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You might ban me then as it seems a trend here. Honestly i am not trying to get compassion but fucking advices. You might as well close this sub and put a page "read the fucking sidebar"
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/25 12:49 PM
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Do you have any advice because your OYS is not that that great either!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/25 12:47 PM
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OYS 19 42 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 127lbs(58kg), married 10, together 16, kids 10 & 12 -Body lifting 3x a week. 15% / 20% BF Since last time, I had a massive amount of stress due to the new home we wanted to buy. I also got hooked on social media, which makes me feel angry. My bad mood affected my wife badly as well. It's funny how, as soon as you don't follow the red pill path, your wife feels it and points it out. She is like a red pill reminder not to get off the red pill path. It's crazy how this red …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/25 09:36 PM
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The role of leader, both within the church and within a marriage, is also part of biblical manhood. This requirement originates even before the fall, where Adam and Eve shared equality in differing responsibilities (Romans 12:4–5). It is also seen in Adam’s naming of Eve (Genesis 2:23), an act which symbolizes authority. As already referenced, Christ has to be the model for this type of leadership. A man is called to lead through love, through service, and through sacrifice. This is not a domine…
/r/RPChristians07/01/25 02:18 PM
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I think we need to thank you for your honesty . But me i would probably leave her. I would probably feel disgusted by her behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/25 08:54 PM
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I agree with you if you are fine losing half your assets you are fine. We need to accept it and move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/25 08:43 PM
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OYS 18 40 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 127lbs(58kg), married 8, together 14, kids 6 & 8 -Body lifting 3x a week. 15% / 20% BF I have been busy with life. Relation with wife is good ! I have been doing more house chores and home repairs and wife follow the lead. - Social 2 nights a week - Work : got promotion at work and took lead job. I took this lead job as an opportunity. For years i told myself i was not alpha enough to lead. - Relationship : i am networking with parents at school or ex colleagues. Trying …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/23 01:24 PM
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Your OYS could be mine at the moment. Social: You should listen more to other people then and ask questions. It is not that difficult to ask questions. It is easier than telling stories. Practice your voice to talk louder. You might try improvisation classes like I did . I am doing it because I am shy. I believe I am more social thanks to this. Try talking to random people outside your social circle. Check https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4a4sba/60_days_of_dread_week_8_social_lif…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/22 08:15 PM
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I am still a beta extraordinaire. At my house, I: You cannot do everything in your ship. You need to delegate some tasks or cut down some of them. Perhaps do the most important and delegate some. Read "When I say no I feel guilty". Next time you cook tell her to do the laundry for instance. Start to punish the wife if she does not comply. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3278bm/order_your_wife_around/
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/22 06:24 PM
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Hi, ​ I need to push and challenge now that I have a gym again. I am wondering I you really need to push so much at your age given all your surgeries? Of course, I have seen men over 70 hitting the gym. Some of them were doing bench press but it was with low weight such as 40 pounds only.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/22 07:10 PM
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Mystery Met Have you thought about meeting women in bar/club/streets ? I believe you learn better talking to women that way. The Mystery method is good to understand how to get women .
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 08:46 PM
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OYS 17 39 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 127lbs(58kg), married 8, together 14, kids 6 & 8 Cannot copy paste with reddit :). To sum up : - Social 2 nights a week -Body lifting 3x a week. 15% / 20% BF -I am annoyed with critics of my wife. I am using AM and assertiveness but recently critics are increasing. I am getting stressed due to that. I am accused of neglection. Goal next week : - More house chores -More AM , assertiveness (WISNIFG)
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/22 06:20 PM
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Do you talk from your one experience?
/r/RedPillParenting05/02/22 02:40 PM
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About friendship : like you I am struggling. You need to find yourself a hobby and invite people over to cool stuff you would you with or without somebody.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 07:40 PM
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Sounds good plan your last paragraph! Try to have space to get some friends too! Invite people(men and women) to your activities and go to it alone if needed. When I was younger I was focusing too much on girls only. I believe having a tribe is very important too.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/21 09:12 AM
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OYS 16 39 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 127lbs(58kg), married 7, together 11, kids 6 & 8 3 months ago I went into despair after several injuries. I injured my ankle first and then both arms with tendinitis. Goals achieved previously -Invite a group of ex-colleagues to my place for game boards. I Was invited back to a boardgames night. -Walk 4h with no pain -Drive with no pain for 4 hours Create my tribe Proverbs 27:10 - Better is a neighbor nearby than a brother far away. I have been focusing on having local f…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/21 07:48 PM
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I do agree with you. I updated the post with your remark. I personally told my older son something similar. But my younger son seems to not be mature enough for this sort of verbal strategy :).
/r/RedPillParenting22/08/21 05:19 PM
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Maybe you are right about the "eye for an eye" mentality. The way I teach them, this is in the context of mostly small violent interactions. For example, I tell them "if somebody kicks you, you kick him back. If somebody insults, you insult him back, etc ... At school, some teachers(all women of course) tell kids to report any violent behavior and to not defend themselves. So kids are sometimes confused about what to do. In long term, however, knowing how to defend yourself is a valuable skill. …
/r/RedPillParenting21/08/21 07:30 PM
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I created a post about how to raise sons to be more confident. Feel free to tell me what you think https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillParenting/comments/p8srx5/how_to_help_boys_to_be_more_confident/ . ​ This is a post I created because I could not find much information about it. Less words and more actions. I believe kids should have more social experience (safely) and less lecture. When they do have a problem (conflict or such) then you provide some guidance.
/r/RedPillParenting21/08/21 02:53 PM
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GIRL: (Annoyed) Oh this is way too daring, why can't men just explicitlyexpress their intentions, why can't they wait, why are men only thinkingabout sex !!! Her reaction is actually good for you. If you met her often enough, you may create more trust and bonding with her. You mentioned you met her twice. Next time you meet her try to bring her more comfort, be less pushy, and do some fluff and maybe some cocky funny (push and pull stuff ). Did you read about the mystery method? It is a must for…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 08:52 PM
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Just wondering why are you still meeting through a virtual medium? Is it because of covid? I believe it is better to connect with people in real from your local area. Something I have been trying to practice for some time. It is good to preserve friends from different places but to me, only local people matter in the end. Proverbs 27:10 - Better is a neighbor nearby than a brother far away.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/21 08:05 PM
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I read a lot of OYS and I did not see you mentioning your hobby. Also, I found myself having a better mindset when I meet a group of friends every week as a routine. To my mind, that's important too especially as you go on your own way. Maybe it should be your focus: build a tribe before getting a new girl. Start to enjoy a hobby and life.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/21 09:42 AM
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OYS 16 39 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 127lbs(58kg), married 7, together 11, kids 6 & 8 3 months ago I went into despair after several injuries. I injured my ankle first and then both arms with tendinitis. Goals achieved last week -Drive 5 minutes *2 with less pain - Walk 15 minutes *2 -Invite group of ex colleagues to my place for game boards ​ Create my tribe Proverbs 27:10 - Better is a neighbor nearby than a brother far away. I have been focusing on having local friends rather than keeping long-distance f…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/21 08:38 PM
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OYS 15 39 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 127lbs(58kg), married 7, together 11, kids 6 & 8 3 months ago I went into despair after several injuries. I injured my ankle first and then both arms with tendinitis. Goals for next week -Drive5 minutes *2 with less pain -Walk15 minutes *2 -Learn more about long term investing -Invite group of ex-colleagues to my place for game boards Physical This injury is a huge setback physically and psychologically. I have not been able to drive or walk without pain. On top of that,…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/21 08:10 PM
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how can i reach my goal then ?
/r/RedPillParenting31/05/21 07:59 PM
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Having children is a blessing. I think my life would not be complete without it. If you are a man who wants to increase your dividends in life, you should go for it. You will limit the risk by being a high-value man who lifts.
/r/askMRP08/04/21 09:56 PM
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You may be right I should do the heavy lifting. I am taking it slow due to my injury. I definitely look skinny but slightly muscular like you said. ​ Last year I was doing heavy lifting in a gym . My knees were damaged (using proper form) while squatting only 5*5 * 60 pounds(30 kg). I was immobilized for few weeks. Due to this, I had an operation. The doctor said basically I am almost forty that's one reason for my torn meniscus and the other reason is the abnormal meniscus(longer than usual). O…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/21 05:40 PM
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OYS 15 39 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 136lbs(62kg), married 7, together 13, kids 5 & 7 These days I feel like my efforts paid off in different areas such as wife, family, friendship, work, kids. By investing my time in these different endeavors I feel more complete and happy. No idea if it is temporary or not but sometimes I just feel happy. Multiple good things happen these days. Physical Due to my injury, my workout 3 times a week is: Wall sit exercise 3/4min 5 sets of push up isometric for 2 minutes Dips …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/21 09:30 PM
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It seems you are trying to justify that your wife does not want kids yet. Is that really what your want or what she wants ?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 06:26 PM
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OYS 14 39 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 136lbs(62kg), married 6, together 10, kids 5 & 7 Kids did stand up for themselves and I am happy about it Physical Due to my injury, my workout 3 times a week is: Wall sit exercise 3/4min 5 sets of push up isometric for 2 minutes Dips 5*1min superman 5*1min Work Feeling good to be rewarded at work Kids Two weeks ago my oldest son took some punches from a bully. I decided to coach my oldest son to hit back. I pretend I am a bully and he has to hit me back. I do that every…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 06:14 PM
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Good point! You actually gave me an idea I will test soon. I feel like it has to be a heart matter. Have you been growing up surrounded by large families? How come did you meet so many large families.
/r/RedPillParenting12/01/21 08:53 PM
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OYS 13 39 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 136lbs(62kg), married 6, together 10, kids 5 & 7 Quite stressed due to work and kids. Physical Due to my injury, my workout 3 times a week is: Wall sit exercise 3/4min 5 sets of push up isometric for 2 minutes Dips 5*1min superman 5*1min Work Doing hard work but I am also stressed. I work hard focusing only on the day-to-day job. ​ Kids My oldest son 7 is having issues at school. A kid punched him a few times during the day last Friday. My son was surprised by the attack…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 08:27 PM
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is arrived Good comment i think.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/21 09:53 PM
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Jay Cutler. You got the basics covered : lifting. Now it seems you need maybe to use some dread on your wife. For instance do you have a hobby you like to do ? You should read the dread post on the sidebar. I think it might apply to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/21 09:49 PM
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Career I don't know if it is relevant to your post but i have this idea that we (men) should spend less money on family to get them used to harder times and save more. It means spend less in clothing -> do kids need trendy clothes ? Or maybe it can wait until birthday food -> cooking more home made food. It is more healthy. car -> buy the most robust one with least maintenance . Do yourself the small repair) leisure -> spend more time outside hiking no video games and tv for the kids get activit…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/21 06:22 PM
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You are probably right Sharp_Illustrator2. Do you have kids yourself ? If yes how many ? In reality, only one more kid would be good enough for me. We had a talk about this recently. She told me two kids is already a lot for her. She always thought she would have none. She feels like she has been a SHAM for 8 years and does want to focus on herself now. What I Tried already over the years to bring her into my frame: - Improve my frame -> lot better now and bring down shit testing but harder to b…
/r/RedPillParenting02/01/21 08:58 PM
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Hi, this is great idea your live stream . I am listening more and more o your channel. If I may make a suggestion: could you put in your youtube summary who's OYS are you talking about as well?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/20 10:43 AM
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I think i have similar issues with kids too. I am too impatient but I am trying to be more patient and use "broken record" technique. We need to be patient like you said. As punition you can always take them a toy they like if they did not comply.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/20 10:28 AM
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You are 37 and she is 44 and obese. You have no no kids. From what I read it seems to me you want kids. At this stage you probably won't have ones with her. If I were you I would continue lifting and all the good stuff. And also you could start actively talking to other women ( talk to lot of people everyday) . Also completely ignore your wife and live your life like you are single. If you WANT kids : you need to find a younger one to my mind ! If having kids is a strong desire for you anway.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 08:32 PM
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Excellent. I think you are doing very good ! Myself I have also difficulty when wife is annoyed about stuff I forgot or did not do . I lose composture more often than not. I like your internal reframing about her being a pigglet and also : “Shhhhh. I understand that you feel that you are entitled to be upset, but I will not be spoken to in this tone. Try again.” I will keep this line for another day ;).
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 06:22 PM
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37 years old 4 kids under age 10 Hi , I think this stat alone is impressive to me. Was it your own will or your wife's will to have four kids ?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 11:26 AM
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Taking Horn’s advice and telling my brain to STFU. How do you do that ?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 11:18 AM
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omen last week is just an enjoyable byproduct. A byproduct that I can hardly believe. Congratulations to your success ! Since last week I wanted to read your update : ). Reading your OYS it feels like you already have the mental and energy to achieve success. You just needed the knowledge to succeed . I am wondering if you never wanted kids or is it the lack of intimacy in the past a byproduct of this ?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/20 05:31 PM
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I second that. Physical activities would help OP. Hiking in the wilderness or traveling somewhere far can be helpful too. Hard though as I dont know how i will react.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/20 05:32 PM
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You are probably right that it is not congruent to who am I. I have been shy all my life and often feel like losing composure in social situations where people make fun of each other for instance. I generally play safe in those situations and dont attempt to do story telling even when i have stuff to say. I would just say short sentences because talking too long in front of people makes me nervous and my voice become weaker. Not at all aplha ! I think part of being alpha is also be able to go wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/20 07:09 PM
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OYS 13 38 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 136lbs(62kg), married 6, together 10, kids 5 & 7 Had a good week doing stuff outside my home. Physical Due to my injury, my workout 3 times a week is: Wall sit exercise 3/4min 5 sets of push up isometric for 2 minutes Dips 5*1min superman 5*1min Work Was stressed for a few weeks and brought my stress at home. I STFU about it but I could not help being annoyed for small stuff. It is a lot better now. Improvisation classes Had to pretend to be a presenter with high energy.…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 07:04 PM
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Hey, you are doing well with your injury management. I went through something similar as you. Had an external meniscal tear last year followed by two arms tendinitides. I got this doing heavy lifting specically while doing squatting with proper form. According to my doctor, my age and an abnormality in the knee was responsible for this. At 40 we must be more cautious. I am only doing body lifting now. I stopped martial arts years ago due to another injury.. Honestly, I don't want to be a cripple…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/20 09:02 PM
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Slow your roll. No one is saying drop papers. Know your options. I understand your life is hard but get away from pills , alcohol, drugs. Mentally it must be hard to know your partner may cheat on you. I think there are many posts here advising to nuke a wedding in case of cheating since you will never be able to get her back. Personally I would choose this option. If you are mentally strong, check a lawyer and think your options rationally. Plan carefully your exit. Start to live your life like…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/20 05:26 PM
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Funny. This situation sounds familiar to me “It’s like no one cares about me. All I do is clean. I feel underappreciated. It’s like you can’t be nice to me anymore and are just a hard-ass and I feel sad.” Since you are not giving her so many gifts as before and also you have higher value in her eyes, reward like this stimulates her much more than the weekly routine you used to do. I always thought it was shit test which I always answer with STFU. I do agree that you need to reward your wife once…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/20 06:50 PM
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I think you will get over your job issue. Overall you are already doing some good steps. This attitude of your wife is telling me a lot " She chose the first day of her period to try on an outfit I got her, so she could look bloated and not great in it and get upset with me. " It seems to me she is used to having too many gifts and don't care anymore about it. She sounds like a spoiled brat, to be honest. Start treating her like a child.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 08:21 PM
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I read entirely your comment and link. Appreciate your comment. I concentrate too much trying to make submit her. Thats true. I should definitively have more OI. It is something I need to work on. All comments of my OYS point to that direction. I will work on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 08:43 PM
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Can you choose to focus your attention to other aspects of life that give you gifts? Absolutely. But there's a difference between doing so out of spite, or out of trying to change someone, or trying to get them to comply...versus doing so because it's beneficial to YOU. I got your analogy. I appreciate your long comment. From experience, wife think I am offended If I decide not to watch with her netfix to punish her. I think i need to have more OI.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 08:41 PM
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Your are probably right that it is not an important problem. Also my wife was a SHAM until recently so I think it is normal she is doing the majority of housechores. She started studying full time so she wants me to participate more with house chores.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 12:10 PM
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Maybe your are right about this. How do you convince a boy not to taunt random people? What I have started telling him is that we will take his toys if he continues. My older son is much more mature. The older son has never behaved like this and he was raised similarly.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 12:03 PM
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OYS 12 38 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 136lbs(62kg), married 6, together 10, kids 5 & 7Been banned for 2 weeks. Been reviewing redpill basics in the meantime. Also, I am feeling slightly better. Physical Due to my injury, my workout 3 times a week is: Wall sit exercise 3/4min 5 sets of push up isometric for 2 minutes Dips 5*1min superman 5*1min My body look like a lightweight swimmer in the morning but with a small belly in the evening after meal:) . ​ Reading/Learning I have read many redpill books in the pa…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 10:11 AM
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Following this, a shitstorm of resentment for my career, my trip, lack of help when I am working, always wanting sex with accusations of ruining her career by making her have too many children, My wife makes similar statement even though we have only two kids. She accused me sometimes to make her a SHAM. She did not do this staement for some time though. She enjoys family outing and our boys but still. She said she does not want anymore more kids. Personally i would love to have 4 kids like you.…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 08:19 PM
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True enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 08:01 PM
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OYS 12 38 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 136lbs(61kg), married 6, together 10, kids 5 & 7 Feeling shitty and tired these days due to wife , work and old injury. Physical Due to my knee injury my workout 3 times a week is :: Wall sit exercise 3/4min 4 sets of push up isometric for 2 minutes Dips 4*1min superman 4*1min everyday : -Walk for 20 minutes*2 ​ Work I need to reinvent myself or find the safe approach ? I would like to have one day a side business but i am too risk averse to start. I am looking into site…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 04:03 PM
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OYS 11 38 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 136lbs(61kg), married 6, together 10, kids 5 & 7 Feeling shitty and tired these days due to wife , work and old injury. Physical Due to my injury my workout 3 times a week is :: Wall sit exercise 3/4min 4 sets of push up isometric for 2 minutes Dips 4*1min superman 4*1min everyday : -Walk for 20 minutes*2 Work The situation is stressful and hopeless. I will probably look for another job. Family life We do family outing every week but it is not enough for wife. She wants …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/20 07:47 PM
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I guess only DirtyNuke can decide what he can do with this cheating.After 35 years DirtyNuke may have kids or grand kids who rely on him. The dynamics may change after 35 years and if he feels happy in his situation and on top of his game , i guess he can move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/20 07:43 PM
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I agree with both of you that TRT may not be necessary. I guess it must be for life and have a cost . How much is it on monthly basis ?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/20 08:11 PM
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If you feel lonely , you should spend one night trying to get new friends and make effort . Thats what i do personnally.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 08:40 PM
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True and to my mind he should talk to random girls. It has helped me in the past as a bachelor.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 08:19 PM
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You might be right about this. However i am myself against pills because it is temporary fix. Sarging is a good way to feel more adrenaline and alive. If you are separated : it would be good time to do this stuff if you live in a big city !
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 08:17 PM
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OYS 21/05/2020 38 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 136lbs(61kg), married 6, together 10, kids 4 & 6 5 months after my knee operation, I can walk normally . This injury was a huge setback physically and psychologically. My life is more normal now but I lost redpill momentum. Family life has been difficult while I was a crippled. Now I am slowly getting back on my feet . I don’t have as much libido as before as well. Physical Even with two tennis elbows, I can type on the computer normally . But these injuries(tenn…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 07:20 PM
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OYS 06/01/2020 38 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 136lbs(61kg), married 6, together 10, kids 4 & 6 Physical Life is hell now. I just had an operation for meniscus lateral on my left knee. I am recovering. I have one month at home to recover from it. I have also two tendinitis from forearm to shoulder(both arms). It got them for 6 weeks now. It is difficult to type on the computer. I don't know how I will get back to work. I tried two weeks in bed to fix this with no result.Now i do elbow stretching and wrist str…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/20 05:10 PM
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#OYS 9 My knee is hurting me when i walk or stand. For that reason I am not working, stopped lifting and improvisation classes. I am at rest. Physical I took a risk doing lifting and i paid the price.I thought i was cautious but it could be just my lower body that is weak. I never had a knee injury before but that’s life. It is a big setback for me. Frame I am having support from my wife for the time being. I am sometimes frustrated and annoyed with kids or life. I am trying to keep frame as muc…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/19 09:50 AM
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OYS #8 ​ 38 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 136lbs(62kg), married 6, together 11, Wife 33, kids 4 & 6 Physical My knees are slighly injured after squatting on Sunday. I stopped lifting and improvisation for this week as a result. I am pissed off internally because i was not cautious enough. My coach told me my squat was good. Did i put too much weigth too fast ? Fuck. It is a physical setback . I will wait until I recover before doing lifting . Last week i was sick too. Not great week.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 07:19 PM
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OYS #7 Been at this for over two years now. 38 yo, 5’5(1,7m), 136lbs(62kg), married 6, together 10, kids 4 & 6 Reading : Finished “Starting Strength” and will continue to re-read it in order to learn proper form. I read before WISNIFG,sidebar,48 laws of power . I want to read the "way of superior man" next after my lifting studies. Gym : Beginning lifting. 2 weeks into 5x10. Squat 77 - bench 99 and deadlift 81 . Progressing slowly because I want to learn proper form first. I have been reading a …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/19 09:14 PM
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I agree with most comments : you got to set a hard boundary. You should tell her not to do her weird behavior ->Tell her it is inacceptable to undermine your love for them in front of the kids . Thats really sick ! You should tell her off on the spot ! -> push siblings to have rivalry. What purpose does it serve ? Thats fucking stupid. It is clear you need to step up to stop this bullshit!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/19 09:03 PM
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I think your life may not be as bad as people say. You seem to be stoic about your affairs. Thats good. You are like almost like in open polygamy like in eastern lands. Keep your wife and have a concubine on the side. Only your wife seems to control finance an be the bread earner. I dont believe people shoud dwell on their own's past . It is useless and painful. It is best to look on how to improve our own's life. ​ Kids who do tantrum should be ignore or put in corner. Thats our i do it. It wor…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/19 08:55 PM
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Hi, I dont know if you are religious but suicide is forbidden in religion. Religion can be a good motivator not to do suicide since very religious country have very low suicide rate. Also if you think nobody cares for you i am sure this is wrong. I am sure your son and close relatives like your parents, siblings , will be pretty damage by your death. You son needs you or will need you one day ALIVE. You can mess up people lives if you follow your idea. You better divorce rather than kill yoursel…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/19 07:33 PM
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Hi, How did you convince your wife to have four kids ? Or was it her idea ? ​ If her tone is too nasty, I have realised that STFU is not a solution for me. I feel angry inside. Either make fun of a comment (amuse mastery) or you can tell her " you dont talk to me like that " and leave or ignore her completely. It has work for me in the past. ​
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/19 10:52 AM
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Good stuf handling 60 people and being introverted. May be join a social club whether it is sport or game or whetever.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/19 09:44 PM
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They are 4 and 6. You seem to be in good direction with your boundary routine. It is definitively something i need to do more as well in a calm manner. ​ Also to my mind it is important to bring kids to a club activities every week, i believe it will bring them discipline. Whether if it is raining or cold i bring my oldest to his outdoor sport club every week. I do the same thing for my little one(swimming). I believe it will teach them how to be disciplined .
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/19 09:33 PM
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CHILDREN : I would encourage you to go outside with kids even in winter. It is good for immunity. At home my boys usually ask to do some "tablet" but usually I encourage them to play to their toys. Sometimes they play forhours to constuction game. However for older kids i guess they will be a time when they will want video games. The WE, after the nap, we always go out even when it is snowing. But I have this routine since ever so it helps.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/19 07:53 PM
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It was a win-win situation. She wanted to go to that part of the country. But it is me who chose the town and she blamed me for that. It is a small town for her but had good jobs in my field. I wanted to build a family with her in a peaceful environment but it is too peaceful for her. That said i clearly lack oratory skills or leadership to give her a vision and narrative. Yet i am willing to make effort to lead better.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/19 08:11 PM
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#OYS 6 Stats : Married 5 years . Together almost 11 years . 2 kids(6 and 4) . Wife is 33 and me 37 years old. Gym I continue my body weight lifting routine 3x times a week. I am not sure i can do lifting yet for health reason. I might check the doctor. Reading I bought “starting strength”. I am waiting for the book. Goals What do i want ? It is a question i have been asking myself for a while . I want definitively to have more friends and a baby. I want to raise my kids in a healthy settings and…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 09:49 PM
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The Christmas vacation, in my wife’s hometown has been stressful. My boat is under lot of waves.I am trying to hold frame externally but i have hard time internally. Physical I do continue the body training 3x a week. Social Honestly i felt a lot more respected when meeting my wife’s friends. I was actively listening to them, making some funny remarks. Last year my wife was attracted to a Chad at a her friends meeting.This week he still makes her laugh but I was not as beta as last time. I did n…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 05:50 PM
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This year i had lot of wins and i committed to become a better man despite my weaknesses. My goal is to raise my boys to be the best men they can be. I will show them the value of dedication and effort.I want to lead my family and be more outcome independent. Sex/life I had immediate gain last year just by being more assertive with wife. She woke me up one night to have sex with me. She was in need. Something which did not happen for years ! But months afterwards we reach some kind of plateau wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/18 08:30 PM
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' She has gained significant weight' : at that point if I were you, i would continue doing what you are doing and maybe going out even more. I would initiate less . Give her less attention. It seems you really need more time before she sees you differently. I would say you need to dread her more. ​ I would advice to stop the meds too. If you feel down, walk outside or listen to music, get yourself busy. My 2 cents. ​ ​
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/18 08:25 AM
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Physical I continue doing bodyweight training due to an old injury while lifting. I has a compliment from my wife about my arms. I feel stronger but i have reached a plateau. I will need to lift to get stronger. I will read starting strength soon. Holiday We are at wife’s hometown this week. We will meet her parents and friends for few weeks. We are going to meet a alpha friend she was attracted to last year. This alpha is everything redpill recommends : bodybuilder, martial artist, manager at w…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/18 07:13 PM
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I agree with you. I do bring kids every Saturday morning to do activities while wife is doing some housekeeping. It is a win-win situation. On the WE(Saturday/Sunday afternoon) I advice to do family walk around a forest or city. Any place is great really. It is great for the kids and good against depression during winter just to walk outside. I recommand it. It is also good for health and immunity system. We have this routine since the beginning and my kids are great walkers and enjoy walking. T…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 09:51 PM
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OYS 2 Physical I am still doing body weight training three times a week . I tested a gym this week and my stat over there was SL5x5:22SQ/77BP/22 Rowing . Home I have been fixing around the house few stuff broken ( heater in kid’s room). Shit tests I noticed these weeks i am feeling good and i stopped being too dominant. Wife has been shit testing me more. She told me softly with a smile “if you dont compliment me, i am gonna get compliment from someone else”. Then i kept silent for a while and s…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 09:50 PM
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My 2 cents: ​ "We are still talking too much about feelz etc. Not in a ‘fix the relationship’ way but still blah blah blah. I feel this, I feel that. She responds well from a comfort perspective but I understand it does not make her want to jump my bones. " If there is too much fluff add a bit of teasing into it. ​ " I have dropped the ball a few times and lost frame. The worst over an hour and the next day she was right on me - being aggressive and bitchy. " Personally when my wife is too much …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/18 06:07 PM
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OYS – First Report Background : ​ I used to be THE ultimate Omega. More than 10 years ago , I went into sarging 80% time outside work. I was also lifting,reading about PU and having hobbies the rest of the time. For two years i did PU almost everyday in a big town. Then i met my future wife that way. Fast forward today, my wife have grief because we move to a smaller town, not many jobs for her. She is a SHAM and we have two kids. She clean the house, prepare food, do gym regularly so she is fit…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/18 04:55 PM
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