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nehifish/r/seduction05/08/12 07:34 PM
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Inner Gamenehifish/r/seduction11/10/12 09:56 PM
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I'd say it's up to you and the girl what kind of movies you like. I mean, I ended up getting an F-Close watching American Psycho...
/r/seduction09/02/14 10:41 AM
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Göteborg More than a year What can I say, I think doing socialcircle game is the best way to game in Sweden. Mostly because of how sweds are very defensive regarding their personal space. Other then that, it's basically the same as in any other country.
/r/seduction28/07/13 06:12 PM
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Don't escalate physically.
/r/seduction26/07/13 08:51 AM
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I realize I'm not a moderator but specific questions should be asked in /r/AskSeddit. Assume that she is attracted to you and act in that manner. And as /u/gravelmuncher already mentioned, position your "adventure" or whatever near your house so you always have options. As for what you should do, you could always look up different events going on in your town, go and take a drink is something I only do if there isn't really anything else going on but to each his own.
/r/seduction26/07/13 08:44 AM
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Girls are not dangerous, which is kind of obvious but you really have to think about how ridiculous it is to have anxiety about someone talking to you. Don't think about you having to try to seduce them if you havn't gotten rid of the anxiety of just talking to them. Something that might help you keep a conversation going: http://www.puadrills.com/drills/2011/06/threading/
/r/seduction26/07/13 08:31 AM
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Read Models - Mark Manson. It will give you a whole new understanding of what you want to strive for. I for one have started to realize that much of what is written here is too specific and only succeed at narrowing your view of what you should be and how you should "act".
/r/seduction23/07/13 01:11 PM
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Exactly what he said, find different places that seem interesting to you, check out the different bars/cafés, look up nice restaurants. Basically getting to know your city, so you can lead an adventure through the city when that time comes!
/r/seduction23/07/13 01:00 PM
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Actually getting to know her - IE getting to know if you want to be with her in a relationship, everything else usually comes naturally, if you fake it til you make it when trying to get into a relationship it will crumble.
/r/seduction23/07/13 11:43 AM
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/r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction16/07/13 03:53 PM
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Now you are just going to extremes. No you should not lie, it just isnt that important to anyone really that you are loaded except to people who might want to use you. There is just no reason to tell anyone outright that you are loaded, you can go and enjoy fancy bars, go to college bars what ever, money just shouldnt be what defines you.
/r/seduction15/07/13 11:32 PM
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Not putting such weight on the fact that you have a lot of money. There's no sense in showing it off, but it gives you more freedom to do what you really want. Plan very interesting dates etc
/r/seduction15/07/13 10:58 PM
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Why not go to AskSeddit, it's where specific questions should be asked. As for your answers, they are very blunt and not really colorful.
/r/seduction15/07/13 03:18 PM
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It does certainly not work like that in Sweden. They actually give you tips on what to wear, just because that is what service means to them and their company.
/r/seduction11/07/13 07:03 AM
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I would assume that it would be more effective to invite some friends when you go out, instead of telling people you know alot of people. As for your facebook profile, just have a decent profilepicture and be fairly active if you want to use it for socialproof. EDIT: Inviting female friends tends to give alot more effect.
/r/seduction10/07/13 11:37 AM
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Calling works best, atleast for me. Since you can express your personality much better than through texts. But a thumb rule I always follow is keep the dates pretty much close between eachother. Since I work during the weekdays, I tend to just have a week between each date. Which makes maintaining attraction quite easy, since during the week after she will be thinking on and off about what we did during the date.
/r/seduction10/07/13 08:35 AM
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Why would you need them to know how many you know? But on the subject, why not just arrange hangouts, parties etc?
/r/seduction10/07/13 08:32 AM
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The single best advice you can give someone regarding clothes is to ask a clerk at a decently popular clothes store, such as JC and namebrand stores. For the simple reason that they are themselves usually very well dressed and are usually very able to style you.
/r/seduction10/07/13 08:29 AM
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There are good looking glasses for cheap that look like brand ones. I don't have the money either to spend on getting a pair of raybans, so I stick with the look-a-likes. :)
/r/seduction09/07/13 05:32 PM
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Don't take anything i write personally, I will just express my opinion on what you could improve! :) Get a fashionable haircut. Woman love guys who fix their hair and keeps it neat. Instead of having a shortsleeved shirt, wear a regular shirt and roll up the sleaves(by folding) up to the elbows. Ditch the speedo sunglasses and yet again go for something abit more fashionable (ask the clerk prefferably a young female one for advice on what would fit you). That's atleast what I would do. I would p…
/r/seduction09/07/13 04:04 PM
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I'm extremely pale, so when I have been outside during the summer forgetting sunscreen, I either look like Rudolph, stoplight, tomato what ever. I've always been extremely selfconcious about it, but I've come to the realization that I only lose attraction if I get selfconcious about it, not the fact that I look like Rudolph. Now-a-days I just introduce myself as Rudolph and get them to laugh abit and go on with the conversation. I do realize that this might not be as hard to deal with as what yo…
/r/seduction09/06/13 02:05 PM
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After introductions and a little time of small talk. You can most likely stay there and finish a conversation, just excuse yourself to go get a drink or anything that seems relevant. Though to stay relevant to them you might ask someone in the group to join you just to get to know people and leave a good impression.
/r/seduction08/01/13 09:04 PM
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I have the same kind of memory. I met a girl at a BBQ party at the "beach", we just talked very little but at the same time quite alot since much got said in the little time we talked. Anyway, I was having coffee with my cousin and she went by our table with her friend, which apparently knew my cousin. So they started talking and everything clicked, I remembered her but she didn't remember me that much. Anyway we got to talking and I told her that I remember most of what she talked about since t…
/r/seduction08/01/13 09:01 PM
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After escalating with kino and everything to the point where sexytime may ensue I always tell her that this is only a one time ordeal. I've had to deal with too many crazies cause of not mentioning it.
/r/seduction08/01/13 08:55 PM
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I actually don't know what happened on New Years Eve. I feel quite bad about it since my cousins girls friend apparently got quite intimite with me and I have no clue how she looks or what she's like. I guess I just have to wait for the photos.
/r/seduction03/01/13 05:36 AM
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I do seriously not get this post.
/r/seduction16/10/12 09:37 PM
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I had this happen to me a couple of months ago. My friend snagged the girl I was going for during that night. When I hooked up with her a couple of weeks ago she told me that I was being to stubborn, I was basically playing with her sexual feelings to much. Since the sexualtension I had built was so strong, as soon as I calmed down with the tension buildning and my friend made a move she went for it. Making the whole interaction feel like a waste of time. To be honest the reason why I never esca…
/r/seduction16/10/12 09:40 AM
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I think knowing the person you're winging for inside and out is really important. For example, I've never had a better wingman than my cousin, just because we've shared so many things together. Making us communicate in a whole different way when we're going out sarging together. Plus choosing the girls you go after is much easier when you both know eachothers taste.
/r/seduction16/10/12 09:34 AM
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I remember being the niceguy all throughout highschool, being taken advantage of. Basically being a pushover, bit when I got tired of being a pushover people were confronting me about how I has changed about how I wasnt being myself, just because I wasn't the pushover I had been. So I epiks suggest you to take this scenario into consideration. Are they trying to change you back into your old self For their own selfish reasons?
/r/seduction12/10/12 05:39 AM
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Then you've basically answered your own question. Making someone go against their own views is a douchebag move.
/r/seduction12/10/12 05:16 AM
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When I was younger I pulled a christian girl. If you seriously consider going against her views, you've gotta pull a douchebag on her. You've got to say that you respect her views etc and just try to make her desperate. By flirting, being very physical and you'll pull her in due time.
/r/seduction12/10/12 04:47 AM
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Squinting your eyes is one of the most powerful thing you can do. If you squint your eyes and scan the person, they usualy think you're evalutating them, making them trying to prove themselves to you.
/r/seduction11/10/12 05:39 PM
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I don't know, too me it sounds like you were still caring about her commenting about the players. Surely you didn't obsess, but what I read is only someone who conveys that you think she's stupid for enjoying the "view" and should look for something in you instead. Instead of just genuinly not caring.
/r/seduction10/10/12 11:01 PM
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Listening is key. If you don't have anything to say in your socialcircle, just talk about the things your friends talk about. If they're talking about movies, bring up a movie you like or what ever. Just take part and listen and everything flow naturally. About you not being interesting... If you think you arn't interesting ofcourse you wont be. Just think about stuff you like to do, or just think of things that might interest you and try them out. I mean a couple of months ago I were in the sam…
/r/seduction28/08/12 10:31 PM
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I shouldn't really say anything about this subject since I myself have problems with just walking up to a random girl during the day. But I have no problems with my nightgame. Only the daygame. But the thing is, there's nothing really to worry about. If you can open up to your friends you can open up to them aswell, by just simply muster up some courage and say something like "I'm usually abit shy and have trouble opening up to people but you seem like a really nice person etc etc" They will fee…
/r/seduction27/08/12 09:47 PM
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You like everyone else from the human race just tries to find reasons for everything. You've found that your height and looks are the ones bringing you down. Which brings you down even more because they are your outer shell. What could make you interesting other than your looks, other than your height? Nothing apparently, in your mind anyway. The thing is I'm only 5'9 and that isn't bringing me down. Sure if someone tall as fuck walks past me they are more intimidating but, if you just stay rad …
/r/seduction20/08/12 10:37 PM
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If she makes a playful comment or is just a bit cocky I always peck on their nose with my finger and say "You're a cocky one" grin
/r/seduction20/08/12 07:58 PM
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I only outgame the obvious douchebags for shits and giggles. It might make me a douchebag, but I'd rather be called a douchebag for being quick with my mouth than standing there flexing.
/r/seduction20/08/12 07:22 PM
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I'm 18 and I still don't have a license. Surely I live in Sweden but yeah it's not hindering me. Plan ahead where you should meet and just go by bus or just bike.
/r/seduction17/08/12 09:19 AM
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Unatural haircolours. Like bright red, makes my knees weak. But like most people, someone who is like most of us try to achieve, self-amused, not a care in the world what people thinks of them, happy and free. I don't plan on tying myself down, so I want a free girl aswell.
/r/seduction17/08/12 09:12 AM
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Well, sure it works. But it's always nice to have alot of tricks up your sleeve. Such as different bodylanguage tricks. But I'm pretty much sure you've already studied such :)
/r/seduction07/08/12 03:09 AM
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The cube works in myserious but wonderful ways. Atleast in the mind of a woman. Good job.
/r/seduction07/08/12 12:28 AM
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I usualy start by reading the first pages of a random book. To get some thoughts going, after this when I'm in a bar I just focus on having fun and reward myself for only opening on sets. If you're not having fun they wont have fun either and if you're not opening on any sets you wont get any reward which makes you push yourself to open. After this, it just flows.
/r/seduction06/08/12 08:58 AM
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I like having a male wing. Since if I go into a 2-set, it's alot easier to isolate with a male friend entertaining the other chick. Having a male wing makes it easier for both of us swtiching girls to make eachother much more interesting. But having female friends around shows abundance and makes you look more "Alpha".
/r/seduction06/08/12 08:53 AM
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I've made them think of a number between 1-10. And then guess the right number because of how I used my hands to represent the number I wanted to guess. You start out by holding your hands like you're holding a tray or something. Then you say "I want you to guess a number between 1(snap your fingers on your right hand) and 10(snap your fingers on your left hand)" Then you move your right hand to the center of this imaginary tray and say "go" and snap your fingers. After that you whisper in her e…
/r/seduction06/08/12 08:47 AM
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It isn't my first time breaking up with someone and actually I'm not hurt from it, since I just got tired of the relationship and that was that. The fact is, I've been programming, studying psychology, playing soccer, playing tabletennis, badminton the list goes on. But the fact is that I'm not interessted in those things as much anymore. I'm pretty much indiffrent about most things and have been after living this pretty much shallow lifestyle. About me not feeling interesting is more or less, "…
/r/seduction05/08/12 11:33 PM
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I was thinking about this some nights ago since I've been in the same situation for sometime. I'm boss with some girls but not with others. I had to analyze the situation, what I basically came up with is that I'm only boss with those that respond well to what I say. Since it gives me instant gratification, so what I thought about is that if I instead just think about what ever I like and talk about that stuff, I give myself that gratification and making the kind of cold girls instantly starting…
/r/seduction28/07/12 02:48 AM
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