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Resting Bitch Face…the silent killer
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:08 PM
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He’s not dumb, he’s clearly looking for validation on how to get women without having to do all the work of losing weight. In this case only real way would be to start dating someone similar to his weight and/or pay for relations…
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:20 AM
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Clearly you needed to make this comment to project your own insecurities. People are insecure about things, its human nature. People come to this sub for advice and information last I checked but you must be new here
/r/seduction29/12/19 04:50 PM
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Appreciate the insight. Can you elaborate on how you judge a handshake?
/r/seduction17/11/19 03:36 AM
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Ahh yeah I definitely don’t expect it back right then and there if thats what you meant but sometimes its nice to just know shes into me other than saying it or through sex ya know?
/r/seduction10/08/19 11:35 PM
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Interesting do you mind elaborating? Thanks
/r/seduction10/08/19 11:27 PM
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Yes but perspective is different from straight advice, which is what she’s trying to give. She hasnt experienced real world dating and she posted a few months ago about how her first love and her broke up. Where is the experience? I honestly can’t believe this post has this many upvotes just because a female decides to post here about what guys “should” do as if nobody else’s experience may vary.
/r/seduction03/04/18 06:55 PM
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r/absolutelynotmeirl
/r/seduction19/03/18 07:49 PM
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Thats exactly what i told her but i guess i didnt use the best tone. Then she sent me the essay about how i attacked her
/r/seduction31/01/18 01:54 PM
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This was helpful thanks a lot
/r/seduction22/01/18 07:43 PM
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Always texting first, always initiating hangouts, I’m less myself in person and more who I think she would want me to be. Trying too hard to make her laugh. Sometimes these things work but it feels unauthentic and I just want to find a common ground where I like the girl because of who she is and not tell her to bug off because of something petty.
/r/seduction22/01/18 07:31 PM
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I just feel like I’m in a no-win situation with how I think. If she likes me I push her away and if she doesnt I chase and look needy and it doesnt work either. I feel shallow
/r/seduction22/01/18 07:26 PM
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Thanks for the response. I think you’re right however more specifically, I worry about the fact that I view it as a dealbreaker when she texts me first amongst everything else I said. Just because she texts me first and initiates doesnt mean shes needy but for some reason I correlate the 2 too closely
/r/seduction22/01/18 07:10 PM
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This happened to me too a few months back. Found this amazing girl who I had a ton of things in common with. We saw eachother for about 6 weeks and had sex a few times but I could tell we genuinely enjoyed eachothers company. Then out of nowhere no responses for a few days and I stopped reaching out because I didn’t wanna seem needy. No initiaion or anything on her part so I just said fuck it and we havent talked since. My advice to you is if you really don’t want this one to slip away then ask …
/r/seduction24/11/17 10:43 PM
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So just follow her when her friend pulls her back over? Thats not creepy?
/r/seduction23/09/17 12:59 PM
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I'm going to give it a few more weeks. Your idea does work in some cases but I know that this girl will not initiate it so in this case its different
/r/seduction07/09/17 09:32 PM
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Yes if you say "where is it going" that seems needy and pressuring however if you word it differently I think it can come off as confident. Anyways thats not the point, I've only been seeing her a month so I didnt know if it was too soon. Thanks for your input
/r/seduction07/09/17 09:29 PM
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While i agree the man is the gatekeeper I disagree that its up to her to ask. Most girls will not initiate this and I'm positive that this girl wont. The man leads and initiates
/r/seduction07/09/17 09:12 PM
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Thanks again, I guess I'll wait a couple more weeks to see how things progress. Just so tough being in my head all the time about this. Cheers
/r/seduction07/09/17 04:10 PM
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What do you think is the best way to do that? Do I just ask her what her intentions are? I still think its too early to be "exclusive" but I at least want to know where she stands or is that question usually asked when I intend on actually being exclusive? Thanks man
/r/seduction07/09/17 03:44 PM
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Yeah, if you're at a strip club or a whore house...
/r/seduction28/02/17 04:38 PM
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Like I said, it affects people differently lol...
/r/seduction04/12/16 10:43 PM
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Weed is the last thing I would lean on before going out lol. Obv it affects everyone differently though
/r/seduction04/12/16 03:58 PM
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Great video, this dude knows how to keep things going really well. I'm not exactly sure how I feel about the full disclosure of the whole pickup game part. I feel like this could cause girls to feel like they're being used and not sit well. Idk could go either way.
/r/seduction11/10/16 12:08 AM
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You do realize not everybody pulls every single night. Be patient.
/r/seduction19/09/16 03:27 AM
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That mental wall is anxiety and you dont necessarily have to dive in. Take baby steps, just say hi to the girl. One thing I did when I was just starting to improve my game, is to make eye contact with strangers that you walk by on the street. The key is to hold the eye contact no matter how awkward or uncomfortable you feel. This made things easier when I eventually would go up and try to talk to girls at bars or parties. Give it a shot you have literally nothing to lose.
/r/seduction09/08/16 09:21 PM
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Confidence comes naturally for many but for most it's something that you need to work on. In my case, I grew up with pretty bad socially anxiety, had trouble making friends and still to this day have some trouble talking to women. In my experience, you need to fake it til you make it. If you seem confident and act confident, even if you're not, it will become natural. As for women, don't think you're alone because you're most certainly not. My best advice would be to look at the situation from a…
/r/seduction09/08/16 07:49 PM
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What A Save!
/r/seduction02/08/16 12:55 AM
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This is a really accurate article. I live in NYC and every one of these aspects applies to a lot of the women here. Dont get me wrong there are tons of dateable girls everywhere but the Sense of Entitlement paragraph really rang a bell.
/r/seduction02/08/16 12:51 AM
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Calling someone a nutcase doesnt qualify as advice.
/r/seduction01/08/16 06:47 PM
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Uhhh, why are you here? Only a desperate loser would approach a woman? Do you realize the times we live in? The high majority of women do not approach men unless you are extremely goodlooking. That being said even if you are extremely goodlooking, your ignorance and douchiness would certainly scare them away. How about instead of putting people down, give them advice on how to better themselves. It takes confidence to approach random women and a lot of people on this sub are lacking that....whic…
/r/seduction01/08/16 05:31 PM
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Thanks man, very insightful.
/r/seduction01/08/16 04:06 PM
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Yeah I followed up with similar questions and tried to relate because I went to school in the South as well. It's confusing to me because our mutual friend flat out said that she's into me but it's clear she has her guard up. I'm gonna give it another shot with her but just wanted to get a feel for some tips that might help me in the future when I run i to this issue. This helps, thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction01/08/16 03:40 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I wouldn't say that I'm Shakespear by any means but I'm pretty good at holding a conversation and playing off other people's words but she's not giving me much to work with. I guess I'm more or less looking for an effective way of opening her. I know for a fact that she isnt a boring, shy, basic type of girl which is why I'm confused. Like I said, I don't really care if this doesnt come to fruition but I'm running into it a lot. Thanks again.
/r/seduction01/08/16 03:09 AM
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Lololol
/r/seduction28/06/16 02:16 AM
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If you can't take harsh words, you surely can't take rejection. Good luck.
/r/seduction27/06/16 08:27 PM
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What game? You must be a first timer here...and in life.
/r/seduction27/06/16 08:26 PM
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100% agree
/r/seduction10/06/16 06:20 PM
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I used to take Aderall in college a few years back, loved the shit. It made me the most outgoing person but I could never manage to get a boner on it so that was the end of that.
/r/seduction10/06/16 06:20 PM
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Please tell me where you're finding these "girls who just want to get laid."
/r/seduction07/06/16 01:45 AM
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That'll do pig, that'll do
/r/seduction07/05/16 12:06 PM
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Yes and no. Yes if you're rocking a "dad bod" some girls are into that and same goes for jacked guys. Even moreso no because if all you want girls to look at is your body then you're in the market for a shallow ass girl. Yes, having a good body may be a plus to some girls but most women are looking for a guy who is outgoing and fun with a decent personality. Improve more than just your physical appearance.
/r/seduction28/04/16 02:49 AM
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I'm memorizing this.
/r/seduction27/04/16 07:38 PM
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I wouldn't say hes scared or self conscious, he just hasn't been in a situation like this before. I have no clue how to deal with bitches like this thus I stay away from them. He's just looking for advice, take it easy lol
/r/seduction27/04/16 03:43 PM
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Take it day by day man, don't even think about it you will start to psych yourself out. Text her from time to time just to stay in touch. There are plenty of other weekends in your life that you will both be free.
/r/seduction27/04/16 03:39 PM
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You've hit it spot on. She wants attention. I fucking despise girls like this. Stop driving her places, stop texting her, play hard to get and she will either ease up a little or just stop all together. She is either really really really stupid or needs a bitchboy in her life. I think you did good by appeasing these needs at first so when you stop she will come running back and THATS your in. Either way, I wouldn't waste my time on a girl like this unless you're looking for a quick fuck which ev…
/r/seduction27/04/16 03:03 PM
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I don't think its necessarily a shit test. She could actually have plans. IMO most girls would just straight up say no or not answer you if all they wanted was a fuck and chuck.
/r/seduction27/04/16 02:56 PM
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Yup, if you hold back most girls know and that will show them that your confidence may be lacking. Just go for it you have nothing to lose
/r/seduction26/04/16 04:57 PM
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Ahhhh yes I was waiting for someone to say this :)
/r/seduction26/04/16 12:23 PM
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Exactly. How do you think you are going to improve by sitting around all day and not putting yourself out there? It's one of the most difficult things youll ever have to do and it took me SO long to realize this. There will be times where you just wanna roll over and die with the amount of anxiety that you have with this but if you leave your comfort zone and condition yourself to be more comfortable in these situations, confidence comes...and so do the women.
/r/seduction26/04/16 12:21 PM
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First off, a Facebook message should be the precursor for meeting up in person. If there's one thing I'm really starting to learn with women, NOTHING COMES FROM TEXTING HER FOR A MONTH STRAIGHT. Message her and be honest. "Hey, I know we don't really know eachother too well, but I think you're really pretty and wanted to see if you want to grab a coffee or go see a movie sometime?" She knows that you guys go back and forth wit the likes. I have been in this exact situation with a girl that I use…
/r/seduction26/04/16 04:03 AM
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Confidence has nothing to do with success or socioeconomics. You dont need money or succes to put yourself out of your comfort zone and grow as a person. You said it yourself "why would I put myself out there?" Maybe because you should have the desire to grow as a person and improve yourself. Then, success will be easier to find and you will be a happier person overall. YOU NEED TO WANT IT
/r/seduction26/04/16 03:53 AM
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Currently printing this and putting it on my wall
/r/seduction26/04/16 03:50 AM
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Couldn't agree more! It's a huge turnoff. Also, girls who don't use "your," "you're" correctly. I don't care if you know the difference, don't be lazy.
/r/seduction26/04/16 03:43 AM
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My mind is fucking fucked from reading this. A good kind of fucking fucked. GREAT post
/r/seduction26/04/16 03:28 AM
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yeah thats what I was leaning towards/hoping for. I haven't brought it up and dont plan on it. Thanks for your response.
/r/seduction26/04/16 12:11 AM
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Thanks for your response man. She barely checked her phone the entire night which played into why I was confused. But yeah it seems like she's got somethin goin on. I guess I'm just gonna take it day-by-day and see where it goes. Again, thank you.
/r/seduction25/04/16 07:41 PM
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100% this is his other account
/r/seduction21/04/16 07:31 PM
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Exactly. If this is any indication of his game I would think he's in 5th grade, playing the whole "lets be mean and see if that works". OH LOOK A HANDJOB
/r/seduction21/04/16 05:30 PM
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Definitely believe the kiss, even if that's a stretch. I don't for a second believe that a 20 year old girl just started playing with a 40 year old dudes dick on an airplane under a blanket. Just......no.
/r/seduction21/04/16 01:57 PM
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The dude didn't say he was full blown emo. He cried once its not like the guy is crying every day and every night like you're making it seem. People who are afraid to show vulnerabilities in front of their SO are in trouble and have confidence issues. Women love that shit once in a while it shows them that they're not dating a cardboard box. Yes, I might agree that 2 weeks in is a bit soon for that but who knows, you sure dont.
/r/seduction15/04/16 10:09 PM
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lol this is probably the worst advice I've ever heard. You clearly dont know women because the majority of them have open emotions and have no problem expressing them. Most women LOVE when they see a guy do the same rather than keep it pent up inside. Wouldn't you want your SO to be open, honest and straightforward with you rather than keeping all those emotions bundled up which in time can turn you into an emotionless zombie. Bottom line: Humans have emotions and its okay to express them. You c…
/r/seduction15/04/16 03:46 PM
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Try complimenting something that the girl has control over such as her attire she chose to wear, her jewelry she chose to wear her bag she picked out this morning. A compliment for hair is something she most likely is just used to doing everyday and doesn't really have much choice in "choosing" or making a decision about. You want to reinforce to the girl that she made the right decision to choose what she did today. Its more personable rather than putting her on a pedestal.
/r/seduction26/01/16 07:19 PM
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This is a good post. Smiling (even fake smiles) can release endorphins that can actually make you happy. It's also a great "pre-approach" tactic so its not as awkward when you just walk up to a girl randomly. I play a little game with myself as I walk through my city. I lock eyes with every woman I pass. If they look away, I just keep going but if they maintain eye contact I throw em a smile and try to approach if interested. This really helps yourself become comfortable and eventually to begin …
/r/seduction19/10/15 08:30 PM
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I just would think it'd be kinda creepy/trying too hard. Just go with the flow, you don't need to romance her on the way to the bathroom. There will be many other signs that you can notice to see if she wants to kiss you but I wouldn't want to jeopardize that with one act of coming on too strong. I would want her to kiss me if she feels the night went well overall
/r/seduction30/09/15 12:02 AM
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I'm sorry but OKCupid has the most ratchet women I've ever layed eyes on.
/r/seduction29/09/15 07:27 PM
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Great post but PLEASE for the love of god DONT DO THIS Offer a kiss on the cheek when you excuse yourself to go to the bathroom (and if a girl lets you kiss her on the cheek on the way to the john, she'll almost always allow the lips next, as it's the natural progression.)
/r/seduction29/09/15 07:23 PM
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Insecurity with one's own physical and characterized attributes is completely normal man! Isn't that why you're here?????
/r/seduction16/09/15 06:51 PM
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Finally someone else.... I thought I was going crazy
/r/seduction15/09/15 06:21 PM
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I actually just commented on this about how you can use your kegel muscles to do this if you get them strong enough. Ive been doing it for a long time. After you orgasm you can go for a lot longer just like if you actually ejaculated
/r/seduction20/08/15 09:21 PM
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Kegels really work too. Build up your kegel muscles and youll get to the point where you can have an orgasm, squeeze your kegels before anything comes out and you'll still have the orgasm but nothing will come out. Everything I've read says its safe and I've been doing it for years in the bedroom. Multiple orgasms, only one mess to clean up (or not clean up).
/r/seduction20/08/15 09:20 PM
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/r/seduction24/07/15 02:02 PM
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Some of the pointers in the video are good but most of the dance moves would fail 9/10 times in a real world situation. First off, the girl in the video was jumping into his arms every time. Most people wouldn't be able to lift 90+ pounds with one arm. Also, the club/bar that theyre in looks like a whore house with girls I wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole.
/r/seduction22/07/15 06:54 PM
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Im guessing you hate women when they have their PERIODS
/r/seduction21/07/15 08:07 PM
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This could be the fact that you've now acquired these skills from Seddit and now that you've applied them and put them to work with success its become all too normal for you. For example most men's fantasies if they get to experience them, either lose interest or the fantasy in their head was way better than what actually happened. In my opinion, youre telling yourself that you don't want to meet up with these girls or have sex with them because these opportunities didn't come up as often in the…
/r/seduction21/07/15 08:04 PM
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If you look at the "Top posts in this subreddit theres a post called "This shit is GOLD, how to pick up women from open to close." Extremely insightful.
/r/seduction21/07/15 12:37 PM
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