize rejection, don’t let her look at your phone. Look up the terms love bombing, stone walling, bread crumbing, and future faking and learn them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:19 PM
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That’s interesting, I’ve never experienced this phenomenon other people claim to experience. If people really are disinterested in people who are interested in them how does anyone date or have sex because at some point both have to mutually express interest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:17 PM
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No, they just aren’t interested in men they’re not interested in. Please get away from the lizard brain stuff, I used to think that in my early twenties and it only made my interactions with women worse, people are a lot smarter and more sensitive than we realize
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:12 PM
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No reason to change your view because you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:08 PM
1

I’m not going to post my face but sometimes I wonder if I’m more attractive than I realize. I have a lot of insecurities but sometimes people will say things like you said that my technique wouldn’t work for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:04 PM
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The issue is that guys like me consume so much knowledge about women and spend time lurking women dominated spaces that we will learn these tricks so we know how to better handle them. That’s why I check out FDS daily, it’s like checking the stock market for me, I have to keep on top of the news
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:43 PM
1

We all have good and bad parts, either way I think positively of you and your contributions to this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:36 PM
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Joke is that it’s the same guy just with and without hair
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:34 PM
1

It was, but I do think you’re a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:33 PM
0

I hope after the purge week is over we can be friends, I’ve really felt a connection talking to you these past few days, I feel like you get me in a way most people don’t so I really appreciate you because of that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:29 PM
1

I read articles about narcissistic abuse to learn how to better hone my skill set. How I talk on this Reddit account is nothing how I talk in real life. I come across as respectable and kind and compassionate but I am very self aware and I can read people like a book. I get off on this which is why I like to be so blatant about it behind the safety of the internet because there are no consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:27 PM
1

Go on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:24 PM
0

Harem absolutely, I’m fact I find average women more attractive than attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:23 PM
1

u/catsinbananahats please give your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:22 PM
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Fallacy, guy on left has a grudge because he was ignored by women and has been researching how to be a narcissist so he is a master at gaslighting and he uses sex and traumatizing women emotionally as revenge. Guy on the right has lived a comfortable life and therefore does not have the same trauma and he just wants to settle down but horny women keep using him. Source: I’m the guy on the left
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:18 PM
2

I mean right now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:16 PM
2

Understandable brother, lucky odds, hope I get to know what that’s like in the next life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:15 PM
2

I don’t think I’m being coercive, check out my routine post to see my strategy and let me know what you think as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:12 PM
1

For me it works consistently
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:12 PM
1

Not really, I have a lot of sociopathic tendencies even though I’m not diagnosed with ASPD, but I find the thrill of it entertaining. It’s akin to skydiving or something, I don’t really know how to explain it but it makes me feel positive emotions and I just find it exciting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:10 PM
1

"Dorsia at 9pm?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:09 PM
1

It gets the job done, and if you’re not a 6’4 investment banker you’ve got to play the long game
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:07 PM
5

I mean breaking up with someone after you have sex a few times isn’t really coercion, people break up all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:06 PM
2

Is that a real thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:04 PM
1

Beautiful execution
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:02 PM
4

If I get laid I’ve succeeded
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:01 PM
0

No, I actually do well with women because I know how to play to my strengths which I’m going to address in a couple other posts I’m trying to get out before purge week ends
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:46 PM
2

I’m trying to refrain from sounding like an incel, but cock carousel and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:39 PM
1

Wealth is a construct, digits on a screen or old men’s faces on cotton paper bills isn’t nature
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:34 PM
0

Hypergamous slut
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:14 PM
3

How would that even work? You’re expecting the 20% to carry the weight when they’re the ones who wouldn’t want to give up a good thing. Have you ever seen the movie The Platform? It’s a lot like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:13 PM
1

Name some things
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:07 PM
3

Have you seen the things a lot of guys have done? Sure, not every man is awful but enough are that it’s a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:11 PM
8

Women are actually kind people and just want to be loved but the way men generally treat them in society makes them act more guarded, if you can provide some comfort to them and prove yourself not to be a creep they’ll put their guard down
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:53 PM
4

I’m not stressed, just bored, I’d say about a 4 - 6 depending on if rents due or not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:51 PM
7

Because it isn’t compliments they want, it’s female validation with sexual undertones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:12 AM
5

When I was in film school one of my projects was shown to the grad students, I had a lot going for me, fit in with the more successful people in the department. I now work in the media industry and get complimented fairly regularly. If you’re a man who is starved for compliments it’s because you need to step your game up and actually do something worth being complimented on. A man complimenting a woman because he is trying to get in her pants isn’t a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:58 AM
1

Thank you for being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:49 AM
11

I think men are only as loyal as the culture encourages
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:06 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:31 AM
3

Yeah, I mean I find women of every age attractive like 19 - 45, girls that are 17 and 18 just look too young to me, but it depends on the girl obviously. What age range do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:29 AM
2

31
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:25 AM
2

Just looks I would say late 20s/early 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:20 AM
2

Voted for other because it depends on the individual
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:13 AM
2

Toxic masculinity unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:33 AM
1

Right, and how much of it is meant to be rage bait or a joke or whatever. But I guess it isn’t any different than women being body shamed endlessly in magazines or in commercials. I think the only difference is that the things men are judged on are all genetic, but I guess we just have to compensate in other areas, I know "not all women are like that"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:29 AM
3

The whitest pill, you have to take the hand you were dealt and make the best out of it. You can learn game and have a soft harem, but you might have to work harder for it than someone else, but at the end of the day you’re only competing against yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:14 AM
0

But on tiktok and other places on the internet if you’re under 6’ you’re considered short and unattractive, and it isn’t like these things exist in a vacuum, these are people giving their honest opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:09 AM
1

Are you claiming I have some desire to commit a hate crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:18 PM
8

What is this post please tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:01 PM
1

No we’re not, our actions are independent of our thoughts, our subconscious does not define who we are as people, the higher brain can easily override the lower brain and that’s what matters is if you know the difference between the two
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:00 PM
1

Women only care about 6’1 and up, it’s impossible to find a date if you’re not in the top 15% of height
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:31 PM
6

Show the results, let’s see the true nature of females. I imagine those big roid arms would turn off a lot of women though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:28 PM
1

That is not true at all, I’m acting out on Reddit because of insecurity and a need for attention, it’s like Freud’s concept of the ego and id, just because I think something doesn’t mean it’s true or rational
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:23 PM
-2

The only "advantage" women have is that they get a lot of unwanted sexual attention online, that’s hardly a privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:11 PM
-3

People answering women better be doing so ironically lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:10 PM
0

I’m only 5’9, you will never understand this pain
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:07 PM
3

Why would I be wondering if I settled? How I might act on this Reddit isn’t how I really act in real life. I have an amazing partner and I’m very lucky. I am in no way settling. If anything she is probably settling for me but it just makes me need to prove my love for her everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:04 PM
2

Last shower I took was Thursday night. Girlfriend told me my breath smells this morning. Just doin’ alpha male shit on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:03 PM
4

You’re not wrong, I definitely don’t defend the hypocritical attitudes of a lot of guys here, but with that said hot face average body all day every day
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:59 PM
1

Was tinder being beta tested in ‘92 or are you making things up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:58 PM
1

What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:53 PM
9

Idk, I think everyone here is offended by the other so they purposefully say offensive things to get the other upset. I think that is true of most human interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:38 PM
1

Nah single moms raise cucked sons because they want them to be like how they think they want their baby daddy to be. My mom legitimately said to me when I was in high school "girls might not be sleeping with you but at least they respect you" That was how I knew I needed to change and become more Machiavellian
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:06 PM
18

Is it propaganda if it’s true?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:58 PM
5

Because women know it will offend you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:52 PM
2

Even "Chad" pays taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:49 PM
2

What your origin story gimp girl, what are you all about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:42 PM
0

Maybe accept what league you’re in, do what you can to make yourself more attractive to women, don’t internalize rejection, and just be a flirtatious and outgoing person. Also legalize prostitution because id love to be able to pay $600 for some PSE sex with a bimbo looking woman I’d never have a chance with otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:35 PM
1

Thanks for your honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:26 PM
8

Incel logic: women say I’m not entitled to sex so there should be no social welfare programs to help people that are struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:13 PM
1

That’s insightful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:07 PM
1

I’m mostly red pill but there is a lot of blue pill stuff that I do agree with. I don’t think women are hypergamous but I do think that to attract women you have to have status and looks, however I think the black pill is too fatalistic and what they consider attractive is too narrow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:01 PM
1

What if they’re lying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:57 PM
3

I don’t think women are hypergamous, you can’t generalize an entire gender. Just like how men collectively have a lot of variance so do women. If you think women are by nature hypergamous analyze the kind of women you interact with and the company you keep. Most women in my experience just want to be loved. Of course attraction plays a role in that, we feel happy when we look at people we’re attracted to, but I think most people are aware of what their league is and are attracted to people withi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:32 PM
8

Complain on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:26 PM
1

Post on the internet, I don’t really like socializing. The thing is I’m in a relationship though, like this is my problem, by definition I’m not an incel, I’ve dated a lot, but for some reason in my head I always have this negative self talk that I’m not good enough and I’m unlucky and genetically inferior and then I go online and almost actively look for things to make myself feel worse because I feel like I’m looking for some kind of truth to just make the world make sense. I’m old enough now …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:23 PM
5

I deleted the app because it was messing with my mental state, but I’m wondering if all the height stuff is just women rate baiting insecure men for more views
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:15 PM
2

31
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:11 PM
1

All these women claiming to be dating guys under 6’ even though the black pill has proven women don’t even register men as men until about 6’2
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:08 PM
1

Covert narcissist, I need people to either love me or hate me, either way I just need attention and validation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:08 PM
1

Thanks for being one of three honest people here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:07 PM
1

I must be adored by all 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:48 PM
1

Thank you for being one of the only people here telling the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:44 PM
3

That’s not what I’m saying, I’ve always felt like an incel but I’ve never felt entitled to sex, my question has always been what’s wrong with me and what can I fix about myself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:43 PM
6

Brutal red pill, it isn’t the standard of looks that are low, it’s the standard of how they’re treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:32 PM
1

Maybe I overestimate/underestimate women, or maybe I’m just delusional for believing things that TRP and tiktok say 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:30 PM
1

My partner is obsessed with my hands, she likes feeling the veins and bones and stuff. Despite not liking a lot of things about how I look I’m happy that I have a decent jawline and straight teeth, although the bottom ones are getting a little crooked as I get older
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:26 PM
-1

If your long term relationship doesn’t involve trading your partners around like Pokémon cards you messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:17 PM
1

Hot 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:16 PM
2

I’m getting the impression everyone is lying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:14 PM
2

I have nothing against high n count women, I’m just sad if I can’t get mine 😔 But seriously I stopped hoeing because I was talking to two girls simultaneously, one girl had a near triple digit body count and she was started to become really depressed and scared that no guy would ever respect her and the other girl I was talking to had been diagnosed with genital warts which she thinks happened after she hooked up with a guy at a rave. I much prefer my sexually adventurous, submissive, low n coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:13 PM
5

Yeah but as a guy supposedly you can make up for your lack of genetics with other factors that are easy to work on like being a admirable person and being charming. I’m not saying it isn’t an uphill battle because it is, but everyone has advantages and disadvantages in life, you’re better off than someone else so make the most of your situation, that’s what survival is really about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:03 PM
1

I’m just going by what I’ve seen on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:24 PM
1

I’m 5’9 and my wife is 5’6 Perfect height combo imo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:22 PM
1

I’m an adult, I’m responsible for my own emotional labor even if I’m not good at practicing that labor very well sometimes. That last point is how I feel, if this is what most incels look like then I wouldn’t say they’re incels as much as they’re just single or having trouble finding someone they click with. For these guys any inceldom is of their own construction and reinforces the belief that it’s mostly their personality holding them back, they probably major in engineering which is mostly me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:02 PM
2

The only honest person here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:59 PM
4

What do you find unattractive or unappealing about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:57 PM
1

I don’t like giving people numbers based on some arbitrary rating system but id probably say realistally high 5 or low 6. I just look at them and think they appear hygienic, well groomed, they look like they’d be college educated. They aren’t disheveled or dirty looking. I don’t think any of them are breathtaking or hot, but they look like they could be boyfriend material, I definitely wouldn’t think they’re undateable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:50 PM
3

You are trolling to get a reaction out of insecure men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:39 PM
1

How am I a height troll when the facts don’t lie, the number 6 is the single most important thing to determine dating profile success https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/py8x3f/height_is_the_number_one_predictor_of_success_in/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:34 PM
1

Nothing wrong with that, I love when thots put on the cute innocent act but you know they like it rough
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:28 PM
3

I don’t get the question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:26 PM
0

How tall is husband
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:24 PM
2

What difference does it make if I’m under 6’ I’m unlovable anyways, I guess I just don’t get why anyone likes me in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:14 AM
5

I think women are suffering in a lot of ways too, the issue is that they’re in a somewhat privileged position that they don’t depend on validation because they know they could find sex easily, however a lot feel that their emotional needs aren’t being met because most guys just want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:09 AM
4

I’m literally not an incel by definition though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:59 AM
8

How do you figure? I think it’s more of a reflection of society having to undo years of mistreating women. Society hasn’t caught up to progress yet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:45 AM
7

I think being a man is easier, it’s just most men are so entitled that they don’t know how to toughen up. If you’re a mentally well adjusted man who realizes rejection is a part of success while also wanting to build up the people around you then you’re almost guaranteed some type of success in life. Women get ignored by doctors, sexually harassed, talked down to in the work place, and even if people seem to respect her chances are they’re making sexual or snide remarks behind her back. Your iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:39 AM
6

I think people like to suffer. I have a lot of resentment for not having sex when I was a teenager and I don’t acknowledge all the girls I held hands with, cuddled, fingered, made out with, got a bj from, etc. I compare myself to my friend who was having a lot of sex with a lot of girls and I feel like I missed out. I guess I use the pill stuff to understand why better but it just hurts my self esteem. Rationally the issue was that I was too pushy, I made girls uncomfortable, and I was abusive w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:29 AM
3

Nah, because there is a difference between legitimate rape and expressing what you want out of a specific relationship and leaving if you’re not getting your needs met, if they change their mind that that is consensual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:12 AM
2

Yes because being an incel is such a positive alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:11 AM
6

Yeah girls know exactly what’s going on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:52 AM
7

It’s tough because in a perfect world you shouldn’t, but the thing is most guys are. I’ve done all that, I know a lot of guys who have, especially when you’re younger stonewalling girls to get your way. Idk, rationally yeah it’s bad, but girls will end up just sleeping with the guys who do this meanwhile what prize are the other guys getting for abstaining? Idk, it shouldn’t be this way, but I’m too mentally messed up to consider being a good person. I could blame girls for going for manipulativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:46 AM
3

I saw a tik tok that was a woman criticizing this guy, it was like "I can’t believe he picked me up for our first date and he took me to Cheesecake Factory" I’m like livid thinking shit, imagine trying to put yourself out there and the person humiliating you on the internet. The comments were full of angry men calling her all sorts of names. I click on the profile and it turns out it’s her husband of several years and she takes these videos whenever they go out and it’s just banter. It got me th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:32 AM
8

I think he is advocating making sure his needs are met and not staying with someone who isn’t able to or is not ready to reciprocate love
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:28 AM
9

"It’s alright, I guess it’s clear that you don’t like me as much as I like you so maybe I should just move on"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:27 AM
5

I don’t speak German, guess I’ll have to use google translate Edit: dammit 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:53 AM
1

I think because it can border on incel fatalism
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:49 AM
4

Do you think heightism on tiktok is just a joke? I think they make these tiktoks because they know it gets a reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:40 AM
1

I’m the one with low self esteem, I just appreciate she loves me enough to stand by me when I’m weak and vulnerable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:17 AM
3

Gotta test how committed they are, it’s a win win situation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:10 AM
2

She has caught me a few times
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:59 AM
1

Maybe, but I have low self esteem and a lot of emotional issues so I seek out validation because I like the attention, I don’t think you’d understand
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:13 AM
1

Yes, according to the internet girls won’t like me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:34 AM
3

Ok thank you for your reply
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:40 AM
2

I need therapy or them getting mad is therapeutic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:39 AM
3

I think most women aren’t into guys like that, it’s just guys who think that’s what women want
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:35 AM
1

That’s funny considering that the race pill would make you think non whites have it the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:31 AM
2

Are you attracted to the guy in the picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:29 AM
0

It’s not my fault I’m insecure because of the black pill so I need to prove to myself I’m lovable even though I’m not 6’ tall and I have prey eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:25 AM
1

There are some genuinely good people out there, unfortunately they’re few and far between. In the words of Bonnie Raitt, "true love is hard to find" but it’s possible to find someone who is pure and kind
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:56 AM
3

Fair enough, but guys can do things to appear younger, the balding beer belly guy hitting on a 19 year old cashier obviously isn’t going to get her to come home with him. But a guy who takes care of himself, dresses in a style of the girls he is trying to attract, and maintains a positive attitude even when being rejected might. Judging by your avatar, do you have pink hair? Would you consider yourself somewhat alternative like what I’m describing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:27 PM
6

Considering that I was in a relationship at both times even including the other young women I was talking to and sexting with and we were sneaking around I highly doubt that is the case in any of those situations. I’m fortunate because I have a youthful personality, I dress kind of emo/pop punk, so it’s easy for me to blend in and not seem like a creep. And you can easily reframe it like "I know society might think the age thing is kind of weird, but I really like you and you really like me so I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:22 PM
4

It depends on the approach and the person tbh, you can’t speak for everyone. I was 27 dating a 19 year old and 31 dating a 23 year old. A friend if mine is 21 and was interested in another friend of our who is 36. Age gap relationships exist, and if I get rejected by 99% of the girls I approach there is still that 1% which isn’t much unlike guys odds in other facets of dating so why should I care? My personal belief is approach any woman you want, just be respectful if she isn’t interested which…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:11 PM
3

I get where you’re coming from, you sound like a decent person. I think there are a lot of women who share your mindset, it’s just that the kind of women that get the most attention and are the subject of discussion in this group are the kind of shitty, shallow women that are the opposite of you. I think sometimes good woman do tend to be passed over simply because they lack the drive to seek attention, much like how a lot of guys lack the drive to pursue women. Hopefully things work out well wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:13 PM
1

Fair enough, if you’re chadfishing chances are ethics were left behind long ago
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:06 PM
1

Women are too busy getting blasted by investment bankers on tinder. But tbh I imagine this would be a very hostile environment for women during that time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:57 PM
0

I’m too stupid to make one 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:54 PM
2

It’s impossible to define naturally, guys should work with what they’ve got and change what they can to be more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:49 PM
19

So true, these disgruntled women are trying so hard to cock block us, but guys women 10 years younger ARE attracted to you, don’t let some used up slut cuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:43 PM
3

I get the impression it’s like 95% incels, 4% guys who actually get laid, and 1% females
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:41 PM
1

I’d be interested to know that too, but it’s unethical to go real life 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:38 PM
1

She has attempted suicide because of me, it did cause me to clean up my act and start being a better person. But do you see all the things men go through here? Life is unfair for us, it’s the culture and society that is messed up, we’re all fighting our own battles at the end of the day I’m still the pathetic one because I’m only 5’9 so no woman will ever be attracted to me and I guess the ones that have been are just coincidence because women only like men over 6’
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:34 PM
2

It seems women are attracted to selflessness though, so if you’re able to hold down a decent job and show that part of your life involves helping other people I think it would help your chances. Of course it would also help to have a bit of dark triad traits and to brag about these efforts in a way that doesn’t come off and manipulative. And let’s say a woman is attracted to you who doesn’t do as much as you do, you’ve successfully raised your league and that person is now beneath you, however i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:31 PM
2

You’ve got a point. Men have gotten soft, myself included, maybe we don’t like competing with women in the work place, it’s like women have independence so they no longer need us so it frees them to choose the top guys, and then men have this feeling of needing to toil away despite the seeming impossibility of never being able to find a partner. I think society also creates this problem by valuing casual sex over emotional intimacy, so if a guy isn’t able to bed a lot of women he feels like he h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:22 PM
1

It has some benefits, I’m finally trying to be vulnerable with my fiancée and it’s a challenge, it’s easy to turn off and not care, but then when I am able to tap into that authentic emotional state it’s almost overwhelming
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:52 PM
1

I guess the question is whether the black pill is true or if it’s just an incel excuse. I personally think that looks matter, however women find a wide variety of things attractive than the black pill claims so it isn’t hopeless at all for guys
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:51 PM
2

Exactly, that’s what I want to know mostly. It’s like if you use a 6’4 investment banker with a chiseled jawline and a penthouse apartment of course they’re going to get a shit ton of matches, hell I’d match with that person, I’m broke af. But at the same time I wonder at what point do looks taper off because we know two things, most people in relationships are average looking, and that people who meet the requirements of a Chad fish are an incredibly small percentage of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:47 PM
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Are you a woman? The reason I ask is because I want to know if your statement is coming from personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:43 PM
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I’m unironically dark triad and I don’t have the energy or ambition for capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:41 PM
1

Yeah pretty much, I think that’s a good way to describe it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:38 PM
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Like if a guy approaches ten women it’s very likely he could be rejected by all ten, where as a woman has the assurance than someone will be interested in them, like the match disparity on tinder is a good example. I helped a FWB set up an online dating profile and she was getting messages before she even had her profile filled out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:38 PM
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Like just that hit of dopamine. It’s hard to explain, like when I’ve been caught cheating I just feel like a kid that gets caught doing something bad but they know there aren’t any real consequences. I know it’s silly but the only way I can describe it is with the 😈 emoji. I think you probably get what I’m saying though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:35 PM
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You’re right, and that was my problem when I was a teenager, I heard what my guy friends were saying and I thought that’s what women liked so I would be a sex obsessed asshole to them and get all in my feelings if I got rejected, I didn’t realize until I was in my twenties that what those guys were saying to girls was completely the opposite of what they were saying to their friends. That’s why I’ve brought it up here multiple times that I don’t get why guys here want to pedal the idea that girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:33 PM
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What is SMP? I have ASPD traits and yes, it’s easy to learn to manipulate women, I just don’t get all the guys who have too much morality to do it. Maybe I’m lucky that I lack empathy and I get off on hurting women emotionally. I’m watching the tv show cheaters right now and I had the realization that most people watch shows like this and feel sad, I watch shows like this and I feel giddy and excited to see people hurting their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:30 PM
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It is gross in hindsight, but the truth is there were some guys that were capable of pulling it off, so why could they but other guys couldn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:24 PM
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Yes, I would smash a woman of extreme short stature, I just don’t know how I’d approach the situation without seeming like I’m fetishizing them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:21 PM
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Not true, my insecurity is the fact that she has had more exiciting experiences than me. I didn’t start having sex regularly until I was 21 and until then I was reading sex tips and stuff and trying to get into the mind of women so by the time I was having sex I was actually good at it because most guys will just jackhammer or push into the girl until he cums. My bitterness comes from the fact that I’d put this kind of effort into being a good partner, but I wasn’t good enough for anyone when I …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:16 PM
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The problem isn’t that men want virgins, it’s that they want multiple virgins. When I was a teenager I had a friend who took a lot of girls virginités, there are some guys who learn to play the game young and they benefit from it in high school. Most of these guys end up being rapists though, but that is besides the point. I think what we really should do is teach our sons the tricks that the other guys knew which is to exploit the Disney prince fantasies of young girls and to not internalize re…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:11 PM
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Hot 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:52 PM
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I think the real, non shit post reason that feminists don’t criticize Islam is because leftists tend to want to stay out of issues abroad and instead focus their attention on domestic issues, to criticize another culture that isn’t the dominant culture in ones home country is a form of soft imperialism or soft colonialism. With that said feminists do actually support feminist Saudi and Middle East women, it’s just that non-western issues aren’t really top of mind
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:24 PM
1

Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:15 PM
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Yes, women are in the fortunate position of knowing that their desirability is consistent so they are able to focus on other things in their lives more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:13 PM
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Idk, a lot of the YouTubers I watch are pretty positive, I don’t watch any red pill content though. YouTubers I like are Simnett Nutrition, Brian Turner, Alpha M, and PewDiePie (unironically) Mostly I just watch YouTube videos to learn how to code
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:14 AM
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What, there are so many reasons a woman might need to get an abortion, it has nothing to do with the act of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:10 AM
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Get a woman pregnant then sleep with her, idk man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:04 AM
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Anarcho-syndicalism
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:56 AM
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Thanks for this detailed response I really appreciate it. It just interests me because some people make it seem like if you’re under 6’ nobody will be attracted to you which is clearly ridiculous but seeing these things pedaled makes it believable even if I know it’s ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:48 AM
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What if I agree with like three things about feminism, I feel I could be more attractive if I tried, but I’m just lazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:27 AM
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I just don’t get the girls like assholes logic, but maybe I just misunderstand what people mean by that. Girls like when you’re nice to them in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:12 AM
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I understand, considering the circumstances of this sub right now I’m just playing up the douchebaggery for comedic effect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:01 AM
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No ones really, just wanted to feel sexually desirable and being rejected made me feel undesirable so I became obsessive about learning to be what women wanted and eventually just learned how to be manipulative and come across like a good person until the girl is hooked on me then withdrawing my affection to keep them guessing where they stand with me while also talking to other girls. It’s all because of my low self esteem though, I’m finally being vulnerable with my fiancée and it’s really ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:51 AM
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Why does everyone think I’m an asshole? You don’t even know me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:46 AM
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I’ve never seen it but it’s like big brother or the bachelor, just conventionally attractive people being hedonistic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:39 AM
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I just meant like the idea of sneaking around and everything being new and exciting and all the overwhelming emotions, in your 20s most people are comfortable in their sexuality and it’s just standard. I know sex is and can still be exciting, and maybe I’m looking at in with a sense of fomo, but just the whole idea of being free and not worrying about bills or working a 9 - 5, like when I was 15 I skateboarded 12 miles to a shopping mall to get picked up by the mom of a girl I was talking to on …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:38 AM
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What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:48 AM
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Yeah, but it’s different because it’s kink, when you’re young it’s out of necessity. I know I’m being difficult, the truth is I’m looking at it too meta, teenagers are just having fun having sex, not thinking about the concept of sex, so if I wanted to have sex in the same mentality of a teenager I would just do it for fun and explore those kink communities rather than being sad because I feel like I missed out on something. And fwiw my first time was in a parking garage, and I have had sex in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:37 AM
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What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:32 AM
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Imagine sneaking out at midnight to see your girlfriend or having to have sex in the woods or something, like those kind of exciting things you get to do as a teenager, as an adult sex is just common and it isn’t new or exciting anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:29 AM
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It’s more emotional and I want to pop some cherries
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:26 AM
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Take this internet dab king 🤜🤛
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:25 AM
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I had sex once at 17 and didn’t have sex again until I was 21 and I still feel like an incel because I missed out on loads of teen sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:24 AM
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Hardest pill to swallow, before the internet if you were an incel you’d start a band, write songs about unrequited love, get big, then girls would start to like you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:22 AM
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I think the height pill is the hardest black pill for me to swallow
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:11 AM
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Who else will be my personal bang maid mommy therapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:10 AM
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Oppress me mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:09 AM
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Been tryna explain this to every girlfriend I’ve had since 15, just because I’m telling other girls I want a relationship with them doesn’t mean I actually do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:09 AM
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Oof size extra large
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:08 AM
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Agreed, biggest gap I had was 27 and 19 or 31 and 23. Some of us just like younger women and some younger women just like older guys. Im so sick of all this age gap shaming. Age gap relationships are hot af
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:04 AM
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"How tall are you" Just kidding, I’ve been asked that and the girl still liked me so I think it’s just really shallow women that would reject a guy because he isn’t 6’ or taller
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:02 AM
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Why do you want women to suffer?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:57 AM
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You absolutely are allowed to have sex with other women, don’t let society cuck you like they do everyone else. Just because you’re in an open relationship doesn’t mean your girlfriend has to know about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:57 AM
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I could see how this mathematically makes sense, guys swipe a lot knowing that they won’t get a match but instead to mine for the matches that may be out there, women are more intensive and might actually be looking at pictures, profiles, etc. They know it’s a buyers market so they can be a lot more picky. The question is would it be better for everyone if guys were more choosy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:43 AM
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Do calf raises make you taller?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:40 AM
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Possibly, but one would hope that the 1% is even distributed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:39 AM
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I like the tattoos and that’s about it, if she isn’t submissive, shy, and socially anxious I’m not interested. Woman can have that kind of unwarranted confidence because so many desperate guys simp for them without getting anything in return
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:32 AM
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It’s gonna be a long night
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:30 AM
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One of the right might have a big booty though, I wouldn’t complain
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:29 AM
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When are the women showing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:28 AM
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When my wife goes to sleep I know what I’m doing tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:18 AM
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I don’t subscribe to onlyfans as a rule but fvck I want to see more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:16 AM
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This sparks joy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:15 AM
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This is a good thread, good job
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:14 AM
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Tbh I can’t blame you, we suck 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:53 PM
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can I ask you nicely to reconsider?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:41 PM
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And what does that have to do with the other guys living life for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:41 PM
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I’m so sorry would you like me to ask them nicely to reconsider?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:37 PM
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How would I be playing myself? That’s why you’ve got to be cheating too 👑 Always be two steps ahead of these thots
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:15 PM
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The 6’4 guy is bartending to put himself through his engineering degree, the other two guys drop out due to depression and end up working for minimum wage. Neither realize that the 6’4 guys super power is that he is just living life for himself and that gives him the confidence to pursue women casually
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:13 PM
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Yeah but twoxchromosomes users aren’t rational
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:10 PM
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You don’t know what real power feels like until you utterly destroy a girls world by withholding sex from her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:09 PM
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Not out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:02 PM
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Thé trick to getting Asian chicks is to hide your Asian fetish, sucks that girls make us have to inhibit our fantasies just to make them feel rEsPeCtEd
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:00 PM
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Yes, I do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:58 PM
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Bro Aaron Marino is a national treasure, only guy id take advice from on YouTube in regards to grooming and socializing and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:58 PM
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Why would they want to though? It would get boring after a while, even as a guy I think after sleeping with 10 - 20 different girls I wouldn’t see the appeal. Sex is so much better with someone you care about and have it regularly with because you learn what each other likes. Now if I was rich I’d definitely blow my money on getting PSE action with escorts, but as for banging randos? You’ve done it once you’ve done it with all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:57 PM
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That’s what I was going to say, men only care about sexual conquest because it’s not something they can get easily
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:55 PM
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Those middle four frames are hot af ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:48 PM
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See you all on the other side
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:25 PM
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I need to ensure my children are tall, shit, I might let my wife cuck me with a college basketball player
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:18 PM
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I just added the sarcasm tag because despite it being purge week I don’t wanna get permabanned
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:15 PM
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Damn, that’s awful and must be so disheartening, I promise I’d never do that to you, I’m not like the other guys 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:14 PM
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Are they abstaining? I really think it’s that a lot of guys are choosing the comfort of escapism and the internet over putting in the effort to pursue women and work on becoming viable partners
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:11 PM
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I have never seen the latter posted by them, but I don’t think they’re aware that they’re gaslighting, I think they just have a simplified world view which is mostly true for them. Most blue pill leaning women seem to be less shallow over all in my experience where as more red pill leaning women are most interested in traditional masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:10 PM
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Looks don’t apply to women, they have absolutely no standards they need to live up to in society because there will always be someone who wants them /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:08 PM
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Whatchu mean
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:57 PM
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Fair enough, I guess that is what I’m getting at, and I suppose my mentality is that you have to analyze your life holistically, so if you’re lacking in one department you can still make up for it in other departments which is actually a hopeful thing to consider so the fatalism of the black pill doesn’t make sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:47 PM
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Maybe you’re right, they do ok in spite of it, I know one guy who was 6’3 that really was a chick magnet, I don’t think I ever saw him get rejected by a girl. I have another friend who is 6’1 and he has been rejected a lot but still does decently I know two guys over 6’1 that really are awful with women, both are autistic and cucked af so that might be why And I know a couple guys that are 5’6 and put a lot of work in but consistently are hooking up with girls. But what I’m really getting at is …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:41 PM
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I agree with the latter, I think it is a weighted average, so if you’re lacking in one area you can make up for it in another. I have seen taller guys tend to get promotions, however my general manager is shorter than I am, doesn’t make him any less terrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:36 PM
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Yeah, but I’m not 6’ which seems to be the barrier of entry, so by those standards I’m short
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:31 PM
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But you’re making a generalization, of course someone is going to claim their ex of being a jerk. You have a skewed world view, I used to as well. Nobody is saying "look at this person who treats me like shit, I love being treated like shit" your opinion on psychology is short sighted and fails to acknowledge human dynamism. People get wrapped up in the cycle of abuse, most abusers are acting nice at first and using gift giving and love bombing as a way to win someone’s affection then once they …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:08 PM
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What, wait a second, so you’re basing what a woman wants based on the guys she…doesn’t want? That logic makes absolutely no sense. That would absolutely be the same asking the homeless failed stock investor for financial advice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:46 PM
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Why? Everyone has fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:20 AM
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There are a lot of women though that don’t follow that up with "it just so happens" it’s just that it sticks out more when it does. I see plenty of women saying their husbands/boyfriends are under 5’10
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:40 PM
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Interesting because the aloof uninterested alpha male act didn’t work for me, but approaching girls and complimenting them a lot and telling them that talking to them is the highlight of my day and that they make me feel like nobody has made me feel before did. I wonder why sweet talking girls works for me but not other people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:27 PM
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I am not a woman bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:08 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:19 PM
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MCS is sick, but I have to disagree, women respond a lot better to the whole sensitive guy thing, I feel like you should know that, the whole emo community was just manipulating women, this alpha machismo shit doesn’t really work
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:04 PM
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No, because despite what TRP says being an asshole doesn’t work, I have to act like I’m a good person and adopt a fake persona before I let my true self be known, but at that point they like me so much they’ll put up with just about anything until they realize I’m not going to change
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:02 PM
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A meal and a video game isn’t capable of giving or denying consent, and money is the barrier of entry for everyone in those situations, paying for an escort when other guys can attract women naturally isn’t a good comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:22 PM
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Because it isn’t the sex, it’s the social acceptance of knowing someone desires you for you, if you pay it’s conditional, they have nothing invested if money isn’t on the table. With that said if I was rich I absolutely would pay for sex if it wasn’t illegal here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:20 PM
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I’m a little misogynistic I guess, I really just view women as sexual conquests who hold the key to my self worth, I really don’t find any interest in them as people 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:58 PM
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I wouldn’t go that far
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:57 PM
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Because guys think that they’re some mysterious creature that acts against their own self interest because they’re unevolved or something, I think women are pretty sensible, it isn’t like men aren’t without their own issues
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:53 PM
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Why would it be a joke? That sounds legitimately perfect, you get the best of both worlds
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:46 PM
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I’m not wrong proven by the fact that the same guys who use the fisherman line are the same guys frequenting a subreddit whose whole concept is about how women won’t date them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:24 PM
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But what if TRP or the black pill is true and I’m just naive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:23 PM
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Thanks! Life changing film for sure. I think the truth is people need a balance of advice from men and women. My issue is that the men who say this tend to create the impression you can never be nice to a woman and that any advice a woman gives you is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:02 PM
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I agree with this, the issue I have is when guys will say "bro, you literally can’t do anything nice for her or she’ll think you’re a simp" Like, nah, tell her you like her outfit, tell her that you think she is talented at whatever she does, send her good morning texts, like that isn’t simpish behavior, if the girl likes you that will make them hooked on you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:01 PM
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Ok sorry, I wasn’t sure if it should be cmv, debate, or discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:59 PM
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It’s so bad for my mental health because some of the rage bait they post really does get to me, then I put my phone down and see how decent my life actually is, that I have had multiple relationships, I get along well with my coworkers, and it’s like damn, why am I letting the irrational opinions of strangers get to me so much
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:48 PM
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And there it is! Red pill men will complain about being shallow and then will be just as shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:40 PM
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Exactly, when I was in high school you know what I was doing? Watching the notebook and reading cosmo. I was getting into the mind of women and despite not having sex because my emotional issues and abuse would push them away before that point I had a lot of girls that I dated, made out with, did hand and mouth stuff with, etc. When I was a little older and was able to control my emotions better I was able to approach virtually any girl I was interested in who I knew was my type and would be abl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:39 PM
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Ok, then it’s on the Indian guy for approaching women who aren’t interested in him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:35 PM
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How sick is it that I’m self aware enough to acknowledge that you described the ideal woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:34 PM
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Be an indie girl with bangs, thick eye brows, and a septum piercing, submissive in the bedroom, encourages and supports me, caring and motherly. I basically want the same thing any other guy wants, a bang maid that will play the role of therapist and won’t get upset when I’m hitting on other girls 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:33 PM
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Absolutely, I’m narcissistic af. I’m at this weird mentality where I see how awful women are generally treated by men like me, but at the same time I’m so desperate for validation that I get off on hurting them emotionally. It’s really bizarre, I’m not a good person and I have no desire to be
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:29 PM
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But there is no reason to prove the cause for that. Society is set up so women are hypersexualized and men can either learn to conform to society in the best of their ability or to choose escapism. To say there is some inherent quality that defines men’s bad luck with women is naive, the truth is men just don’t know how to approach women because we think that love is something that just happens naturally meanwhile the guys who get laid a lot have broken out of that conditioning are approaching d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:25 PM
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What’s not horrible advice? You agree with the fisherman logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:12 PM
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Pretty much, yeah, like when I was younger I’d go to see my friends bands play and I’d hear girls talking about what guys in the different bands were hot and stuff. I’d like to receive that kind of authentic sexual attention
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:10 PM
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The thing is those insecure guys don’t realize how sexual relationships actually work. When I was 21 I was sleeping with an 18 year old who had been with 7 guys before me, it fucked with my head because she was only the second person I had been with. If she started having sex at 15, that would be 2 guys a year with one extra guy one of the years. So even then, most guys could have back to back 6 month relationships and get their numbers up, but instead they think life is like porn where you’re j…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:46 PM
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I have two friends who are over 6’ that are fucking terrible with women, one guy has been single for 7 years and the other did speed dating and didn’t get a single person who was interested in him Maybe the reason guys aren’t having sex is because they’re spending all their time on the internet complaining about not having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:41 PM
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I wonder if that’s the same study that was floating around, it’s funny because when you search it you get articles saying "sexlessness is increasing but not for the reasons incels think" and then it goes on to claim that young people aren’t getting married which is why they’re not having sex, yet female sexlessness is barely climbing, it’s showing that women are having more sex than men which is the real issue that should be addressed. I guess my response though is that male sexlessness isn’t a …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:38 PM
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Make the thread yourself, I’d be curious to see the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:14 PM
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Gotta say I agree with you, funny thing is that most women I know want a real relationship and aren’t out having endless casual sex, most of the time it’s that they like a guy and want him to commit but he won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:11 PM
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I only have anecdotal evidence but as a 5’9 man I am more disgruntled about the fact that I’m not viewed as a viable option for casual sex but I am viewed as a viable option for relationships. I’d have to look deeper into that second study but the issue seems to be it is addressing multiple continents which would skew the experience of those of us who are primarily in the USA and Canada as well as some European Reddit users. My experience is that I can easily find a girl who wants to date me, if…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:09 PM
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Being direct and confident isn’t being an asshole though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:07 AM
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Believe me, my issue is that I was too disagreeable, you don’t understand human nature if you truly believe people like people who make them feel bad or unappreciated, I used to feel that way too, but it isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:59 AM
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Nah, this whole "ask the fisherman not the fish" logic is dumb af. Love bombing is how you get a girl to like you, that’s what abusive guys do, so when he says look at her boyfriends and what they do you’re only seeing one side of the equation. That push/pull is what makes it so hard for girls to leave, because they see the good in the person. I fell for the girls like assholes logic and it didn’t work, it just pushed them away. Once I threw some good morning texts in there and complimented them…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:25 AM
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I don’t think it’s that they’re gaslighting anyone, I think it’s a bit of both sides not being able to comprehend the other. Do looks matter? Of course, but not as much as you might think. The issue is that I can easily get absorbed into the red pill line of thinking then you hear them say that they refuse to date a woman who is overweight or someone who is less than a 7. Personally I think ranking people on arbitrary scales like that is silly in the first place, but it shows that a lot of those…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:50 PM
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Our time is now, brother
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:52 PM
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Or, maybe, not have unrealistic standards in youth that lead to their own issues down the road 🤷🏻‍♂️ That’s why I could never truly accept that women are capable of love, all they’re capable of are making bad decisions and taking a couple decades to smarten up. No thanks, I’ll gladly lead a girl on, promise her I’m not like other guys, then ghost her after we sleep together a few times than be foolish enough to forgive them for their bad decisions, they made their bed so they can lie in it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:51 PM
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Alright, then don’t associate with me. The world is unfair, look at how picky women are and how that still backfires on them. People aren’t good, so you might as well do what you can while everything is burning. I’m only 5’9, girls lust after guys that are 6’, if I was a "good person" I’d be alone. Why should I play by the rules on a system that is set up against me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:50 PM
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All’s fair in love and war, women made the rules, it’s the guys fault for not learning how to make the system work for them. Like every tumblr girl says, "we accept the love we think we deserve" so if that’s the case then it’s their fault for falling for it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:44 PM
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That’s why you let them "settle" while you have affairs, or dangle your stability but never marry, always sign a prenup. Guys problems is that they don’t know how to be manipulative enough or they are too conditioned to be good people or something, they need to use the structure of society to their advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:38 PM
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I am a fat guy who does well with women, and yeah most of them are fat but here is the issue, when nothing else is good in your life food provides immediate satisfaction. You’re asking someone who is otherwise miserable to give up the only joy they have in their life for 6 months to a year before they finally begin to experience a different lifestyle, and even then going from fat to thin you’re going to have to navigate these relationships you might not be used to while also experiencing rejecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:14 PM
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My first partner I have no clue how many guys she had been with, we were both teenagers and I could have even been her first, I never asked, the second girl wasn’t until I was 21 and she had been with 7 guys, I felt inferior because of my lack of experience, my current partner and hopefully wife and mother of my children someday soon was only with one guy before me and I was admittedly insecure about it only because the guy had been with a lot of girls so I still felt inferior, but I am comforta…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:45 PM
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So heartbreaking 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:16 PM
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It helped me to realize that nothing really matters in life, the stranger by Albert Camus helped a lot
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 05:29 PM
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I am yes, what gave it away? My username or the reference to the YouTuber I like?
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 07:11 PM
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Are you fucked? Not necessarily. Are things going to be harder for you? Yes. The thing is no matter what are advantages or disadvantages are in life we have to accept that. Like I grew up poor af, only white kid in a predominately black neighborhood, single mom, my step dad was in prison, my real dad left when I was young and spent some time in jail and shit too and was too broke to pay child support. I spent a lot of my time obsessing over these things outside of my control, but we’ve got to fi…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 07:04 PM
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Idk, good women exist, I found one and I regret all the pain I put her through, I think in a lot of ways I used these ideas as an excuse to mess around with a lot of women and each rejection fueled me more then I had a realization that I’m not hurting the girls who rejected me, I’m hurting the ones who actually saw something in me. I feel bad about the blackpill stuff in a way, like I’m 5’9, but I feel bad for guys under 5’6, because even though I’m not 6’ tall at least I’m still taller than alm…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 03:32 PM
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Like the other person said obviously look out for lingo, even saying things like cuck and simp are words I’m trying to remove from my vocabulary because it emasculates other men for perceived weakness because they’re not as aggressive as I would be. Other than that definitely read up on love bombing and withdrawing affection which is also known as stonewalling. That was always my combo, message lots of girls on dating apps and social media, see which ones replied, narrowed those ones down to abo…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 02:29 AM
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Are you open to guys responding since this is an exredpill subreddit so we might be able to offer some helpful insight. If so, what are the main things that worry you about dating someone "red pilled?" I think if you can answer that then you can reverse engineer what some potential red flags might be
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 12:35 AM
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I like Alpha M. aka Aaron Marino, gives a lot of good fashion and confidence advice without being sexist about it. I also like the channel Better Habits and Matt D’Avella for general self improvement and productivity stuff. For fitness stuff I really like Simnett Nutrition, Brian Turner, and Brix Fitness
/r/ExRedPill06/08/21 02:56 AM
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Dr. Nerdlove is great, his name makes me cringe but his advice is solid
/r/ExRedPill06/08/21 02:52 AM
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I’m just speaking from experience, I’ve had girls verbatim say that they know what’s going on, but they just play along at this point, so call me a sociopath if you want, but everyone knows what they’re getting themselves into and if they still get hurt how am I supposed to feel responsible for that when people get their hearts broken every day
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 08:37 PM
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It’s all good, I’m feeling combative, I think we’re on the same page here so my bad
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 07:47 PM
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How am I responsible for how people react to things? I feel slighted all the time, I’ve seen lots of things online that make me insecure, are those people responsible for how I feel or am I responsible for being more tough and getting over it?
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 07:20 PM
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Why am I responsible for someone going on a forum?
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 07:16 PM
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The way I see it is after a certain age these girls have been through it all so by this point they know what’s up, it isn’t my fault that they felt something that wasn’t there, I’m just being nice to them and giving them what they want, so why should I be responsible for how they react when it’s over? Relationships end all the time, I’m not anything special. Edit: would be open to seeing a link to this YouTube channel for research purposes so I can make sure I’m not subconsciously doing this 👀
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 07:15 PM
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"Shoot your shot and get used to rejection" That’s all it takes. The first girls I liked when I was in middle school I never told and when they found out they were creeped out because it was like our friendship was based on lies. Tell girls straight up that you want to date them, you have to set that precedent right from the beginning.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 07:12 PM
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Only with anecdotal evidence, most women lose their virginity young because they’re pressured and coerced by older men. Relationships tend to not work out or they might use sex as a way to attract someone and then the desire for a relationships isn’t reciprocated which is what I think trp is basically exploiting. Most girls fall victim to wanting that Disney princess kind of love so when a handsome boy exploits that it’s easy for them to fall for it, then when the boy takes that attention away a…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 09:30 PM
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Ah Sam Vaknin, i have a lot of narcissistic and anti social traits as well as borderline personality disorder so I’m pretty familiar with him, I take everything he says with a grain of salt
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 04:03 AM
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Straight black men are the white people of black people, Kanye said "400 years later now we’re buying our own chains"
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 03:57 AM
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I’m not single, I’ve been in a relationship for 9 years, and yes I have been repeatedly unfaithful, I’m not proud of that, but it’s clear I have problems
/r/ExRedPill03/08/21 01:00 PM
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Because I crave attention and validation, also I have an inferiority complex because I didn’t start having sex until I was 21 so I feel I missed out on being an adolescent, I don’t know how to just be ok with myself so I work really hard and being different people, copying people I want to be like so I can impress others and make them like me, but I often get to a point where I like hurting them emotionally. I am very mentally unwell, I have this constant internal dialogue where I play these fak…
/r/ExRedPill03/08/21 02:39 AM
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Will watch later, thank you
/r/ExRedPill02/08/21 09:13 PM
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Ok, I will look into therapy because I have a lot of delusional thoughts, sorry for upsetting you with my initial comment and thank you for taking the time to talk to me
/r/ExRedPill02/08/21 09:11 PM
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Maybe you’re right, it’s crazy because I look at these screenshots and especially the ones about guys being rejected for being short and I’m 5’9 but that’s never happened to me so it just confuses me but it’s like I don’t know what people are thinking so they’re probably judging me and I’ll never know but when I see screenshots like this it shows me what people are probably actually thinking about me
/r/ExRedPill02/08/21 04:33 PM
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Maybe I was missing a step then because once I went back to being pleasant and sweet and not acting like a douche I was basically unstoppable. Like it’s fucking crazy how much girls will just be ok with being the other woman and sending nudes and shit when you want
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:07 AM
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Thank you for your response, I’m sorry if I left you feeling that way and when I look at the way so many men treat women I completely understand. The strange thing is that I’ve been in a relationship for 9 years and I’ve actually dated a lot. Yes, I have cheated in the past, but it’s because of this insecurity that I’m not good enough. I know that doesn’t excuse what I’ve done, but at least it might help explain why. Things like this just fuel my insecurity and then I feel this urge to go and pr…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/21 11:59 PM
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What if you end up dating one of those girls then, it’s like either way whoever you’re with is just settling for you then, that’s my fear about it
/r/ExRedPill01/08/21 10:36 PM
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It was/is common in red pill/black pill subreddits. You’re right, no reasonable person should care about it, but it shows how much looks matter and an otherwise good guy will get overlooked because he isn’t attractive enough
/r/ExRedPill01/08/21 04:37 PM
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Yeah, that’s smart, I am skeptical of the results because if you’re at least a little smart you’d realize they were fake accounts so maybe they’re playing along, but still so many of those screenshots did give out numbers. Either way, what I’m trying to say is that if a guy is creepy it’s probably because the girl finds him unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 01:56 PM
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Are you familiar with "chadfishing"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:43 AM
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When I was 16 I was dating this girl and this other girl told me my girlfriend didn’t actually like me, so I hung out with the other girl and she gave me a blowjob, my girlfriend found out about it and was understandably very angry at me for years, then when I didn’t want to date the other girl she spread lies about me and people stopped talking to me because of it. Also in my experience girls will absolutely accept their role as the other woman and feel no guilt about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:54 AM
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Me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:31 AM
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It’s fine, I have a lot of sociopathic and narcissistic traits, so I get it, I’ve done my fair share of bad things to people and I don’t feel guilt or remorse over it, I lack empathy the way most people do, but at the same time I recognize my actions in the past caused others pain so I’m going to do my best to treat others with kindness. You have to watch your own back since there are a lot of people that will hurt others out there, but I’m not going to defend those actions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:12 AM
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If you want to live immorally that is your right to do so, but don’t claim you’re acting from a place of positivity when you’re going out of your way to hurt others. When a feminist uses the "i don’t owe anyone anything" argument it’s coming from a place of self preservation, they’re saying that the man who approaches them unprovoked on the street and then gets angry at her for rejecting his advances isn’t owed anything because he is the one creating the connection without consent of the other. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:08 AM
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Indifference/nihilism/futility isn’t a valid argument imo, you could also use that logic to defend pedophilia or racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:59 AM
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Right, but what is being suggested here is weaseling ones way in to get sex because they view it as some kind of conquest then cutting ties to prove a point. People aren’t required to return emotions, but they shouldn’t purposefully lead people on to sleep with them and then turn around and abandon them. This whole idea is coming from a place of hurt, and I get it because I’ve had these thoughts too and have actually done similar things, however exacting a revenge fantasy on someone who the wors…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:49 AM
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So women will put up more hoops? Maybe if men respected women’s boundaries and didn’t turn around and brag to their friends while slut shaming them they’d be more willing to be sexually adventurous. You’re suggesting men do the exact thing that women are trying to protect themselves against because you get your feeling hurt at the idea of a woman having autonomy over her body and her sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:44 PM
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Thé issue is fat guys don’t shoot their shot, but also guys are just hornier so they’ll overlook a woman being fat. With that said I think it’s easier to be a fat woman, look at that Jubilee video about ranking male/female attractiveness, they had a fat girl but no fat guy. I think being slightly overweight doesn’t hold a guy back, however being obese will hold a guy back more than it will hold a girl back
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:34 AM
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Aesthetics should have remained an entirely philosophical debate. That is why I don’t get the whole red pill/black pill thing. Like the types of men and women that are on boxes of hair dye are the most conventionally attractive faces one could think of, but they’re boring to look at. There is so much variance in what is considered attractive and if you go by Reddit or male preference it almost becomes like a uniform. You have to have the same haircut, the same facial hair, the same outfits, etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:34 PM
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Bro that’s why you’ve got to wait until she is ready to settle down then cheat and lead them all on, you can be the bad boy that they didn’t see coming, don’t let them have a chance to forget about denying you what’s rightfully yours
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:38 PM
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Slightly, but all of the guys in my neighborhood that got girls were in decent shape, the only other guy I know who wasn’t part of that was an overweight kid who stayed inside and didn’t get mixed up in the gang violence and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:30 PM
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Oh, yes I understand, I’m familiar with that book. That was my overall conclusion, I used to do really poorly with women, I didn’t start having sex regularly until I was 21, but then I realized that the guys who tend to get a lot of women will love bomb them, lie about having shared interests and what they want, then after they have the woman attached to them they’ll withdraw affection then breadcrumb/future fake to keep them holding on hope. I have mental issues so I began doing this too and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:21 PM
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Can you elaborate on this? I think we might generally be on the same page and the topic of toxic relationships/psychological abuse interests me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:02 PM
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They don’t need to be, but pretty much everyone around me was and I have an inferiority complex because I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:28 PM
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Hm, interesting, I’m still attracted to them though. What I’m getting at is that the whole 80/20 thing is blown out of the water because a lot of guys who say those kind of things are going after 80% of women and in my experience when I mention the kind of women im most attracted to im usually told that it doesn’t count
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:19 PM
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Yeah even if the guy is super nice to them don’t they see how they treat other people? It’s wild how people will be quick to say a guys personality is why girls aren’t interested in him, yet at the same time women are out here dating violent criminals. That guy went to jail before any of this happened as a teen because he set a kids hair on fire, then I think his first offense was drugs, no big deal it happens, but his second big offense was robbing a cab driver at knife point, what a charming p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:13 PM
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Are you red pill or incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:09 PM
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Same, my mom would always be like "girls might not like you/sleep with you but they respect you" Like for real? I’m 16 and horny af, I don’t want to be respected, I want to get laid lmao Really changed my view on women, especially when she was practically a single mom because my step dad was in prison for murder and he was abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:29 PM
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Idk, I am a white guy who grew up in government subsidized housing and they still went for guys with status within that community, it’s just that they viewed status differently. Like the guy who used to bully me and jumped me got a girl pregnant, went to jail, got out and her pregnant again, then went to prison. I saw lots of girls going after guys that had that agressive nature about them. I attracted girls easier when I got to the suburbs, the thing is that in the ghetto everyone is low value,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:57 PM
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Marry: vegan, straight edge, kinky af, low/no n count, French/Italian or Hispanic origin, anarchist sympathies but not like a crazy SJW about it, still shaves her legs and armpits, allows and encourages me to sleep with other women, seen the word bang maid thrown around, sounds perfect to me No sex: ugly and unhygienic Only sex: anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:14 PM
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Not posting a pic of myself but I’m 5’9 and around 280lbs, dress kind of pop punk, when I was down to 230 which is the lowest weight I’ve been as an adult I was attracting thinner girls, could probably do the same now, but I like girls that are curvier anyways because I like big butts, like when drake said "I’m with a girl whose ass is so big it’s partly embarrassing" I felt that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:02 PM
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Around this: https://i.pinimg.com/originals/90/f6/af/90f6af78a75bb4fb1466fc56dc75088d.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:58 PM
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Depends, I found them attractive and I like thick girls. Does that not "count" to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:44 PM
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Hardly, I make 30k a year and I didn’t graduate college until I was 28
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:37 PM
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So? Not everyone is going to be attracted to everyone, that’s how dating works. Put yourself out there and find someone you click with, I don’t only date younger women, I’m attracted to women older than me too, but if I see someone I might be interested in I’ll talk to them and see what happens and if nothing happens that isn’t my problem. I’m just kinda of immature and get along better with younger people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:25 PM
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I’m in my 30s and have dated girls that are 19, it isn’t the age that is a turn off, it’s how well the guy presents himself. And even if most girls aren’t attracted to them, it’s like anything else, some younger women are attracted to older men. I have a friend who is 21 and she is interested in another one of our friends that is 35, like legitimately smitten with him. It’s a lot like the height preference thing, sure there are some girls that only want to date guys over 6’ but that isn’t all of…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:21 PM
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Not necessarily true, I’m in my early thirties and the last couple girls I dated were 19 - 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:23 PM
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I have performance anxiety but everyone I’ve been with has been understanding, it goes away after I’ve been with them a few times though🤞 I had sex for the first time at 17 and I couldn’t get an erection because I was nervous, and I think that has stuck with me ever since. Edit: getting into kink helps, pull her hair, choke her, spit in her mouth, that usually gets the blood flowing for me, just doesn’t work if the girl is vanilla af
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:45 PM
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Ok, so let’s say you’re right. What can be done about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:19 AM
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People break up all the time, they’re celebrities that none of us will ever meet. The only reason it upsets people is because they feel powerless or like things are outside of their control. That isn’t the life most people live, and there is a lot of confirmation bias going on. What makes you think I hate my gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:04 AM
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Go outside, plenty of men under 6’ are in relationships. It’s mostly guys trolling other guys sharing tinder screenshots and then you begin seeking confirmation bias. I am 5’9, I’m the same height or taller than most people I encounter and several people I meet throughout the day are taller than me. Don’t be so fatalistic about it because your whole premise isn’t based in reality but instead some things you’ve seen online
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:13 AM
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Because it’s reactionary
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:12 AM
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Please tell us your other preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:11 AM
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Ayyy go bills
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:08 AM
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Let’s take a rational approach at viewing this show that doesn’t involve emotion or male sensitivity. First of all even though it is based on a memoir, at the end of the day it’s a work of fiction, the people in the show aren’t real so it allows women to indulge in their fantasies a bit. Just like I wouldn’t essentially rape my step mom if she was stuck under a coffee table and just like petite 5’1 white women aren’t actively seeking out violent gang bangs with black men. Fantasy isn’t reality. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:07 AM
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Finally found the automoderator I can leave my shitpost of a comment: They can’t cheat on you if you cheat on them first
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:35 AM
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Can someone explain to me the no incel posts thing? I have four thread ideas I want to post about: looksmaxxing and how this is something everyone does, guys should wear make up, shoe lifts, and wigs, and if you pay attention it’s only men who take issue with men doing these things, a lot of women are actually encouraging of guys making themselves look better how women’s selective ness is actually a good thing and competition is what drives our species how there is nothing wrong with being manip…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:05 PM
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🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:22 AM
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what is the coconut story?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:57 AM
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What did you like about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:16 PM
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Yeah one of my red pill beliefs despite being mostly blue pill is that it’s ridiculous when women think sex is some sort of validation. I have BPD and talk to a lot of other people who do in Facebook groups and stuff and it makes me laugh every time I hear that. Like you’re a woman, you just exist and guys throw themselves at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:13 PM
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This is a conspiracy theory I can get behind. Tbh the best luck I’ve ever had online was meeting girls through MySpace, Facebook, and Tumblr. I never got into Instagram but I feel confident it would be the same there. Why did I do well meeting girls off those sites? Because I was actually able to show who I was. I also did a lot better on OkCupid and Plenty of Fish than I did on Tinder simply because I could write more in my profile. I think you’re onto something
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:07 PM
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Too much escapism and porn, unrealistic expectations and standards, entitlement, poor social skills, low self esteem, internalizing rejection. I’m 5’9 and overweight and I’ve struggled with getting girls to like me, but when I worked on my personality a bit I really hit my stride, I’ve noticed a lot of people viewing any form of self improvement as being vain or manipulative, but their loss. Watch some chick flicks and learn to be more like Ryan Gosling, take a shower and trim your facial hair c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:35 PM
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Absolutely, and men should start wearing wigs and subtle make up. If you look around you'll notice it is mostly men who discourage other men from taking steps to look better. It isn't about being fraudulent, it's just accepting what qualities society says is attractive and fitting into them because of the benefits that fitting in can give, but also be open to challenging the status quo because we need people to do that as well. I am 5'9 and my partner is 5'6. I don't feel insecure about my heigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:57 AM
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Something I’ve always wanted to know is since girls get hit on so much, especially the ones who are attractive or they have something that is fetishized like large breasts, how do they decide to actually date someone? For context, I don’t buy into the red pill thing, I was friends in college with a girl that is really conventionally attractive and the guys in my class who suddenly wanted to be buddies with me because I was friends with her was disgusting. Just made me dislike people so much more…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:05 PM
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I’m not red pilled and I support the idea of SW but the reason I don’t like it is because I view it as women who would have no interest in me and be disgusted by me suddenly being able to fake friendliness because I’m paying them to. So all this time it isn’t that they’re rude, it’s just that they don’t see me as deserving of their kindness. I would never pay to see someone’s naked pictures or videos, but I absolutely would pay for an escort service if that was legal where I am
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:04 PM
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Do whatever you want, but it’s clear that your opinion is coming from a place of resentment rather than a place of love. I’m 30 and most attracted to girls that are 24 - 28, younger than that they look too childish and older than that I don’t feel I have my life together enough to offer them anything valuable. I would date someone that is 19 but I think 18 is too young, but even then it isn’t something I would only focus on because that is creepy. I think your attitude is what women find most re…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:13 PM
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1.) it’s complicated, I fell into this mindset and I do feel like I missed out in a way but there really isn’t that much difference between love and sex when you’re younger than when you’re older. It’s still new and exciting to get to know a partner and sex shouldn’t be viewed as a conquest the way many guys who lament missing out seem to view it. Also all those awkward and embarrassing sexual moments that happen when people are awkward still happen with new partners, sex isn’t really good until…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:52 PM
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i am a male, but i agree entirely that porn is damaging. i had a lot a lot of trouble with girls when I was a teenager and I think part of this was the result of porn. I mean not many 15 year old girls are comfortable with a guy saying they want to throat fuck them and make them gag and shit. Plus a lot of the things depicted are really rapey and basically overt molestation/objectification so no wonder I repulsed a lot of girls when I was that age. When I finally did have sex I had trouble getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:45 PM
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I feel weird talking about this because people have such preconceptions but honestly I used to be really misogynistic until I went vegan and I started to experience empathy and I began understanding how awful other people have it. I was very self centered but recognizing how much suffering were responsible for, how we’ve ruined the planet, terrorized humans and animals, subjugate others to oppression, etc. I began to be more sympathetic to feminism and a lot of my limiting beliefs were the resul…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:59 AM
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From a biological standpoint it makes sense. Men have a drive to carry on their genes so they benefit from lowering their standards a bit. Women have more on the line when it comes to pregnancy because they have to carry a baby to term for 9 months then hope the father will pass on good genes and also stay in the child’s life. No doubt this would result in a narrower margin of male characteristics being deemed attractive. Fortunately we live in a more civilized world that exists outside of socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:37 PM
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I have an idea for a dating app that is designed more like MySpace/Facebook. Unfortunately I have no experience in designing apps so it’s just a fantasy at this point, but it’s interesting to see someone have the same sentiment. I’ve always been successful DMing girls on Tumblr/Facebook/Instagram because on those platforms they can get an idea of who you are as a person where as dating apps are based entirely on whether you look good in your photos and if you can manage to not say something offe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:05 PM
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I’m sure it does, it also hurts to not be seen as anything and to repeatedly have your sexuality dismissed for whatever reason. I’m not saying one is worse or better than the other, they can both be damaging in their own way, but personally I would prefer the option to have a physical connection with someone even if it’s meaningless than to not have a physical or emotional connection with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:52 PM
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"And the most hypocritical thing of it all. Men pursue women, present one face and turn out another and men will say ‘oh she chose that’" Honestly took me so long to realize this, made me a lot more empathetic. I’d always see girls crying over their boyfriends and I’d get angry at them because I saw it as women choosing abusive men over me without realizing that often times those abusive men have a lot of superficial charm and are more proactive in dating where as me and a lot of other guys who …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:12 PM
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I agree that if the roles were reversed guys would have a different experience but from the outside looking in I would love if women objectified me and I could find hook ups easily. But of course the fantasy is usually better than the reality and I can see how that would be heart breaking to deal with that. I often wonder what the male equivalent of a thirst trap is, I want more unsolicited attention lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:05 PM
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Women have their own competition, they have to weed out manipulators and liars. I truly believe that dating, like real dating is easier for men because what you mostly have to worry about is rejection. Women tend to have a lot more on the line in terms of safety and emotional well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:03 PM
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Make it the Spanish civil war and you dying during labor and you’ve got yourself a heart breaking Hemingway novel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:46 AM
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I really want to be with a milf, also I want to be with a woman much younger than myself, also I want to have a harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:44 AM
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I’m not a democrat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:24 PM
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I agree, online dating attracts really awful people. I’ve met very few people via online dating that I have anything in common with. Most of the profiles are heavy drug users, casual drug users, they enjoy hunting, fishing, mudding, they’re Republican, they wear camo, they ride horses, they listen to country music, they probably cry on the 4th of July, their highest level of education is either high school or community college, they have either no tits or ass, they’re dull af and incapable of ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:34 PM
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I don’t like when anyone does it, I used to be like that because I had a fear of being alone and being unlovable. I’m much happier in a committed relationship with mutual trust
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:15 PM
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Ah, yes, being a fuckboy, I know the lifestyle all too well and when you grow out of it you realize how shitty you’ve been to others
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:14 PM
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So cheating or consensual non monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:12 PM
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Most people I know do not do this. The only people I’ve known who do this are shallow and incapable of being in a relationship or they’re manipulative and sex obsessed. I feel like people who buy into TRP aren’t going to have a happy and fulfilling relationship. Edit: I’ll add to this that yes, women are attracted to a man who has options, but they’re more attracted to a man who has enough security in himself to pass on those options and give himself to the girl he is interested in. Like I said …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:06 PM
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Yes, I have issues. I have no diagnosis but covert narcissism and borderline personality disorder describe what I go through mentally a lot. I think I’d also fall somewhere on the antisocial personality disorder spectrum because I have diminished empathy and don’t feel guilt. Part of me enjoys causing emotional pain. I have had a girlfriend attempt suicide because I told her I’d never be able to love her or stop cheating on her. I have done a lot of bad things in the past because I struggle with…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:19 AM
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I am an INTJ/INTP and I’ve always been envious of the INFP types because while they might have issues they seem less likely to turn into incels. I became really good with women but it was something I had to learn, and basically if I want a girl to like me I just love bomb as many girls as I can until a few like me then I string them along and withdraw affection then hoover/breadcrumb and future fake to keep them attached to me. Also if you are really good at sex a lot of girls will overlook your…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:36 AM
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There’d have to be a point in the first place for me to even miss it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:49 PM
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Grandma can’t afford her cancer treatments? I don’t care until I get a girlfriend 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:02 PM
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I think the reason there is such a hyper focus on western culture is because we live in the west. Sure, things are changing but a lot of us are focused on the issues that immediately impact us. I admittedly feel guilty when I talk about relationships in heteronormative terms, but the truth is I’m a straight man and those are the relationships I have questions about because they impact me directly. I’ve only dated white women because those are the ones I have the most interaction with. My brother…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:04 PM
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When they say western they just mean white
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:00 PM
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I would appreciate it tbh. I usually talk about what we both like before hand though since I’m into things like choking, slapping, hair pulling, spit play, DDLG, CNC, etc. and I know not everyone is into that so it’s good to get an idea of what your partner likes so you can accommodate accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:04 PM
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Oh! I think I actually joined that to lurk a while ago but was kicked out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:51 AM
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I feel like that’s me lol I’m not very manly, what do you want to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:06 AM
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FDS or TRP has this discord?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:40 AM
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Agreed, I just saw a post against going on a hike as a date and I thought that was dumb which is why I said some of their beliefs and standards are too far, but overall the whole idea is to hold out for someone who actually respects them rather than settling for attention from guys who only care about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:26 AM
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Guilty, but tbh I’m over that phase in my life, I’d rather actually be a good person and work on myself and be someone who is actually desirable rather than lying to get girls to like me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:17 AM
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This is the one argument I do agree with, I checked out their Instagram to see who was liking the page and a lot of this women aren’t that special looks wise or career wise. Still though there is something I find more noble about staying single rather than feeling entitled to a relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:04 AM
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That’s my problem, but rather than being angry about it I’m actually working hard to be better for my gf because I realize how much she means to me and how badly I’ve treated her and other women I’ve been with in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:01 AM
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Perhaps you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:59 PM
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Oof, cheated, forgotten special dates, half assed gifts, lacked empathy, been quick to anger, been unemployed and relied on their income, lied about how I felt to get close to them, been psychologically manipulative, been abusive, punches holes in one girls bedroom wall on two occasions, drank in excess when she told me not to, broken her fathers possessions, pissed on a car door handle, given the silent treatment, love bombed, made no effort to be likable around their family, cut them off from …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:54 PM
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Because I’ve been a shitty boyfriend in the past, and I’ve browsed the subreddit and read their discussions hoping to find some cringe, but it just sounds like typical single women saying guys suck and they’d rather be single than settle. I’ve never read anything on that subreddit that made me upset, and I oftentimes find myself agreeing with what they’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:46 PM
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What’s so happy about it? 😔 Thanks though 🇺🇸🎇
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:32 PM
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That’s what I’m saying bud, the caveman ooga booga shit is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:33 AM
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When I was 23 I smacked a drink out of my friends hand and demanded he say that I was more alpha than my current girlfriends ex boyfriend. I was all about evolutionary psychology back then, all it did was turn me into an insecure asshole. As others have said humans are dynamic and our relationships are too nuanced. Society allows us to split off into different sub categories and those sub categories have different hierarchies. Attractive and popular people do better, sure, but it isn’t a binary …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:56 AM
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r/Femaledatingstrategy in your post history, comment ignored. I’ll stick to browsing r/agegaps and making the cat ladies complain about all the LVMs they’ve dated lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:49 AM
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Nah the issue is this: Being rich, tall, attractive: all positive things Not being rich, tall, or attractive: not a negative thing It isn’t black and white and obsessing over these studies just make your mental state worse which makes you a less appealing partner and then you feed into your confirmation bias and end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:00 PM
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Interesting, I’ve never dealt with that. Maybe you should associate with better people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:41 PM
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How? Maybe you just associate with shitty people because I don’t tend to gravitate to people like this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:23 PM
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Yeah this kind of behavior is disgusting and it makes me really despise the world. Not everyone is like this thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:46 PM
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Yes! Exactly, this is how my gf explained it to me. I used to pretend I had a lot of sex because I thought like the OP, but it isn’t that a man who has been with a lot of women is attractive, but the fact that he is desired, has enough self respect and self control to not take advantage of others, and then chooses one woman over all the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:25 PM
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You must have such a terrible idea of what women want based on screenshots that angry men post to further that confirmation bias. I hope some day you’ll realize how ridiculous what you’re saying sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:23 PM
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Short ✅ Overweight ✅ Low income ✅ Less than three previous partners ✅ Finally all my insecurities are valid 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:22 PM
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No, when I was younger I’d lie and say my count was higher (it was actually one) and it turned a lot of girls off because they thought I was a player. The most success I’ve had with women was when I didn’t bring up count at all and the ones who found out like my current gf who was only with one guy before me was happy to find out that I had only been with two girls before her. Count is irrelevant, I used to get stressed out about it because the second girl I had sex with had been with 7 guys bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:19 PM
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I am a man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:53 PM
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First of all cheating is bad no matter who does it and if traditional monogamy doesn’t work for you then find a polyamorous relationship. With that said I feel that men who cheat have to work for it more whereas women have many more opportunities to cheat. Whether this means it is worse because the guy actually had to put more effort into it or if it means it’s warranted because dating is more difficult in some ways for men I’m not entirely sure. Either way if the latter is true maybe it is best…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:50 PM
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"You really expect me to lower my standards after years of complaining the reason girls don’t like me is because they won’t lower their standards?" The issues isn’t even about lowering ones standards, it’s about making them more reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:17 PM
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Great advice, I will definitely pick up that book and proceed to ruin my life so I can be a real alpha male /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:55 PM
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Idk according to Reddit I’m short and I’ve still been able to find women that are interested in me. Might be harder if you’re shorter, but it’s still possible
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:58 PM
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If you want to call it that, I see it as just making yourself the best version of yourself you can, and if that involves tweaking or adjusting things about yourself you dislike then there is nothing wrong with that, being disingenuous and lying and presenting a false persona is bad though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:50 PM
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this is something I’ve been wanting to talk about because I think this whole idea is ridiculous. It was never my intention, but I am absolutely hypergamous by the description I’ve seen around here. I grew up poor af and on food stamps and only dated girls from the suburbs because I just connected with them better than the scummy people I grew up around. Most are in prison or have died from drug over doses. My gf helped me go to college and learn to drive. She definitely dated down with me. Edit:…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:41 PM
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I am a 5’9 man and if I was in that situation I would do all the things any other guy should do. I’d go to therapy and learn how to not internalize rejection. Then I would focus on dressing stylishly and how to talk to people in a way that makes them view me as being charming. I would immediately cut ties with any person or anything in my life that is toxic and doesn’t make me feel better about myself. Then I would find a way to stand out in whatever I was interested in like music or something l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:21 PM
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Got it, I’ll post there and delete this!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:20 PM
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Oops, not allowed? 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:10 PM
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Is it a competition? Both situations can be bad, doesn’t make the one I mentioned less legitimate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:44 PM
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I came in here thinking I was going to disagree, but you’re right. Women have an advantage in finding men wanting to hook up, but finding a fulfilling relationships is still a challenge for them. If you’re a guy that just wants to hook up you might have to work harder for it but believe me, it’s out there as long as you seem like someone she would be safe to invite over and you’re sexually compatible. I read something the other day about how when a man approached a woman all he has to worry abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:33 PM
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Maybe young women are just becoming more aware of coercion and manipulation that are common among teenage boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:50 AM
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Fat people have sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:40 AM
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Maybe that’s the case, but I’ve still met a lot of awesome women via dating apps and other forms of social media. I’ve also met a lot that are incredibly dull. Maybe this tends to change based on education level and other factors. I also tend to date girls that are more alternative and left leaning than someone who is more traditional or conservative which I could see them placing greater importance on societal constructs of beauty. I.e. the bleached blonde wearing a white sundress holding a gla…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:05 PM
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But how many men are under 5’6? Just like a lot of women over 5’8 might be considered too tall or they only attract fetishists. Most people regardless of gender are reasonable and just because some has a characteristic the majority of people don’t find as attractive as another characteristic doesn’t mean they’re not attractive because I think most people look at others holistically rather than zoning in on one thing. Yeah, 6’1 is probably the ideal height for a man, however that doesn’t mean eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:32 PM
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This is most people’s opinion too. I got wrapped up in one of these height threads the other day and I’m trying to make sense of it. I’m 5’9, my girlfriend is 5’6. I’ve never had trouble finding women to date both online and off. I have had girls ask my height and ask for a full body pic but it’s usually when they were closer to my height. I have see bios that say they prefer someone who is over 6’ and I’ve seen bios from girls saying they only date black men or they only date white men. I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:29 PM
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Dude get help, nobody says you have to stay with anyone, you can break up with them for any reason you want, but judging someone negatively for exploring themselves is kind of ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:11 PM
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They do, but there is a difference between being vulnerable and open about ones emotions and being bitter and yelling at the person and insulting them because you’re envious of their life. I did the latter and it didn’t work out for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 02:18 PM
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They do, but there is a difference between being vulnerable and open about ones emotions and being bitter and yelling at the person and insulting them because you’re envious of their life. I did the latter and it didn’t work out for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 02:17 PM
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Me personally or guys in general? I was in therapy on and off from 12 - 25 and it just taught me really how to manage the emotions I feel, but the thing is I still feel them. I’m a lot less toxic now. As for other guys? Yeah I think they would benefit from therapy or from a mandatory course regarding how to actually treat women like people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:42 AM
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What? Why not just go out and have fun? I think I took a wrong turn and ended up on this subreddit you are all delusional and have a warped view of the world. Do whatever you want to do but do it out of a place of love and don’t worry about being judged by anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:47 AM
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Women aren’t property, and cows shouldn’t be viewed as property either, but that’s a discussion for another subreddit. Women are allowed to have a sex life before their current partner, they shouldn’t be expected to just sit around waiting to be scooped up https://youtu.be/402f1rffWUk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:41 AM
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Oh, yes I agree. Women definitely have it worse in regards to physical violence. I don’t think that makes the rejection guys face any less damaging to ones self esteem especially if it’s constant. My heart breaks for what a lot of women have had to go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:04 AM
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My only goal is to advocate for complete animal liberation and the abolition and shutting down of every slaughterhouse in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:45 AM
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I’ve never seen this actually work that way, being an asshole only drove people away. Being nice and affectionate and then taking affection away has worked. Idk, I don’t think any woman would be ok with being treated poorly unless that initial attraction was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:55 AM
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Just assume every women has had sex with 50+ guys because the truth is everyone woman has the opportunity to do so. Also just ask because the truth is if the woman is scared to say then she is self conscious about it for some reason. Also date as young as you legally can before she has had the opportunity to get on tinder and stuff, my fiancée and I met when she was 18 and I was 21. She had been with one guy before me and I had been with two girls before her. I feel that is reasonable. But the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 02:46 AM
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Yeah, but women choose to be with those guys so it’s their own fault. I genuinely wanted to get married and lose my virginity to my future wife and have her lose hers to me, but it became clear that was impossible. Then I gave up, struggled with figuring out how to get girls to like me, essentially became a manipulator that would love bomb girls and then stonewall them after I got what I wanted. Guess which one worked out better for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 02:40 AM
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Why can’t you be in your 30s and go out? Who makes those rules? These kind of fake societal limitations are what cause the incel mindset. It’s like if you didn’t get that opportunity by a certain age then you missed a milestone or an experience. Who could even tell the difference between someone in their 20s and their 30s? Age is just a number really, do whatever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 02:35 AM
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Why does it have to be a competition? Some people have it better and some people have it worse, that shouldn’t invalidate someone’s pain
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 02:31 AM
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Tbh I think a lot of guys would do better with women if they held things in a little more. I know that was my experience. I drove girls I was dating away because I used them as my emotional punching bag. I think a lot of guys have mental illness and they feel like they have no outlet and it just gets too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 02:29 AM
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I don’t know all the nuance of this community, but I’m a guy who is sad because I didn’t lose my virginity young like most people (despite the fact that I was seventeen which actually is young looking back) Anyways I never have an bad thoughts about women, but I feel really bad for how they’re hypersexualized and how while I’m envious about how the gender they’re most likely attracted to throws themselves at them, I can imagine how demeaning it is to be viewed as an object or a conquest. With th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 02:27 AM
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