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I think that yes, there's nothing they can do about it besides standing straight (not slouching). And yes, we humans are wired to have certain preferences and the influence of culture more often than not reinforces them (<tall men are what is considered the most attractive>, or <women who are thin and have a nice cleavage are the ideal>, and so on). I agree people can have their own standards/preferences, but what I disagree with and something I have seen in real life and here sometimes as well,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:22 PM
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I've been reading about evolutionary psychology for the last couple of years, mainly curious about the brain, but then I got to read about men and women's biological programming. And oh boy, from a solely instinctual point of view, most men are wired to "impregnate" (have sex with) as many women as possible so as to spread their seed. We know the current actual world doesn't function like that, but evolutionary psychology has opened my eyes to so many situations and behaviors I've seen in people…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:54 PM
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I am quite a naive definitely not "streets" smart person. Paying attention to that kind of details has helped a lot. Not only in gauging men's real intentions, but in better gauging people's true agenda in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 02:38 AM
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Just came to say she looks really pretty in the pics. No homo =)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:10 AM
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I see. Thank you for the perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 02:31 AM
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I'm not going to repeat myself. But thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 02:29 AM
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Omg that dude is no gentleman at all. No man interested in a girl with a relationship in mind would say to the lady. Tell him to choke on a dick on his way out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 11:08 PM
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Ok, what I meant is now I have the doubt whether she is all we think she is. I never stated my ideas as the utmost truth as you are doing, clearly stating his father is abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 09:55 PM
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I completely understand, but the report had even clips of her thanking her father, posts from her social media (from the time before meeting Harry). If she had never done that, I would have an easier time believing she has good reasons to cut him out. As I said, I hope I'm wrong and that she's honestly a kind person all around. I think time will have the answer. When someone isn't genuenily good hearted, it eventually comes to the surface. Think of men who mistreat their partners, emotionally or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 09:47 PM
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Well, yeah. That was quite a big measure. He's willing to do everything to protect his wife and son. I used to admire Meghan though. A strong talented woman going overseas to help people and children in challenging conditions, raising awareness on different issues. I think the media has given an undeserved hard time. However, I saw some clips in which she claims to have worked hard to pay for college, plus sone scholarships she got. She made it seem she really struggled, but there are reports he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 09:23 PM
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I like reading about kindness and thoughtfulness from both sides
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 03:20 PM
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If it is that case, then I don't undetstand the fuss. It's not like you have to treat your significant other like shit to receive respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 12:54 PM
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Haha I was totally expecting a different outcome. I'd like to add that even if the man doesn't end up cheating, he will definitely disappoint in other ways. He'll enjoy being pampered, but won't contribute much else, won't appreciate shit, won't cook or clean for shit, won't try to do anything nice for you, will expect you to pay for everything, never will pay his 50% when going out to eat or any other expense, and so on. He will try to get by doing the bare minimum no remorse in him at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:24 PM
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What an awful experience. It's one thing to freely agree (not being pressured) to perform a sex act with a partner. For example, if a woman is willing and fine with swallowing, I don't see that as "degrading" or "dirty". Consent is the key word here. I had a BF once perform oral sex on me for a short time while I was on my period (i had taken a shower recently), I didn't ask or force him to do it. It was his idea and although I wouldn't repeat it, I don't think it was degrading or shameful. Bein…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 03:45 PM
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I agree. Paying more attention to actions, behaviors rather than words or promises is essential. You'll avoid so much headaches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 12:21 PM
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Truer words have never been spoken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 12:51 PM
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Even if it's a FWB relationship, you two should respect and be thoughtful to each other. You were accommodating his needs most of the time from what you've mentioned, but he didn't reciprocate the efforts that much. Selfish much? He wants all the benefits giving even less that the bare minimum back. Good things you won't be providing any more orgasms to that douche. That only reinforces his careless behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:13 PM
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Necessity knows no laws. Well, in this case, no standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 09:37 PM
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I think society expects (or even demands) women who want a career to sacrifice a lot, if not everything for their husbands/ children, for their family. I don't mean to sound resentful or bitter. I'm pretty sure there are plenty of decent men who bust their asses off to provide and make their wives happy, and receive ungratefulness in return. There are people who can't appreciate anything and only fixate on the one or two flaws you may have. I just think statistically women are more fucked. That'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 05:33 PM
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You have a point there. But plenty of women have no intention to seek something serious in their 20s either. (Not judging either sex, just commenting on what I've noticed). I think it's human nature, I guess? If sb in their early, mid 20s were looking for something serious and monogamous, let alone a life partner/ spouse, I'd say to them "Good luck!", especially if they'd like sb in their age range. But I'm a bit pessimistic, so I may be exagerating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 05:27 PM
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I can't say enough how this clown meme adds so much meaning and perspective to the written message. You keep putting up with the bullshit, you'll make yourself a fool. No other way around it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 05:38 AM
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The fox and the sour grapes. I think it's a human behavior rather than a male or female only trait. Rationalization fits this situation as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:54 PM
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It actually makes a lot of sense. They want a docile maid with sex included. In my country, most men don't even bother to help around the house, and I'm talking about dual income households. My parents are in their 60's. They have worked their whole lives and both contribute financially, but my mom was/ has been the one to also take on household chores. Since a child I have always realized how unfair this implicit arrangement is. When I had BFs, I cooked for them sometimes, they never did for me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 03:03 AM
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That image really makes it hilarious. But it helps wonders! An image is worth 1000 words indeed ... I think every human being should read this at 18, or earlier. Don't let users keep you around while they find "something better". Unless it's a mutually agreed FWB situation and you both have the same expectations and make it a ponit to still respect each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 05:36 PM
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Yeah. I have in the past given the benefit of the doubt. After all, I have always liked guys who were respectful and polite (not pushy about sex, you get the point). But boy, were they lazy and careless in so many other ways. Nowadays, I'd think once or twice you might make a mistake or be careless/ irresponsible about important stuff, after that, you're just pushing your luck. It was an epyphany to realize not only detached promiscuos guys can try to get by giving the bare minimum but also the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 12:33 AM
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It's hard nowadays because of the drawn passwords thing. No way in hell a man, BF, partner is going to let you know the password or get a glimpse while he unlocks his phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 01:21 AM
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Yeah, but it doesn't bother me that much because at home I was not taught that you only have value according to your appearance. And I was also taught to use my power of will, intellect and discipline to achieve things in life, again, not my appearance, so I don't feel dread or panic at the prospect of aging. Besides at first impression, yeah, lots of men will find 20sth year old women beautiful, and they are. I refuse to resent either the men who think they are pretty or the young ladies themse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 10:26 PM
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I understand, but what if we would like a relationship? The chances of a 20 something or early 30s man with a 40 something lady for a LTR are not very high. I'm not currently looking to date or become involved with anyone, as something very bad and damaging happened to me at 26 (currently 30) and I'm still dealing with the consequences, but I'm already sensing it will be harder with each passing year. But I'll keep a positive attitude because no one likes a bitter person man or woman. Although I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 10:15 PM
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Keanu is one of a kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 05:26 PM
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Totally. Otherwise, I would have jumped off a cliff a long time ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 02:16 PM
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Cherish yourself. Be kind to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:55 AM
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I mean, whether we like it or not, truer words have not been spoken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:32 PM
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Actually, yes. I have come across this attitude. I feel silly now :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:23 PM
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