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Of course romance is real. But the idea of romance is inherently romanticised. Love isn't all roses and candlelit dinners. I feel like romance is only the surface level of what is needed in a healthy relationship, just like how you mentioned the reciprocation. Both the man and the woman reciprocating gestures and opening up to each other and sharing feelings is to me, romantic in and of its self. Please don't feel empty, I think part of the MGTOW movement is very good in that it helps men look f…
/r/MGTOW25/07/18 11:33 PM
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Re-read my question. This is something you should do for yourself. If you can't talk to her then you might not be ready for a relationship. (Sorry if this sounds mean)
/r/seduction14/08/17 10:02 PM
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Girl here. If you're feeling brave, go for a cheesy pickup line, that should earn you a giggle and she'll be flattered, you'll seem more laid back. Just laugh as you say it and it won't be creepy. If you want to come off as more serious then ask some casual open ended questions :)
/r/seduction14/08/17 10:01 PM
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Exactly! It makes you seem patient, too. And more interested, since you're giving her time to speak instead of filling the silence for the sake of it.
/r/seduction14/08/17 09:56 PM
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Woman here, I agree on your points. I actually find that choosing to half the pay makes a guy seem fair and good at compromising. Some women will definitely exploit a guy if he takes on the 'expected' role of paying for dinner and buying her gifts and she'll get used to it. Another point I'd like to make is that if a guy offers to pay for things, especially drinks, girls may jump to the conclusion of 'oh, he just wants to bang me'. My advice to all guys is that if you want to buy her something, …
/r/seduction14/08/17 09:53 PM
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In my own opinion I think it's useful to become comfortable with silence rather than saying anything to fill the gap. It's less awkward than you might assume since during silence the person is thinking, therefore what is said next is likely to be something more than small talk.
/r/seduction14/08/17 09:29 PM
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Girl here. Honestly, this is going to be the most annoying and cliché answer but when talking to a girl, please just be yourself. Boring or not. Eventually you're going to have to talk to her by yourself and she'll notice something is different. There's bound to be something interesting about you, just start with a normal conversation. We might seem like aliens that are hard to please but we're people like everyone else. You don't have to talk about yourself, find common interests and just let i…
/r/seduction14/08/17 09:25 PM
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As long as you follow up with an open ended question the conversation will carry. Don't feel bad :)
/r/seduction14/08/17 09:17 PM
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Girl here. I'm guilty of doing this often, usually it's only because I have nothing more to contribute to what ever was just said and am unsure of what to say next.
/r/seduction14/08/17 05:29 PM
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