[TLDR: girl spends a lot of time talking to me, calls me late night and talks to me first thing everyday, but avoids meeting {she recently broke up with her ex}].

hey fellas, how's it goin? hope all's well. I'm in a bit of a dilemma right now, so I decided to seek for your help, as you guys have helped me a few times already...

so there's this girl I started constantly bumping into in the streets, she's just my "type", the kind that kind of gets me a little dazed and confused for, let's say, excess of attraction. it happened a few times until her profile appeared in suggestions on my facebook and I added her. after she "loved" my photos a few times, I decided to go and DM her, and we started immediately getting along quite nicely. since then we've been speaking everyday (probably one of my mistakes, making myself too available) for hours and hours until one or both of us go(es) to sleep; she also calls me almost everyday and we speak for a considerable amount of time. we do get along greatly in fact, I make her laugh, she entertains me and doesn't bore me, and all that... but a few times now I invited her to go out and she either has something else to do or finds some excuse, except for two times: the first one we scheduled a movie, but she stood me the fuck up, she said she wasn't able to wake up in time (yeah, right). the second time I met her in the streets while she was going home and we spent a few minutes speaking before she took her bus and went home...

but other than that, she usually has some excuse not to meet me, and did it today again, and instead went out to drink with "some friends". keep in mind she's considerably younger than me, she's 18 and I'm almost 30, but regardless of that we get along greatly and there is clearly sexual tension between us.

I know I should probably drop it and ghost the shit out of her, and I kinda did it, but she came to speak to me and I didn't hold strong.

what do you guys think? is she using me in order to build her self-esteem up or could she be just taking some time before she recovers from her recent break up before going out with someone she (seemingly) likes? should I ghost her right away or should I be frank first and them ghost her?

thank you!