How to get into a mindset where I need less affection?

ntipz011 · 2019-08-11T04:35:27+00:00

Been there done that.

Accept this side of yourself, make small steps into not doing it when you want to indulge in the attention seeking behavior. It takes time. Reflect on yourself and why you have this mindset (usually because of your upbringing).

Read No More Mr Nice Guy and Models.

2019-08-11T04:54:40+00:00

I think that it's amazing that when men have a need thats not being met, we try to change ourselves to fit.

If a woman feels she's not getting enough attention and affection, your the asshole for not giving it.

So, i think you just need to find more attentive women and let women know what you like and don't like and don't settle for dating women that are not what you need.

I had an old school friend who had a chick that was really not giving a lot of effort in the bedroom, she was always like leaving him in the cold about having sex. So, when she would do this, he would get up on the spot and get dressed in his best clothes and go out on the town. The point was if you are not willing to do the things to keep me happy, I will find someone that will. It only took a few times before she got the message.

letsridetoglory · 2019-08-10T23:24:29+00:00

I think its mindset, in my opinion every guy wants this, i mean who wouldn’t. But i think your blurring the lines between affection and neediness. Theres a difference

Title	How to get into a mindset where I need less affection?
Author	neeners9223
Upvotes	11
Comments	9
Date	August 10, 2019 11:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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