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Very easy, you're overthinking
/r/askTRP26/12/18 06:35 AM
1

Yeah you can't just not leave the house and watch Netflix, that's a death sentence. You're doing the right thing.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:59 PM
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No
/r/askTRP13/11/18 02:24 AM
1

At this point it's not worth your time and effort.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 08:09 PM
1

I would advise against it in your first year especially.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:27 PM
0

-Seeking validation -Giving into peer pressures -Making a fool of yourself in the process Yeah I'd say so.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 02:55 PM
1

She's 18...
/r/askTRP02/05/18 12:05 AM
2

Pick a day next week and if she flakes next her.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:38 PM
5

You're using Monk mode as an excuse to not grow as a person. Monk mode is a prescription for discipling yourself when aspects of your life get off track (neglecting diet and exercise while in an LTR, letting your grades slip because you're indulging in video games... Etc). It's a drastic measure to bring your life back into balance, NOT a permanent state of being. Ofcourse you'll get depressed/lonely/anxious living in Monk mode, your innate needs for social interaction aren't being met. Are you …
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:58 PM
4

You look fine
/r/askTRP26/03/18 10:51 PM
2

Hahahaha wow, thanks for that
/r/askTRP06/02/18 08:34 PM
1

Ride the nightmare
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:03 AM
9

Came here to say this. OP is totally lost in the Alpha Beta dichotomy.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 12:02 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP07/01/18 12:30 AM
1

Sounds like she was being sarcastic and you took here seriously for some reason.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 12:26 AM
1

Running is a great idea, look up some videos on good running form and I suggest runing on grass or a track. Get out there every other day and log your progress.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 12:22 AM
5

I had the read that last bit twice... Why didn't you take her home?
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:47 PM
2

Alright my man, I've been in your exact scenario back in my early twenties while I was very BP. You're aware of your fuckup which is awesome, being naive in this situation is a death sentence, congrats on breaking up with her. What you need to do is set a reasonable but firm date for her to move out, (probably a month), or you move out if it's feasible. You can't leave it up to "when she gets on her feet". I wouldn't rush into going out and gaming chicks for a couple weeks, just hang with your g…
/r/askTRP20/12/17 12:40 AM
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It's important to acknowledge that you've made the first step towards making a better life for yourself. Congrats on seeking help, most people don't. 30 isn't that old either, so if you start making real changes now you can be a whole new person in 18 months. I'd prescribe a solid 3 months of monk mode, you shouldn't be going after chicks until you've started noticing a difference in your appearance and built some confidence. That means: -no porn -eating right to lose weight, no sugar, no junk -…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:08 PM
6

Get into a trade and bust your ass. Lots of money in resources/mining/construction. Be enthusiastic about moving to where the work is. Oil and gas still pays great too.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 01:56 PM
2

It's hard to ignore a oneitis, you did really well and you should stick to your guns, in a couple weeks you won't regret it. No one should have that much influence on your emotions.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 02:49 AM
4

She wants a husband, do you want that?
/r/askTRP24/11/17 04:03 AM
7

This is so hard to absorb because it goes completely against your programming as a guy. Deep down inside you'll try and fight it even I you know that it's true. I've admittedly slipped after years of self-reliant single life and gotten oneitis for a plate that turned into an LTR. I bought into the affection and started thinking that my life was made better by her being in it, woops. Suddenly and without warning her feelings dried up. I had forgotten this is all just temporary, and now I'm paying…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 02:55 AM
15

In order to flash money you have to spend money. I'd advise against it.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 01:14 PM
4

Snapchat: Just for messaging girls, sure use it. Instagram: Depends on what you're doing with your life. If your hobbies match the format it can boost your SMV (photographer, skateboarder, snowboarder, frequent traveler).
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:43 AM
3

If you took anything away from this sub, it's to stop looking for a relationship. You blew your shot at a threesome because you had unrealistic expectations of this girl. AWALT, and odds are at your age you have no game, so any girl that will be hanging out with you will already be more sexually experienced than you. It shouldn't surprise you AT ALL that these girls are acting this way. 1- Go read the sidebar 2- Stop looking for a partner/thinking "this girl is special" 3- Stop feeling sorry for…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 04:36 PM
2

Here's what you need to do to get started: leave your phone at home tomorrow. That's it. Just leave the house without it and go about your day being uncomfortable. It's going to suck but you're going to have to do it if you want to get serious about it. For you the solution might have to be a bit more extreme than just downgrading your phone. But you should still consider downgrading to a moto E or something that can only run maps and email. At minimum you need to delete Facebook from your phone…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:57 AM
3

Honestly dude just break up with her, you don't want an LTR at all and keeping her around as a plate will be more trouble and drama then it's worth.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 09:18 PM
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You lost frame when you started making concessions, saying you would only stop in or whatever. Do not argue this point, it's all about jealousy and insecurity in her side, it's emotional not logical.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:33 AM
2

I'd laugh it off because it's beyond silly, just make sure you don't get her preggers.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:31 AM
32

You shouldn't ever be in that situation.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 03:04 PM
1

Move to the patch and work rigs
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:22 AM
2

block her number
/r/askTRP13/05/17 04:25 AM
3

You know what? I was starting to worry that the red pill name was being hijacked by the alt right after the incredible smear campaign which that group endured. Personally, I'd like this place to stay as a political as possible with the exception of some specific relevant cases. I think it's unfortunate /theredpillright has to exist, but I understand it's necessary to preserve /theredpill from those outside the community. I guess what I'm trying to say is thanks for taking the right steps to keep…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 04:16 AM
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I agree with you, I don't want politics associated with TRP name. But unfortunately it's being done for us already by those outside the community. This is the only way I can see us keeping the main sub a-political going forwards.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 04:10 AM
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Even if she's not sleeping with him there's no chance he's driving 200km to hang out with a 22 year old girl for strictly platonic reasons. Do you hang out with other girls? If not it's time to start, because this looks like the beginning of the end. If you've got some time implement some dread game. If not tell her you're not ok with this inside of a relationship, if she still wants to see him end it and move on, you'll both be better off.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 02:05 AM
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You won't, relax man it's gonna be silly and awkward but you'll live haha. The first time I have sex with a new chick it's usually a little awkward especially if we're stone cold sober and don't know each other that well. Just have fun.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 04:01 AM
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-music festivals -contiki tours -ski/snowboard trips -camping -hunting/fishing trips -pick up new hobbies
/r/askTRP28/11/16 10:42 PM
1

Happens all the time. Don't sweat it bud it's got nothing to do with you, I mean how could it? You had 15 mins of interaction, she had her mind made up before you even came along.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 11:56 PM
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Doubt she cheated, he sounds like an orbiter. That said she's certainly setting a precedent, if you're not too invested downgrade her to plate status and start meeting new girls. If you're at risk of being over emotional cut ties, soft next would be the way to go. If she keeps asking just tell her the spark is gone.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 01:04 AM
1

Count to 10
/r/askTRP31/10/16 04:57 PM
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I'd say it's time to retire that relationship. That's super shitty behaviour and if you considered being exclusive with her, that leads me to believe you're at risk of having oneitis and letting her get away with acting out in the future.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 04:46 PM
2

Absolutely, I got lucky because my mother is retired and loves having him around when I need to take off. Those first couple years though I had a serious LTR and was living the blue pill dream so trips and work opportunities weren't an option anyways.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 04:58 PM
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I got an awesome dog 5 years ago when I was in my early twenties. He's been a great addition to my life, and I agree with the points made by OP, but I can't stress enough the huge jump responsibility when you get a puppy. The dog has to be your new passion for about a year if you want it to be well behaved. You will miss out on employment opportunities and fun trips because of the dog. You will get frustrated with the dog, and you will likely resent it at times. But if you have the discipline to…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 12:53 PM
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You came in too hot with this one and it seems to me like you're not too sure how much you really like her. In this situation, considering the mediocre sex and your loss of interest, I don't believe you when you say you like her based on similar ideals. At your stage of the game (and I've been there) you can convince yourself almost any girl who likes you has "potential". I wouldn't explicitly tell her you're losing interest because that's not how girls work. What I would do is immediately stop …
/r/askTRP12/10/16 12:51 AM
3

You're still invested in her, quit being a bitch and cut contact
/r/askTRP24/09/16 01:02 PM
1

Nooooooooo
/r/askTRP14/09/16 03:06 PM
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You're a prime example of having knowledge but no understanding. You're in the anger phase and you're 19 so you're worthless. Get it through your head that you don't deserve shit because you haven't earned shit. Getting yourself into trouble is not RP, it's not alpha behaviour, and it's not even fun for you. You're 19, the best thing you can do right now is build that foundation. Start lifting like a motherfucker and take up a martial art. You need an outlet.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 03:04 PM
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Are you fucking retarded? That was the cringiest conversation I think I've ever read. You're confusing TRP wisdom for being a smug little shit to your mom. DO NOT talk about TRP with your mom. You made no effort to diffuse the situation, instead you chose to show off your edgy new persona you picked up from an online forum. NEXT time your mom tries to argue with you, you should do everything you can to de-escalate. You have nothing to gain from proving her wrong. You live with your parents and t…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 02:55 PM
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I've seen this happen a few times in the past, a confident girl starts dating a much lower SMV guy and leaves everyone the social cirlcle scratching their heads. In highschool there was this girl Kayla in my group of friends. She was confident, intelligent, and very social. Not only that she was hot. Kayla flirted with the higher SMV guys in the group, all of whom were over 6' tall and had decent game. Over the course of the year she never hooked up with any of them, until one day in June she st…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 02:33 PM
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You're getting way off topic. That's completely irrelevant to the argument he's presenting here.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 08:06 PM
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Did you even read his post? He's referring to anti-conformity in the context of pop-culture trends; music, fashion, etc... A lot of guys get caught up in trying to acquire obscure tastes in their teenage years to come off as cool and deep, myself included. He's pointing out the bullshit in going that route.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 06:17 PM
2

There's nothing a bunch strangers on the internet can tell you that will stop you from being a bitch. Scare yourself.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 12:55 AM
1

Where do you work?
/r/askTRP04/08/16 10:53 PM
1

You need to block her number ASAP
/r/askTRP03/08/16 05:17 PM
1

How are you going to incrementally add weight to your lifts with water barrels of sand?
/r/askTRP01/08/16 12:53 PM
2

That's a shitty question because their intentions are already implied by using the app: meet men they're attracted to. Triggering ASD isn't something you should aiming for, stop asking them that.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 08:18 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP30/07/16 12:54 PM
2

Absolutely right, addressing shitty behaviour doesn't mean you're validating shitty behaviour.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:10 PM
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The not so subtle ones off the top of my head would be: -touching you for any reason -strong eye contact or staring -smiling at you before you've iniated contact -asking if you have a girlfriend -asking where you live/where you're staying -sexual conversation -feet pointed towards you when standing or sitting -standing closer to you than typical
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:51 AM
1

Between 2-8 depending on work
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:43 AM
3

Escalate quick, if you've been doing g this for long you're probably already stuck being a cuddle friend.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 10:26 PM
1

Wash your ass with water after you shit
/r/askTRP17/07/16 07:15 PM
1

I'm 26 and an industrial electrician apprentice in the oil and gas industry. I made $76,000 in the seven months I worked last year. I could make more if I wanted to work more, but I've feel like I've found the best work-life balance for myself. What my wage really comes down to long shifts and overtime. When I say I worked 7 months that was mostly 24-35 day shifts and 12-14 hour days. It's tough to get used to at first, but it's definitely beneficial at this stage of my life. Getting my job boil…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 04:31 PM
2

Not reading messages and letting them sit for a few days can work against you. We all know you got a notification on your phone you just didn't open the thread. Communication is a big deal for me, so personally I would likely soft next her. Reply to her message but don't engage in small talk or try to set anything up. Do you have other girls lined up that you're texting as well? If not, that's a problem. You might not have oneitis but you're setting yourself up for it just focusing on one girl. …
/r/askTRP28/06/16 08:37 AM
4

That honestly reads like a troll post. I really really hope it's just an elaborate work of fiction and someone's not actually going through that.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 12:14 AM
4

I don't got out with sluts I just fuck them. Overcompensating, hugely. I don't know how fat you've gotten since I've seen you but given how I look now you'd be lucky if I stuck my dick in you. Way too emotional, you're just showing her that you're still bitter after all this time. I was just fucking with you Why even say that? Just to get back at her? Nothing you can say over Facebook messenger will compare to what she did to you, throwing petty insults at her make it look like your fragile ego …
/r/askTRP16/06/16 01:14 AM
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are you well groomed and dress well? that's probably it. Gay guys put more effort into their appearance and just being well put together will get male attention. I wouldn't really worry about it, it's a sign that you're in the higher brackets of attractiveness.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 10:24 PM
1

Sounds to me like you have oneitis from being around this girl so much. Hooking up with a housemate isn't cool, your best bet either way is to see other girls.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 04:50 PM
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I use LSD every 6 months to a year or so for personal reflection and a genuinely good time. It can without a doubt alter your personality if you don't respect your limits, so I play by these rules: 1- a good night's sleep. This is non-negotiable, an 8 hour trip is fun but exhausting and without being well rested you'll want it to be over sooner when you're still in the middle of it. 2- A safe friendly environment, preferably outside in the mountains and/or forest. I've done psychedelics in a bus…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 06:15 PM
2

You're over thinking it. The key to a cold approach is to act before you can talk yourself out of it.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 12:24 PM
2

On a separate note, has this sub changed the definition of "field report"?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:43 PM
2

Sounds like a candidate for a soft next. You could definitely fuck her, but is it worth all the drama that'll unleash? Only you can make that call.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 06:25 PM
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Hahaha believe me plenty of girls are happy to share their high partner count. Also, it's a safe bet the girl who stayed with her first boyfriend for 6 years is going to have a lower count than the girl who had a new boyfriend every few months. I don't see what you're trying to prove anymore.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 11:47 AM
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When you reach the elevated heights of true alpha TRP like I have lol OK I'll bite. The idea of an unspoiled girl is a myth, and we're not talking about that here. We're talking about partner count, and there's a whole spectrum of girls to choose from when it comes to their number. Statistically speaking, women with lower partner counts have more successful relationships and the higher her partner count the higher the chance of divorce in regards to married women: http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-4uvCN…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 03:07 AM
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That's your prerogative. But as you admitted, you're just looking for pleasure (sex). Girls with a high partner count are easier to get in bed. They have lower standards for who they're willing to sleep with. If you're just trying to get your dick wet these would be the girls to aim for. Most of us don't JUST want to get our dicks wet, a plate has to be at least tolerable to be around outside the bedroom to last longer than a ONS. Lots of guys here still want monogamous relationships, and her pa…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 11:49 PM
4

Good job moving on. Just a little FYI it's Vancouver, BC. "CA" is the postal code abbreviation for California.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 01:30 AM
1

the only time I go on a movie date is in a LTR and I actually want to see the movie or if it's a second date, I don't care about the movie and logistically we can't hang out at each other's homes for some reason.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 06:21 PM
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Good job man! Make sure you completely cut her out of your life to avoid any sort of relapse in a time of weakness. It's also important to remember that how you treated her enabled this sort of behavior, and this situation can repeat itself over and over with the other pretty girls you meet throughout your life. Work on yourself, question the value of every girl in your life and know your worth. The great thing you learned here is how to tell a pretty girl "no" and mean it.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 09:05 PM
1

Then you realize you can make nearly double as an electrician.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 02:02 AM
1

Agreed. Whatever you do, don't be a rough neck. It's shitty work that pays no better than a real trade. On the trade side of things I'd suggest electrician, pipe fitter, iron worker, heavy equipment mechanic or crane operator. Welders make good money too, but sacrifice their bodies in the process more so than other trades. If you want to make real fuck you money be a power engineer in the oil sands.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 02:00 AM
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He said them, electrician and pipe fitter. Oil sands or oil and gas... It's all the same.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 05:16 AM
1

Very true, you have to play the long con in every aspect of life. Depending on work I make roughly 130k a year, but since I'm so new in my field I have to put in serious time and move around at the drop of a hat. I'm on the tail end of a 14 day shift and in a few short days I'll be moving across the province to work a 21 day shift. I had to make the call yester day whether I was going to take the extra long shift or fly back to my home city and party with my friends and 3 plates I set up over th…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 05:04 AM
1

I'm 25, years out of college and well into my second career. Two nights ago I went to a college pool bar with a work friend. We had both never been their before, and were really just looking for a place to shoot pool within walking distance of his new condo. At about 10pm this pool bar turns into a college kid night club. It gets so busy you have to ask groups of kids to move for almost every shot you take. This made for endless opportunities to interject and make small talk with this 18 to 21 y…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 08:46 PM
2

Before you do, bring her to the doctor to get an IUD. Personally I'd still wrap it and get tested on the regular.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 05:04 PM
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That sub rubs most people the wrong way but it's definitely not about hating women. Lurk a bit and you'll find lots of guys who are angry with modern feminism and feel like western society has tipped out of balance, but the bulk of it is about men working towards bettering themselves. It's certainly not for everyone, but there are lessons to be learned there.
/r/seduction05/10/14 03:01 AM
2

Toronto girls, they're polite after maybe 5 years.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:54 PM
1

You need to be upfront about boundaries right away and be firm. You're failing her shit tests. If she calls you at work for no good reason, you shut her down. Emergencies are one thing, but senseless babble shouldn't be tolerated in the slightest. Her: "Hey I just went through some of your receipts, what's this about [purchase x]." You: "This doesn't qualify as a good reason to call me at work. I'll see you at home." or "When I'm at work, I'm working. That means I'm completely unavailable to tal…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 09:03 PM
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What a rookie move. Never show your hand.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 08:00 PM
5

I have to disagree little. You don't have to be a shoulder to cry on to be on good terms/friends with girls. There are girls in my group of friends from Highschool who have gone out of their way to hook me up with other girls, a referral from your buddies GF is probably the quickest easiest way to establish some social proof. I think he means don't let yourself get caught in the friend zone.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 09:31 PM
3

That "what if" has disappeared from my conscience [for now]
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 08:40 PM
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And your evidence of this is...
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 10:24 PM
2

No time for sex, but plenty of time to write about it!
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 05:33 PM
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Why do you want to be married to someone you find unattractive? Listen, I get that you love her, but you're doing her and yourself no favours by faking a marriage. You will get divorced sooner or later, why delay the inevitable and cause serious emotional trauma to someone you love?
/r/seduction20/04/14 05:19 AM
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You shouldn't be married. Talk to your wife about what's going on.
/r/seduction20/04/14 05:02 AM
3

It's actually fun talking to hot girls
/r/seduction01/11/13 01:35 AM
-1

Teasing about one of being quiet might kill the vibe for you, I would address her silence in a neutral manner and try to use that as an excuse to get her engaged. "you've been sitting there quietly this whole time, I definitely want to know what you think."
/r/seduction20/06/13 04:21 AM
1

thanks I'll look
/r/seduction20/06/13 04:13 AM
1

What about talking to girls on dating sites? What's your advice there? I'm sending a few messages a day back and forth to seven different girls, half of them are in that get to know what you're like stage, one is pretty receptive and one of them drunkenly gave me her phone number and we're meeting tomorrow night for drinks (I got lucky). (edit: formatting).
/r/seduction20/06/13 01:23 AM
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