For me I typically message girls online via DM and give them some kind of compliment, say they seem cool or interesting or that they’re attractive and "I just needed to introduce myself"

Then within a few text exchanges I tell them I have to head out but they should add me on Snapchat or text me.

If they do then it shows they’re interested.

From there I will make small talk for a day or so as I escalate flirting, I only text girls at certain times of the day.

Eventually within a few days I move onto goodmorning texts and then a few days after that as I escalate flirting more I’ll add a beautiful or a cutie on there with a 😊 emoji

I don’t escalate sexually, this is just the love bombing stage, in fact when they start to get sexual I act oblivious

Then I’ll go a day without texting them to withdraw affection and see where I stand in their life and see if they text me first. Then I tell them I lost my phone charger but it made me realize how much I missed them.

Tell them talking to them is the highlight of my day, all that shit.

Start to get sexual, smash

Then I say that things are moving too fast or that I’m going to get back together with my ex but we can still talk as friends but nothing sexual

Then I hang out with them and get sexual and when they say "I thought you didn’t want to do this" I say "I want you too much, I wouldn’t be doing this if I didn’t want to. Whatever happens I’ll take the blame because this is my choice"

Then from there they are in my rotation and its all about bread crumbing and future faking to keep them hanging on