how do you organically transition from "friendly" to "sexual"?

Alucard1331 · 2024-09-23T22:20:53+00:00

Imo teasing is the best way to increase the sexual tension from friendly to something more. It’s also good because it’s easy to tell if she is taking the bait so to speak.

ratfooshi · 2024-09-24T00:44:14+00:00

I see what you're going for.

React shocked at something they said that can be interpreted as sexual
Use subtle gestures to convey a sensuous vibe over words
Use physical touches
Accidentally reveal something provocative meant to surprise them
Make an off hand comment here and there (after establishing comfort)
Sparingly show intense desire in your eyes

+ The most effective way to communicate ideas is through our non-verbals.

Especially erotic ones.

Not because sexuality has to be repressed, but because it's the most exciting form of seduction.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-09-23T22:34:00+00:00

Talking about sex and dating in general can do the trick. You can gauge changes in her body language and mannerisms when this subject matter is casually discussed to determine if she's having dirty thoughts about you. Typically if she tries to change the subject fast then she don't see you that way, but if she tries to extend on the subject u can most likely escalate, again; depending on the body language.

burncushlikewood · 2024-09-24T01:21:19+00:00

Kino is the answer in short, I'm a very charming person naturally, so I may give off friendly vibes but I don't waste time escalating. You need to make your sexual intentions clear using push pull and touch, search the DiCarlo escalation ladder, it just tells you where to touch, I can give you a quick recap, just start by touching areas that are the least sexual, grabbing her hand, hugs, brushing her arm, then to more erogenous zones like touching her face or hair, inner thigh. I don't want to brag but I think preselection plays an important role in her viewing you as a friend, if she finds out you have previous partners that you have made solid emotional connections with, this will flip a switch in her brain, women find emotional jealousy more intense than physical jealousy. It's quality not quantity, I often find women not viewing me as a friend because of my reputation in social circles for being a bit of a player, eliciting strong emotions from the women I interact with

Dramatic_Addition_68 · 2024-09-24T03:41:40+00:00

Tonight i 'transitioned' a friend. I asked her if she'd help me figure out if i was in the friend zone with someone (i helped her fix a car she hit by accident so she had asked what she owed me).. She laughed and said yes we're just friends. I laughed and said great then you'll help! 😱 I said u didnt think i was talking about u (really wasnt) and stumbled onto the logic that she just said we were just friends. She said well im taking it back. Lol. That led to some more than friends yayayada. Now i gotta figure out if the other girl is just a friend still. 🤣

Electronic_d0cter · 2024-09-24T02:27:41+00:00

Try to bring the subject there. Playfully misinterpreting things they say as sexual is my favorite way to do this. I try to get them to dive in to the subject first though

annaagata · 2024-09-24T09:01:44+00:00

Have had experiences guys doing this successfully. I could feel them relax and get slightly more serious, not fighting feelings of attraction within, not being embarrassed, joking, etc. Followed by deliberate touch - hands, face and neck. Like I am a small cat and they wanna pet me but want to calm me with it too, so not too frantic.

No-Preference8767 · 2024-09-24T01:32:01+00:00

Practice. I mean you just gotta be willing to be awkward and over do it. Being smooth is a matter of repetition

Dandys3107 · 2024-09-24T07:27:46+00:00

Showing off your sexually attractive traits, mentioning sexual topics, teasing/challenging a girl, introducing much more casual touch, getting into each other’s private/intimate topics.

newguy239389 · 2024-09-24T00:03:20+00:00

A tip: its not what you say but how you say it

BarryBold8 · 2024-09-24T16:37:03+00:00

One full send completely out of pocket line

MitchArku · 2024-09-24T12:09:01+00:00

Can someone provide an example on how to bring up a sexual topic out of the blue?

Let’s say for example that you are talking about something irrelevant like moving in to a new apartment, or that you are both thinking of joining something like photography classes or that your stupid fridge broke down.

How do you insert sexual topics in here? It just seems so weird and unnatural to me but I would be interested in hearing actual examples on how to do that. If you have a link that would be great as well

masterduelistky · 2024-09-24T17:25:09+00:00

I struggle greatly with this. It just has never felt natural to me so when I feel like things are heading in that direction I get scared shitless.

Chandansimms17and18 · 2024-09-24T15:44:49+00:00

Teasing and you need sexual tension. That being said if there’s no physical attraction from the other side then I wouldn’t push for anything sexual

woodflies · 2024-09-24T18:15:21+00:00

Flirt, flirt, flirt

mister_k1 · 2024-09-26T13:23:18+00:00

without shocking her and potentially scaring her away?

she isn't chocked or afraid when a man show sexual interest in her, that's one of the biggest misconception some men have, if she's attractive she's been approached several dozen of times, she's a black belt in handling approaches you are the white belt approaching!

Title	how do you organically transition from "friendly" to "sexual"?
Author	neugalant
Upvotes	62
Comments	32
Date	September 23, 2024 10:06 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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