| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | do i “punish her?”fair enough | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | do i “punish her?”i was thinking if i say yes to tomorrow i have to rail the fuck out of her | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 10:05 PM |
| 3 | do i “punish her?”right i guess i am i told her i couldn’t a couple times and i feel like she’s maybe trying to get back at me...i do think a lot of it is her wanting to spend the morning with me...i don’t believe her having to work late, i do believe the morning call though | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 10:00 PM |
| 2 | can’t get girls from dating apps to meet, why?makes sense, all of it you know what it is? why i was kind of rushing them over? this is my first place i’ve ever had..before this i lived with my parents all my life so i’m like ...yes!!! finally i can have girls over ...but there has to be a process | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 03:41 PM |
| 1 | can’t get girls from dating apps to meet, why?well what should be the meeting spot first...i’m used to bars being the go to | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 05:35 AM |
| 1 | can’t get girls from dating apps to meet, why?so this is where trp needs to agree on one thing i’ve heard here plenty of times not to text them beyond like 5 messages, and if you’re good looking enough they’ll come over | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Still thinking about ex a year later?U right I’m fucking 2 girls that are hotter than her ..people think I haven’t been fucking anything better on this thread but these girls are more fun in bed and hotter...but it wasn’t about that More like grieving over a loss of a good friend still | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Still thinking about ex a year later?I know it’s tough love haha thanks for that ...still difficult for me ...sometimes I wish my parents named me chad...he’s getting all the bitches | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Still thinking about ex a year later?Thanks glad u get it | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Still thinking about ex a year later?I can act all hard but I really cared about her Believe me I did think about that and it scares the shit out of me because she’d probably be pushing for kids soon due to the biological clock She really is the only girl I’ve been with that I know really loved me for me...sounds blue pill as fuck but idk how else to put it | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 02:14 AM |
| 0 | Still thinking about ex a year later?Lol she would never know..we all have thoughts, mine are just typed out... | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Still thinking about ex a year later?Why do u prefer calling over texting | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Still thinking about ex a year later?What kind of message would I even text? Simple happy birthday might get no response | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Still thinking about ex a year later?Well if I do.. I waited a year... I could wait another week it’s her birthday next fri | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 09:58 PM |
| 0 | Still thinking about ex a year later?I think many here would say fuck her she’s on the cock carousel ...she’s fucking other guys ...she broke up with you ..get over her ...fuck more girls..and all that... It would be better if she hit me up but idk if that’s going to happen..hitting her up would put me in the weaker position, but I do believe she would answer I’m not even sure if I would want to get back together but atleast fuck and go on a date and see what she’s up to to analyze further | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 09:55 PM |
| 0 | Do you guys ever hit up plates late at nightYeah I was just thinking maybe you should not be texting her and be out having a good time instead or make it like you are Or make her think you’re with another girl that late When you hit them up that late it’s showing them validation I think | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Asking her to basketball game after acting upI never told her about this girl at all I just mentioned it making conversation saying it’s a nice country and a friend invited me out ...no way I thought she’d know who it was | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Asking her to basketball game after acting upI have this new girl I fucked yesterday for the first time but that’s prob too soon lol | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Asking her to basketball game after acting upTold her my friend invited me to the Czech republic because the country came up on tv and I said oh looks like a nice place a friend invited me out there This friend was a previous plate (au pair) and she went through my facebook friends and that’s how she found out...thought she’d never know who I was taking about | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 08:58 PM |
| 0 | Asking her to basketball game after acting upDoes she ever get an upgrade in the future again? Or it’s a downgrade forever? | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How to not care what people thinkI work in a field where I’m around a lot of people but still... | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 01:16 PM |
| 1 | How to not care what people thinkThanks for that...I guess things like meetings if I get called on to speak or introduce myself my heart feels like it’s beating out of my chest..I might seem like I’m fine but I’m not Have you or anyone read the subtle art of not giving a fuck? Wonder if that would be good | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 12:57 PM |
| 1 | How to go about finding (new) platesI can’t just up and move I purchased a home and I work here...should I just go into nyc for now? | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Should I hard next after this?Ok cool your plan would be just waiting until she hits me up and then acting like nothing happened? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Should I hard next after this?Should I hit her up like nothing happened? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Should I hard next after this?This put it better thanks As far as the fucking the girl it was so ridiculous because she’s really ugly that’s why I made that joke but I guess it was poor taste | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Should I hard next after this?Yeah I’ve done this once before in the year we’ve been talking I know enough not to do that frequently | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Should I hard next after this?I’ve been exclusive with her she calls me on Christmas asks what’s going on..we go back and forth...look down and it’s 20mins, didn’t think that was bad | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Should I hard next after this?How am I weak? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Should I hard next after this?Of course I want help ...I just don’t get why she’s pulling this shit because I didn’t show weakness or anything and I think I reacted well to both events | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 03:15 AM |
| 0 | Should I hard next after this?Why would I have plates in a relationship? I’ve read the side bar already | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Should I hard next after this?How do you figure | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Should I hard next after this?You don’t think cutting things off right now would be better? Telling her we’re done? I watch ams and he says to do this before it’s too late and she breaks up with you | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 03:05 AM |
| 0 | Should I hard next after this?If she doesn’t contact me in day a week should I hit her up like nothing happened? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Should I hard next after this?Well what do u think I should do then I should add she’s trying to be more and more masculine lately saying “let’s go here” “let’s do this” | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Should I hard next after this?What I got from it is that she wanted me to say “no I’m sorry” and act like a bitch and then she’d tell me to come over I feel like it was all a test | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How to keep strong when feeling unwellThank you I appreciate it | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 12:46 AM |
| 1 | How to keep strong when feeling unwellShe knows I have hypothyroidism but I don’t think she knows how it impacts me...I think I’d just be seen as weak | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 12:08 AM |
| 2 | How to keep strong when feeling unwellMore of a rap guy but fuck it I’ll give it a try | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 12:07 AM |
| 2 | How to keep strong when feeling unwellThank you man | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 11:33 PM |
| 1 | How to keep strong when feeling unwellThank you...I guess this is more therapy than anything I was feeling good and thought I was going to be optimal then all of a sudden I started feeling bad the last two days Going to the doctor tomorrow. Hope it’s an easy fix | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | How to keep strong when feeling unwellwas all about powerlifting and lifting before but sadly I have to stop exercising for the time being, it’s easy to get into a rut...trying to get out of it | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Plate exclusivityIt’ll be just a small gathering for our wedding nothing too fancy | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Plate exclusivityYeah I’ve read it...it’s saying not to become exclusive, doesn’t apply to my case....she’s been asking for a while and I kept brushing it off..she said this was the last time she was asking so I said fuck it why not | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Questions about a plateI found it out on my own...what I didn’t like is her blaming it on an ex, saying he took it and she knew she’d get blamed so she turned herself in...idk if I believe that..if she said she just did it and told me on her own it would be a lot better | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Questions about a plateI’m debating and ltr but I get different responses from friends about the whole stealing thing | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Questions about a plateI thought the same about the age thing...she’s 30..I’m 28 | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Should I be exclusive with this girl?Pros Best sex I’ve ever had, submissive to whatever I want .... She’s hot..... We get along for now, always seems effortless ..... I appreciate she bought me something nice for my birthday Cons Like I said before I’m moving out of my parent for the first time in a place of my own that I bought..could have been used for more plates Someone said earlier a quality potential ltr wouldn’t stay a plate for this long..may be a red flag? She’s a vegetarian | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Should I be exclusive with this girl?Don’t know if that’s true...she was just constantly chasing my validation, I gave her a taste but it kept making her want more and it didn’t feel like it but yeah it’s been about 10 months | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Should I be exclusive with this girl?But the last time I saw her she was trying to be distant but I think that was from her setting in her mind that she has to be because she doesn’t want to get hurt from me not wanting to be w her | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Should I be exclusive with this girl?Don’t want to go on a whole separate topic but is that beta behavior ? Not sure where Trp stands on that topic | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Should I be exclusive with this girl?She sucks like no other even that last time I saw herwhen she said we’re not fucking and swallows every drop | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Should I be exclusive with this girl?Right..my thought is if I upgrade her to a ltr I could always break up with her if she acts differently...there’s pros and cons to it but the con is I just bought my own first place and it’ll be the first time I’m living on my own so I feel like that’s kind of a waste of what could have been a good opportunity In the past I either had to sneak girls into my parents, go to their place, or car fuck | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Should I be exclusive with this girl?You don’t think she meant it when she said she doesn’t want to see me anymore? She said “if I knew someone really liked me and I didn’t feel the same I would just leave them to not hurt them” she wanted me to say noooo I really like you but I didn’t | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Should I be exclusive with this girl?Yeah I’m 28 | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Should I be exclusive with this girl?Ok I respect it...why is that | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Asked for the number, no replySame reason you get the number from tinder | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Asked for the number, no replyLol see you say it was too quick..the other person in this thread said I waiting too long | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Asked for the number, no replyWhat would you recommend for ig pics...I haven’t been drinking (health reasons)/going out too much and whenever I do I don’t take pics in groups...anything else? | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Asked for the number, no replyDon’t rub it in lmao I’ll take this L...you agree hard next too? | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Asked for the number, no replyI feel like being too short with things could have been weird too since we never actually met, I closed by the 4th message or so...didn’t think that was a long time to close | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Asked for the number, no replyDeal | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Asked for the number, no replyYou’re saying my chat game is weak or hers is | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Says nvm after asking to hang outI just told her flat out because the way she was acting that I just to fuck...not making her mistake me for romantic dates and shit | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Says nvm after asking to hang outToo late we talked back and forth for a bit and I texted the last message with no response unfortunately...read through | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Says nvm after asking to hang outI said that and she said I’m going to sleep that why I’m saying I think she’s just playing with me | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Says nvm after asking to hang outWell doesn’t it sound like that based on all the things Ive said? She asks what I’m doing I said I’m getting a beer w my boy then I tel her I’m going home an hour later which we did because it was dead she calls me I say I’m coming over she says no because of parents then I ask when she’s free this week and she says “lmao I asked if you were taking me on a date and you said no”...I said jokingly on the phone we’ll see about multiple dates flirting with her and she turns it into that | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 02:58 AM |
| 0 | Says nvm after asking to hang outThis is a tinder girl I never even met, but she’s hot that’s why I’m even spending time on it..she shows interest but always pulls shit like this..hitting me up last minute to hang wanting me to drop everything? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 02:54 AM |
| 0 | Says nvm after asking to hang outI said something about fucking in a car and she said she hasn’t since high school and I said alright coming now and she said she’s going to bed...then I said good I’ll get u home before 12 and you’ll sleep better after I’m through with u..no answer I think this chick really is playing games and manipulative as fuck as the other guy put it | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Says nvm after asking to hang outAbsolutely not I said I’ll come over now when she was on the phone and she said no I live with my parents Edit I know why you’re saying that..I got the timeline messed up we talked about the beer place first and I was saying idk if I could show u that then she said no I couldn’t come over because she’s with her parents | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Says nvm after asking to hang outI said I’d come over and she said no I live with my parents...i said something like idk if I could show you this spot on the first date meaning the beer place and she said ohhhh so that’s what this is we’re dating? I said idk haven’t decided yet so that’s when she got off the phone quickly ...I messed up with that but I didn’t want her to think I was some beta just wanting to “date” | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Says nvm after asking to hang outShe called me and said she was supposed to meet up with friends but they left already by the time she got there that’s why she hit me up then right when I was going to ask what her week look liked she said ok well I’m heading to bed I said ok bye | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Says nvm after asking to hang outIdk if that would be the best ..she prob just wouldn’t answer...no? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 01:21 AM |
| 7 | Says nvm after asking to hang outShe thought I would chase her in the past and never did I asked her out once...we made plans then she said “she got sick” and then said she’s going away for a week and never hit her up since | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach vs choosing signals?Sounds good thank you | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach vs choosing signals?Even if they don’t see you/look at you? Meaning coming from behind or blindsiding them or walking by but them not looking at you? | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Girl is asking for exclusivityOk everyone’s comments here made me realize she’s a dirty slut...my fault I’m going to continue fucking her until it comes up again when it does I’m going to tell her no straight up if she leaves she leaves...should I tell her it’s because she had sex with another guy a month ago though if she asks why or just don’t say anything | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Girl is asking for exclusivityI’m 28 | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Girl is asking for exclusivityLol internet warrior thanks | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Girl is asking for exclusivityAll she would say is that she did cut her plates loose because she hasn’t talked to anyone in the past month...while nobody believes that here myself included that’s what she would say...and we in general would have to be taking their word for it about them cutting plates loose | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Girl is asking for exclusivityShe’s been trying to hold this almost “frame” that she doesn’t need me...I guess that’s masculine energy...she clearly wants me bad but would never beg for me...when she asked me about what I want she said just tell me if you want to be with other girls I don’t care I just want to know (so she can stop talking to me)...instead of her saying I’d really like to be with you | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Girl is asking for exclusivityBefore you get into a relationship? Basically showing you she’s loyal to you before she gets into something with you? | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Girl is asking for exclusivityMaybe I said that wrong I would say 85% of the time I just go over to fuck...the other times being activities before | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl is asking for exclusivityTrue but she had this talk with me like a month ago and she was asking if I dated other girls I said yes and then she said well then it’s not a problem if I date other guys? And I said no because I wanted to act like I didn’t care about it ...I think she does it mostly for the validation because I don’t give her any | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Girl is asking for exclusivityThe kind who got addicted to my dick game...what do you mean...I’ve heard so many times that women will share high value men , isn’t that what she’s been doing? | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Girl is asking for exclusivityNo I told her I was dating other women and she knows what that means...and I flipped it on her that’s when she told me | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Girl is asking for exclusivityBut like I said elsewhere in here , we expect girls to not fuck guys when we’re fucking other girls? “You expect multiple girls to be exclusive while youre not ? Comn bro you shouldnt care what they do when youre not around. Plates are literally for sex only you if you want exclusivity got for a relationship. Dont be an asshole and expect unreasonable things, it will only make you unattractive to them.” Saw that quote in another trp post...but I guess they shouldn’t fuck any other guys even if t… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Girl is asking for exclusivityGot it What would make a girl ltr potential then? | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Girl is asking for exclusivityLol I’m really not...guess I just started trusting her ...think we’ve all been there it’s helpful to hear advice ...you get blinded sometimes | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Girl is asking for exclusivityShe said she hasn’t had sex with anyone else for a month..I shouldn’t believe that either? | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Girl is asking for exclusivityI’m just reporting! I wasn’t saying she was lying or not ...I agree with you | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Girl is asking for exclusivityShe said “you should look at my phone right now” basically telling me how many guys hit her up but she’s ignoring all of them | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Girl is asking for exclusivityOf course I am...still what you’re saying doesn’t make sense | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Girl is asking for exclusivityI believe you now..I’ve seen it happen to friends and myself | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Girl is asking for exclusivityTo be honest I haven’t even been fucking/talking to that many girls besides her...even though she thinks otherwise which is good...not because I have oneitis but because I’ve been on my purpose and not really been making girls my priority so if I go monogamous I wouldn’t be losing much | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 01:57 PM |
| -1 | Girl is asking for exclusivitychill the fuck out lmao...you sound like you’ve been hurt a couple times..if a plate has sex with other men you shouldn’t care, it sounds like you do | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Girl is asking for exclusivityWell what do you expect her to do? She knows I’m out here fucking other girls so why would it be fair to say she can’t fuck other guys? We had no agreement | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl is asking for exclusivityI think part of what you’re saying is true.. The other part is that I really don’t talk to her/text her for the most part and she was always chasing my attention which is different than guys she was dealing with...she is hot so they probably got thirsty quick | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Girl is asking for exclusivityPart of me does... But the other part of me is thinking about me getting out of a 5 year long relationship about 9 months ago and also I’m moving into my first place on my own for sept 1 She said “some things about you show me you can’t be in a relationship” which I think is a good thing to hear because she thinks I’m slaying all these bitches ...she also said “it sounds like you don’t know what you want”...I said no I do I just need you to fix these flaws to make me consider...maybe I should ju… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Girl is acting jealous/bitchyHahaa I wish I said something like that t begin with but I didn’t understand what she meant at first so I said that weak “huh” just dont contact her at all right | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 02:59 AM |
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