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they're not. I do live in a small town, though. but, then again: I'm probably just hanging to some of my blue-pill mentality, thinking that it would be "unfair" to the other fucking someone the day before our first official "date".
/r/askTRP18/04/19 11:38 PM
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I understand that. and I appreciate the slap on the face, really. I wouldn't say this one is just about "just wanting vagina", it could be oneitis or something like that, but I've been pretty active lately, so it isn't exactly neediness either. I think that sometimes there's that type of woman that is every individual man's weakness, the ones that activate your protective instincts as well as your sexual attraction. this one is like that. if this was about fucking, I'd either be inside her right…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 05:30 AM
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she doesn't use my "shoulder to cry", btw, we mostly speak about normal stuff and flirt a little bit too... or maybe I'm just engaging on wishful thinking, I don't know...
/r/askTRP04/02/19 03:23 AM
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yeah, I thought of that. but even if there was clear sexual attraction even before we started talking? should I just drop it cold-turkey?
/r/askTRP04/02/19 03:21 AM
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that also passed thru my mind, because she's one of those "no means yes" kind of chick. was thinking about asking her about it but didn't know how to phrase it, and you just gave me the best idea, LOL. thanks for that!
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:56 PM
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I thought about that too, she even mentioned she "didn't wanna scream" (I don't live by myself, but wouldn't really care if she did and someone heard, it turns me way up to hear them moaning and screaming) a couple times whenever I sped the rhythm up... it's either that or she has some kind of bad experience sex reminds her about... but I don't think so, because she didn't seem to be upset, her mood was good.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 05:19 PM
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thanks for the advice, brother. it's usually a struggle between guts and conscience, I usually end up overthinking these situations and doing what I know I shouldn't. anxiety's a fickle bitch.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 05:51 PM
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wow, no need to be an asshole about it, it's not like someone's forcing you to read or reply to the post or like I'm acting like I know everything. if I did, I wouldn't be looking for guidance on a sub reddit, would I? everybody has fuckin' insecurities, it's about lessening and learning how to control them, isn't it? why would I fuckin' lose my time trolling about something like this? there's an ego-driven difference between being cut-and-dry while slapping somebody on the face in order to wake…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 05:48 PM
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if anything, periods turn me the fuck ON! I go by Louis CK philosphy: "c'mon, I'm 41 (29), I'll fuck the shit out of you and I'll drink the blood. let's party!" problem is: these conversations have been via internet, so there's no kino, only words... yep, I know about tingles as well, and I'm usually good at providing them as long as I'm not attached or feeling the fear of rejection. my main beta problem is and has always been the fear of rejection and confrontation from those I have feelings fo…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 05:39 PM
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I have a question in regards to moving on: there's a girl at the university that gives me deep looks and has been doing it for a while... we matched on tinder like a year ago but I never approached her, I had just got out of an LTR and was at my all-time low and didn't wanna appear weak to her, so I didn't make a move then... couple of months later I tried to start a conversation with her on fb, she responded but probably out of courtesy, I didn't perceive any enthusiasm on her part, so I droppe…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 11:14 AM
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that's what I'm gonna do. thank you!
/r/askTRP28/09/17 11:09 AM
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do you think it's a beta mindset wanting to turn the tables on her? I mean, do wherever I need to do to own my shit and improve my situation until she contacts me again, then proceed to fuck her GOOD, make her want more and then treat her like a passed challenge that isn't interesting anymore? I know that might look a little cruel, but it'd really boost my morality... be honest with me: is that a fucked up thought?
/r/askTRP28/09/17 11:05 AM
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you're probably right. but I wasn't trying to win an argument or anything, I was just trying to offer some kind of insight and help before leaving, I know exactly what'll happen to her and to the poor souls she dates until she's about 35 and hits the wall and I don't have a problem trying to help a young mind to avoid that fate... I know that's probably not the right approach if I want to fuck somebody, but at that point I wasn't anymore and was genuinely concerned about her behavior...
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:57 AM
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totally honest/direct about all things.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:49 AM
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that has always been my problem: I usually get wildly attracted/attached to crazy women who bring the beta protector out in me and plate/game good, faithful women who I usually don't give a fuck about... probably some kind of self-destructive behavior I'm yet to understand...
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:46 AM
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those truths, as much as I WAS pissed the fuck off, weren't exactly "butthurt" truths, it was me telling her what's wrong with her (been studying psychology for about 10 years) and what she should do to treat it. she's an HPD with daddy issues and overly sexual personality who likes to use suicidal tendencies signaling to get attention from beta attention/validation providers... I just told her to seek help and that her depression isn't the right diagnose, that it's rather a consequence of her t…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:44 AM
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don't get me wrong, I'm here to consider any advice that's thrown my way, I'm just trying to explain the situation as best as I can... I'd say I'd probably be better off doing what you'd do than what I'd like to do... what I like to do is being always straigfuckin'forward but that usually doesn't work.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:40 AM
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"(hold that smile, this scenario ain't gonna happen)". actually I'd say it's what's probably going to happen if I own my shit, she's clearly attracted to me, it's just that somehow I gave her all the power and found myself being led... to be honest: I don't even have feelings or anything, it's just that the situation has brought back some anxiety problems and I've been struggling to focus on other aspect of my life because of this shit... probably oneitis, I know, I have 3 other girls I plate bu…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:13 AM
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both of the times we've made out was in front of a public space (her college), we escalated but only so much. the second time I invited her over and she said she had an exam or some bullshit excuse... I also know for a fact she has a large club (she's an HPD) of orbiters, so I'm probably gettin' myself into a no-no situation (especially when I've already fucked my life for 5 years dating an HPD).
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:08 AM
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LOL, that might take a little long, but I'll try anyways...
/r/askTRP12/09/17 04:42 PM
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about applying the RedPill strategies and stuff: I've always been good at telling how I should act until I meet THAT kind of women that throws me off my game just by high levels of attraction alone (from both sides, I can easily tell when someone is not into me and that automatically makes me less into them as well, I like mutual shit). but I usually get women from inside my social circles because as much as I'm good at talking about deeper stuff I'm terrible at small talk, not only because I ge…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 04:41 PM
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that's exactly the kind of slap on the face I needed, I guess. you're right about the sexting thing, yeah, I've had "sexting" before but it was years ago with a girl I had a LTR with, never before fucking her... I don't feel very comfortable with that kind of shit as I very much do in person, sex is easy, sexting is stressful. this time it was kind of crazy because she started teasing me and sending me nude pictures even before we'd even met each other in person, so, you know, that certainly cau…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 04:32 PM
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went to do just that a few minutes ago and the first thing she hits me with is a photo with a thermometer indicating she has 38.8°c fever, so that threw me right off... I still went on with it, though differently. she basically shut me down as she said she had to go out "with her mother" tonight... I guess that's my cue to walk away. so I finished the conversation politely, wished her well and signed off. fuck it, spent too much time on it already, time to accept the fuck up and go on... thanks …
/r/askTRP12/09/17 03:49 PM
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so that's the point about considering yourself "RedPilled"? to tell other people how much of a loser they are (nothing wrong there) without offering any logical and critical argument about it (there's the part that tells me it's about ego and not true) like some of these identitarian bullshit politics do? I'm sorry, but as much as I may sound as a loser, you sound like a feminist, sir...
/r/askTRP12/09/17 01:01 PM
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yep, you kind of hit the bull's eye there... I have kind of a problem with codependency sometimes (especially when I meet THOSE woman, you know, there's always THAT type that throws you completely off your game), I guess that has to do with the fact that I have some deep AvPD traits and had kind of an "edipo" mother who used to wanna do everything for me...
/r/askTRP12/09/17 01:21 AM
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that's what I tried to do, I really did. we've seen each other 3 times, made out and everything, once it was kind of a standard first date but there were more people around, so it happened only at the very end. the other two times was in front of her course (tech school), which is 200 FREAKIN METERS FROM MY HOME, and it's not like making out didn't got hot as fuck, the first time I just didn't wanna be selfish and make her skip class, the second time I said "FUCK IT" and invited her but she clai…
/r/askTRP11/09/17 10:41 PM
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actually I think I do know why: the lack of presence and body language makes me not only anxious, it makes me insecure because there's no way to read their body language... while in person it's pretty easy to tell how someone is reacting so it gets naturally enjoyable...
/r/askTRP11/09/17 10:27 PM
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I know you think I'm dumb and everything, but I CAN read, you know... of course I've already read all kinds of stuff about The Red Pill, I've pretty much been Red Pilled before even knowing the term existed, as I've pretty much been a stoic skeptic throughout my life and very soon realized how our feelings are constantly used to manipulate us... thing is: somewhere along the way I've lost my way because I've got in deep in a relationship with a deeply disturbed person who pretty much made my lif…
/r/askTRP11/09/17 10:24 PM
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I'm just trying to understand what the fuck is happening and seeking for help to decide what to do next, I'm not trying to seek validation from an internet community, bro, as far as we're both concerned we're two people that will never see each other's faces, what good an ego battle would do?
/r/askTRP11/09/17 09:12 PM
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it's funny that you talk about ego and at the same time is being quick at telling me how much of a fuck I am without offering any solutions... ain't that an ego driven attitude?
/r/askTRP11/09/17 09:08 PM
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I'm sorry, what does that mean?
/r/askTRP11/09/17 08:50 PM
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"obviously he is a douchebag and you are the right person for her..." - I think you got me wrong there, sir... it's not a question of competition or anything like that, the fact is the guy is INDEED a douchebag, a pathological narcissistic liar and, like I said, hated me for being the exact opposite way before all this shit... I'm really not trying to tell that to myself...
/r/askTRP11/09/17 08:48 PM
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sorry, bro, already took it and posted at /asktrp, I was kind of anxious so I didn't read the rules... deleting it.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 08:42 PM
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thing is: I probably AM that guy (maybe not, who knows). but I'm totally different via internet, I'm a hyperactive anxious motherfucker, so whenever I want someone and spend time talking via internet I get anxious and start talking too much... in person I'm completely different and way more confident, I don't know why...
/r/askTRP11/09/17 08:40 PM
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also: english is not my first language... so some things may come off differently then what I was intending to mean...
/r/askTRP11/09/17 08:37 PM
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I'm all for getting slapped on her face here, I know I freakin' deserve... I don't think I'm smart, man, at least not when it comes to social interaction... I did tell in the beginning of the text I was gonna try to be completely blunt, and that's what I did... I don't think I'm smarter than anyone, don't get me wrong... about the sidebar: I'm just going through reading this shit now... about lifting: always been a problem for me, too freakin' anxious to do such a repetitive activity. I'm a skat…
/r/askTRP11/09/17 08:35 PM
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sorry, don't know wtf that means...
/r/askTRP11/09/17 06:58 PM
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