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Escalation & Calibrationneugalant/r/seduction23/09/24 10:06 PM
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because she lives close to you. if she isnt happy with how you treat her: she could stalk you > she lives 5 mins away from you she could work at a grocery store you go to > you will constantly see her she might know people you know > women will character-assassinate its simply never a good idea.
/r/seduction09/10/24 09:27 PM
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i am not talking about the classic escalation ladder. i am wondering how to introduce sexual/ vulgar language to a girl who is either a prude or who i know from a formal/ business setting. like, you gotta be vulgar in bed, otherwise its awkward as fuck. but if im playing nice during the date, but then hit her with the dirtiest language in bed, its jarring.
/r/seduction24/09/24 04:09 PM
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in bed you need vulgarity. otherwise its awkward as fuck. that was the whole point of my post, which sadly nobody seems to get, since almost everybody is talking about standard escalation..
/r/seduction24/09/24 04:03 PM
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thanks, thats good. is there any way to introduce words like 'blowjob' with a misinterpretation though? the problem is we are talking about a girl who never uses those terms and might be put off when a guy uses them.
/r/seduction24/09/24 05:08 AM
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or just around your neighborhood *if youre looking for an LTR if youre looking for casuals, i STRONGLY recommend against picking up women in your neighborhood (unless youre gonna move soon).
/r/seduction23/09/24 11:08 PM
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i mean, they literally gave you the answer: dont be a nice guy. i cant say too much on reddit but you need to do some research into how men and women are wired and dont believe what youre being told by the mainstream. all i can say is: we are products of nature. sex is very primal. so look to nature on how to behave - and in nature, there are no "nice guys". simple as. generally speaking though, 22 isnt a great age for sexual conquest, especially if you dont want to end up a loser. as rule of th…
/r/seduction23/09/24 10:26 PM
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i would be surprised if there are many men who have had sex with many different women AND ALSO desperately want a LTR but cant get it because they get "rejected". that just doesnt add up. for starters, a man who can easily get laid, typically isnt looking for an LTR and a man looking for an LTR, typically doesnt have what would make many women attracted to him. in other words: a ferrari looks "fast" because its shaped to be "fast".
/r/seduction23/09/24 09:58 PM
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well, i wouldnt marry in the west. marriage laws in the west are downright insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:53 AM
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i would think the scientific "measurement" is based on what people think to begin with. generally speaking, i prefer real world experience over studies and numbers. observe your surroundings, draw your conclusions, challenge them, then redraw them. if youre not ret*rded, you should be on dot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:31 AM
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youre gonna have to hurt alot. that will make you stronger. you are way too soft. and there are no shortcuts. you cannot "acquire" that change through books or "courses" (waste of time and money) - only pain can give you that change. have a good journey, its gonna take you up until your late 20s/early 30s. you will be greateful then. good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:26 AM
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if you are "no pill", why are you here? your comments are completely cringe. you sound like a typical liberal. someone who believes in "equity".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:22 AM
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everybody craves excitement. the problem is, our western world is so safe and convenient, women dont have to think about stability. this is literally the definition of "privileged". if women lived in a dangerous world where they dont even have a roof over their heads (cause they are sure as f**k not gonna build it), they would be at mens feet. thats why the western dating world is f**ked, because western safety and convenience allows them to be "modern", yet that very system has to be built and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:18 AM
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I do not know if I would feel comfortable marrying a virgin why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:28 PM
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Men get emotionally hurt if they find out someone else is boning their FWB somewhat. look up oxytocin and vasopressin. particularly that study with voles. basically, women bond with men like they bond with their babies. men bond with women like they bond with their territory. women are their possession. thats the core of mens pair bonding with women. ​ Sex for men is intertwined with egotism, self worth and emotional health whatever man. do your thing and find a woman you are compatible with. i …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:48 PM
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no, not even close. i like brazilians/latinas. google nicole mejia, shes very close to my ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:55 PM
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no. this is why men are willing to pay for prostitutes, because sex is a physical need. they dont care if the prostitute likes them or not. same with hookups. whereas women seek validation on an emotional level. women will be insulted if the man doesnt remember her name, a man couldnt care less. men want to be respected, women want to be desired. we are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:41 PM
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youre not fat and youre also not too skinny, its the overall body shape for me. then again, i am judging from 1 picture. different clothes might turn it into a 5/10. but if i were presented with that 1 photo, that would be my rating. personality can make up alot of "deficiencies" in raw physical attraction though. for example, i am planning to find a wife abroad, likely asia, and most asian women arent my body-type at all, but from what i have seen, their feminine personalities are very attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:28 PM
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actually, there is data that shows that women who were virgins at the point of marriage, are the least likely to file for divorce. divorce =/= cheating, but its a measurement of happiness in a relationship. i am convinced our predecessors realized this over hundreds, if not thousands of years of observation and thats why they "enshrined" this into religion where women had to be virgins for marriage. we basically abandoned religion (for good reason) but we threw out the baby with the bathwater. s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:31 AM
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i didnt even mention appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:00 AM
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youre on a purplepill subreddit, so youre gonna have redpill overlap, i hope youre aware of that. you ask me a straight question, i give you a straight answer: face: 3/10 body: 4/10
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:59 AM
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except that women dont like inexperienced men. women generally arent attracted to virgins. a mans value actually increases in a womans eyes, the more other women want him. with men its different. if a man is attracted to a woman, he couldnt give two shits whether other men are as well. no woman has ever said "leonardo dicaprio is so hot but he sleeps with too many women". conversely, theres this funny anecdote from robert pattinson - that twilight guy that women fawned over - he said he had a st…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:13 AM
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highly depends on your arrangement. if you have some kind of 50/50 "equal" arrangement, then i guess youre right. but why would you want that? if youre both working, you dont really have time for children and raising a family. unless youre fine with giving your children to strangers to raise - aka day care and nannies. which is unnatural at best. also, outside of children, i dont see a reason for a woman to "move in". if youre 50/50 anyway, if youre washing your own clothes and dishes anyway, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:00 AM
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now youre talking about women, as if men and women are the same and interchangeable. men and women are complete opposites. women have their maximum dating-market value at 18-20. men dont even come into their own before 30. post menopausal women shouldnt even be single. and i dont care about the 12.5 exceptions who became widows, im talking about the vast majority of divorcees and "career women", because if a woman at that age is single, she can blame nobody but herself and theres likely somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:39 AM
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you went from describing physical attributes, to talking about personality attributes. nobody here is arguing about personality - not even your original post. obviously people have different personalities. we are talking about physical features. and the reason i mentioned jacked, chiseled gi joe is because you mentioned "Chishiya". i looked him up and hes basically the opposite of a jacked, chiseled gi joe. i mean this Chishiya dude looks like a girl. which is why i mentioned how this may be a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:16 AM
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thats because biology is inescapable. men are judged based on the value they bring beyond aesthetics. it doesnt matter if its a "weak" man or a strong one. women will forever expect men to be "useful". any time you pass a road construction, count the number of women working there. exactly. 99% of the infrastructure is built by men, therefore, society - incl women - will expect men to do so and thus uphold "conservative" expectations. nobody will ever appreciate a man who isnt useful. no matter y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:27 PM
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i care about health as i want the future mother of my children to be healthy and produce healthy children. i associate the gym with body building/shaping and thats strictly aesthetics. personally, i love toned thighs, but thats not something i would select the mother of my children for. its good for sexual attraction, but general fitness/slimness is fine for me. "counting macros" and regular workouts arent a turn off, so long its about fitness/aesthetics. lifting weights is a turn off and a red …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:09 PM
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curveball: why do "supermodels" go for tall, broad, square jaw types? equally, there are men who are into fat women, but those men are typically not high on the totem pole. this may be a psychological thing, more so than anything else. but successful/desired men dont date fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:54 PM
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Also women describe masculine men as "nice" all the time. we must have different definitions of masculine men then. a man who is nice isnt dangerous. a man who isnt dangerous, cant protect. a man who cant protect , isnt masculine. this is why even serial killers get love letters in jail and why some women specifically like criminals. theyre just responding to their instincts but without using their brain. note: you still gotta be tall and good looking, theyre not attracted to a "dangerous" fat m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:45 PM
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a woman who is "uncomfortable" by your approach is a woman who isnt attracted to you. a woman who is attracted to you will accept the cheesiest lines and the dumbest approach. she will go out of her way to get you. she will chase you. either you deal with her "discomfort" - make sure you dont go to jail - or you elevate your dating-market value. the rest is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:37 PM
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dating for what? if you cant have children, youre basically dating for a long-term hookup. unless youre trying to find a woman who can be your "best friend"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:33 PM
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your family setting you up with a date isnt the classic "blind date". regarding actual blind dates: i think its a stupid idea. physical attraction is very important and blind dates is just playing lotto. its time-inefficient. the only other reason you might want a blind date is because you have something "to hide". ie, a man who is bald, a woman who is fat. regarding family setting you up: i think its a little bit outdated and probably wont work nowadays. involving the family is actually quite m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:26 PM
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dont care what you call it. if you want her to have sex with you without making sure you will stay together, you are not looking for a (stable) mother to your children, you are looking for sex. like i said, a feminine woman will want and need you to provide for her, because a feminine woman doesnt have a "career", she wants to be a mother. a woman like that wouldnt and shouldnt open her legs until you both commit to each other. every other woman is just for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:11 PM
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men and women are not meant to be friends. if you can be her friend, then so can other men. if other men can be her friends, then shes gonna want to have male friends even when she is in a relationship with you. all it takes is one fight and a little alcohol for her to "get close" with one of her male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:03 PM
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attraction framework isnt gonna shift anytime soon. instincts are hard-wired. "most attractive" is a man with masculine traits. your idea of a "brute" is just another point on the masculinity scale. people are different. some men are more "brutish" than others. equally, some women are into that, some are not. but no woman wants a feminine loser. dont be a feminine loser and find a woman who you are compatible with. thats all you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:58 PM
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didnt read past the first paragraph. NO WOMAN wants a nice guy. women instinctively want to be lead and dominated - the only question is how much. some women are less feminine than others and will need a very aggressive man to be aroused, others will respond to a guy who is less "aggressive" about his leadership and dominance. NO WOMAN will be aroused by a man who she leads and dominates. nice guy = prey.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:50 PM
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what youre describing is hookup culture. if youre looking for a mother to your children, you obviously want a feminine woman. a feminine woman will look for a masculine man - a man that protects and *provides*. it is your job to pay for her. obviously, youre not gonna meet many feminine women in the west and even fewer who are virgins and even if you did, marrying and living in the west is about as smart as shaving your balls with a lawn-mower. so yes, in hookup culture - where women are just th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:45 PM
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again, bb argues against marriage, so there is no 'gamy' to begin with - 'hyper' or otherwise. also, bb is closest to the concept of mgtow, not red pill.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/22 03:56 AM
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true to what you said, "never take one person's word as fact". bb doesnt push hypergamy at all. he actively argues against marriage. not sure what videos you were watching.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/22 12:21 AM
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guys, im wondering though, if most mgtows arent prone to make his mistake aswell.. i mean, he was a skinny derpy computer-guy before he became billionaire "jeff bezos", so in a way he went mgtow. drowned himself in work and hatred (exhibit a: every amazon warehouse) until he made it. but he never really filled that hole that made him go mgtow to begin with. and now that he has cash he thinks that he can buy what he was missing..
/r/MGTOW18/01/20 05:57 AM
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actually thats something my father used to say and he certainly was no philosopher: "if you want to be interesting you have to be interested". conversely: if you are bored its because you are boring. and i agree 100%. when youre interested in stuff you dont get bored. theres always something to think about.
/r/MGTOW18/01/20 05:21 AM
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