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neuromancerBG/r/askTRP26/09/20 02:25 PM
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Well, your hamster is spinning. So what is the underlying fear? Fear that she is sleeping with someone else, got pregnant from him and wants to cover up OR just simple fear of commitment to this woman? As far as I understand you're both "pretending" to be having a healthy family.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/23 10:53 AM
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Hope this helps. Would love to hear what happened after you started doing this.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 12:23 PM
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Oh, yeah! And again for the foreplay part: you could send him random messages during the day that you want him. Even better - send him almost nude photos or photos of you in a pose that screams "come take me now!" (We men are visual creatures).
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/22 03:33 PM
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Oh, and when you're trying to "dirty talk" - make sure you demonstrate the fact that you appreciate HIM and nobody else in the world can have that! That feeds into our primal "we get the ultimate value recognition" instinct of being accepted as a sex partner (i.e. right of procreation). Have you noticed how on porn movies the actresses constantly say "I want your c**!" or "C** in me"? This is the reason. Other examples would be: "I live for your pleasure", "You can do anything to me", "I am your…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/22 03:27 PM
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Disclosure: I am a man. 1st - There is such a thing as foreplay with men. But its not the way you may think. We're hunters and we like to hunt. Foreplay for us comes in the time before sex. That means: Dress sexy and provocatively at home. Walk around with semitransparent night gown, bondage harness, sexy lingerie, etc. If he is with you he likes your body - so show it to him (with a slight veil of course, so there is that slight "just before you get it" titillation). This will get him excited -…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/22 03:18 PM
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If he is sleeping with her, he cares. He just doesn't care enough. Its a casual relationship, but it still is a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 04:19 AM
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The real isse is he has overstepped her boundaries. If it was just about trying to end it - just don't pick up the phone and don't post on the internet for venting and support.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 04:14 AM
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Aloofness doesn't work with men. Direct approach does. It's not feminine, but in these circumstances it will do more good. If she uses the first approach she will appear riding the CC, not being loyal, etc. which will confirm his belief that she is not worth anything more than a plate... Ask me how I know.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/22 08:59 PM
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And why exactly have you come to the conclusion its unsalvageable? Have you asked him if it salvageable? Have you identified other opportunities and need to feel justified of pursuing them? Do you feel treated with less value than you percieve yourself to be and you need to make up for it by walking away? Are you afraid of asking for your needs and being denied? Or you're afraid of asking for your needs and actually getting what you wanted? At the end of the day, the reall issue is: you have exp…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/22 05:44 PM
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I fail to see how this reduces drama. This is actually narcisistic and creates drama by obfuscating the real question. If she is to preserve dignity and reduce drama (for both of their sakes) she needs to state her boundaries and inform him he has broken them. In other words: "This has been fun, but I need a stable and serious relationship. I've come to the conclusion I am unable to have such with you, so I'll be pursuing other relationships." Anything less or more than that will be begging for …
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/22 05:35 PM
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Depends on whether you can move on...
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 03:59 PM
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I can pull women in any age still. But yes, I don't see anyone that I genuinely like AND I also start noticing that my age is starting to show and pulling top tier women is getting a bit harder. They don't throw themselves as much at me as "last year". Could be, just my attitude towards life. But last year, women were estimating my age at around 30. This year they do more around 35. Could be because I start having grey hair in my beard OR just me not sleeping as much lately. But yeah, I feel sig…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 12:58 PM
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Thank you. This was very useful. Your post and articles kinda made me realize: - That I need to start over. - That it takes work. At least as much work as "the last time" and probably it will even take more work now. Sucks, but if I want results. I have to suck it up. - Torschlusspanik!
/r/askTRP04/10/20 12:55 PM
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Seeing your wife naked never gets too old. We dont get aroused only when the wife is letting herself go. However seeing her naked makes us definately happy and more appreciative.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 06:41 PM
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Sounds like she hit the wall and you have grown. Act with mild interest. Treat this as an option for yourself, but remeber she rejected you once (she could and would do it again at the slightest incling). If you feel like it: smash. But remeber that you will never have a solid LTR with her. She will always see you as someone she felt superior to and settling down with you (i.e. LTR) she would see as going back in life.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 07:09 AM
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Symptoms described may be due to not enough sleep, fatigue, pre-anemic condition or something else. Go talk to a doctor and/or nutritionist and stop asking the internet. Also, lift!
/r/askTRP31/01/20 03:56 PM
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I'll try to elaborate. Cialis is like Viagra, but with less side effects (you only get hard if stimulated) and it lasts far longer (about 48 hours vs 6 hours). In regards to hot chicks I mean hot chicks for you. You actually like them. You cannot negotiate desire and the same goes for you as well. You can't force yourself to be aroused when you're with a chick. You have to actually like her and your hind brain needs to want to fuck her for you to get it hard... Oh... And don't watch porn. Like n…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 01:02 PM
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Consult a doctor. Try Cialis. Bang hot chicks. No fatties.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 12:52 PM
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Dude. Too much baggage and issues. TRP is not enough. You need professional help. Go seek a therapist. Preferrably male.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:13 AM
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Very fucked up. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Do whatever you want, but don't expect good results out of this. BTW you have traits of oneitis slipping through. Try to think about that... Deciding on a woman to settle down with should take quite a while (at least two years according to some) of dating and possible living together so you can vet properly.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 07:09 PM
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The internet won't help you. A lawyer will. Just lawyer up.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:15 PM
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Then its a buffer...
/r/askTRP25/10/19 07:09 PM
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Wanna become a world class professional League player?!
/r/askTRP25/10/19 06:54 PM
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Jack of all trades, master of none. Just pick one, maximum two things to concentrate on for lets say 6 months. Then you can switch to one of your other hobbies or stick to the one you've chosen. But whatever you do, you cannot grow in multiple areas at the same time. You can only grow in one or two areas at the time. I've never seen, nor heard of people that grow in multiple areas at the same time. Its just not possible.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 05:54 PM
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Simple. Find a mission. Something you like to do and become skillfully awesome in it. It could be anything: lifting weights, playing a guitar, playing league of legends or doing calculus. Whatever it is, it doesn't matter. But choose for you to be epic at it and find people who are also passionate about it. Those people will be your friends. Good luck!
/r/askTRP25/10/19 02:55 PM
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Actually, its really easy. Watch her actions, ignore her words.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 07:03 AM
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You want a woman that holds out from other men, but not from you. If she holds out from you - she doesn't like you. If she gives to anyone - she is unable to pairbond and will swing constantly.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 03:19 AM
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I would advise that you don't even use them for social proof.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:04 AM
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Richard Cooper 's Entepreneurs in Cars?!
/r/askTRP29/09/19 12:48 PM
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Lol. You're overthinking it. Realize that different girls will generate different physical reactions with you. All I hear is that usually you have sex with women which you're not that attracted to (delayed ejaculation). And now, you've actually found a girl that makes you horny as fuck and makes you cum in 4 min. ;)
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:08 PM
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My personal opinion is that the situation is irreversable. You've put yourself in a hole that you don't even realize. I sincerely hope I'm wrong here and I just assume too much. I suppose you're young, probably in your early to mid 20s? You need more experience. You have the following options: A) You end the relationship. You gather more experience (spin more plates) and you come back to this girl after a year or more. B) You keep acting like that and she dumps you for being too beta or too untr…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 06:54 PM
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No it doesn't. RP is not against commitment, nor against connection. RP is all about how to go about it. Like I said. You just don't understand it yet. You need more practice.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 06:20 PM
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You have no idea how beta you've acted. Go read Alpha Male 2.0. Sorry to tell you this, but its very likely you won't be able to recover the relationship. Problem is you've lied. You've lied because you've commmited and you've not held your promise. After such break of trust you can't open the relationship so you can fuck other girls. So your other option is being even more commited and more beta. And we know where that leads... IMHO you need more time and practice with the Red Pill. Maybe you h…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 06:02 PM
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If you're happy with what you have currently and are able to tolerate the caveats you have, then stop spinning hamsters yourself. Just enjoy the ride. Remember that all things end at some point, so enjoy it while it lasts and continue pursuing your life goals!
/r/askTRP31/07/19 01:04 PM
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Well. At some point you have to have a cost benefit analysis. If you're not satisfied and anything you do doesn't seem to help... Well. As a man you have to make the decision. Are you ok with your relationship currently?!
/r/askTRP31/07/19 12:52 PM
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Okey. Lets assume that you've fully digested the pill (it takes about a year in my humble opinion). You have to keep in mind that women get bored faster in relationships. Why don't you start some drama? Like I don't know... Criticize her for something or whatever. That may get the hamsters spinning...
/r/askTRP31/07/19 12:44 PM
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What age bracket are you aiming for? For younger girls looks are important, not just wealth... Are you lifting, are you well groomed? Behaviour wise you may be acting too much asshole, and you may be hitting on different girls at the same party/in front of each other. This may be interpreted as needy.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:56 AM
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Your spidey sense is tingling, because its true. However, who cares?! You're still too young for anything. Just enjoy the ride and spin more plates!
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:42 PM
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No, you're trying to fuck that older girl and you're rationalizing. Its oneitis creeping in.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:39 PM
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You're worrying too much. This shows up in all your interactions. Try to accept the worst case scenario. What will happen. You'll get divorced and you'll lose your green card (not guaranteed). In any case you're too young to care. At 22 you have waaay too much time to fix any damage that may result from both of these events. Become more sexy for your wife. Lift heavy shit, upgrade your beard/hairstyle. Upgrade your wardrobe. Do not give her a green pass. But start looking for plates to spin. Rea…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 12:41 PM
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I would ask, why do you feel sad about it? What makes it so sad?
/r/askTRP15/07/19 08:51 PM
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No. You're assuming too much. She is just crazy.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 09:03 AM
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"You can star in the sequel!" PS You're overthinking it. Just go with the flow and be playful and crazy. It doesn't really matter what you say, but how you say it. And whenever you're not sure what to say, just go into absurdity. PPS Also, this is not a game where you are not allowed wrong moves. Allow yourself to make mistakes from time to time. A few mistakes here and there will not lose the girl.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 06:13 AM
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Also try reading No more Mr Nice Guy. Maybe it will help you also recognize some of your behavior...
/r/askTRP22/06/19 04:37 PM
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If reading all The Rational Male books doesn't help you, then go find a therapist (preferrably male) and try to work with him. Such need for validation from girls may have some deeper root cause you're not aware of.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 04:31 PM
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It sounds like it was the last straw in a pile of other things that made you want to do that. If that is the case, then break up now, as this seems a bit too shallow. If not. Strive for excellence, not women. If she stays, she stays. If she goes, she goes. She is not yours. You just do your own thing and enjoy her company while it lasts.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 10:34 AM
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Aloof and douchey (as in teasing)! For two reasons: first it sparks interest in women, and second its for your own dignity and self-esteem. I don't want to serve appreciation to someone who rejects you.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 08:01 AM
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Ok then. Do not give her any attention. Do not validate her. Do not appreciate her presence. Treat her like she has absolutely no value to you. Don't lean in even for a second. Hook up with other girls. And maybe, you might spark her attention. But chances are that you wont be able to do that in any way.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:59 AM
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Why the fuck did you decide to go on that trip with her in the first place?!
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:53 AM
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When he married his first wife he was 26 and she was 31. She was married previously when she was 21 and got divorced when she was 22. She was a post wall Alpha Widow. For his second marriage he was 34 and she was 19. They stayed together 6 years. He was out-Alphaed by Dick Haymes. Third marriage he was 41 and she was 24. She stayed with him until his death. She did not marry any more. ​ If what you say for his biography is true. The quote " I learned, when the cards were down, who were my friend…
/r/askTRP31/05/19 03:34 PM
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Iron rule of Tomassi :) Regardless of that, if you get back together there will always be this "BUT she left me for another guy". Consider this, did she leave the other guy or he left her and she wants to go back to her secure place?! If she comes back, how long will it be for her to drop you again?! Make your own choice, but understand the risks. Best course of action is to plate her. But don't leave yourself with the illusion that you can LTR her.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 07:07 AM
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Have you tried telling her that straight to her face?!
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:22 AM
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Ooooh man. I'm sorry, but I just read your inexperience and I see that you lack a lot of knowledge on how businesses are built. How about this: why don't you start by trying to understand what a Lean Startup is?! Try reading Tim Ferris's 4 hour work week for instance and/or Four Steps to Epiphany. Then take it from there...
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:51 AM
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The only trick for high reward low risk enterprises is that they require effort. IMHO if you've got money to spare and are looking for investment opportunities, start side businesses. Come up with stupid ideas for simple products and try to get them to market. Best would be to try things totally unrelated to your main business.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 07:24 AM
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I understood you completely. But you're missing the point. How about doing something high income low risk instead, eh?
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:58 PM
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Uuuugghh. This is the red pill forum, where people work consistently for the long term to better themselves and their situation. How exactly does that fit with you asking for a magical pill that would give you high financial reward once in a full moon on a leap year when the tide is high?!
/r/askTRP09/05/19 10:56 AM
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I am 36. Yes I can pull girls I have never imagined I can pull in my 20s.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 12:47 PM
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The brands don't matter. The fabric and especially the fit matters. Also having small trinkets or flairs matter.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:04 PM
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Read the link I sent you. It summarizes it quite elouquantly. But to give you the simple answer: It means putting yourself first. But this is not egoism, as you put yourself first because of others. Its like when you're in an airplane and the plane is falling and the oxygen masks fall off. You put the oxygen mask on you first and then you put it on the child next to you. Because if you don't put the oxygen mask on you first, you will lose conciousness and even though the child will not die from …
/r/askTRP18/04/19 06:34 AM
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Check the other replies on my comment. You have the recipe and explanation there. There's a list of books that will help you with that. If that is not enough, read this https://therationalmale.com/2014/11/14/mental-point-of-origin/ If that's not enough... Well, I can't help you. Maybe therapy perhaps?!
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:42 PM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:42 PM
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Read these books in the following order: No more Mr. Nice Guy When I say No I feel guilty Games People Play by Eric Birne They will help you understand how to shift your reasoning processes into your own mental point of origin. It will take you a couple of months. Combined with therapy and Red Pill: you'll be one strong willed motherfucker!
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:07 AM
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Love yourself. The motherly love you crave is something that only you can give yourself. RP principles of "Being your own mental point of origin" and self care take care of that. Love is expressed by care, respect, nurture and touch. Care and respect is handled by looking after yourself first. Nurture is handled by constantly upgrading your skills and making sure you eat good diet, sleep well and go to the gym regularly. Touch you can handle by grooming yourself, going to a massage or having sex…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:51 AM
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Lol. Do you honestly believe that pair bonding is against RP? Or are you just shit testing us? TRP is a recipe for creating strong intersexual relationships. Its up to one to decide how he would want to use that, whether they want to build a harem, build a family, have a non live in LTR or have an LTR with chicks on the side. The main idea is to make the decision conciously, to understand where you are in your life and what do you want to achieve and how it will impact you. And not to be fooled …
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:19 AM
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Best answer: No, thanks
/r/seduction29/03/19 05:44 PM
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Hmmm. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:11 PM
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Ok. Fair point. And I agree. Maybe, I've misread the situation and assumed that she is the only female at the table. How would you handle this in that situation?
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:26 PM
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Read my other comment. If she prefers to interact with someone else and not with you what does that tell you? You're not her first choice. I personally don't want to deal with anyone in an intimate manner if I'm not their first choice. From my experience, if I'm not the first choice I get used and abused. No thanks, I'd prefer to spare myself the drama.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:07 PM
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Explain to me where is the insecurity. I've done this several times. Each and every time the result has been increased respect from the girl incl. helping her "get her" and the guy has always been ok with it. The real trick is how you do it. Do it dominantly, non agressively and with a smile and it works like a charm.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:03 PM
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If (and especially if) these are your friends you should put your foot down and explicitely and outright say: that is my girl! Even if she is not your girl yet. If your friends continue hitting on her leave with her. If she doesn't comply leave her.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 10:05 AM
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So what is the problem with the boner?! Nobody will notice...
/r/askTRP25/03/19 06:28 PM
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Well, its normal that you want to have a more consistent relationship. But have you considered that maybe you're pulling the wrong kind of girls? They are either too young (early twenties) and want to sample as many cock as they can OR you haven't learned how to vet the girls properly. Why dont you check out the Tactical Guide to Women by Dr. Shawn Smith... Maybe that will help you vet for better girls in the future.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:37 PM
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Which is worse? Suffocation or drowning?
/r/askTRP18/03/19 08:44 AM
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When she came over you should have fucked her. If she wasn't into it you should have walked away. Also, never yell. Never explain yourself. Never complain.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 08:07 AM
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As long as tou don't use our terminology and talk about it in examples rather than explaining principles, you should be demonstrating even higher value. It will show her that you have deep understanding of people and that she has something to learn from you. This will improve her admiration and therefore attraction for you. However, word of warning again: do not use TRP terminology eg. Chad, Alpha, Hypergamy, solipsism etc. Do not give detailed explanation of principles, but try to explain with …
/r/askTRP27/02/19 07:19 AM
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Walk to her in class. No need for messaging.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 06:24 AM
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How is that a problem? Go tell your girlfriend. Take responsibility for your actions. If you want to keep your girlfriend telling her will allow you to have the option to keep her. Otherwise its going to go out sooner or later. True Alpha means your world, your rules and your responsibility. Take the damage and recover afterwards instead of always cowering in your hole...
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:58 AM
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